The music video does it so well too. It doesn't show any of the abuse, we just see the woman alone in her own home lifting her shirt and examining a bruise that she has and at some point things just start telepathically flying around the room with her at the center, like she's just discovered all the power that she truly has and she's DONE. 💯😎
This song isn't just about physical abuse it's also about being mentally abused as well. Just because he/she doesn't hit you doesn't mean they aren't abusing you.
my dad abused my mom and my stepmom my entire life. they both finally escaped him. my stepmom left only recently. i dedicate this song to my dad. abuse doesn't make any good. thank you to my mother and my step mother for being so strong for me .
friendly reminder that an abusive relationship doesn’t have to be physically. it can be emotional/mental and you can still relate to these lyrics in a figurative way
Agreed. I think this song is about dealing with people with antisocial personality disorders and that everyone has the right to put their foot down and get away from their abusers. A right to be happy.
My dad did the same to my mom, siblings, and me, even if he doesn't now i still understand the pain that your family has felt and I'm only 12 so it was like 6 years ago he stopped. These lyrics apply to my life too.
TheRogueDustDevil my dad abused my mom when I was little also he when I was in 8th grade he started abusing me till 10th grade I moved away with my mom so we could get away from him and I listen to this song and it gets to me
What i love about this song is that its clearly narrated from a 3rd party. But they don't turn it into a "shes mine now," kind of thing. Just a beautifully pure "fuck you," to the abuser, from whomever.
@@Olopnogitron it's very similar to that... I picture it how I do though from personal experience... My guy friends sent me the song the night they found out about my abuser abusing me so
Sending lots of love and hugs to you both I hope you guys remain safe and healthy and find the happiness and peace you both deserve. From one survivor to another
I feel this on another level lmao. I played the shit out of mx vs ATV on my wii. Then I played the shit out of saints row 2 on my 360. Ah I miss those simpler times...
Sexually abused at 17 by my father. Never said that publicly. Recently dealing with my parents divorce at 31, told my mother what happened, I have a 5&6 year old now. The older child is a daughter. This song is my anthem right now. I have so much trauma bond issues with him and my mom recently finding out what happened is making both of us crazy. It’s all so much. The music from my teenage years is healing me so much right now and I’m just so thankful I was an emo kid. I’m genuinely so grateful for songs like this.
I will never let a man get away with hitting me. I promise myself this. Edit: Thank you for all the women sharing their stories y’all are strong and amazing. For all the men who are saying that I couldn’t take a man in a fight because a woman is weaker. Shut up. It’s not needed.
Aliya Martin if it happened you would, if a man hits you at full strength he could kill you with a swing, at least a women, if he said be quite or ill kill you, I'm pretty sure you would let him. I hate men who do this, it brings shame upon him and affects others too.
It depends on what man, a women can do the same back if she were strong enough, if the rock hit someone full force, dey dead. If Sheldon from his moms basement did, it wouldn't leave a bruise.
Like Me Yeah probably not, he never comes outta his room anyway as he will die in sunlight. Most abusers sadly are MUCH stronger than the person they abuse, thats why it is normally buff ass guy on skinny ass girl.
Merissa Erickson I've been listening to it since last year when it came up on my Google play music (I was listening to the Anthem(by Good Charlotte) radio when it came on. Been loving RJA since)
This song aged amazingly in two decades. Not only does it tear into the abuser but emphasizes a happier outcome for the abused and doesn’t put the blame and responsibility on them. As someone who’s dealt with abuse there’s a special kind of catharsis this provides - there’s always pressure from outside parties on you to think how so to solve your problem or adapt better to the abuse, but oftentimes to really recover we just need to know someone’s going to be on our side as a friend of sorts
I'm sorry to hear that. I think I know what you mean and there are people out there who can *ahem handle your problem. You might say they're a hit with the ladies, man.
