Storytime: I Met My Husband in Haiti

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

Комментарии • 106

  • @edelefrancois4230
    @edelefrancois4230 2 года назад +27

    Hi Rutty, your story is very similar to mine. I too met my husband in Haiti while visiting my grandmother. Yes, Haitian families can be very protective of their girls. No matter how old you are. We've been married for 20 years now and you are inspiring us to follow our dreams of moving back to Haiti when our daughter graduates college. Thanks for sharing

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      Congrats on 20 years of marriage!! 🎉

    • @edelefrancois4230
      @edelefrancois4230 2 года назад +1

      Thanks. God has been good to us.

  • @valerieazor1719
    @valerieazor1719 2 года назад +20

    I'm rolling how focused you were on 1992. As you know I met my husband in Haiti and he was born in 92. He was hesitant to tell me his age because he thought I would have a problem with it. If I focused on age I would've missed out on love. And lord parents...don't get me started. If I listened to my parents I would of again missed out on love. Both my parents apologized to my husband for not accepting him for me in the beginning, they love him.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад +1

      Girl not me😅…well not at 24 at least. I still had enough time to look for love. I would have just been on to the next lol

  • @Heyjayy-k4q
    @Heyjayy-k4q 2 года назад +61

    Any Haitian woman who has made it to the point of marriage has jumped hell and high water to get to that point because our families literally try to sabotage it 😫😂until they realize it’s a real relationship. .. they want us to eventually get married but they despise dating. Lol.. can totally relate. Great story!

  • @thevoltairefamily
    @thevoltairefamily 2 года назад +21

    Girl, I know exactly what you talking about, it doesn't matter how old you are sometimes your family acts like you're a teenager it's a Haitian thing I guess.you’re doing amazing with your channel keep up the good work 🇭🇹.

    • @annepierre-joseph2713
      @annepierre-joseph2713 2 года назад +4

      It's not a Haitian thing lol it's all the Caribbean people all the foreigners thing lol I'm telling you I met my husband in Haiti myself in 2010 after high-school omg just like she say my family my mom omg they give me hell it came to the point where I was coming to haiti to visit him without my parents knowing love is love

  • @yanmck-sam5472
    @yanmck-sam5472 2 года назад +12

    Rutty this was the cutest story. ❤️Sometimes we have to step out for love.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      💛💛💛

  • @KingSolomon-n4f
    @KingSolomon-n4f Год назад +1

    What an inspiring story full of lessons. Watching you all the way from Ghana. Keep up the good work, my good friend and sister. 🙏

  • @pascaledixon
    @pascaledixon 2 года назад +8

    Great story. One of my most adventurous relationships was with a guy I dated in haiti. We were living the life. One day in Port au Prince, the next day in Cap Haitian. We had long summer nights in Jacmel and toured the Citadel in Milo. Good times. Once we started dating in America everything changed. The stresses of life here in America does not allow you to live your best life. Anyways it was good while it lasted. Question- has Sammy ever lived in America with you before you moving to and if not, why?

  • @cestmoilouuu
    @cestmoilouuu 2 года назад +10

    WE LOVE IT HERE❤️

  • @scherilmathieu6680
    @scherilmathieu6680 Год назад +1

    I love grandma “ ti piel sèch 😂😂😂” something my grandma would say. I’m happy I fell on your channel you’ve gained another subscriber.

  • @gabriellelezin3690
    @gabriellelezin3690 Год назад +1

    Hi Rutty, I really enjoy watching your videos. Loveeee it; keep it up!

  • @lisascaribbeankitchen5482
    @lisascaribbeankitchen5482 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful story can relate so much to your experience. I'm happy you followed your heart and didn't let their initial opinions stop you.

  • @mercandog507
    @mercandog507 2 года назад +4

    I went back home pou ti zel mwen. When i tell you I’m in love? A breath of fresh energy.

  • @ELamy802
    @ELamy802 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful story ❤️. When it's right....it's right.

  • @challessajackson7166
    @challessajackson7166 Год назад +1

    Congratulations 🎊

  • @saekuto
    @saekuto 2 года назад +3

    "Ti pye ay chèch" 😂😂 granmoun sa yo hahaha!! Very nice story time, please do more 🙏🏾❤️

  • @danasadventures1194
    @danasadventures1194 2 года назад +4

    I’m a few minutes in and you’re funny 😄 thanks for sharing your love story ❤️❤️❤️🇭🇹

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching💛

  • @JWinston7
    @JWinston7 2 года назад +10

    Samy tap bay problem nan bouk la uii😂😂😂

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      😅😅😅

  • @beca9180
    @beca9180 2 года назад +2

    Great story!!!
    The story was so captivating that I ended up going to passereine, even going to gonaives bus station. Lolll, I enjoyed it.

