Independent ആയ ഒരു ആളായതു കൊണ്ട് കുറച്ച് easy ആയിരിക്കും ഈ ഒരു decision എടുക്കാൻ.. എന്നാൽ independent അല്ലാത്ത ഒരു വക്തിക്ക് വളരെ ബുദ്ധിമുട്ട് തന്നെ ആണ്.. നമ്മുടെ society വളരെ supportive ആയാല്ലെ കുറച്ച് മാറ്റം വരു
As a divorcee who was abandoned by my ex in a foreign country after 2 months of moving there and decided to live abroad after the incident because of all the stereotypes our society attaches to divorcees I completely understand everything she is talking about. Nobody expects incidents like this but if it happens we should live with them. And in my experience living abroad too, only the "Indian" community here stereotype you and even say bad things behind your back. People from the west understand and respect your struggle, even the bosses and workplace treats you well and are surprised at how horribly our culture treats divorced women. And that too I am someone who would have never migrated because of poverty, I decided to build a life and career of my own, which I have absolutely done without anyone bothering me . But even after that whenever I walk into an Indian community event I get rediculed and disgaraced for not choosing to stay in an abusive marriage or not having a husband and still being able to live with the same quality of life any of my Indian couple friends have.. Our culture is seriously twisted. We focus on what is "wrong" with the other person and never appreciate the guts and efforts it takes to stand alone, work hard and build a life of your own. Every person has their vision about life.. Live and let live..
You're free to express your emotions (specially what all bitterness you went through)., please don't feel sorry for that., let the collective awaken towards inclusiveness and not abandonments., much respect to you❤
Proud of you, and yes you are right. There are many women that suffer in silence here just because of a divorcee tag. Ath paryumbo chila aalkarku chila aalkark kollum,because they belong to that category of insensitive morons that can't even learn how to behave with fellow humans.
പണ്ട് കുട്ടിപാവാട ഇട്ടു stage യിൽ പാടിയ ആ 4 ലാം ക്ലാസുകാരിയെ ഇന്നും ഓർക്കുന്നു. അന്ന് കാഞ്ഞിരപ്പള്ളി st josephs school le anniversary കു പാടിയ പാട്ട് ഇന്നും ഓർമയിൽ ഉണ്ട്. വളരെ മിടുക്കിയായ കുട്ടി. ഒരുപാട് ഉയരങ്ങളിൽ yettate.വീണ്ടും എന്നെങ്കിലും കാഞ്ഞിരപ്പള്ളി യിൽ വച്ച് കാണാം dr juniour ❤
Society ആൾക്കാരെ പഠിപ്പിക്കുന്നത് വേറെന്ത് പോയാലും വിവാഹജീവിതം കളയാതെ പിടിക്കുന്നിടത്താണ് ആണിന്റേം പെണ്ണിന്റേം ജീവിതവിജയം എന്ന്.....ഒരാളും സ്വന്തം കാരണം കൊണ്ട് അല്ല വിവാഹജീവിതം വേണ്ടെന്ന് വെച്ചത് എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞാലും ചുറ്റുപാടുകൾ സമ്മതിക്കില്ല....reason അറിയാൻ ആയി ചുറ്റും കൂടും.....ആൾക്കാർക്ക് വേണ്ട ഒരു ബോധവത്കരണം നൽകണം...അല്ലാതെ ആരും മാറില്ല 😢
@@nature2752 സത്യം തന്നെ...ആണിന് ആയാലും പെണ്ണിന് ആയാലും പറ്റാത്തോണ്ട് അല്ലെ വിവാഹമോചനം ആവിശ്യം ആയി വരുന്നത്...നാട്ടുകാർക്ക് പറയാൻ topic കൊടുക്കാതെ ഇരിക്കുവാൻ വേണ്ടിട്ട് ജീവനും ജീവിതവും നശിപ്പിക്കാൻ പറ്റുവോ!.....കുറഞ്ഞത് പഞ്ചായത്ത് level എങ്കിലും ബോധവത്കരണം നടത്തണം...വിവാഹം പോലെ തന്നെ ആവിശ്യമുള്ള കാര്യം ആണ് വിവാഹമോചനവും എന്ന്....അത്പോലെ മറ്റുള്ളവരുടെ വ്യക്തിപരമായ കാര്യങ്ങളിൽ ചോദ്യങ്ങൾ ആയി ചെല്ലുന്നവർക്ക് അതൊരു മോശം ആണെന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു കൊടുക്കണം....ഒരാളുടെ കിടപ്പറയിൽ ഒളിഞ്ഞു നോക്കുന്നതും ഈ ചോദ്യങ്ങളും ഒരേ നിലവാരം ആണെന്ന് ബോധ്യപ്പെടുത്തി കൊടുക്കണം
Myself Arya, I am a psycho social therapist at Stanford. Kudos to Anju & Dhanya talking about importance of therapy; Anju made a valid point about choosing the right therapist, its true that if some therapist worked for someone doesn’t mean that he or she will works for you. My coworkers used to say that finding a right therapist is as difficult as find a right partner😊 you will landed with the right one maybe after you talked with many others. Dhanya, you are a mindful listener, that’s I rarely see in people these days. Thanks for all your good works! And Anju keep rocking girl, you are brave! To my fellow audience, Dhanya is right! there are many NGOs in India offering mental health resources and support. In government sector as well. There’s a government program called DMHP is available for public for free of cost. Its a multidisciplinary team which includes a psychiatrist, psychologist and a psychiatric social worker. Your nearest PHC can give you further information about this program, as per my understanding this team meet you at your community. I have done my internship at Trivandrum DMHP years ago when I was in India. I know that its a great resource for public. Hope it helps❤️ Happy Hugs 🤗
Getting a right therapist is one luck factor too. I myself is a pulmonologist, went through some difficult situation in my life & went to a psychiatrist in a famous hospital. That ma'am was actually good. But the psychologist there was utter waste. Half of the time he uses to boast about himself & his family. I was fed up and left his therapy sessions.
