Man bruh you said everything I was telling my female cousin yesterday about us man think and operate ;in a godly way and in a ungodly way. I agree with everything you said. I support you page mane . Keep speaking the godly way. You definately on your purpose and inspire and motivate me so I appreciate that.
Eventually we have to grow up be the men god intended us to be. Adam took a wrong direction in the beginning , us modern day men have to change that or we will not fulfill our true purpose. Tony know exactly what he talking about.
Healing childhood trauma is one of the most important thing a person can do. I’m glad I was able to recognize the importance of it in my early twenties.
@ Ange Winou I’m 26 and I never been in a real relationship either, but I’m thankful that I hadn’t. I’ve been in therapy, focusing on my 3b’s, and building a relationship with GOD. I never experienced so much peace and healing until I starting working on myself. I encourage you to do the same 🤗. Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes have really helped me a lot understanding men. I definitely would have been taken advantage of by men had I not came into the knowledge that I received from them two.
@@aliciawoods8925 You are a wise young woman! From a 50 year old. 😉. I, too, listen to Bishop Blakes and Tony; their messages are truly parallel and reinforce the other.
@@angewinou780 Blessings, to you, my dear. At 50 years old, I am processing suppressed childhood trauma that was just brought back to my consciousness, months ago. I prayed, to the Holy Spirit, for, and have received an extraordinary Christian spiritual counselor to guide me on my profound spiritual journey, otherwise known as life. It’s truly remarkable how much I understand myself, even more, and have been healed of decades of pain and misery. May you be blessed to find, locate, and meet with the RIGHT practitioner (specializing in childhood trauma) to guide you in a healthy direction. The blessing is you are young with the awareness that you are, NOW, open to healing. Hope I’m not being, too, presumptuous…
I thank God for you. No man In my life ever told me to be abstinent or to look for certain things in a man. I love being abstinent. I have never respected myself more than I do today at 43 years old. I've never been as serious about who I allow access to me as I do today. All thanks to you and your teaching. God bless you.
If it’s women getting cheating on by men in their city or even married, can you imagine how much cheating in a long distance relationship? I don’t trust long distance relationships.
You have to be with the right person and come to a mutual agreement. Was in a 5 year relationship and 3 years were super long distance and two years were just 2 hours away from each other. It worked cause he was military and I was in grad school full-time.
Breann I agree! I definitely don't do long distance relationships. I don't do them because I don't believe in them. A relationship requires interaction and not just through social media or technology..we should be able to see each other at least 2 times a week. I need to know where you work and live sooner or later. You can tell me anything in a long distance relationship. I don't trust them
Yeah I don't trust them either because to me that's just another form of an emotional unavailable man. Just like men that travel and from the same city you live. There will be trust issues simply because you don't know and see each other. It's no use.
My favorite part of Tony's videos is when he says a word, confesses to not knowing what it means but uses it anyways, and its correct 9/10 times. 😂 Gone with your vernacular, brother Tony. 💯🙏🏾
You hit the nail on the nose. Character speaks for itself and cannot be faked that’s why I’ll continue to vouch for you, your vids and your word despite what scandals go on with people in your field.
I had to tell this to my 69 year old mother. She is nearly 70. Some man approached her on Facebook. I had to school her on catfishing. Lord behold it's a man in another country begging for money. Thank God she has a Millennial daughter to keep her woke. The dating and games do not stop at 70 ladies lol
I have that problem with my sister and shes still losing money. What can I do about this? My sis is 59 yes old and her husband passed away about 2 yes ago.
Yes l am 68 and women our age are targets for these scammers. We are lonely and desperate because we want someone as we get older. I think online dating is for the younger folks. I am going to stay away from it. I have been scammed 4 times. I figured it out early on and never gave them money. I would never give a man money anyway no matter what. I think it is very pathetic for a man to ask a woman for money.
This is why I tell my daughters we hold the power as women and inspire men. That’s why it’s critical we take care of ourselves/love ourselves & if a man doesn’t meet your standards-he’s not the guy.
Man! Thank you, the more I listen, the more I realize how ignorant I've been. This is NOT disappointing it surprising to me. It is enlightening. This teaches us how to decipher what kind of man we are dealing with.
Trying to explain the ways of a man...sometimes its just spiritual and these men are used by the adversary to destroy the family structure, leaving women broken and bitter. A man's mind has to be renewed by Christ.
My ex-husband enjoyed working out of state and having a long distance marriage. After 9 years of this I finally divorced him. He tried to make me feel guilty about wanting a husband to come home at night.
