Ever since I was a little kid, I knew that I was different in some way (not better than anyone, just DIFFERENT). However, this realization adopted a more negative connotation when I went through adolescence. I didn't have (or want) that much of a social life, I was always the quiet kid in the room, and I'm a huge introvert. My personality/lifestyle didn't coalesce with societal expectations, so I naturally thought that something was wrong with me, that I had to improve/change in some way. When I went into adulthood, I wasn't initially true to who I was anymore. I developed a very destructive inferiority complex; I thought that if someone didn't like me, it was because of something that *I* said or did. I was the archetypal people-pleaser, and I felt that if people liked me, it would vindicate that nothing was wrong with me. I based my self-esteem on what others thought of me, which was a BIG MISTAKE!! After spending a lot of time in solitude, I was able to rediscover who I was. I found my inner kid. After having several toxic encounters with people who exhibited narcissistic mentalities, I also rediscovered the don't-give-a-fuck attitude that I also used to have as a kid. Don't get me wrong, I care greatly about the well-beings of others, but if they don't accept me for who I am, I will NOT light myself on fire just to keep them warm. Find your true self, find your inner kid. Remember, as kids (elementary school-aged), we were our truest selves; as adults, we try so hard to be something we're not. In adolescence, that's when we're first inundated with all of these toxic societal messages and stigmas. We lose our true selves as we become young adults. Today, I have one close friend, and I LOVE my alone time; I embrace myself as a lone wolf. Diversity of perspective - along with relative abundance of solitude - cultivates self-awareness. Your birth gives you existence, but self-awareness is what makes you feel ALIVE! Embrace who you are... and LIVE!
A call from a positive friend. Our Alone time Reading, writing, deep thinking and projects…. Our deep respect for genuine people and the world around us. Our incredible drive to stay balanced. …this is our therapy Our motto is “I would want people to hate me for who I am..than love me for who I’m not.” 🤷♂️
Remember, my fellow lone wolves/introverts, the dark side is the *good* side. It may be more difficult to see in the darkness (initially), but the LIGHT is the one that blinds you. When you rely on conformity/"normality" to guide your way in life, it blinds you to alternatives. Never feel compelled to hollow yourselves out in the face of societal/peer conformity. We are not merely avatars of the nation(s) we live in, we ARE nations, PERIOD!
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, I dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
@dotboy9080p romoting spiritual advisers prob. Seems like spam. If your serious love yourself and let her go. If she loves you she will come back if not then move on 👍
These points show me why my wife doesn't like when I have conversations with other women even though I have no interest in pursuing them. Just normal conversations. Makes me avoid smalltalk even more. I don't feel the magnetism but evidently it's there.
At times, I feel like I am a sigma male. I don't even fight for any female attention. For instance, I like living and being alone. I don't go out to meet women or even have conversations with them. "It's better to be alone then to have somebody stab you in the back." Also, I am better off never looking for love/romance in this living world. Because, in this living world, there are a lot of evil, heartless, rotten, uncaring, vile and self-centered women. And lucky for me, I'm not a relationship guy!!
Bruh, then you are are not listening to the spirit inside you. Stop the inner war and Turn way from the things you feel are poisoning your soul. If you are a sigma….you don’t run with a pack of animals or hang around all the con artists, manipulators and shape shifters - you walk with people you find valuable . You seek to be the best you and share it with people that have earned or deserve your attention. Sigmas have a strong drive and desire for balance. They always seek it…..they look for the problem, they focus on it…..and squash it. ….and replace it with things they need.
Such an interesting channel,Never knew I was sigma male,but I Refuse to be dominated by an alpha,don’t believe in hierarchy,everybody is Equal,as long your intelligent and I have something to learn from you,,also I despise bullies,and will stand up for a weaker person..
@@dean6125, I hear you. I have just found over the years that if you cannot communicate with the one you have chosen as your mate/partner, then the relationship is not going to go anywhere.
Yes i get women easy but never had a girlfriend eho enjoyed talking about deep things like the Universe Consciousness and Souls. My lady i have now is great compared too the narcissistic woman I was with for 14 years, ❤ but no deep meaningful conversation, but she's caring loving and sweet do im happy with her 😊
Yesterday my ex am I were working the same shift. Since the break up I became silent with her, speaking only the necessary things relevant for our activity. She said that now she is talking with herself, because I am not talking with her the same way I used to. I replied saying she is doing a good job, and I wasn't planning to distract her. She laughed, but wasn't a genuine laugh.