@@amrutha.pkumaramrutha7650 I am sorry Amrutha, I don’t have any clue about how to get there. Maybe you can google the location if you are talking about DMHP Trivandrum. Their office located inside the Trivandrum mental health hospital. But they do consultations every week through Public Health Centers. I lives in California, not sure about the route maps unfortunately!
I totally agree I worked in india as a psychologist Many therapist works like police questioning they won’t show much empathy or listening skills. Some are even start to do even worse advising.. please do trial sessions before you find right therapist. In US therapist is way better and professional than Indian therapist. They talk so professionally.
Thank you so much Ma'am for bringing Anju to your show. I am also going through something similar. I got married recently and is going through an unhappy marriage. I think I should come out of it before it consumes me completely. I am trying to heal myself and take the right decision. Please pray for me. Hoping for a better life.😊
Sathyathil dhanya madam karanju pokuvo ennu thonniyavar undo... Dhanya madam is so emphethetic which is a good quality which lot of people in today's era doesn't have.
I salute you, Anju. During the entire interview , you always remembered to give respect to your ex-partner which many people do not like to do. You never blamed anyone, in fact you tried to understand the emotions of others. You are really good lad at heart.
As a fan of the show "Dhanya," I appreciate the show's impact on addressing mental health issues. Considering the significance of this topic in Kerala and elsewhere I propose providing discreet resources like a 1800 number on the show. Such a helpline could be a lifeline for those in need, fostering a caring environment and encouraging mental health support. Your show's influence could make a real difference.
What Dhanya Varma is doing is really really appreciative! She always points to the enhancement of mental well being and the part of removing stigma in our society regarding it. Being a Licensed Clinical Psychologist i could experience that people are ready to come up for therapy since they're aware of all these and they feel that it's really important. Once again Kudos Dhanya.❤
I was reading and trying to learn about forgiveness a lot. I think Anju’s last few words in this interview put all of my scattered thoughts into the right perspective. Thanks both of you 😊
How respectfully you talked about ex anju ❤️❤️❤️.. And so happy that you overcome the difficult phase very strongly... Thank you dhanya mam for bringing different experiences through each interview ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Regarding renting a flat i faced same issue as u mention when i was single..
One issue I have with Dhanya’s interviews is that she tries her best to bring out her guest’s vulnerabilities or tears out. I mean what is the need for statements starting from 03:18?! If Anju is hiding her pain in front of the camera, let her do so.
അനൂപിനെയും അഞ്ജുവിനെയും നല്ല ഇഷ്ടമായിരുന്നു. ഇപ്പോഴാണ് നിങ്ങൾ divorce ആയി എന്ന് പോലും അറിയുന്നത്. ശരിക്കും വിഷമം തോന്നി. അഞ്ജുവിന് അത് പറയുമ്പോൾ കരച്ചിൽ അടക്കാൻ കഴിയുന്നില്ല. പിന്നെ എന്തിനാണ്????
Phycologist പൊതുവെ affordable alla, may be ellavarum ariyo ennariyilla, ella blockilum oru phycologist undavum, arkelum avashyam unde, anganvaddi teacherod chodhicha ariyum, njan ippo angane oru phycologist umaayi povunna aal aan, i aam happy with my phycologist, പൈസ ഇല്ല എന്നാ പേരിൽ ആരും, സ്വന്തം വിഷമങ്ങൾ ഒതുക്കി ജീവിക്കണ്ട, ആർക്കും ചിലപ്പോ അറിയില്ല അത് കൊണ്ട് ഒരു information pass cheythath aan,
Very matured girl. ഒരിക്കൽ പോലും partner ആയിരുന്ന ആളെ പറ്റി മോശം പറഞ്ഞിട്ടില്ല. കൂടാതെ ex partner ക്കും ഇങ്ങനെ തന്നെ ആയിരിക്കും ഉണ്ടായിട്ടുണ്ടാവുക എന്നെടുത്തു പറയുന്നുമുണ്ട്. Poor girl ❤
എല്ലാം നല്ലതിന് വേണ്ടി മാത്രം ആണ് എന്ന് കരുക കുട്ടി ക്ക് നല്ലൊരു കഴിവ് കുട്ടി ക്ക് ഉൻഡ് പാടാൻ ഉള്ള കഴിവ് ദൈവം തരുന്ന ഒരു വരം ആണ് 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 നമുക്ക് കൽലൃണം അല്ല ജീവിതത്തിൽ ഉള്ള വലിയ കാരൃം 🎉🎉🎉
Such an amazing interviewer u r...I always watch ur contents and really admire thr way u present the conversation and such a keen listener as well...Here Vishnu from Abu Dhabi...A fann of uu mam❤
One of the best conversations I have ever seen. See the honesty and respect she has. We are brought up to get married and live happily somehow. However, if you don't own a family it is normal. You have wide range of opportunities to engage yourself. And, Anju, people who own a family crave for solitude and for being themselves. Stay happy and inspire people to be happy. You talk so beautifully. ❤
Two lovely ladies,discussing and drawing attention to an extremely important social issue that is wrecking so many lives around us. I appreciate your calm and soft conversation, touching on the core of the issue so politely and maturely. Music is magic!!!
