Girls, Don't Run Away to Get Married | Dr. Tanu Ma'am & Richa Anirudh's Powerful Advice
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What rubbish! When father is doctor, there is no "gareebi"
Jinke pass paisa power hai wahi jyada struggle kiye hote h😅😅😅😅😅
Uss time ke govt job wale doctors ki limited earning hoti thi. Don't compare with today's pvt sector doctors😅 Plus they must have had other children to take care of too. Married daughter could only get ltd amount!
@@shrsingh8848 nautanki baaz hain dono yaar, ignore karo chu***** ko ...
Main ak ldki hu mera bs ak hi spna hai ki mujhe bs maa papa ko sb kuch khrid ke de sku aur kuch nhi❤
Same yaar
1992 mai jo aapke mom dad ki soch usse bhi bekar soch hai hamare ghr ki 2024 mai ....
They say... Shadi krani bs ... Sasural wale career ke liye mane toh thik wrna koi baat nhi.... Kitchen ke kaam aapko poore aane chahiye .... Bahar akele tum nhi ja skti even school clg ke alawa gyi bhi nhi kbhi akele ....
But still i have decided mai krungi apne aim ko achieve i want freedom .... I will fight for my dreams untill i win😊😊
Tum apni freedom ko hasil kr logi 🕉️bs yaad rkhna hamesha ki kuch bhi ho jaye kuch bhi SAPNE DEKHNA KBHI MAT CHODNA LADKI🫂Be a butterfly 🦋apne cocoon se khud himmat krk bahar niklo aasaman besabri se intezar krra h ki kb tum udo aur is khubsurat duniya ko experience kro 🎉good luck 🤞
Bahut si ladkiyan aesa hi karti hai, pehle job aur career banane ke naam par bahar nikalti hain phir dusre mardo ke sath extramarital affairs me pad jaati hain.
Bahut baar toh bechare husband ko pata bhi nahi chalta.
Kai cases toh maine aese bhi sune hai jisme ladki kisi aur purush se pregnant ho gayi aur uske husband ko pata bhi nahi.
Agar extramarital affairs ho pata chal jaaye tab bhi koi khaas problem nahi. Lekin ye jo mamla hai ki bachcha kisi aur ka hai aur purush ko pata hi nahi ye bahut hi bura hai kisi bhi purush ke sath.
Inhi sab reasons ki wajah se purush apni wife ko job karwana pasand nahi karte.
@@lifeislearninglearningisli7929 lyf ko jis nazar se dekhoge waise hi paoge, tum mat krna job , khana dusro ki kamai, aur jb dusro k liye krkr k mar jana toh sunna ki tumne kra hi kya h Mere tukdo p pal ri ho... Ek insan yha kya baat krra aur tum who ever u are apni faltu kahaniya lekr chali aayi .. tum mat krna job itta hi bura lgta h un purusho k liye toh jao bta do un pursho ko kyuki har rishte m sch janne ka haq sabka hota h aur usse bhi phle jao thoda padhai likhai kro, educate kro khud ko , yha kitti hazaro ldkiya h jo sb kuch krri h jaise tumhare ghar ki maa masi chachi toh bahar ki ladkiyo ko kuch bolne se phle example bhi dekho Jo tumhare ghar m h aur ghar m hi galat h toh shyd phle apne ghar ko aur khud ko soch ko sahi kro
@@lifeislearninglearningisli7929 kisi or male ka bcha???? Yha dono jimmedar nhi h male bhi or female bhi???? Fir male ko bhi ghar me rhna chahiye,, koi ghar se bahr jao hi mt .....
Jo sch me struggle krta h vo ye sb cheap hrkte nhi krte,,or jisko thode se efforts se kuch mil jata h vo udne lg jata h......
Or esa kse ho skta h jb male ko pta hi nhi ki uski wife kisi or se pregnant h???? Hadd nhi h ye ekdm????
Or sirf vhi male apni female ko job krwana psnd nhi krte jo unhe sirf wife smjhte h .....
Jisne aardhangini maana h vo hr vo kosis krenge use develop krne ki......
Jo cheap h unka koi kuch nhi kh skta,,, or cheap male or female dono hote h.....