I'm pretty sure I'm a sigma , but I'm not a "bad boy", If I come off that way, Maybe. but this is the first time I've heard this trait for a sigma male.
Yes i get women easy but never had a girlfriend eho enjoyed talking about deep things like the Universe Consciousness and Souls. My lady i have now is great compared too the narcissistic woman I was with for 14 years, ❤ but no deep meaningful conversation, but she's caring loving and sweet do im happy with her 😊
Sigma males just want peace and quiet but also follow their hearts in obtaining the things in life that makes them happy. We are not attention seekers nor need trophies hanging on our walls. We get things done and do what we do for stability and happiness. We don't want nor need the spotlight.
I would say. That respect honesty compassion. Confidence and a sense of humour. Followed by intelligence motivation. Deep Thinker. Strength and confidence. And attentive. But also true good honest conversation. That is my starter. . If you want the main. Then you will be my Guest. Desert.. sure . You have room…
I get tired of the stereotypes that imply sigma males are all rich, good looking, well built and free to do whatever they want, which also makes them good with women. This aforementioned implication is what empowers them, instead of their personality, and intellect on their own; the true things that define and truly personifies a sigma. What is more disturbing is that some people actually believe the implications of the thumbnails.
Now I realised why I was so hated in high school and after high school cause most pretty girls in school and streets kind of approach me in good Freinds or relationships 💯
I am in tune with the pulse of the universe. In my quiet and solitude, i hear the melodies of the soul. I float above commonplace, dissent and decay. I subdue by my ability to conform. I colour my world in delicate pastel hues. I epitomize harmony and inner peace. In the infinite depth within the eyes of the rabbit, portrays the relentless manifestation towards transcendence. In a realm absent from boundaries and without coherence, i indulge in my self-intrigued reveries. Insusceptible to rules, protocols and social stigma, i am in total control. In my fortitude and audacity, i sagaciously embark on my bodacious voyage in complete diversity and liberation. Impervious to intimidation, i wend my way to my heart's content. Indifferent and not exacerbated by the egregious civilization of pompous hyperbolism, gregariousness is relegated whereby stark solitariness is the trademark of the rabbit. In euphoria, i live congruous with self-realization. In divine greatness, i prevail. I AM THE RABBIT.
As a Sigma myself this is true. My wife initiated. But my wife is a Tsundere, so she initiated in a way that a lot of sigmas might miss. If she teases, tease her back!!
That is why we always fall in friendzone, women seek bad boys and alpha males. When they got hurt they come to us to speak and we are a good listeners 😂
Fun fact: not a single sigma is watching or commenting on these videos or any video about sigmas, except me of course, I'm the only sigma that watches youtube NO ONE IS-
Are you single ? 😉🙏🏽. Sorry it’s just bizarre you said that. Happily married 30 years, widowed now. We were sigma. Secret ? Close bathroom doors, king size bed (30 yrs folks trust me ) separate bank accounts (never shared a $, never had a fight, about $ 😉) and let your man be a man. So you nailed it with the purse. Let her keep some mystery. Oh ya, restrict the air pollution in front of your lady’s. sh^* happens , but it’s hard when you remember more fart noises than sweet nothings, you see where this goes. I love you men ❤❤. Trust me this works. And never, ever chase.
We don't often hear the downsides of being stereotypically Sigma, but there are some. Firstly... Sigma men are AWFUL social organisers. They can do it very well, they just have very little inclination. It is one of the things they actually need and depend upon their family, friends, and partners for, and truly appreciate in others. Because they don't always feel sociable and want to sit to the side or move around as they see fit when they do, they like to be invited into group social situations rather than arrange them. Secondly... They can appear emotionally detatched and unavailable in relationships because they are slow to experience and rarely display primal emotions like jealousy, anger, sadness etc... if and when a snipet of one escapes, their partner thinks there must be a constant tumult lurking beneath the surface that they cover up, rather than the truth - it is rare to see a raw unprocessed emotion, because they are always processing. There are not a load of levels of self-expression and vulnerability that they will gradually open up with time either. Sigma feeling slightly disappointed - "I'll be OK, just not great at the moment" Sigma feeling absolutely devasted - "I'll be OK, just not great at the moment" The deeper layer they do hide is their hopes and dreams about life. Sigma male's continual strategising to achieve their deepest desires rarely involves actually disclosing them, and their introspection leads them to question and modify these goals over time anyway. Setting something in stone by saying it out loud is highly risky for a Sigma, as they then feel an obligation to make it happen. This is where the "if he tells you he is going to do something big, he will" thing comes from, because they say it out loud to fully commit and obligate himself to doing it. This is not the same as "I might" or "I'd like to" or "I am thinking about" - if a Sigma says "I will" then don't stand in his way unless you're ready to get trampled.
