The biggest myths about emotions, debunked | Lisa Feldman Barrett
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- Опубликовано: 28 май 2023
- No, emotions don’t happen TO you. Here’s what happens instead.
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With the growth of self-help books and the fight to destigmatize therapy, people today are perhaps more unafraid than ever to talk about their emotions. But this has led to some common myths about emotions, and neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett wants to debunk them.
Barrett argues that emotions are not hardwired into the brain from birth, but rather stem from events that the brain creates based on past experiences and predictions of what's going to happen. Contrary to popular understanding, emotions are not just reactive events that happen to us - we play an active role in creating them.
By learning new things, watching movies, or even acting in a play to get outside of the normal range of what the brain predicts, Barrett argues that it’s possible to change those predictive patterns, and by doing so, to become the architects of our future selves. Understanding how our brain creates emotions can help us manage them - freeing us from repeated patterns of behavior and empowering us to control our emotions and heal ourselves.
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Awareness of our thoughts and emotions is the prerequisite to change them. People are mostly unaware of what is happening. They just get identified with their states of mind and let it control them.
I'm a vipassana practitioner too. 😉
and meditate on ahimsa
A lot of things are just like magic tricks just knowing how they work takes all their power away
Yeah, most/many don't even believe you can disassociate (or shall we rather say disentangle) from your emotions and thoughts. If only they knew...
Most people are strangers to themselves. Emotions are indicators. When we have unhealed/unreconciled hurts it has an effect that goes throughout our entire system.
"Everybody has a little more control than what they think they do"❤
Finally someone who explained the difference between feelings and emotions. The way I see it is Feelings are mental interpretations of our bodily emotions. So you can experience the emotion of Fear but have the feeling of dejection, failure, loss, terror, etc. Sharing from firsthand experience of healing myself and learning to regulate my emotions.
Love that. I also did a lot of Googling because I didn't understand the difference between feelings and emotions and after reading a bunch of different articles I came to that same conclusion. Feelings are stories of the ego and emotions are states of energy in your body.
@@joas162uhh you got it backwards.... feelings are the physical representation of an emotion . Why ? Because you can FEEL a feeling , or rather you can feel a sensation . But emotions are just labels or words used to describe physical sensation
Thanks for putting this together
@@devonnotdevin9998 I feel confused now ?.?
@@joas162 lol you understand already . You just used the words wrong . you said “ feelings are stories of the ego and emotions are states of energy in you body”
But emotions are the stories ,, and feelings are the energy .
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@@jaypritchett3414 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@@jaypritchett3414 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
This video would suggest: as hard as it might be at first, go out and meet new people, and seek enjoyment and appreciation in what you like about them. You will find that all the things you love about your former partner are out there in many other lives just waiting for you to encounter again, along with many other people you might fall in love with. Over time, your capacity to love others will grow, as will your ability to love all kinds of people you wouldn't have loved before.
I am sorry for your loss. Just keep recognizing over and over that you are thinking , without any judgment, just notice. Thats it and they will naturally lessen, also notice that a lot of the thoughts are just stories and that you’d not have to believe them and that they are not real. If the thoughts are linked to emotions and feelings, sit with them, thank them and they too will lessen. The last thing I would say is when you notice the thoughts, then come into your senses, hear the sounds, feel your feet on the floor, whatever, just to take you out of the mind is the purpose. I am not saying any of this is easy but it the thoughts will lessen in time.
I hear you bro
This was so so so insightful. I have experienced this. My job at times requires me to do field work often with very less sleep in between. To enable me to continue working, my brain tries to ignore the sensory information it recieves from the body when its fatigued. Eventually, that physical exhaustion takes the form of mental unrest. And by the time that period of intense field work gets over, I end up depressed, sad, develop unusally high levels of of hatred towards my job which I normally absolutely love and I begin to question my existence. I start finding everything pointless. With time I realised, that those unpleasant emotions are just a manifestation of my physical fatigue, which I had been avoiding to feel and acknowledge, as mental exhaustion and feelings of intense, unexplainable sadness, to be exact. I have noticed, after a good amount of rest, that get back to feeling normal and loving my life and my job. Thank you @bigthink for releasing such insightful videos featuring some of the most brilliant minds.
circadian rhythm disruptive activity body language hormonal imbalance results in resistance of waking function 4am sleep repression create feelings for negating interactions *dissatisfaction, depression, anger, diminished memory . Retreat.... The struggle is REAL my fellow Hue- man❤
> My job at times requires me to do field work often with very less sleep in between.
