Not Mexican or American Enough: Bicultural Identity Struggles | Ranchel Alvarado | TEDxSHSU

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  • Опубликовано: 21 июл 2022
  • Have you ever struggled to know who you are? For Ranchel Alvarado, figuring out her identity as a Mexican American has been challenging. Living in two cultures that were vastly different, she often felt caught in the middle, like she was not enough. In Mexico, some of her friends and family perceived her as too American. In the United States, she was often told to go back to where she came from. In this talk, Alvarado shares some of these experiences and how they have shaped her identity. She offers tips on how bicultural individuals can come to realize the strength derived from their multiple identities. She calls on all of us to recognize that we are enough. Ranchel Alvarado was born and raised in Houston, Texas, and is a student at Sam Houston State University. She is passionate about helping others and has always intended for her profession to involve helping others. Ranchel is majoring in criminal justice and minoring in human services, although her career path will be different from the conventional criminal justice route. Ranchel plans to pursue a master's degree in social work or counseling as it allows her to serve people and remain connected to the criminal justice system. Ranchel proudly serves as the Co-President of the Honors Student Advisory Council, which represents Sam Houston’s Honors College, among many other campus organizations. A fun fact about her is that her name was not planned; it was a happy accident, and while her name is spelled as Ranchel, it is pronounced as “Rachel”. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 47

  • @evelynnagy345
    @evelynnagy345 9 месяцев назад +10

    I really needed to hear this! Thank you for sharing! I'm Mexican American adopted by Koreans. Identity is complicated!

  • @user-qu2jt5sg5o
    @user-qu2jt5sg5o 6 месяцев назад +7

    I’ve been told I’m not actually Puerto Rican because I was born in the States. I’ve always struggled with Spanish, but can understand a lot more than I can speak. As a kid, I was asked by another kid “What kind of Spanish person doesn’t speak Spanish?” Right now, I’m currently trying to learn the proper way to speak Spanish. It’s just hard when you don’t feel accepted by either side.

  • @artpedro2111
    @artpedro2111 Месяц назад +2

    As a first generation Mexican American I can not claim Mexico because I was born in the USA and I can’t claim USA because of my heritage we are the few who will understand the struggle of being from two different worlds and loving both of them I’m proud of who I am and I will continue to love both sides of me

    • @OskieOmega
      @OskieOmega Месяц назад

      Same here my dad was born in Zacatecas but I was born in Chicago

  • @GwensRealLoverAnthOny
    @GwensRealLoverAnthOny 4 месяца назад +4

    We don't give Mexican Americans enough credit for their contributions to this country... I don't know if my opinion matters but I think Mexican Americans are beautiful people... They work very hard and they're very grateful for what they have... I was laying in bed last night thinking about Mexico and Mexican Americans....you know..the more I thought about it the more I think they're what the church is supposed to look like.. I know they were here centuries before Europeans and they helped build this country before anyone else.. and they continue to build this country... They're probably the hardest working group of people we have in the U.S. ... We should be better neighbors to Mexico... PLUS, Mexican chicks are kinda hot.. and Mexico looks like a beautiful place... There's nothing wrong about being Mexican American...I'm white and I feel the same way when I have to answer questions about my ethnicity... anyway, love y'all...can't even tell you how many times I've dreamed about packing my sh*t and moving to Mexico.... I may even be a little jealous of you folks... Love you...for the record, the U.S. would not be the country it is today without the Mexican Americans.... I appreciate y'all... a lot....

  • @wandasanchez551
    @wandasanchez551 Год назад +24

    Well said. I live this same bilingual bicultural identity experience in the US. Never have been accepted by the dominant culture in the US nor in Mexico.

    • @noskpain2792
      @noskpain2792 Год назад +2

      It's all in your head. You're American

    • @gisselleperezmoreno1910
      @gisselleperezmoreno1910 3 месяца назад +2

      @@noskpain2792it’s not in your head when people verbally tell you, you aren’t American

    • @elidvenega3017
      @elidvenega3017 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@gisselleperezmoreno1910True got told by a teacher in front of everyone

    • @JoseMedina-hs1up
      @JoseMedina-hs1up Месяц назад

      Even a blond blue eyed gringos are accepted in México if they don't act arrogant and unfriendly

  • @halvarado5348
    @halvarado5348 Год назад +7

    Love it!! Very well said and always embrace our culture💕

  • @SlackersIndustry
    @SlackersIndustry 11 месяцев назад +14

    Was in the same boat but for about 10 years I stopped caring about all the labels and was just me. Happiest years of my life. Happens with all races, everyone born in the USA get treated differently in their home countries.

  • @WoodyReyes
    @WoodyReyes Месяц назад

    Thank you!

