The PCOS TALK|Should I redo this video?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2020
  • How are my kings and queens doing?
    Welcome back to the Palace🏘
    I was nervous and never really talked to anybody about pcos besides my mom and my doctor. It’s crazy I couldn’t get everything out that I wanted to say. Well let me know if I should make a part 2 or we can just have a discussion in the comments.
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  • @tdavis9947
    @tdavis9947 3 года назад +70

    Been going through PCOS for 15 years now. It’s horrible but I’ve never had any issues with excess hair . I was always told I could never have kids, about 10 years ago I had a laparoscopy to have the cysts removed . 2015 I lost a good amount of weight and I ended up getting pregnant and having 2 miscarriages in 2016&2017 . In 2018 I was admitted to the hospital for an enlarged cyst. 5 months later I end up pregnant . And today I have a one year old and I’m blessed to say the least .

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +2

      awe I’m happy for you🧡

    • @tdavis9947
      @tdavis9947 3 года назад +5

      Plus Size Shay 👑 thank you so much , girl I got so emotional watching you. I will be praying for you , keep the faith . Your time will come

  • @NomzamoNthabiseng
    @NomzamoNthabiseng 3 года назад +88

    Just whispered a little prayer that you become pregnant some day❤️❤️❤️

    • @nanbright4852
      @nanbright4852 3 года назад +2

      Fact's! till then she can come get mine. 😁

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +2

      thank you

    • @riennaheath700
      @riennaheath700 3 года назад

      @@PlusSizeShay hey shay I broke out really bad but with ambi get some black girl sunscreen because of sun exposure and it's a skin brightener!

  • @victoriouscruz1264
    @victoriouscruz1264 3 года назад +34

    My sister is due next month, she has PCOS. She lost 130 pounds, & within a 1 yr she became pregnant. Thank you for sharing your story. Love you Queen❤️

  • @leandennard1575
    @leandennard1575 3 года назад +55

    Shay don't cry u makes me cry u gonna be alright my friend God is gonna bless u with a baby cause u bless other people u is good people's and I love u sis you gonna be just fine u will have your baby cause you is a wonderful woman I will keep u in my prayers shay u have a wonderful and bless day

  • @1msnicky
    @1msnicky 3 года назад +38

    Shay I just freaking love your transparency ‼ You are amazing sis 💕

  • @CynnaBunn777
    @CynnaBunn777 3 года назад +5

    PCOS sucks! My weight fluctuates so much I finally got the gastric sleeve in August of this year and have already lost close to 50 lbs. The facial hair is awful! Also depression, anxiety, and insomnia are symptoms as well as infertility. I was told at 17 I couldn't have kids after my period stopped for months.
    I'm glad to be off Metformin for insulin resistance. My boyfriend is in agreement with me to adopt a child.
    Hang in there, Sis. You're not alone. Thank you so much for sharing and keeping it real💜💜💜

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +2

      💜💜congrats on the weight loss

  • @kcstacks9530
    @kcstacks9530 3 года назад +29

    Don’t worry Shay it will happen when HE says it’s time, just keep working on yourself love AND 26 IS NOT OLD GIRL YOU GOT TIME

  • @karringtontaylor9751
    @karringtontaylor9751 3 года назад +36

    On my cycle I have to use the restroom a lot too😂you’re not alone sis. You’re a blessing coming on here sharing your story❤️we love and support you. Thank you for the awareness

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      💛💛

    • @debj5114
      @debj5114 3 года назад +2

      This is why we love you Shay, you are such an honest, pure-hearted person and there are always different options for us all.

  • @sabrinamason9940
    @sabrinamason9940 3 года назад +22

    Shay you are me, and I am you. I have 6 brothers and sisters and everyone of them has kids. I can't even have one. My heart felt you, everything you said I said.😭😭😭😭😭 thank you for sharing today. I feel so close to you.❤💚💜💙💛

    • @cicijaye
      @cicijaye 3 года назад +3

      Always remember, God has the final say. The one who deserves to create and raise another life with you is the one, He chooses. At any given time, no matter how long. What's promised will be. He is faithful.

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      ❤️💙💛💚💜🧡

  • @florencenduta1301
    @florencenduta1301 3 года назад +23

    Girl .GOD is faithful trust in him. And all will be well to u guys

  • @User_not_found365
    @User_not_found365 3 года назад +17

    Love your honesty in this video Shay, you're so brave, bless you lil sis. I'm gonna declare my weight right with you. I'm 140lbs and 5'2". I know its less but its all relative to how you personally feel and I still feel big and wanna lose my stomach and thighs to be around 130lbs. Lets lose some lbs together healthily sis. We still beautiful Queen's. 👑👑💖

  • @Jade-ml2ng
    @Jade-ml2ng 3 года назад +18

    Hey Shay, thanks for informing everyone on this. I see that in your Friday night lives, people constantly ask you if you and Jay are planning to have a family together so it's mindful for people to have more understanding that these questions are pretty personal. Fortunately, there are so many ways to have children now whether it be in vitro, embryo adoption and so many different options. Please keep your head up.

