She said women initiate 69% of divorces based on Men's behavior. Are we still going with the flawed rhetoric that Women are innocent Angels that are constantly abused and cheated on? SMH
@@keephopealive.6059exactly. You know how many women have filed for divorce from a good man simply because she felt she could do better? Some women’s version of being done wrong is 2 vacations a year instead of 5.
"Solitude is dangerous. It’s very addictive. It becomes a habit after you realise how peaceful and calm it is. It’s like you don’t want to deal with people anymore because they drain your energy.” - Jim Carrey
it's a nice place, but should you stay there to long? Not getting pulled into a lot of other people's drama is priceless But beware🤨 they will find you and still try to get you involved in the BS😐
Seriously, cause I’m getting irked seeing her keep trying to blatantly put it on men’s behavior when a lot of women don’t take accountability. A lot of men behavior is reactionary to what the female is and has been doing in a lot of these cases. They stay trying to look innocent
20:41 THIS! I am 40 with no kids and this is A WORD! My cousin passed in 2020 after giving birth. She was 35. Birthing a child is the ultimate act of love and should never be treated lightly. Great interview TK 💙
Being a good MOTHER is the ultimate act of love. Pregnancy is not an accomplishment and humans are wired to make offspring which many do without a thought in the world. OTOH the sacrifice and dedication to be a strong, decent mother in this world require incredible effort and persistence over time.
@Comm0ut doesn't mean that it is not an accomplishment. You simplify it as if it's as simple as picking up coffee from Starbucks. If it was so simple, we wouldn't need highly paid medical staff involved to orchestrate the delivery. Now is it as significant as raising a child? No but nonetheless it is still an accomplishment.
TK is right as always. My grandmother is Bed Ridden. 😞 she cant get up at all. 😞 she is overweight and wears a diaper. It is soooo hard taking care of her. Cleaning her changing her diaper.feeding her. Its sooo hard and sooo sad…. Most days she dont even know wear shes at. 😞 she keeps saying “i want to go home!!” “I want to go home!!!”” So sad …. Lord take her home. Please take her home. 💕
I’m really outgoing but I’m a loner. For all the reasons he listed lol. I love my solitude. I never get bored. I don’t go home and be on the phone, I’m just chillin and unbothered.
😂😂😂😂😂 she ask him a question and when he answers the question but it's not to her liking she asked the same question in a different way until he blames men
The best way to explain both sides of whats going on for couples and married and single ppl too , The best TK Kirkland interview I've ever watched . He's a genius in his own right.. best comedian too.
Say what you want but TK can smash 😂 he knows it, she knows it, and if her husband was watching this interview he knows it too 😂 if I was a referee I would have blown the whistle through the entire show.
Hahahahahahaha. I’m going to put my humor aside for a moment. You see the interaction between the God and the goddess. He is the type of God she respects has love for has sexual energy lust & desire for off the rip. He commands respect without saying a word she’s already given it to him. She belongs to him because she is submitting to him. But he does not want her. This is powerful. Most goddesses desire a God like this. But most of them are unable to attract a God like this. Therefore they end up choosing weak minded Gods who would be equated to beta or Simp on some level not entirely. And this is why so many of these goddesses have a very masculine dominant negative aggravated energy and how they speak. Because they are not conquered by a God they desire, respect, love, and look up to. A great many Goddesses date, have children with, and get married to a weaker vessel than themselves. Gods may be physically superior to a Goddess, but if his mentality is weaker, then she can dominate, bcuz he does not exude masculine energy.
I agree, especially saying the reason why women file for divorce is because of the man's behavior. BUT she says women stick around longer 😂😂😂 she just wants to blame men for everything
That just means the divorce should’ve been filed sooner lol but a lot of women will wait until the children are grown even if their miserable in the union..
@Brandi M or they don't wait & will divorce now when kids are still kids & stack that child support & alimony until they turn 18......which happens waaaayyy more often than what you describe
@@brandim5730 many wait for the man to acquire more assets. They also wait until they find the next brach to jump to. They don't leave because they don't have a soft landing spot.
