You are not your thoughts

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  • Опубликовано: 6 май 2019
  • This video explains some of the things you can try when you feel overwhelmed by your thoughts. After the video, take a few moments to observe your thoughts with curiosity, paying attention to how each one makes you feel. Paying attention to your thoughts and sorting through them takes practice and patience.
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    TRANSCRIPT
    Every day, we have thousands of thoughts, emotions, urges, memories and feelings. From the time we wake up in the morning, all throughout the day, to when we lay down to sleep at night. No matter who we are, we all have thoughts swirling around in our heads. We even think and feel in our dreams.
    Often, we don’t realize how many thoughts we are having, and we get lost in them. Sometimes, we’re not even aware that we’re thinking. We seem to be swimming in a sea of our own thoughts. When we are surrounded by our thoughts, it’s easy to get caught up in them and react automatically, sometimes in ways we don’t even mean to react. We might hold onto some thoughts, even when we don’t want to, and it can feel like our thoughts are overwhelming. But thoughts are not facts, and they are not always true, even if they seem to be. Next time you feel caught up in your thoughts, try paying attention to them with curiosity, and not judgment.
    It doesn’t matter if they are true or false, right or wrong; just notice them. How fast or slow are they? Are they are all very different from each other? Or perhaps you are having the same ones over and over again.
    Maybe they’re even focused on one theme. Some of these thoughts may be unwanted. But instead of reacting to them, notice what happens to your body sensations and your emotions when you have these thoughts. Perhaps you will notice if they are bringing you closer to or further away from what is important to you or the goals you have for yourself. Observing your thoughts
    is a skill that takes practice, like playing an instrument. Sometimes it'll be easy for you to be able to notice and respond to your thoughts. Other times, you might have to work really hard to get some distance from them.
    You might even have to keep letting go of the same unwanted thought over and over again.
    But don’t give up. Keep trying. Like waves in the ocean, thoughts are always passing through our minds, and can affect how we feel and what we do.
    But they are not “us”, and we are not our thoughts. Learning to be aware of our thoughts can allow us to respond with more choice instead of reacting in ways we may regret. Observing our thoughts gives us some distance to see how our thoughts make us feel. We can then choose to act in ways that bring us closer to the things and the people that are important to us. Remember, you are not your thoughts. Try observing your thoughts with curiosity. Try it right now.
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Комментарии • 132

  • @sarahhurley5883
    @sarahhurley5883 3 года назад +398

    Thank you so much for giving the boy a colostomy bag, my brother has Crohn's and has had one since he was little! Not many get represented.

    • @amyhorton2213
      @amyhorton2213 3 года назад +15

      When I noticed this I said "thats amazing!" out loud... lol

    • @alexelias7354
      @alexelias7354 3 года назад +4

      I was shocked when I saw that. I had to look really closely. So Amazing!!!

    • @micheleplischke1830
      @micheleplischke1830 3 года назад +6

      Right? That was a brilliant addition and no doubt very intentional.

  • @drm7552
    @drm7552 3 года назад +88

    I wanted to add my appreciation to Sarah's - I so appreciated that you included a boy with an ostomy bag. And that he is just a boy with worries like any other boy, the ostomy bag is not the focus. I wish there was more representation like this.

  • @pisky5067
    @pisky5067 3 месяца назад +4

    This should be taught in school everyday. It's the key to happiness

  • @jessicamaldonado6331
    @jessicamaldonado6331 3 года назад +63

    Honestly, the entire video is so poignant, but the colostomy bag is groundbreaking. Extremely well done!

  • @ripkobe8006
    @ripkobe8006 3 года назад +277

    I really needed this! I'm a deep thinker and I usually get swallowed up in my thoughts, but usually they cause negative emotions that are out of control. This video helped calm down my thoughts and suppress negative emotions.

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  3 года назад +15

      So happy that this video was helpful to you! We also have a playlist of similar videos that you might like: ruclips.net/p/PLjJtOP3StIuURSU5nmvDVZhSR8Ibr7NHK

    • @amyheil4949
      @amyheil4949 2 года назад +2

      Same

    • @shksumit
      @shksumit 2 года назад +2

      Brother I have been there and it was hard, so I recommend you to meditate, work on building up self esteem, which will help boost positivity in our inner self and build confidence on a long term basis

    • @1Tara
      @1Tara 2 года назад

      Same

  • @adrienemcgrath5562
    @adrienemcgrath5562 3 года назад +50

    I needed this because sometimes I get out of control and I need to calm down.

