Wanting a Trad Wife is 100% Misogynistic

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

Комментарии • 164

  • @zerotolerance2026
    @zerotolerance2026 2 месяца назад +60

    I’d rather be single and at peace than spend my life force energy trying to teach a grown man how to be a respectful human being. 👎🏾

  • @TheOriginalScorpioBelle
    @TheOriginalScorpioBelle 2 месяца назад +55

    53:30 I've been a traditional sahm. Now I'm divorced and working and it's much easier than being a traditional sahm.

    • @nikkilong7377
      @nikkilong7377 2 месяца назад +7

      Facts. My biggest stress release has been knowing I no longer have to worry about walking on eggshells. What mood is he going to be in today?

    • @TheOriginalScorpioBelle
      @TheOriginalScorpioBelle 2 месяца назад +5

      @@nikkilong7377 that’s horrible. Glad you’re free. Mine was not having to mother a grown man who I didn’t raise. Community 🍤 with minimal home training.

    • @M.T.-qm4rt
      @M.T.-qm4rt 29 дней назад

      A man-child is worse than an actual difficult child because at least you have hope of the actual child maturing.

  • @2232Serena
    @2232Serena 2 месяца назад +49

    Is Brandon the one who talked smack about dark skinned women in front of his dark skinned baby, who was crying? That was terrible. I'm on the low end of the melanin scale of a YT, and that call was still triggering.

    • @personofthefuture123
      @personofthefuture123 2 месяца назад +16

      He should've been permanently banned after that

    • @halliadams5987
      @halliadams5987 2 месяца назад +1

      Oh, was that Brandon who was saying that in front of his daughter?
      I heard that interaction. It was so sad! 😢😢😢 I felt so bad for that child.

  • @LunatheLoungeSinger
    @LunatheLoungeSinger 2 месяца назад +37

    People love to romanticize "Tradition" without researching its actual origins. Like yes Mumus are comfortable but if you knew about the lil girls forced to wear them for thier old husband's easy access you may reflect on wearing one. However we are so conditioned to accept and not question, that when we do it's met with anger and contempt. 😂

    • @brunoqnzbk7891
      @brunoqnzbk7891 2 месяца назад +17

      Honestly, that's why I almost ALWAYS wear pants. No easy access. That's why men love trying to force women to wear that BS. I'm from NYC, so always gotta be ready for that action. I'm much more dexterous in pants and kicks. 😂❤

    • @LunatheLoungeSinger
      @LunatheLoungeSinger 2 месяца назад

      @@brunoqnzbk7891 same. Bx all day

    • @muadhnate
      @muadhnate 2 месяца назад +2

      🤢🤢🤢

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 2 месяца назад +1

      True story. Although I wonder why public corrected dude from sex roles to gender roles. It is sex roles. That is correct. Genders are pronounced, not for people. The correct term is SEX ROLES.
      That he jumped right on and corrected that shows that he may be getting directives from someone above him about not offending the twwanzzz lobby.

  • @SunRiseEast365
    @SunRiseEast365 2 месяца назад +28

    Eff! I'm 11 minutes in and highly triggered as a woman/mother. These men do not understand what women did in the past, and the amount of labour we do now!

    • @ncx3066
      @ncx3066 2 месяца назад +5

      They understand. They are downplaying it but they understand. Otherwise they wouldn't be seeking it.

  • @lobengone477
    @lobengone477 2 месяца назад +24

    I’m sick of these dudes fr. 😂 They make everything so difficult

  • @les1den2
    @les1den2 2 месяца назад +17

    How does it escape them that when they had absolute power over us had they not abused said power we wouldn’t want to run away…. It’s like any oppressed group if they weren’t being OPPRESSED they wouldn’t want FREEDOM because they would already have it!!!!!! If they were such good husbands why would so many women be opting out of relationships altogether? This math has to math at some point dude!!!!

  • @DashNash-z7k
    @DashNash-z7k 2 месяца назад +21

    They love Bringin up what traditional women but can’t do half of any of the shiy traditional men can 😂

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Месяц назад

      Being a traditional man is not that hard, just have a job lol and pay all the bills

    • @DashNash-z7k
      @DashNash-z7k Месяц назад

      @@purplelove3666include fixing the house, changing a tire, plumbing, etc. if you have to hire another man to do your house and vehicle work you aren’t traditional

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад +12

    Women had no human or legal rights.