Another example of environ-mental-illness. Not mental-illness.
Feelings are a response to the thoughts we choose to believe. Realizing that a thought has no power over you allows you to respond in an appropriate manner. We are held captive by our thoughts, but we also hold the key to freedom.
much recommend both her books - How Emotions Are Made & Seven and a Half Lessons About The Brain - two of my most favourite books I've ever read
Good to hear, thanks for sharing!
Yess! Great to see another Lisa Fan 😁
Usually I am very skeptical of content along the lines of this video. However, I thought this was a very succinct and concise explanation and elaboration on the topic. Good stuff. Narratives are a grand part of the human experience, much of what we tell ourselves are only perceptions and not reality, meaning it can be changed through habituation and perspective. Thank you.
Barrett is the real shit. I'm skeptical too of a lot of psychology content, and I've read quite a few books that say contradictory things, but her book How Emotions Are Made was a standout to me and really cleared up the misconceptions absolutely flooding every aspect of life about how emotions work, and it has a bigger effect than people realize if everyone has wrong notions about how their brains and bodies work.
Mmmmm I didn't really like it. It sounds like pseudo science to me.
@@jorgejorge8878 You need only test the hypothesis
Only philosophers can attempt to discuss psychology .
1:40 Great variability in emotional lives
2:09 The illusion the brain creates
2:37 How emotions really work. The brain regulating body top down, body is sending sensory information to the brain but we don't experience sensory changes. We get a summary--what we feel.
3:30 Are feelings emotions? Sound analogy. The brain is telling you a story processing the world inside and outside you
4:33 Why is it important? The explanation is a tool not the answer.
4:50 Depression explained.
5:25 Part of managing your emotions is using them as a diagnostic not a diagnosis.
5:53 Your brain is making emotions. Using past experience to predict things that may not happen. Emotions are not happening to you.
6:02 Implications: You are an architect of your experience. It involves predicting differently than the recipe or story you carry.
6:40 You can't change your past but every new experience is an opportunity to change your present (not your past)
7:00 Just in the same way you exercise to be healthier you can cultivate new experiences. Learning is evidenced by new and different experiences. Practice. Practice. Practice to predict and act differently.
7:45 Not everybody has as much control as they might like. But everyone has more control than they think they do.
7:50 when you enter the world you are not wired. Other people wire that world. You are not responsible for it as a child or adolescent. 8:11 But as an adult...you can make decisions about what you experience; make choices about how you act. You either reinforce your predictions your brain makes or you change them.
8:40 We are the only one who can change them. We are caretakers of our experiences but the brain does what it does...based on our past. But you can practice making a new and different lifeworld.
I’d argue you’re more the surfer of your emotions not the architect. We can’t control our emotions, but we can control how we react to them.
I couldn’t agree more. As someone who comes from a dysfunctional family with a heavy load of traumatic baggage I used to be dramatic and emotionally reactive. I’ve tried many therapists like this lady and nothing worked, it only made me feel even more inadequate than I already was. That until I discovered aerial arts and my coach who guided me in how to channel all that propensity for drama and intensity into art. After 40 years of emotional chaos not only I can control my emotions now but I can also put them to good use.
No we can't control them. We really can't. Only choose how to act or not based on what we know at any given moment in time.
The impression I got of what she was saying is that the choices we make now help create the emotions we will experience in the future. Also, maybe changing our reactions can be a way of being the architect, too.
Body keeps the score of traumas ….emotional traumas are harder to heal as people get triggered from smell, a type of noise or anything else that takes you back . The behavioral FBI unit are great in recognizing people’s behavioral patterns as a typically taught patterns …. and repetitive taught creates emotions or feelings .
"Uses these new experiences to predict differently in the future ... For you to act differently in the future."
Oh man, that's huge for me!
For me, it was great because it unrevealed, without a mess, the complexity of emotions. It opens the door to explore and wire new experiences as they are: unknown and unseen. We are constantly conditioned by systems, and just the communication with words represents many limitations. So, for me, a good approach could be 'To see, forgetting the names of the things we are looking at' - C. Monet.
She made a lot sense. And I believe, when you do experience emotions in regards to pain and suffering, you should just accept them, and not fight them, they will pass.
When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change..