@@ashleybeverly7328 I am committed to the process. The middle of 2021 threw me some of the mental tests, so I know that something is in play in the soul (mind, will, and emotions) arena. Tony is doing a work of healing by sharing the whole cinema of: long distance relationships, a man and his ways, and how both men and women process life (startups, success, where we spend, what chores/tasks we don't feel like doing today).
@@JermaineThomas4050 I admire the fair you are so open in acknowledging you went through some mental tests, and those tests lead you to do some self-evaluation. The fact that a man so confident in his manhood, that he, like you said- puts every scenario, pro, con,, truth on diaplay- is truly a gift from God. I commend it- and as a sister in Christ to another brother in Christ: Do not be afraid to be the 1%. You growing and being the best you can be will raise you to the top as a person and especially as a man. Stay encouraged 🌻
EVERYTIME I'm GOING through something Tony seem like he's GOING through my phone...it's so weird...like he's listening to my phone calls, I literally can read one of Tony's "headings" and Im like he's reading my mail... TODAY I got the courage to click on his Channel❤️he so full of knowledge, humility and honesty and hard Truth💕
Be blessed! Whatever you upload Tony, I’m watching. Surprisingly enough, a man told me about your videos. Ive been watching you for a year and am now, going back through your old videos, catching up on that game.
Be blessed!! For a second now I thought I wasn’t going to make it to the end of this video 😂, but support got to be real!! Developing kings and queens take WORK!! Thanks TG!!
I was in a relationship with a guy that always had something to say about my outlets. It really hurt my feelings and make me feel like I couldn’t be me. I can tell he hated me. I still have a hard time getting back to the real me and doing what makes me happy because of the things he said to me. I felt picked and pulled apart
@@phyllisdickerson9071 thank you. 😊 so are you! I was so confident before I met him. He always had something negative to say about my appearance. I started to make sure I did everything right just so he wouldn’t have anything to say. It was stressing me out!
Don't let that man-child have that kinda control over your mind space! More often than not, the way a person treats us has everything to do with them, and very little to do with us. He was projecting. You are a beautiful woman and he is gone...don't let him stick around in your head. We only get one life, make yourself smile!
Truth Tony women do fantasize about the whole idea of a relationship, and be going through hell. But the fantasy keep them locked in almost like having (faith)
@@pamsimmons6428 Honestly, we women are encouraged to stay in the fantasy or 90% of men won't get any women. The media even feeds into our fantasy with all the romantic novels, TV series and fake couple accounts on tiktok. I'm a "logical" woman because I grew up with many male siblings, and I always get told not to be skeptical about men and that I think too much.
Be blessed. Watchinh this after work before i wind down to sleep. I knew whsn i saw 2 hours it waz going to be some gems in here that i wanted to know asap.
Stay strong - everyone : men and women ! We all have temptations. I love the message about finding an outlet that has value. We all need them. I think more adults- including me need to find ways to have “ clean” fun.
My eyes has open more in reality on channels like these that are not afraid to “go there” talk about tough subjects that put something on a person mind to think. Then I would ever take away in a church setting, only a FEW churches would have deep minded truth about life. NOW! I’m learning more about me and have peace within listening to strong men and women that exposes the true reality on subject like this….GREAT JOB TONY….you are truly GOD sent…😊
Tony, you have made it SO PLAIN for men and women. There is no reason we can’t understand the struggle. You have TRULY been gifted for the ministry you were assigned to by God. I pray your strength in the Lord, and that He multiplies you beyond what you can ever ask or think, in JESUS Name. .
I love how he details it. Also very very to the point and honest! Love the way he thinks and explains dysfunctionality to the fullest! God bless Mr. Gaskins!🤗
Listened to the entire 2 hours. Your videos have changed my life for the better. Now, don’t block me Tony, but I felt concerned to speak on this. I don’t think it’s safe to tell “RUclips” world your schedule& when your family will be alone, there’s weirdos out here. You and your family stay blessed! Thank you for all you do!
Thank you for answering the call and sharing your knowledge and experiences with all of us so we can all grow, live better lives and have better relationships on both sides. Your efforts are appreciated 🙏🏾 ✊🏾
There is so much more than meets the eye in the development of the Human Body and Mind, whether Male or Female. HEALING is a process that must take place and it starts with KNOWLEDGE and with SPECIFIC KNOWLEDGE and TRUTH to begin Understanding yourself, so that you can replace a bad habit with a good habit.
TONY is speaking nothing but facts, I've seen and met men that seemingly got away with tomfoolery with other weak minded women try to run the same game on me, they were shocked and intrigued to meet a women who did'nt suffer fools gladly and required them to come all the way correct or get to stepping. Most of them sat up and the ones who could'nt put their egos in check stepped away. so its facts that in every area of our lives, work, family, relationships, friendships, people will give you the amount of respect you demand. when the discern you dont play about yourself, they will be careful to bring b.s to you.