  • @personalexcellencefoundati818
    @personalexcellencefoundati818 3 года назад +52

    Observing your thoughts with curiosity is such a brilliant way to help young people become more self-aware, great video!

  • @miryammata7745
    @miryammata7745 4 года назад +280

    I kind of needed this

  • @rachel8518
    @rachel8518 2 года назад +104

    I really needed to hear this, especially with my anxiety telling intrusive thoughts and trying to say things that aren’t true and are scary.

    • @eddstrr1168
      @eddstrr1168 2 года назад +6

      I’m so glad I’m not alone on this one

    • @hirokoseiki8938
      @hirokoseiki8938 Год назад +1

      Thankyou for letting me know I'm not alone ❤

  • @gaybestfriend9118
    @gaybestfriend9118 2 года назад +8

    the fact that this helped me more than my parents could ever do

  • @maikiling8286
    @maikiling8286 3 года назад +25

    Excellent advice! This is so big. The ability to observe your thoughts will cure stress, overthinking, unhappiness, dissatisfaction and all the problems people have.

  • @elinmansson5535
    @elinmansson5535 3 года назад +95

    Why dont we Teach our kids this in school?

    • @lynnclapper8639
      @lynnclapper8639 3 года назад +14

      we(school counselors) do

    • @crystalsumner6057
      @crystalsumner6057 3 месяца назад

      They are starting too 😊
      To the children they believe need it! It's a start

  • @Emma_frosty00
    @Emma_frosty00 3 года назад +16

    Love that he has a bag! Nice touch😊

  • @theontg6108
    @theontg6108 2 года назад +10

    Its a great feeling to know that you are not your thoughts

  • @giakuek6787
    @giakuek6787 2 года назад +6

    Your voice is so calming and pleasant to hear. Thank you for sharing this invaluable information

  • @Sergio-qf9wu
    @Sergio-qf9wu 4 года назад +29

    What a nice video. Thanks.

  • @avbtube2
    @avbtube2 Год назад

    Excellent video! Thank you for this simple and so helpful explanation.

  • @Mary-oy7oe
    @Mary-oy7oe 2 года назад +6

    Thank you SO!!!! much for this video! I can't wait to share this with my clients. It is so easily digestible.

  • @rakeshkoylessur7589
    @rakeshkoylessur7589 2 года назад +1

    I need this to stay calm and out of stress

  • @janecalne4957
    @janecalne4957 Год назад +7

    This is so good ! I am going to show this to my son who has severe OCD. The thoughtful animation encapsulates this condition in a way I had not seen before. Thankyou.

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  Год назад

      So happy that you've found our video to be helpful :)

  • @ap5017
    @ap5017 3 года назад +4

    This is amazing, thanks.

  • @cassbrodie4139
    @cassbrodie4139 2 года назад +2

    I’m 10 and I think I may have depression this has helped whoever made this thanks

  • @lindaesposito5869
    @lindaesposito5869 3 года назад +4

    Great teaching tool. Will definitely use with clients. Thank you!

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  3 года назад

      Great to hear that you feel the videos will be helpful to your clients!

  • @jireh9635
    @jireh9635 Год назад

    Observing your thoughts is such a valuable habit to develop. Excellent video and great song choice!

  • @mmninjacrafts6409
    @mmninjacrafts6409 3 года назад +5

    I was looking for a resource to share with my 8 year old daughter and this really is so helpful - Thanks

  • @NallahBrown
    @NallahBrown Год назад

    Such a brilliant visual

  • @MsLmo98
    @MsLmo98 3 года назад +14

    What a great video! Thank you for creating such mindfulness for kids. I think even more than ever they need this now. With Covid and the aftermath of not being able to see their friends for an outlet.

  • @kelyaz85
    @kelyaz85 2 года назад

    OMG!! Thank you!!

  • @candid.303
    @candid.303 2 года назад

    Loved this.

  • @desireemedrano9462
    @desireemedrano9462 3 года назад +25

    What a beautiful and helpful video it’s so amazing it’s sooo interesting.

  • @esteemity5405
    @esteemity5405 3 года назад +17

    Everybody needs to know this stuff. Thanks for making this.

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  3 года назад

      So happy that you enjoyed this video. We have a playlist with similar videos. You can view them by clicking on this link: ruclips.net/p/PLjJtOP3StIuURSU5nmvDVZhSR8Ibr7NHK

    • @Envo676
      @Envo676 3 года назад

      yes i am very sad

  • @growingwithem
    @growingwithem 2 года назад +1

    This is gold... every word hit me in a way I didn't think it would be possible but here we are... Thank you so much for you work, it's beautiful 🤍

  • @BrandonYoungMusic
    @BrandonYoungMusic 3 года назад +1

    This is really helpful. Thank you!!