U r gd didi life Mai khudki dream pura karna bhi jaruri hai 😊❤stay blessed stay strong nd stay positive
Ye baat sahi h larko/larkiyan dono ko pehle hi clear kar dena chahiye ki aap apne parents ke against nhi jaoge...varna ajkal to log 10 saal bhi kisi ke sath relationship me reh lete h sare jhuthe promises karke and last me family nhi maan rahi or caste different h ka drama karke kisi or se shadi kar lete h... pehle hi clear rakho taki insan pehle hi soch le ki relationship aage badhani h ki nhi itne saal relationship me rehne ke baad achnk se pata nhi logo ko maa baap or caste kaise dikhne lag jata h
Jab man bhar jata h na saamne wale ka to use vo sab bhi dikhne lag jata hai jo hai b nh
Exactly 💯
Aise bol rahi hain jese ladki hi bhagti hai😂😂😂 bhagane wala to ladka hota hai. Agar ladka bhagane ko raazi na ho to ladki kese bhagegi?? Thoda dimag to use kr lo madam. Sab dosh ladkiyon ko dena thik nahi hai. Aur arranged marriage karne wali ladkiya koi teer nahi maar le rahi hain na unko koi medal mil raha din raat sabki gaaliya taane sun kr. Me to kahti hu jo chahe wo karo bs apne ko financially strong banao. Financially independent ladki ladke se koi panga nahi leta. Sab aage pichhe ghumte hain. Bas apni study se apni career se samjota mt karna. Ladka chhor do shadi chhor do lekin independence kabhi bhi nahi kisi ke liye nahi. Hamesha khush rahogi/rahoge. Pese se khushi kharidi ja sakti hai. Reality ko samjho. Apna khyal rakho baaki log apna khyal rakh lenge 😊
Arrange marriage karne wale teer nhi maar leti koi bhi but sabko chordh k baagh Jana bhi bohot badha risk hota h ...ek tarah se aap anath he ho jauge aur bass ek he ensaan k attention sab kuch hoga aur kya guarantee vo bohot saara attention de aur aapk sath bohot accha rehe pariyo k kahaniya k tarah....baat love aur arrange marriage k nhi h but jaha bhi kamse kamm Aisa toh nhi hona chahiye k aap bass ek he cheez pe etana dependents ho k agla wala fayda le uthe
@@tabassumansari1956 wo aapki situation kesi hai aap dekh ke decision lo. Agar family supporting hai to fir sath le kr chalo nahi to bye bye 😇 jyadatr ladkiyon ko bojh samjha jata hai kuki uska kamaya pesa lene me family walo ko sharm aati hai. Ladki kamaye na kamaye family ko koi fark nhi pdta. Ladki ki aankhe tb khulti hain jab shadi ke baad us pr atyachar shuru hota hai aur ladke ki aankhe tab khulti hain jab kharcha uthane wala koi nahi hota. Dono ko independent hona chahiye tabhi family chal sakegi. Ek pahiye se gaadi nahi chalti. Dono ko majboot hone ki jarurat hai. Agar aapke paas pesa hai to sabko isase bohot fark pdega ki aap kaha shadi kr rahe hai ya kr rahi hain. Log aapke nahi aapke pese ke pichhe bhagte hain. Agar aap kisi kaam ke nahi hain to kisi ko koi fark nhi pdta. Apna pesa chhipa ke rakho. Aur jo vishwas ke layak ho samjho bs wahi family hai. Aapne aap se puchho ki bure waqt me kisne aapka saath diya bs uske sath ho lo. Yaha koi apna nahi hai. Jisne bhi dhoka diya usko chhor do.
@@tabassumansari1956to arrange merriage krne wali ladkiyo k konse parents puchne ate h😂..kayi to sasural me maar di jati vo alag😅..or dahej b lekr jati h maabaap ka jivan bhar ki ponji 😂..sachi me bhoj hoti h arranged marriage wali girls..