Uncle Tony I appreciate how honest you are . Thanks for taking the time to make amazing Holy Spirit led content to help get us on a healthy path to not just love but our overall lives
Listening to every video of yours till the very end for the past years, because this information is priceless. Also, just ordered and received „A Woman‘s Influence“, and I looove this read so much. Thank you for every word and second you’re investing, will continue to support you and your work!🙏🏻
This is my 2nd favorite video. The first is the rules of dating. This video is Soo nurse friendly and I can Soo relate to the family member and only doing what is required. Your illustration of what a man will do (that is required)...on point. A woman's influence
Took me 2 days to watch it! Lol! Thank you for using your gifts to enlighten us and help us make sense of the things we encounter. God bless you and your family!
Don’t call it anything. This was a great conversation and I’ve learned so much hearing it from a man’s perspective. It’s taught me to only deal with quality man and be patient with them.
TONY, you did that! I thank you so much for helping me to be a wiser woman, when it comes to Men and how they think. I appreciate your wisdom and honesty! Also, I enjoyed you and your wife, I like how she thinks as well 😇 I’m going to put you both on my Prayer list just to keep you all lifted before the LORD🙏🏽 I’m a Minister and interceding is what I do! BLESSINGS🙌🏽🩸🙌🏽
Thank you soooooo much, Mr. Gaskins! This message really spoke to me and my current situation. You have a special call on your life and are truly God sent!
This is the BESSSSSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT video I have heard from Tony Gaskins. You are soooo right. Society tell men to "Have A Blast" when they are mentally stressed. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Blessings to you Bro Tony you truly are a dedicated servant of God this is so awesome today with a 2 Hour video . I pray that God continue to strengthen you.🙏🏾❤️🤗
Each word you didn’t know what it meant but it sounded good was correct 😅 also I learned in your video men respect women who are a challenge and I noticed men are obsessed with video games because it is a challenge. So maybe a lot of my relationship problems was because i was I wasn’t being a challenge because I didn’t want to seem difficult. Thank you for putting things into perspective I need to be a challenge to be respected.
BE BLESSED! 🙌🏾 I most certainly resonate with this message. I’ve never heard the message relayed in this way but it definitely hits home for me. I’ve always felt like I was blocked by my own family and I ended up turning to nefarious activities. Because I felt like I couldn’t have the right to be my own person and to just be a human being. But I don’t want to place the blame on no one but I could say in a way that I rebelled. I ended up having to pay for my mistakes later on. I still feel like I am recovering. I am a single Mom and I get mom guilt just for wanting to have one day of relaxation. I came from a controlling family that didn’t know how to show the proper love. And my whole life I been gaslighted for things that happened to me that was out of my control and was not my fault. This video right here has me thinking on a deeper level. I never felt like I deserve peace or tranquility. Or should I say an ‘outlet’! ? I always felt like i was someone’s slave. Either my parents or ex boyfriends. Who both try to change, control me, and manipulate me. Dang this is so deep!!! Thank you Brother Tony! Sending love to you and your family 💕
Buy whatever it is you want, that's for all the stress we put on you. To me it shows God's blessing in your life. It's a reward for your honesty and way you choose to live and serve the Almighty. Whoever sees it as bragging needs to have a brain rewiring done. Be blessed .
This one of the best talks; I have ever heard…. Understanding the risk assessment of your partners outlets. Can you deal with the persons outlet…. I live it thank you.
Thank you Tony. It's good to hear a man of God's perceptive on men. I don't have many men in ny family. I didn't grow up with my dad, so I looked for love on all the wrong places.
Be blessed🙏🏼🙏🏼 I wake up listening to you. I listen to while I work the whole 8 hrs and listen to you before bed. Thank you for helping me to understand myself more so I know how to better handle situations in my life and I NOW KNOW that I do not like Alpha males and I’d take a beta male any day! Now on to the next video......
Be blessed Tony! Thank you so much for your generosity. This was enlightening as always. Glad to hear you're coming to DC and looking forward to meeting you... perhaps?😇
Omg Tony!!! Thank you so much for all this real truth. You're crossing all t's and dotting those i's. Thank God for your channel and amazing content👏 Please keep speaking truth. And for people hating on you. Dark(Haters) and light(Tony)aren't meant to connect. They need to have several seats. Maybe rather than fighting truth learn to open minded and sensible. Thank you again !!!!