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This is a very good video. There is still though a lot we do not understand scientifically. Any talk about feelings and emotions needs to talk about trauma and how this can effect the brain. I have had multiple trauma and I have needed special training to help me get over it and it is still an ongoing process. When people are as good as this professor they all need to spend a great deal of time exchanging ideas - psychiatrists with psychologists with therapists. No one discipline has all the answers but the good thing is we are making progress in our understanding of these things. I would like to thank Lisa Felman Barrett for the inspiration she has given me and the important things she has taught me and reinforced in my mind.
This video is very interesting but it doesnt cover why we can still be "prisoners" of trauma that happened even before we had conscious memory (pre verbal trauma). Trauma is stored in the body, it's not just about how the conscious brain interprets it. Sometimes people are aware they're emotionally "overreacting", but they cant control it because they dont even know how or what happened. We've all heard about temporal memory loss, seeing red, etc.
You can answer your own question if you simply remove the word 'conscious' from the above phrase 'conscious brain'. She didn't limit it to the conscious brain, rather you seem to have interpreted it that way by adding that limitation. It is about how the brain (conscious, unconscious, preconscious) takes in and interprets both internal and external data.
There are emotions that are fast and quick. Chemical reactions in the body. There are feelings which are a little longer. They are your interpretation of the emotions. They can set moods. And attitudes. Also once you have a mood you willfuly start generating thoughts and emotions that keep you in the mood. There both are fall under affect. They include emotions and moods.
The brain wants to go into homeostasis though. What goes up, must come down. Not too high and not too low. This is why we tread between positive and negative thoughts. I'm trying to make sense of it. All I am not professional. We try to stay positive and happy all the time which is just not natural.
I think you are on the right track! as I understand Lisa Feldman Barrett "mood" is more of an underlying condition, which influences our affective niche - basically what we can and will feel at a given time and situation
Cheers, love the discussion. It's interesting to bring the duration of emotions or feelings into the discussion and would be cool to explore what role more instant reactions vs. longer duration emotions have in mood disorders and recovering from them.
yeah, being positive all the time, can lead to burn out
I was expecting her to mention Meditation as a tool for emotional regulation, maybe in a different video... To finally realize that all that we are is the awareness, the stillness behind thoughts and emotions, one can then become aware of the emotional triggers, and consciously process the emotion, identifying the source, the trauma, the trigger, without being it, and increasing the space between stimulous and reaction. Through practice, one can even untangle unprocessed trauma, or repressed emotions and free yourself from your own mind and it's conditioning.
Insightful, that you mention meditation or I would say mindfulness. She mentions none of that, mindfulness/meditation, in her book.
I would listen to her.
The basis of her theory seems somewhat limited. Those familiar with the practice of meditation acknowledge that the brain is not in control and that energy is managed from other centres. We also accept that everything is everywhere all the time :-)
Perhaps it was that looking outside of what is her known environment felt too challenging and she is therefore attempting to attract us into her version of things. Which is also part of what is.
@@andreawatts7884 I agree with you, and I would say that she’s looking at it from a very academic and professional perspective (Psychology Professor), but, she indeed does not mention that, there’s an ever present stillness, a silence, that can only be heard once the mind is silenced, then, what you hear is the universe, and it’s in that moment that one merge with creation and become the universe itself, the conscious presence, thoughtless and emotionless, and, it’s possible for everyone, all it takes is to quiet the mind and listen. It’s a beautiful thing!
To me, that’s who we really are, beyond culture, beliefs, and the traumas that conditions us until we become aware of them. We are all one!
@@jsgc13 I feel aligned with the awareness behind your comments and yet experience what is differently, as neither still nor without expression. I experience it as fullness, plenitude and abundance. And it seems to me that this is what we are all born from and at the same time within which we are forever lovingly held. And in our desire to leave it may only ensnare ourselves. So yes, we are all one :-) 🕊
Study the life of your parents, their parents and siblings and you will understand who you are a mirrored version of. And then learn to detach and become a wholesome version of yourself
Can you Elaborate
We are nothing else than a living iteration of our ancestors, programed through their acting ever since we are born. Especially given the enormous growth of our brains in the first 3 years. To become your true you you need to understand the social web which you grew up in and which you are a living mirror of..