I can honestly say it was difficult dating with 2 children. Especially when they were teenagers acting out and being bad at school. It was draining for me and who I was dating… Once they were grown dating became easier because I was no longer a single mother.. When you have teenage sons it also becomes difficult sometimes because the son wants to be the man of the house and is not always friendly to who you’re dating.
to say that it must be the man's behavior that prompted the woman to file for divorce assumes that the woman's reason for divorcing is always legitimate... which is a huge assumption. Far too often, we hear the term "irreconcilable differences" as a reason for divorce... idk who needs to hear this, but this IS NOT a reason for divorce. So if over 50% of marriages are ending in divorce, and the numbers say that 69% of divorces are started by women, then thats the stat. Let's just sit and think on that, and not try to wiggle out of accountability for those numbers.
I enjoy time alone also. My wife doesn’t understand that and thinks I’m mad at her when I’m just enjoying the quiet. Being bored has never bothered me. If I’m bored, that means nothing bad is happening in my life. In those moments, I have true peace of mind.
I don't. Kids need parents who can be active. The later you wait, the greater the chance that the parents will be out of physical condition suitable to raise children. Older parents get tired faster. That is why so many children today are obese. They have older parents who sit on the couch or lay in bed most of the day.
In today's world I believe women should have children between the ages of 25 & 35. Having children before age 25 is questionable because the brain isn't fully developed yet. Depending on the circumstances.
@@manman3792 more people are waiting later in life to have kids than in decades past. My statement is on point. The reason the children of the younger generation of parents are obese is because those parents are also lazy. They allow electronic devices to keep their children occupied. Two different issues leading to the same end result.
Men can't handle it either, but they've gotten used to it. I don't think anyone naturally handles it all that great, but women are so used to being simped over that they can't fathom that someone has 0 interest in them.
Dear god I pray you send real true love into this man life before his departure i don’t know what he’s been through in life to make him feel this way but please change it
Women love rejecting men but absolutely hate to put themselves out there to be rejected. And I 100% agree with TK's point of view about time in the elderly years. I'd never want my kids to take time out of their lives to nurse me when my life is basically over. That time is better spent on their families or themselves. When I'm old and useless, just stick me in a senior facility.
@@chrisisslick By thirty women start losing their eggs and by mid thirties it becomes harder. Not to say they still can't but some people have high risk pregnancies but not all. It's not about them being ready but the risk.
@@heirtothethrone000 it's not a risk of just their eggs. The baby is at a higher risk of developing down syndrome over 35 your playing Russian roulette.
This show really shows how sense of importance and attention are correlated: listening to some of these women, you can almost tell some are heavily dependent on physical appeal for importance
You can tell he was getting on her nerves, she was really confused and couldn't understand his mindset but did a good job staying humble and agreeable.
TK is a good guy for many people’s mental. I don’t know but it seems as if this interview was odd and I’ll prepared but bc of Mr Kirkland I was tuned in for the jewels
Judge Hatchett daughter in law passed away from birth complications that was preventable and her son was able to push getting a bill passed because of the preventable maternal deaths; of African American women predominantly effected
Men and women are not the same. If you are a female you need to get married young and stay married. Men on the other hand, can have multiple wifes , especially if he is successful Man
Being a man I can understand TK 100% that’s what men do we allow things to be what they are and we take care of what matters to us women are different in that aspect
While to each their own, it is very apparent that we as a people have completely lost our understanding of the true value of life, which is family amd community. Not just materialism, but family and community relationships where we don't work together to take care of our collective needs. We don't even realize that we have collective needs. We have been socially engineered into seeing ourselves thru a hyper-individualized way. We either are loners or communal kids who play together, but don't work together. Something for folks to chew on. One People One Love
If the person off-camera is going to be asking questions give them a mic. I'm not hatin' it just seems they are asking good questions. Great interview by the way!
