Why You're Telling Little Lies and How to Stop

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  • Опубликовано: 4 июл 2023
  • You probably don't outright lie on a regular basis. But, do you exaggerate? Do you give half truths sometimes, or leave things unclear on purpose? Do you hide some facts in order to smooth things over?
    Today, Fr. Mike shows us the very-human reasons we all struggle with these "white lies", and how to tell the "full" truth more often.
    "Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil." -Jesus in Matthew 5:37
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  • @sungcho2217
    @sungcho2217 11 месяцев назад +310

    Father Mike Schmitz, It must be very hard to openly admit these flaws to preach this video, but I want to let everyone know that this transparency is very brave and should be encouraged for the good things it does and the lessons that you teach be clear to live by. You really know what to say to get us thinking and reflecting, and this is yet another great example!

    • @sungcho2217
      @sungcho2217 11 месяцев назад +4

      @Sniper08 Thanks. I hate typos especially from myself, haha

    • @juliekaszubowski7523
      @juliekaszubowski7523 11 месяцев назад +3

      So true!

    • @catholiclife9304
      @catholiclife9304 11 месяцев назад +2

      I think it's very brave

    • @chrisnorcutt9060
      @chrisnorcutt9060 10 месяцев назад

      This Also means No Man Puts Any Name Before Jesus Christ No Name This Means Moses, , Paul. , Mary 👍🙏

    • @Godisnotjesus1967
      @Godisnotjesus1967 19 дней назад

      ​@@sungcho2217Just read Revelation 11:19.......! The Ark is invisible, significant and Everlasting just like the Son of God stands in Heaven right now. If you don't believe that the invisible Covenant Ark is in the Temple in heaven right now......then you don't believe in Yahushua the Messiah either●(period)

  • @katherinehickey6915
    @katherinehickey6915 11 месяцев назад +137

    Thanks for this video. I'm trying to be a better Catholic and this sermon has given me tools to work with.

    • @patpilens7692
      @patpilens7692 11 месяцев назад +9

      I too am working to bump up my faith and found this and the comments very thoughtful for my growth!

    • @katherinehickey6915
      @katherinehickey6915 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@Call_Upon_YAH we pray to Jesus through his mother. This is evidenced in how we pray. We ask our Lord for Mercy and ask the Blessed Virgin Mary to pray for us. All our prayers and litanies are written in this way. The commandments tell us to honour our parents. Jesus made Mary our Mother as one of his final acts on the Holy Cross. It is right therefor that we show her respect and honour but Catholics do not worship her. God bless you and thank you for sharing Scripture extracts. I hope my simple explanation above helps you understand the way we Catholics give honour and adore the Lord Our God.

    • @gvh4168
      @gvh4168 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@katherinehickey6915Amen! You said what & why we Catholics seek the Virgin Mother Mary; to intercede for us. We do not ignore our faith or love for God, we want more of God! ❤

    • @Godisnotjesus1967
      @Godisnotjesus1967 19 дней назад

      ​@@patpilens7692jesuschrist is the fake god of the white man's religion ....Christianity. May EL ELYON, GOD MOST HIGH destroy this satanic sect of the catholic organisation. Yahushua haMassiach is THE SON OF GOD!

  • @ELROD.1_0_1
    @ELROD.1_0_1 11 месяцев назад +60

    It was not a weird video at all Father, it just striked me in my head. Because today I chosed to lie just to escape from my responsibility. I thank holyspirit for this😇😇

    • @AlexanderBrown77
      @AlexanderBrown77 11 месяцев назад

      ✝️ The gospel of your salvation 🩸
      Ephesians 1 kJV
      13 In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
      1 Corinthians 15 kJV
      1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
      4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
      ✝️🩸
      Romans 3 KJV
      23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:
      25 Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;
      ♥️know♥️
      1 John 5 kJV
      13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.

    • @lrose7833
      @lrose7833 4 месяца назад

      ​@@AlexanderBrown77 the KJV is not Catholic. It's missing texts. Try the RSV.

    • @AlexanderBrown77
      @AlexanderBrown77 4 месяца назад

      @@lrose7833 ♥️ KJV is 7th Bible translated into English.
      Psalms 12 kJV
      6 The words of the LORD are pure words: as silver tried in a furnace of earth, purified seven times.
      7 Thou shalt keep them, O LORD, thou shalt preserve them from this generation for ever.
      👑Only bible authorized by a king 👑
      Ecclesiastes 8 kJV 👑
      4 Where the word of a king is, there is power: and who may say unto him, What doest thou?