Podcast was good but sabke parents apke parents ke jaise nahi hote you are very lucky
Kuch parents aise hote hai jinhe apne bacche se thora bhi matlab nhi hota aur naahi unhe ek percent support karte hai ssabki apni apni struggle h
It's my earnest request,🙏 to all the parents please don't differentiate between gender. In my family, we are two daughters but our parents never look us in that way. Now, I'm in teaching profession and recently i have told them about my relationship and they asked me only one question tum khush ho uske sath to hume koi problem nai your happiness only matter for us. Really they understand me alot, they are my best friends... My mentor, My parents❤
Very nice and fruitful conversation...we want full video of ma'am ❤❤😊
U should tell to boys also.. doesn't boys have the parents?being officers be equal in gender... don't do stereotypes
Dear bo keh rhi hn k bo shadi jrur krengi lekin bhag ke or ma baap ko bejjti krke nhii , that means boys should make effort k bo mnaye family ko ldki ki afterall grl jaati h ldke k ghr naaaaki ldkaaaa ldki k ghr jata hhhh
@@ashutoshdyhit bat krna to seekh lo phle ,,,,
Madam aapne dhratal nhi dekha ladkiyon ki padhai chhudakar Saadi kar di jati hai unki .unki marji ke khilaaf .Jo bachche bheekh mangte hai maa baap unke bhi hote hai.jruri nhi maa baap h to shi hi honge
@@chetanyadav5293 exceptions always exist..... Wo overall baat kr rhe..... Sabse zada duniya mai koi caring hota toh maa baap hi hote for maximum population
Aapne jo kha vo sab sahi hai but thinking change hui hai bde shero me hui hai chote gavo me aaj bhi esa hi hal yha aaj bhi hr choti choti chizo ke liye rona hi pdta
Bohot asan hota hai ye sab kehna jab aapke parents thoda samjhane se maan jate hai... Jab koi thrill nahi hota.. same economic background ho to bohot easily parents maan jate hai... Lekin ye gyan tab do tab aap kiso aise ladke se shadi karna chaho jo itna ameer nahi hai... Tab aap ke maa baap kya bolte hai.... Aur 25 saal unhone paala ye to kitni faltu baat hai... Bacche to nahi ate maa baap ke paas hame paida karo... Upkar kyo jatate hai... Aur aap jaise log ye sab promote bhi karte hai... Maa baap bhagwan hote hai to itna darte ku hai samaj se ye bhi batao
Right bro
In logo ki family maan gyi aur achhe background se h toh gyan de rhi h
What if parents nhi maan rhe irrelevant base pe like caste, income etc wo conservative h toh unke liye apni zindgi barbaad krle insaan ?
Aur kr v li kisi se arrange marriage
Toh kon hoga responsible us galat shaadi ke liye bcz that would be like buying a lottery ticket
@@Solo_soul100 tb parents bol denge ye kismt h tumhari,,, hmne to acha hi dekha h .....
Ajib log h .....
Jiski responsibility le usse krwate jor aata h,, or jisse khud krwate h uski responsibility lete inko jor aata h......
they are not talking about toxic parents, otherwise majority of parents wants good for their children
@@prabha6886 but that "good" should fit in irrelevant societal biases.
Right bro 👍
Richa mam
Aapke families m koi problem ni thi
Aapne khud hi bola
Dono families ek dusre ko jaanti thi
Ldka ldki parents k against jaakr shadi isliye hi karte hain
Kuki ghr ka mahol esa hota h
Rahi baat parents ka take care
To wo to krenge hi
Par ghr wale maante hi ni h
Maarne marne pr utaru hote h
To bacche ky mar jaayein
Aapki mom ki baat zabrdast h
Kash Sare log yahi bole
Inke papa doctor h or inki Nani principal fir bhi apni beti ko or apni patni ko itna suffer krne diye ki unko tiffin survice or tuition padhna pda ??
Court marriage krke jisko bhagna h ... Bhagiye But please 1year ussi city/ town me rahiye janha aapke Maa papa rhte h ...
Taki aap bhi vo sb baate or tane face kre jo aapke jane ke baad aapki puri family face krti h
Or han bhagne ke baad papa ko call krne ke bjaay other family members ko inform kr dena taki vo aapke papa ko preshan na kre ... Dhanywaad 🙏🙏
Bhagna h hi q???? Ldo jb tk ld skte ho,,, or ydi kuch nhi ho rha dn accept ur destiny,,,,,
I feel so proud seeing both your comments
It's rt time to start preparations for UPSC
Lucky to have such family ❣️❣️🥲
Nice❤
Same thing Mai ye hi manti thi ki parents ke against nahi jaana hai
मैं आपकी बात से पूरी तरह सहमत हूं और मैं खुद भी यही मानती हूं कि हमारे जीवन में माता पिता का स्थान सबसे ऊपर है। 😊
I don't totally agree with Richa mam...what about when a boy will accept the package ....girl should also accept the package of a boy.....ki jaise ladki apne parents ko priority degi..unka dhyaan rakhegi....shadi k baad bhi ..
