Oh the workplace. Lost my job because of smear campaigning. Advocating my rights and standing up to injustice got me blacklisted. They are so malicious and diabolical. Thank you for this message.
I thought was the only one with this experience I cussed my boss out for constantly being provoked and bullied and my personal life being invaded upon and made fun off due to my sexual orientation by my boss for months and she shared personal private pictures on a dating website to my coworkers and made my life hell I had no proof at the time and she kept fucking with me at work everyday including her team I had enough one day and idgaf and told her ass about her self in front everyone and the truth that I refused her advances she felt rejected and lied and plotted against me made me out to be a wierdo and I got her together and she couldn’t say anything I was granted a transfer later fired before I could move and blacklisted and harassed online from her still I’m still in disbelief on how ppl like her with such putrid grotesque pure viol and evil filth exist and why …. Like can yall stop breathing so the rest of us who want to live in harmony can live in peace like what is their purpose
So true. Thank you. Money is not the root of all evil. Money is simply a physical manifestation of gratitude for goods and services received. Greed is the root of all evil.
I have fought. I fight every single day i fight. Im the empath scapegoat Black sheep who is exposing my parents and family. Something within me CAN'T STOP until its ALL OUT in the open. I am so tired from fighting this battle but i can't go back to living under such suppression and injustice. I can't do it. I would rather go hungry on the streets. Ive goven up a comfortable life in order to live my true self
I think it’s a good analogy to compare narcissism to colonialism. It rings true. As I have healed and am finding my voice in a stronger way and as I speak up more I’m getting much push back, anger and rage. I refuse to be bullied anymore. I’ve learned to respond and not react and that helps to diffuse but it’s rough out there as you know. It’s important work..and more compassion is needed to pour on our wounds and others wounds. I’m an underdog and I will fight for the underdog..as we should. The more darkness exposed the more panic and rage. Some are liberated and others run back to the darkness. Free will. I feel it in my own heart..to have compassion and non judgement for the pain I have caused others when I was hurting and unaware and trying to protect myself. Owning our dark and light.
The best response to the smear campaign is no contact and to get away from social media really enjoy your time with good people and say about the narc " well l hope they are doing well now but it has nothing to do with me." People are intelligent and often work out who is gaslighting who and those who have just prioritised peace.
Well, when I was working and as a child, I always stood up for people who were afraid to stand up for them self. The boss couldn't fired me because I was the best worker on the job. Because I know me, there's some injustice I can't see. It affects me strongly
Thank you brotha for sharing again 🙌🏾 Even if I have most of the system against me. I can go to bed with peace, honour and integrity. Because I trust the great spirit inside me ❤ If you want to be outstanding...you have to stand out...
Our light irritates their demons😂Truth and light are always met with virulent resistance and darkness! Empaths have a purpose!!! An undeniable one that serves to improve the human condition! Warriors, please stay vigilant, alert and aware!! 💜👍🏽 Thanks again, Vital! You are such an important steward!! Your name suits your purpose.🙏🏽
We live in a narrassist society and I hate it so much. I hate when people kiss and cozy up to them at the detriment of our society and it’s exactly what’s happening today. The little has to suffer for the greed of a few! By the way I think Prince would be considered an empath because he spoke about the music industry suppressing the freedom of artist to make their own music and get the credit. He fought against it his entire career this is why he wrote “slave” on his face. Ultimately like MJ I believe it was the cause of his untimely demise. I know he got sick but I believe there was more behind it. Thank you for this beautiful video. Your helping me to understand why I’m here. I’ve been confused for most of my life ❤
oh yes. i believe so. i see myself as empathic and there are certain behaviors that have grown to trigger an anger response in me. i think it has to do with that primal fight or flight piece of the puzzle.
It’s automatic, almost involuntary, to stand up to injustice. I can’t count the times I’ve been that one who in effect said “Let’s look at this again…” always hoping for a mutually empowering conversation but later in life realizing that many people in positions of authority are narcissists. “Authority” of any amount brings out their worst, from cops to teachers to scoutmasters to those stereotypical bitches at whatever counter. It’s as if I were born wanting peace for everyone and nauseated by conflict but unable, from my soul, to avoid being the one, out of allllll these people capable of being the one as well, to say No. Life becomes more solitary, as most people prefer to fawn and are resentful of the courageous one who shines so bright their shadow blackens to unbearable shame. Maybe it’s because I know the depth of my shame.