  • @michelecharles5688
    @michelecharles5688 3 года назад +3

    I am in tears. I am 50 years old 6ft. 435lbs and I suffer with facial and chest hair. I have been blessed with one son. GOD will bless you too‼️ Keep the faith Ma’am 😘

  • @bettyh.3900
    @bettyh.3900 3 года назад +9

    Shay don't frustrate yourself. Do what you need to do for you health wise and let God do the rest. He knows your heart. Love you much. Praying 4 u.

  • @MsMathab
    @MsMathab 3 года назад +2

    It will happen for you babygirl 😭❤️ just think positive, take care of yourself and your pregnancy will manifest itself 🤱🏿
    I hope you’ll get your beautiful little baby soon. You won’t even have to lose all you excess weight, you’ll just have to regulate your sugar/insulin and your hormones will surely stabilize in time☺️
    Gods delay is not his denial! 🥰

  • @ravlyn7620
    @ravlyn7620 3 года назад +2

    I have PCOS too. It’s horrible and I do also have facial hair and gain weight easily. My weight is stubborn and so difficult to loose. I see my friends just cut out alcohol and drop weight. I literally need to work hard and two meal replacements a day to budge the weight, not even keto works for me. I had my only daughter at 36, with PCOS at 270lbs. It was a blessing and a surprise. Feeling you Shay! Thanks for been real and helping to share the struggle that is PCOS.

    • @gbrieannful
      @gbrieannful Год назад

      Gives me hope especially when the doctors tell me to lose weight to get pregnant.

  • @urgurlash6471
    @urgurlash6471 3 года назад +11

    I’m 34 and have never been pregnant or even had a miscarriage I get so depressed feeling like I can’t conceive when God knows I pray for a child but I get nothing I won’t give up completely but I have gave up and tell ppl I can’t have kids and it hurts so bad!!! I mean I don’t have 30,000$ to pay for IVF but it’s like why am I cursed is how I feel!!! I pray for all women in my shoes I really do cause we get jealous and all feeling like we can’t have a child!!! I don’t want to b old old and have a kid so it’s like what have I done to b cursed😔😔 but Shay Godbless you and I hope u do get to have a child u will b a great mom one day Queen Godbless

    • @therisataylor7149
      @therisataylor7149 3 года назад +2

      Aww I felt this I'm with you suga

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +2

      yes we will get that baby one day. I be so happy for people and my friends having kids then I get jealous cause it should be me having that moment & I fade away and leave🧡💚

    • @therisataylor7149
      @therisataylor7149 3 года назад

      @@PlusSizeShay aww yes we will honey we gonna speak it into existence get our body and minds together we got this suga💓

    • @urgurlash6471
      @urgurlash6471 3 года назад

      Plus Size Shay 👑 thanks Shay def appreciate this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @lifewiththepeoples
      @lifewiththepeoples 3 года назад +1

      It’s all Gods timing sweetheart God is a God that can do the impossible ❤️

  • @survivingn77
    @survivingn77 3 года назад +6

    I just wanted to say how courageous you are!! I do not have PCOS, but I have been struggling with my weight since I was 5 years old and I'm 42 now. I have recently started a weight loss journey and your videos inspire me!! I love your confidence, openness and beautiful spirit!! Much Love and support from your hometown, Charlotte, NC!!! ❤❤❤

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +2

      You got this! Thank you for sharing this with me 👑💛💪🏾

  • @auntiebev.t1000
    @auntiebev.t1000 3 года назад +1

    I live in SImpsonville SC. I started watching your videos a few weeks ago & subscribed the same day. I’ve watched all of your videos now. This particular one, I shared several times. I didn’t know that so many people have pho’s until the response that I got back. You put you life out in public & the response is so overwhelming because we are all hungry for someone to be truthful & honest with us, especially now!! You are so confident & love yourself first, that’s why you make others know that you really care about them. Your partner is a blessed man to have you in his life. I’m 5’2 on a good day, 160 lbs. I weighed 230 a year ago. You’re in the right track. I don’t eat anything white. Absolutely no sugar. I drink only water- I add lemon or a lil vinegar. In my head, I feel like that cut calories. I know that you have a genuine relationship with God by the way that you talk. I believe that youtube is your ministry & you’re reaching souls w/o shoving God down throats. It’s a new day & people are being taught thru the internet. LOVE is what we need in 2020 & days to come. Keep the & stay focused & trust the journey. Love you Sis!, ✝️🌹❤️

