Man bruh you said everything I was telling my female cousin yesterday about us man think and operate ;in a godly way and in a ungodly way. I agree with everything you said. I support you page mane . Keep speaking the godly way. You definately on your purpose and inspire and motivate me so I appreciate that.
Eventually we have to grow up be the men god intended us to be. Adam took a wrong direction in the beginning , us modern day men have to change that or we will not fulfill our true purpose. Tony know exactly what he talking about.
Healing childhood trauma is one of the most important thing a person can do. I’m glad I was able to recognize the importance of it in my early twenties.
@ Ange Winou I’m 26 and I never been in a real relationship either, but I’m thankful that I hadn’t. I’ve been in therapy, focusing on my 3b’s, and building a relationship with GOD. I never experienced so much peace and healing until I starting working on myself. I encourage you to do the same 🤗. Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes have really helped me a lot understanding men. I definitely would have been taken advantage of by men had I not came into the knowledge that I received from them two.
@@aliciawoods8925 You are a wise young woman! From a 50 year old. 😉. I, too, listen to Bishop Blakes and Tony; their messages are truly parallel and reinforce the other.
@@angewinou780 Blessings, to you, my dear. At 50 years old, I am processing suppressed childhood trauma that was just brought back to my consciousness, months ago. I prayed, to the Holy Spirit, for, and have received an extraordinary Christian spiritual counselor to guide me on my profound spiritual journey, otherwise known as life. It’s truly remarkable how much I understand myself, even more, and have been healed of decades of pain and misery. May you be blessed to find, locate, and meet with the RIGHT practitioner (specializing in childhood trauma) to guide you in a healthy direction. The blessing is you are young with the awareness that you are, NOW, open to healing. Hope I’m not being, too, presumptuous…
You hit the nail on the nose. Character speaks for itself and cannot be faked that’s why I’ll continue to vouch for you, your vids and your word despite what scandals go on with people in your field.
I thank God for you. No man In my life ever told me to be abstinent or to look for certain things in a man. I love being abstinent. I have never respected myself more than I do today at 43 years old. I've never been as serious about who I allow access to me as I do today. All thanks to you and your teaching. God bless you.
My favorite part of Tony's videos is when he says a word, confesses to not knowing what it means but uses it anyways, and its correct 9/10 times. 😂 Gone with your vernacular, brother Tony. 💯🙏🏾
I had to tell this to my 69 year old mother. She is nearly 70. Some man approached her on Facebook. I had to school her on catfishing. Lord behold it's a man in another country begging for money. Thank God she has a Millennial daughter to keep her woke. The dating and games do not stop at 70 ladies lol
I have that problem with my sister and shes still losing money. What can I do about this? My sis is 59 yes old and her husband passed away about 2 yes ago.
Yes l am 68 and women our age are targets for these scammers. We are lonely and desperate because we want someone as we get older. I think online dating is for the younger folks. I am going to stay away from it. I have been scammed 4 times. I figured it out early on and never gave them money. I would never give a man money anyway no matter what. I think it is very pathetic for a man to ask a woman for money.
This is why I tell my daughters we hold the power as women and inspire men. That’s why it’s critical we take care of ourselves/love ourselves & if a man doesn’t meet your standards-he’s not the guy.
Thank you for bringing out the reality of living in the South. I came along right after integration as well. It was awful and we did suffer. Thank you for this wonderful video, Tony!!!!
If it’s women getting cheating on by men in their city or even married, can you imagine how much cheating in a long distance relationship? I don’t trust long distance relationships.
You have to be with the right person and come to a mutual agreement. Was in a 5 year relationship and 3 years were super long distance and two years were just 2 hours away from each other. It worked cause he was military and I was in grad school full-time.
Breann I agree! I definitely don't do long distance relationships. I don't do them because I don't believe in them. A relationship requires interaction and not just through social media or technology..we should be able to see each other at least 2 times a week. I need to know where you work and live sooner or later. You can tell me anything in a long distance relationship. I don't trust them
Yeah I don't trust them either because to me that's just another form of an emotional unavailable man. Just like men that travel and from the same city you live. There will be trust issues simply because you don't know and see each other. It's no use.
Man! Thank you, the more I listen, the more I realize how ignorant I've been. This is NOT disappointing it surprising to me. It is enlightening. This teaches us how to decipher what kind of man we are dealing with.