  • @TheOriginalScorpioBelle
    @TheOriginalScorpioBelle 2 месяца назад +22

    32:51 Even with one meal a day. It's still not comparable to mowing the lawn.

    • @TheOriginalScorpioBelle
      @TheOriginalScorpioBelle 2 месяца назад +2

      @eatpurple77 exactly 💯💯💯

    • @thandondlovu5392
      @thandondlovu5392 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@eatpurple77Thank you!!!!

    • @kdphotos4691
      @kdphotos4691 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@eatpurple77- Exactly. And how often does the roof need replacing? 😂

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 2 месяца назад +5

      ​​@eatpurple77it is easy actually I used to mow my dad's lawn they act like women never do these chores or they take over all the house chores to insult your integrity don't let this bother you. Switch it up on him expect him to make dinner every time you get off work and complain about paying his light bill.. the roof also rarely needs replacing just don't move into a place were the house constantly needs repairs..

    • @sweetandsimple.
      @sweetandsimple. 2 месяца назад +2

      Let's be real! Men are not mowing lawns and fixing roofs. They outsource that work.

  • @JenniferBoyatt
    @JenniferBoyatt 2 месяца назад +11

    Most infants need to be breastfed every two - three hours. And it takes at least 45 minutes to do it. Laundry and scratch cooking in between.

  • @LunatheLoungeSinger
    @LunatheLoungeSinger 2 месяца назад +19

    Also if you want a traditional life pls don't use any modern technologies, work physical traditional jobs, grow your own traditional food, use traditional medicine etc. 😅

    • @muadhnate
      @muadhnate 2 месяца назад +1

      Leeches. Arsenic. Strychnine. 😂

  • @stepfaniehawkins205
    @stepfaniehawkins205 2 месяца назад +9

    No one is responsible for the choices they make, when the choices are lies to begin with.

  • @SocialButterfly892
    @SocialButterfly892 2 месяца назад +14

    🤣🤣🤣 5 mins in Public already giving em the crazy eyes cause dude was buggin BIG TIME and wasn’t realizing it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 #ThisIsGoneBeGood 😂

  • @jordynn55
    @jordynn55 2 месяца назад +8

    Women do so much not to mention in the black community with daughters that is a whole job itself too. It takes me 2 1/2 hours per head and I have three daughters hair to style. I’m doing hair either every week or biweekly. This doesn’t even take into account preparing their clothes, ensuring that you put clothes away every single season to get ready for the next. Then you have shopping for the entire household and children that takes work once you get done shopping you come back and then you also have to put it away and clean up and cook the food. After the food is cooked, the man is tired. He doesn’t want to help clean so you need to clean up as well. like women are literally working more than a lot of men then coming home to do more labor it’s so exhaustive and simply unfair. It’s not equitable for the woman to even have a man in this day and age.

    • @MissAfricanAmerican99
      @MissAfricanAmerican99 27 дней назад

      The first part of this comment resonated with me. My mother had to do my hair every morning and wrap it every night. I still remember watching Angel while sitting in her chair. And she never complained or told me she hated doing my hair.

  • @JenniferBoyatt
    @JenniferBoyatt 2 месяца назад +5

    My grandmother was a teacher as a young adult in the 1930s in western U.S. The rule of the school was that once a woman got pregnant, she could no longer teach. She needed to go home and be a mom. The rule belonged to the school not to the choice of the woman or even of her partnership with her husband.
    In the late 90s, I lived in a small religiously conservative town. I applied for a job at an insurance company (front desk or something). I was told verbatim that I needed to go home and take care of my husband; not even evasion. The owner had an office full of women. I think he was socially afraid of my in-laws, too (influential men) and their opinions. However, what infuriated me the most was the implication that I could not have possibly, as an adult, thought through a proper decision of what I needed to do best for my family (i.e. applying for a job at this time) and that the person who, in ten minutes of the interview, would automatically have come to a better decision for me and my family. But that implication was too deep of a layer of the patriarchy.
    Also: Women don't need and want you to do 'home repairs' or etc. That's not a purpose for partnership. I mean, home repairs might need to be figured out between the two of you. But that's not what women need from men, as such. If a woman is single, she will pay someone (professional man or woman) to do repairs. Her reasoning for getting partnered is not that. If she is (healthily) choosing you, it's for much more personal reasons; about the greater whole that can come from two loving personalities.

  • @LunatheLoungeSinger
    @LunatheLoungeSinger 2 месяца назад +11

    The idea of community would produce "gossip" which men despised as it would allow women to compare and contrast thier home lives and question whether or not there is more to life than just being a wife and mother.
    Didnt the idea of commuinity produce Chicken Pox parties lol?