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️I felt that

  • @Arabica
    @Arabica 3 года назад +10

    Also ❤️, intermittent fasting is really really awesome if you haven’t looked into it, it’s just an idea and it’s helped me so much. Basically I only eat from 12-8pm and fast the rest of 16 hours.
    I love you and don’t want to see you cry beautiful. I cried when you did too. I pray you become the best mama and I love you ❤️ you’re so strong and positive seeing everyone around you with kids and still wishing the best for everyone. when it’s your time we are going to be the happiest people in the world for you 😭💗❤️💗I cant wait to see you with white nails! 🥰😘

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +1

      😍🥰💛yes I just need to get on track with intermittent fasting

  • @therealvivian82
    @therealvivian82 3 года назад +4

    I understand how you feel. I'm 38 years old with no kids and not even married. It's so hard to even find a decent man to settle down with to have a kid with. Now it's getting close to being too late for me. I'm crying thinking about not having a family of my own.

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +1

      don’t give up🙏🏾💚💚

  • @12eightyONE
    @12eightyONE 3 года назад +3

    Hi Shay! I’m 38 and was diagnosed with uterine fibroids when I was about 35. I wasn’t always careful so I definitely assumed I was infertile. At 37, I had my first and likely only child, my son. I feel like I am old as heck to be having my first child but I have always trusted that God will bless you in His timing. I never imagined being a new mom this late in life but I thank God for my son every day. Continue to be faithful and put in your work. He sees and knows and will give you the desires of your heart ❤️. I always watch but never comment but felt compelled to today. Thank you for your transparency. I’ll be waiting for and praying with you for the white polish 🥰

  • @Skepticalskorpeo
    @Skepticalskorpeo 3 года назад +9

    I promise I’m not coming from a mean or negative place just pure honesty . My experience with pcos had a huge part to do with my weight. It’s not until I lost 50lbs and started exercising that I was able to conceive my son. Our weight controls our hormones and our hormones in a lot of cases affect our fertility.

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +4

      It’s all love here. Yes it’s playing a major role

    • @Skepticalskorpeo
      @Skepticalskorpeo 3 года назад +5

      Plus Size Shay 👑 Glad you didn’t take it the wrong way. Weight loss is sooooo hard especially when you’re an emotional eater like me. It’s hard but it can be done. Just stay consistent even when you have a bad day just wake up and over. Diet and exercise is the only way no easy way out trust me I’ve tried every thing.

    • @alwaysloved6349
      @alwaysloved6349 3 года назад +2

      This is very true..I only noticed regular periods and more of a balance when I started cleaner eating in addition to exercise/walking 30 mins...I also weine myself off instead of going cold turkey with some things...i love sweets so maybe instead of cutting it out..cut back on how often you eat it until you build up not it at all and began sub something healthier like fruit or whatever your craving is.. bt the weight loss does help!

    • @gbrieannful
      @gbrieannful Год назад

      I agree, I’ve been trying to get pregnant since January no luck, it could be my weight that’s hindering me.

  • @conniecox4903
    @conniecox4903 3 года назад +7

    your so real shay, I love that your not ashamed of being you. Love you girl!

  • @airheadgoddess2985
    @airheadgoddess2985 3 года назад +6

    PCOS here too.. You’re definitely not alone! ❤️❤️ Yes it’s our HORMONES.. Big or small.. it’s the hormones and what ever health conditions someone may have.. if any.

  • @tammygrant398
    @tammygrant398 3 года назад +5

    I LOVE your honesty Shay! You're a beautiful person!

  • @DeeDee-fl5dl
    @DeeDee-fl5dl 3 года назад +1

    I appreciate your honesty Shay!☺️

  • @PlusSizeShay
    @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +13

    My symptoms are: sleep apnea, insomnia, fatigue, weight gain, irregular periods, facial hair, skin tags, discoloration, high testosterone level, mood swings and infertility

    • @liyahqueen9162
      @liyahqueen9162 3 года назад +1

      Hey watch this youtube video it might help you out ok their channel is called I never know and the sell tonics drinks they also have a store you newyork for the colon in order to live a healthy life without sickness eat right and keep your colon clean out that's all u really need if your colon isn't clean that how u get all these diseases and most of it is coming from the foods we eat so you might wanna slowly which over to plant base not say that u can't have meat if u do make sure it real and not full of chemicals another thing try taking b12 nature made supplements it really help out for energy and help nervous system function properly ok and always keep god first and ask him to lead and guide just like were tlkn tlkn to god the same and he will listen he loves you and he will make sure you have a baby soon

    • @diadia6269
      @diadia6269 3 года назад +2

      Plus Size Shay 👑 when I say I hve every symptom you just named!!!! I HAVE EVERYONE !!!!!!!