I probably should have made all this a spectacular thing but I got attention from every government agency on earth so they can witness all this and sent out almost everything to for hands to stand up and be men or woman whatever . I'm only taking 10 percent rest will go to agencies and anyone who has a spine.
I tried to fight but they didn't watch easy way out so it's legal now and it's so big and so much evide ce spread out I have given no one a choice but to do right
Dear women, don't hit on us. Try having a conversation without any Hollywood vocals and expressions. Some women just hate being ignored which is why we ignore you. We don't like heavy animation in people like they're going for the Oscar
Then keep looking for the one that says no thanks, but can I buy you a drink ? That’s my line to the 1/10k who are not instantly crushed by my response if approached. If I’m interested, you’re going to know it. My husband did ! 😊 miss you my darling ❤❤! I know where my towel is !
Sigma males are supposed to be rare and here you have them, by thousands "yeah that's me totally me, been a sigma all my life because I am unable to score a single woman and I scare people"
@@tikvision Would like to agree with you. The only problem is I was able to date one of the top 4 women in the hospital at work. I hold an average position and she has an accomplished career. There is a hospitalist “Dr.” who tried his best to date her and she picked me. I never tried to pursue this woman just talked to her. I have noticed women gravitate to me and I consider myself an average man.
It's a beauty-sick, attention/validation-seeking era. Most people want to get to know you simply first, because of how you look. Otherwise, these people will just ignore you. Toxic!
Well. I am not getting tired of commenting this, but in my opinion this sigma male concept which seems to go quite viral on youtube these days is an idealist view of how man (and sigma woman?) should act and behave in this world to get the utmost success in their career, their personal life, but most importantly when it comes to happiness and spiritual development. And granted, would Every man be a perfect sigma male, we all would be living in a much better world. (Even though I doubt that society as we know it today would run smoothly if it was made out of only sigma males). Nonetheless, there is one thing I really don’t like about this sigma male concept. Often it is said, that in order to be a sigma male you have to be highly intelligent. What does that even mean? An exceptionally high IQ? In that case most men would never have the chance to ever rise to sigma male “status”. But as it is shown in this video, most sigma male characteristics stem from attitude and behavior and can thus be learned, trained and integrated in real life. Hence, everyone should be able to rise to sigma level. 😂
@@Northman1963 Yes you are right, but I have the feeling that the sigma type gets a bit too much bloated and idealized in the self improvement community
Social intelligence with reference to high empathy, "put yourself in other's shoes" in a matter of seconds and understand the problem person have. No matter how hard you try this cannot be learned, it can be faked (when you work in hospitality business) but people see through that, guest refer to it as "fake care". I think it is wrong to try to be something you are not, it is better to develop yourself in the character you are and correct some flaws and not try to become something other. Alpha and Beta, they can't turn in to a Sigma, same for Sigma to be other. If you got active mind that is rushing trough out the day and you don't need others much, you are most likely Sigma.
@@npfunmedia I think the social Intelligence muscle can be Trained by almost everyone, it just takes some awareness and willingness and modesty. However, some people like the sigma male might have more natural talent than other types in that regard. What you call fake care sounds to me like people trying to work for their own advantage by manipulating others. doing that successfully requires talent too, sure. Psychopath’s do that successfully for example. Yeah, and then finally there might be very few empathical Legasthenics who might even be good people but lack the sensors to read any kind of people
I suspect that a majority are NT dominant. The 4 "NT" types are all fairly rare in men, but way more so in women. All 4 are in the bottom 5 of the least common types for women, which would explain why women find sigmas mysterious/enigmatic and/or difficult to understand. ENTJ is probably the type I would least associate with Sigma as I think they tend to be more Sigma leaning Alphas - their type is ideal for positions of leadership and great responsibility, so they tend to get enticed towards that, which necessitates setting aside their lone wolf instincts. Strongly extroverted ENTPs are probably too sociable and open to be stereotypical Sigmas and are probably more Alpha/Beta with Sigma leanings. But, as an ENTP who is eNTp (only 2% more E than I, and 5% more P than J), I fit most of the Sigma stereotype. My Grandfather is probably the most stereotypically Sigma man I have ever known, and he was an INTJ.