EVERYTIME I'm GOING through something Tony seem like he's GOING through my phone...it's so weird...like he's listening to my phone calls, I literally can read one of Tony's "headings" and Im like he's reading my mail... TODAY I got the courage to click on his Channel❤️he so full of knowledge, humility and honesty and hard Truth💕
My ex-husband enjoyed working out of state and having a long distance marriage. After 9 years of this I finally divorced him. He tried to make me feel guilty about wanting a husband to come home at night.
Truth Tony women do fantasize about the whole idea of a relationship, and be going through hell. But the fantasy keep them locked in almost like having (faith)
@@pamsimmons6428 Honestly, we women are encouraged to stay in the fantasy or 90% of men won't get any women. The media even feeds into our fantasy with all the romantic novels, TV series and fake couple accounts on tiktok. I'm a "logical" woman because I grew up with many male siblings, and I always get told not to be skeptical about men and that I think too much.
Trying to explain the ways of a man...sometimes its just spiritual and these men are used by the adversary to destroy the family structure, leaving women broken and bitter. A man's mind has to be renewed by Christ.
@@ashleybeverly7328 I am committed to the process. The middle of 2021 threw me some of the mental tests, so I know that something is in play in the soul (mind, will, and emotions) arena. Tony is doing a work of healing by sharing the whole cinema of: long distance relationships, a man and his ways, and how both men and women process life (startups, success, where we spend, what chores/tasks we don't feel like doing today).
@@JermaineThomas4050 I admire the fair you are so open in acknowledging you went through some mental tests, and those tests lead you to do some self-evaluation. The fact that a man so confident in his manhood, that he, like you said- puts every scenario, pro, con,, truth on diaplay- is truly a gift from God. I commend it- and as a sister in Christ to another brother in Christ: Do not be afraid to be the 1%. You growing and being the best you can be will raise you to the top as a person and especially as a man. Stay encouraged 🌻
Be blessed! Whatever you upload Tony, I’m watching. Surprisingly enough, a man told me about your videos. Ive been watching you for a year and am now, going back through your old videos, catching up on that game.
My eyes has open more in reality on channels like these that are not afraid to “go there” talk about tough subjects that put something on a person mind to think. Then I would ever take away in a church setting, only a FEW churches would have deep minded truth about life. NOW! I’m learning more about me and have peace within listening to strong men and women that exposes the true reality on subject like this….GREAT JOB TONY….you are truly GOD sent…😊
Be blessed. Watchinh this after work before i wind down to sleep. I knew whsn i saw 2 hours it waz going to be some gems in here that i wanted to know asap.
Be blessed!! For a second now I thought I wasn’t going to make it to the end of this video 😂, but support got to be real!! Developing kings and queens take WORK!! Thanks TG!!
Stay strong - everyone : men and women ! We all have temptations. I love the message about finding an outlet that has value. We all need them. I think more adults- including me need to find ways to have “ clean” fun.
I love how he details it. Also very very to the point and honest! Love the way he thinks and explains dysfunctionality to the fullest! God bless Mr. Gaskins!🤗
Tony, you have made it SO PLAIN for men and women. There is no reason we can’t understand the struggle. You have TRULY been gifted for the ministry you were assigned to by God. I pray your strength in the Lord, and that He multiplies you beyond what you can ever ask or think, in JESUS Name. .
I was in a relationship with a guy that always had something to say about my outlets. It really hurt my feelings and make me feel like I couldn’t be me. I can tell he hated me. I still have a hard time getting back to the real me and doing what makes me happy because of the things he said to me. I felt picked and pulled apart
@@phyllisdickerson9071 thank you. 😊 so are you! I was so confident before I met him. He always had something negative to say about my appearance. I started to make sure I did everything right just so he wouldn’t have anything to say. It was stressing me out!
Don't let that man-child have that kinda control over your mind space! More often than not, the way a person treats us has everything to do with them, and very little to do with us. He was projecting. You are a beautiful woman and he is gone...don't let him stick around in your head. We only get one life, make yourself smile!
TONY is speaking nothing but facts, I've seen and met men that seemingly got away with tomfoolery with other weak minded women try to run the same game on me, they were shocked and intrigued to meet a women who did'nt suffer fools gladly and required them to come all the way correct or get to stepping. Most of them sat up and the ones who could'nt put their egos in check stepped away. so its facts that in every area of our lives, work, family, relationships, friendships, people will give you the amount of respect you demand. when the discern you dont play about yourself, they will be careful to bring b.s to you.
There is so much more than meets the eye in the development of the Human Body and Mind, whether Male or Female. HEALING is a process that must take place and it starts with KNOWLEDGE and with SPECIFIC KNOWLEDGE and TRUTH to begin Understanding yourself, so that you can replace a bad habit with a good habit.