It’s crazy cause I’m a 43 year old male and my favorite color is pink and people think that is so weird and I didn’t know why until seeing this and pink is the color of empathy
Awareness without action changes nothing and only further enables harm. Even if you can see a bullet coming, if you do not move or move others, harm follows.
Empaths serve the good true and beautiful sometimes along the way we project the potential good true and beautiful on individuals who are either spoilt rotten entitled pathologicaly selfish,and if we've played along in the past the abuser thinks it's forever the empath says no🙏😇❤️
Yesssssss, my Brother is a Narcissist. He has cursed me out BAD and call me negative names…….ALL because I didn’t want to be on a group text. THEN he tried to turn my family against me telling them I didn’t love them😢 YES, I AM ALL ABOUT JESUS AND HE IS REAL🙏🏼♥️
When I hear this word it strikes me as evil. Narcissism. It frightens me. It feels evil. I know I’ve experienced it my whole life. My mother was a narc. Bad one. My ex hub was one too. Can one heal from this evil? I am an empath thru and thru. I am alienated for sure but I’m okay with that now. I can’t stand games. Winning at all costs. No way. My conscious is clean and I want it to stay that way. I do need to toughen up tho. 💕
The narciscist has empaths its like a dog having fleas in tandum with worms. How many ppl you know are better wiser ppl because they were crossed by bad ppl? Its like they need to exist. We all need to exist to grow and learn . Love and forgivness is very important. I can forgive somone and never speak to them again. Because forgivness is within
I think I’m the villain bc other women find me intimidating bc they don’t think they can do what I do. But they can! They just won’t, it’s easier to pretend to be weak.
Im wondering if Empathy should be so closely tied to political action. One of its definitions is to understand or Feel the feelings or another. Compassion is to Feel those Feelings and Loving the being whether you can help or not. Not everyone is the Archetype of the warrior. And its perfect for them to approach their empathy in a different manner. Just as there are 12 signs of the zodiac, each of us Humans will respond differently with their empathy. All Humans were templated by Creator with Empathy. Not all are awake to it. It does stir one to Feel all the predatory evil in this realm. Not all are tasked with taking the more public stand like the figure you mentioned, using thoughts and prayer may be more useful for some, as well as a little isolation
@@kazroell1758 Your comment is valid, however not aligned Ruth the specific topic of THIS video. You will find the answer to your comment/question in other videos.
I'm generally skeptical about the phenomenon of self-labeled empaths, and in my experience, many individuals who identify as such might be exaggerating their empathetic abilities or mislabeling themselves. This self-identification can sometimes stem from a desire for validation or a lack of self-awareness regarding one's own emotions and behaviors but, who am I to say that this would always be the case.
I know what you mean, a lot of people feel like that. My opinion is that's because many narcissists like to call themselves empaths because they're all about appearing good rather than actually being good. I do think a lot of actual empaths exist too, mostly just quietly getting on with doing good things or more publicly helping others or fighting injustice. Basically the actions of the person, their vibe and how they treat others will usually tell you a lot about their character.
I used to be a compliant people pleaser and I had about 100 friends. Now I am awake and I have boundaries I have very few friends can count in one hand !! It’s a very different life !! Thankyou Vital🙏 This is very helpful today !! 🌸💜
I believe Sinead O'Connor was an empath as well. Just watch some of her old interviews, watch her live performances, and if you can't feel that woman I can't help ya. SNL, need I say more? We know each other 🤍
The man of sorrows the weaping the bleeding for the rest of us. The momentum of chists doctorine as you say be it architypal or not does it actually matter would Jesus care to be selfless once the msg is the same and thats the point of the commandments the handbook for sustainability. We as fallen being lost sheep needed a shepard. Look how long and how strong its been carried and never thrown away. Thats power. Wisdom starts with fear of god.
