Gerry's Broken Promise to Faith - The Golden Bachelor
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- Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2023
- Faith explains to Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner the things that he made her feel -- safety, hope, peace -- when she was with him. Gerry tries to help Faith understand the difference between being in love with her and her being his person, and admits the regret that he felt for breaking a promise to her family. From 'The Golden Bachelor' season 1, episode 7, 'The Women Tell All.' Watch 'The Golden Bachelor' 2023 with Gerry Turner THURSDAYS 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.
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There are no winners and losers. This is about a group of people who have rediscovered their ability to find love. That is the prize.
Great way to look at it! I agree. Older women need to ignore the trash talk about us. All the garbage about hitting a wall. Men hit the wall too we just are better at overlooking it. We are not useless after 50. These ladies proved that. We have options. Maybe not like we did when we were in our 20s but we are wiser and better at sorting through those options. And if no one fits, we are good with ourselves. Being emotionally healthy and happy alone is inevitably good for the one we will meet.
Oh Gerry, he's the first bachelor that is genuine, you can see him tearing up while Faith talks. He's a real one.
God she has so much class. And there she is comforting HIM about breaking the promise to her family.
A lady til the end 💔
That is exactly why I don't think Gerry is the great guy so many others do. He manipulated all these women with his proclamations of love...even telling Faith's family. And there he and Faith sit, she is broken hearted and yet h
manipulates the conversation where she ends up comforting HIM...I mean, WTH.... I think he's really kind of a jerk.
When I saw him make that promise, I was like what are you doing Gerry? You know you can't keep all these promises.
@@staceylee7957 , gaslighting 101!
What i love about golden bachelor is that there is no ego. No pride. Just love and real feelings. We can all learn so much by the way they all carry themselves
Yes n yes. This was Definitely Grown folks Bachelor, I loved it myself 🎉🎉❤
I agree
I loved the show, but much has come out since he was on. There has been a lot come out that is not great about the show or even him. Watching him say things like he did to her and her family was just cruel. I thought the show was lovely in the beginning, but as time went on, I thought how terrible he was making these older women feel with the things he was saying…and then did not pick them. There was no ego and pride involved with the women. But you don’t think there is ego and pride in a man that gets to choose from twenty five women, make out with them, tell their parents lies ( she let him off way too easy). He promised her that too once. I just think the whole show is good for the man or the woman who is the bachelor or bachelorette. It is never too good for the women. And in this case, many had not been married for years, but still found getting close to someone very hard. Did he do one thing to guard her heart? Or any of their hearts for that matter. He was widow too, But zero real empathy. No he made her stay until the end. You cannot tell me, that he did not know who he would pick for those last few weeks. If he just picked her the last week or so, and did not know before, his fiancé should be worried. After she saw the show, Theresa should have run.
@@TheSfenn i agree 100%. I definitely spoke too soon. But i do love how the women got along still
@@slynner1111 and actually I just saw you answered this many weeks ago! It seemed he was there for the right reasons. I think Theresa is fooling herself. I hate it for her too. But I think they will all commiserate about Ole Jerry, when he leaves her too. I think it will come!
We want FAITH as the 1st GOLDEN BACHELORETTE!!! She absolutely deserves it, and would be so nice to see Faith live her own love story with her future soulmate.
I definitely agree ❤🥹
I like that Gerry acknowledged that he broke the promise he made to her family! 💔 This was a very vulnerable and heartbreaking conversation. You can see it was very hard for him to make this cut.
@@j.y.3604I don’t know if Gerry refused to compromise but I definitely saw that Faith had zero intentions of doing so. That said, having horses myself-relocating horses is no small thing, so I would have had big discussions about this issue and probably would have dated long distance to make sure this relationship worked out before making total commitment to where the final living arrangements were made. Both adults should have been open to compromise when it came to living arrangements. These people have grown children. It’s not as if their children are in grade school.
@@j.y.3604 i’m just curious why do you keep writing gerry g e r r y?
Heartbreaking. Faith expresses what I think many of us feel… passed over, broken relationships and thus we throw ourselves into our adult children, grandchildren and jobs while that wall gets higher. Then you wake up one morning & look in the mirror and that youthful look has made a quiet exit and your alone.