Thank you Dhanya for bringing her here..much needed talk in the present....after Supriya's episode this episode touched me...u r innocent soul anju....lots of love❤❤
What a great and meaningful advice Anju has given to people going through unstable relationships. Her recovery and finding her seltworth is going to be an inspiration to others. God bless you both.
Yeah കരയാൻ തോന്നിയാൽ കരയണം, ചിരി വരുമ്പോൾ നമ്മൾ അത് അടക്കിപ്പിടിച്ച് വക്കാൻ ഇഷ്ടപ്പെടുന്നില്ലല്ലോ അത് പോലെ തന്നെയാണ്....., ദൈഷ്യം വരുമ്പോൾ നമ്മൾ അതെ എക്സ്പ്രസ്സ് ചെയ്യില്ലെ, സ്നേഹം തോന്നിയാൽ നമ്മൾ അത് എക്സ്പ്രസ്സ് ചെയ്യില്ലെ like that, Anju ❤❤. How cute dea❤️❤️❤️❤️. Stay happy always da, (Hafsa from Aluva)
Hi Dhanya... Your show is going good and can see lots of real life experiences.l just want to why you changed the environment.??..is there any reason??personally I liked the previous environment...it has lots of light ,vibrant happy mood...but now I feel this background looks dull and felt sadness....just for a curiosity I asked...
Very meaningful conversation. Kudos to Anju. It will definitely help many people who are confused in life to take a strong decision and move in life. Dhanya as usual is compassionate and a wonderful host. Thank you guys 🙏🙏🙏
We always want to see U with ur beautiful smile ❤️ These times are hard but they will pass.... . Do more albums like "Thedal"..... Music will heal all the pains... It will do magics... We all want that charming Anjuss☺️
Anju, I totally respect you for the fact that , you spoke about your ex and family with lots of respect and love. Hats off to you, as many times, people speak without even thinking that you are heard when you speak out in public, but the other side would also have to say a lot but it’s not being heard. Lots of respect to you.
A useful interview for today's parents and children... Anju talks very frankly and openly... Valare sadharna reethiyil ellarkum manasilavune oru interview.. Definitely this will motivate those people wgo are struggling un their relationship...
14.22 - hits very close to my heart as someone waiting for my divorce proceedings to end. Some days are good but on some other days - I feel so empty and life feels meaningless. But holding on to hope and faith. ❤
14:34 is the PERFECT answer. It will be a new beginning for you too. We all (not only those who are divorced) need and must love ourselves first…like Anju mentioned in part 1. We should not feel loneliness. We could be and we are all alone, but this is a precious life, so we must be grateful and surely find happiness within ourselves. Best Wishes for a beautiful life in this beautiful world 👍
തീർച്ചയായും..... അത് അനുഭവിക്കുന്നവർക്ക് മനസ്സിലാവുകയുള്ളൂ...... ഈയൊരു situation നിലൂടെ കടന്നു പോയപ്പോൾ പിടിച്ച് നിൽക്കാൻ സാധിച്ചത് spritual retreat ന് പോയി പല councilling ലൂടെയും ആയിരുന്നു...... അങ്ങനെ ആ സമയങ്ങളിൽ തന്നെ councilling and psychotherapy പഠിച്ച മനസ്സിനെ നേരെയാക്കി..........
Hello mam.. first and foremost all love to anju for sharing her experience and making people convince that therapy is necessary if needed and mam as usual .. you r just amazing. Thank you for focusing your talk on mental health and your effort through this to remove the stigma among public regarding therapy .. Just a suggestion.. Y don't you add a good therapist or a few on your talk show like that with motivators
Loved Anju since ISS, her smile and soft voice is absolutely amazing. I didn't even know she was married, after ISS the 1st time I saw her was in a movie promotion interview with Aishu and that's when I realized she was still in the field. This girl has overcome a lot of hurdles and it's gonna up from here for her. Divorce is not bad, it doesn't make you a bad person. We all have our desires and needs and if the partner you picked can't meet them then it's okay. You only have 1 life, be happy in it!
Getting a right therapist is one luck factor too. I myself is a pulmonologist, went through some difficult situation in my life & went to a well known psychiatrist in a famous hospital. That ma'am was actually good. But the psychologist there was utter waste. Half of the time he uses to boast about himself & his family. I was fed up and left his therapy sessions.