Yes, I am female but i will never leave my male because he loves me. He has never punched me only pushed and picked me up. But i have had enough. I will stay with him but he is still being emotionally abusive. Your lady was atleast emotionally abusive to you and maybe even physically too. EVEN IF YOU NEVER LEFT HER, the truth is you were being just as abused as me, a female, even more so perhapse.
To all the women out there crying for help, you are strong and you make a difference in the world and I promise you that, don’t end your life, soon, life will be better when you gain more and more strength, I believe in you. Us good guys believe in you.
this song was like me and a friend, she was getting beaten by her boyfriend, an well he tried kickin my ass because I always helped her up an caused her to smile laugh an see whats positive in life.....I did get my ass beat by her boyfriend, an well she left him, I was there to protect her once more when he tried to get to her, I told her listen to this song an she did, she broke out in to tears an hugged me....no woman or men shouldn't go through beatings, just because you're stronger doesn't mean you can push her/him down
I remember this song from my childhood, playing Saints Row 2 in my room at night and this song sometimes comes on when I’m heading to a new mission, I miss those times so much
This song came out in 2006 when I was 10 and here we are in 2022 and I still listen to it. Crazy enough, I ended up in an abusive relationship in my late teens and very early 20s. This song got me through it. I’ll always love it.
this song came out in 2006, i heard it in 2014. I understood i was the villain in 2020. Working on changing now. I'm still in my early 20's (turned 22 a few months ago). breaking addiction is hard, but im try and im sure after i can conquer alcohol, nothing can stop me and i can be a better person ^^
This is one of my favorites. although I may not have been in an abusive relationship with anyone, nor have I had anyone in my life that has had a situation such as this happen to him/her, but still, the topic of the song is very good. it sends a good message to women everywhere, that you need not put up with abuse.
This is hard to imagine. I can't imagine a life where I am not emotionally abused. My father did since he almost died and got on mind altering pain meds. Then my husband whomb I love and trust occationally found out that he is Bipolar and has been mistreating me on accident because he is mentally I'll and didnt know he was hurting me emotionally with his terrible abusive words. He is a safe person but if he is mad at you he will make sure u feel like shit cuz he feels like shit often.
I did love this song even before I met my husband but my dad used to abuse by mom emotionally on acident because he was hurting inside. Thus i have never had a male relationship that didn't abuse me besides my sweet brother in laws. Those brother in laws will do everything within thier power to never make a woman sad.
This song, I love it. It summarizes my feelings about men abusing women in relationships, or even the same genders. Every single time I hear about a man abusing his wife/girlfriend, all I can ask is; "Do you feel like a man? Does making a woman feel powerless make you feel, strong?" It is such a great song. Can't get enough of this.
You know women can abuse people too, right? I dont care what gender you are. If you abuse someone, I have no empathy for you when you finally get a taste of your own medicine.
@@leafly7917 that's like assuming a girl is gonna cheat cause girls cheat more then guys. Of course theirs gonna be a gender that does something more then the other, its mathematically impossible for that not too. The thing is, men who face Domestic Abuse are usually ignored and told to Man Up or Grow A Pair. Its fucking annoying.
@@minimalism7919 I never said it didn't happen or that they're wimps or anything, but you also need to realize I said what I originally said because the song is clearly aimed towards women being abused over men being abused.
To all of those that left these types of relationships you no longer have to refer to yourself as the victim you are now a strong survivor and I'm proud of u I was there myself
So many men should hear this song, not only the ones abusing women. My father once said that if the girl is staying, that means she loves the beating. I can't believe some people can think this way, so selfish, shallow-minded and ignorant.
Was driving my friend’s mother’s car and just popped one of her random CDs in the player. This song came on and I was instantly hooked. I don’t relate to it remotely. Nobody in my family are abusers. The lyrics and overall beat are so good that I can’t stop listening though.
