His Friend Took Advantage Of His Innocence
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- Опубликовано: 5 май 2024
- Today, Kendal Richardson talks about how he has come from trauma to victory. As a kid, he was taken advantage of by adults and his peers resulting in serious trauma. These experiences impacted his behavior in later relationships. Determined to change his path, Kendal embarked on a profound journey towards healing and self-discovery.
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That damn “Let’s play house” opened allot of unfortunate doors for us 😢
Yes it did 😞
Yess…
Yep…
My dad had 13 brothers n sister all together. Most of us kids (1st cousin) always played house with each other and all experience with each other…that house was a curse…then it was let’s play doctor! Watch your kids when they play with each other!!!
Indeed
it was as if PREDATORS can smell that a kid has been touched or molested before…this is NOT the first time I’ve heard a child being repeatedly touched or Graped by different ppl over a period of time
True they can.
It's an evil mark. People recognize it in the spiritual realm. Once things like that happen Satan marks you so you can be initiated under that spirit over and over again.
Yup ! It’s like we wear a hat that says “I’ve been abused” we become the prey after the 1st time. I struggled with that for yearsss, even asking my spouse literally a few months ago like is something wrong with me ? Why do people feel like I’m someone they can easily take advantage of ?
Yes so true
Tyler Perry had the same experience.. And I’m thinking to myself like dang, they really sniffed him out.. The vulnerability and brokeness is like an invisible uniform to identify the victim.. So sad.. That’s why I always said little boys need to be watched just as much as lil girls, because even when I was a child I knew boys to be just as victimized as girls..
I vow to my son to protect him the same way I protect his sisters. Thank you for your story,,Sir. Thank you for shedding light on abuse to boys.
And this is why I always tell my sister's name. You got to watch kids with your kids. People don't think that's true. They be worried about adults. Kids be having so much s*** done to them. They will start doing it to other children.
@@Ms.Royalty7743absolutely!!! Hurt children hurt other children 💔
You got to... predators don't gaf who they get....
@@Ms.Royalty7743kids gotta be careful of other kids.. you ain't lying!! Even more now in this day and age. Some real lust filled demons roaming this earth..
Naw fk him too! He should be tellin this story from under somebody’s jail.
The fact that he can get up here and tell this story is so courageous
Man it takes a strong individual to admit not just the trauma he went through with other boys… but admitted and genuinely apologized to your own victims. This is a horrible cycle that needs to be recognized and fixed immediately… and I commend you for this.
Salute.💯%.
Yes as a victim the most painful part is the denial of the abusers. He is really courageous
It takes an even stronger man not to become an abuser
@@Geniushaven9508 looks like it’s time for you to accept the world we live in.
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It's so disturbing to think that so many of our Black boys are molested, raped, etc. It's heartbreaking. May God continue to heal you and thank you for sharing.
How about so many boys.
@@rosario_len I'm sorry, microaggressions don't belong in this space. Be blessed 🙏🏽.
@rosario_len I'm black, and I agree. Black boys and girls aren't the only ones going through this. It's sad that we can't acknowledge that fact.
@@smknowswhat did she say wrong? Why not have a heart for all people. Regardless of race, it's sad that ANY child has to go through this.
@@neferure8336 This video was about a black boy who was molested, so the focus is on black ppl
This is why i spend time with my son regardless of me and his mom no longer being togetherand ask him tough questions about his play dates etc.
Im sorry this happened.....I think I shelter my Boys alot they....I worry about them at school and practice......Then I hear these stories......I pray God covers them....
God bless him 🙏🏿❤️💯💪🏿
tell them straight up..about the threats of other children and adults animals and everything u are the mother not a mute..
@@iseeu07yep that’s what I tell my baby
My Dear, Baby Brother!!! So many ppl have been down that road, I am so sorry. You never deserved that hurt, sorrow & pain. The fact that you stood here and told what happened to you & what lead you to abuse, AND asked for forgiveness, means that you are a soldier!
Our sons need to be protected as much as our daughters need to be.
Yes!!! Back in the 90s people literally thought you only have to worry about the girls… news flash you left so many boys in harms way. Protect all children!!!!!
We gotta keep an eye on our kids, and grandkids. They should always be supervised when they're playing with other children. Children should never ever be exposed to p or nograpy. These are learned behaviors, very sad.
This is insane and demonic, it just followed him everywhere he went, May God shield and protect our children and for the first time I actually have heard a pedophile who genuinely was remorseful and transformed for the Lord
Not a pedophile, he was also a child when he was committing those acts.
The truth is that the boys who did those things to him must have been victimized themselves and were acting it out on him. It's like a contagious virus.
This is why I laugh when people say ALL children are innocent. What a fUcking lie, this shouldn’t have happened, he was victimized by demon seeds, smh, I hope those predators aren’t around kids today. Children who have been victimized should be closely monitored and watched, they can’t be trusted around other kids. YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOUVE BEEN THROUGH, please seek help to overcome these hellish tribulations.