    • @liyahqueen9162
      @liyahqueen9162 3 года назад +1

      I'm just asking you try some of the things I listed there you dont have but its weather a try right🙂🥰

    • @joniquebrown558
      @joniquebrown558 3 года назад +2

      I literally have all except of discoloration 😔😢

    • @joniquebrown558
      @joniquebrown558 3 года назад +2

      You thought about doing some weight loss videos? I would love that we need to motivate eachother Queen 😘💞

  • @Arabica
    @Arabica 3 года назад +13

    God bless you Shay. I pray that this gets easier for you and you’ll be a beautiful mother to a lucky child one day when it’s time, sending you love and hugs thank you for warming my heart with the smile again

  • @tishanamcdonald8450
    @tishanamcdonald8450 3 года назад +18

    Shay once you cut those crabs and sugar, the weight will fall right off. Just get serious girl, you can do it 💓

  • @alexiswright4958
    @alexiswright4958 3 года назад +2

    Hi shay your just so real. Love u and your channel ❤️

  • @vanessacampos4481
    @vanessacampos4481 3 года назад +1

    Stay strong queen 👸🏾. U got this 💪🏾💞

  • @robinlewis6783
    @robinlewis6783 3 года назад +4

    First of all good afternoon it will be all right Shay keep your head up everything going to be all right

  • @lifeewithhleaa
    @lifeewithhleaa 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for making this video! I have PCOS as well and I haven’t watched this video but I know it’s going to be golden ❤️ thank you so much for all the content you put out, you’re definitely a huge inspiration and role model for me!! 💕

  • @kimi2436
    @kimi2436 3 года назад +3

    Shay dont cry you will be alright just do your best and god will do the rest you got this

  • @Destiny10170
    @Destiny10170 3 года назад +1

    I love you Shay. You are such a strong amazing woman! Thank you for this! ✨✨✨✨

  • @blackdiamond2976
    @blackdiamond2976 3 года назад +4

    Queen im going to pray for the best for you its going to be ok its going to take some time but you got this i love you Queen ❤

  • @deerobinson5801
    @deerobinson5801 3 года назад +7

    God Bless you Shay for being courageous to talk about your personal situation. I have hair on my face as well and I did electrolysis and it worked so well for me but I haven't did it in awhile because it can be expensive but it really worked for me Just know you are helping so many women! God Bless you Queen!
    You are Beautiful inside and out💖

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +1

      thank you. I can’t wait to have my 1st session

  • @avionrenae4822
    @avionrenae4822 3 года назад +1

    Thank You So Much For Posting This & Being So Transparent! Love You Shay!!!!

  • @SimpleeKomplex
    @SimpleeKomplex 3 года назад +2

    I pray that motherhood is in your future, whether natural or with assistance. You have a lot of love to give and any child is deserving of that.

  • @urgurlash6471
    @urgurlash6471 3 года назад +9

    Whoever the 3 ppl that didn’t like this I I pray u do better!!!! Because why would u dislike this video period

  • @tiyanastarr
    @tiyanastarr 3 года назад +10

    I was just diagnosed with PCOS but I knew I had it. The main issue I have is excess hair literally EVERYWHERE. Any appointment I'd go to the doctors or nurses would say "you're a hairy one"😂 And not just some fine hair I'm talking coarse, jet black hair. I used to be embarrassed about it because I can shave and then it's back the very next day. It took some time but I learned to accept it.

    • @tiyanastarr
      @tiyanastarr 3 года назад +2

      @Ima Germaphobe Ew You're Dirty Bitch! Yes! It was mainly black women. In their defense we had a closer relationship so although it may have been seen as inappropriate I knew they meant no harm towards me.

    • @margaretpayne612
      @margaretpayne612 3 года назад +2

      Hey you made me cry too shay

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +1

      we will conquer 💪🏾

    • @nunyabeze9956
      @nunyabeze9956 3 года назад

      I have hair on my stomach chin lip its goin down my neck, legs, nipples. Its everywhere i have always had my period but never got pregnant. I even have been abused by men because i was not gettin pregnant. Its alot of pain but i prefer to be alone.

  • @auroradejesus5667
    @auroradejesus5667 3 года назад +1

    Good luck💕. Praying for you. You are amazing! 🥰🇵🇷😘

  • @fantishasherifa8251
    @fantishasherifa8251 3 года назад +2

    Heeeeey Queen Shay! I love ur transparency! When u cried, I cried! I love that ur honest n u definitely keep it funky! I have a friend who has it n I will share ur video with her! Thank u for this video! I love u!

  • @ThisIsTerrina
    @ThisIsTerrina 3 года назад +5

    OMG Shay...I am literally in tears right now. My daughter suffers from this also. I pray that God blesses you and Jay the baby of your dreams. I'm here for you my Queen! Love you.❤🤗❤🤗

  • @normaramos276
    @normaramos276 3 года назад +3

    God bless you sweetheart . You are so young and you have time . In gods timing . Remember your blessing will come . Love your transparent . Be patient and when you least expect it what’s meant for you will come .