Great way of expressing of many women must feel
Amen
Gosh that just depressed the crap out of me, literally gave me an anxiety attack.. 😢
If you have children and grandchildren, then you’re not alone
Faith looked beautiful. Keep shining sister. Let Gerry go on and live his boring homey life with who ever. You are the Golden Bachelorette 2024.
Or she can find an amazing man off the show, too.
I hope if they do golden bachelorette, the cast kind and emotionally intelligent men. That was the awesome party about Gerry.
She’s too young
I would love for Faith to be the next Golden Bachelorette !!!!! Love you Miss Faith 💜 You deserve the BEST !!!
I hope she is going to be the Golden Bachorlette.She was my favorite out of the last three. I also like Ellen.I think it had to do with her not willing to move.I think he is genuinely a great man.I think he will pick Leslie but end up with someone else later on.
It would be a snorefest if Theresa is the next one.
Faith is so amazing and so sad he didn’t pick her
I’m willing to watch the show if they can keep it clean and as genuine as Gary was.
Faith our Golden Bachelorette ❤❤❤
Yes agree
Yep!
I hope faith will be the first golden bachelorette she is so adorable and sweet
That role was Faith's the very first episode. After rolling up on a motorcycle and then grabs her guitar and sings to Gerry -- it's a no-brainer.💯
Faith is a good person. Hopefully we'll see her in the golden bachelorette.
From the very beginning, I picked Faith as the choice for the first Golden Bachelorette. After last night's performance, Faith is the obvious choice for the lead.💯
I was just happy she got thru this show without falling out of her dress...😕
@@penelope5500 TOO MUCH 😮
@@penelope5500 It looked good on her -- breast implants and all!
I agree that Faith is the best choice, but Thersa has manipulated her way through this entire process, and I fear she will win.
Maybe other bachelors should take a note from gerrys class and making everyone feel special without sleeping with all of them.
Don't judge all men or bachelors by a few.😮?
@@oldgoat50 I'm sorry. I meant the bachlors on the different seasons. Idefinitely didnt mean to judge all men based on a few. :)
Thanks. Being a year older than Gerry and from Indiana felt there were at least 2 good guy's in Indiana.😅
Uh, he's an ACTOR, hellooooo....
Give her a tissue?
He needs to stop telling all these women that he loves them. That word comes with expectations
this has been the best thing the franchise has done so much maturity so much love i love it!!!!!!!!
I really wish everyone on these shows would stop throwing around the word 'LOVE' until they get to the final person. Especially, when they're up in age and as vulnerable as some people can be after they've been through so much in life, and have chosen to be alone for so long. You just hope for a 'yes', and prepare your heart for a possible 'no'. And the one choosing should just take it easy, let it flow, and proceed with caution. 😊
'FRAGILE HEARTS'!
I agree! I know myself well enough to say I can feel immediate connection, passion, desire, chemistry but love takes time. If I can't get to know someone, I can't feel I genuinely love them. The beginnings of love may be there but love is an action. If there is no active time being spent then it's not long-term LOVE material imo.
Maybe save the word Love until you know for sure. Save it for the final rose!
When l look at all the ladies who participated Gerry had a lot of good choices those ladies loved him and each other I look at the laughter and fun they had and each one took something special home that they learned from their experience great job ladies I pray each and every one of you find that special someone you truly deserve God Bless You All.
This broke my heart for Faith. DON’T tell a woman I LOVE YOU TOO and then NOT choose her! 💔💔
I so agree! This bothered me so much that he did that and then used the excuse that’s what he was feeling in the moment! So very wrong and hurtful! I lost respect for him in this episode.
Faith Golden bachelorette 💛
Yep absolutly agree
Does anyone feel like their exchange revealed how wonderful their communication was!?! Even though what we think doesn't matter in his decision...