This made me cry. I can’t take these stories anymore😢😢😢
It can get overwhelming 🥹🥹🥹. Please take care of yourself.
@@MSSHARIII yes it can. I appreciate you❤️
I wish I could save the world
@@idj123idj Me too darling! As a child that was my dream and after life experiences I've realised that the closest thing that I can do to saving the world is helping all that I come into contact with and hopefully they will go on to help others and the chain will continue.
Stay positive and the amazing person that you are. Many in the world will try to break people like us but you being how you are makes all the difference and gives others hope. 💖
@@MSSHARIII ABSOLUTELY!. Kindness is FREE, I’ll guard my heart but I won’t ever change it❤️❤️.. you take care as well friend🥰
@@idj123idj 💖💖💖
Hurt people, hurt people.
You became the abuser is very common. It’s not ok and it’s not acceptable, but you show remorse and that’s what matters.
I hope that you have peace in your life going forward, ❤ 🤗 to you .
That "Let play house".. if majority of us look back at it. We would realize some heavy shyt..smh
Nobody protected me.. molested by several different people as a child.. the first time I ever said anything about it at the age of 5 my aunt fussed me out and said I was being fast smh.. I forgive but it is so hard to forget and remove the hurt behind it.. molested by my brother uncles babysitters.. my family knew my uncle wasn’t right and still let him keep me.. I will never understand why all this happened to me and on top of all that my mom was mean to me mentally abusive but created another image to the world.. I was a bad child and to this day there is still no accountability. I was also bullied by my siblings and all throughout school.. I’m just thankful to be here and in my right mind.
Praying for you 🙏🏽🫶🏽🥰 May God continue to bless you trust Him today ❤
Man this is so sad. Listening to this I swear to protect my son by all means. As parents we have to protect our kids
I need to stay in my son life til he understand how life works 😢
Why wouldn’t you stay in your son’s life? 🤔🤨
Weird wording , fathers and mothers are SUPPOSED to be in their children’s lives.
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName things happen in life where you might not be able to be there all the time 😔
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Oh ok got it , well you know what you need to do going forward.
Blessings to you and your family , it’s never too late especially when you approach them with a humble and sincere heart and spirit. ❤️
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName it’s so sad that no one is promised tomorrow but we live life like it is
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Trust me I can relate to that comment.
My dad who was my best friend, my world from the day I entered this world until 20 days before my 38th birthday was suddenly removed from my life.
I went to the gym at 10 am, went to visit him with ambulance at the home. Then they left and I stayed to watch him , he ended up going to hospital that evening and was not available to talk to after that , passed away that Sunday before I could say my proper goodbyes.
So I get it , we are humans just trying to figure out how to navigate this world.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I can relate to being exposed to inappropriate things too early and living with shame. SA creates an alternate timeline in our lives - this life we could’ve had vs this new life with trauma. Thank you for being brave and sharing your story and owning up to your own abusive behavior. Grieve for the person you could’ve been.
I always stayed mindful that humans are curious and children are small humans. Our boys (although) 3 yrs apart have never bathed together, shared a bed or bedroom, watched the other, been left in any areas without my supervision (until BOTH) were in thr late teens. , and the same when friends spent the night, We would all sleep on our sectional.
. I also spoke in depth about them touching thr own bodies, permission of ANYONE including hubby & I touching thr bodies, touching others bodies.
I am soooo sooo sorry that people took advantage of you. You didn’t deserve your innocence robbed from you. Sending you so much love. 😢❤
Wow! Truth is if we don't face/acknowledge the traumas in our life it becomes toxic. The beginning of healing is acknowledgement. Sonmsny people are in denial and wonder why they have a heart of stone. You cannot heal what you can't acknowledge. I pray for you and all those who have experienced trauma that still requires some healing. Thank-you for sharing your story. It takes courage and character to speak truth!! Most of all thank you God for his transformation!♥️🙏🏻♥️
Children need more than food, clothes and shelter. They need their parents to be involved in their lives, to protect them and check that they are really ok. Not just sweep things under the rug and ignore their child's pain. I hope he finds others to support him in the way his parents should have.
Earth is a sick place
Demons
Earth isn't a sick place. The people in it are sick. There's a difference. I'm tired of people blaming Earth. It's not Earth. It's weird people straight up 🤷🏽♀️
Move to Mars.
Earth like “now how I get in it?” Earth didn’t do this, people did
Child free and refuse to bring a life on this earth.
I'm so disgusted and hurt by his testimony. May God heal him.