  • @robinson5923
    @robinson5923 11 месяцев назад +78

    This is something I struggle with and what a timing! Thanks father!!

    • @baseballmomof8
      @baseballmomof8 11 месяцев назад +7

      Me too!

    • @fernthaisetthawatkul5569
      @fernthaisetthawatkul5569 11 месяцев назад +2

      the Lord always knows exactly what we need!🙏

    • @iamfilipinas
      @iamfilipinas 11 месяцев назад +1

      Currently in this struggle as well.

    • @Godisnotjesus1967
      @Godisnotjesus1967 19 дней назад

      ​@@fernthaisetthawatkul5569jesuschrist is the fake god of the white man's religion ....Christianity. May EL ELYON, GOD MOST HIGH destroy this satanic sect of the catholic organisation. Yahushua haMassiach is THE SON OF GOD!

  • @spaceforgrace3312
    @spaceforgrace3312 11 месяцев назад +5

    I think sometimes we tell these little lies out of a sense of insecurity. We are not enough as we are so we have to create an alternative sense of ourselves. I think the biggest lie is that we are not deserving of God's love as we are- all lies stem from this.

  • @timopper5488
    @timopper5488 11 месяцев назад +6

    It’s usually **easier** to beg forgiveness than to ask permission, but it’s usually not **better**.

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 11 месяцев назад +11

    There's one situation in which it may not be so culpable to lie, and that is when it's a safety or survival issue. If you're in an abusive situation and the truth could get you injured or worse.....and I can tell you many people are in such situations.

  • @lovefromholymeadow
    @lovefromholymeadow 11 месяцев назад +59

    I have a journal where I work out my confession. I started giving a page to each sin I commit and then write what reason I felt I had for committing the sin. Helps me figure out what I seem to think I'm getting out of them.

  • @donnapatelmo316
    @donnapatelmo316 11 месяцев назад +23

    Sometimes i lie to not hurt someone.. or to not stress someone 🙏🏼🙏🏼 and i know it’s wrong

    • @clairestevens3194
      @clairestevens3194 11 месяцев назад +1

      Would it be better to hurt or stress them?

    • @granmabern5283
      @granmabern5283 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@clairestevens3194changing the subject is the answer. No lies involved.😮

    • @nightyew2160
      @nightyew2160 11 месяцев назад +6

      When you are tempted to lie to protect a third party's reputation, you can honestly say that you're trying to gossip less and ask to change the subject. You could alternatively suggest the person you're speaking with get the news directly from the third party in question.

    • @donnapatelmo316
      @donnapatelmo316 11 месяцев назад +3

      @OfficialProJustice it’s sometimes easier said than done esp dealing with a person who easily offended and you want to protect feelings i just try and say nothing it’s complicated but i keep praying 🙏🏼

    • @TrixRN
      @TrixRN 11 месяцев назад

      ⁠@OfficialProJusticeI can tell you’re very young. It is not loving to hurt people by giving a blunt truth, rather than couching it in loving language or avoiding certain topics. In addition, one’s opinion is rarely the truth. Facts are truth.

  • @dakotadupee2176
    @dakotadupee2176 11 месяцев назад +10

    This was something the Holy Spirit convicted me of recently!

  • @martyvestal1222
    @martyvestal1222 11 месяцев назад +22

    Two Ironman Triathlons - absolutely awesome!!! It IS a really big deal and an accomplishment to be proud of!! You rock, Father Mike!!!
    And if I miss one day not listening to one of your messages, I feel a strong sense that something is missing. ❤️🙏✝️

    • @stageluvr91
      @stageluvr91 11 месяцев назад +2

      I have never done any because I was never athletic or competitive. People who do those always amaze me.

    • @martyvestal1222
      @martyvestal1222 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@stageluvr91 And he said it was a family thing. They sound like a very athletic and interesting family!

  • @amandacaron8828
    @amandacaron8828 11 месяцев назад +35

    I love you Father Mike simply because. You speak in high volume… it’s so true. All those little white lies nips at our soul in time. I don’t know what hurts more the lies or the truth.. healing hurts, vulnerability hurts but being without God hurts way more .