  • @ambasd733
    @ambasd733 2 месяца назад +18

    And a 100yr old home would need to be updated to TODAY'S environmental Standards 😂😂

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 2 месяца назад +1

      Publics comment that you aren't taking care of your family unless you have health insurance.. is totally insane. But most people don't realize how insane it is. There are truly brainwashed by the pharmaceutical and insurance companies to believe that health insurance is beneficial. It is not. It costs far more than it benefits.

    • @hurtingfeelingsdaily
      @hurtingfeelingsdaily 2 месяца назад

      It's got lead. That's why he so dumb😅😅

    • @rjohnson8675
      @rjohnson8675 Месяц назад

      @@hurtingfeelingsdaily and asbestos.

  • @SouthernP751
    @SouthernP751 2 месяца назад +6

    Lmao at Brandon pretending like his wife was some old woman who preyed on him when they were only 3 years apart. That is a reasonable age range lol- he wanted to victimize himself so badly

  • @sweetandsimple.
    @sweetandsimple. 2 месяца назад +6

    Men aren't really doing what's been traditional known as their role in the home. They outsource it and hire others to do it but if a woman was to outsource any work traditionally expected of them they're seen as lazy and hit with the "that's what you're here for" comment.

  • @shellylen
    @shellylen 2 месяца назад +12

    I’m from Georgia and GV is representative of the pickings here. Like GV or Rupaul… that’s what we have.

    • @TheJalesa1207
      @TheJalesa1207 2 месяца назад +5

      This is so true. And they all lie

    • @925whocares5
      @925whocares5 2 месяца назад +2

      Not RuPaul 😂😂😂😂

  • @DashNash-z7k
    @DashNash-z7k 2 месяца назад +6

    They get their ideas of women from TV shows and movies 😂

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад +6

    My grandma had 8 children, grew her own foor, pumped water, cut wood, had no indoor plumbing. My grandpa traveled to the oil fields and was rarely home to help with anything.

  • @stepfaniehawkins205
    @stepfaniehawkins205 2 месяца назад +11

    New mother's have to learn how to breastfeed. You do that wrong and it will tear up their breasts and the baby could starve to death.

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 2 месяца назад

      Disagree. I've had children and breastfeeding is just something the baby will do. Where the misconception comes from is the way hospitals try to force babies to feed in the first day or two. Most babies really aren't interested. They might drink some colostrum, they might not. But the milk comes in on the second ish day and that's when babies take a real interest. It's totally normal. Hospitals like to kick you out immediately, while at the same time saying that if the baby doesn't feed, you can't leave. Hahaha. I'm going to leave whenever I want. They're welcome to not see one red cent of insurance money if I leave AMA. :)
      And for the record, I always give birth at home, I'm just talking about what I know about hospitals.
      Formula companies have put millions and millions of dollars into propaganda convincing women they don't know how to breastfeed.
      Sometimes there's a lip tie or a tongue tie or some other issue. But that is the exception, not the rule.
      All that is beside the point to say that breastfeeding is still work in the sense that it takes time. It takes attentiveness to the needs of the baby. So breastfeeding doesn't need to be learned for it to be work.

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад +3

    Most women do the majority of the outside work also.

  • @PenelopeSnowe
    @PenelopeSnowe 2 месяца назад +15

    Based off attraction, does GV have beef with Beeezy?

    • @nanciatnyte
      @nanciatnyte 2 месяца назад +8

      I love that I know the context of “based off attraction.”

  •  2 месяца назад +18

    Womanhood does not come naturally!

    • @les1den2
      @les1den2 2 месяца назад

      Dude I promise… from our toys to the gifts they give women are “trained” from the gate….. 🤨 toy vacuums fuckin play kitchens how wants a damn iron for a toy🤨 these folks don’t think outside of their dicks🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Bella_Noire
      @Bella_Noire 2 месяца назад +5

      Exactly. Training starts at toddler-stage. Dolls to take care of, easy-bake ovens to train for cooking, little doll strollers to practice pushing baby around, etc. As toddlers, we’re basing trained to take care of the babies and home. Wife-dom and motherhood definitely does not come naturally.

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад +2

    most women cannot even get men to move an armoire in the home ergo furniture sliders.