This is still one of my favorite songs and also one of the very first I ever listened to when I discovered I liked this style of music. This song will forever hold a special place in my heart
Out of all their songs, this is my only favourite because it's what got me into their music. I've always heard of Redjumpsuit but never got the time to listen to any of their songs until the other day when I was playing Saints Row 2 but I already knew the band existed before the game came out and the game was old. But still, this track is amazing, the powerful sounds of the instruments, the fast beat of the chorus, it makes you addicted so I ended up replaying that song, over and over and dancing to it.
This song will always be important to me. It was played at someone i saw as a brother funeral. Rest easy Corey x its been almost 10yrs now but you are still so loved and missed everyday. Love ya bro
Lol, insanely hard, but not insane in itself. I have been abused for all my life but I have hope and have also seen abusers I know change into kind gentle human beings. They abuse when they are in pain or on drugs. Thats why it is not 24/7 in most cases. But mine feels like all day because if I am around those who are not improved yet, I am reminded that they choose not to love me when they are abusing. And then I feel trapped and alone. I have tons of support family in reality but usually I feel alone. I am learing to lean on the presemce of God because he is the only one always there for me.
@EXODST because this song is about abusive relationships and speaking about abuse you endured gives power to the people who survived it. Hope that cleared that up for you.
@EXODST wow lol I was just randomly checking my RUclips notifications and seen this I didn’t even know anybody had even liked this comment until now but no I posted the comment because this song makes me feel free like I’ve overcome the abuse which I have I’m still healing but that’s why I posted the comment to remind people you’re not alone not for likes and for you to come for me over this over a RUclips comment speaks volumes on your character smh.
Tater Tot it probably one of the MX vs ATV games because that where I also found the song again. It should probably be Unleashed, supercross, or untamed.
My emo stage is coming back hard core lmao. I cringe, but I still love this song Update; I’m currently locked into a grunge/alternative lifestyle been that way for years now. I can’t escape it the oldies are definitely a time capsule. However I much more enjoy for example Slipknot, Fleetwood Mac and $uicideboy$ at this current time ✌🏼♥️
I've grown up in a home with an abusive father, I know what a lot of you are going through, now that I'm older and away from it, I told myself never will a man touch me in an abusive way, or abuse my mind ever again, if he does heaven help him I will put him through a wall. this song is inspiring, and so much truth comes from the words. For those of you who are still struggling today, in abusive situations, please I urge you, either message me here or talk with someone you trust about it. don't sit there in the abuse, you deserve better then that, and mental abuse is just as bad as taking a physical beating... its all abuse no matter how you look at it. don't think for a second that they love you if they are abusing you, that is not love and your not doing nothing wrong seeking help.
Used to listen to this song as a kid. Each time I hear this song I think of the Wisconsin Dells as that's where I heard it most. Was still in middle school. Now I'm in college. How times flies.
Love this song, heard it from coming home from work one day while I was in an abusive relationship, this song makes me think of all I been through and how I got away
Reminds me of my ex boyfriend who abused me 8-9 years ago. He didn't care if he hurt me by every kick, slap, punch, everything. I kept telling myself "it'll be over soon... It doesn't hurt." I was weak back then afraid to hit him back and make it more physical. I kept praying for someone to save me. I pretty much got kidnapped because he wouldn't let me go home. I tried to go home but he blocked the door and I couldn't escape because he was always watching me. Every single move. He lived in an apartment that was two stories high so I couldn't jump. When he was away and I was in his apartment on my own, I had a chance to escape, but he always had someone in his apartment watch me and his friends too. I had my chance to escape many times I took but he'd find me.. Back to his apartment with more kicking and punching I had to deal with. He locked me in his bathroom which the lock was on the outside, four hours or for a few nights -- that was my punishment. I have finally been found and saved thanks to my family who worked together finding his apartment, his name, everything about him. Police showed up knocked the door down and grabbed me away from him. I don't remember the officer's name who quickly grabbed me away, he was really nice. He asked me nonstop questions. My mom and sister was there. He could of went to jail and I could of pressed a restraining order, but I let it go. I was just happy to be free and I had a weird feeling he'd change because he had a very close call and an encounter being arrested. Now I'm with someone I've been with for 5 years. We had a child together. In just two more years, we'll be officially married (common law married right now). He doesn't abuse me. Took me a long time to trust him but I got though that. Anthony is the love of my life. He's my everything. I can't wait to be Mrs. Becerra and live the rest of my life with him. Looking back now I laugh at my ex boyfriend because he lost someone who treated him right and lost someone he could of been with for a long time. Goodbye asshole, hello to my future husband! I'm a lot happier now. I'm 27 years old now and I've grown up so much. This all happened when my daughter was a year old. My son I had with my now boyfriend would of been 4 months old. He passed away shortly after he was born. My boyfriend is 29 years old. We met on Facebook. xD It all started by just a message I sent him. We met and I knew just then, I felt that spark, he is the one I'm going to marry. I was 17-18 when I was abused. He would of been 19 years old or 21 years old then.