I think men and women are actually pretty similar we all want to be loved its just that from when we are young we are conditioned to act a certain way girls have to be nice and are not accepted to be wild whereas boys are expected to be rambunctious men are ok to sleep around whereas a woman is judged as a slut even you played game on women and only chose the woman that was hard to get and wouldn't sleep with you if these social structures didn't exist would everyone still act the same ? Why don't we just stop with the games and are just honest with each other society is getting destroyed by games and fakeness honestly it is all just so tiring to me .
Maybe you need to take a microbiology class because men and women aren't similar all the way down to our bone structure. Our needs are different... biological needs is what I mean for the most part. Women think men are the same as them and that's why they get played like a fiddle.
I agree with you. Man and woman are very similar. Physically one is stronger than the other in a lot of cases. Same with emotional and mentally. I’ve been with very toxic man and also with normal man. And normal acts the same and toxic acts the same as well. Lol there’s not much of difference other than how we are taught as children or who grew up with that makes the difference. Also culture and religion that makes a change.
Man bruh you said everything I was telling my female cousin yesterday about us man think and operate ;in a godly way and in a ungodly way. I agree with everything you said. I support you page mane . Keep speaking the godly way. You definately on your purpose and inspire and motivate me so I appreciate that.
👋🏾 nice smile
Eventually we have to grow up be the men god intended us to be. Adam took a wrong direction in the beginning , us modern day men have to change that or we will not fulfill our true purpose. Tony know exactly what he talking about.
I don't believe woman have that much influence over a man
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@@enatihaok3594 , you meant to say a boy.
A 2 hour video?! Tony, you are truly dedicated to teaching us knowledge. 2 hours of your day to help us, shoot.. im listening to every second!
Facts sis!!! Same 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Getting this work
@@officialwatchamber Yes, sis. All the work🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Me too!!!!! 😊🙌
me too! on replay👌👌❤👏
I even replayed some portions of it.
Healing childhood trauma is one of the most important thing a person can do. I’m glad I was able to recognize the importance of it in my early twenties.
Im in my late 20s I have never been in a relationship because I still have trauma of being bullied as a kid.
@ Ange Winou I’m 26 and I never been in a real relationship either, but I’m thankful that I hadn’t. I’ve been in therapy, focusing on my 3b’s, and building a relationship with GOD. I never experienced so much peace and healing until I starting working on myself. I encourage you to do the same 🤗. Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes have really helped me a lot understanding men. I definitely would have been taken advantage of by men had I not came into the knowledge that I received from them two.
@@aliciawoods8925 You are a wise young woman! From a 50 year old. 😉. I, too, listen to Bishop Blakes and Tony; their messages are truly parallel and reinforce the other.
@@angewinou780 Blessings, to you, my dear. At 50 years old, I am processing suppressed childhood trauma that was just brought back to my consciousness, months ago. I prayed, to the Holy Spirit, for, and have received an extraordinary Christian spiritual counselor to guide me on my profound spiritual journey, otherwise known as life. It’s truly remarkable how much I understand myself, even more, and have been healed of decades of pain and misery.
May you be blessed to find, locate, and meet with the RIGHT practitioner (specializing in childhood trauma) to guide you in a healthy direction. The blessing is you are young with the awareness that you are, NOW, open to healing. Hope I’m not being, too, presumptuous…
What a blessing- your recognition!
“I have never once seen a man write me and said, this woman has run in and out my life.” TG
A WORDDDDDDDD
Thank u for your time and teaching.God Bless u.
I thank God for you. No man In my life ever told me to be abstinent or to look for certain things in a man. I love being abstinent. I have never respected myself more than I do today at 43 years old. I've never been as serious about who I allow access to me as I do today. All thanks to you and your teaching. God bless you.
If it’s women getting cheating on by men in their city or even married, can you imagine how much cheating in a long distance relationship? I don’t trust long distance relationships.
You have to be with the right person and come to a mutual agreement. Was in a 5 year relationship and 3 years were super long distance and two years were just 2 hours away from each other. It worked cause he was military and I was in grad school full-time.
Breann I agree! I definitely don't do long distance relationships. I don't do them because I don't believe in them. A relationship requires interaction and not just through social media or technology..we should be able to see each other at least 2 times a week. I need to know where you work and live sooner or later. You can tell me anything in a long distance relationship. I don't trust them
Exactly. The concept itself is plain retarded - my five cents.
Yeah I don't trust them either because to me that's just another form of an emotional unavailable man. Just like men that travel and from the same city you live. There will be trust issues simply because you don't know and see each other. It's no use.
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My favorite part of Tony's videos is when he says a word, confesses to not knowing what it means but uses it anyways, and its correct 9/10 times. 😂 Gone with your vernacular, brother Tony. 💯🙏🏾
Right 😂
YUP...,
DATZ KICKS *****
Yes SIREE, "POINT BLANK; P E R I O O O D " !! !! !! !! !!