Yes emotions don't happen to you. You have experiences and you have feelings and emotions to me are like a release of all the experiences you have. Some people do not feel like others do. My mother had so much trauma in childhood that it made her not empathetic to other people's feelings. I was not allowed to express my emotions as a child being raised by her and learned to keep quiet because if I said or did anything she didn't like I would get raged on. I held my emotions in too long which led to a nervous breakdown eventually and had a hard time controlling my emotions after that. I was diagnosed as bi-polar but what the doctors never figure out was that my family were all narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths. My mother still cannot under why when she does certain things that it hurts other people. She still gets upset when I get emotional and actually misinterprets emotions. This "World" we live in really does not allow for being too emotional. People go to work and you ask them how they are and they smile and say, "I'm good! How are you?" The stress of this world can be too much and it is very important to express your feelings and emotions are like a release. People can have a range of emotions both positive and negative. What I have learned is that the worst of the emotions stemmed from severe unresolved childhood trauma that I was not even aware of. Anger is a natural human emotion and children get angry as well as adults yet how we express that anger is extremely important. There are healthy ways to express anger other than ragging on people or being physically or verbally abusive. Stress in this world and health issues etc. can lead to painful emotions. It is all apart of the human experience. Healing has been a life long journey for me. I am a feeling person and would call myself an empath. People get their emotions stuck and it can lead to sickness. Holding your emotions in can even lead to cancer. So let it out I say! One of my favorite songs by MaDonna says it all, "Express Yourself, Don't Repress Yourself".
Emotions DO HAPPEN TO YOU because emotions begin with primal fear of death.....which is a paradox of recognizing the desire to live yet having ZERO skills or understanding to prepare for or prevent death. What you do with your fear....shows your evolution into the skill of loving
PTSD is different than being emotional.
Makes sense. I am recently finding it useful to reflect on my current experience of feeling OK whenever possible. (whatever I am doing) I think its retraining my brain and in the context of this video, giving my brain possibilities for new predictions.
Thank you for this. A 9 minute video that’s consumed several hours down the rabbit hole of seeking to understand and relate to in my experience. Wow, heavy duty for one who’s been living with misconceptions. She can’t be the only one with insight on this, I’m going to look further.
Have you seen the Sapolsky lectures? They may help....
You may also read Sapolsky's Behave
The seeding part is really profound and if meddled with consciously with an intimate understanding of oneself, can change a person's life for the better.
Fabulous! So much clarity and so well put.
So nice. Impeccable to be exact. Thank you💙🙏
Wonderfully informative and helpful. Thank you !
This was so STINKIN inspiring! What a woman this lady is
What a scientist!
Yeah, she's not just some schmuck.
How so?
Brilliant! This information is very helpful and comforting. Great job!
Just brilliant! Thank you for the content 🙏
Perfect. No words to describe how good and important this lecture was to me.
Just beautiful, thanks for this kind of information I appreciate all the efforts done behind the scene to get this kind of content out there, keep doing it, thank you.
Our pleasure! Thanks for watching!
I have been owned lately by my feelings and depressed and fatigued. Wow! This broke some ground for me. I have intuitively been doing things different. I have been learning and practicing recording a new tape. I have been pausing to breathe and relax instead of reacting. Thank you for helping me to keep on this track by confirming that these thoughts on how to get well aren't another waste of my time or energy.
We're so happy to hear this! Thanks for watching and for sharing your perspective :)
Pretty useful information! Thanks!
Wow! I needed this so badly...
What happens on the environment - > received by the senses and the body - > signals the brain - > brain interprets based on past experiences and knowledge and acts accordingly - > release hormones - > emotions created
Exactly! I've long felt that emotions are your mind's way of summarizing an incredibly complex array of percepts. Of course this was mere deduction on my part, using the assumptions that they must be manufactured for a purpose of some kind, and that that purpose must play an evolutionarily significant role.
In other words, it was a (I hope) not unintelligent guess. But so wonderful to have it confirmed by Ms. Feldman Barrett!
Great explanation. Thank you
Thank you. Truly. I needed this.
Cheers, so glad you found it!
heartening and strengthening.
This is great. The explanation is clear and the video is entertaining. I like the editing and b-roll selection. Thank you for this.
Cheers, so glad you liked it!
FWIW, you can find Lisa Feldman Barrett's research at www.affective-science.org/publications.shtml
@@Solscapes. your brain is an interpreter of reality. You can have a good or bad reaction to the same event and that's on you.
@@Solscapes. nobody is saying that people don't need emotional support or that individualism is a good thing - nor can you delude yourself into happiness. What is being said is that your body is a transducer and brain the controller. You have the ability to calibrate your equipment - whether you do that on your own or with help.
It's more "gaslighty" to say that you cannot change than that you can.
@@Solscapes. The part where your brain cannot act or react to physical objects.
You can get better without community support. It would be insane to believe otherwise.
Thank you Doc your words really helped. This world is a much prosperous place with you in it.❤😊
Thanks. I appreciate the reasonable content of this message.
