Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited) Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> urlgeni.us/MCTSJORE2DS Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
What stood out for me was creating safety within myself. Beautiful teachings to look within. I’m not sure how that will re attract AT ALL but I think these concepts will bring good things in life
I think a nice way of analogizing resistance would be that let’s say ur about to cross a wooden bridge u have never crossed before or one that broke before , what’s the first thing ull do ? Ull place half a step and put pressure down on the bridge to see if it breaks down or not and then ull start walking on it . That pressure is the same as giving resistance it’s just our natural subconscious way of making sure is this thing gonna break or stay stable and that applies to personality and behavior changes too
@@GeoffreySetiawanit was great! It felt very motivating to listen to. Seeing other people get success from the work helps me know I’m following the right process
Right, it's just like we say, no situation is unique! If we become irreplaceable, and can build the 5 pillars better than anyone else, then isn't it obvious that they'll literally FLY BACK to us?
Some women don’t like to be reflected. They then see their flaws and then think you are pointing them out in her. Some don’t want it solved because that means they have to move forward.
Something for you to think about... If your boss at work thought you were only there to get paid and just wanted to be lazy, would you feel inspired to put out your best work for him? He might say things like this to his pals, "He's just one of THOSE types of employees..." If you were to hear and feel this every day at work, wouldn't you start searching for a better job? What if this better job paid you really well, had a safe/positive work culture that helped you learn from any/all mistakes, and helped you advance your career? What option would you choose? What option would you feel excited for? Be loyal to? --- In the same way, is it that the women in your life don't want to be reflected or is that they don't want to be reflected by YOU? Because you make so many negative assumptions about them, about who women are... Maybe, just maybe, they NEVER can feel safe and maybe they do like to be reflected... But maybe, they don't just like to be reflected by YOU because you make them feel so unsafe... What do you think?
Genuine question: why are you here, watching this video? It's not like Geoffrey's a super big channel that's going to be recommended, you kind of have to search him out. From your comment it seems like you don't really want to reconcile with your partner (I assume you're going through a breakup of some sort, just because you're here, but maybe I'm wrong). Why waste your time watching videos that will help you "get her back" so to speak?
@@anthonymiller8365 Funny thing, I spend less than 5% of my time focusing on my business as a “business” (eg. Selling and caring sales). I spend 95% of my time just creating and refining a process that works, producing result for people, and the rest comes. I approach my business in a very untethered way - focus on the right processes, and the right results will come. :)
@@GeoffreySetiawanGenius on every level. Impressive - 👏 You've cracked life's toughest code! I've cracked many business success codes myself, but what you've achieved with your system and teaching is unparalleled.
@@unicron24 As many of my wealthy clients can attest, this is very far from the truth. Sure, some women are attracted to money, but the right ones are looking for something deeper. But if you are 100% your partner is this superficial, and you think so lowly of her, then it should be no wonder why she never felt safe and left!! So are you sure your partner left because you have no money? Or did she leave for some deeper reason and because she never felt safe with you?
During honeymoon period, even no money (not saying its 100% no money of course) both will still be on fire. But after few years, when death by thousand cuts slowly built up, then yes no money will be the issue, as a SIDE EFFECT. Main effect is simply bcause we as a guy are too blind to spot on our mistake because of our EGO. Put away your EGO, and you will face the harshest truth you never knew before...and beware....you heart will be trembled when your eyes are finally OPEN up .... Well at least that was what happen to me
Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> urlgeni.us/MCTSJORE2DS
Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
I always feel so enlightened when I watch your content. In these interviews especially recently, each section should be studied!
What stood out for me was creating safety within myself. Beautiful teachings to look within. I’m not sure how that will re attract AT ALL but I think these concepts will bring good things in life
Yes another banger!!! I love this!! Keep this up bro Geoffrey 🔥🔥🔥🔥 the best lifestyle coach on RUclips 🔥🔥🔥
1:04:28 -> discussing differences .
1:25:08 -> The equal blame illusion.