Listened to the entire 2 hours. Your videos have changed my life for the better. Now, don’t block me Tony, but I felt concerned to speak on this. I don’t think it’s safe to tell “RUclips” world your schedule& when your family will be alone, there’s weirdos out here. You and your family stay blessed! Thank you for all you do!
BE BLESSED! 🙌🏾 I most certainly resonate with this message. I’ve never heard the message relayed in this way but it definitely hits home for me. I’ve always felt like I was blocked by my own family and I ended up turning to nefarious activities. Because I felt like I couldn’t have the right to be my own person and to just be a human being. But I don’t want to place the blame on no one but I could say in a way that I rebelled. I ended up having to pay for my mistakes later on. I still feel like I am recovering. I am a single Mom and I get mom guilt just for wanting to have one day of relaxation. I came from a controlling family that didn’t know how to show the proper love. And my whole life I been gaslighted for things that happened to me that was out of my control and was not my fault. This video right here has me thinking on a deeper level. I never felt like I deserve peace or tranquility. Or should I say an ‘outlet’! ? I always felt like i was someone’s slave. Either my parents or ex boyfriends. Who both try to change, control me, and manipulate me. Dang this is so deep!!! Thank you Brother Tony! Sending love to you and your family 💕
Listening to every video of yours till the very end for the past years, because this information is priceless. Also, just ordered and received „A Woman‘s Influence“, and I looove this read so much. Thank you for every word and second you’re investing, will continue to support you and your work!🙏🏻
Uncle Tony I appreciate how honest you are . Thanks for taking the time to make amazing Holy Spirit led content to help get us on a healthy path to not just love but our overall lives
Each word you didn’t know what it meant but it sounded good was correct 😅 also I learned in your video men respect women who are a challenge and I noticed men are obsessed with video games because it is a challenge. So maybe a lot of my relationship problems was because i was I wasn’t being a challenge because I didn’t want to seem difficult. Thank you for putting things into perspective I need to be a challenge to be respected.
TONY, you did that! I thank you so much for helping me to be a wiser woman, when it comes to Men and how they think. I appreciate your wisdom and honesty! Also, I enjoyed you and your wife, I like how she thinks as well 😇 I’m going to put you both on my Prayer list just to keep you all lifted before the LORD🙏🏽 I’m a Minister and interceding is what I do! BLESSINGS🙌🏽🩸🙌🏽
This is my 2nd favorite video. The first is the rules of dating. This video is Soo nurse friendly and I can Soo relate to the family member and only doing what is required. Your illustration of what a man will do (that is required)...on point. A woman's influence
Don’t call it anything. This was a great conversation and I’ve learned so much hearing it from a man’s perspective. It’s taught me to only deal with quality man and be patient with them.
Thank you soooooo much, Mr. Gaskins! This message really spoke to me and my current situation. You have a special call on your life and are truly God sent!
Took me 2 days to watch it! Lol! Thank you for using your gifts to enlighten us and help us make sense of the things we encounter. God bless you and your family!
Blessings to you Bro Tony you truly are a dedicated servant of God this is so awesome today with a 2 Hour video . I pray that God continue to strengthen you.🙏🏾❤️🤗
Buy whatever it is you want, that's for all the stress we put on you. To me it shows God's blessing in your life. It's a reward for your honesty and way you choose to live and serve the Almighty. Whoever sees it as bragging needs to have a brain rewiring done. Be blessed .
Be blessed. I stayed for the whole video. I endured this sound teaching & insight. I now understand the ways of a man and me. My outlet is school & church. I love to challenge myself and think and improve. This now make all the sense. This is why we need the precious Holy Spirit so we can balance our lives and not lean over into sin. God is so good. Thank you Tony! You are a Billionaire! It's on you!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Be blessed brother !✊🏿✊🏿no need to apologize that’s the spirit using you and you always on point !💯💯💯💯 Oh and enjoy the boxing match in my City Cleveland 😊
Be blessed🙏🏼🙏🏼 I wake up listening to you. I listen to while I work the whole 8 hrs and listen to you before bed. Thank you for helping me to understand myself more so I know how to better handle situations in my life and I NOW KNOW that I do not like Alpha males and I’d take a beta male any day! Now on to the next video......
This is the BESSSSSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT video I have heard from Tony Gaskins. You are soooo right. Society tell men to "Have A Blast" when they are mentally stressed. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
This one of the best talks; I have ever heard…. Understanding the risk assessment of your partners outlets. Can you deal with the persons outlet…. I live it thank you.