I just literally read her book for my psychology class, thx for making a video! 🎉
This was helpful thank you. It helps to remember I'm the architect of my experience. Also, absolutely incredible music in this episode esp the violin in the last 1/4 of the video!
Best to say that we don’t “have emotions” rather we “do them”. We experience emotions as product of our human activities in the moment.
Thank you. I’ve been somewhat doing this process and you just gave a very beautiful way of explaining it.
Really wonderful.
"Reflect upon the Past.
Embrace your Present.
Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
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"Before I start, I must see my end.
Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain,
We must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
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--Diamond Dragons (series)
Thank you for this.
Very very interesting. The only thing I would add, is that there is a lot of talk in the video about what ‘the brain’ thinks and believes, but scientifically we don’t know yet if that is accurate. We know about how the brain is involved chemically and electrically, and we are still learning more about that, but we don’t actually know if the brain itself ‘thinks’ or ‘believes’. The brain could also turn out to be the tool of something we have not yet discovered, for example, and we could currently be studying the result of that in the physical workings of the brain. Time and research will eventually tell us how this actually works, but until we do we will need truly open minds (not open brains ;-), especially among scientists.
Emotion is expressed energetically.
Excellent presentation
Very very grateful
What I loved:
It seemed to go in a scientific direction which could mean having to depend on medication to treat the alleged deficiencies in your body, making you feel a certain way. It didn't. It's still perspective and open mindedness that can change not only your outlook, but your physical systems significantly too. You are what you think.
What a great presentation! I emotionally came away from this video. Feeling pretty excited about my future. Thank you. ❤️
Brilliant lecture. Thank you. ❤
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for being here!
Looking forward to her book.
I hope theres a audio version and that she narrates it. She has a pleasant voice.
This video is so empowering and useful for me. Thank you.
You are very welcome!
This is at the same time the explanation that makes most sense for thoughts, emotions, perceptions, and perhaps the most elusive one.
Very good video thanks
🔥Thank you so much
I rarely comment nowadays, but I just had to respond to this one.
This video is lifechanging. It gives so much perspective and balance to our human experience.
How so?
@JkennGG
We experience the world through our senses, so in a way any distinction between what happens inside and outside the body is simply a matter of perception. And I think a healthy, balanced perception is a great tool to handle the hurdles life throws at you.
Thank you for your reply, it made me rewatch the video :)
@@kreshnov Absolutely, thanks for the detailed reply!
Thank you a lot!!!
I am sure to understand everything but trauma seems to be missing in this comprehension of the present emotions. Without healing these emotions from the past, it is very difficult to understand our present emotions.
Very refreshing. Thanks for the lesson.
Glad you enjoyed it!
The last few minute of this video is such good information! Thank you. Sometimes I forget that I do have control!
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You are so welcome! Glad you liked it.
"Reflect upon the Past.
Embrace your Present.
Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
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"Before I start, I must see my end.
Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain,
We must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
--Diamond Dragons (series)
Never been to universiy.But love always when someone,crazy more inteligent than me,with lots of research behind.DECADES.Sums it up.Anda I learn.Her ted talks,wished to post the link.was mind blowing.Just love to have a little insight of the brain.Thank you so much Doctor Lisa Fieldman Barret.
Life is a journey. Emotions and thoughts are involved as we speak, before we speak. I never left the hospital after I was born....until I was rescued a month later. I am 74 now and still counting. LOVE. PEACE. God Bless.
It is helpful to be aware of our body's physiological processes to recognize the domino effect they can trigger and know how to intervene to achieve the best possible outcomes for our emotional well-being.
this knowledge is one of the best
Thank you. ❤
Thank you very very very much
“Not everybody has as much control as they might like, but everybody has a little more control that they think they do.” 7:11 - 7:53
This is amazing how cognitive, sensation & perception science, neurology, and psychology are getting to the point of saying very similar things as St. John of the Cross, Aquinas, and the Church Father's say about thoughts and emotions: about how brain and body work together, feeding each other information about the material world and past memories (and spiritual information being sensed by the soul and contributing to this process, but of course that's more metaphysics/theology territory), forming a den of personal and social stories that we may call the mind and personality.