@@looperbirhinger7043 criticizing and hating on others’ success and awareness is also a narcissistic trait. Makes us even… i just don’t hate on others… so we aren’t m the same after all 👏👏👏 go find YOU and start m helping others
@@VitalTheSigmaEmpath I don't hate you. I disagreed with you. that's different. I have a right to disagree. You do too. Without assuming that people hate on you :)
Oh the workplace. Lost my job because of smear campaigning. Advocating my rights and standing up to injustice got me blacklisted. They are so malicious and diabolical. Thank you for this message.
@@beverleyreid7572 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I thought was the only one with this experience I cussed my boss out for constantly being provoked and bullied and my personal life being invaded upon and made fun off due to my sexual orientation by my boss for months and she shared personal private pictures on a dating website to my coworkers and made my life hell I had no proof at the time and she kept fucking with me at work everyday including her team I had enough one day and idgaf and told her ass about her self in front everyone and the truth that I refused her advances she felt rejected and lied and plotted against me made me out to be a wierdo and I got her together and she couldn’t say anything I was granted a transfer later fired before I could move and blacklisted and harassed online from her still I’m still in disbelief on how ppl like her with such putrid grotesque pure viol and evil filth exist and why …. Like can yall stop breathing so the rest of us who want to live in harmony can live in peace like what is their purpose
So true. Thank you. Money is not the root of all evil. Money is simply a physical manifestation of gratitude for goods and services received. Greed is the root of all evil.
'..THE LOVE OF MONEY...', RATHER THAN MONEY IS...'
I have fought. I fight every single day i fight. Im the empath scapegoat Black sheep who is exposing my parents and family. Something within me CAN'T STOP until its ALL OUT in the open. I am so tired from fighting this battle but i can't go back to living under such suppression and injustice. I can't do it. I would rather go hungry on the streets. Ive goven up a comfortable life in order to live my true self
I'm impressed by what you're doing and I know it's really hard. Prayers to you.
I will pray for you as I am exactly in the same position as you and attempting what you are trying to do. Be blessed❤
I hope you both THRIVE in '25 ~
What I find more disturbing are the people who support and enable the narc, aka flying monkeys. I truly pity these people.
I think it’s a good analogy to compare narcissism to colonialism. It rings true. As I have healed and am finding my voice in a stronger way and as I speak up more I’m getting much push back, anger and rage. I refuse to be bullied anymore. I’ve learned to respond and not react and that helps to diffuse but it’s rough out there as you know. It’s important work..and more compassion is needed to pour on our wounds and others wounds. I’m an underdog and I will fight for the underdog..as we should.
The more darkness exposed the more panic and rage. Some are liberated and others run back to the darkness. Free will.
I feel it in my own heart..to have compassion and non judgement for the pain I have caused others when I was hurting and unaware and trying to protect myself. Owning our dark and light.
@@Blb477 beautiful and powerful statement… THANK YOU
The best response to the smear campaign is no contact and to get away from social media really enjoy your time with good people and say about the narc
" well l hope they are doing well now but it has nothing to do with me." People are intelligent and often work out who is gaslighting who and those who have just prioritised peace.
@@WarriorsSon 👏👏👏
Well, when I was working and as a child, I always stood up for people who were afraid to stand up for them self. The boss couldn't fired me because I was the best worker on the job. Because I know me, there's some injustice I can't see. It affects me strongly
@@SentoriaFAIRLEY 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you brotha for sharing again 🙌🏾 Even if I have most of the system against me. I can go to bed with peace, honour and integrity. Because I trust the great spirit inside me ❤ If you want to be outstanding...you have to stand out...