Thank you Tony. It's good to hear a man of God's perceptive on men. I don't have many men in ny family. I didn't grow up with my dad, so I looked for love on all the wrong places.
Tony, thank you so much for this informative and very much needed video! Plus, it's long and it feels like a gift to me! May OUR HEAVENLY FATHER CONTINUE TO BLESS ABUNDANTLY AND PROTECT You and Your Family members IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!! AMEN!!!!
Coach Tony..you are an anointed relationship teacher! Keep giving us these wholesome God-spirited words of wisdom. Plus a bonus from your life experiences and your marriage. Thank you. God bless you. I be listening from start to finish.
Man bruh you said everything I was telling my female cousin yesterday about us man think and operate ;in a godly way and in a ungodly way. I agree with everything you said. I support you page mane . Keep speaking the godly way. You definately on your purpose and inspire and motivate me so I appreciate that.
👋🏾 nice smile
Good to see a guy in here in agreement being honest. Blessings.
Eventually we have to grow up be the men god intended us to be. Adam took a wrong direction in the beginning , us modern day men have to change that or we will not fulfill our true purpose. Tony know exactly what he talking about.
I don't believe woman have that much influence over a man
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A 2 hour video?! Tony, you are truly dedicated to teaching us knowledge. 2 hours of your day to help us, shoot.. im listening to every second!
Facts sis!!! Same 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Getting this work
@@officialwatchamber Yes, sis. All the work🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Me too!!!!! 😊🙌
me too! on replay👌👌❤👏
I even replayed some portions of it.
Healing childhood trauma is one of the most important thing a person can do. I’m glad I was able to recognize the importance of it in my early twenties.
Im in my late 20s I have never been in a relationship because I still have trauma of being bullied as a kid.
@ Ange Winou I’m 26 and I never been in a real relationship either, but I’m thankful that I hadn’t. I’ve been in therapy, focusing on my 3b’s, and building a relationship with GOD. I never experienced so much peace and healing until I starting working on myself. I encourage you to do the same 🤗. Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes have really helped me a lot understanding men. I definitely would have been taken advantage of by men had I not came into the knowledge that I received from them two.
@@aliciawoods8925 You are a wise young woman! From a 50 year old. 😉. I, too, listen to Bishop Blakes and Tony; their messages are truly parallel and reinforce the other.
@@angewinou780 Blessings, to you, my dear. At 50 years old, I am processing suppressed childhood trauma that was just brought back to my consciousness, months ago. I prayed, to the Holy Spirit, for, and have received an extraordinary Christian spiritual counselor to guide me on my profound spiritual journey, otherwise known as life. It’s truly remarkable how much I understand myself, even more, and have been healed of decades of pain and misery.
May you be blessed to find, locate, and meet with the RIGHT practitioner (specializing in childhood trauma) to guide you in a healthy direction. The blessing is you are young with the awareness that you are, NOW, open to healing. Hope I’m not being, too, presumptuous…
What a blessing- your recognition!
“I have never once seen a man write me and said, this woman has run in and out my life.” TG
A WORDDDDDDDD
Thank u for your time and teaching.God Bless u.
You hit the nail on the nose. Character speaks for itself and cannot be faked that’s why I’ll continue to vouch for you, your vids and your word despite what scandals go on with people in your field.
Right
Be blessed!!
👏👏👏👏👏👏
I thank God for you. No man In my life ever told me to be abstinent or to look for certain things in a man. I love being abstinent. I have never respected myself more than I do today at 43 years old. I've never been as serious about who I allow access to me as I do today. All thanks to you and your teaching. God bless you.
My favorite part of Tony's videos is when he says a word, confesses to not knowing what it means but uses it anyways, and its correct 9/10 times. 😂 Gone with your vernacular, brother Tony. 💯🙏🏾
Right 😂
I had to tell this to my 69 year old mother. She is nearly 70. Some man approached her on Facebook. I had to school her on catfishing. Lord behold it's a man in another country begging for money. Thank God she has a Millennial daughter to keep her woke. The dating and games do not stop at 70 ladies lol
Lol smh
Awww bless her heart ♥️😩
Lol same with my mom and she’s 69 😂
I have that problem with my sister and shes still losing money. What can I do about this? My sis is 59 yes old and her husband passed away about 2 yes ago.
Yes l am 68 and women our age are targets for these scammers. We are lonely and desperate because we want someone as we get older. I think online dating is for the younger folks. I am going to stay away from it. I have been scammed 4 times. I figured it out early on and never gave them money. I would never give a man money anyway no matter what. I think it is very pathetic for a man to ask a woman for money.