  • @tyesanders291
    @tyesanders291 3 года назад +2

    Love you Shay! Sending you a virtual hug!!!

  • @KimeeMillion
    @KimeeMillion 3 года назад +1

    We Love you and stay strong , thank you for sharing something super intimate 💕

  • @sharons7027
    @sharons7027 3 года назад +20

    Hey Shay my daughter and my niece both suffer from this.

  • @Lissa_Tee
    @Lissa_Tee 3 года назад +3

    Shay seriously Sis I didn’t know how you could become anymore relatable! I was feel like I’m talking to a sister when you make your videos or on your live! The weight gain and the struggle to lose weight you have no idea. Also my Doctor had to get my nexplanon out my armpit sis cuz it moved so much. Another thing, my sex drive! Girl I had to explain to my boyfriend he would think it’s him too but it’s not it’s my hormones. It’s like one in a few weeks I’m in the mood. You really don’t know how thankful I am for you! You are like family to me! Love you so much! ❤️

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      omg that’s crazy in your armpit. I’m glad it’s out. its mind blowing how a women’s body does things but we got it💪🏾

  • @lessieworkman6659
    @lessieworkman6659 3 года назад +1

    I appreciate your honesty, best of luck!!!!! You are a blessing:-)

  • @forrelleTalk
    @forrelleTalk 3 года назад +1

    Shay, thank you so much for your honesty. That is why I watch your channel because you are so real! Be Blessed! 😉

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      I appreciate that🙏🏾💜🥰

  • @nataliablack007
    @nataliablack007 3 года назад +4

    Don't you worry Shay. Things have a habit of working themselves out. You'll be an amazing mum...I can see it 🥰

  • @str8phuckin
    @str8phuckin 3 года назад +7

    You would be an excellent candidate for weight loss surgery. Talk to your doctor and get the ball rolling. It will bring your period back regular and your overall well being will improve. Your hormones will balance out. Men and women have both testosterone and estrogen. Being overweight throws it all off balance, which is why overweight men have high estrogen levels and breasts.

  • @glammee5614
    @glammee5614 3 года назад +2

    Hi Queen! This was a great video. You are very transparent. You’re such an Angel to help other women with this condition. I am praying for God to give you your heart’s desire 🙏🏾

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much 🤗🙏🏾

  • @Lifestylewithshey
    @Lifestylewithshey 3 года назад +1

    Love you girl! S is for Shay, Strength and Sophisticated 😘😘

  • @amourejones8201
    @amourejones8201 3 года назад +3

    Shay, baby don't put so much pressure on yourself especially when it comes to having children. I cannot speak for anyone that has PCOS because I have never dealt with anything such as that but I have struggled with having a child. Now even at the age of 46 and still with no children, I have my days of feeling low and not incomplete. Anything is possible and I will most certainly keep you lifted in my prayers. Work on the things you can work on and God will do the rest. I love you, sweetness. You are such a blessing and you don't even know. 💓👑

  • @lk2j938
    @lk2j938 3 года назад +5

    Shay what an emotional video🥺 u seem like u want kids for the right reason so the universe will grant you a child(ren) as long as you keep doing the work. Please share the exercise you do. I'm skinny but damn near immobile & need sum motivation. ✌💜🍇

  • @shellbosses
    @shellbosses 3 года назад +2

    Hello SHAY👋👋👋💜💗💜. I LOVE your CONFIDENCE it helps me.

  • @ness6718
    @ness6718 3 года назад +1

    Your videos recently showed up on my feed and I subscribed after seeing one of your videos. Praying that God will bless you with all the things you want and deserve. 🙏🏻❤️- a subscriber from Guam 🇬🇺

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      Thank you so much! welcome to the palace👑

  • @italiansister8069
    @italiansister8069 3 года назад +3

    I have a aunt who have PCOS she's lighter and she's had this as long I've been knowing her Mole's and tags run in our family so every now and then the young the middle age and the old have to go and get them burnt off even I have moles so thanks for sharing Shay

  • @LuluIsPureLove
    @LuluIsPureLove 3 года назад +3

    Hey boo... you can do this and God is good it will work out sweetheart... I had my first and only son at 14 which was of course way too young .... but I know the feeling of wanting your own motherhood experience....one bit of peaceful words I can share is to try your best to keep any stress off your body that might not be all that helpful but I’m one of your many sweetheart Queens that are here for you ~Blessings & Love 💚💚💚💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹🌹🌹🌹💋💋💋💋

  • @tonyavester7704
    @tonyavester7704 3 года назад +1

    Hey sis, I listened to your story and you had me in tears. I love how you speak so positive of this illness. I love you girl!!!