Hi Dhanya, just like your name you're doing your karmam and Hi Anju, i cud see the power of genuine kindness and affection in your eyes (thanks for opening up after traversing the depth of passivity)❤
Mental health issue is a epidemic now in Kerala. Dhanyaji, could you please do a show on drug pandemic in Kerala? Its destroying our youth and families
Pure soul ❤️ ippozhum a star singer vedhiyil nilkkunnath orma varuva... Daivam eppozhum thaangayi nilkkatte we all r lv u and wl b with u ❤❤..ex partnerne blame cheyth samsarikkathath onn Manju chechiyum onn Anjukuttiyum😘
പാവം കുട്ടി എത്ര മാന്യമായി ആണ് സംസാരിച്ചത് 👍🥰😍
Independent ആയ ഒരു ആളായതു കൊണ്ട് കുറച്ച് easy ആയിരിക്കും ഈ ഒരു decision എടുക്കാൻ.. എന്നാൽ independent അല്ലാത്ത ഒരു വക്തിക്ക് വളരെ ബുദ്ധിമുട്ട് തന്നെ ആണ്..
നമ്മുടെ society വളരെ supportive ആയാല്ലെ കുറച്ച് മാറ്റം വരു
As a divorcee who was abandoned by my ex in a foreign country after 2 months of moving there and decided to live abroad after the incident because of all the stereotypes our society attaches to divorcees I completely understand everything she is talking about. Nobody expects incidents like this but if it happens we should live with them. And in my experience living abroad too, only the "Indian" community here stereotype you and even say bad things behind your back. People from the west understand and respect your struggle, even the bosses and workplace treats you well and are surprised at how horribly our culture treats divorced women. And that too I am someone who would have never migrated because of poverty, I decided to build a life and career of my own, which I have absolutely done without anyone bothering me . But even after that whenever I walk into an Indian community event I get rediculed and disgaraced for not choosing to stay in an abusive marriage or not having a husband and still being able to live with the same quality of life any of my Indian couple friends have.. Our culture is seriously twisted. We focus on what is "wrong" with the other person and never appreciate the guts and efforts it takes to stand alone, work hard and build a life of your own. Every person has their vision about life.. Live and let live..
Dont blame india nd its people …learn to respect …
@@sreelathanair1080 It goes both ways.. I am really sorry..
You're free to express your emotions (specially what all bitterness you went through)., please don't feel sorry for that., let the collective awaken towards inclusiveness and not abandonments., much respect to you❤
Proud of you, and yes you are right. There are many women that suffer in silence here just because of a divorcee tag. Ath paryumbo chila aalkarku chila aalkark kollum,because they belong to that category of insensitive morons that can't even learn how to behave with fellow humans.
@@sreelathanair1080oolakale respect cheyyenam enn Indian constitutionil ezhutheetilello kuttuse.
പണ്ട് കുട്ടിപാവാട ഇട്ടു stage യിൽ പാടിയ ആ 4 ലാം ക്ലാസുകാരിയെ ഇന്നും ഓർക്കുന്നു. അന്ന് കാഞ്ഞിരപ്പള്ളി st josephs school le anniversary കു പാടിയ പാട്ട് ഇന്നും ഓർമയിൽ ഉണ്ട്. വളരെ മിടുക്കിയായ കുട്ടി. ഒരുപാട് ഉയരങ്ങളിൽ yettate.വീണ്ടും എന്നെങ്കിലും കാഞ്ഞിരപ്പള്ളി യിൽ വച്ച് കാണാം dr juniour ❤
Society ആൾക്കാരെ പഠിപ്പിക്കുന്നത് വേറെന്ത് പോയാലും വിവാഹജീവിതം കളയാതെ പിടിക്കുന്നിടത്താണ് ആണിന്റേം പെണ്ണിന്റേം ജീവിതവിജയം എന്ന്.....ഒരാളും സ്വന്തം കാരണം കൊണ്ട് അല്ല വിവാഹജീവിതം വേണ്ടെന്ന് വെച്ചത് എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞാലും ചുറ്റുപാടുകൾ സമ്മതിക്കില്ല....reason അറിയാൻ ആയി ചുറ്റും കൂടും.....ആൾക്കാർക്ക് വേണ്ട ഒരു ബോധവത്കരണം നൽകണം...അല്ലാതെ ആരും മാറില്ല 😢
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സത്യം.. മനഃസമാദാനം ഇല്ലെങ്കിലും സന്തോഷം ഇല്ലെങ്കിലും വിവാഹ ജീവിതം മുന്നോട്ട് കൊണ്ട് പോവുക.. ഇതുകൊണ്ടാണ് പല വിവാഹങ്ങളും ജീവിതത്തിന്റെ അവസാനമാവുന്നത്..
@@nature2752 സത്യം തന്നെ...ആണിന് ആയാലും പെണ്ണിന് ആയാലും പറ്റാത്തോണ്ട് അല്ലെ വിവാഹമോചനം ആവിശ്യം ആയി വരുന്നത്...നാട്ടുകാർക്ക് പറയാൻ topic കൊടുക്കാതെ ഇരിക്കുവാൻ വേണ്ടിട്ട് ജീവനും ജീവിതവും നശിപ്പിക്കാൻ പറ്റുവോ!.....കുറഞ്ഞത് പഞ്ചായത്ത് level എങ്കിലും ബോധവത്കരണം നടത്തണം...വിവാഹം പോലെ തന്നെ ആവിശ്യമുള്ള കാര്യം ആണ് വിവാഹമോചനവും എന്ന്....അത്പോലെ മറ്റുള്ളവരുടെ വ്യക്തിപരമായ കാര്യങ്ങളിൽ ചോദ്യങ്ങൾ ആയി ചെല്ലുന്നവർക്ക് അതൊരു മോശം ആണെന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു കൊടുക്കണം....ഒരാളുടെ കിടപ്പറയിൽ ഒളിഞ്ഞു നോക്കുന്നതും ഈ ചോദ്യങ്ങളും ഒരേ നിലവാരം ആണെന്ന് ബോധ്യപ്പെടുത്തി കൊടുക്കണം
എത്ര രസമായിട്ടാണ് Anju പറയുന്നത് but ഇങ്ങനെയൊന്നും ആ കുട്ടിക്ക് സംഭവിക്കരുതായിരുന്നു.....anyway ആ കുട്ടിയ്ക് എല്ലാ നന്മകളും ഉണ്ടാകട്ടെ ....❤️❤️
Myself Arya, I am a psycho social therapist at Stanford. Kudos to Anju & Dhanya talking about importance of therapy; Anju made a valid point about choosing the right therapist, its true that if some therapist worked for someone doesn’t mean that he or she will works for you. My coworkers used to say that finding a right therapist is as difficult as find a right partner😊 you will landed with the right one maybe after you talked with many others.