  • @HoppyDuroseauREALESTATE
    @HoppyDuroseauREALESTATE 2 года назад +1

    I love that story

  • @anya6498
    @anya6498 Год назад +1

    Turks and Caicos 🎉😊my Home

  • @shanonbrown6170
    @shanonbrown6170 11 месяцев назад

    Girl, you are SO beautiful!! ☺🩷

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  11 месяцев назад

      Thank youuuu💗🥹

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 года назад +1

    🤣🤣🤣 you called him out “why you acting like that, you shy”

  • @djmagicfinger
    @djmagicfinger Год назад +1

    😂😂😂 funny story with your grandma 😂 li pa bat ou ?? 🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️

  • @margybernard
    @margybernard 2 года назад +1

    I know Passe reine. A beautiful, lush, serene place

  • @mlo9797
    @mlo9797 2 года назад +1

    I’m pretty sure a lot of girls in haiti understand what you are talking about i love your story ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏new subscriber

  • @brigittezamor7694
    @brigittezamor7694 2 года назад +2

    Love this story!!

  • @claybeatsonetouch
    @claybeatsonetouch Год назад +1

    I Think That A blessing To Find out that The You Were connected Since You Were Child And That You Didn't Had to force ANything, Just Let The Water Flow. Good Job Guys. Congratulation To you Guys @Samybeatz And @ruttyb

  • @bethsaidadavilma4062
    @bethsaidadavilma4062 2 года назад +6

    Awww what a beautiful story! Good to hear all Haitian kids are eventually living the same exact life when it comes to dating and relationships 😂😂

  • @f.-j.j.5738
    @f.-j.j.5738 2 года назад +7

    Aouch, your channel is bitter sweet. I'm a Gonaives/Gros-Morne girl and miss everything so much.
    I also lived a year in Cap-Haitian. Your family was right to be scared. When teens, young adults leave to go to Port-au-Prince, they have good intentions to study and make something of themselves. But sometimes things get hard, they can't make it on their own and they get recruited in gangs as a survival route.

  • @summergurl21
    @summergurl21 2 года назад +1

    Love this story 💕 Thank you so much for sharing 🙏

  • @shnidyne2804
    @shnidyne2804 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for sharing. I love your channel. It's both refreshing and inspiring. Love to see it😍😍😍

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 года назад +2

    🤣🤣🤣 the beginning is to funny

  • @tikakou92
    @tikakou92 2 года назад +1

    Love your channel ! ❤️, so glad I found it 🤗

  • @mickaelle8309
    @mickaelle8309 2 года назад +7

    Giggling and laughing as if I know the whole family 😂. Thank you for sharing!!

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      😂😂 thanks for watching!

  • @nthabelengsekhobo946
    @nthabelengsekhobo946 2 года назад +2

    What a lovely story. You definitely like me when it comes to the age thing 😂😂😂

  • @artsandadventures21
    @artsandadventures21 2 года назад +1

    Wow that’s a beautiful love story!

  • @moorfortune901
    @moorfortune901 2 года назад +2

    Both of yall families know each other well. And she held u when u was baby. Yall relationship destined to go far. Although your Big brother was Hating. 😆

  • @debz123lol
    @debz123lol Год назад

    Nice love story

  • @ruth50elidor62
    @ruth50elidor62 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your story😘

  • @delva9001
    @delva9001 2 года назад +1

    Love. The story you just married the love of your life

  • @evenatheloma5522
    @evenatheloma5522 2 года назад

    I got chilled when granma started saying kimoun ki met al? I'm thrilled when north side people talk like that

  • @ajeneebene6033
    @ajeneebene6033 2 года назад +1

    Très belle rencontre, motivante histoire d'amour 💕👏🏾
    Bonne continuation!

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      Merci!!!💛💛💛

    • @elizafelz
      @elizafelz Год назад

      Ton histoire d’amour est vraiment émouvante 🥹

  • @fabiolatimeau9601
    @fabiolatimeau9601 2 года назад

    Plasans is nice my dad family are from there

  • @sarahmordecai9931
    @sarahmordecai9931 2 года назад +4

    Tande non nap tann channel kreyòl la tande.😔😄

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад +3

      Yon chèn apa ka enteresan wi🤔 m ap reflechi sou sa.

  • @naromiesbeninche6975
    @naromiesbeninche6975 Год назад

    Well after watching a couple videos about life in Haiti. Of course I wanted some teas 😁😂.

  • @Thatbul
    @Thatbul 2 года назад +7

    I live in the U.S but I want my future wife to be Haitian.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      Yes, that video will be coming soon. I am starting a series all about moving to Haiti.

  • @RobF2593
    @RobF2593 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful Story. But sorry, I have an unrelated question. Haiti likes to measure land in "Centième", how much "quare-foot" is 1 Centième? For the life of me I cannot find it on Google.

  • @TheForefrontRadio
    @TheForefrontRadio 2 года назад

    Congrats

  • @jasminemesidor8261
    @jasminemesidor8261 2 года назад +1

    That was an interesting love story 🥰😍😘

  • @manigatkid5405
    @manigatkid5405 2 года назад +1

    Ruth, that was not your mother’s fault ,she suffered from haitian parents syndrome. We aren’t like parents from some other places who don’t care about who their kins chose for spouse . As you very well know, when you say I do, you are committed for life, and it’s hard to travel the road of life with a bag. I am glad Samy turns out to be a good husband. Otherwise, I would personally explore your world because you are a great woman.