  • @jennybarrier
    @jennybarrier 9 месяцев назад +6

    This is such a timely video for me! I've caught myself telling "white lies" some recently without even thinking until my mouth is opened and speaking and it is so frustrating. Thank you for your honesty. Just so no one feels alone... I lie to my Dad about how many cats I have. I'm embarrassed to admit I have 3 inside and 2 outside. He thinks I can't afford to feed them all (or its a waste of money) but they came as stray kittens and I've gotten 3 of them spayed and it barely costs anything to feed them. But i just dont want to hear about it. They bring me joy. And it feels really good to admit that even if it's in RUclips Comments. 😂 Thank you Father Mike. Your candor helps others. ❤
    And I pray to just let my "yes be yes and my no be no".

  • @clairestevens3194
    @clairestevens3194 11 месяцев назад +30

    It is sometimes difficult to be honest with people without being rude. “I gotta go” is kinder than adding “because I don’t want to continue this conversation” or “because you are depressing me” or “because I want to read a book now”. The other person doesn’t necessarily have a right to know the details of your life.

    • @granmabern5283
      @granmabern5283 11 месяцев назад +6

      Changing the subject is totally legit, though.

    • @clairestevens3194
      @clairestevens3194 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@granmabern5283 Changing the subject just continues the conversation instead of ending it. I guess you could just say “I have plans”.

    • @topdogriley
      @topdogriley 11 месяцев назад +9

      Yes, but it is perfectly fine to say something like, “Well, I’m going to take off now. It was great chatting with you.” (Unless, of course you don’t mean it. Lol).

    • @lesleyannekirkman6840
      @lesleyannekirkman6840 5 месяцев назад +1

      A kinder way too is..."I'm going to let ye go now"...sometimes there are those who just need to talk as they are lonely..so after friendly banter..."ahh..I'm going to let ye go now"...(polite way)
      Thank you Fr Michael for clearing up questions I always had but to embarrassed to say out loud...even in the confessional..as I thought..well God knows my mind!! 😳

    • @feliciagallo9832
      @feliciagallo9832 4 месяца назад

      ...or because "I want to be by myself."

  • @annatmarshall5133
    @annatmarshall5133 11 месяцев назад +5

    Well Fr Mike, youve done 2 more triathlons than me. Always wanted to do a triathlon, but deep, open water scares me.

  • @colinbarber7848
    @colinbarber7848 11 месяцев назад +56

    I can’t tell you how inspirational your message is to me. I feel so happy to hear you share openly about something that we all engage in but don’t want to confront. Just like you, I am working on this one. Thank you so much!

    • @AlexanderBrown77
      @AlexanderBrown77 11 месяцев назад

      ♥️know♥️
      1 John 5 kJV
      13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      Ephesians 1 kJV
      13 In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
      ✝️🩸
      1 Corinthians 15 kJV
      1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
      4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
      Romans 3 kJV
      23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:
      25 Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;

  • @mariastathopoulos744
    @mariastathopoulos744 11 месяцев назад +4

    I've reinforced a stack of untruths to my son: Santa Claus, Easter bunny, tooth fairy etc. I had to tell him the truth about Santa when my son was 12. He was so upset.
    Luckily he had worked out the Easter bunny and tooth fairy on his own by the age of 8.
    I know that my 'little white lies' tend to be: protect someone's feelings - "Do you like my outfit? etc" or to protect myself, in the sense of not wanting to be an 'open book' with people who aren't in my inner circle.

  • @robinlee9272
    @robinlee9272 11 месяцев назад +8

    Hi, my name is Robin Lee and this is Your viewer. 😂. God bless you fr mike.

    • @robinlee9272
      @robinlee9272 11 месяцев назад +2

      I heard what you said at the end. “Was that a weird video? I think that was a weird video.”
      Hahahaha
      And I say NO it was not weird. I can’t speak for anyone else but I’ve told many little untruths just to make myself look better when it probably doesn’t matter to the person I’m talking to. As you reminded us, Jesus said, “let your yes be your yes and your no be your no anything other is from the evil one.”
      Next time you say how many triathlons you have done, tell them 2 and a 1/3. Anyone would ask about the 1/3. Or simply tell them 2 and trained for 3rd but was injured. You deserve credit for that (almost 3rd).
      Thank you Fr. Mike, you have given me a lot to think about. Being as honest as we can possibly be is a freeing feeling.
      Besides, it means more that people like me for exactly who I am. I hope this is a feeling for many others as well. Amen.