Thank you for your kind words. You're really sweet. Unfortunately the recent boyfriend / now ex aren't together anymore. I'm hoping to someday help people who has been in a situation like I have, tell my story, and help the one's who has been in an abusive relationship.
I can kinda relate tbh ... not like as extreme as ur story but I was in a way kidnapped, I was abused though, cheated on or as my ex puts it "almost", & just treated badly ... it's actually pretty hard 2 explain but I was saved by my current bf & our friends / my now bodyguards actually & we have now been happily 2gether going on 11 months. Celebrating our 1st Christmas 2gether in a few days! 🙂
so fun little story. Im closing in on 30, and i just heard this song today for the first time in what i think is over 10 years and this flood of nostalgia rolled over me. lyrics aside the drums to this song have always stood out to me to the point i really wanted to learn to play it, i still do to this day, maybe one day when i can get a drum set or something
I'll be the first to admit that I was abusive to my ex girlfriend. It was never physically, but mentally I would say it definitely was. Both of us were like this to eachother. It wasn't terrible, but it was definitely draining to the both of us. I still feel terrible about it to this day, and I think that I will always carry with me an underlying sense of guilt for what I said to her. But the difference is that I've gone through the process of getting my life together and I can say with confidence that I will never act that way again. I've spoken to my ex since we split up and we have agreed that we both did some bad things and remain acquaintances to this day. Moral of the story? Don't try to be with someone if you're not mentally fit for a relationship. It's not worth the tears. I don't want anyone to make the mistakes that I did. Don't stay with someone if you're not ready to commit yourself to them. I'm in now in a happy relationship with my current boyfriend, and since then I have finally come up with the courage to come out as gay. I am not proud of what I did, but it did happen and I've grown from it. Don't make my mistake; Learn from it.
My story is similar. No physical violence though.. I could never bring myself to lay hands on anyone I care about.. I'd hurt myself instead, and I have. Thats another story for a later time.. I abused someone mentally and emotionally.. I myself have been a victim of abuse. Physical I should add, and from my brother. He died a few years ago and even though he abused me he was still my brother and he changed near the end of his life. He didn't deserve to die the way he did. I hope it was painless. I dont know I'm not one to judge, maybe he needed help. He had a hard life so I forgave him. Lord you are my witness, bless his soul. Met someone in high school one day, she was the most beautiful person I had ever known. I never truly felt nervous or self conscious and stuff till I met her. I was too proud to admit my faults as well as was very insecure. A natural hardhead I took care of all who defied me, earning the nickname "Robot" and was "Intimidating" yet standing at only 5ft 4in. "Fearless". I once took down a bully who was at least a head size taller one time and won, nearly got expelled. And another though it never got physical. In the end he apollogized and left me alone from then on. She and I bonded, got close. One day she was leaving and admitted to me that it was apperent that I'd never change. She never came back to class the next day. All I had left were memories. It hurt like a motherfucker for weeks. Still think about her from time to time, but reality is that shes now happy. At my expense. Sucks I couldnt be happy with her, but if shes happy now, who am I to argue? So I put my selfishness aside. Shes now married and has 3 kids. Her words stuck like a leach.. And I changed, a complete 360* turn. I have volunteered at my local church and have helped give clothes and food to the homeless. I am forgiving. I want to be the voice of the voiceless and oppressed. And if need be id give my life for someone in need. J if you read this, I'm sorry..