Dang! They seem so good together!!! I just hope both of them find the missing piece to their hearts! ❤
Ughhh why can't every reunion be this classy and genuine and mature! I just love them! ❤
I was in tears the whole time. The way they hugged each other and just sobbed
From the very first episode I picked Faith as the first Golden Bachelorette. After last night's performance, Faith is the obvious choice. 💯
Totally agree! Just so much grace and class. I’m glad she didn’t throw herself at him like a “Thot” because we are to old for all that……Ijs
Perfect for you but not for him. He has to follow his heart
@@user-db1cw4js1y "Perfect???" Not sure what you mean by that as I said I picked Faith for the first Golden Bachelorette, not the last woman standing. I knew weeks before the first episode of GB that Faith was one of the final three but not one of Gerry's final two.
I really think it was wrong for Gerry to tell several women that he loved them . Saying that is something special and he should have taken it that way. I do believe Gerry is a kind person and men like him are few and I don’t think he meant to hurt anyone but to say “ I love you “ I think he should have thought it over before doing it and only say it to one lady the one that he really loved.
I paid a lot of attention to his home visit with this particular woman and she in my mind apparently was happy and tied to where she lived. He had never been on a horse and seemed uncomfortable when he made the effort to ride with her.She gave the impression that she was happy and was going to continue to live there and that's fine but when you marry you have to compromise., and I don't think she wanted to do that.I believe that's why he made decision not to go forward with the relationship and I think he did the right thing for himself and his future !
Exactly! Their lifestyles were too different and not his element at all! He is into water sports and pickleball!!! Not horses and farms! She admitted here that she overlooked these things and now certainly gets it! He likely didn’t want to say it to hurt her!
I am happy that someone else seen this as I did to me it was apparent she was not going to budge.
I agree I thought that was the reason too.
@@roreyb7 then why sit there with her family and tell them all he was in love with her? What a jerk....manipulating all these women the way he did. And then, in the end, Faith sits there broken hearted comforting him... WTH. I was fed up with all his crying. To me it was cringy.
I do agree he was wrong to profess his love to multiple women and it was juvenile and he should be accountable for his actions. Unfortunately this in fact is a competition vying for the love of one man and all but one woman is going to be hurt in the end.
Faith should be Golden Bachelorette! She is such a sweet soul.
Faith is so beautiful and classy. Honest and sincere. She would of made an excellent partner for him.
If only their lifestyles could have meshed but not possible! He is not a horse farm person at all! He is a pickleball guy! Water sports! She admitted she overlooked that part here!
The host was correct. So much mutual respect between the two, the way it should be.
Yeah he better cry!!! He fudged up. Faith was by far the most genuine person there. They had a beautiful connection but if he can’t appreciate that, she deserves better!!
Amen
Jerry wasn't the ranch type...not animal crazy like Faith.
Heartbreaking I’m was totally shocked about this one! You so classy Faith you’ll fine your soul mate. In time you’ll know ❤
My heart breaks for Faith and I pray she finds love in time and Gerry is a wonderful man .I would love to see more men like him.
The show was reportedly filmed in 3 1/2 weeks. Hard to imagine the feeling of loss she is describing here - and Faith is gorgeous so hoping there is someone great for her on the horizon.
Her hurt was so real and raw. Broke my heart. 😢
I liked faith out of all of them I think she's a very genuine lady and she will find love somewhere else I think Gary's completely wrong by saying I love you to three different women when he doesn't even know what the hell love is
Gerry has to choose the most compatible lady for his family as well.
Faith is a class act, I hope she is the first Golden Bachelorette💛
We love you Faith! We are glad you are back home but we are sad Gerry did not come with you. Maybe you can be the next Golden Bachelorette!!
Faith, this man don't deserve you, he tells the woman what they want to hear, man you need to be alone, and move on with your life, you are definitely pitiful 💔
Agree with others about having people from all over the country. These are older adults who have established families with children & grandchildren, not like the 20-30's Bachelor shows
Yes I agree, whoever they cast for the main role, the contestants should be people who live in the same region of the U.S. to stay close with their families. Some women even left the show due to family obligations, so they need to consider that heavily next time.
On the one hand, if they continue the Golden Bachelor show, the producers should be more mindful of where contestants live. It's not so easy to leave your children & grandchildren if you've been living close by them.