Girl said it again don’t nobody care about your friends but then a lot of people do wanna be average because they’re doing with everybody else is doing be there so be creative they have a mind of their own, but it make you wonder But what really behooves me is seeing so many young people getting married because their friends are getting married and nobody understand what marriage is
Women handle rejection 10x better then men. I think people base their analysis on a womans initial reaction. However, statistics show that women handle rejection (relationship and overall society) much better. I mean look at the suicide rates in the world, not just the U.S. Also research the reasons for suicide. Men commit suicide 4x over then women and most time its due to depression. Men have a hard to dealing with societal pressures period. I mean women might kick and scream for a day or two but eventually women overcome issues including rejection that they face. Just look at the women around you and notice the adversities women may have faced. Think about the physical and mental abuse a woman endures but continues on throughout life. You cant push through in fear of anything and that includes rejection
The interview went downhill when you started asking him questions at the end. You can tell he was tired and talking out the side of his neck, so much so he caught himself and ended the interview.
She said women initiate 69% of divorces based on Men's behavior. Are we still going with the flawed rhetoric that Women are innocent Angels that are constantly abused and cheated on? SMH
Right. Took accountability from the woman
They love running "victory laps" at the victim Olympics!
I don’t think it’s implied that women are innocent it’s just the one who’s been done wrong in the marriage is the one who typically files for divorce.
@@brandim5730 implying that men are always doing women wrong so they file divorce… thanks for confirming it.
@@keephopealive.6059exactly. You know how many women have filed for divorce from a good man simply because she felt she could do better? Some women’s version of being done wrong is 2 vacations a year instead of 5.
"Solitude is dangerous. It’s very addictive. It becomes a habit after you realise how peaceful and calm it is. It’s like you don’t want to deal with people anymore because they drain your energy.”
- Jim Carrey
it's a nice place, but should you stay there to long?
Not getting pulled into a lot of other people's drama is priceless
But beware🤨 they will find you and still try to get you involved in the BS😐
Peace is priceless. Peace is a blessing. NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO ATTEMPT TO SHAKE MY PEACE.
I just spent a week of home time by my sister. I love her to death but I think I may have stayed 3 days too long. By the end, she started to annoy me.
I am so guilty of this!
@@willie417 👏🏾🎯👏🏾🎯👏🏾
Keep it a 1000, TK is the only reason I’m watching this episode
Seriously, cause I’m getting irked seeing her keep trying to blatantly put it on men’s behavior when a lot of women don’t take accountability. A lot of men behavior is reactionary to what the female is and has been doing in a lot of these cases. They stay trying to look innocent
Same here. I push the MUTE button mentally when she starts speaking. 😒😒
@@Painfulcase that’s why I’m taking a break from dating, focus more rebuilding my life
If it wasn't for TK, I wouldn't watch this semi-man hating feminist
@@Painfulcase A woman can be doing everything to please a man, and he still cheats with another woman. What do you say to that?
I absolutely love TK brutal honesty, it eliminates confusion, speculation, and false hope which I can appreciate.
20:41 THIS! I am 40 with no kids and this is A WORD! My cousin passed in 2020 after giving birth. She was 35. Birthing a child is the ultimate act of love and should never be treated lightly. Great interview TK 💙
Being a good MOTHER is the ultimate act of love.
Pregnancy is not an accomplishment and humans are wired to make offspring which many do without a thought in the world. OTOH the sacrifice and dedication to be a strong, decent mother in this world require incredible effort and persistence over time.
@Comm0ut doesn't mean that it is not an accomplishment. You simplify it as if it's as simple as picking up coffee from Starbucks. If it was so simple, we wouldn't need highly paid medical staff involved to orchestrate the delivery.
Now is it as significant as raising a child? No but nonetheless it is still an accomplishment.
TK is trying his damndest to help this generation.
Remember God's plan for man, woman, and child. He stated that he doesn't play by those rules.
TK is right as always.
My grandmother is Bed Ridden. 😞 she cant get up at all. 😞 she is overweight and wears a diaper. It is soooo hard taking care of her. Cleaning her changing her diaper.feeding her. Its sooo hard and sooo sad…. Most days she dont even know wear shes at. 😞 she keeps saying “i want to go home!!” “I want to go home!!!”” So sad …. Lord take her home. Please take her home. 💕
I’m really outgoing but I’m a loner. For all the reasons he listed lol. I love my solitude. I never get bored. I don’t go home and be on the phone, I’m just chillin and unbothered.
Women do get rejected at times. And they handle it real petti like. They start hatin on you for not wanting them.
It's called S.I.G.N. language!
Shame
Insults
Guilt
Need to be right..
Always ready to call someone "gay" for not liking them.