1:02:40
00:12:13 -> The paradox of self defense
00:20:15 -> The solution
01:09:58 -> Watter🌊
I think a nice way of analogizing resistance would be that let’s say ur about to cross a wooden bridge u have never crossed before or one that broke before , what’s the first thing ull do ? Ull place half a step and put pressure down on the bridge to see if it breaks down or not and then ull start walking on it . That pressure is the same as giving resistance it’s just our natural subconscious way of making sure is this thing gonna break or stay stable and that applies to personality and behavior changes too
I 100% identify with what Geoff said about trying to fix misunderstandings. I need to hold on to that so I can do better with creating safety.
Another week! Another day to learn!
Let's go!!
When you finish the video, let me know what you learned that blew your mind :)
@@GeoffreySetiawanit was great! It felt very motivating to listen to. Seeing other people get success from the work helps me know I’m following the right process
Right, it's just like we say, no situation is unique!
If we become irreplaceable, and can build the 5 pillars better than anyone else, then isn't it obvious that they'll literally FLY BACK to us?
Some women don’t like to be reflected. They then see their flaws and then think you are pointing them out in her. Some don’t want it solved because that means they have to move forward.
Something for you to think about...
If your boss at work thought you were only there to get paid and just wanted to be lazy, would you feel inspired to put out your best work for him?
He might say things like this to his pals, "He's just one of THOSE types of employees..."
If you were to hear and feel this every day at work, wouldn't you start searching for a better job?
What if this better job paid you really well, had a safe/positive work culture that helped you learn from any/all mistakes, and helped you advance your career?
What option would you choose? What option would you feel excited for? Be loyal to?
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In the same way, is it that the women in your life don't want to be reflected or is that they don't want to be reflected by YOU?
Because you make so many negative assumptions about them, about who women are...
Maybe, just maybe, they NEVER can feel safe and maybe they do like to be reflected...
But maybe, they don't just like to be reflected by YOU because you make them feel so unsafe...
What do you think?
Genuine question: why are you here, watching this video? It's not like Geoffrey's a super big channel that's going to be recommended, you kind of have to search him out. From your comment it seems like you don't really want to reconcile with your partner (I assume you're going through a breakup of some sort, just because you're here, but maybe I'm wrong). Why waste your time watching videos that will help you "get her back" so to speak?
I need some help. As Im messing things up further and further I think its time I look for it. Help me bro.
If she doesn’t see potential she will look for it elsewhere. And your potential has to be online with her wants needs and security.
Would this work on someone you only went on a few dates with
Geoffrey is a very smart businessman 👏
@@anthonymiller8365 Funny thing, I spend less than 5% of my time focusing on my business as a “business” (eg. Selling and caring sales).
I spend 95% of my time just creating and refining a process that works, producing result for people, and the rest comes.
I approach my business in a very untethered way - focus on the right processes, and the right results will come. :)
@@GeoffreySetiawanGenius on every level. Impressive - 👏 You've cracked life's toughest code! I've cracked many business success codes myself, but what you've achieved with your system and teaching is unparalleled.
If you have the money. They will come back. No money they will not come back.
@@unicron24 As many of my wealthy clients can attest, this is very far from the truth.
Sure, some women are attracted to money, but the right ones are looking for something deeper.
But if you are 100% your partner is this superficial, and you think so lowly of her, then it should be no wonder why she never felt safe and left!!
So are you sure your partner left because you have no money?
Or did she leave for some deeper reason and because she never felt safe with you?
During honeymoon period, even no money (not saying its 100% no money of course) both will still be on fire. But after few years, when death by thousand cuts slowly built up, then yes no money will be the issue, as a SIDE EFFECT. Main effect is simply bcause we as a guy are too blind to spot on our mistake because of our EGO. Put away your EGO, and you will face the harshest truth you never knew before...and beware....you heart will be trembled when your eyes are finally OPEN up .... Well at least that was what happen to me
Yes another banger!!! I love this!! Keep this up bro Geoffrey 🔥🔥🔥🔥 the best lifestyle coach on RUclips 🔥🔥🔥
Thanks :)
Don't forget to let me know what "bangers" do you discovered by the end of this video!
@@GeoffreySetiawan will do brother!!