It takes an extreme amount of commitment to uproot our lives as we get older. It would be nice if we could be more carefree, but sometimes it's just not that simple. Would Faith sell her horse ranch? Would Gerry move to her home? Would they both move to a new home someplace else? The same can be said about any of the women.
It also depends on whether you're at a stage in your life to go ahead and do what you want and throw caution to the wind.
It's not as though you'd never see your family ever again if you move to another state.
How willing are you to change for love the second time around. You've been there for your family, now it's your time.
What's wrong if you both say to your family, hey, we want to get married and live in Italy, or Hawaii? You can come visit us!
He said his love for her was real in those moments...really? What about AFTER those moments...either you love someone or you don't!
It’s a tough situation. He also needs to protect whatever relationship he is in now (if he is in one).
I caught that too🙄 which doesn’t make sense.
@@rosalynstevens5033 Right...I'd have been all over that if someone said that to me!
You got it 100%!! It means he loved her intermittently 😮😮😮
Basically he's a child like many men that age.He will settle for the wife homey teary thing of Theresa..boring.
Faith was very firm about her rural lifestyle. She was not interested in moving away from her family. And she felt that Gerry would not be interested in adopting her rural lifestyle. She was not being very flexible. She was no opened to negotiations. Which could be due to her very tough childhood years. Unfortunately that was a turn off for Gerry.
Agree. I was pissed but then remembered this.
It was written on the wall at home town. Unfortunately he picked the most needy of the 3. Faith seems to be the most grounded of the 3. Leslie is insecure and Theresa will she is just needy as heck. Honestly I would walk away from all of them. That’s my opinion don’t come after me.
@@robyndeddens6658 agree. He should walk. Theresa is awful and Leslie is depressed constantly. I don't think he'll be happy with any of them.
You are spot on
What information do you have to show this?
They should have done things differently with this set of older people. There shouldn't have been people from all over the country. Any connection was doomed from the start.
Yes because I’m to old to be giving my family up for a man
To each his own… I’d fly across the world for mine… and visit often ☺️
I love Faith she was such a guiding light and beautiful woman, and I will always wonder what was it that Gerry didn't see in her to keep her. She was truly the one. His mistake that's how the show go's. This was the first time I have ever watch this program and I am a man 69 years old and single but a caregiver at the moment. I enjoyed it but was ever sad for the ones for had to leave.
Her horse lifestyle was just not his at all!!!! That’s it! She admitted that she overlooked the other things like that of you listen again carefully! She knew her life there wasn’t his kind! Makes perfect sense she was not his lifestyle.
I think he didn't pick her b/c of a pattern in men imo.
It's a milder version in older guys in this case between seeing women as mother/whore.Faith empathized that she liked adventure spontaneous things and that's how she was seen but she also said she had a deeper side where she wanted to have a commited relay with some one and feel safe as she basically said here.The date she had with him was basically just what she wanted outdoors,risks climbing mountains and fast vehicles with not much fear on her part.After he told her he loved her explained it was in the moment like the good time he had on the date? Says she was in the bad girl category.Meanwhile Theresa overly sentimental sharing they both lost spouses from the first meeting ,all about family but he still lied to Faith family says he bought into Theresa lifestyle as it was motherly.He went to the comfortable life of his wife and a lot of the other women previously married.Not able or not wanted to see the depth to Faith she had.This is a flaw I see in many men of that age which us my generstion.They go
towards towards the shining object like childern but difficult to see a women's depth of a women once part their child bearing years.Never trusted him early on.
my generation...of a woman...once past the chold- bearing years...
In my mind, if the geography was better, he would have chosen Faith. I hope that this New GB series will change the perimeters of contestents to match the same State as the "star". It might take more advertising in the specific area. But to find people of this age group and station of life to uproot themselves to move thousands of miles away, is ludicris. We're not twenty somethings wanting to "backpack" our long established lives that we worked so hard for. Faith will find the right and better match for her. I'm not so sure about Gerry at this juncture.But l sincerely wish him the very best of luck for His Future! Brightest Blessings to whomever chooses to read this! ☺️✌️❤️🦋🙏
Totally agree 💯 my male friends said the franchise should pick a younger golden bachelor next time
Not geography! Lifestyle is very key! He is not a horse farm kind of guy at all! She admitted she overlooked that in this video if you listen, so she gets it!