@NOCDIB I even seen gay guys getting sick of that lmao
TK Kirkland Please Write A Book Period.
One of my favorite comedians.
Hands down t.k Kirkland is the 2nd godfather of RUclips after Kevin’s samuels he drops gems on the low Kevin was just up front
Damn he got her .. smooth operator
Lmaooo he defn Did... she loved every minute...
I love being brutally honest respectfully.I feel like that’s the only way to keep it real.
TK is so honest that it’s impossible not to respect it. Raising another man’s child IS psychological torture
😂😂😂😂😂 she ask him a question and when he answers the question but it's not to her liking she asked the same question in a different way until he blames men
He talks to women like a old school pimp.
Females do this
TK not only a real one, but a wise one; and that makes a huge difference in this day and time.
The best way to explain both sides of whats going on for couples and married and single ppl too , The best TK Kirkland interview I've ever watched . He's a genius in his own right.. best comedian too.
TK in the building………. Preach Brother.
If it wasn't for TK I would have never watched this. Shout out to the General TK...FROM JAMAICA
Gazaaaaaa
Yes! I love my dad, too! I learned the importance of time from him. TK is on point for sure!
Ol girl prime example of Women Not Taking Accountability when they was talking bout Divorce.
Say what you want but TK can smash 😂 he knows it, she knows it, and if her husband was watching this interview he knows it too 😂 if I was a referee I would have blown the whistle through the entire show.
Right
Hahahahahahaha. I’m going to put my humor aside for a moment. You see the interaction between the God and the goddess. He is the type of God she respects has love for has sexual energy lust & desire for off the rip. He commands respect without saying a word she’s already given it to him. She belongs to him because she is submitting to him. But he does not want her. This is powerful. Most goddesses desire a God like this. But most of them are unable to attract a God like this. Therefore they end up choosing weak minded Gods who would be equated to beta or Simp on some level not entirely. And this is why so many of these goddesses have a very masculine dominant negative aggravated energy and how they speak. Because they are not conquered by a God they desire, respect, love, and look up to.
A great many Goddesses date, have children with, and get married to a weaker vessel than themselves. Gods may be physically superior to a Goddess, but if his mentality is weaker, then she can dominate, bcuz he does not exude masculine energy.
She definitely admires him
@@houndawg and will definitely let him smash 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 outta pocket!
TK face card get you 100K views. This a true OG. The last of a his kind. Always learning awhile watching dude.
Tk gets on my nerves sometimes but he's funny and brutally honest 💯 Gotta luv him 💪🏾🖤👑 PS. He's a true Cat Daddy he can definitely get it 😻
Her take on women filing for divorce is severely off base. Divorce is the modern day lottery ticket for women.
I agree, especially saying the reason why women file for divorce is because of the man's behavior. BUT she says women stick around longer 😂😂😂 she just wants to blame men for everything
That just means the divorce should’ve been filed sooner lol but a lot of women will wait until the children are grown even if their miserable in the union..
@Brandi M or they don't wait & will divorce now when kids are still kids & stack that child support & alimony until they turn 18......which happens waaaayyy more often than what you describe
@@brandim5730 many wait for the man to acquire more assets. They also wait until they find the next brach to jump to. They don't leave because they don't have a soft landing spot.
@crittoneida If the man takes the children in the divorce, they would not have to pay child support. White men do it all the time.
This is why pimps have so much control over a woman's mind. TK got the juice 😂
I can honestly say it was difficult dating with 2 children. Especially when they were teenagers acting out and being bad at school. It was draining for me and who I was dating… Once they were grown dating became easier because I was no longer a single mother.. When you have teenage sons it also becomes difficult sometimes because the son wants to be the man of the house and is not always friendly to who you’re dating.
Thank you Miss this is so true 💯
Erin was blushinggg and hot in the pants 😂👀
to say that it must be the man's behavior that prompted the woman to file for divorce assumes that the woman's reason for divorcing is always legitimate... which is a huge assumption. Far too often, we hear the term "irreconcilable differences" as a reason for divorce... idk who needs to hear this, but this IS NOT a reason for divorce. So if over 50% of marriages are ending in divorce, and the numbers say that 69% of divorces are started by women, then thats the stat. Let's just sit and think on that, and not try to wiggle out of accountability for those numbers.