Holy shit! I love this song! brings back great fun memories. damn wish I could go back to those days. seem today's more hectic but I'm still here kicking and so are you best wishes!
It's the fast beat in the chorus and the heavy, powerful instruments. It makes you addicted to the song and you get hooked on it. I am the same and this is the first time I've ever listened to these guys despite I knew they were around for a long time.
When I was younger I didn't understand the lyrics to this song but as an adult I have suffered many situations similar it broke me I'm still trying to heal and struggling to live in normal life after it the song makes me feel feelings I haven't felt in a long time
i just got out from a 1 year and 8 months verbally abusive relationship (a year ago).. he would say hurtful words at me when i didn't listen what he wants or everytime i mess up in our gaming time. today i'm in a healthy one now 👏
I woke up to "do you feel better now, as she falls to the ground" and didn't know the song's name. Note I had heard this in YEARS... coincidentally it was playing on the radio
Agreed. I have a 6 disk cd changer in my car and the album this song is on is in one of the 6 slots lol I listen to it almost every time I get in the car anymore
I was at an old friend house last night and he had this cd and I was amazing because I haven’t heard this song in years and we played it in the car and flash backs of high school hit me and this was my favorite song I played it at least 7-8 times a day and everybody in my house hated when I played it because it was always on repeat 😂 I miss the old days
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“Face down in the dirt she said, ‘this doesn’t hurt’, she said, ‘I finally had enough” bro literal chills! She’s finally standing up for herself
The music video does it so well too. It doesn't show any of the abuse, we just see the woman alone in her own home lifting her shirt and examining a bruise that she has and at some point things just start telepathically flying around the room with her at the center, like she's just discovered all the power that she truly has and she's DONE. 💯😎
Welcome to 15 years ago you’re a little late
Yes! 🙌 Finally finally her voice😌
This song isn't just about physical abuse it's also about being mentally abused as well. Just because he/she doesn't hit you doesn't mean they aren't abusing you.
Having been a victim of mental abuse, I LOVE this comment. No form of abuse is okay!! Whether it's physical, mental or gaslighting! It is NOT okay!!
Wise
Panic! at Twenty One Falling Pilots Well said.
I totally understand.
I was a victim of physical abuse. I taught gender studies and never thought I'd be here
"You cry alone and then he swears he loves you" I felt that
Honestly tho. I know it's about partner abuse but those lyrics emulate literally all of my birth and step-parents
Honey rose I love you
I hope you don’t feel that way now. I don’t know you but your worth so much more. ❤️ No one deserves to feel that way!
@@stephanieroll3306 that was sweet 🥺🥺
HoneyRose just keep your head up pretty lady.. you definitely deserve so much more. We ladies have to build each other up ya know!! ❤️😊
my dad abused my mom and my stepmom my entire life. they both finally escaped him. my stepmom left only recently. i dedicate this song to my dad. abuse doesn't make any good. thank you to my mother and my step mother for being so strong for me .
I hope you too left your abusive father.
you and both your mothers are so strong 🖤
I hope you bio mom and step mom are friends
weird flex but ok
@@BootyWonka Maybe Because it's not?
friendly reminder that an abusive relationship doesn’t have to be physically. it can be emotional/mental and you can still relate to these lyrics in a figurative way
Mental abuse is more insidious and easier to gaslight a person over. Though both are equally awful and unforgivable.
im abusive to my gf mentally & physically
@@roboticunclephil good for you
Listen to this again
@@roboticunclephil troll bait
This is a lesson for both men and women. Neither should be abusive, and both should be considerate.
Agreed
Finally an understandable person
I could not agree more. We are all equal after all.