Wow, looking for a guy just like him - what an awesome man with clarity of his feelings and kindness through and through. God bless you and whom you choose for a life partner.
Gosh I love Gerry 🥲 so pure!
Nooo, he cut Faith 😢
@@valeriesantos8178 I mean that's just how the show works. You pick the person you have the strongest connection with.
@@valeriesantos8178 Gerry was the one "dating" Faith. It's was his choice to do so.
@ilovegoodsap I don’t remember anyone saying it wasn’t his choice. Tho I hope his choice gels well w/him… this feed is for our thoughts and their algorithm.
@alexlazzerly That’s how the show works at times… other times, they later find that no connection is really strong, so the producers keep whomever ups their ratings.
Why do they say i love you to more than one or at all when they apparently do not even know each other. I think the show has a script for all of them.
"My love for you was genuine in those moments." This is childish b.s.
He made the wrong decision by not choosing Faith for putting convenience over love. They both had strong family ties and personal agendas, but if love was real, they could have figured out how to be together. He is a nice person, but he is not looking for a strong independent woman. Convenience for him. Never tell you are in love to someone unless you are sure. He might regret his choice.
I can feel her pain when I watch this, it's so real.
You’re looking at the first Golden Bachelorette
He feels regret! It's beautiful to see a connection without intimacy involved. That says alot! Faith is fit and beautiful and she should live up to her name ..keep the faith, Faith😅 and heal! Your time will come and your sons are handsome😊
This was planned all along , Faith will be the first golden Bachelorette. Remember Trista?
Faith was the first profile introduced in the press clip during the show's promo before the season began. I knew when Faith rolled up on that motorcycle and later pull her guitar out and sang ti Gerry, she was the producers choice for the first Golden Bachelorette. 💯
@@ilovegoodsaxthat’s amazing, I truly love her.
Ok, can we get rid of the regular bachelor and make the golden bach a regular? Keep bip, I'm fine with it as the only young cast show.
Wow Gerry letting Faith go was a big mistake…..to hell with the show go back and get her.
He fell in love someone else and she was right for his life.
He can't just throw her away and go get faith.
@@dixieshepherd4132 he said he’s in love with her❤️ that’s not something that vanish over night
No it wasn’t!!!! Their lifestyles are way too different and she admitted that she overlooked that part here if you listen carefully! He is looking for a slight adjustment but not a horse farm! It’s not his lifestyle at all! He lives on a lake!!!
I really hate to see faith 😢 so broken 💔 😭 up over this golden bachelor. Poor lady had a hard life. Faith is the total package for any man of any age. ❤
I wanted Faithto find happiness with Gerry so bad. She is so beautiful and kind and genuine and she deserves the WORLD.
FAITH should be the GOLDEN BACHELORETTE!!! hello abc!!
Faith! You're Our Winner!😢
So much better then watching those 20 year olds and their bs, keep up with the older bachelor bachelorette seasons
💯
@@francinesanchez5402 they're very mature and caring, its way better than the younger version of aspiring models/actresses/influencers OVER IT
I have to agree. Although I loved the last season with Charity. Her and Dotun are pretty wholesome.
So classy for them to be kind, although one is devastated.
I really thought he would pick her
they had SUCH a connection!! either they edited that or he’s a great actor. cannot believe he eliminated her
I knew he would not because their lifestyle is way too different! He is not a horse guy at all!
THIS BREAKS MY HEART💔
Relationship has to do with two people coming together...she wasn't ready to leave her lifestyle. It wasn't a smart hood. Gerry has to go with his heart.
Gerry was misleading because he made a statement that implied that it wouldn’t be a problem because “love conquer all”
Lifestyle was important to him as it is for everyone s d she wasn’t willing to compromise hers! She needs a cowboy!
I watched the whole series and thought it was very staged because it is TV. But to throw the words I love you to mutiple women and kiss on most of them just does not make much sense to me. But then this is TV ...they need to keep ratings up.