@@robw7676 Interesting! I am more of an introverted ENTJ and have strong sigma traits (don't need a large crowd, keep to myself, always bull dozing forward, etc...). My gf is INTJ and also has those sigma traits. It is an interesting dynamic... Always on the go (me leading of course) on adventures of some sort. She brings me down a notch when needed. 🙂 Cheers!!!
@michaelaesparza5804 I don't regard the typology as absolute or constant. I used to be solidly ENTJ, but my personality slowly evolved between 20 & 30 towards less extroverted, and the P/J swapped. The thing I have always had, and the thing that comes out consistently if I ask somebody who knows me well to "diagnose" me by answering the test as they think it applies to me, is the dominant NT. As such, SF is a bit of a foreign land to my brain. The I/E and P/J are weak enough that awareness of the other NT types is necessary to make best use of the insights - if I have taken on a major challenging task at work that I am very interested in, I can flip into ENTJ mode quite easily. If I am not busy, left to my own devices, and not seeing much of other people, I can also drift off into my own thoughts and intellectual curiosities like a full blown INTP.
Whe. I crush twisted tea . Larkin and champagne car wash I will donate whatever I got to this page . I got to give it to agency and anyone with a spine cause I made the promise and I can't look back
Apparently all sigmas are like models and they're all ripped and they are all rich and fashionable by the pics that always accompany these asinine videos.
Quote, black male men a a small fraction of the 15 % of African bloodlines, But your vedio panders to the we deserve black and white couples every 3 pics. That's also rare. PANDER TO THE LIBREALS MUCH?
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Sigmas get what they want without anyone noticing. That's true peace.
But they’re watching.
💯💯💯
Very true
Sounds like a shoplifter
We are that hidden hand that is actually moving things in the world.
Ever since I was a little kid, I knew that I was different in some way (not better than anyone, just DIFFERENT). However, this realization adopted a more negative connotation when I went through adolescence. I didn't have (or want) that much of a social life, I was always the quiet kid in the room, and I'm a huge introvert. My personality/lifestyle didn't coalesce with societal expectations, so I naturally thought that something was wrong with me, that I had to improve/change in some way.
When I went into adulthood, I wasn't initially true to who I was anymore. I developed a very destructive inferiority complex; I thought that if someone didn't like me, it was because of something that *I* said or did. I was the archetypal people-pleaser, and I felt that if people liked me, it would vindicate that nothing was wrong with me. I based my self-esteem on what others thought of me, which was a BIG MISTAKE!!
After spending a lot of time in solitude, I was able to rediscover who I was. I found my inner kid. After having several toxic encounters with people who exhibited narcissistic mentalities, I also rediscovered the don't-give-a-fuck attitude that I also used to have as a kid. Don't get me wrong, I care greatly about the well-beings of others, but if they don't accept me for who I am, I will NOT light myself on fire just to keep them warm.
Find your true self, find your inner kid. Remember, as kids (elementary school-aged), we were our truest selves; as adults, we try so hard to be something we're not. In adolescence, that's when we're first inundated with all of these toxic societal messages and stigmas. We lose our true selves as we become young adults.
Today, I have one close friend, and I LOVE my alone time; I embrace myself as a lone wolf. Diversity of perspective - along with relative abundance of solitude - cultivates self-awareness. Your birth gives you existence, but self-awareness is what makes you feel ALIVE! Embrace who you are... and LIVE!
Well done.
🌀🌀🌀🥷🏽
A call from a positive friend.
Our Alone time
Reading, writing, deep thinking and projects….
Our deep respect for genuine people and the world around us.
Our incredible drive to stay balanced.
…this is our therapy
Our motto is “I would want people to hate me for who I am..than love me for who I’m not.” 🤷♂️
Amen to all that! the story of my life.
Remember, my fellow lone wolves/introverts, the dark side is the *good* side. It may be more difficult to see in the darkness (initially), but the LIGHT is the one that blinds you. When you rely on conformity/"normality" to guide your way in life, it blinds you to alternatives.
Never feel compelled to hollow yourselves out in the face of societal/peer conformity. We are not merely avatars of the nation(s) we live in, we ARE nations, PERIOD!