Women fall in love with the fantasy and hope of what COULD be. Men fall in love with what IS. 👀
No truer words…
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I’ve been there. When we divorced I said “I’m most sad at the loss of what we could’ve been. But I can see that what we are has not been great.”
This is why I tell my daughters we hold the power as women and inspire men.
That’s why it’s critical we take care of ourselves/love ourselves & if a man doesn’t meet your standards-he’s not the guy.
I love the way Tony is honest about his strengths and areas he knows he can do better with. I am watching to the end! 🙏🏼
Beautiful comment sis! I agree!
Me too! This is definitely worth the watch,
Thank you for bringing out the reality of living in the South. I came along right after integration as well. It was awful and we did suffer.
Thank you for this wonderful video, Tony!!!!
If it’s women getting cheating on by men in their city or even married, can you imagine how much cheating in a long distance relationship? I don’t trust long distance relationships.
You have to be with the right person and come to a mutual agreement. Was in a 5 year relationship and 3 years were super long distance and two years were just 2 hours away from each other. It worked cause he was military and I was in grad school full-time.
Breann I agree! I definitely don't do long distance relationships. I don't do them because I don't believe in them. A relationship requires interaction and not just through social media or technology..we should be able to see each other at least 2 times a week. I need to know where you work and live sooner or later. You can tell me anything in a long distance relationship. I don't trust them
Exactly. The concept itself is plain retarded - my five cents.
Yeah I don't trust them either because to me that's just another form of an emotional unavailable man. Just like men that travel and from the same city you live. There will be trust issues simply because you don't know and see each other. It's no use.
Exactly
Man! Thank you, the more I listen, the more I realize how ignorant I've been.
This is NOT disappointing it surprising to me. It is enlightening. This teaches us how to decipher what kind of man we are dealing with.
EVERYTIME I'm GOING through something Tony seem like he's GOING through my phone...it's so weird...like he's listening to my phone calls, I literally can read one of Tony's "headings" and Im like he's reading my mail... TODAY I got the courage to click on his Channel❤️he so full of knowledge, humility and honesty and hard Truth💕
That’s how you know it’s from God.
It is totally random, but I’m playing your videos because it helps to sooth my anxiety attacks. It’s crazy, never felt like this before 😅
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This is "THE TALK ON THE FRONT PORCH" thats needed. Meanwhile..I am just waving my chuuuch fan.
AMEN!!!!
Lol 😂😂😂.... LEO'S rock 🎸 8/18 here
Absolutely
Oh yeah!
🔥🔥🔥 I’ve binged watch your videos starting from 2 years ago! There are still good black men on earth and you’ve proved it throughout every video.
Same
THANK You for teaching me about MEN and the pros and cons of their mind. God bless you I needed THIS
My ex-husband enjoyed working out of state and having a long distance marriage. After 9 years of this I finally divorced him. He tried to make me feel guilty about wanting a husband to come home at night.
Truth Tony women do fantasize about the whole idea of a relationship, and be going through hell. But the fantasy keep them locked in almost like having (faith)
I Man will leave a woman for eating the last of the cereal out the box anyyyyything he out.
If we as women can get out the fantasy just maybe that will help to make wiser decisions
Faith.. yep just like it
@@pamsimmons6428 Honestly, we women are encouraged to stay in the fantasy or 90% of men won't get any women. The media even feeds into our fantasy with all the romantic novels, TV series and fake couple accounts on tiktok. I'm a "logical" woman because I grew up with many male siblings, and I always get told not to be skeptical about men and that I think too much.
It's called Fantasy. Faith is different.
Trying to explain the ways of a man...sometimes its just spiritual and these men are used by the adversary to destroy the family structure, leaving women broken and bitter. A man's mind has to be renewed by Christ.
Yep I def believe this!
Nailed it
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That part!!!
Agreed. 🙏🏻
The entire first 27 minutes, pure encouragement for men. Life 101.
Amen 🙌🏼
@@officialwatchamber Amen. Amen. 🙌
Keep doing the work! 🙌🏿🌻
@@ashleybeverly7328 I am committed to the process. The middle of 2021 threw me some of the mental tests, so I know that something is in play in the soul (mind, will, and emotions) arena. Tony is doing a work of healing by sharing the whole cinema of: long distance relationships, a man and his ways, and how both men and women process life (startups, success, where we spend, what chores/tasks we don't feel like doing today).