  • @luna-p
    @luna-p 2 месяца назад +2

    Just because men are stronger than women on average, doesn't mean women have NO strength. I worked at Lowe's lugging around 60 gal buckets of paint, 80 lb bags of cement, hundreds of pounds of marble tile and grout, table saws in boxes that were bigger than me in my 5'3" 120 lb frame., etc. Just googling "jobs women took over in WW2" you see welders, machinists, riveters, truck drivers, airplane mechanics, lab techs, and radio operators. GTFOH with that women can't smith mess.

  • @Slimkey1.0
    @Slimkey1.0 2 месяца назад +8

    I think it would be beautiful to cook and clean together😂 it’s such a vibe❤

    • @lobengone477
      @lobengone477 2 месяца назад +7

      It’s actually intimate . Men just don’t know how much tail they could get if they helped. We could clean have a sex break and then cook some food after. It could be soooo simple

    • @stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax
      @stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax 2 месяца назад

      Men don't understand the purpose of shared effort and being a partner. In their minds, if you are a woman, you are automatically assigned to the kitchen. You are automatically their personal chef. Regardless of being a stay at home mom or working a full-time job. The majority of them don't even know how to cook anything but Ramen noodles and a grilled cheese sandwich or scrambled eggs. Cooking and cleaning isn't just a woman's role. They can cook and clean as well.

  • @lobengone477
    @lobengone477 2 месяца назад +4

    Kel is slow😂

  • @leichaurellelux7547
    @leichaurellelux7547 2 месяца назад +2

    28:42
    Here is how he on that BS
    In general, you should clean your gutters twice a year, ideally in late spring and fall.
    😂

  • @RitaChanelle
    @RitaChanelle 2 месяца назад +1

    This man's ain't no ways are sending me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nikkilong7377
    @nikkilong7377 2 месяца назад +3

    All that bashing about single mothers Brandon does, and he created a single mother. 😵‍💫 you can't make this up.

  • @elyse443
    @elyse443 2 месяца назад +1

    This show makes you really realize just how whacked out men really truly are. They are creepy!

  • @leichaurellelux7547
    @leichaurellelux7547 2 месяца назад +1

    1:50:34
    Facts EXTREMELY neglected I raised myself my mom left me at 7 months my dad was PHYSICALLY abusive towards woman whooped the azz until he married a woman who threat to SMOKE him. 😂
    Big ups to my Stepmom 😎

  • @leichaurellelux7547
    @leichaurellelux7547 2 месяца назад +6

    They done watched Ballerina Farm create content for what SHE want you all to think she does a lot as a billionaire wife 😂
    It truly proves some men take what they see LITERALLY.
    He want to live like Little House on the Prairie
    1974 ‧ Western ‧ 9 seasons. 😂😂😂😂

  • @arianaedwards6793
    @arianaedwards6793 Месяц назад

    One job isn’t better than the other. It’s just preference. Good thing it’s 2024 and you can live your life freely regardless of who is offended.

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад +1

    No, my parents new home was built in roughly 1959.

  • @marleneschultz9092
    @marleneschultz9092 2 месяца назад

    Instead of blaming women they should go to the government because the economy has gone up 400% in 50 years.

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад +1

    How is it a young man oblivious to use bc for himself, or better not be goaded into irresponsible smegs.

  • @ramunebradfordtake2710
    @ramunebradfordtake2710 2 месяца назад +1

    Ladies stay away from Brandon, he is scary as f. Like there is no critical thinking. And bitter as hell.

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад

    grew their own food

  • @leichaurellelux7547
    @leichaurellelux7547 2 месяца назад +1

    This why men hate kid duties you have no control over their autonomy.
    A man can walk a dog to the forest let it poop not pick it up.
    But a baby diaper change is daily 😂
    My husband hated the carseat when he was raising his kid at 21 and many other downfalls so he just sucked it and went robot.
    Me as a mom at 15 I lived in pure regret because my child was my lil pesky sister in my mindset at 15.
    Hence to why we both have no other kids and opt to have a bio child together as husband and wife

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад

    There really is no traditional wife but on TV shows.

  • @purplelove3666
    @purplelove3666 Месяц назад

    Being a traditional woman is not a soft life

  • @God-Love-Freedom
    @God-Love-Freedom 2 месяца назад +4

    So should men only become better men for the women they want (aka their preferences)? Or should men become better men for any woman they are in relationship with, regardless if they “want” them or not? What’s the agenda?