Dhanya, you are a mindful listener, that’s I rarely see in people these days. Thanks for all your good works! And Anju keep rocking girl, you are brave!
To my fellow audience, Dhanya is right! there are many NGOs in India offering mental health resources and support. In government sector as well. There’s a government program called DMHP is available for public for free of cost. Its a multidisciplinary team which includes a psychiatrist, psychologist and a psychiatric social worker. Your nearest PHC can give you further information about this program, as per my understanding this team meet you at your community. I have done my internship at Trivandrum DMHP years ago when I was in India. I know that its a great resource for public. Hope it helps❤️ Happy Hugs 🤗
Getting a right therapist is one luck factor too. I myself is a pulmonologist, went through some difficult situation in my life & went to a psychiatrist in a famous hospital. That ma'am was actually good. But the psychologist there was utter waste. Half of the time he uses to boast about himself & his family. I was fed up and left his therapy sessions.
@@shilpaudayan9571 I heard you!
I can understand that how frustrating situation it was.
@@AryaSumami hve an apppoinment next friday.cud u plzz tell me how u get there
@@amrutha.pkumaramrutha7650 I am sorry Amrutha, I don’t have any clue about how to get there. Maybe you can google the location if you are talking about DMHP Trivandrum. Their office located inside the Trivandrum mental health hospital. But they do consultations every week through Public Health Centers. I lives in California, not sure about the route maps unfortunately!
I totally agree I worked in india as a psychologist Many therapist works like police questioning they won’t show much empathy or listening skills. Some are even start to do even worse advising.. please do trial sessions before you find right therapist. In US therapist is way better and professional than Indian therapist. They talk so professionally.
Thank you so much Ma'am for bringing Anju to your show. I am also going through something similar. I got married recently and is going through an unhappy marriage. I think I should come out of it before it consumes me completely. I am trying to heal myself and take the right decision. Please pray for me. Hoping for a better life.😊
Take your time dear.. 😊god bless
Soon u get out u will be happy dear. Think n do right
May you achieve a peaceful life.
Take your time dear ❤❤❤lots of love❤
My prayers for you
രണ്ടു പേരുടെയും സംസാരം കേട്ടിരിക്കാൻ നല്ല രസമുണ്ട്... Very informative too 🙏🙏👍
Breakup... Divorce.... Kalyanam mari poyi... Ennokkae ariyumbol mathram karuthalumayi varunna prathyekam nattukarum relativesum ulla nadanu keralam.
ഇത് പോലെ toxic ആയ ആളുകള്‍ വേറെ ഒരിടത്തും കാണില്ല .
Dhanya you are such a great listener, that makes everyone opens up , gently , genuinely. It’s Deep and that is impressive. ❤
True to the core, I also felt like that 🥰❤🫂
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Sathyathil dhanya madam karanju pokuvo ennu thonniyavar undo... Dhanya madam is so emphethetic which is a good quality which lot of people in today's era doesn't have.
ഈ കുട്ടിയുടെ പുഞ്ചിരിയിൽ തന്നെ ഈ മോൾ എത്ര നിക്ഷ്കളങ്കയാണെന്നറിയാം❤❤❤❤❤❤
I salute you, Anju. During the entire interview , you always remembered to give respect to your ex-partner which many people do not like to do. You never blamed anyone, in fact you tried to understand the emotions of others. You are really good lad at heart.
As a fan of the show "Dhanya," I appreciate the show's impact on addressing mental health issues. Considering the significance of this topic in Kerala and elsewhere I propose providing discreet resources like a 1800 number on the show. Such a helpline could be a lifeline for those in need, fostering a caring environment and encouraging mental health support. Your show's influence could make a real difference.
Anjunte situation ethil kudi kadannu poyavarku manasilakum ninte decision correctanu athil ninak regret thonnanda ❤
What Dhanya Varma is doing is really really appreciative! She always points to the enhancement of mental well being and the part of removing stigma in our society regarding it. Being a Licensed Clinical Psychologist i could experience that people are ready to come up for therapy since they're aware of all these and they feel that it's really important. Once again Kudos Dhanya.❤
I was reading and trying to learn about forgiveness a lot. I think Anju’s last few words in this interview put all of my scattered thoughts into the right perspective. Thanks both of you 😊
Since idea star singer I was noticing this girl. Her voice is very soothing and always try to listen her music. Such a lovely innocent cute girl.