IT'S THE ANOINTING ON HIS
L I F E *****
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Women fall in love with the fantasy and hope of what COULD be. Men fall in love with what IS. 👀
No truer words…
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I’ve been there. When we divorced I said “I’m most sad at the loss of what we could’ve been. But I can see that what we are has not been great.”
You hit the nail on the nose. Character speaks for itself and cannot be faked that’s why I’ll continue to vouch for you, your vids and your word despite what scandals go on with people in your field.
Right
Be blessed!!
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I had to tell this to my 69 year old mother. She is nearly 70. Some man approached her on Facebook. I had to school her on catfishing. Lord behold it's a man in another country begging for money. Thank God she has a Millennial daughter to keep her woke. The dating and games do not stop at 70 ladies lol
Lol smh
Awww bless her heart ♥️😩
Lol same with my mom and she’s 69 😂
I have that problem with my sister and shes still losing money. What can I do about this? My sis is 59 yes old and her husband passed away about 2 yes ago.
Yes l am 68 and women our age are targets for these scammers. We are lonely and desperate because we want someone as we get older. I think online dating is for the younger folks. I am going to stay away from it. I have been scammed 4 times. I figured it out early on and never gave them money. I would never give a man money anyway no matter what. I think it is very pathetic for a man to ask a woman for money.
This is why I tell my daughters we hold the power as women and inspire men.
That’s why it’s critical we take care of ourselves/love ourselves & if a man doesn’t meet your standards-he’s not the guy.
Man! Thank you, the more I listen, the more I realize how ignorant I've been.
This is NOT disappointing it surprising to me. It is enlightening. This teaches us how to decipher what kind of man we are dealing with.
Trying to explain the ways of a man...sometimes its just spiritual and these men are used by the adversary to destroy the family structure, leaving women broken and bitter. A man's mind has to be renewed by Christ.
Yep I def believe this!
Nailed it
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That part!!!
Agreed. 🙏🏻
Thanks!
My ex-husband enjoyed working out of state and having a long distance marriage. After 9 years of this I finally divorced him. He tried to make me feel guilty about wanting a husband to come home at night.
This is "THE TALK ON THE FRONT PORCH" thats needed. Meanwhile..I am just waving my chuuuch fan.
AMEN!!!!
Lol 😂😂😂.... LEO'S rock 🎸 8/18 here
Absolutely
Oh yeah!
THANK You for teaching me about MEN and the pros and cons of their mind. God bless you I needed THIS
It is totally random, but I’m playing your videos because it helps to sooth my anxiety attacks. It’s crazy, never felt like this before 😅
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The entire first 27 minutes, pure encouragement for men. Life 101.
Amen 🙌🏼
@@officialwatchamber Amen. Amen. 🙌
Keep doing the work! 🙌🏿🌻
@@ashleybeverly7328 I am committed to the process. The middle of 2021 threw me some of the mental tests, so I know that something is in play in the soul (mind, will, and emotions) arena. Tony is doing a work of healing by sharing the whole cinema of: long distance relationships, a man and his ways, and how both men and women process life (startups, success, where we spend, what chores/tasks we don't feel like doing today).
@@JermaineThomas4050 I admire the fair you are so open in acknowledging you went through some mental tests, and those tests lead you to do some self-evaluation. The fact that a man so confident in his manhood, that he, like you said- puts every scenario, pro, con,, truth on diaplay- is truly a gift from God. I commend it- and as a sister in Christ to another brother in Christ: Do not be afraid to be the 1%. You growing and being the best you can be will raise you to the top as a person and especially as a man. Stay encouraged 🌻
🔥🔥🔥 I’ve binged watch your videos starting from 2 years ago! There are still good black men on earth and you’ve proved it throughout every video.
Same
My mom has three boys and said she literally screamed and cried when she found out I was a girl. She knew what I would have to go through as a woman.
EVERYTIME I'm GOING through something Tony seem like he's GOING through my phone...it's so weird...like he's listening to my phone calls, I literally can read one of Tony's "headings" and Im like he's reading my mail... TODAY I got the courage to click on his Channel❤️he so full of knowledge, humility and honesty and hard Truth💕
That’s how you know it’s from God.
Be blessed! Whatever you upload Tony, I’m watching. Surprisingly enough, a man told me about your videos. Ive been watching you for a year and am now, going back through your old videos, catching up on that game.
A man... Wow... That was kind of him
@@lauramapani3627 it was actually someone I was talking to but it didn’t work out. The Holy Spirit spoke to me. I said “Got ta go!”
These two hours were worth it..... Be Blessed!!!!!
If you never do a video again on understanding a man, could run off this for years!! Wow!!! God bless you!
