"How Do You Vet a Woman Over 40 For Marriage," Anton Grills the Men Dating Older Women On the Panel

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  • @AntonDaniels
    @AntonDaniels  2 месяца назад +2

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    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 2 месяца назад +1

      Stop giving men bad advice. No man should be vetting a female over 40 for marriage. A man need to enjoy the best of you aka your prime not just whats left.

  • @Alscola750
    @Alscola750 2 месяца назад +45

    I’m a 57yr old semi retired,divorced grandfather. I would love to find companionship with a woman my age to share my golden years. But they talk too much shit about finances and wanting the luxury lifestyle. I’ve taken all the trips, had the cars, and wore all the clothes etc. If she is the boss she claims to be she should have done all this too by now. I’m completely debt free and don’t want the pressure of keeping up with the Jones anymore. Now I’m just spoiling grandkids, and looking for someone humble enough to go to Applebees with me and not expect me to pay her old ass bills! You got plenty of middle class men like me just waiting for our women to stop all the foolishness and get back to us loving and respecting one another.

    • @Tyrone950
      @Tyrone950 2 месяца назад +7

      Not going to happen. They're too jaded. Don't have any respect for ya'll and hatred.

    • @eeyeam
      @eeyeam 2 месяца назад +6

      Say That Sh*t Again- I'm 57 yrs old And I done all That sh*t Too- It's Time To Chill. I'm Debt free And I Don't need no extra non-sense

    • @AriMayweather
      @AriMayweather 2 месяца назад +2

      She’s out there… you have to look away from the crowd

    • @chrissalley9468
      @chrissalley9468 2 месяца назад

      At your stage in life, women would be a complete liability. It would only be worth it if you met a woman 35 that never been married and wanted to be a wife and have a child. All women your age would want is all expense paid vacations lol

    • @michaeljenkins1491
      @michaeljenkins1491 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm living like that right now. Chill mode 60 and relaxed. No grandchildren she has none kids are grown no pressure no thought about marriage. I retired at 55 and honestly not one time have I ever had the problems being discussed about women. I don't care what lifestyle a woman wants, that is none of my business. She has interest outside of me as I do her. All this stuff don't matter in real everyday life. Salute my brother

  • @Dwbulldog04
    @Dwbulldog04 2 месяца назад +34

    I was seeing a 38 year old with two kids (i have none) and she pulled a female manipulation tactic that I would expect from a woman in her early 20s and it turned me completely off. In my mind if I am going to deal with that I can date younger without the baggage. The older a woman gets the less slack that is cut🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @DJ-ll9hv
      @DJ-ll9hv 2 месяца назад

      Why in the world would you date a woman with 2 kids? That’s like asking to be put in jail for a crime you didn’t commit 😂😂😂

    • @Tyrone950
      @Tyrone950 2 месяца назад +4

      What she do?

    • @raytooz9383
      @raytooz9383 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@Tyrone950I need that story too G! 😂

    • @Ricocase
      @Ricocase 2 месяца назад

      Walked in with kids after...to promote stepdad bonding 😂

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 2 месяца назад

      A manipulative young woman doesn’t outgrow that behavior, unfortunately.

  • @user-fu8lr1bp2m
    @user-fu8lr1bp2m 2 месяца назад +159

    This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @MichelleJOleary
      @MichelleJOleary 2 месяца назад +1

      I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counselor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

    • @user-fu8lr1bp2m
      @user-fu8lr1bp2m 2 месяца назад +1

      Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

    • @MichelleJOleary
      @MichelleJOleary 2 месяца назад +1

      Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.

    • @user-fu8lr1bp2m
      @user-fu8lr1bp2m 2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

  • @EgonKristi
    @EgonKristi 2 месяца назад +77

    The thing is..dating women 35 and up is truly compromising and stressful I would highly recommend that men don’t do it.

    • @Ezigoing
      @Ezigoing 2 месяца назад +19

      I've never been interested in a woman over 30. I know by that time she has done some really crappy things in life. A lot of crappy things!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @byronparker4088
      @byronparker4088 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@Ezigoing facts

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 2 месяца назад +3

      Depends. If she’s flexible with an easygoing attitude then it translates into her being pleasant to be around on average. But if she’s really particular, always complaining, restricted In lifestyle and not pleasant to be around day to day? Don’t compromise your peace for that kinda woman.