  • @lety2467
    @lety2467 11 месяцев назад +19

    Awesome video, really helpful! These "white lies" almost always become gateway sins to even bigger sins too. Better to shoot high in telling the whole truth and nothing but truth and end up doing an average job of it, than to be less than clear and factual and fall low into the territory of lies and false witness. Lots of people have this struggle and those that don't are blessed. Also it must be summer in the north at last - you have a tan!

  • @francescruz6276
    @francescruz6276 20 дней назад

    Father Mike that totally make sense Father Mike the Holy Spirit uses you in big loving amazing ways 🙏 you are such a blessing thank you for saying yes to your calling maybe if is God's willing you could teach new young priests. God bless you 😇

  • @ahapka
    @ahapka 11 месяцев назад +2

    One goo thing to remember is that silence can also be a good way to avoid white lies in some situations. Not everything needs to be talked about with everyone. Especially when it's something that could lead to the sin of gossip if it's talked about too much.

  • @yensilluap
    @yensilluap 11 месяцев назад +8

    Thanks for this, Fr. Mike - I’ve confessed little white lies before - the kind that you are talking about - the ones that slip out without you giving any forethought. it is very embarrassing and humbling to realise how small I am at 63 years old ! Your talk provided clarity though - pointing to the reasons why we might do these things. No wonder a lot of the saints didn’t speak unnecessarily!

    • @IONov990
      @IONov990 11 месяцев назад

      My life would be easier if I shut my mouth

  • @eduardohoover2127
    @eduardohoover2127 11 месяцев назад +5

    There's a time to be truthful and a time out of love to lie. My mom has Alzheimers and her only grandson was shot down by the police. I would never lay the truth on her because the anxiety of her frail mind; because I love her. She may repeat, "How's Eddie?" ten times and I'll answer, "Yes, Mom he's fine," and maybe say, "I haven't heard from him in a while but I'm sure he's fine--no news is good news--they say." I'll bring it up in confession and I think the priest just blows it off like killing mosquitoes, flies and ants.

    • @christinebutler7630
      @christinebutler7630 11 месяцев назад +4

      Elder care worker here. You just don't tell hard truths to someone with dementia, because they do not have the cognitive ability to process it. If you tell them a loved one has died, and they forget what you said, and you tell them again.....they have no way to process grief and its just as terrible and raw and traumatic every single time you tell it. It's cruel to put them through that pain.

    • @nightyew2160
      @nightyew2160 11 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@christinebutler7630Amen. That's exactly right.
      Also, if he's in heaven, or even purgatory, he IS alright. Maybe you could tell her, "Yeah, I wish he were here right now, too. Let's say a quick prayer for him together."

  • @user-kg1zv5xb1m
    @user-kg1zv5xb1m 11 месяцев назад +32

    Father.. thank you for this video. I loved it. Your honesty and clarity truly helped me a lot. You have such amazing common sense..and humility.
    Please never stop making these wonderful videos 🙏🏻✝️🌹

    • @AlexanderBrown77
      @AlexanderBrown77 11 месяцев назад

      ✝️🩸
      Romans 3 kJV
      23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:
      25 Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;
      ✝️ Gospel 🩸
      1 Corinthians 15 kJV
      1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
      2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
      3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
      4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
      ♥️know♥️
      1 John 5 kJV
      13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
      Ephesians 1 kJV
      13 In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,

  • @MM22272
    @MM22272 6 месяцев назад +1

    Let your yes be yes and let you no be no. Thanks, Fr. Mike!!!

  • @AmyD
    @AmyD 6 месяцев назад +1

    My OCD has now been kicked into overdrive since watching this. I’m constantly on the lookout for being hyperbolic & oversharing details so I’m sure to be transparent.🙄🤦🏼‍♀️😆

  • @Helpful_Corn
    @Helpful_Corn 11 месяцев назад +5

    Sunburn, Fr. Mike?