Agreed. I think this song is about dealing with people with antisocial personality disorders and that everyone has the right to put their foot down and get away from their abusers. A right to be happy.
I 100% agree with you. Abuse is abuse, no matter the circumstances or factors.
My dad was abusive to my mom when I was little, he isn't with us now. I'm 28 now. After realizing what the lyrics are saying it really gets to me
hows your mom?
My dad did the same to my mom, siblings, and me, even if he doesn't now i still understand the pain that your family has felt and I'm only 12 so it was like 6 years ago he stopped. These lyrics apply to my life too.
Same story except my mom had cancer and she's gone now, I'm stuck with my dad.
it gets to me too because I was in a abusive marriage luckily I got out of it
TheRogueDustDevil my dad abused my mom when I was little also he when I was in 8th grade he started abusing me till 10th grade I moved away with my mom so we could get away from him and I listen to this song and it gets to me
What i love about this song is that its clearly narrated from a 3rd party. But they don't turn it into a "shes mine now," kind of thing. Just a beautifully pure "fuck you," to the abuser, from whomever.
I've always imagined it as a best friend or older brother type person singing it
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@@Olopnogitron it's very similar to that... I picture it how I do though from personal experience... My guy friends sent me the song the night they found out about my abuser abusing me so
The song was written about his mother's relationship with their father
He is incredibly good at making words sound not like words at all.
I have no idea what you mean? I laughed at your comment and said, what? I have trouble following a lot of lyrics to a lot of songs, but not this....
@@ryanmcelroy8916 years ago💀 he’s probably dead 💀
Wrong band, that's Fall Out Boys
I've been abused my whole life, so I really relate to this. I'm a survivor. Stay strong everyone ❤️
Sending lots of love and hugs to you both I hope you guys remain safe and healthy and find the happiness and peace you both deserve. From one survivor to another
Me too ❤
Me too i support
That's fucked up sorry to know that you had to go through any kind of abuse
From a fellow survivor, you are strong, I believe in you and you are enough ❤
*Everyone* : “no man or woman should endure abuse”
*Me* : “experiencing Mx vs atv nostalgia from my wii”
Young Slump omg same exactly thing here 😂😂
SAME THOOOOO, THAT'S WHERE I FOUND THIS SONG!!!😂
Omg same lmao 😂
Oh ight cool I thought it was just me😂😂 this was back in the 360 days for me😂😂
I feel this on another level lmao. I played the shit out of mx vs ATV on my wii. Then I played the shit out of saints row 2 on my 360. Ah I miss those simpler times...
It's 2020 and I'm still jamming to this
Belter song
It’s 1892..
I’m still jamming to it to
Deadass I heard this when I was a kid now I'm fucking old
Same
When I was a kid listening to this song I never thought it would actually apply to me later in life...
Wow... Youre so right, same here & finally think I'm ready to get out. I hope you know your worth! Don't let him take who you are 💖
💯
I'm so sorry
Me neither. Love and healing to you, my friend.
Good never be like your dad mate. Be better
1:57 still gives me chills while screaming in the car on my way to my full time job to slap some overtime in.
I used to blast this and sing at the top of my lungs whenever it came on. 10 years later, I'm just now realizing I was singing about myself.
couldn’t have said it better myself.. i hope things have improved for you since. stay strong, sister ♥️
💔💔💔 I’m so sorry 😢
🥺🥺🥺🥺
Ouch, right in the feels, bc same.
Dang
It's been 15 years and I still have yet to grow tired of this song, let along this album.
Sexually abused at 17 by my father. Never said that publicly. Recently dealing with my parents divorce at 31, told my mother what happened, I have a 5&6 year old now. The older child is a daughter. This song is my anthem right now. I have so much trauma bond issues with him and my mom recently finding out what happened is making both of us crazy. It’s all so much. The music from my teenage years is healing me so much right now and I’m just so thankful I was an emo kid. I’m genuinely so grateful for songs like this.