@@JermaineThomas4050 I admire the fair you are so open in acknowledging you went through some mental tests, and those tests lead you to do some self-evaluation. The fact that a man so confident in his manhood, that he, like you said- puts every scenario, pro, con,, truth on diaplay- is truly a gift from God. I commend it- and as a sister in Christ to another brother in Christ: Do not be afraid to be the 1%. You growing and being the best you can be will raise you to the top as a person and especially as a man. Stay encouraged 🌻
Be blessed! Whatever you upload Tony, I’m watching. Surprisingly enough, a man told me about your videos. Ive been watching you for a year and am now, going back through your old videos, catching up on that game.
A man... Wow... That was kind of him
@@lauramapani3627 it was actually someone I was talking to but it didn’t work out. The Holy Spirit spoke to me. I said “Got ta go!”
2 hours.. What A blessing, Thank you Tony for your time and knowledge.
These two hours were worth it..... Be Blessed!!!!!
Men can do it all the time and want you to accept their flaws. But let the women cheat he’s gone not looking back . 🙌🤦♀️🤦♀️🤬✌️
tons of men dont leave when a girl cheats
My eyes has open more in reality on channels like these that are not afraid to “go there” talk about tough subjects that put something on a person mind to think. Then I would ever take away in a church setting, only a FEW churches would have deep minded truth about life. NOW! I’m learning more about me and have peace within listening to strong men and women that exposes the true reality on subject like this….GREAT JOB TONY….you are truly GOD sent…😊
Be blessed. Watchinh this after work before i wind down to sleep. I knew whsn i saw 2 hours it waz going to be some gems in here that i wanted to know asap.
Half way through this video and Tony is dropping those gems again. So enlightening.
If you never do a video again on understanding a man, could run off this for years!! Wow!!! God bless you!
Be blessed!! For a second now I thought I wasn’t going to make it to the end of this video 😂, but support got to be real!! Developing kings and queens take WORK!! Thanks TG!!
Stay strong - everyone : men and women ! We all have temptations.
I love the message about finding an outlet that has value. We all need them.
I think more adults- including me need to find ways to have “ clean” fun.
My mom has three boys and said she literally screamed and cried when she found out I was a girl. She knew what I would have to go through as a woman.
Long distance relationships are not real, period.
There have been some long distance relationships that have been substantial.
Hey NephewTony, you broke that all the way down. That was absolutely on point. God bless you and your beautiful family. Be blessed. SDG
I love how he details it. Also very very to the point and honest! Love the way he thinks and explains dysfunctionality to the fullest! God bless Mr. Gaskins!🤗
Tony, you have made it SO PLAIN for men and women. There is no reason we can’t understand the struggle. You have TRULY been gifted for the ministry you were assigned to by God. I pray your strength in the Lord, and that He multiplies you beyond what you can ever ask or think, in JESUS Name.
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I was in a relationship with a guy that always had something to say about my outlets. It really hurt my feelings and make me feel like I couldn’t be me. I can tell he hated me. I still have a hard time getting back to the real me and doing what makes me happy because of the things he said to me. I felt picked and pulled apart
You are gorgeous Sis! He knew he didn't deserve you and wanted you to feel down on yourself so you'd be more likely to stay with his sorry ass!
girl he was insecure af. saw something beautiful in you he was jealous of.
@@phyllisdickerson9071 thank you. 😊 so are you! I was so confident before I met him. He always had something negative to say about my appearance. I started to make sure I did everything right just so he wouldn’t have anything to say. It was stressing me out!
@@genj1184 💯 slowly getting back to myself. I wish I could see some beauty in me.
Don't let that man-child have that kinda control over your mind space! More often than not, the way a person treats us has everything to do with them, and very little to do with us. He was projecting. You are a beautiful woman and he is gone...don't let him stick around in your head. We only get one life, make yourself smile!
TONY is speaking nothing but facts, I've seen and met men that seemingly got away with tomfoolery with other weak minded women try to run the same game on me, they were shocked and intrigued to meet a women who did'nt suffer fools gladly and required them to come all the way correct or get to stepping.
Most of them sat up and the ones who could'nt put their egos in check stepped away. so its facts that in every area of our lives, work, family, relationships, friendships, people will give you the amount of respect you demand. when the discern you dont play about yourself, they will be careful to bring b.s to you.
Tony is such a blessing ✨ I can’t even explain the amount of peace brought to me just from his messages! Love the 2hr talk! Blessings.
I noticed that too during the IG Q & A… the increase in the amount of LD relationship questions!! Thanks Tony for this video 🙌🏼🙌🏼
There is so much more than meets the eye in the development of the Human Body and Mind, whether Male or Female.