  • @guyfromaucklandnz
    @guyfromaucklandnz 11 месяцев назад +6

    I have some things in my past that I don't want to be open about, but also don't want to lie about. I've reached the conclusion that the only right thing is to avoid any outright lying, while carefully picking my words to convey the truth where it matters, and doing my best to avoid deception while remembering that ambiguity is OK as long as you can honestly justify withholding the bare and total truth.

    • @nightyew2160
      @nightyew2160 11 месяцев назад +6

      You could also say it's none of their business, or probably more politely say you don't want to talk about it.

  • @marypartida6032
    @marypartida6032 11 месяцев назад +5

    Jesus See's everything so i have no reason to not be honest, The truth will set you free(sometimes or in trouble) God Bless you Fr:Mike🙏

  • @Bigchilezlife
    @Bigchilezlife 11 месяцев назад +6

    1st. Unfortunately I tell
    sometimes lies and it hurts me 💔 but the truth is better. But when it comes to people I really care about and I tell them the truth, why do they say things that hurt. I do care about them 100%! And I have someone in my heart that I can’t unlove. It’s hard for me😔

    • @timopper5488
      @timopper5488 11 месяцев назад +4

      So they say hurtful things in response to you telling them truthful things? Some truths don’t need to be known by others. Ask yourself this: are the truthful things you tell them **likely** to cause their negative response, and is it necessary to tell them?

    • @granmabern5283
      @granmabern5283 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@timopper5488really wise answer, THANKY0U. Silence is golden....😅

    • @MorreHope
      @MorreHope 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@timopper5488 ITS WORSE WHEN THE TRUTH FINALLY COMES OUT. If you read my post; something in my life expounded; I am always in situations; because you are damned if you do; and damned if you don't.

  • @minaparish5687
    @minaparish5687 11 месяцев назад +20

    Thank you for bringing this topic up. I've been "chewing" on this for a while, & you put it into perspective 😊

    • @paulg4672
      @paulg4672 11 месяцев назад +3

      Totally agree with you have felt the same

  • @dianefrank3688
    @dianefrank3688 11 месяцев назад +12

    Thanks Fr. Mike for this message. I appreciate these little hints as they have hit on some of my own what I call white lies.🙏

  • @mvsorola
    @mvsorola 11 месяцев назад

    That citation about Jesus.. Let your “Yes” be Yes, Your “No” be No… everything else is from the Evil One.. Geez! Brilliance! 🙏🏻

  • @sttefaniesteche108
    @sttefaniesteche108 11 месяцев назад +15

    makes all the sense father!! i really have a problem with the little lies, thank you for give us these three questions for ourselves

  • @PhantomRed13
    @PhantomRed13 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you Father

  • @becomingchristian
    @becomingchristian 11 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you so much! I was just telling my daughter this exact stuff tonight and then your video was miraculously posted at exactly the same time. That was God!

  • @mathtutoring7509
    @mathtutoring7509 11 месяцев назад +3

    Nice priest 👍

  • @valerielynne8456
    @valerielynne8456 23 дня назад

    To finish my earlier comment./ Pls also pray gor Chris A. In hospital, also, in so California. Also a challenge of huge proportions.God pls heal these young men and pls fof Your Glory deer Lord that we ask. Let ir be💓🙏Amen

  • @eileenwilkerson7273
    @eileenwilkerson7273 11 месяцев назад +18

    Great message Father, for everyone!

  • @FollowerofChrist2002
    @FollowerofChrist2002 Месяц назад

    Praise be to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, our Lord our God. Holy is Your Name Lord God
    May God bless y’all prayers out for y’all. We humbly pray and wish all of this in Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior’s Holy Name, Amen.

  • @ethangunn7526
    @ethangunn7526 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your the best God bless you Father Mike

  • @bonjyb
    @bonjyb 11 месяцев назад +1

    Especially liked the bit about looking to others for approval.

  • @nesrotstein5772
    @nesrotstein5772 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Padre. This video was not weird at all. It was great and so true. Thank you.

  • @christophermichael1119
    @christophermichael1119 11 месяцев назад +21

    Father Mike, as always, this was an amazing and inspiring video. I always appreciate your honesty and how you just tell it like it is. Its very refreshing, and you're an awesome person and an even more awesome Priest. Thank you for all the videos youre always pumping out. I hope you realize how many people you inspire! I pray for you everyday. God bless you!!!