  • @kell7016
    @kell7016 3 года назад +2

    BabyGirl i thank you so very much for sharing your journey. I will most definitely be standing in the gap (praying) for you💜💜

  • @hollywoodqueen28
    @hollywoodqueen28 3 года назад +5

    “I’m like Bro you just got to be freakin nasty all at one time ?!” Lmao you kill me . I love you Shay ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vashtistubbs2428
    @vashtistubbs2428 3 года назад +3

    Girllllll Shay that metformin did me the same way . .but i lost weight when they put me on the metformin and birth control together but my God that metformin had me shitting like crazy i think thats what led to my weight loss but dang the uncomfortableness of having to go so much times made me feel gross so i stopped them ....i still struggle with pcos even after having a hysterectomy( without ovary removal because of fibroids)i have and have had all the symptoms you have ...stay encouraged it didnt work out for me but im rooting for you hun be blessed 🙏🏿🙏🏿🌹🌹

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +1

      ima get back on track & be a shitty booty cause I need the help

  • @apollov2
    @apollov2 3 года назад +1

    Queen Shay. You are the realist. Keep the content flowing. I never heard of PCOS. Women go through hell. Queens remember the importance of self care. . Luv You Shay & Queens ❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @justus2queens13
    @justus2queens13 3 года назад +1

    this is super common and very relatable shay. thanks for the video! by the way your nails are BOMB!!

  • @secretlifeofmaya93
    @secretlifeofmaya93 3 года назад +3

    Yes! Thank you for talking about it . I love you shay!!!!!.and you are not the problem ! Seeing u cry made me cry because I feel what you are saying .. i didn't have my period for a year & got pregnant out of the blue and lost it at 16 weeks ...after I lost the baby I had my period about 4 times after and I havent had my period since ..and that was last Feb 2019 im still trying to overcome the hurt I've had pcos since I was 16 .. I also experience the facial hair, and I don't have the highest sex drive .I've tried everything lost weight was taking metformin dr said it would help it balance & bring it back but nothing happened , it ended up making me feel sick ...I've changed my diet & now I'm going to try a natural recipe from my mother land that says you will have it once you drink it , it has garlic , ginger, clove & tumeric root in water (ferment in cool place for 2 days in an xlarge bottle ) then drink twice a day for the next 3 days from that bottle .. hope it works !! The outcome from others were amazing saying 5 days later a woman got her menstruation back after a year of not having it .. i will try anything now!!! Just want to be cleansed and have healthy eggs...i wish you all the best of luck & love on this journey we are on 💜💜💜 ill let you know if the drink has worked 😘

  • @sabrinamason9940
    @sabrinamason9940 3 года назад +18

    I pray your finger nails are white real soon.💜

  • @54601nina
    @54601nina 3 года назад +2

    Hi shay! I just ran across your channel and listened to your testimony and I'd like to say you're a beautiful person regardless of what others may think. Thank you for sharing your story with the masses. Your confidence is amazing. God knows what your heart desires and he's gonna give you all of it. You're young love. Your time is definitely coming. You will have your bundle of joy one day. Trust! Take care of everything else, relax, and enjoy life growing as one with your husband hun. ❤️

  • @thebaddestdiva57
    @thebaddestdiva57 3 года назад +1

    Shay God gone bless you with a baby msn just keep praying and believing. He will come through for you and Jay ❤️. I don’t know much about PCOS but thank you for educating me and many us. You’re beautiful it’s going to happen when it’s time. 🙏🏾 26 is so young girl God got you!

  • @TerriaJanee
    @TerriaJanee 3 года назад +7

    Shay, I have PCOS and so does my sister. PCOS affects every woman differently. My sister does struggle with facial hair, but I do not. My sister also goes through long time frames without her period, whereas I sometimes have heavy periods. We both struggle with losing weight.
    Metformin is known to cause nausea, but it can be helpful for a lot of women with PCOS.
    I heard that low carbs do help, but low carbs just isn’t something for me. I have decided to cut out red meats.
    Best of luck to you ❤️

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      thank you. yeah ima try different things to see what works for me

  • @tamparedd813
    @tamparedd813 3 года назад +3

    God bless you Shay 💗. I know a few women who have this condition as well with the same symptoms. I believe you will get pregnant when god sees fit. I also thought I couldn't get pregnant and my son is now 14. Don't cry 😉 God knows best and I've seen women twice your size who've had children. Stay Blessed and I wish you the best💞💯😇💞

  • @erynbri
    @erynbri 3 года назад +1

    Aww shay I’m sending you a virtual hug babes 🤗 I hate to see you cry....you’re so sweet and God’s got u.