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, I dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
@jaypritchett3414 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@jaypritchett3414 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Do you know why she left you?
@dotboy9080p romoting spiritual advisers prob. Seems like spam.
If your serious love yourself and let her go. If she loves you she will come back if not then move on 👍
Don't be a simp. But it could be that you have some kind of karmic connection with her, past life connection.
These points show me why my wife doesn't like when I have conversations with other women even though I have no interest in pursuing them. Just normal conversations. Makes me avoid smalltalk even more. I don't feel the magnetism but evidently it's there.
There is no magnetism there, your wife is insecure!
At times, I feel like I am a sigma male. I don't even fight for any female attention. For instance, I like living and being alone. I don't go out to meet women or even have conversations with them. "It's better to be alone then to have somebody stab you in the back." Also, I am better off never looking for love/romance in this living world. Because, in this living world, there are a lot of evil, heartless, rotten, uncaring, vile and self-centered women. And lucky for me, I'm not a relationship guy!!
Same here i not looking for love and i dont give a rsts ass about proving nothing to people.i a lone wolf that like my quiet space.
Bruh, then you are are not listening to the spirit inside you. Stop the inner war and Turn way from the things you feel are poisoning your soul. If you are a sigma….you don’t run with a pack of animals or hang around all the con artists, manipulators and shape shifters - you walk with people you find valuable . You seek to be the best you and share it with people that have earned or deserve your attention. Sigmas have a strong drive and desire for balance. They always seek it…..they look for the problem, they focus on it…..and squash it. ….and replace it with things they need.
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Such an interesting channel,Never knew I was sigma male,but I Refuse to be dominated by an alpha,don’t believe in hierarchy,everybody is Equal,as long your intelligent and I have something to learn from you,,also I despise bullies,and will stand up for a weaker person..
I was like you for years couldn't understand why I was so different!! Let be a sigma
I refuse to be ruled by labels
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Just described me in a nutshell
My big problem in life so far is finding that elusive female who actually does enjoy deep and intricate conversations about complex topics.
Yeh but you don't need it for love if that's what you mean. I'd imagine best places for deeper talk would be common interest groups,courses etc.
@@dean6125, I hear you. I have just found over the years that if you cannot communicate with the one you have chosen as your mate/partner, then the relationship is not going to go anywhere.
Yes i get women easy but never had a girlfriend eho enjoyed talking about deep things like the Universe Consciousness and Souls. My lady i have now is great compared too the narcissistic woman I was with for 14 years, ❤ but no deep meaningful conversation, but she's caring loving and sweet do im happy with her 😊
😂😂😂😂 you want a female to talk about complex interesting topics? 😂😂😂😂😂
@@tikvision I think you're in the wrong comment session. This one is for Sigma males 🙂.
Yesterday my ex am I were working the same shift. Since the break up I became silent with her, speaking only the necessary things relevant for our activity. She said that now she is talking with herself, because I am not talking with her the same way I used to. I replied saying she is doing a good job, and I wasn't planning to distract her. She laughed, but wasn't a genuine laugh.
After many backstabs i dont like people anymore and i prefer to be alone!
I'm pretty sure I'm a sigma , but I'm not a "bad boy", If I come off that way, Maybe. but this is the first time I've heard this trait for a sigma male.
Think they are relating to the way a sigma comes across because they don’t accept the status quo
Attention to details is one of the most attractive traits you can find in a man
Amen 🙏 great content wisdom i fit criteria 😊
Yes i get women easy but never had a girlfriend eho enjoyed talking about deep things like the Universe Consciousness and Souls. My lady i have now is great compared too the narcissistic woman I was with for 14 years, ❤ but no deep meaningful conversation, but she's caring loving and sweet do im happy with her 😊
Sigma males just want peace and quiet but also follow their hearts in obtaining the things in life that makes them happy. We are not attention seekers nor need trophies hanging on our walls. We get things done and do what we do for stability and happiness. We don't want nor need the spotlight.
so true it hurts. because those properties are not interesting in the long run.
Wow, it turns out I'm a sigma and never knew it...
wonderful. what a commendable effort. Being a Sigma, its like you are reading, 'Product Manual".
I would say. That respect honesty compassion. Confidence and a sense of humour. Followed by intelligence motivation. Deep
Thinker. Strength and confidence. And attentive.
But also true good honest conversation.
That is my starter. . If you want the main. Then you will be my Guest.