    • @AlexanderBrown77
      @AlexanderBrown77 11 месяцев назад

      ♥️know♥️
      1 John 5 kJV
      13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.

  • @pamstreisel2942
    @pamstreisel2942 11 месяцев назад +3

    I am a culprit of this unfortunately. I do it when I don’t want to go somewhere and pretend I have other plans not to hurt someone’s feelings! I just don’t feel like going. :(

    • @nightyew2160
      @nightyew2160 11 месяцев назад +5

      I would say staying home and doing nothing should count as other plans. As an introvert, I frequently feel misunderstood by extroverts who don't understand my need for time on the calendar that doesn't involve social plans. For me, 2020 was a good year, absolutely amazing. I finally felt like I could keep up with life, but unfortunately it's back to the races.

  • @timopper5488
    @timopper5488 11 месяцев назад +12

    I think it’s easier to say, “I have to leave,” instead of “I want to leave,” because “have to” allows for a multitude of reasons outside of yourself, and not just your desire to get away from that person. Pretty hard to NOT insult someone by saying “I want to leave,” and giving NO reason why. Always have plenty of legitimate reasons to not be where you currently are.

    • @augusto8632
      @augusto8632 11 месяцев назад +1

      Or you could just say "I'll go" and leave it open.

    • @HomesteadRanger
      @HomesteadRanger 11 месяцев назад +1

      Just be honest. You should say I want to get away from you now. It was fun but you are starting to annoy me so I want to leave while we are still friends.

    • @ahapka
      @ahapka 11 месяцев назад +3

      I would also recommend "it's time for me to go."

    • @timopper5488
      @timopper5488 11 месяцев назад

      @@augusto8632
      And they will obviously ask you, “Oh, why?”

    • @timopper5488
      @timopper5488 11 месяцев назад

      @@HomesteadRanger
      Then you would literally sound like a rather low-functioning Autistic person. I mean, if that’s what you’re going for, by all means, but that would, again, be giving a false impression.

  • @brooksriess748
    @brooksriess748 11 месяцев назад +6

    I'm new to the Catholic faith and your channel has been so helpful.

    • @SlickRick56
      @SlickRick56 11 месяцев назад +1

      welcome home🙏

  • @shawnvillemusic4228
    @shawnvillemusic4228 11 месяцев назад +1

    Father Mike Schmitz is a really cool person. I love his funny intros from the beginning they are cool. The reason I liked him because my family and I watched his Mass videos on RUclips and is cool as well so that’s how I got into this.

  • @annemariemcgowan9273
    @annemariemcgowan9273 11 месяцев назад +1

    Father Mike. This wasn't a weird video. It was exactly what I needed. I need to be mindful with my words. I tell white lies all the time or I exaggerate a little bit to get my point across x I need to stop this. I also find myself maybe exaggerating a story to comfort people. I'll find another way cos all lies big or small are negative x

  • @icarus374
    @icarus374 11 месяцев назад +2

    I see that ascension has upped their editing game recently and I appreciate it: editors, you are seen :)

  • @giovannigennaro9732
    @giovannigennaro9732 11 месяцев назад +1

    God is Truth.

  • @feliciagallo9832
    @feliciagallo9832 4 месяца назад

    I agree with your assessment on why we lie, even little lies like your example. But one reason I do this is because I have always been a people pleaser, so I put a good "face" on something. Even if it something stupidly simple. I also agree that we lie about small things because we do want to look good/talented/smart etc. to others.
    I am working on changing this to BE more authentic.
    Having said all of that, I also agree that everyone doesn't need to know everything you think, at the moment when you think it.

  • @user-ji2on8eg3l
    @user-ji2on8eg3l 10 месяцев назад

    Jesus I love you. All I have is yours. Yours I am yours I want to be. Do with me whatever you will.

  • @MariaRamirez-jm4uj
    @MariaRamirez-jm4uj 11 месяцев назад

    Honesty is the best policy. Especially being honest with yourself. And honesty with others keeps us accountable for our actions.

  • @temitopemusa-aisien4734
    @temitopemusa-aisien4734 7 месяцев назад

    Yes, you made a lot of sense Fr Mike!
    Thank you for speaking truth to us
    God bless you

  • @didiannzally9546
    @didiannzally9546 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am struggling a lot with lying. This video will go a long way in helping me work on my weakness. God bless you!