I totally agree! The producers must be young because on some parts of the editing they dropped the ball
Faith, Gerry made the biggest mistake of his life cutting you off. He's going to regret it.
No he did not and she knows it now! Their very different lifestyles do not mesh at all! She admitted she overlooked that here so she gets it now! She wasn’t willing to compromise her life for him and he needs that! He is a pickleballer and water guy! Love doesn’t over rode lifestyle later in life as that is very important!
He really is a wounderful person ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ wish they were more men like him
That’s the most beautiful thing i have ever seen on the bachelor
Faith needs to be next Bachelorette. But Gerry did not want to live out rural area; not his lifestyle. They are only human and complex beings.
Nooo why is Faith sent home.😢
I thought she'd be the one!!!
It's simple. He didn't want her.
@@lynnhester8211 Exactly!💯💯💯
@karinamax Same ‼️
How do these women get caught up this fast. I'm 60 and I can't imagine falling for someone that hard in 3 weeks. Well, ar all cost it's good TV. I like Gary although I knew ge wasn't going to pick a Sista😂😂😂😂
How can u love like this in 6 weeks
Love real love knows without playing with with the ❤
This should be a 2 hr, program like the series, one hr. each week not long enough,,,
On Netflix
You know what? I thought Gerry is a really good man but after those choices he made I changed my mind…sending home the nicest women? Choosing those two means something about him…no doubt about it 🤐
It wasn't for us to choose who he wanted I think if when you know someone is the one play this differently keep your true feeling inside before you start saying I LOVE YOU.. I HAVE FEELING FOR YOU it really doesn't work that way . ..
Gerry’s flippant attitude towards true love has hurt a couple of women and broken their hearts.
She’s the Golden Bachelorette most definitely
All a man has is his word. And he can’t break his word. That’s awful.
It’s hard watching women this age, most of whom have long been divorced or widowed, getting their hearts broken.
The hurt and devastation seems much deeper and more palpable than with the 20-somethings. Before coming on the show, these women had largely given up on ever finding love again. They know their time is running out and their options have dwindled. It’s painful seeing them so disappointed. I can see many of them possibly falling into a depression after this. 💔
Heartbreaking ❤️🩹
She's to.pretty for him. She should be the next golden bachelorette.
Faith I just saw you on EXTRA,you are a well spoken beautiful rock star girl!! Golden bachelorette here you come! I'm Friends with Bobby,you are such a sweetheart you are gonna find love, Tri-cities is hard to though,in the same boat 😘 blessings Cindy
Cant believe on national tv that this was shown.
I don't follow the show but watching tonight I find Faith to be the prettiest.
Alot of men, should take notes from Gerry.. the Golden Bachelor to me is better and has more heart, love, compassion, and more.
Wow, Faith is a class act!
Jesse couldn't wait to get these two off the stage and on to the next segment.
Aww ❤
I am not sorry I missed this season.
I liked Faith the best because she rode motorcycles and played guitar 🎸
Lol she definitely the most talented one
Faith should be the first Golden Bachelorette.
FAITH THE NEXT GOLDENETTE BACHELORETTE 🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤
If she become the next Goldenette I’m given watch meetups at my home every Thursday 🙂🙂🙂
@@rosalynstevens5033 🤣🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤣
Oh my gosh I'm disappointed also I like faith since from the beginning 😢😢😢
He also told her the distance may be an issue !
He also said when it comes to finding the right person things could be worked out. Gerry reneged on several things when it came to Faith….. Golden bachelorette 2024
Convenience comes to the rescue of he doesn't travel well.
I see faith as the 1st Golden bachelorette
Very disappointed I really like him and faith together I thought that he would've picked her I'm done with watching this show
Their lifestyle was way too different and she was stubborn to stay in hers! Don’t be that way! If he picks the other lady and not Theresa, he will be happiest guy alive and succeed and be a success! Have some faith the last two ladies he does have love for too!
I don't know why but I never say Faith with Gerry. She's so intense. Too much too soon.
Faith was warm, genuine, and classy. Theresa? I don't get it.
Faith should be The Golden Bachelorette