How do you not know what’s going on with your only child. Went out your way to adopt a child you ain’t got time to protect. They trash
Then wanted him to stop bringing up his trauma. Sickening
Man it was a lot of gay little boys back then and much now this is just wild
I wonder if this is why people associate pedophilia with homosexuality
The fact that it was kids doing this. Where the hell did they learn this behavior is the question.
Exactly. They definetly saw this going on before. It's crazy the fact they told him to be the woman.
They most likely learned this on late night cable TV for those households that could afford it as opposed to the ones that can't and just had a game system. Not only that B.E.T and there movies have too many adult themes in them too that kids really shouldn't be watching in the 90s
They were victims of
I saw a lot of what you described growing up. It is odd cause when youre a kid u dont know that its wrong. I want all kids to know it's wrong to stay safe
you are so brave for sharing your story
i pray for healing and love in your life. bless you and your life
Oh Lord this is heavy 😢 i hope you heal and find peace. Don’t be mad at your parents they might be trying to save you from knowing about your past or true family.
I disagree. They didn't support him emotionally when he needed it. That is unacceptable!
I’m sorry this happened to you. I had something similar happen to me by my neighbor that was my peer. Praying for inner healing.
Sending you love & light . You are so strong & brave ❤️❤️❤️🥺
I appreciate the REALNESS of his story and the way told it was very BRAVE.🏋... HOW HE BEGAN HIS JOURNEY OF HEALING AND OVERCOMING THOSE THINGS THAT WERE MEANT DESTROY HIM...HE ALSO MEANTIONED HOW THE LORD HELPED HIM 🩸🐑HALLELUJAH ‼️.. AND HOW HE ALSO HELPS OTHERS.❤ WOW... GREAT JOB 👍 AND REALLY AWESOME ‼️
Thank you for the courage you had to share such deep wounds. I hope there is a way for you to ask those you hurt , for their forgiveness. Some may still be too hurt but it may heal something in you all. With love
Sadly, this is a lot more common than y’all think
I'm so sorry that this happened ❤, you're such a great and Strong person
Lord Jesus. I’m so saddened to know you’ve gone through this. I applaud you for speaking out. I know this had to be so so so hard to do! I as a child was molested. So when I’ve had kids I’ve never ever ever aloud them to do things that my parents thought were okay! I sir will keep you in my prayers and I pray for your healing and I’m sorry so sorry for you to have gone through what you’ve did. Just know you’re loved either way. God bless!
im so happy youre here and alive to tell your story. you will be part of the cycle changing and better future generations. im sorry you had to be so strong but im glad you are here telling your story
I’m sorry this happened to you. & Thankyou for sharing your story that way we can teach our children the TRAPS that offender’s use. Just like they teach about stranger danger and not to take candy or money from adults we need to teach our kids about some of these kids cuz LawD knows it’s still happening!
Thanx again for your honesty
Sorry For What You Went Through I Applaud You For Your Bravery Truthfulness & Remorse... The Power To Change Is Up To Us But We Would Also Need Strong Will And The Fruitage Of Gods Spirit To Make Better Decisions And Fight Off Such Disgusting Unnatural Temptations That's Connected To Demonic Spirits So We'll Pray For You & Others Going Through Any Struggles That Are Sexual In Nature... Thank You For Speaking Out Your Story Will Help So Many ❤😊
I will protect my son
Poor guy I’m so sorry .
May god bless you young.
God is and will be with you.
Un delt with trauma leads to repeated cycles of trauma. Often the untreated victim becomes the predator. You can break the unspoken cycle of trauma. By educating those around you and taking about it openly. The victims need “Reconstructive Therapy from. The past date that they were led astray. Until today because those flashbacks and memories of feelings surrounded by emotions. Can be interpreted in a very negative way without professional help. Good luck
I appreciate you sharing your truth, I pray for your healing ❤️🩹
What's crazy is you look like my cousin Corey, My aunt is his mother and her last name is Richardson And so is my mother and three of my uncles. Their dad name is Robert t. Richardson. I think his middle name is Thomas. But it's crazy how you look like my auntie Paula's son. That's wild. Might be our damn relative 💯 I'm going to have to show my mom them this because that is crazy. How do you look like him? You're just lighter.
Please, update us as soon as u can
tell them straight up and don't play baby with children warn them of dangerous and temptations
Yes! You must watch your children even with other children.
Thank you for sharing, I'm sorry you had to experience this. I pray you find your healing.
I have no sympathy for people that become child molester s because they were molested i was a victim of molestation 4 years old is as early as I can remember but judging from that memory it had happened before that and you can't pay me to bring that pain apon anyone else because I know how it feels that a death sentence for a child
Not justifying or sympathizing but everyone handles situations differently, some take their anger out on others while some don’t, he is possibly trying to better himself and grow from the situation.. He doesn’t need sympathy he needs therapy.
None! He had me going until he said he started to hurt young boys when he was older…
@@rosario_len. God…. What platform do you use to get off that high horse ur on?