2 hours.. What A blessing, Thank you Tony for your time and knowledge.
Be blessed!! For a second now I thought I wasn’t going to make it to the end of this video 😂, but support got to be real!! Developing kings and queens take WORK!! Thanks TG!!
I was in a relationship with a guy that always had something to say about my outlets. It really hurt my feelings and make me feel like I couldn’t be me. I can tell he hated me. I still have a hard time getting back to the real me and doing what makes me happy because of the things he said to me. I felt picked and pulled apart
You are gorgeous Sis! He knew he didn't deserve you and wanted you to feel down on yourself so you'd be more likely to stay with his sorry ass!
girl he was insecure af. saw something beautiful in you he was jealous of.
@@phyllisdickerson9071 thank you. 😊 so are you! I was so confident before I met him. He always had something negative to say about my appearance. I started to make sure I did everything right just so he wouldn’t have anything to say. It was stressing me out!
@@genj1184 💯 slowly getting back to myself. I wish I could see some beauty in me.
Don't let that man-child have that kinda control over your mind space! More often than not, the way a person treats us has everything to do with them, and very little to do with us. He was projecting. You are a beautiful woman and he is gone...don't let him stick around in your head. We only get one life, make yourself smile!
Truth Tony women do fantasize about the whole idea of a relationship, and be going through hell. But the fantasy keep them locked in almost like having (faith)
I Man will leave a woman for eating the last of the cereal out the box anyyyyything he out.
If we as women can get out the fantasy just maybe that will help to make wiser decisions
Faith.. yep just like it
@@pamsimmons6428 Honestly, we women are encouraged to stay in the fantasy or 90% of men won't get any women. The media even feeds into our fantasy with all the romantic novels, TV series and fake couple accounts on tiktok. I'm a "logical" woman because I grew up with many male siblings, and I always get told not to be skeptical about men and that I think too much.
It's called Fantasy. Faith is different.
You used every word that you “didn’t know” correctly…and in the right context. You da man, T2!!
Half way through this video and Tony is dropping those gems again. So enlightening.
I listen to Tony in the car, as I'm working out, while eating. It's a traveling conversation. 😅
For real sis 🤣
For me it’s while I’m getting ready for work in the morning and as I go to sleep at night. Dude is just flat out entertaining.
Be blessed. Watchinh this after work before i wind down to sleep. I knew whsn i saw 2 hours it waz going to be some gems in here that i wanted to know asap.
Stay strong - everyone : men and women ! We all have temptations.
I love the message about finding an outlet that has value. We all need them.
I think more adults- including me need to find ways to have “ clean” fun.
My eyes has open more in reality on channels like these that are not afraid to “go there” talk about tough subjects that put something on a person mind to think. Then I would ever take away in a church setting, only a FEW churches would have deep minded truth about life. NOW! I’m learning more about me and have peace within listening to strong men and women that exposes the true reality on subject like this….GREAT JOB TONY….you are truly GOD sent…😊
Let me grab my notebook and get comfortable.
THAT PART Though 🙌🏼 📝
Tony, you have made it SO PLAIN for men and women. There is no reason we can’t understand the struggle. You have TRULY been gifted for the ministry you were assigned to by God. I pray your strength in the Lord, and that He multiplies you beyond what you can ever ask or think, in JESUS Name.
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Long distance relationships are not real, period.
There have been some long distance relationships that have been substantial.
Men can do it all the time and want you to accept their flaws. But let the women cheat he’s gone not looking back . 🙌🤦♀️🤦♀️🤬✌️
tons of men dont leave when a girl cheats
When he said giving away the game and being a cheater. "The best disguise is no disguise." Thats how that works.
I noticed that too during the IG Q & A… the increase in the amount of LD relationship questions!! Thanks Tony for this video 🙌🏼🙌🏼
I love how he details it. Also very very to the point and honest! Love the way he thinks and explains dysfunctionality to the fullest! God bless Mr. Gaskins!🤗
Listened to the entire 2 hours. Your videos have changed my life for the better. Now, don’t block me Tony, but I felt concerned to speak on this. I don’t think it’s safe to tell “RUclips” world your schedule& when your family will be alone, there’s weirdos out here. You and your family stay blessed! Thank you for all you do!
Thank you for answering the call and sharing your knowledge and experiences with all of us so we can all grow, live better lives and have better relationships on both sides. Your efforts are appreciated 🙏🏾 ✊🏾
There is so much more than meets the eye in the development of the Human Body and Mind, whether Male or Female.
HEALING is a process that must take place and it starts with KNOWLEDGE and with SPECIFIC KNOWLEDGE and TRUTH to begin Understanding yourself, so that you can replace a bad habit with a good habit.