    • @terence.j
      @terence.j 2 месяца назад +1

      I would say over 30

    • @pocketbeat7922
      @pocketbeat7922 2 месяца назад

      Most single women 35 and up have high body counts, soul ties with exes, children, emotional abuse, or are narcissistic and selfish. Hard pass.

  • @bluemajiic1979
    @bluemajiic1979 2 месяца назад +46

    A man with self respect will not be the "settle guy"

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад +2

      Agreed

    • @keptbygrace6221
      @keptbygrace6221 2 месяца назад +5

      If he is lonely, men will settle just like women do.

    • @DominantBlackMaleLeader
      @DominantBlackMaleLeader 2 месяца назад +2

      @@keptbygrace6221
      If he’s lonely he was probably non-select to begin with

    • @keptbygrace6221
      @keptbygrace6221 2 месяца назад

      @@DominantBlackMaleLeader that's the thing though, most people (men and women) are non-select; average men and average women settle for each other all the time

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад

      @@keptbygrace6221 nah only if he is a bum

  • @warrencalloway9616
    @warrencalloway9616 2 месяца назад +39

    The whole purpose of marriage is to establish legitimacy of the bloodlines 🤷🏾‍♂️ you can't merge bloodlines with older women 🤦🏽‍♂️ so it's no point in trying to marry a older woman✌

    • @dailyhunter3683
      @dailyhunter3683 2 месяца назад +9

      Say that louder 🗣️ for the congregation at the back of the church ⛪.

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад +3

      Agreed

    • @jlcarter04
      @jlcarter04 2 месяца назад +4

      THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @reemoe9374
      @reemoe9374 2 месяца назад +3

      Facts

    • @keithhayes6339
      @keithhayes6339 2 месяца назад +1

      I feel like I just watched a episode of game of thrones after this comment 😂😂

  • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
    @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад +29

    Experience will teach a young man that an old single woman is not due to any feminine virtue. Older women are predators that trap young hunters...If you ever take them seriously you will have serious regrets.

    • @DJ-ll9hv
      @DJ-ll9hv 2 месяца назад

      Older women know what time it is. The reason you can’t take an older woman seriously is because most are damaged beyond repair. They’re delusional, got baggage, lead with their body, controlling, competitive with younger women, manipulative and just not good for long term because they really have nothing to offer. Older women are much easier to smash than younger women because they know deep down they have nothing to keep a man he can’t find outside that looks better.

  • @blackurustrikes2328
    @blackurustrikes2328 2 месяца назад +9

    There are no practical reasons for a productive, healthy man to marry a +40 y o woman. If anything, the losses will be great and inevitable.

  • @hardlessons9732
    @hardlessons9732 2 месяца назад +15

    Older women are trying to get taken care of. Ain’t no love😂

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад +3

      Tragic Truth

    • @rawketeer
      @rawketeer 2 месяца назад

      @@BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB not true, its me n that are looking to get taken care of, which is why they are more likely to remarry, and are quicker to remarry than vvo men.

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад +7

      @@rawketeer old women are not desired by high value men of any age or race especially if she did not grow old under his authority

    • @rawketeer
      @rawketeer 2 месяца назад

      @@BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 98% of me n are NOT high value, so who cares? The reason a lot of the vvo men are single is by choice, because they do not want to marry down educationally and financially, they dont want a dependent. Which is why statistics confirm, that me n are the ones that frequent remarriage much more, as they need someone to take care of them.

    • @rawketeer
      @rawketeer 2 месяца назад

      @@BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB Irrelevant, as 98% of me n are NOT high value. Under his authority? hahaha. The majority of wives make as much or more than their husbands in 2024 and are much more likely to have attained a college degree than their husband.

  • @Frank-H
    @Frank-H 2 месяца назад +10

    Older woman want a provider 😂😂😂 foh

  • @creationmuse2313
    @creationmuse2313 2 месяца назад +11

    It’s literally how women are being taught, and raised, not necessarily age. Same with men. Are adolescents goes on for way too long, ultimately making us immature way longer than we should be.
    Dax “she say she wants a real man, but what she wants is not real man”

    • @dailyhunter3683
      @dailyhunter3683 2 месяца назад +4

      That's because they grow up watching Disney movies, they're are still looking for their prince charming.