Why did RUclips just unlike the comment that I liked?
@@princep7243 there are so many abused children that grow up and never hurt anyone. You have a choice! Being a Freddy Kroger to someone else is never justified. I will never give a chomo a pass
Powerful I loved your story you are strong brave and committed to be better!
So proud of u ❤
Praise God,you are an inspiration
Whats crazy is i was the other boys as a child.
Damn i was so wrong for that.
I wonder if i affected any of the other boys like this as they grow up.
You are one that I did this for and I love you 😍
He’s a victim and he has victims.Man this is so sad.And he owns the house he was molested in.Damn
Im so sorry you were not protected & your innocence was taken from you. Research does suggests that the victims often become the abuser. As part of the healing, you should still go through the justice system, as a victim & abuse.
Thank you for sharing this extremely painful experience.
May yah continue to bless you and heal you
This was very helpful and informative.
Exposure is the first step to healing.
There is so much to unpack here 😣
Your parents should have provided the help that you so desperately needed to prevent you going on to abuse other children.
I pray that your victims overcome the trauma caused to them 😣.
It's so strange that your adopted parents will not tell you who your biological parents are.
Tragic all round.
I was abused by my step daddy, one day I will build up courage to tell my story😢
AMEN!
❤!
You confessing your sins is definitely growth and accountability
This is a eye opener
When you heard your dad, walking down the stairs, calling your name, and you jumped up and made up a lie so you wouldn’t get in trouble? Yeah, you knew better. I don’t know why you didn’t have the confidence to be truthful that’s what changed everything for you 😢
If you are remorseful, then turn yourself in to the authority. Your victims need justice.
My PARENTS DID
And remember I was not an adult...so I'm telling my story cause others wont!!
I’m so sorry
Do some ancestry testing and see if you can find your biological family!
OMG 😢😢
I pray you are healed from this or find coping mechanism that will help
Omg 🙏🏾
Wait, so you are a predator? 💔💔💔 this is heartbreaking. your story is so sad but you hurt other innocent younger boys 💔💔💔
Well he said he was also a minor when he did this. His parents did nothing to help him so hopefully he is getting the help he needs now.
@@dalmeshasloss7765but we don’t know the ages. He could’ve been 16/17 hurting a 4/5 year old. He holds a lot of guilt so it seems like there was a huge age difference
@@rosario_len I agree with that!
The ages don't matter.
@@youthrowstoneithrowbread absolutely does matter. Because if he was a child himself, and his parents knew what happened to him… and didn’t get him any help which went into what he did. And they still neglected to get him the help he needed.
Kendall I remember you from school. I am sorry that this happened to you.
Who are you?
😢😢😢😢😢 wow 😮 heartbreaking 💔 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😢😢😭😭😭
The children who abused you were also abused. They understood and did things that were not for them to understand. I say this because I was sexually abused, but unfortunately I taught my younger brother strange behaviors. and the first sexual relationship he had was when he was 12 years old. Which is very early.
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13:35 He became a child molester based on his past. Sigh...parents we have to do better. Be honest with your kids. Break generational cures .
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You can do DNA test to see if match for any relatives. Start there. I pray your victims do not become predators! I know this was a lot for you!
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My kids are never allowed to play House or Mummy And Daddy Games !!
Do ancestrydna find your family
The evil spirit where following him from young age using ppl around him. It's sad
Then why didn’t God the almighty step in to help 🙄
HE DID.. See me now
3:43 it just sounds like ritualistic
My brothers were left at the hospital too. But im unsure as to wether it was harlem hospital or columbia presbyterian... Ive been trying to find my siblings.... What year were you born?
Harlem.....Harlem Hospital
1978
@@bornchozen ah, too early, im sorry
these are the things that curious boys do when the girls are prohibited from playing with them
Wait...no one needs to be assaulted.
This is not normal behavior
@@venusluv2454 more normal than u think. girls eventually let their curiosity get the best of them too
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UNBEKNOWNST is the word
Yeah , but being that he’s brave enough to share his story and be transparent about it, I figured I would show some EMPATHY to him and LOOK past the incorrect words. 🤨
ASSHOLE is your word.
Saddest part was about him being at park for hours 😢. I thank God I had a little brother and mother who raised us to follow Jesus
Is he attracted to woman now?
You deserve to know your birth family’s situation….. your parents are WRONG
I’m sorry u went through this from one survivor to another. I respect that uve owned up to ur wrongs and have apologized to ur victims.. I pray ure at peace and I hope ur victims don’t continue the abuse. 🤍🙏
This predator is a professional victim so that's an excuse to repeat his actions
His story definitely took an unfortunate turn
The things is God has changed my heart....I donr do things like that nor do I think about doing them....PEOPLE CAN CHANGE WITH GOD
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