    • @Bella_Noire
      @Bella_Noire 2 месяца назад +3

      They’re not going to change for any woman. They say they’ll change for the woman they want as a deflection; (if he don’t change for you it’s your fault; you’re not the woman he wants) but in actuality they move the same way in every relationship. If they find their dream woman at 30+ years old-the same way the treated their ex, is they way they’ll treat their dream woman (after the honeymoon period ends). They don’t become better men: they just change women.

    • @LouLouLion
      @LouLouLion Месяц назад

      If you're waiting for a man to change, you'll wait for eternity. Also, don't be with anyone who doesn't want you, preference or not. Why would you do that? You sound like you know a man doesn't want you, but you think videos like Public's will convince him to do right by you anyway. Why would you want him?! These men aren't changing. If you like mistreatment, have a relationship with one. If not, your options are 4B or pray for a unicorn. This "preference" bs is just another way for men to pit women against one another to compete for them. They're no prize. They treat everyone like sh!t, including their "preference." Decenter men, and realize other women aren't your enemy. Personally, idgaf what they do. I'm happier than I've ever been without them. My plan is 4B, and to focus on my business and make that bread so I can take care of the women in my family who actually gaf about me. You do whatever. But misogynists usually never change and trying to be with one is hell on earth. Most men, almost all, are misogynists.

  • @dgtlmyooz
    @dgtlmyooz 2 месяца назад +1

    GV so irra omg 😂😂😂😂

  • @leichaurellelux7547
    @leichaurellelux7547 2 месяца назад

    1:48:37
    Googled
    What is the controversy with the tradwife?
    And, the concept of being a tradwife has created much controversy because it sometimes seems to glorify and romanticize a time when women existed to support their husbands, performing thankless, challenging labor to keep their homes running and children fed without any help.

  • @elyse443
    @elyse443 2 месяца назад

    Like literally watch one “trad wife” video and they are literally always cooking from scratch. That’s the only thing in 100% of the videos that have coined the phrase.

  • @M.T.-qm4rt
    @M.T.-qm4rt 29 дней назад

    The traditional wife these guys describe didn't have a choice because men controlled everything and dictated. Essentially, these women were basically slaves in terms of their required duties. They weren't just the responsibility of men, men owned them and were allowed by law to beat them. If anyone had asked or given them a choice, you better believe for the same reasons men don't want women's roles, women didn't like those roles either. They did what they had to to survive, made the best of a thankless, unpaid, exhausting existence.

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 месяца назад +1

    Narrow vision, narrow views.

  • @daintykeisha9787
    @daintykeisha9787 2 месяца назад +1

    Now for Brandon, I’m not a fan of his BUT as a veteran he is absolutely right. There are women who preys on young military men and a lot of them do so by attaching to them, get pregnant to get benefits. It’s a long story but it’s very sad and true. Other than that I don’t agree with him.

    • @bribro23
      @bribro23 Месяц назад

      Men choose to impregnate her……. wtf are you talking about, they have to willingly sleep with those women unless your saying they got raped?…………. How does a lady trap a man into impregnating her? Can you give specifics

  • @MrRayriz
    @MrRayriz 2 месяца назад +5

    Men are getting passports flying across the world and looking for a traditional wife. Every man wants a traditional wife or something close to it.

    • @brittanyr1456
      @brittanyr1456 2 месяца назад +33

      Is it “based on attraction?”

    • @brittanyr1456
      @brittanyr1456 2 месяца назад

      And how can you speak for “every man”? Oh because your 🍆 are tied in a knot and y’all can’t think for yourselves. Got it! 👍🏾

    • @MrRayriz
      @MrRayriz 2 месяца назад +5

      @@brittanyr1456 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @PenelopeSnowe
      @PenelopeSnowe 2 месяца назад +22

      You got yours? You on the next flight to the Bermuda Triangle? You going bye-bye? ✌🏽

    • @MrRayriz
      @MrRayriz 2 месяца назад +1

      @PenelopeSnowe I'm lucky enough to live in California and we got every nationally you can think of. Don't need one. Lol

  • @bribro23
    @bribro23 Месяц назад

    35:06 most homes are only 40 years old

  • @marleneschultz9092
    @marleneschultz9092 2 месяца назад

    Instead of blaming women they should go to the government because the economy has gone up 400% in 50 years.

  • @God-Love-Freedom
    @God-Love-Freedom 2 месяца назад +3

    So should men only become better men for the women they want (aka their preferences)? Or should men become better men for any woman they are in relationship with, regardless if they “want” them or not? What’s the agenda?