Desert.. sure . You have room…
3.29. Why do so many women hold their coffee cup with two hands in the fashion shown in the video? I don't think I've ever seen a man do this.
You don’t remember Pajama Boy!?
Thank you
Always!
I get tired of the stereotypes that imply sigma males are all rich, good looking, well built and free to do whatever they want, which also makes them good with women. This aforementioned implication is what empowers them, instead of their personality, and intellect on their own; the true things that define and truly personifies a sigma. What is more disturbing is that some people actually believe the implications of the thumbnails.
Present 😊
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Mad man 🤘🏻
Most definitely Me
Now I realised why I was so hated in high school and after high school cause most pretty girls in school and streets kind of approach me in good Freinds or relationships 💯
I am in tune with the pulse of the universe.
In my quiet and solitude, i hear the melodies of the soul.
I float above commonplace, dissent and decay.
I subdue by my ability to conform.
I colour my world in delicate pastel hues.
I epitomize harmony and inner peace.
In the infinite depth within the eyes of the rabbit, portrays the relentless manifestation towards transcendence.
In a realm absent from boundaries and without coherence, i indulge in my self-intrigued reveries.
Insusceptible to rules, protocols and social stigma, i am in total control.
In my fortitude and audacity, i sagaciously embark on my bodacious voyage in complete diversity and liberation.
Impervious to intimidation, i wend my way to my heart's content.
Indifferent and not exacerbated by the egregious civilization of pompous hyperbolism, gregariousness is relegated whereby stark solitariness is the trademark of the rabbit.
In euphoria, i live congruous with self-realization.
In divine greatness, i prevail.
I AM THE RABBIT.
Let be a sigma!!
N my nature to push past failure so stress is as common as breathing..
So true.. we hate energy vampires..
You know you’re a sigma when you keep checking these videos on RUclips
You too ?
Sigma male here, and I get approached by women A LOT!
As a Sigma myself this is true. My wife initiated. But my wife is a Tsundere, so she initiated in a way that a lot of sigmas might miss. If she teases, tease her back!!
Why women love sigma male haha the bad boy
I like the verbal content but Who does the fkin multiculti videos??
Sigma's are the true alphas
Alphas are nothing more than loud beta's!
This was huge and nessary only way I can get it done in a week and make everyone life better even the scumbag companies I take out.
Take out as in exposing corruption and keylogginf and sexual harassment
That is why we always fall in friendzone, women seek bad boys and alpha males. When they got hurt they come to us to speak and we are a good listeners 😂
Fun fact: not a single sigma is watching or commenting on these videos or any video about sigmas, except me of course, I'm the only sigma that watches youtube NO ONE IS-
@UnknownMaster21 You dare talk back to THE sigma?
Im like this, now I see why i get a good amount of female attention 😅 great Videos, thanks
Now I know what I am
Moths are drawn to light 😂
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We leave choice to them
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Thank you 👏👏👏
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤i agree
Put the loo seat down and never look in her handbag 👌
Are you single ? 😉🙏🏽. Sorry it’s just bizarre you said that. Happily married 30 years, widowed now. We were sigma. Secret ? Close bathroom doors, king size bed (30 yrs folks trust me ) separate bank accounts (never shared a $, never had a fight, about $ 😉) and let your man be a man. So you nailed it with the purse. Let her keep some mystery. Oh ya, restrict the air pollution in front of your lady’s. sh^* happens , but it’s hard when you remember more fart noises than sweet nothings, you see where this goes. I love you men ❤❤. Trust me this works. And never, ever chase.
@@paisleyjane14 Strangely enough, my current relationship is still happy after 18 years, but I appreciate your words! You are bang on point 😃
I must be an Omega man. 😆🤣
After all this. I think I’m a true Sigma man.
Monsters go bezerk when people like me don't eat the corn.
I think a lot of famous musicians and artists are sigma men. David Bowie and Marylin Manson come to mind. Women die for sigma men.
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We don't often hear the downsides of being stereotypically Sigma, but there are some.
Firstly...
Sigma men are AWFUL social organisers. They can do it very well, they just have very little inclination. It is one of the things they actually need and depend upon their family, friends, and partners for, and truly appreciate in others.
Because they don't always feel sociable and want to sit to the side or move around as they see fit when they do, they like to be invited into group social situations rather than arrange them.
Secondly...