  • @evenatheloma5522
    @evenatheloma5522 2 года назад +1

    Haitian parents you can be 100 you still gonna be their child

  • @tjules7
    @tjules7 2 года назад +2

    We were hoping to see Sammy in the video.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      Nope, lol.

    • @tjules7
      @tjules7 2 года назад

      @@ruttyb Any video of Sammy at all!

    • @gerslourdieetienne3966
      @gerslourdieetienne3966 2 года назад

      I'm the same. No matter how cute you are if you younger than me ,I feel insecured

  • @magguy3301
    @magguy3301 2 года назад +1

    NICE STORY. I M FROM PLAISANCE, LA TROUBLE TO BE EXACT

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      💛💛💛

  • @annepierre-joseph2713
    @annepierre-joseph2713 2 года назад +4

    Love don't care about 1992 sis lol my husband is older than me and I was so nervous I'm like sheeshhh homeboy is way too old for me but my heart was like nah sis I'm good right here lol 13 years strong 3 kids marry and I couldn't be happier

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад +5

      I don’t mind older, but for some reason someone younger than me (even by 1 year) bothers me. Thankfully he turned out to be born in 1991 like me😂💛

    • @annepierre-joseph2713
      @annepierre-joseph2713 2 года назад

      @@ruttyb great story I'm pretty sure 99.9% of us can relate

  • @GegeP1804
    @GegeP1804 2 года назад +1

    You almost missed your blessing because of 1 year age difference. I honestly don’t know how Haitian women gets married, parents and social expectations places so much restrictions on women dating. I’m glad you have him a chance.

  • @kickitwithtunga
    @kickitwithtunga 2 года назад

    So cute! ❤

  • @junefran2721
    @junefran2721 2 года назад +7

    Haitian parents are something else😀😀

  • @mfs1351
    @mfs1351 2 года назад

    I did not know there was such thing as advanced bus tickets in Haiti?
    Can we hear more about the live stories, wedding etc… bonne vie a deux.

  • @naromiesbeninche6975
    @naromiesbeninche6975 Год назад

    It 2 am and I am laughing so hard about ti pyay chèch😂😂😂

  • @garybrutus
    @garybrutus 2 года назад +1

    That's our Haitian parents

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 года назад

    Awesome

  • @xoxoChic0102
    @xoxoChic0102 2 года назад

    ❤ thanks for sharing! New subscriber here 🎉 🤗

  • @pretressewisesaliye
    @pretressewisesaliye Год назад

    🤣🤣🤣so familiar !

  • @karinajames4367
    @karinajames4367 Год назад

    What year were u born?

  • @sandeelexis7726
    @sandeelexis7726 2 года назад +2

    I pa gen anyen nn sof ti piay chèch 😂😂😂…

  • @naromiesbeninche6975
    @naromiesbeninche6975 Год назад

    Wow..
    What a beautiful date time. Only island people can relate 😂

  • @GrowwithNaomie
    @GrowwithNaomie 2 года назад

    Mi favorite movie lol .....

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      Mine too😂

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 года назад

    Wow his mom use to hold you as a baby, talk about full circle 🔥🎊

  • @nikalight96
    @nikalight96 2 года назад

    Turks 🇹🇨in the building you said Provo like an islander 😁

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад +1

      🇹🇨 My mom lived there my whole life. She moved to the States recently. I still have family there.

    • @nikalight96
      @nikalight96 2 года назад

      @@ruttyb that’s wassup 😁

  • @magguy3301
    @magguy3301 2 года назад

    NEW SUBSCRIBER

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад

      Welcome!!💛💛💛

  • @nadegementor8019
    @nadegementor8019 2 года назад +1

    Love is love it doesn’t matter where you meet the person, some people need to realize that. We need a part 2 to your beautiful love story. What makes you go back to Haiti to live there permanently? Why didn’t you bring him to the USA instead since there are more opportunities here in the US?

  • @SL-zh5fl
    @SL-zh5fl 2 года назад +2

    Anmweyyyyyy haitian parents loll toujou pa konn moun nan paran moun nan, map imajine figi grann ou kap di sa. Sweet love story

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад +1

      😂 se pa manti non

  • @kingdomqueen1335
    @kingdomqueen1335 2 года назад

    😂🤣

  • @stallion7012
    @stallion7012 2 года назад +2

    WOW, I thought I was going to be your husband!!!

  • @wilginepierre661
    @wilginepierre661 2 года назад

    Wow

  • @nightingaleofficial3604
    @nightingaleofficial3604 2 года назад +2

    First

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 года назад +1

      💛💛💛

  • @nadydorcelus4647
    @nadydorcelus4647 2 года назад +1

    I love this story