  • @DJ-ll9hv
    @DJ-ll9hv 2 месяца назад +18

    Only man that needs to be marrying a woman in her 40s is 55 and up. And he needs to lead the relationship from start to finish. If she not down with the program she will be dismissed

    • @dailyhunter3683
      @dailyhunter3683 2 месяца назад +1

      If the man wants children, I doubt he'll choose a woman in her 40's.

  • @DominantBlackMaleLeader
    @DominantBlackMaleLeader 2 месяца назад +19

    I put BW on PTO status, especially older ones.
    Pound Town Only 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @davidmilner8778
      @davidmilner8778 2 месяца назад +8

      That's dehumanizing 🤔

    • @DJ-ll9hv
      @DJ-ll9hv 2 месяца назад

      You are a sad man lmaooo……you’re damaging an already damaged individual how cruel and weak do you have to be

    • @DominantBlackMaleLeader
      @DominantBlackMaleLeader 2 месяца назад +7

      @@davidmilner8778
      How? Third wave feminism embraced sexual liberation. As an ally, I provide that opportunity. 😂

    • @finalcountdown7658
      @finalcountdown7658 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@davidmilner8778No, that's a smart man

    • @jlcarter04
      @jlcarter04 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@davidmilner8778 no it isn't. These women wanted liberation and "freedom", this is what comes with it.
      PS: There is a great chance these women allowed themselves to be treated in degrading ways by dudes that didn't love them while in their youth.... all the while ignoring and wrapping all over the dudes that actually loved them.
      I don't feel sorry for them.

  • @sharksimms231
    @sharksimms231 2 месяца назад +7

    Anton be talking like he hasn’t been married since he got out of high school

    • @chia0922
      @chia0922 2 месяца назад +1

      😂 facts

  • @ericrobinson1789
    @ericrobinson1789 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm hitting 55 in a few months and have been married once already. I'm on the fence about being married a 2nd time. But a damn good companion I'm very much interested in having. Folk also need to be more realistic about their dating options too. Especially women!

  • @chrissalley9468
    @chrissalley9468 2 месяца назад +2

    Tukay is right. They dont mature at all. They all think they are forever 21

  • @vedasimmons6158
    @vedasimmons6158 2 месяца назад +5

    The Men you have for this conversation 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 2 месяца назад +2

      Everything they said was SPOT ON. Did you get the message?? Nah, as you let your emotions lead you to personal attacks hence you didn't learn nothing.

  • @ssdcatracho77
    @ssdcatracho77 2 месяца назад +2

    40+ women have the options to accept a man that wants them at their level, keep practicing hypergamy, or buy a dog and age alone. They have a small amount of leverage at that point for a relationship.

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 2 месяца назад

      That’s the inner struggle with them. Coming to terms with that loss of leverage and realizing they’re suddenly at the mercy of Men’s choosing after all that time of the dating market putting them in the driver’s seat.

  • @tanyamcmorris554
    @tanyamcmorris554 Месяц назад

    I'm in my 40's and what is important is stability, consistency and loyalty. Having a partner to share life with

  • @theimportantthingsthatreal9842
    @theimportantthingsthatreal9842 Месяц назад

    The biggest thing is , wondering is the 40 year old lying to you about something when you are vetting her. When Ms. Mai was about to marry the rapper, she stated that she would submit to him. Then we found out that that was a lie and now she has him in court.

  • @Tyrone950
    @Tyrone950 2 месяца назад +4

    Older women looking for finances in marriage. Young woman want her a broke ninja with dreds & tattoos. I don't find older women attractive and ones that are fine, you better have your finances together.

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад

      Nah you are describing prostitution.😒All modern women have a 304 mindset be they old or young. Women know American men are the weakest men on earth💯

  • @elcypher6102
    @elcypher6102 2 месяца назад

    Tukay kills me. That karma line was hilarious 😂

  • @thatguybill34
    @thatguybill34 Месяц назад

    *It's over for women 40+ still trying to party and act like they are in their 20's.*

  • @theimportantthingsthatreal9842
    @theimportantthingsthatreal9842 Месяц назад

    I would be afraid to ask the have you been thru menopause question but that's a very good question to ask.