Stand out indeed
Our light irritates their demons😂Truth and light are always met with virulent resistance and darkness! Empaths have a purpose!!! An undeniable one that serves to improve the human condition! Warriors, please stay vigilant, alert and aware!! 💜👍🏽 Thanks again, Vital! You are such an important steward!! Your name suits your purpose.🙏🏽
@@pkp6791 THANK YOU 🙏🏽
We live in a narrassist society and I hate it so much. I hate when people kiss and cozy up to them at the detriment of our society and it’s exactly what’s happening today. The little has to suffer for the greed of a few! By the way I think Prince would be considered an empath because he spoke about the music industry suppressing the freedom of artist to make their own music and get the credit. He fought against it his entire career this is why he wrote “slave” on his face. Ultimately like MJ I believe it was the cause of his untimely demise. I know he got sick but I believe there was more behind it. Thank you for this beautiful video. Your helping me to understand why I’m here. I’ve been confused for most of my life ❤
@@TheProud_Cat_Lady 🤍🤍🤍
Can you be an empath with anger issues? 10:18
@@amandabloodgood9950 I’d think so… yes
oh yes. i believe so. i see myself as empathic and there are certain behaviors that have grown to trigger an anger response in me. i think it has to do with that primal fight or flight piece of the puzzle.
Of course, especially before you understand your gift❤
Absolutely! There is such a thing as righteous anger. There were times when Jesus demonstrated his own righteous anger!
This wee space in the interwebs is such a gift.
Thank you 🌸
@@AllisterMichannetheCat-tx9kn 🤍🤍🤍
Yes, love your examples of Jesus, MJ, and Sinead O’Connor❤
@@AtoMicEyeScream 🤍🤍🤍
It’s automatic, almost involuntary, to stand up to injustice. I can’t count the times I’ve been that one who in effect said “Let’s look at this again…” always hoping for a mutually empowering conversation but later in life realizing that many people in positions of authority are narcissists. “Authority” of any amount brings out their worst, from cops to teachers to scoutmasters to those stereotypical bitches at whatever counter.
It’s as if I were born wanting peace for everyone and nauseated by conflict but unable, from my soul, to avoid being the one, out of allllll these people capable of being the one as well, to say No.
Life becomes more solitary, as most people prefer to fawn and are resentful of the courageous one who shines so bright their shadow blackens to unbearable shame.
Maybe it’s because I know the depth of my shame.
@@RichardL-yz8fm 🤍🤍🤍
The suffragettes completely abandoned the black women that fought too!
@@justred5164 yes they did … great point 🙏🏽
It’s crazy cause I’m a 43 year old male and my favorite color is pink and people think that is so weird and I didn’t know why until seeing this and pink is the color of empathy
@@LiftingUrVeil-LUV 🩷
Awareness without action changes nothing and only further enables harm.
Even if you can see a bullet coming, if you do not move or move others, harm follows.
@@justinbyrge8997 🙏🏽
Empaths serve the good true and beautiful sometimes along the way we project the potential good true and beautiful on individuals who are either spoilt rotten entitled pathologicaly selfish,and if we've played along in the past the abuser thinks it's forever the empath says no🙏😇❤️
He's The Way The Truth and The Life
My presence is quite irritating don’t care anymore. I am free❤
So understand your statement ❤
Thank you for feeding us.
Thank you Vital for everthing you share. I am so grateful 🙏💐
YW :)
I agree with every single word! 🙏🙏
@@mariaridler1831 thank you
Yesssssss, my Brother is a Narcissist. He has cursed me out BAD and call me negative names…….ALL because I didn’t want
to be on a group text. THEN he tried to turn my family against me telling them I didn’t love them😢 YES, I AM ALL ABOUT JESUS AND HE IS REAL🙏🏼♥️
When I hear this word it strikes me as evil. Narcissism. It frightens me. It feels evil. I know I’ve experienced it my whole life. My mother was a narc. Bad one. My ex hub was one too. Can one heal from this evil? I am an empath thru and thru. I am alienated for sure but I’m okay with that now. I can’t stand games. Winning at all costs. No way. My conscious is clean and I want it to stay that way. I do need to toughen up tho. 💕
@@andreejohnston516 it is pure evil
I find it hard to keep my mouth shut when I see injustice. Don't get me wrong I have done at times.
WELL PLAYED
The labels are beneath me. Empathy is collectively misunderstood.
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@@heatherlovesgod 🤍
YES! YES! YES!
The narciscist has empaths its like a dog having fleas in tandum with worms.