Life is about choices, we choose everyday who we want to be. Most times what seems right to us, has a bad outcome in the long run.
Tony is such a blessing ✨ I can’t even explain the amount of peace brought to me just from his messages! Love the 2hr talk! Blessings.
These two hours were amazing! More like this. Be blessed.
TONY is speaking nothing but facts, I've seen and met men that seemingly got away with tomfoolery with other weak minded women try to run the same game on me, they were shocked and intrigued to meet a women who did'nt suffer fools gladly and required them to come all the way correct or get to stepping.
Most of them sat up and the ones who could'nt put their egos in check stepped away. so its facts that in every area of our lives, work, family, relationships, friendships, people will give you the amount of respect you demand. when the discern you dont play about yourself, they will be careful to bring b.s to you.
thank you for this one, be blessed. I don't have words for this, just a level of gratitude I haven't felt in a long time
Uncle Tony I appreciate how honest you are . Thanks for taking the time to make amazing Holy Spirit led content to help get us on a healthy path to not just love but our overall lives
Hey NephewTony, you broke that all the way down. That was absolutely on point. God bless you and your beautiful family. Be blessed. SDG
Listening to every video of yours till the very end for the past years, because this information is priceless. Also, just ordered and received „A Woman‘s Influence“, and I looove this read so much. Thank you for every word and second you’re investing, will continue to support you and your work!🙏🏻
Thank you so much for giving us the blueprint Coach! This was so good! I gotta go back to take notes! Be blessed!
Be Blessed. Thank you for the insight. There are definitely a lot of gems in this message.
Be blessed ! Another video with the gems ! Appreciate you as always sir!
This is my 2nd favorite video. The first is the rules of dating. This video is Soo nurse friendly and I can Soo relate to the family member and only doing what is required. Your illustration of what a man will do (that is required)...on point. A woman's influence
“Ion know what that mean but we gon use that right there” 😆
Always great message Tony, ty!
Took me 2 days to watch it! Lol! Thank you for using your gifts to enlighten us and help us make sense of the things we encounter. God bless you and your family!
BE BLESSED 💜💜💜 when you said I'm 5'10" with a 2 pack 🤣🤣🤣 Mr Gaskins you be cracking me up through these videos of wisdom with your humor 💯👍🏽
Be blessed!! Thanks Tony for 2 hours!! We appreciate the knowledge!! 🗣🙌🏾
Thank you for those consistent Q&A . Those questions and answers are so eye opening . Thank you Tony ! 🇯🇲
A 2 hour video OMG God Bless you! ❤️ I always love listening to your video, sipping on my tea 🍵 and doing work on my laptop 💻.
Don’t call it anything. This was a great conversation and I’ve learned so much hearing it from a man’s perspective. It’s taught me to only deal with quality man and be patient with them.
Loving these back to back videos. Thanks Tony! ❤️
TONY, you did that! I thank you so much for helping me to be a wiser woman, when it comes to Men and how they think. I appreciate your wisdom and honesty! Also, I enjoyed you and your wife, I like how she thinks as well 😇
I’m going to put you both on my Prayer list just to keep you all lifted before the LORD🙏🏽
I’m a Minister and interceding is what I do!
BLESSINGS🙌🏽🩸🙌🏽
Be blessed… thanks again for another great talk, Tony! 😊
Watched in its entirety while enjoying my outlet…a night run 🏃🏾♀️ Thank You sir
This is good teaching, all men and women should hear this especially young men and women, powerful
I love all of your messages TG but this one really hit the spot!! Be blessed Tony, continue to let God use you!! 🙏🙏
Thank you soooooo much, Mr. Gaskins! This message really spoke to me and my current situation. You have a special call on your life and are truly God sent!
This is the BESSSSSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT video I have heard from Tony Gaskins. You are soooo right. Society tell men to "Have A Blast" when they are mentally stressed.
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Be blessed! Thanks Tony, you are one in a million.
Be blessed! You are a great man! Wow Im really impressed with all your wisdom and success God is good
I appreciate my daily dose of "Men 101". I so appreciate you spending your time and giving this knowledge to women, Tony💐
WOW! I’ve watched you for three years now. Your insight is always appreciated. This video is Fire. Be blessed. You certainly bless us all the time.
Blessings to you Bro Tony you truly are a dedicated servant of God this is so awesome today with a 2 Hour video . I pray that God continue to strengthen you.🙏🏾❤️🤗
Each word you didn’t know what it meant but it sounded good was correct 😅 also I learned in your video men respect women who are a challenge and I noticed men are obsessed with video games because it is a challenge. So maybe a lot of my relationship problems was because i was I wasn’t being a challenge because I didn’t want to seem difficult. Thank you for putting things into perspective I need to be a challenge to be respected.