  • @BlackBiker1017
    @BlackBiker1017 2 месяца назад +1

    Anton you off... I've dealt with more Cougars then the average Man... Chicks 40 and up still want love... Their delusional! I've delt with 40/50 yr olds.

  • @chia0922
    @chia0922 2 месяца назад

    Wow the fact that he is saying that 40 year old women don’t believe in love is crazy. It’s like if I say all men are cheaters. Sounds really weird..not all women that are older are like that and that’s the problem with social media makes people believe all people are the same. RUclips content ain’t no different. This is just crazy

  • @Majormxwll
    @Majormxwll 2 месяца назад +5

    Don’t get married especially is she’s 30 or older.

  • @truththeoryknowledge833
    @truththeoryknowledge833 2 месяца назад

    Anton with the million dollar question at the end 😂

  • @DeionSardines
    @DeionSardines 2 месяца назад +2

    Mature/gilf/milf was the number 1 category when it came to Prom in the year 2023. Candace did a bit about this a few months ago when she was with the daily wire.

    • @davidmilner8778
      @davidmilner8778 2 месяца назад +2

      It's all transactional and about getting low hanging fruit 📦.

    • @reemoe9374
      @reemoe9374 2 месяца назад +1

      So??? That means thier fun to pop

  • @thembandaba9021
    @thembandaba9021 2 месяца назад +12

    Anton is wrong... Vivica was busy talking about sparks and butterflies.. She Def looking for Love

    • @Dansenpai8
      @Dansenpai8 2 месяца назад +4

      She wasn’t looking for the right kind of love

    • @oneepie
      @oneepie 2 месяца назад +4

      Sparks and butterflies is lust not love

    • @thembandaba9021
      @thembandaba9021 2 месяца назад

      @@oneepie not according to Vivica I guess.. Coz she's looking for a partner that'll give her sparks and shit... Basically looking for an imaginary Super Nigga or sum

    • @whiteranger79
      @whiteranger79 2 месяца назад +1

      @@oneepie😂 facts

    • @seekeroftruth45
      @seekeroftruth45 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@oneepiethe fact that people don't get this is part of the problem

  • @mharp6166
    @mharp6166 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm almost mid 30s....but if i datr that old. She HAS to be peace. That keeping drama away, and swag talk are done. We're grown

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 Месяц назад

      You should keep that standard for any woman, regardless of age.

  • @missindependentmyway2015
    @missindependentmyway2015 2 месяца назад +2

    The men in my age group are still living with their parents and were not interested getting married as we came along
    I am 48

    • @johncalhoun916
      @johncalhoun916 2 месяца назад +2

      You need to look in the mirror and consider what kind of men you allow to be in your world. Good luck!!!!

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 2 месяца назад +2

      Sounds like you wasted your prime with the wrong men 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @aseanra
    @aseanra 2 месяца назад

    I agree with Anton’s take on Vivica. She mentioned nothing about love on her list. If love was a priority it would’ve been on the list.

  • @geraldos9094
    @geraldos9094 2 месяца назад

    An experienced woman is usually a scarred woman, and experienced man is a wise man. Women don’t do well with too many experiences, especially the ones that are challenging and negative. Women will relive a relationship mentally from 20 years ago like it was yesterday…..forever a victim.

  • @jordanhead2023
    @jordanhead2023 2 месяца назад

    We all want a black girl with the kam mindset

  • @back2create71
    @back2create71 2 месяца назад

    I read the title and immediately thought - "you don't"

  • @toeaxn
    @toeaxn 2 месяца назад +2

    As someone who married a high earner after turning 40, I’m just here to see how many people say it’s impossible 😂

    • @DJ-ll9hv
      @DJ-ll9hv 2 месяца назад +2

      It’s possible to win the lottery but most people never win sooooooo what’s your point? The exception is never the rule

    • @davidconover2652
      @davidconover2652 2 месяца назад

      @@DJ-ll9hv They always do this lol

  • @nenajay3174
    @nenajay3174 2 месяца назад

    Everyone is different. There are different desires and circumstances. A number of young women look for older men to be taken care of. And there is a portion of older, established women who require a man to have at least what she has, but then there are those who have their own and just want intimacy.