Anju soft and kind മാത്രല്ല strong ആണെന്നും തെളിയിച്ചു. Kudos💖
Ee kazhinja 4 years anu Anju ettavum active ayi irunnittullath. A capella, youtube vlogs, skits, acting...ithrem vishamam undayirunno kuttyk😢❤
How respectfully you talked about ex anju ❤️❤️❤️..
And so happy that you overcome the difficult phase very strongly...
Thank you dhanya mam for bringing different experiences through each interview ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Regarding renting a flat i faced same issue as u mention when i was single..
Pure soul......... All respects....... How beautifully she expressed her experience in such a decent manner.......
14:02 pavam orupad snehikkunnu but adjust cheyyan pattunnilla. The toughest! 😢
One issue I have with Dhanya’s interviews is that she tries her best to bring out her guest’s vulnerabilities or tears out. I mean what is the need for statements starting from 03:18?! If Anju is hiding her pain in front of the camera, let her do so.
Yea I noticed too. That part was not needed. Anju was trying her best to keep it together.
Yes i agree
True ! Totally agree
Very true…
Very true...well said
അനൂപിനെയും അഞ്ജുവിനെയും നല്ല ഇഷ്ടമായിരുന്നു. ഇപ്പോഴാണ് നിങ്ങൾ divorce ആയി എന്ന് പോലും അറിയുന്നത്. ശരിക്കും വിഷമം തോന്നി. അഞ്ജുവിന് അത് പറയുമ്പോൾ കരച്ചിൽ അടക്കാൻ കഴിയുന്നില്ല. പിന്നെ എന്തിനാണ്????
Pine nthina ennullath avarude mathram privacy aanu...aarum santhoshathode edukunna theerumanm alla divorce,,orupad emotions kadannu povunnu..vivaha jeevitham munot povilannu varunna situation il edukunna theerumanm aanu divorce.but athinu kurachu nnal munb vareyum avaru orumich orupad swapnaghal kandadavum, orupad chirichandavum, orupad santhoshichitundavum, divorce ennulla theerumanam eduthu ennu vachu ithonnum Athra pettannu manasil ninnu povila...
Njan ithellam paranjath nte anubhavaghalil ninnu..njan innu face cheyyunna oru gatum aanu anju e video il parayane..njanum divorce case file cheyyth irikkunna 24 vayasu mathram ulla oru pennu kutti aanu, porutha petan pattajit njanayit edutha theerumanam thanne aanu,ennitum ithoke orthu karayatha oru rathri polum eniku ippo illa,,,ennu vachu adjust cheyyth jeevikunnathilum kariam illa
Continue cheyth povan patillanu thoniyal eth relationship anengilum pinmaaruka athanu ettavum nalla decision.
Adjust cheyth cheyth cheyth swantham personality polum adiyaravu vech bharya ayi amma ayi jeevikuna ethrayo ladies namude samoohathil und
Phycologist പൊതുവെ affordable alla, may be ellavarum ariyo ennariyilla, ella blockilum oru phycologist undavum, arkelum avashyam unde, anganvaddi teacherod chodhicha ariyum, njan ippo angane oru phycologist umaayi povunna aal aan, i aam happy with my phycologist, പൈസ ഇല്ല എന്നാ പേരിൽ ആരും, സ്വന്തം വിഷമങ്ങൾ ഒതുക്കി ജീവിക്കണ്ട, ആർക്കും ചിലപ്പോ അറിയില്ല അത് കൊണ്ട് ഒരു information pass cheythath aan,
Useful interview to those who struggle with life ❤
Same emotions face ചെയ്തിട്ടുണ്ട് ഞാനും ...
ഈ സമയവും കടന്ന് പോവും ....
Life is beautiful❤
Very matured girl. ഒരിക്കൽ പോലും partner ആയിരുന്ന ആളെ പറ്റി മോശം പറഞ്ഞിട്ടില്ല. കൂടാതെ ex partner ക്കും ഇങ്ങനെ തന്നെ ആയിരിക്കും ഉണ്ടായിട്ടുണ്ടാവുക എന്നെടുത്തു പറയുന്നുമുണ്ട്. Poor girl ❤
എല്ലാം നല്ലതിന് വേണ്ടി മാത്രം ആണ് എന്ന് കരുക കുട്ടി ക്ക് നല്ലൊരു കഴിവ് കുട്ടി ക്ക് ഉൻഡ് പാടാൻ ഉള്ള കഴിവ് ദൈവം തരുന്ന ഒരു വരം ആണ് 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 നമുക്ക് കൽലൃണം അല്ല ജീവിതത്തിൽ ഉള്ള വലിയ കാരൃം 🎉🎉🎉
Depression illness kadann pokunna vykithikk allathe ayalude manasikavastha mattorale prnj manasilakkan pattilla clinical depression, bipolar, anxiety, panic attack athokke athilude poyavarkk mathre manasilavu at that point nammal realize cheyya nammalk nammale indaku emotions ethra sremichalum control cheyyan pattathirikka deshym sangadam ellam uncontrolled avuka athintedel ellarkkum oro preshnangal und nink mathram alla thudangiya upadesham avrkk kodukkathirikka avare kuttapeduthathirikkuka maximum ayale cherth nirthan sremikkuka ishttapettirunna karyangal polum verukkunna oru avasthayanu athilude pass cheyyand orikkalum ath manasilakkan pattilla ath orikkalum oru cheriya karym alla..mental health is very important to a person..ath poyal ellam kyinn pokan thudangum onnum pidicha kittilla..