  • @VeganNita
    @VeganNita 3 года назад

    Ok I had to stop this Video. Shaayyyy..Girrrrl!!!!! You are so damn transparent. Damn..Damn...Damn!!!! I have to say that's why I love you! You are helping me to become more open and that's saying alot. I dont have PCOS but I feel you. Just know that you got this and we got you....thank you for this video you are a BLESSING 💜💜💜💜💜💜

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      💜💜💜💜I appreciate the support

  • @sheltinajackson7291
    @sheltinajackson7291 3 года назад +4

    Hey Shay, I've been dealing with facial hair all my life, I really haven't had issues getting pregnant. However I had premature births, 3 in total 2 living children. With God all things are possible and Im going to pray for you, Im 50 now and you inspire me, ur so brave and very encouraging. I can't help to say I love you. Losing weight is a great alternative and Im on metformin and yes it sucks also Im a diabetic. I wish you would start a weight lose journey and I will and Im sure others will join you. I also need surgery already has had 2 one being a total hysterectomy. Im experiencing so much physically I can't believe it. But anyway I love you and please be encouraged as you have encouraged so many of us. I have so much to say but I'm not patient with texting 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ you will have a baby It going to happen. God bless you 😘😘😘

  • @countesslove1752
    @countesslove1752 3 года назад +6

    Shay, every single human being has their cross to carry. Some can slack from carrying their cross from time to time, some has to carry it on a daily basis. But we all have human issues. Rather it’s cosmeceuticals, or diseases, or deformities, blind, deaf, etc. let me tell you a true encounter that happen last Month. You are not barren....I saw you pregnant. I didn’t say anything about it then because I wasn’t told to. [ I normally give readings upon request ]....when I asked Great Spirit the child sexuality, I saw your husbands face. You will definitely have a child, because the good Lord has revealed....and all the years that I’ve walked with him, he has proven his Glory. Rest assure my sister, your time is close by. Prayer changes things and GOD changes people. Blessing Be Upon Thee and Thy Seed🕯

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +4

      omg I love that❤️🙏🏾🥰I’m speechless

  • @mspurple7765
    @mspurple7765 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this my beautiful Queen Shay. Don't redo I love the video. Stay safe and blessed Queen

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      ☺️😊Thank you for listening

  • @alishavirgo
    @alishavirgo 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your story! You have a community and are not alone!

  • @tracysykes2995
    @tracysykes2995 3 года назад +8

    Hi Shay try washing your face with Ambi soap its good for discoloration I use it as well. and pat dry don't scrub

  • @Tori_Sunshine
    @Tori_Sunshine 3 года назад +5

    ♥️💯🙏🏽Notification Squad... Self Love/Pampering Time With Shay💯♥️You’d Be A Phenomenal Mother🙏🏽💯♥️

  • @akelahcharles
    @akelahcharles 3 года назад +1

    Hey boo... don't worry god's blessings is on the way to you❤ everything will work out for you just the way you wat it to... keep the faith boo💜 we love you❤

  • @lindseygore4588
    @lindseygore4588 3 года назад +1

    Your such a beautiful person shay!!!!!!!!
    Loves you!!!!

  • @trustjesus9790
    @trustjesus9790 3 года назад +10

    Hey Shay. I really like that you are so Honest about your life. You are so truly awesome. I know a lady that has trouble with her hormones also and she is self conscious, because people say she looks like a guy in the face. She has cried alot about it, because she is complete woman. She started to Shield herself from Everybody. Have you dealt with that before? What advice can I give her. Have a Good Day.

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +2

      that’s why I would nair my face in the past cause it be no way I was gonna go out Leigh a full beard. honestly I’m not even sure when I van recall a down time but yes I do have my moments where I wanna give up but I overthink to myself and make a small change and keep pushing

    • @trustjesus9790
      @trustjesus9790 3 года назад +1

      @@PlusSizeShay Please don't give up Shay. You are here for a reason. God has a Great plan for you. I have Premature ovarian failure. I don't know if you have ever heard of that, but it's very difficult on me. I have irregular periods and my hormones be out of whack. I have to take Birth control pills to balance them. I for real need a better doctor to run more test though. I understand what you going through.

  • @crystalfrancis5977
    @crystalfrancis5977 3 года назад +26

    Girl my niece has that, she has to wax she also carries most of her weight in her stomach area they said she probably wouldn't have kids because it would be hard to conceive but she had 1 and is pregnant with the other, I love your channel Shay sorry I been such a sucky sub but a girl been so damn busy !!! Lol 😉🥰🤩😘

    • @LifehasHearts
      @LifehasHearts 3 года назад +3

      Awwww 🥰

    • @pattiamoh1136
      @pattiamoh1136 3 года назад +3

      Hi stay you look great be healthly and thankful

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад +1

      congrats to your sister! auntie Shay & crystal in the house. don’t trip life gets busy

    • @crystalfrancis5977
      @crystalfrancis5977 3 года назад

      @@PlusSizeShay yeah crazily bleeping busy when I get a free moment I swear I am yawning lol..

  • @Tboogiewitdabun
    @Tboogiewitdabun 3 года назад +1

    GIRL! Your nails ALWAYS ON POINT! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💯💯

  • @racistsbegone7215
    @racistsbegone7215 3 года назад +1

    You are one of the realest, truest, and most beautifullest person I know and I really mean that, you are necessary, as I have family members that go through this, Thank you!