They can appear emotionally detatched and unavailable in relationships because they are slow to experience and rarely display primal emotions like jealousy, anger, sadness etc... if and when a snipet of one escapes, their partner thinks there must be a constant tumult lurking beneath the surface that they cover up, rather than the truth - it is rare to see a raw unprocessed emotion, because they are always processing.
There are not a load of levels of self-expression and vulnerability that they will gradually open up with time either.
Sigma feeling slightly disappointed - "I'll be OK, just not great at the moment"
Sigma feeling absolutely devasted - "I'll be OK, just not great at the moment"
The deeper layer they do hide is their hopes and dreams about life. Sigma male's continual strategising to achieve their deepest desires rarely involves actually disclosing them, and their introspection leads them to question and modify these goals over time anyway. Setting something in stone by saying it out loud is highly risky for a Sigma, as they then feel an obligation to make it happen. This is where the "if he tells you he is going to do something big, he will" thing comes from, because they say it out loud to fully commit and obligate himself to doing it. This is not the same as "I might" or "I'd like to" or "I am thinking about" - if a Sigma says "I will" then don't stand in his way unless you're ready to get trampled.
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So i am a sigma.. 😅
I probably should have made all this a spectacular thing but I got attention from every government agency on earth so they can witness all this and sent out almost everything to for hands to stand up and be men or woman whatever . I'm only taking 10 percent rest will go to agencies and anyone who has a spine.
But true sigma males do not care about being noticed by females. If anything it is a disturbance.
That's right, the male sigmas don't care about what society thinks of them so they aren't concerned if women notice them
I tried to fight but they didn't watch easy way out so it's legal now and it's so big and so much evide ce spread out I have given no one a choice but to do right
Dear women, don't hit on us. Try having a conversation without any Hollywood vocals and expressions. Some women just hate being ignored which is why we ignore you. We don't like heavy animation in people like they're going for the Oscar
But most of all they notice that thing in your pants! Yeah- your wallet!
Then keep looking for the one that says no thanks, but can I buy you a drink ? That’s my line to the 1/10k who are not instantly crushed by my response if approached. If I’m interested, you’re going to know it. My husband did ! 😊 miss you my darling ❤❤! I know where my towel is !
It seems to me that sigma male is a fairytale for loosers to let them think “I am not sociopathic looser, I am sigma “😂
Apparently you don’t know the definition of a sociopath.
Sigma males are supposed to be rare and here you have them, by thousands "yeah that's me totally me, been a sigma all my life because I am unable to score a single woman and I scare people"
@@tikvision
Would like to agree with you. The only problem is I was able to date one of the top 4 women in the hospital at work. I hold an average position and she has an accomplished career. There is a hospitalist “Dr.” who tried his best to date her and she picked me. I never tried to pursue this woman just talked to her. I have noticed women gravitate to me and I consider myself an average man.
Pure manipulation XD it's about 10 things women notice but here he is again simping in the first 30 seconds how amazing a sigma is XD
I was quiting to start a new job just passed me off they mess with someone I wanted as a friend not even to date. Keylogging lover thiefs
It's a beauty-sick, attention/validation-seeking era. Most people want to get to know you simply first, because of how you look. Otherwise, these people will just ignore you. Toxic!
At the end is the same pattern of covert narcissism. What a cool attitude…
If every agency I sent all thus too included sealed cans with enough arsnic to kill 100 men. I promise I don't die and will become the world ender
Like if falls into place I sent everything but a few things out knowing 17th was the day.
Well. I am not getting tired of commenting this, but in my opinion this sigma male concept which seems to go quite viral on youtube these days is an idealist view of how man (and sigma woman?) should act and behave in this world to get the utmost success in their career, their personal life, but most importantly when it comes to happiness and spiritual development. And granted, would Every man be a perfect sigma male, we all would be living in a much better world. (Even though I doubt that society as we know it today would run smoothly if it was made out of only sigma males).
Nonetheless, there is one thing I really don’t like about this sigma male concept. Often it is said, that in order to be a sigma male you have to be highly intelligent. What does that even mean? An exceptionally high IQ? In that case most men would never have the chance to ever rise to sigma male “status”. But as it is shown in this video, most sigma male characteristics stem from attitude and behavior and can thus be learned, trained and integrated in real life. Hence, everyone should be able to rise to sigma level. 😂
I think this sigma stuff just describes the lone wolf strong silent type. Guys who are confident without outside validation.