  • @bethanne558cooke7
    @bethanne558cooke7 11 месяцев назад +1

    I always say I weigh 135 lbs. definitely tweaking the truth ever so slightly

  • @lisacordes159
    @lisacordes159 11 месяцев назад

    Dude! I mean Fr. Mike! I can’t believe you even did “1” off those!!! HUGE Kudos to You!!!! 🤩👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @nightyew2160
    @nightyew2160 11 месяцев назад +2

    I think the lies that society expects for the sake of politeness don't count, like "I gotta go," or when someone asks, "How are you?" and you say, "Fine," instead of venting all the bad stuff that happened to you that day.
    Still, if it bothers you, people might be okay with, "I am going to go now," or even better, "I am going to let you go."

  • @Pete.Ty1
    @Pete.Ty1 11 месяцев назад

    🙏🙏🙏.Thank you

  • @paulhornbogen980
    @paulhornbogen980 11 месяцев назад +2

    Father Mike, spot on spiritual psychoanalysis. Boy, you nailed it with the internal self-awareness. I think you could give Dr. Phil a run for his money.

  • @shawn6157
    @shawn6157 11 месяцев назад +1

    Are you ok, Fr? Looks like you're in the struggle, Champion. Bless you, mighty man of God.

  • @iloveramennoodle01
    @iloveramennoodle01 11 месяцев назад +5

    I just got my great adventure bible in the mail today and am super excited to get it blessed and start following the Bible in a year ! Thank you Father Mike!

  • @shirleygiordano7627
    @shirleygiordano7627 11 месяцев назад +2

    You do not know how much I needed this. 😊

  • @B.R.L.
    @B.R.L. 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this video Father Mike! It’s always so informative and helps me through my trails and tribulations in life.

  • @yungganon187
    @yungganon187 11 месяцев назад

    God bless you Father, thank you so much for these videos!

  • @susansmiley2738
    @susansmiley2738 11 месяцев назад

    Father you hit the nail on my head. Thanks

  • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
    @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Fr. Mike. I must deal with this in my next confession

  • @cozyhomemakingvibes
    @cozyhomemakingvibes 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Father. This is very good. ❤

  • @alexanderjansen5077
    @alexanderjansen5077 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love your videos, thank you for your honestly and you have helped me today to be a better man. Thank you so much

  • @anelissanchez1535
    @anelissanchez1535 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love you, Father Mike🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻 You are ALWAYS clear and precise (and so funny at the end of your videos, I chuckle every time😂😅)

  • @mycatholicfaithlivingstone845
    @mycatholicfaithlivingstone845 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thankyou Fr. Mike. This has neen on my heart lately. I even spoke about this exact thing in confession recently. Im delighted to come across this

  • @angelalemos9811
    @angelalemos9811 11 месяцев назад

    This one really resonated with me as someone who has experienced things in the past, certain details here and there that I don't want to share, don't want to share right now etc.

  • @conniecline201
    @conniecline201 11 месяцев назад

    I honestly loved this video thank you

  • @ivanajukicgloban6627
    @ivanajukicgloban6627 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for leading us through paths of purification ourselves!😊❤

  • @jemimahmirembe8519
    @jemimahmirembe8519 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this Father Mike

  • @lauraabrodsky8155
    @lauraabrodsky8155 11 месяцев назад +4

    WOW, Fr. Mike. This really made me take stock of my words. Thank you for your transparency and excellent suggestions. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bonjyb
    @bonjyb 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you this was great. Straight from the heart. I would love to see more like this

  • @hoosiermomma5
    @hoosiermomma5 11 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely PHENOMENAL video!! Thank you for covering this topic!!!

  • @lucyrubach4970
    @lucyrubach4970 11 месяцев назад

    Thans Fr. Mike!

  • @lindajames7759
    @lindajames7759 10 месяцев назад

    Isn’t it funny that we accept complete honesty from children, we smile and move on, but as we get older honesty slips to a place behind so the white lie becomes the norm. I really try to be honest in my speech, it’s not easy. Thanks 🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @davidmorton2780
    @davidmorton2780 11 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent video. It is something I struggle with, even this very day. I pray for and love Father Mike.