"Because what we doin' is the work of the Lord against Men who think they're higher than God." Tony Gaskins has literally shut down the Internet💯
Love your ministry Bro Gaskins, continued Blessings be upon your family
BE BLESSED! 🙌🏾
I most certainly resonate with this message. I’ve never heard the message relayed in this way but it definitely hits home for me. I’ve always felt like I was blocked by my own family and I ended up turning to nefarious activities. Because I felt like I couldn’t have the right to be my own person and to just be a human being. But I don’t want to place the blame on no one but I could say in a way that I rebelled. I ended up having to pay for my mistakes later on. I still feel like I am recovering. I am a single
Mom and I get mom guilt just for wanting to have one day of relaxation. I came from a controlling family that didn’t know how to show the proper love. And my whole life I been gaslighted for things that happened to me that was out of my control and was not my fault. This video right here has me thinking on a deeper level. I never felt like I deserve peace or tranquility. Or should I say an ‘outlet’! ? I always felt like i was someone’s slave. Either my parents or ex boyfriends. Who both try to change, control me, and manipulate me. Dang this is so deep!!! Thank you Brother Tony! Sending love to you and your family 💕
Be Blessed.🤗 Looking forward to my "us" pushing one another to be better.
Buy whatever it is you want, that's for all the stress we put on you. To me it shows God's blessing in your life. It's a reward for your honesty and way you choose to live and serve the Almighty. Whoever sees it as bragging needs to have a brain rewiring done. Be blessed .
Be blessed!! God’s hand at work! Enlightening!
Wowwww! This is a lot. 2 hours, go Mr. Gaskins we appreciate you!
Be blessed, took me 2 days and listening in different stages but I got here, thanks for taking your time and sharing 🙏
Great lesson Mr. Gaskins!
THIS IS ONE OF YOUR BEST VIDEOS BY FAR
thank you for sharing your gift and knowledge with us. the countless hours 🖤
This one of the best talks; I have ever heard…. Understanding the risk assessment of your partners outlets. Can you deal with the persons outlet…. I live it thank you.
Be blessed! God continue to speak into Tony’s life and the life of his family. 🙏🏾
Be Blessed. Absolutely great content as Usual. It was worth the time, feel like I'm in a online class on relationships. Truly a gem. Thank you!
Thank you Tony. It's good to hear a man of God's perceptive on men. I don't have many men in ny family. I didn't grow up with my dad, so I looked for love on all the wrong places.
Be blessed🙏🏼🙏🏼
I wake up listening to you. I listen to while I work the whole 8 hrs and listen to you before bed. Thank you for helping me to understand myself more so I know how to better handle situations in my life and I NOW KNOW that I do not like Alpha males and I’d take a beta male any day!
Now on to the next video......
Be Blessed! You gave us a word tonight my dear. Love to you and your lovely wife. 💕
Be blessed Tony! Thank you so much for your generosity. This was enlightening as always. Glad to hear you're coming to DC and looking forward to meeting you... perhaps?😇
Be Blessed! Thank you for this Tony so many gems and I picked every last one of them up 💎💎💎💎💯I Appreciate you bro!
Omg Tony!!! Thank you so much for all this real truth. You're crossing all t's and dotting those i's. Thank God for your channel and amazing content👏 Please keep speaking truth. And for people hating on you. Dark(Haters) and light(Tony)aren't meant to connect. They need to have several seats. Maybe rather than fighting truth learn to open minded and sensible. Thank you again !!!!
I think men and women are actually pretty similar we all want to be loved its just that from when we are young we are conditioned to act a certain way girls have to be nice and are not accepted to be wild whereas boys are expected to be rambunctious men are ok to sleep around whereas a woman is judged as a slut even you played game on women and only chose the woman that was hard to get and wouldn't sleep with you if these social structures didn't exist would everyone still act the same ? Why don't we just stop with the games and are just honest with each other society is getting destroyed by games and fakeness honestly it is all just so tiring to me .
Maybe you need to take a microbiology class because men and women aren't similar all the way down to our bone structure. Our needs are different... biological needs is what I mean for the most part. Women think men are the same as them and that's why they get played like a fiddle.
I agree with you. Man and woman are very similar. Physically one is stronger than the other in a lot of cases. Same with emotional and mentally. I’ve been with very toxic man and also with normal man. And normal acts the same and toxic acts the same as well. Lol there’s not much of difference other than how we are taught as children or who grew up with that makes the difference. Also culture and religion that makes a change.
Be blessed!!! Needed everything in this no matter how many areas it covered God Bless you !!!