  • @bambie381
    @bambie381 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for creating this informative, helpful video. I am going to show this to my son .
    Stay well
    💙

  • @cavemanzam3369
    @cavemanzam3369 2 года назад

    I really needed this too

  • @itsdevgarg
    @itsdevgarg Год назад

    Thank you so much for making this video! Love From India. 🙏😇😇

  • @sandiletwala3001
    @sandiletwala3001 Год назад +1

    I'm not an A student but I try my best day in day out and with the exam fears all I remind myself that I must over think it and just try over n over n over again till I get good grades in my academics

  • @littlej2188
    @littlej2188 2 года назад

    Thanks for making this video you make others feel good

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  2 года назад

      Thanks for sharing that you enjoyed this video. We have a playlist with similar videos - take a look: ruclips.net/p/PLjJtOP3StIuURSU5nmvDVZhSR8Ibr7NHK

  • @ninastorm2223
    @ninastorm2223 3 года назад

    Thank you Very much

  • @suneetsaini8533
    @suneetsaini8533 2 года назад

    Thank you so much

  • @marianabastos8793
    @marianabastos8793 3 года назад +4

    thx this actually kinda helped

  • @jedipatrick7723
    @jedipatrick7723 2 года назад

    This is a wonderful video!

  • @OnlyGetOneLife
    @OnlyGetOneLife 3 года назад +1

    Excellent video! Much appreciated

  • @kevp9601
    @kevp9601 3 года назад +1

    This is Awesome

  • @brittneytorres5884
    @brittneytorres5884 4 года назад +8

    Good videos

  • @GurmeetSingh-ro1nj
    @GurmeetSingh-ro1nj 3 года назад +6

    love it; could you please create one with adult focus ; )

  • @pi7137
    @pi7137 2 года назад

    Im honestly looking for a awnser and i think this helps my search bc my mind and body feel separate and swimming in the sea of thoughts

  • @SnipedByJax
    @SnipedByJax 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @user-ub5ht6jf5u
    @user-ub5ht6jf5u 8 месяцев назад

    calming music i do say

  • @cutepsychology6222
    @cutepsychology6222 2 года назад

    Thankyou

  • @sarvgrover
    @sarvgrover 2 года назад

    Thanks

  • @1Tara
    @1Tara 2 года назад

    I love this

  • @arianadefalco7861
    @arianadefalco7861 3 года назад +27

    my therapist told me to watch this😜🤨🤩😭

  • @amyheil4949
    @amyheil4949 2 года назад +1

    Thank you a lot👍👍😁❤️

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! We have a playlist with similar videos. If you're interested, here is the link: ruclips.net/p/PLjJtOP3StIuURSU5nmvDVZhSR8Ibr7NHK

  • @Crystal-fv7fu
    @Crystal-fv7fu 2 года назад

    Thank You 😁

  • @angiadiamonte4632
    @angiadiamonte4632 2 года назад

    This is vital

  • @lindsaydelacruzvier
    @lindsaydelacruzvier Год назад

    Just me here crying because of over thinking about what will happen in my performance in declamation it's on Monday and I just can't help thinking "What if i get embarrass?" I don't know to or to overcome my anxiety I can't help it I'm 12 I hope that I do good and win the declamation or just do my best and that anxiety don't ruin me...
    This vid is a bit relieving because I relate to it so much

  • @I_lovesharkz
    @I_lovesharkz 3 года назад +2

    This is kinda helpful!!! Thanks

  • @DHPSWindhoekNamibia
    @DHPSWindhoekNamibia 3 года назад +17

    This is wonderful. Would we have your permission to show this on one of our info screens on school counseling and mental health on our school premises ? If so, whom can I contact for the original mp4 file? Thanks in advance!

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  3 года назад +8

      Thank you for your question. We are not able to give you the mp4 file, however, you may embed the video and use it that way. If you have any additional questions, please email: akh.socialmedia@sickkids.ca

    • @DHPSWindhoekNamibia
      @DHPSWindhoekNamibia 3 года назад +3

      @@aboutkidshealth Thank you so much!