Such an amazing interviewer u r...I always watch ur contents and really admire thr way u present the conversation and such a keen listener as well...Here Vishnu from Abu Dhabi...A fann of uu mam❤
എത്ര ബഹുമാനം കൊടുത്തു ആണ്, x hus കുറിച്ച് പറയുന്നത്
One of the best conversations I have ever seen. See the honesty and respect she has. We are brought up to get married and live happily somehow. However, if you don't own a family it is normal. You have wide range of opportunities to engage yourself. And, Anju, people who own a family crave for solitude and for being themselves. Stay happy and inspire people to be happy. You talk so beautifully. ❤
Two lovely ladies,discussing and drawing attention to an extremely important social issue that is wrecking so many lives around us. I appreciate your calm and soft conversation, touching on the core of the issue so politely and maturely. Music is magic!!!
അഞ്ജു, ൻ്റ തിരിച്ച് വരവ് ഒരുപാട് ആളുകൾക്ക് പ്രചോദനമാണ്. അനുഭവങ്ങൾ, തെറാപ്പി.........., അഞ്ജുവിൻ്റെ മാന്യമായ സംസാരം,🙏👩🙏🙏
Could you please give me the details of that therapist.
Thank you Dhanya for bringing her here..much needed talk in the present....after Supriya's episode this episode touched me...u r innocent soul anju....lots of love❤❤
What a great and meaningful advice Anju has given to people going through unstable relationships. Her recovery and finding her seltworth is going to be an inspiration to others. God bless you both.
Yeah കരയാൻ തോന്നിയാൽ കരയണം, ചിരി വരുമ്പോൾ നമ്മൾ അത് അടക്കിപ്പിടിച്ച് വക്കാൻ ഇഷ്ടപ്പെടുന്നില്ലല്ലോ അത് പോലെ തന്നെയാണ്....., ദൈഷ്യം വരുമ്പോൾ നമ്മൾ അതെ എക്സ്പ്രസ്സ് ചെയ്യില്ലെ, സ്നേഹം തോന്നിയാൽ നമ്മൾ അത് എക്സ്പ്രസ്സ് ചെയ്യില്ലെ like that, Anju ❤❤. How cute dea❤️❤️❤️❤️. Stay happy always da, (Hafsa from Aluva)
Hi Dhanya...
Your show is going good and can see lots of real life experiences.l just want to why you changed the environment.??..is there any reason??personally I liked the previous environment...it has lots of light ,vibrant happy mood...but now I feel this background looks dull and felt sadness....just for a curiosity I asked...
Star singer കാണുന്നത് അഞ്ചു, ജോബി എന്നിവരെ കാണാൻ ആയിരുന്നു, ഈ കാലവും കടന്നു പോകും god bless you വലിയ ഉയരങ്ങളിൽ എത്തട്ടെ
Very meaningful conversation. Kudos to Anju. It will definitely help many people who are confused in life to take a strong decision and move in life. Dhanya as usual is compassionate and a wonderful host. Thank you guys 🙏🙏🙏
We always want to see U with ur beautiful smile ❤️ These times are hard but they will pass.... . Do more albums like "Thedal"..... Music will heal all the pains... It will do magics... We all want that charming Anjuss☺️
legal doubts undel ente videos nokkiyal mathi
Bring a men who went for therapy, typically they are so hesitant to seek help and talk about those facts
From 14.00…..really feel to cry ….a normal person feelings….hope she will be ok and lead a happy life ❤
Anju, I totally respect you for the fact that , you spoke about your ex and family with lots of respect and love.
Hats off to you, as many times, people speak without even thinking that you are heard when you speak out in public, but the other side would also have to say a lot but it’s not being heard.
Lots of respect to you.
I can relate what all the things Anju Said...❤
I am amazed at Anju’s maturity in spite of her real and obvious struggles. Chin up, girl! A beautiful life awaits you!
Everyone openly talk n ts show.. & Dhanya Mam s very patiently listening them.. Great show always
A useful interview for today's parents and children...
Anju talks very frankly and openly...
Valare sadharna reethiyil ellarkum manasilavune oru interview..
Definitely this will motivate those people wgo are struggling un their relationship...
14.22 - hits very close to my heart as someone waiting for my divorce proceedings to end. Some days are good but on some other days - I feel so empty and life feels meaningless. But holding on to hope and faith. ❤
14:34 is the PERFECT answer. It will be a new beginning for you too. We all (not only those who are divorced) need and must love ourselves first…like Anju mentioned in part 1. We should not feel loneliness. We could be and we are all alone, but this is a precious life, so we must be grateful and surely find happiness within ourselves. Best Wishes for a beautiful life in this beautiful world 👍
Ma'am mental health vendit therapy cheyan help akuna ethelm NGO patit details tharamo??