HEALING is a process that must take place and it starts with KNOWLEDGE and with SPECIFIC KNOWLEDGE and TRUTH to begin Understanding yourself, so that you can replace a bad habit with a good habit.
thank you for this one, be blessed. I don't have words for this, just a level of gratitude I haven't felt in a long time
“And so the biggest fallacy, which I don’t know what that means but it sounds good right there”😂😂😂 you definitely used it rght
Listened to the entire 2 hours. Your videos have changed my life for the better. Now, don’t block me Tony, but I felt concerned to speak on this. I don’t think it’s safe to tell “RUclips” world your schedule& when your family will be alone, there’s weirdos out here. You and your family stay blessed! Thank you for all you do!
Life is about choices, we choose everyday who we want to be. Most times what seems right to us, has a bad outcome in the long run.
BE BLESSED! 🙌🏾
I most certainly resonate with this message. I’ve never heard the message relayed in this way but it definitely hits home for me. I’ve always felt like I was blocked by my own family and I ended up turning to nefarious activities. Because I felt like I couldn’t have the right to be my own person and to just be a human being. But I don’t want to place the blame on no one but I could say in a way that I rebelled. I ended up having to pay for my mistakes later on. I still feel like I am recovering. I am a single
Mom and I get mom guilt just for wanting to have one day of relaxation. I came from a controlling family that didn’t know how to show the proper love. And my whole life I been gaslighted for things that happened to me that was out of my control and was not my fault. This video right here has me thinking on a deeper level. I never felt like I deserve peace or tranquility. Or should I say an ‘outlet’! ? I always felt like i was someone’s slave. Either my parents or ex boyfriends. Who both try to change, control me, and manipulate me. Dang this is so deep!!! Thank you Brother Tony! Sending love to you and your family 💕
Listening to every video of yours till the very end for the past years, because this information is priceless. Also, just ordered and received „A Woman‘s Influence“, and I looove this read so much. Thank you for every word and second you’re investing, will continue to support you and your work!🙏🏻
Uncle Tony I appreciate how honest you are . Thanks for taking the time to make amazing Holy Spirit led content to help get us on a healthy path to not just love but our overall lives
A 2 hour video OMG God Bless you! ❤️ I always love listening to your video, sipping on my tea 🍵 and doing work on my laptop 💻.
Be blessed!! Thanks Tony for 2 hours!! We appreciate the knowledge!! 🗣🙌🏾
Be Blessed. Thank you for the insight. There are definitely a lot of gems in this message.
These two hours were amazing! More like this. Be blessed.
Each word you didn’t know what it meant but it sounded good was correct 😅 also I learned in your video men respect women who are a challenge and I noticed men are obsessed with video games because it is a challenge. So maybe a lot of my relationship problems was because i was I wasn’t being a challenge because I didn’t want to seem difficult. Thank you for putting things into perspective I need to be a challenge to be respected.
TONY, you did that! I thank you so much for helping me to be a wiser woman, when it comes to Men and how they think. I appreciate your wisdom and honesty! Also, I enjoyed you and your wife, I like how she thinks as well 😇
I’m going to put you both on my Prayer list just to keep you all lifted before the LORD🙏🏽
I’m a Minister and interceding is what I do!
BLESSINGS🙌🏽🩸🙌🏽
This is my 2nd favorite video. The first is the rules of dating. This video is Soo nurse friendly and I can Soo relate to the family member and only doing what is required. Your illustration of what a man will do (that is required)...on point. A woman's influence
I listen to Tony in the car, as I'm working out, while eating. It's a traveling conversation. 😅
For real sis 🤣
For me it’s while I’m getting ready for work in the morning and as I go to sleep at night. Dude is just flat out entertaining.
Thank you so much for giving us the blueprint Coach! This was so good! I gotta go back to take notes! Be blessed!
Thank you for those consistent Q&A . Those questions and answers are so eye opening . Thank you Tony ! 🇯🇲
Let me grab my notebook and get comfortable.
THAT PART Though 🙌🏼 📝
This is good teaching, all men and women should hear this especially young men and women, powerful
Loving these back to back videos. Thanks Tony! ❤️
I love all of your messages TG but this one really hit the spot!! Be blessed Tony, continue to let God use you!! 🙏🙏
Don’t call it anything. This was a great conversation and I’ve learned so much hearing it from a man’s perspective. It’s taught me to only deal with quality man and be patient with them.
Thank you soooooo much, Mr. Gaskins! This message really spoke to me and my current situation. You have a special call on your life and are truly God sent!