  • @hallehumes3355
    @hallehumes3355 3 года назад +15

    This video made me feel much better :) thx

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  3 года назад +4

      So glad that you found this video to be helpful. We have a playlist of similar videos that you may like: ruclips.net/p/PLjJtOP3StIuURSU5nmvDVZhSR8Ibr7NHK

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows Год назад

    This is for kids but I’m gonna subscribe ♥️

  • @consultantMindset
    @consultantMindset Месяц назад

    That should be teach us in school Good video

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  Месяц назад

      Thank you! Here are some other videos that you might also like to watch: ruclips.net/p/PLjJtOP3StIuXFJ3jjjR3THLhHNMrFFJkM&si=gSHitWeSn4RE8nWK

  • @nehaswamy6666
    @nehaswamy6666 2 года назад +6

    It takes a lot of courage to kill our own thoughts sometimes..they're so much embedded in us that they become part of us 😖

  • @destinyholmes4549
    @destinyholmes4549 3 года назад +9

    Like how he has a colostomy bag.

  • @parenam6480
    @parenam6480 Месяц назад

    Great content, Thank you.
    But background music is too loud.

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  Месяц назад

      Thank you for the feedback. You may want to check out these other videos that are similar to this one: ruclips.net/p/PLjJtOP3StIuXFJ3jjjR3THLhHNMrFFJkM&si=gSHitWeSn4RE8nWK

  • @Iyahkin_
    @Iyahkin_ 2 года назад +4

    Hi! Can I use this for a school project? It’s about mental health awareness. We’ll go live this week and I would like to use your video as our background as we introduce our topic. Your response will be highly appreciated! ☺️

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  2 года назад

      Hi Alliah, You are welcome to use the video for your school project.
      Good luck!

    • @Iyahkin_
      @Iyahkin_ 2 года назад

      @@aboutkidshealth Thank you!

  • @wanderingbutterfly435
    @wanderingbutterfly435 2 года назад

    thanks youtube algorithm, this truly helps! :)

  • @kamillesa-ao6393
    @kamillesa-ao6393 2 года назад

    Such a wonderful story. May I ask permission to use the video for our webinar? Thanks

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  2 года назад

      Yes, of course! Please refer to our Linking Policy #4 and Content Reuse Policy #5 within our legal page for details: www.aboutkidshealth.ca/Legal

  • @moirestevensonpsychology319
    @moirestevensonpsychology319 2 года назад +2

    It would be great if this had French subtitles!

  • @ArtbyCimaAzimi
    @ArtbyCimaAzimi 3 года назад +1

    Excellent well done

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  3 года назад

      Glad that you liked the video and thanks for visiting!

  • @karenfrancis1092
    @karenfrancis1092 Год назад

    Great video. I work for a community-menta health clinic for kids - this would be helpful to share. May I?

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  Год назад

      Hi Karen, You are welcome to share the link from your website :) Thank you for sharing these resources with your community!

  • @professordrabhijitsayamber2299
    @professordrabhijitsayamber2299 2 года назад

    Ok 👌

  • @meringue3288
    @meringue3288 10 месяцев назад

    beautiful

  • @ambertastic7610
    @ambertastic7610 2 года назад

    I think it's great that the model has a colostomy bag.

  • @crypticso2127
    @crypticso2127 2 года назад +1

    I thought i am the only one who experienced this

  • @jennytaylor3203
    @jennytaylor3203 Год назад +1

    What's that thing on his hip?

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  Год назад

      He has an ostomy. An ostomy may be necessary due to one of many different medical conditions.

  • @MotivationEverydayy
    @MotivationEverydayy 2 года назад

    Can anyone help me with the name of the background music?

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  2 года назад

      Sure! - www.premiumbeat.com/royalty-free-tracks/dreaming-about-you

  • @kevaughngrant4441
    @kevaughngrant4441 2 года назад +1

    😀

  • @afkninjachickenwithfries4102
    @afkninjachickenwithfries4102 3 года назад +7

    school made me watch this

  • @oio4801
    @oio4801 2 года назад +1

    Am I the only one that keep getting distracted by the thing that on his pants what is it I'm dying to know?

    • @aboutkidshealth
      @aboutkidshealth  2 года назад +1

      Good morning! I believe that your question is referring to the ostomy? An ostomy is an opening from the inside of the body to the outside, through the abdomen. You can read more here: www.aboutkidshealth.ca/Article?contentid=1027&language=English

  • @margaretek5350
    @margaretek5350 19 дней назад

    🙏🙏🙏🤍🤍🤍😇😇😇☺️✨☺️

  • @minookalantari
    @minookalantari Год назад

    Thank you

  • @kellygreen2660
    @kellygreen2660 Год назад

    Thanks

  • @Loupoonug23
    @Loupoonug23 Год назад

    Thank you