  • @BlessedLifeLoveandFaith
    @BlessedLifeLoveandFaith 11 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you so much for this, Father Mike! I caught myself recently when I was shopping with my mom (she asked) and told her I spend $20, instead of $37. 😕 It's shameful because I struggle with makeup purchases, like a shopaholic. But, I will keep my honesty from now on and do my best to not overspend on stuff I already have.

    • @spaceforgrace3312
      @spaceforgrace3312 11 месяцев назад +2

      oh this reminds me of my mum and the truth I covered up, but why was she so nosey anyway lol!

    • @user-ep8xo1od9o
      @user-ep8xo1od9o 11 месяцев назад +2

      I am the same with overbuying 😭 sometimes it feels like I can’t stop myself. I’ll pray for you!

    • @BlessedLifeLoveandFaith
      @BlessedLifeLoveandFaith 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@spaceforgrace3312 Sometimes, a mom's instincts just knows us too well when they ask!

    • @BlessedLifeLoveandFaith
      @BlessedLifeLoveandFaith 11 месяцев назад

      @@user-ep8xo1od9o aww thank you so much!! I will be praying for you too!💛 It's been a long struggle, but I'm ready to make small changes, like a budget plan for each month.

    • @spaceforgrace3312
      @spaceforgrace3312 11 месяцев назад

      @@BlessedLifeLoveandFaith no- she was just nosey! I was earning money and free to spend a little on myself! I never ask my daughter how much she spends on clothes.

  • @kathyfranzoni274
    @kathyfranzoni274 11 месяцев назад +3

    You explained it very well thank you and I understood it cleared up some questions I had thank you very much

  • @ximenarebollo6813
    @ximenarebollo6813 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this honest video! It came at the right moment for me... I’m more aware now of how the enemy takes advantage of these apparently insignificant evil acts to win his battle... keep up with your incredible work Father!

  • @juliekaszubowski7523
    @juliekaszubowski7523 11 месяцев назад

    😂 I heard you, "Was that just a weird video" A little vague, that's all. It's called "I think it's called "stretching the truth". My bigger fault is saying too much on FB and not commenting what, I think the speaker/writer wants to see but heh, I welcome anyone who wants to PERSONALLY call me out on whatever they think of whatever I say or post. We're still loving BIAY Fr. Mike. It's different the second time with my husband than it was the first time myself. Yet, and this is the HONEST TRUTH.🖐 I know now as I never have. God's Word IS Living and along with your summary speaks to each/both of us and to our day, daily. Thank you.

  • @TJ-tb3xm
    @TJ-tb3xm 11 месяцев назад +3

    Excellent!

  • @annagracie762
    @annagracie762 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you Father Mike for sharing.

  • @paulg4672
    @paulg4672 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for this video. Holy Spirit inspired really, needed this

  • @humberto4344
    @humberto4344 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you!

  • @louaynebyrne8110
    @louaynebyrne8110 11 месяцев назад +2

    It wasn’t a weird video, itwas honest and I’ll bet hit home for everyone. You are simply the best!

  • @rosemaryomalley6636
    @rosemaryomalley6636 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @purryegbert8609
    @purryegbert8609 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you -

  • @pennybrooks9038
    @pennybrooks9038 11 месяцев назад

    You’re the best, Father Mike ❤

  • @mvsorola
    @mvsorola 11 месяцев назад

    We are all human… so brave of you Father. Learning from this… 👍

  • @neptune71000
    @neptune71000 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you, you are very inspiring. You reflect Jesus.

  • @doloreswisecarver1784
    @doloreswisecarver1784 11 месяцев назад

    FYI - I’ve never done a triathlon. 😄 Be humbly proud of your accomplishments.
    And, I understand what you are saying, but I think it is so important to put love before the hammer of the truth. The three questions are a great litmus test for self reflection.

  • @hclws8930
    @hclws8930 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks so much Fr. Mike for this video and all you do for us to help lead us on the right path in life towards Heaven. You are truly full of the Holy Spirit. God bless you 🙏 ✝ 🕊 🌹 ❤

  • @mgrz98
    @mgrz98 11 месяцев назад +1

    It makes sense Fr. Mike! I’ve been doing it for too long. Let my yes be yes and no be no, amen!

  • @bethdeck9825
    @bethdeck9825 11 месяцев назад +3

    Fr. Mike….it wasn’t a weird video…it was a great, thoughtful one! Thanks