Brene Brown Men's Shame

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

Комментарии • 28

  • @KieranMckean
    @KieranMckean 4 месяца назад +45

    When men give up no one cares.
    When a man takes his own life every one acts surprised.

    • @bevansbench
      @bevansbench 3 месяца назад +2

      You're perception is majorly influenced by your focus, what you focus on. You say "no one cares", while at the very same time, saying that, in a comment on a post of a woman, on an international stage, taking the time to speak for men.. She cares. You're assertion that no one cares is not true.
      People DO care. It is said "if you don't water the flowers then you'll forever be pulling weeds".
      I understand your pain, there are weeds, there are people that don't care.. There are people that DO care, water those weeds, acknowledge, share this post!! share if far and wide, give it energy.
      Focus on what you would love and take action on it! Share this Brene is an incredibly respected woman and this clip of her deserves to be acknowledged, and shared.

    • @tlkensei2
      @tlkensei2 3 месяца назад +6

      @@bevansbench I'm not sure monetising research counts as caring

    • @bevansbench
      @bevansbench 3 месяца назад +2

      @@tlkensei2 Caring is the only thing that should be monetised

    • @fransinclair3356
      @fransinclair3356 Месяц назад

      @@bevansbenchshe is offering information there is a big difference between this and someone who actually cares deeply about u

    • @bevansbench
      @bevansbench Месяц назад +1

      @@fransinclair3356 why would she care deeply? And how deep, she's not our mother.
      She cared enough to make the point on stage. She showed the vulnerability to very publicly say she had been wrong and altered perception.
      You could argue it's all a ploy, but it's a damn risky one.

  • @XBloodyBaneX
    @XBloodyBaneX Месяц назад +16

    It must have been a sucker punch to hear "that's convenient" when she mentioned a bit of an oversight on her study.
    And probably a bit heart wrenching to hear how bad men have it when faced with shame.

  • @WmRob
    @WmRob 3 месяца назад +59

    Never, ever tell a woman anything that you don’t want used against you later. Information is power.

    • @jaypeterson1324
      @jaypeterson1324 7 дней назад +5

      I wonder where that comes from. In a healthy relationship you can tell you partner anything, I certainly have and do. Perhaps the issue isn’t with women but you seeking out women who do these unhealthy acts???

    • @djvtec26
      @djvtec26 6 дней назад +3

      Even the person I still love and trust the most has done this to me before. Remember what this guy said

    • @ChewEberrie
      @ChewEberrie 6 дней назад

      @@jaypeterson1324 A lot of women refuse to believe that they are raised and socialized by the patriarchy too, even if they have very good self-aware feminist mothers. That affects how they treat men and their vulnerabilities. I'm not going to say all women, obviously, but its a lie to say that isn't the case. I have had many women, some just co-workers, others much closer, that have weaponized me opening up against me. It isn't an excuse to not keep trying to open up, but damn if it doesn't make it harder and harder after each subsequent attempt.

    • @djvtec26
      @djvtec26 5 дней назад

      @jaypeterson1324 Social media has poisoned the majority of young women in one way or another. Same with men that have the Tate attitude

  • @nickyos8640
    @nickyos8640 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks for uploading this clip 🙏

  • @Linkacide
    @Linkacide 2 месяца назад +14

    “Take it like a man”, has never ment anything good

    • @Karma-qt4ji
      @Karma-qt4ji Месяц назад +6

      "boys don't cry". Apparently, we're only supposed to hurt on the inside, while lying through our teeth to the world around us.

  • @4144758
    @4144758 3 месяца назад +15

    Never cry in front of a woman unless your mama or your dog died

    • @VarunSeth
      @VarunSeth 2 месяца назад +5

      Jonny depp was sad in front of his ex wife about his mother’s death. And she twisted his arm, provoked him and uploaded the video, files allegations against him that got him fired from multiple disney franchises. Including fantastic beasts for which he had a massive role.

    • @SheldonGoff
      @SheldonGoff 6 дней назад +1

      Not even then.

    • @Zillion3170
      @Zillion3170 День назад

      I started to cry when my father died. But stopped when my mother started "making fun" of me in front of a couple of his co-workers at the vistation.

  • @sharonmassey2923
    @sharonmassey2923 21 день назад +6

    I see misogyny from men in comment sections every day. There's no shame.

    • @retropyro
      @retropyro  21 день назад +28

      I see misandry from women in comments section every day. There's no shame.

    • @sharonmassey2923
      @sharonmassey2923 21 день назад +1

      @@retropyro Go ahead, copy and paste. After you do, I'll do the same.

    • @ChinchillaDave
      @ChinchillaDave 6 дней назад

      @@sharonmassey2923 they buried you, clown

    • @jackka82
      @jackka82 2 дня назад

      @@sharonmassey2923 Woosh