80% of divorces are initiated by women. When they're college-educated, that number shoots up to 90%
Irreconcilable differences means that someone is being stubborn. I wonder which party takes the crown.
This was a phenomenal interview, I love the chemistry I love the energy and I definitely love the message.
I enjoy time alone also. My wife doesn’t understand that and thinks I’m mad at her when I’m just enjoying the quiet. Being bored has never bothered me. If I’m bored, that means nothing bad is happening in my life. In those moments, I have true peace of mind.
I Treat Everyone & Everything With Positive Indifference. 💯
This mam TK is walking WISDOM
Good Interview
😂🤣😂 TK took his shot at her, for a minute he had her too😏, she said WAIT! I'm married😂🤣😂
She wanted "GO" guaranteed! I saw that look before in my journeys. In fact, she got so lost, he was her only way out and still wanted to Go..
@@tyreeknyc1980 And that's why a man shouldn't let another man get in your woman's face
Yeah but you can’t watch her all the time u have to teach her how to handle her self around me
Slid a note under the hotel door and ran back to the elevator 😂😂😂😂
He the first person to recommended having kids later in life for women ❤❤❤ I 100% agree
I don't. Kids need parents who can be active. The later you wait, the greater the chance that the parents will be out of physical condition suitable to raise children. Older parents get tired faster. That is why so many children today are obese. They have older parents who sit on the couch or lay in bed most of the day.
In today's world I believe women should have children between the ages of 25 & 35. Having children before age 25 is questionable because the brain isn't fully developed yet. Depending on the circumstances.
@@rm5282your idea is off. Parents are way younger now than what they were back in the day. And kids are more obese now.
@@manman3792 more people are waiting later in life to have kids than in decades past. My statement is on point. The reason the children of the younger generation of parents are obese is because those parents are also lazy. They allow electronic devices to keep their children occupied. Two different issues leading to the same end result.
Men can't handle it either, but they've gotten used to it. I don't think anyone naturally handles it all that great, but women are so used to being simped over that they can't fathom that someone has 0 interest in them.
Dear god I pray you send real true love into this man life before his departure i don’t know what he’s been through in life to make him feel this way but please change it
Women love rejecting men but absolutely hate to put themselves out there to be rejected. And I 100% agree with TK's point of view about time in the elderly years. I'd never want my kids to take time out of their lives to nurse me when my life is basically over. That time is better spent on their families or themselves. When I'm old and useless, just stick me in a senior facility.
He said women should wait to have kid in their early thirties and their late forties 😂😂😂. The Easter bunny won't be able to find those eggs.
Early 30s makes sense. More mature woman who knows herself at that point and ready to be a mom and not partying and out a lot (generally speaking).
@@chrisisslick By thirty women start losing their eggs and by mid thirties it becomes harder. Not to say they still can't but some people have high risk pregnancies but not all. It's not about them being ready but the risk.
@@heirtothethrone000 I get what you're saying, but plenty women have kids just fine in early 30s too.
@@heirtothethrone000 it's not a risk of just their eggs. The baby is at a higher risk of developing down syndrome over 35 your playing Russian roulette.
💀💀🤣🤣🤣
This show really shows how sense of importance and attention are correlated: listening to some of these women, you can almost tell some are heavily dependent on physical appeal for importance
She’s a Dope interviewer….& Dope interview TK as always
Great guest already 😂
Her husband getting a gift from L.V. & T.K. fasho got her. Blessings to all 3 of them🤣
T to the MF' n K... got her reconsidering 😂
If tk is speaking , IM LISTENING
You can tell he was getting on her nerves, she was really confused and couldn't understand his mindset but did a good job staying humble and agreeable.
Near the end TK is stating this is bigger than relationships. In the US our focus is in the wrong place…
I got 5 women tryna b my woman and none of them can take no for a answer 😂
TK is a good guy for many people’s mental. I don’t know but it seems as if this interview was odd and I’ll prepared but bc of Mr Kirkland I was tuned in for the jewels
"Demonstration is Better Than Conversation."