@@Northman1963 Yes you are right, but I have the feeling that the sigma type gets a bit too much bloated and idealized in the self improvement community
Social intelligence with reference to high empathy, "put yourself in other's shoes" in a matter of seconds and understand the problem person have. No matter how hard you try this cannot be learned, it can be faked (when you work in hospitality business) but people see through that, guest refer to it as "fake care".
I think it is wrong to try to be something you are not, it is better to develop yourself in the character you are and correct some flaws and not try to become something other. Alpha and Beta, they can't turn in to a Sigma, same for Sigma to be other.
If you got active mind that is rushing trough out the day and you don't need others much, you are most likely Sigma.
@@npfunmedia I think the social Intelligence muscle can be Trained by almost everyone, it just takes some awareness and willingness and modesty. However, some people like the sigma male might have more natural talent than other types in that regard.
What you call fake care sounds to me like people trying to work for their own advantage by manipulating others. doing that successfully requires talent too, sure. Psychopath’s do that successfully for example. Yeah, and then finally there might be very few empathical Legasthenics who might even be good people but lack the sensors to read any kind of people
Sooo, looks and social/economic status determines if you’re a sigma or simp. Not that I haven’t seen it coming.
Only reason they begged me to stay so I wouldn't rat the scumbags out now zero turn back
Women dont look or desperate about men. Who has told you such a lie?
Y'all dummies swear that a suit makes a sigma..lol..
I would say these are all the reasons why women don't like sigma males. lol. Most hot women are too shallow to appreciate these traits.
Vandals creepers and much much worse. That's for department of justice to decide and more places
Great at least I quit that garbage job. And can no fast get things done
Does sigma = ENTJ? Seems like it!
I suspect that a majority are NT dominant.
The 4 "NT" types are all fairly rare in men, but way more so in women. All 4 are in the bottom 5 of the least common types for women, which would explain why women find sigmas mysterious/enigmatic and/or difficult to understand.
ENTJ is probably the type I would least associate with Sigma as I think they tend to be more Sigma leaning Alphas - their type is ideal for positions of leadership and great responsibility, so they tend to get enticed towards that, which necessitates setting aside their lone wolf instincts.
Strongly extroverted ENTPs are probably too sociable and open to be stereotypical Sigmas and are probably more Alpha/Beta with Sigma leanings.
But, as an ENTP who is eNTp (only 2% more E than I, and 5% more P than J), I fit most of the Sigma stereotype. My Grandfather is probably the most stereotypically Sigma man I have ever known, and he was an INTJ.
@@robw7676 Interesting! I am more of an introverted ENTJ and have strong sigma traits (don't need a large crowd, keep to myself, always bull dozing forward, etc...). My gf is INTJ and also has those sigma traits. It is an interesting dynamic... Always on the go (me leading of course) on adventures of some sort. She brings me down a notch when needed. 🙂 Cheers!!!
@michaelaesparza5804
I don't regard the typology as absolute or constant. I used to be solidly ENTJ, but my personality slowly evolved between 20 & 30 towards less extroverted, and the P/J swapped.
The thing I have always had, and the thing that comes out consistently if I ask somebody who knows me well to "diagnose" me by answering the test as they think it applies to me, is the dominant NT. As such, SF is a bit of a foreign land to my brain. The I/E and P/J are weak enough that awareness of the other NT types is necessary to make best use of the insights - if I have taken on a major challenging task at work that I am very interested in, I can flip into ENTJ mode quite easily. If I am not busy, left to my own devices, and not seeing much of other people, I can also drift off into my own thoughts and intellectual curiosities like a full blown INTP.
i'd say i'm a sigma male, but i've never been approached by a woman looking like any of the women in this video. wonder why...
"You have to be tall, rich and good looking too.
Whe. I crush twisted tea . Larkin and champagne car wash I will donate whatever I got to this page . I got to give it to agency and anyone with a spine cause I made the promise and I can't look back
Most Sigma men are the same as Mgtow men.
gosh,, all this little followers are sigmas,,,
This is not a Sigma 👉🏻😷
Who cares about biceps. Try sporting an enormously thick wallet and see how well that works. Biceps don't stand a chance.
Apparently all sigmas are like models and they're all ripped and they are all rich and fashionable by the pics that always accompany these asinine videos.
Quote, black male men a a small fraction of the 15 % of African bloodlines, But your vedio panders to the we deserve black and white couples every 3 pics. That's also rare. PANDER TO THE LIBREALS MUCH?