  • @Jerbear28_
    @Jerbear28_ 10 месяцев назад +3

    I was born but know Spanish well enough to get by but you can tell I have an American accent. I have more people tell me they appreciate that because I did not forget my my roots while others children or grandkids did because of fear of being ridiculed. Be you and love who you are because you get to learn at learn at least 2x as much cool stuff as others

  • @loremipsum980
    @loremipsum980 10 месяцев назад +3

    This is my personal experience with being bilingual bicultural: too individualistic for my East-Asian side, and too collectivistic for my American side. I never seem to fit in anywhere... and most people can't understand me cuz their mindsets and attitudes towards life are only influenced by one culture, which is their birth culture.

  • @yasminevalencia5822
    @yasminevalencia5822 10 месяцев назад +3

    The reason I watched this video was because when I went to Cancun, I was speaking Spanish to the waitress and she instantly knew I wasn’t from Mexico. I told her my family was and I learned from my grandma but even then she told me my accent gave me away, and tbh it made me feel different, like I didn’t fit in I guess. She sat us by the beach at least lmao

    • @daigomori7374
      @daigomori7374 4 месяца назад +1

      Yeah, and you learned something. Be proud of being American. People in Mexico will know you're an outsider. It's a foreign country. Just like Italian Americans going to Italy. They are considered Americans by the Italians.

    • @gisselleperezmoreno1910
      @gisselleperezmoreno1910 3 месяца назад +2

      @@daigomori7374Here is the problem, when you say you’re American, the typical blonde hair blue eyed Americans claim you arent

  • @Hola-wb5dk
    @Hola-wb5dk 2 месяца назад

    Like her, many Hispanic American bilinguals have an American accent when they speak Spanish and they also have a Spanish accent when they speak English. 😅 Not losing either language regardless of your accent is what I think matters most.

  • @kennethpetroni7911
    @kennethpetroni7911 Месяц назад +1

    I’m Italian. But I’m not white enough and Hispanics think I’m Hispanic acting white.

  • @martinrios2488
    @martinrios2488 2 месяца назад

    I hear ya.

  • @Brinquitos9
    @Brinquitos9 Месяц назад

    i understand ya

  • @laura3619
    @laura3619 2 месяца назад

    💕💕

  • @CH-hy8pi
    @CH-hy8pi Год назад +1

    Woohoo!!!!!!!! Amazing job, Ranchel!!! 🔥

  • @08prema
    @08prema 8 месяцев назад

    My family has been in the US for 5 generations, so I am American. I don't speak spanish, or anything. My family have married into other races. I have, blonde hair, hazel eyes, and have fair skin, so I just say I am American.

  • @noskpain2792
    @noskpain2792 Год назад +3

    I've never been told I'm not American. Born and raised here and don't know anywhere else.

  • @Miguel-hd1fj
    @Miguel-hd1fj 8 месяцев назад +2

    We're not Hispanics girl , we're are indigenous of this land

  • @user-tg1mf8ld5p
    @user-tg1mf8ld5p 2 месяца назад

    Idk even what I am part of my family is from Mexico, others from other parts I don’t know what to call myself, but I call myself white because I look white and we don’t speak Spanish or anything. All of that got lost when people from my family came to America they had to hide that they were Mexican so they just told everybody to say that they were white sadly nothing of that culture will ever be carried on in my family probably

  • @jorgeneves1334
    @jorgeneves1334 7 месяцев назад

    Interesting... America is a very large continent with many countries, and not just the USA. Mexico is actually in America, in North America to be more precise...

  • @Fondofmelobster
    @Fondofmelobster Год назад +2

    Arriba matamoros, arriba brownsville

  • @Ce-acatl7704
    @Ce-acatl7704 4 месяца назад +1

    With all due respect. People like her suffer from amnesia.

  • @nancyarias388
    @nancyarias388 Месяц назад

    This Is Not An Actual Problem, we should talk about other things instead

  • @ambu3412
    @ambu3412 2 месяца назад

    Don’t quote the Selena movie ! Lol

  • @direccionjuridica1313
    @direccionjuridica1313 2 месяца назад

    But... at least... el nopal en la frente te delata.

  • @zzzzzzzzzzzz1zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
    @zzzzzzzzzzzz1zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 3 месяца назад +1

    🤣

  • @Brewangelsfelafel
    @Brewangelsfelafel 11 месяцев назад

    Elocution

  • @IAMYOU-.
    @IAMYOU-. Год назад +10

    🎻
    This is ridiculous
    Ppl love being victims
    No matter my race or culture I am still American and proud of it

  • @debbiedire66
    @debbiedire66 Год назад +2

    Just pick a freaking box!!

  • @SlackersIndustry
    @SlackersIndustry 11 месяцев назад

    Was in the same boat but for about 10 years I stopped caring about all the labels and was just me. Happiest years of my life. Happens with all races, everyone born in the USA get treated differently in their home countries.