How many ppl you know are better wiser ppl because they were crossed by bad ppl? Its like they need to exist. We all need to exist to grow and learn . Love and forgivness is very important. I can forgive somone and never speak to them again. Because forgivness is within
"...as an empath"
Every other woman.
Yes 🙌 more and more of us are born everyday ❤
@emilyzahra "...as a BPD."
is more accurate.
I think I’m the villain bc other women find me intimidating bc they don’t think they can do what I do. But they can! They just won’t, it’s easier to pretend to be weak.
Im wondering if Empathy should be so closely tied to political action. One of its definitions is to understand or Feel the feelings or another. Compassion is to Feel those Feelings and Loving the being whether you can help or not. Not everyone is the Archetype of the warrior. And its perfect for them to approach their empathy in a different manner. Just as there are 12 signs of the zodiac, each of us Humans will respond differently with their empathy. All Humans were templated by Creator with Empathy. Not all are awake to it. It does stir one to Feel all the predatory evil in this realm. Not all are tasked with taking the more public stand like the figure you mentioned, using thoughts and prayer may be more useful for some, as well as a little isolation
@@kazroell1758 Your comment is valid, however not aligned Ruth the specific topic of THIS video. You will find the answer to your comment/question in other videos.
💛
Perception is normally projection
sometimes
💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯
@@CosmicWonder333 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm generally skeptical about the phenomenon of self-labeled empaths, and in my experience, many individuals who identify as such might be exaggerating their empathetic abilities or mislabeling themselves. This self-identification can sometimes stem from a desire for validation or a lack of self-awareness regarding one's own emotions and behaviors but, who am I to say that this would always be the case.
I know what you mean, a lot of people feel like that. My opinion is that's because many narcissists like to call themselves empaths because they're all about appearing good rather than actually being good. I do think a lot of actual empaths exist too, mostly just quietly getting on with doing good things or more publicly helping others or fighting injustice. Basically the actions of the person, their vibe and how they treat others will usually tell you a lot about their character.
@@katec9893right on the nail!
Thank ✨🐦 you ❤️🩹
😊 thank 🐦 for standing up with me 😊 Thank you 💗 Jesus Christ 🙏 Lord and Savior 💕
No wonder I like Sinead O'Connor ❤❤
Music 🎶💫 Boxes 😁. Flower 🌻🌹 shop 🌺 😮
:)
I used to be a compliant people pleaser and I had about 100 friends. Now I am awake and I have boundaries I have very few friends can count in one hand !!
It’s a very different life !!
Thankyou Vital🙏
This is very helpful today !!
🌸💜
@@Amber-b3g 🤍
Edward Snowden?
🙏🏻⚡️🌹✨🪽
They want us to conform soooooo bad🤣
I believe Sinead O'Connor was an empath as well. Just watch some of her old interviews, watch her live performances, and if you can't feel that woman I can't help ya. SNL, need I say more? We know each other 🤍
@@soosoo1965 ❤️❤️❤️ just mentioned her in another video
I knew as soon as I heard her lyrics - especially to 'Black Boys on Mopeds'.
@ 🤍
Keep making ‘good trouble’ ( in the words of the late great Congressman John Lewis).🎉💜
@@pkp6791 “GOOD TROUBLE” ❤️
The man of sorrows the weaping the bleeding for the rest of us. The momentum of chists doctorine as you say be it architypal or not does it actually matter would Jesus care to be selfless once the msg is the same and thats the point of the commandments the handbook for sustainability. We as fallen being lost sheep needed a shepard. Look how long and how strong its been carried and never thrown away. Thats power. Wisdom starts with fear of god.
"sigma" is a self-aggrandizing narcissistic term.
can't you see it?
@@looperbirhinger7043 criticizing and hating on others’ success and awareness is also a narcissistic trait. Makes us even… i just don’t hate on others… so we aren’t m the same after all 👏👏👏 go find YOU and start m helping others
@@VitalTheSigmaEmpath I don't hate you. I disagreed with you. that's different. I have a right to disagree. You do too. Without assuming that people hate on you :)
PeaceMakers
I am racist against pandas, i feel personally o-pnda-d.
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