-T.K. KIRKLAND
Judge Hatchett daughter in law passed away from birth complications that was preventable and her son was able to push getting a bill passed because of the preventable maternal deaths; of African American women predominantly effected
Super Dope Interview 💪🏾
Men and women are not the same.
If you are a female you need to get married young and stay married.
Men on the other hand, can have multiple wifes , especially if he is successful Man
Most men are average.
Had ole girl pondering 😂
Being a man I can understand TK 100% that’s what men do we allow things to be what they are and we take care of what matters to us women are different in that aspect
Erin used to be my fav until she said she didn’t swallow but I still fuk wit her 🙌🏽👑
Ugh… I don’t blame her! Married 15 years & I would never, what’s the point??? I sucked it you came, why do I have to swallow it too???
Great interview 💯
While to each their own, it is very apparent that we as a people have completely lost our understanding of the true value of life, which is family amd community. Not just materialism, but family and community relationships where we don't work together to take care of our collective needs. We don't even realize that we have collective needs. We have been socially engineered into seeing ourselves thru a hyper-individualized way. We either are loners or communal kids who play together, but don't work together.
Something for folks to chew on.
One People One Love
62 😳 Danggggg he looks good, and Chocolate 😊😊😊
That’s the truth I would rather tell you the harsh truth than a comfortable lie fk it
If the person off-camera is going to be asking questions give them a mic. I'm not hatin' it just seems they are asking good questions. Great interview by the way!
Man this a dry interview but TK still dropping gems
TK is hilarious… I’m gonna need for these interviewers to chuckle a little bit harder at his jokes! 🤷🏾♀️😂
I respect what he is saying. Keep in mind that this is not God's plan.
Tk gone get that. She’s beautiful
Great show!!
Real spill⚖️
TK can pull em reading Doctor Seuss books, got that pillow talk voice smooth is black silk.
Straight up!
The studies say a man losing his job is the #1 reason for divorces in America. So infidelities ain’t the issue
TK shootin his shot like Steph from half court
Excelente interview.
I feel you bro
T.K the real deal 💪🏿
TK was spitting game to her the entire show.. lol
TK remind me of me to the core.
Girl said it again don’t nobody care about your friends
but then a lot of people do wanna be average because they’re doing with everybody else is doing be there so be creative they have a mind of their own, but it make you wonder
But what really behooves me is seeing so many young people getting married because their friends are getting married and nobody understand what marriage is
Women handle rejection 10x better then men. I think people base their analysis on a womans initial reaction. However, statistics show that women handle rejection (relationship and overall society) much better. I mean look at the suicide rates in the world, not just the U.S. Also research the reasons for suicide. Men commit suicide 4x over then women and most time its due to depression. Men have a hard to dealing with societal pressures period. I mean women might kick and scream for a day or two but eventually women overcome issues including rejection that they face. Just look at the women around you and notice the adversities women may have faced. Think about the physical and mental abuse a woman endures but continues on throughout life. You cant push through in fear of anything and that includes rejection
Str8 facts sis
17:15 facts 💯💯🔥
Lol. That got real uncomfortable at the ending. Her mind is saying yes, but her 💍 is saying no.
hopefully everything he says is sinking it to this one rolling my eyes
This gay identity is changing kids
Liberals and Democrats are pushing the agenda.
Men get resentful but we aren’t as petty/ spiteful as women in most cases. We are built to press forward more often !!
The LIES!
Men will literally ruin your life for not loving them anymore. They’ll even kill u and your new man!
I agree! I don’t think most men want to be free.
41:33 nailed it.
She was feeling TK
TK was serious at the end, she think he just being a comedian 😂
The interview went downhill when you started asking him questions at the end. You can tell he was tired and talking out the side of his neck, so much so he caught himself and ended the interview.
😂 he said don’t say your age if you look fuked up 😂
Alot of men try not knowing their partner
Of course she’s just blaming men lol a huge reason men date outside their own and cheat
Any man don’t ever ever ever bring your woman around TK he is smooth with it😂😂
Well DONE is way better than WELL SAID
Damn homegirl is cute as hell ❤
She’s a mf professional 🔥♥️
He got her tail good 😂😂😂. She’s definitely interested.
LOL tk said snuggle haha
Erin's the pengist on the show