To ladka ki bhi priority apni maa ki hogi...fir ladki ye na kahe .ladka badal gya shaadi k baad pehle bada pyaar jatata tha .ab to maa maa maa karta hai..mere upar to dhyaan hi nhi deta...
Things should be accepted from both the side
Very true, thanks for writting
Nice line ❤
N sbke parents aapke jese h n sb bache aapke jese
South Indian ❤❤❤
Tqs fr uploading this video ❤😊
Am now with zero knowledge about that
2:43 लड़किया खुद तो नही भागती है 😊
Superb🙌
😊😊
Pyaar karo par parents ke against nahi jaana chahiye
Sare parents se request h ya hon vale parents dowry (Dahej)ke liye mat sochiye beti ko achhi discipline ke sath education dijiye health ko v bete ke tarah nutrition dijiye vo badi hoke khud independent hoke apne liye achhe bridegroom choose kr legi with family understand ❤❤
Kisi exam ko crack karne se ye proof nhi hota ki aapko duniya ke sabhi topics/issues par sahi knowledge hai, Sab ki situation same nhi hoti.
Aur hame kaise pta ki aap personal life me bhi successful hai, Ab camera ke samne koii batayga thodi na ki meri family life kaisi chal rhi hai.
Ultimate goal toh achchi aur peaceful life jeene ka hai, na ki mene shadi kaise kari ye batana, kisi ki arrange marriage achchi chalti hai toh kisi ki love marriage aur koi bina shaadi ke bhi khush rhta hai, aur galat decision se aapki life kharab hogi na ki parents ki.
Aur itna padhne likhne ke baad bhi aap kisi issue ko society ke nazariye se dekhti ho toh phir kya phayada.
Aur tanu mam, kisi ideal interview/podcast me guest se counter questions kiye jate hai na ki unki har baat me ha me ha milakar hansi- tahake lagaye jate hai. Uske liye toh Ranveer allahabadiya hi kaphi hai.
Bhot shi kaha aapne
Mam am 23 years old
25 saal palne se woh hamesha right pair nahi choose kar sakte.aise hota toh divorce hi nahi hote ma'am
Ha mam aapne bahut sahi kahan , mai bhi aaj ayhin sochti hun , kash mujhe bhi meri maa ne a hi kahan hota , mai 30+hun , mai marryd hun or mai bhi ahi sochti hun ,abhitak mai sragal kr rhi hun , Sadi se jyada jaruri self depened bnnna jyada jaruri hai❤❤❤ i like you mam both of you
Dii apki shadi ho gyi .. meri nhi huyi but main family ko smjhakr thak gyi hu .. unka khna h unhone 2023 diya h job le leni chahiye thi ..
Nhi to bad me lgni hogi lg jayegi .. sbko apni responsibility Li PDI h bs .. apko lg rha h ki apko phle pta hota to ap family ko shyd mna leti ..pr mujhe in future is baat ka afsos nhi rhega ki maine smjhaya nhi .. bht smjhaya .. sbke tane sune .. bht bura bura bola b h gussse mein main accept krti hu .. pr main kya krun mujhe shadi nhi krni abhi dii 😔😔
@@shivi7948 mere bhi family aisi hi thi ,meri jabardasti Sadi hue, Sadi ke bad padae karna bahut jyada muskil hota h , ab meri mummy papa ko bura lgta h meri sadi karke puchhta rhe h ,pr ab kya fayda ,
@@shivi7948 padae kro or job le lo
Me too
Is generation ka kuch nahi ho sakta, yeh apne ma baap ko ek second me chhod sakte hain apne love ke liye, jeevan me kabhi sacrifice kiya nahi hai inhone. Woh alag baat hai ki jiske saath kasame wade khate hain wahin inko dhokha de de tab akal aati hai.