Niingalude aduthullaa primary health centre ll poyi avide ulla Dr maayi samsarikkuu They will help you to connect them.. 😊
ചില ആപ്പുകൾ ഉണ്ട്. Try pls
അനുഭവം അതു അനുഭവിച്ചവർക്കെ അറിയൂ...... Court ൽ കേറുമ്പോൾ ഉണ്ടാകുന്ന മാനസികാവസ്ഥ...... ഒന്നും ഇപ്പോൾ ആലോചിക്കാൻ ഇഷ്ടമല്ല
തീർച്ചയായും..... അത് അനുഭവിക്കുന്നവർക്ക് മനസ്സിലാവുകയുള്ളൂ...... ഈയൊരു situation നിലൂടെ കടന്നു പോയപ്പോൾ പിടിച്ച് നിൽക്കാൻ സാധിച്ചത് spritual retreat ന് പോയി പല councilling ലൂടെയും ആയിരുന്നു...... അങ്ങനെ ആ സമയങ്ങളിൽ തന്നെ councilling and psychotherapy പഠിച്ച മനസ്സിനെ നേരെയാക്കി..........
Hello mam.. first and foremost all love to anju for sharing her experience and making people convince that therapy is necessary if needed and mam as usual .. you r just amazing. Thank you for focusing your talk on mental health and your effort through this to remove the stigma among public regarding therapy ..
Just a suggestion.. Y don't you add a good therapist or a few on your talk show like that with motivators
Loved Anju since ISS, her smile and soft voice is absolutely amazing.
I didn't even know she was married, after ISS the 1st time I saw her was in a movie promotion interview with Aishu and that's when I realized she was still in the field. This girl has overcome a lot of hurdles and it's gonna up from here for her.
Divorce is not bad, it doesn't make you a bad person. We all have our desires and needs and if the partner you picked can't meet them then it's okay. You only have 1 life, be happy in it!
Beautiful conversation, much love!
I can feel you lady❤️ More love and power to you❤
Dhanyaji, you are touching the lives of many Keralites
We can still be kind ,
I love that words, Anju!
I also need
A good therapist.but i can't find right one
ഇതൊരു വല്ലാത്ത എപ്പിസോഡ് ആയിരുന്നു... 😓😓😓
U r such a genuine person, Anju...
Dhanya u are a great listener too❤❤❤❤❤❤
Such a lovely human being you are.. Love u so much Anju, stay blessed ma❤️
ഈ മോൾ എത്രയാ അനൂപിനെ സ്നേഹിച്ചേ 😔😔😔😔. അനൂപിനെ ഇഷ്ടം ആണ് സ്റ്റാർ മാജിക്‌ കാണുമ്പോ. പക്ഷേ..,
Getting a right therapist is one luck factor too. I myself is a pulmonologist, went through some difficult situation in my life & went to a well known psychiatrist in a famous hospital. That ma'am was actually good. But the psychologist there was utter waste. Half of the time he uses to boast about himself & his family. I was fed up and left his therapy sessions.
What a productive show it is! ❤
Could you please help me to know more about the therapist?
Beautiful video...informative & positive speech...😊
Hi Dhanya, just like your name you're doing your karmam and Hi Anju, i cud see the power of genuine kindness and affection in your eyes (thanks for opening up after traversing the depth of passivity)❤
Can you please suggest some good therapists?
Who ever feel little bit low other than life reasons please do check vitamin D deficiency. If it’s low it may trigger depression and brain fog .
Yes thyroid issues also trigger depression. Speaking from my experience
love you Anju very kind soul.god bless.thank you dhanya
Do it with a Kind Mind, and that's the highlight of the show Anju... wishing you all happiness and goodness ahead👍
Thank you so much Anju....really helpful
Even I have a brother who lifted me up..when I went through depression, which led me to IMHANS where we,'ll fell relaxed.
Mental health issue is a epidemic now in Kerala. Dhanyaji, could you please do a show on drug pandemic in Kerala? Its destroying our youth and families
Can you explain..where and which NGO s are providing therapy...plzzz
Be strong da …. ❤
A therapist nte numbr onn taramo,,, am happily married but baki paranja orupad karyangal enik relatable an
ഞൻ e എപ്പിസോഡ് life ൽ മറക്കില്ല.
Please provide available details of free therapy/
Very nice interview.i inspired so much thanku for both of them
If possible please add english subtitles to the interviews. Might help out even people who are not malayalees.
Anju yu r right.... 👍👍 god bless you dear.... 🥰
As a struggling lady I just wanted to hug her tight and say It's ok...😢❤
Pure soul ❤️ ippozhum a star singer vedhiyil nilkkunnath orma varuva... Daivam eppozhum thaangayi nilkkatte we all r lv u and wl b with u ❤❤..ex partnerne blame cheyth samsarikkathath onn Manju chechiyum onn Anjukuttiyum😘
I think, this is one of the best episode in this channel
സംസാരം മലയാളത്തിലാകാമായിരുന്നു
ഒരുവപാട് ഇഷ്ടമുള്ള പ്രോഗ്രാമാന്നു പക്ഷെ അധികവും മനസ്സിലാഗറില്ല
Avarde audience English koodi ariyavunnavara
Fly high u go girl.. Bright future is ahead waiting for you!
Therapist nte details share chaiyamo
I started watching you recently... Dhanya....
Thank you 🥰🥰❤❤❤
So proud of you, Anju! Keep going. You're doing great❤✨
How can you complete the interview within 2 episodes…this is too much ..wanna c u guys both for many episodes
Mental health is important like our physical health.
This is kind of therapy to people who are listening. Thanks for the content.