Took me 2 days to watch it! Lol! Thank you for using your gifts to enlighten us and help us make sense of the things we encounter. God bless you and your family!
Blessings to you Bro Tony you truly are a dedicated servant of God this is so awesome today with a 2 Hour video . I pray that God continue to strengthen you.🙏🏾❤️🤗
Be blessed ! Another video with the gems ! Appreciate you as always sir!
Buy whatever it is you want, that's for all the stress we put on you. To me it shows God's blessing in your life. It's a reward for your honesty and way you choose to live and serve the Almighty. Whoever sees it as bragging needs to have a brain rewiring done. Be blessed .
I appreciate my daily dose of "Men 101". I so appreciate you spending your time and giving this knowledge to women, Tony💐
Be Blessed.🤗 Looking forward to my "us" pushing one another to be better.
WOW! I’ve watched you for three years now. Your insight is always appreciated. This video is Fire. Be blessed. You certainly bless us all the time.
Be blessed! You are a great man! Wow Im really impressed with all your wisdom and success God is good
Be blessed… thanks again for another great talk, Tony! 😊
Be blessed. I stayed for the whole video. I endured this sound teaching & insight. I now understand the ways of a man and me. My outlet is school & church. I love to challenge myself and think and improve. This now make all the sense. This is why we need the precious Holy Spirit so we can balance our lives and not lean over into sin. God is so good. Thank you Tony! You are a Billionaire! It's on you!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Be blessed brother !✊🏿✊🏿no need to apologize that’s the spirit using you and you always on point !💯💯💯💯 Oh and enjoy the boxing match in my City Cleveland 😊
Be blessed🙏🏼🙏🏼
I wake up listening to you. I listen to while I work the whole 8 hrs and listen to you before bed. Thank you for helping me to understand myself more so I know how to better handle situations in my life and I NOW KNOW that I do not like Alpha males and I’d take a beta male any day!
Now on to the next video......
Be blessed!! God’s hand at work! Enlightening!
This is the BESSSSSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT video I have heard from Tony Gaskins. You are soooo right. Society tell men to "Have A Blast" when they are mentally stressed.
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This one of the best talks; I have ever heard…. Understanding the risk assessment of your partners outlets. Can you deal with the persons outlet…. I live it thank you.
Be Blessed. Absolutely great content as Usual. It was worth the time, feel like I'm in a online class on relationships. Truly a gem. Thank you!
Thank you Tony. It's good to hear a man of God's perceptive on men. I don't have many men in ny family. I didn't grow up with my dad, so I looked for love on all the wrong places.
Tony, thank you so much for this informative and very much needed video! Plus, it's long and it feels like a gift to me!
May OUR HEAVENLY FATHER CONTINUE TO BLESS ABUNDANTLY AND PROTECT You and Your Family members IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!!
AMEN!!!!
Be blessed!!☺️🙏🏾 Thank you for allowing God to use you to use your gifts to help us!
thank you for sharing your gift and knowledge with us. the countless hours 🖤
Be blessed, took me 2 days and listening in different stages but I got here, thanks for taking your time and sharing 🙏
Be blessed! Thanks Tony, you are one in a million.
“Ion know what that mean but we gon use that right there” 😆
Always great message Tony, ty!
Be Blessed! Thank you for this Tony so many gems and I picked every last one of them up 💎💎💎💎💯I Appreciate you bro!
"Because what we doin' is the work of the Lord against Men who think they're higher than God." Tony Gaskins has literally shut down the Internet💯
Tony you are a true man of integrity and anointed of God! I appreciate you. 🙏💯
BE BLESSED 💜💜💜 when you said I'm 5'10" with a 2 pack 🤣🤣🤣 Mr Gaskins you be cracking me up through these videos of wisdom with your humor 💯👍🏽
Love your ministry Bro Gaskins, continued Blessings be upon your family
Wowwww! This is a lot. 2 hours, go Mr. Gaskins we appreciate you!
Be blessed!!! Needed everything in this no matter how many areas it covered God Bless you !!!
Coach Tony..you are an anointed relationship teacher! Keep giving us these wholesome God-spirited words of wisdom. Plus a bonus from your life experiences and your marriage. Thank you. God bless you. I be listening from start to finish.
Be blessed! God continue to speak into Tony’s life and the life of his family. 🙏🏾
Yes Sir he has to be as you said that will not stop him from cheating unless he’s in love and dedicated to that relationship or marriage
Amazing video. Be blessed 🙌 and thank you for the wisdom.
Be Blessed!! So thankful for your dedication and gems you drop to make us all keep challenging ourselves to be better in life and relationships!!