Meri bhi love marriage hai pr Mai aur mere husband ne bhi decide Kiya tha ki hum Ghar se nahi jayenge aur court marriage bhi nahi karenge
Agar kisi ke parants nhi mane kisi sahi insaan ke liye bo bhi ego or caste samaj to kya kare insaan😂
Mnao ldo jhgdo koshish kro but don't leave your love ... Zindgi bhr ka regret 😊 good luck
Dont follow her useless gyan bro
Parents ki baat man lo
Aap galat chije promote kar rhi h😊
Change your teachings. Live for world.
Agar achi Kashi job hai,aur ek 2sre afas mai supported hai,sach mai pyar hai to ye caste,height, colour,age kuch maine nehi rakhti....sabse important hai ek secure job,bas wahi kafi hai.aur achii parents wo hai jo bachoo ki khusi chahata hai.humare kolkata bengal mai sabhi parents open minded hai,isse kuch farak nehi padti yaha pe.aur job pakar vi jab app arrenge marriage karne ke baad vi khus nehi reh paogay tab dur dur tak koi khusi nehi de payegay apko.
18 saal me hi affair😢
Pickles available madam
🤦
Sabse dumbest idea hota hai ye. Cause jinko shadi krni hai sath rehna hai wo to puri zindagi rahenge. To do pal k liye bhag k ladki apna standard to low krhi deti hai aur sath hi sath us ladke ko v coward dikhaya jata hai. Moreover ladke ka parivar villian dikhta hai society k samne cause waise v ladki rehti to ladke walo k sath hi hai.
Parents ko fuslane wale relatives hote hai.
😂
Bakwas log hai, never believe in these tule of people
Half knowledged
Specify why you're saying it's half knowledge. If you have knowledge, explain properly when you spread hate
@@naruto11212 I am not spreading hate dear, I am just saying that they have not mentioned the different other perspective which are also very common in our India.
If they are discussing something, and uploading it online, then must discuss the max. Perspective because as we all know, they are our teachers and everyone just consciously and subconsciously believing all they said, and apply in their own particular situations same to same. Every individual have very different and a very unique situation and environment in his/ her life.
And madams have discussed a situation where their parents are educated, and yes it's good that everyone must respect the parents decisions, but there are places where daughters are get married in a very young age to toxic people by the parents because they are illiterate and don't know what is right and they also not at all listens to girls points who has got some primary education etc.
Yes, the comment was some jyada hi straight forward, my mistake.
I will delete it don't worry.
@@SoniyaChoudhary9205no need to delete you are absolutely correct… there are many perspectives for each n every issue
I made my parents to make all lands property on my name and they made also 😌 now they can't say anything to me now I can control them 😌
Tum jab ma banogi tab tum samjhogi
@@tabassumansari1956 jab main maa banungi I will be like western mom who gives independence to their children and not like Indian parents who put nose in children personal life too😌🙏🏻
@@tabassumansari1956 Indian parents should learn to give space to their children and give them independence
Indian parents lack this qualities 😌
@@Khushi-6696ya true and Indian children also understand that parents property is parents right not children like in western.
@@Shabana.mansuri Indian parents ever give any property to daughters??? If they don't ask ? Or fight for it ?? but yes sons get property even if they don't ask why????becoz Indian parents are cheap third class parents who only love son and don't want daughter 😌
ladkiyan jab khud maa banti hain, tabhi unhe samajh mein aata hai... khud ki maa maa hai aur husband se expect krengi ki chhor de apni maa ko... Ek baat jaan lo, ladko/men, aap sab se keh raha hoon, kisi ladki ke liye chaahe kuch bhi ho jaaye, kuch bhi, apne maa baap ko mat chhorna... Agar tumhaare maa baap haan bole tabhi haan kro, agar mana kr de to unhi ki baat maanke aage badho... Maa baap ke sivaay kisi ke saamne mat jhuko, ye nahi ki lage huye hain, tujhme rab dikhta hai, ye sab bakwaas se door raho...
Agar in laws narcissist ho tab
@@Sap25122 pehle is jawab tum do, ladki ho??
aur agar ho, to jawab do, agar ladki ke maa baap narcissist hain ya ye kahen ki chu**** / kam -eeney hain, to ladki ko kya karna chahiye?
@@Sap25122 saanp sungh gaya hai lagg rha hai