  • @galanisgallegos
    @galanisgallegos 3 года назад +3

    👑Shay, thank you for having the courage to speak on an important topic that affects you and so many women. Having a child does not define you as a woman. Your desire to have a child will happen at the right time. God will bless you when the time is right. Please consider consulting with a Holistic Doctor who can guide you with Ayurvedic process. Also, highly recommend Acupuncture. Shay, it really works and can help you either with the weight loss and PCOS. As for the facial hair, laser works. It will permanently remove the hair and prevent it from growing back after a few sessions. While you wait for the baby, continue loving yourself and staying empowered. As a woman, I understand completely. We all go through so much. You have a sisterhood of women here that love and support you without judgements. Perhaps part of the journey for your You Tube channel is to be a voice for women and together we empower each other. Your beautiful inside and out and we’re here for you💛💛

  • @christianrobinson8862
    @christianrobinson8862 3 года назад +6

    Hey Shay! I'm getting an electrolysis consultation this weekend. I'm nervous because they say it hurts like heck but I want this hair gone!

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      update me! I’ll be sure to take you with me when I go

  • @Grace-mg6ql
    @Grace-mg6ql 3 года назад +1

    Your so inspiring Phenomenal Woman I love your appreciation for Life and How you love and respect yourself great role model may God continue to Bless you and yours! This is REAL Relatable and allowed us to truly see how genuine you are.💯

  • @sexyp3640
    @sexyp3640 3 года назад +2

    Awww babe you had me crying. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. I’m praying that your able to get those white nails 😘 You are gonna be a great mother. I wish you the best. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @thegypsyleo6
    @thegypsyleo6 3 года назад +3

    Hey love i had pcos was told i wouldnt have children..i had to do a complete lifestyle change stopped eating meat started exercising daily 1 hr a day and added red raspberry leaf tea along with flax seeds and vitex vitamins to my diet and BAM i got pregnant i now have a 7yr old..so dont cry love bug you got this it will just take a lifestyle change ❤❤❤in the meantime ill send my 7yr old over you can have him 😂🤗

  • @galanisgallegos
    @galanisgallegos 3 года назад +9

    Shay, forgot to mention in the below message, to consider having an internal sonogram. It reveals a lot more and is more precise. The only discomfort is pressure as the probe goes fairly deep, but it’s very accurate. It’s better than any other kind of sonogram. Also, as an additional option, you can also consider freezing your eggs so that, should all else fail, you and Jay can have children that are biologically yours. You have a lot of time...don’t worry. God will bless you with a bundle of joy at the right time.🙏🦋💛

  • @MrsRichards77
    @MrsRichards77 3 года назад +1

    You are so beautiful inside and out.. Much love and respect to you Queen. God's going to make it happen!❤❤❤❤💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @AngelWingz81
    @AngelWingz81 3 года назад +1

    Awe Shay I wish I could give you a big hug. You had me in tears girl. Just keep doing what you're doing I pray that you are blessed with the family that you want.💜 I also suffer with PCOS...you are not alone💜💜💜💜💜 And no you shouldn't redo this video.

  • @blancheelizabethdevereaux4620
    @blancheelizabethdevereaux4620 3 года назад +5

    Pcos feels like a curse..not being able to have a child makes me feel less than but i pray fertility on us both Shay

  • @mrslivinginhope
    @mrslivinginhope 3 года назад +3

    You made me cry. I really want you to have your baby😢
    Talk to your OB-Gyn about clomid or Femara, it helps with ovulation. Also they can do IUI with you to help the process of having a baby.
    Hoping you get pregnant, have a great pregnancy, safe delivery and healthy baby🙏🏾

  • @stxlady1
    @stxlady1 3 года назад +1

    Girl I know exactly what you are going through, I am 53 and suffers from PCOS also. I dont have the darkening of the skin..Ive never been pregnant, until i tried IVF and it turned out to be ectopic . i then decided to be childless. My periods were the worst, heavy cramping and clots. At one point I bled for an entire month. it contributed to me being anemic .I had cysts on my ovaries and decided a few years ago to have a hysterectomy. Im doing great, have a loving husband who totally understands and support me..Oh and ive been married to him almost 20 years. Dont cry, It can be hard to deal with at times. but my sisters kids basically became mines, Im known as second mom. There is so much more to life than for me to worry about this one thing. Love you so much, now I know why.Be blessed!

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay  3 года назад

      oh wow. I’m glad you have a loving husband and he’s been with you thru it all. happy 20 years plus & blessings

  • @MsAsheeraA
    @MsAsheeraA 3 года назад +1

    Your story touched me so much. I cried watching this. God will bless me with your heart's desire.