Those early Christian theologians (and I hear that Hindu and Buddhist gurus have tapped into similar observations despite differences between the cultural lenses of the East and the West) had the help of Hellenism, Plato, and Aristotle to give them the foundational language and framework to study this phenomenon. However, some of those theologians, religious leaders, psychologists and lay people fall into the trap of Stoicism in making erroneous conclusions and myths about the mind, emotions, and mental health as discussed in the video, leading to dismissing the issues people experience and coming up with inappropriate or downright ineffective or unethical treatments. I hope there will be scientists and philosophers who can work together to help dispel those misconceptions.
That was mind boggling
Consciously, emotions happen to you, and that’s what you is, consciousnesses. This was very enlightening. Thanks. I had actually never really thought about it wondered about the neurobiological reality of emotions.
well, I don't know if emotions happen "to you" - they just happen and it's up to you what you make of them
Wonderful!
We can change the present to help mold our future experiences. How should I mold my experiences? What is my goal? Next is the existencial crisis and a desire to let go of that control and then in a month or so I will be back to this video.
needed to see this video again. i love this story. yes,outline. very exciting.
As usual with pop sci, it's far too vague, unsourced and ends on a positive tone to get upvotes but doesn't give anything actually actionable (no, watching a movie and reading a book won't cure depression)
Emotions are automatic, whereas feelings can be chosen and willfully overlaid on top of those automatic emotions to help regulate them. It's definitely a practice, and much easier said than done-but not impossible.
Brilliant!
It would be interesting to hear her speak on how money affects a persons emotions. One with less money will most likely be more miserable, and one with a lot of money will most likely be more happy and enjoy life more etc. That would be an interesting video
Thanks!
Emotions are something that I chose to experience or not.
I am the master of my emotions ! Not the slave of them..😊
I was very skeptical of the thoughts presents at first her conclusions made everything clear. I’m inspired to creat new emotions for myself and I understand the path I must take to do it. Thank you!
"Reflect upon the Past.
Embrace your Present.
Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
"Before I start, I must see my end.
Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain,
We must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
--Diamond Dragons (series)
Emotion is energy in motion.
Intense negative emotions all stem from fear. If you take a look at why you are mad as an example, dissect your emotion and there is an underlying fear there.
Positive emotions are of Love.
All emotions need to come and go. Change is the only constant and how we react is all we are in control of.
I love this woman. She´s so confident and smart.
We totally agree! If you're interested, we have a few more videos with her in this playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL_B7bI1QVmJCM2YvLifL2dqparLFu2HrS
Thank you
Interesting and helpful. Free of BS mumbo jumbo. This talk have some deep truth and guidance in it. Thank you.
7:20 'new experiences ...that would require you to get outside the normal range of what your brain would predict'
brilliant!
Another myth is that we are so sure of ourselves we judge the ‘uneducated’ as irrational. Intuition, empathy, and tribal consciousness can be much much faster to reach a specific goal than thinking of the same things over and over
Wow what a great speech. Just one thing is wrong. Emotions are not an illusion. They are resonating energies that we create and carry on within each other. We just haven't been able to measure it yet except with all the psychological facts that were just mentioned.
Thanks🙏
Emotions arent real. The way I started dealing with emotions was to use my ego to control them. In my desire to not wanting to be controlled by others I started to realize if I react emotionally to anything that someone else does I basically become their puppet. Now my life is pretty much a seek and destroy method of being controlled by things outside myself. It doesnt work all the time but every day week month year, gets better and i find little bits of self control along the way.
A woman is explaining emotions…we should definitely listen…
I’ve learned to not listen to any story anyone tells you, you have to go and discover things about this reality on your own. Even this story about emotions.
What she says sounds good in theory but never forget to test it out for yourself and don’t go just believing it because it sounds good.
Wow. I've believed for decades that emotions addicts reward with use of an addictive substance (incl alcohol) effects which emotions thet feel during withdrawal symptoms .
Ex: Angry drunk drinks to calm themselves. vs happy drunk goes dancing or to parties and other fun drinking events vs functional alcoholics who reward themselves for a job well done vs sad drunks listen to "cry in your beer" music and drink when they feel unappreciated/unloved, Etc.. Your info helps me understand the orchestration of perceptions, emotions, and actions in the context of accidentally training the "addict" about which types of "tantrums" will feed it the chemicals it wants. Ty.
Feeling is a sense. Like seeing, hearing, tasting, smelling,... Emotions like thoughts are a separate thing. You see thoughts. You feel emotions.
"Reflect upon the Past.
Embrace your Present.
Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
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"Before I start, I must see my end.
Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain,
We must see all in nothingness... before we start again."
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--Diamond Dragons (series)
Social media is messing with this ability so much that it is insane to ponder.