  • @user-rg6nl8yw6o
    @user-rg6nl8yw6o 2 месяца назад

    I think he was pretty accurate on dating a 40 year old. They more delusional than a 25 year old.

  • @LBOOGIEDAMANN
    @LBOOGIEDAMANN 2 месяца назад +5

    Women do not begin to actually mature until they reach at least 45 years old.

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад +11

      You have not experienced older women. If you had you would know they never mature.

    • @bluemajiic1979
      @bluemajiic1979 2 месяца назад +8

      They don't mature lol

    • @MrHDProd
      @MrHDProd 2 месяца назад +9

      Grown woman are like kids bruh

    • @DJ-ll9hv
      @DJ-ll9hv 2 месяца назад +6

      @@MrHDProdall women are like kids that’s why they need leadership

    • @WillGettinToIt
      @WillGettinToIt 2 месяца назад +4

      They never mature bro

  • @jevonfalcon2513
    @jevonfalcon2513 2 месяца назад +1

    2 things can be true at the same time and why is Ton Daniel's just shutting dude down when he's also rigjt??
    They still want that prince charming thing and that true love deal well into their 40s....

  • @whiteranger79
    @whiteranger79 2 месяца назад

    They want marriage but not the cater to husbands that it truly entails.

  • @nishsanity266
    @nishsanity266 2 месяца назад

    Kimberly is definitely related to Nia Long❤

  • @vashonpowell8627
    @vashonpowell8627 2 месяца назад

    Turkay is actually 100% right!

  • @bennybaldwin8892
    @bennybaldwin8892 2 месяца назад

    It don't change

  • @partyoflove6967
    @partyoflove6967 2 месяца назад

    Great title for a video anton.......

  • @TimothyC.84
    @TimothyC.84 2 месяца назад

    Now I get how young 30 is.

  • @CliffordAdamsJr409
    @CliffordAdamsJr409 2 месяца назад

    Tukay is actually kinda right.

  • @PasoCash
    @PasoCash 2 месяца назад +1

    The guy with no options will settle for that 40+ woman every time smh

  • @tluvwilson9370
    @tluvwilson9370 2 месяца назад

    Who are these guys that are on this show Anton they are super immature😮It's been a while since I have tuned in to one of these group conversations..geash you need to vette the Panel of guys b4 you allow them on🤔

  • @davidconover2652
    @davidconover2652 2 месяца назад

    You don't

  • @realove278
    @realove278 2 месяца назад +6

    Older women are still getting married to real men. God is still blessing older people in marriages

    • @WillGettinToIt
      @WillGettinToIt 2 месяца назад +5

      Where you get those lies from🤣🤣🤣

    • @Ruffykon
      @Ruffykon 2 месяца назад +5

      To desperate men that have no other options

  • @HidNTrackz
    @HidNTrackz 2 месяца назад

    Anton wrong on this one.

  • @realove278
    @realove278 2 месяца назад +1

    There are young men going after older women

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 2 месяца назад

      For sex and easy access. And benefits.

  • @SAMack-xd2fn
    @SAMack-xd2fn 2 месяца назад

    Women over 40 are for batting practice only😊

  • @DeionSardines
    @DeionSardines 2 месяца назад +1

    I think older & regular females are going to make a come back soon. 🤔

    • @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB
      @BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJB 2 месяца назад +15

      You a goofy

    • @MrHDProd
      @MrHDProd 2 месяца назад +4

      @@BLACKMAGABATTALIONFJBfacts 😂

    • @DJ-ll9hv
      @DJ-ll9hv 2 месяца назад +4

      No man takes an older woman seriously unless he’s older himself 50+. As far as the regular females it’s a possibility but that depends on the men

    • @AppliedPressure493
      @AppliedPressure493 2 месяца назад +3

      Regular woman but not older

    • @deezy3007
      @deezy3007 2 месяца назад

      They not gonna make a come back

  • @splashyo5585
    @splashyo5585 2 месяца назад

    Anton wrong the 40 year olds want wat the 20 year olds want they wanna be flewed out they want all the bs they want

  • @realove278
    @realove278 2 месяца назад

    Wow he so childish tukay

    • @jenkericj
      @jenkericj 2 месяца назад

      He tells the truth though