I will never let a man get away with hitting me. I promise myself this. Edit: Thank you for all the women sharing their stories y’all are strong and amazing. For all the men who are saying that I couldn’t take a man in a fight because a woman is weaker. Shut up. It’s not needed.
Aliya Martin if it happened you would, if a man hits you at full strength he could kill you with a swing, at least a women, if he said be quite or ill kill you, I'm pretty sure you would let him. I hate men who do this, it brings shame upon him and affects others too.
It depends on what man, a women can do the same back if she were strong enough, if the rock hit someone full force, dey dead. If Sheldon from his moms basement did, it wouldn't leave a bruise.
Dragon Enderborn true, but I don't think a guy like Sheldon could hit a girl out of abuse.
Dragon Enderborn I was thinking of an actual man, whose strong not weak, as girls tend to swing to the stronger guy rather then weaker.
Like Me Yeah probably not, he never comes outta his room anyway as he will die in sunlight. Most abusers sadly are MUCH stronger than the person they abuse, thats why it is normally buff ass guy on skinny ass girl.
This song is so old yet I still love it. I use to listen to this when I was like 8 in the car with my brother and sister.
Nicole Alexandra ive been listening to it since 07. Its been 10 years!
Merissa Erickson I've been listening to it since last year when it came up on my Google play music (I was listening to the Anthem(by Good Charlotte) radio when it came on. Been loving RJA since)
This song aged amazingly in two decades. Not only does it tear into the abuser but emphasizes a happier outcome for the abused and doesn’t put the blame and responsibility on them. As someone who’s dealt with abuse there’s a special kind of catharsis this provides - there’s always pressure from outside parties on you to think how so to solve your problem or adapt better to the abuse, but oftentimes to really recover we just need to know someone’s going to be on our side as a friend of sorts
I'd rather not go into much detail but I dedicate this song to my prick of a father.
Same tbh. Thank God he's dead 😂
Oh gosh same My "father" is abusive in all ways possible and yea I feel ya
Il drink to that 🍺
same here bro
I'm sorry to hear that. I think I know what you mean and there are people out there who can *ahem handle your problem. You might say they're a hit with the ladies, man.
Despite being a male, this song relates to me, because I was in an emotionally draining abusive relationship with a manipulative and violent female.
If anyone says to "man up" to you, like ever, know they're full of it :)
weird flex but ok
@@BootyWonka um...cuz its not a flex
Yes, I am female but i will never leave my male because he loves me. He has never punched me only pushed and picked me up. But i have had enough. I will stay with him but he is still being emotionally abusive. Your lady was atleast emotionally abusive to you and maybe even physically too. EVEN IF YOU NEVER LEFT HER, the truth is you were being just as abused as me, a female, even more so perhapse.
Abuse is abuse, end of story.
To all the women out there crying for help, you are strong and you make a difference in the world and I promise you that, don’t end your life, soon, life will be better when you gain more and more strength, I believe in you. Us good guys believe in you.
Who else found this song when they were a kid playing mx vs atv untamed on the PS3?
YESSSIRRR
Xbox 360 for me but yes
Psp for me
Xbox 360
I played it on my Xbox 360 and I found that song on there
this song was like me and a friend, she was getting beaten by her boyfriend, an well he tried kickin my ass because I always helped her up an caused her to smile laugh an see whats positive in life.....I did get my ass beat by her boyfriend, an well she left him, I was there to protect her once more when he tried to get to her, I told her listen to this song an she did, she broke out in to tears an hugged me....no woman or men shouldn't go through beatings, just because you're stronger doesn't mean you can push her/him down
amen
is your friend a boy too?
Aich Pamular
What kind of a question is that? Like, what do you mean by that?
naw my friend was a girl...why ask?
he said 'she' over and over through the whole thing... like wut? O.o
This person did a beyond perfect job with these lyrics cuz all the crazy lyric affects that’s outstanding!!! #BEST LYRICS IVE EVER SEEN TO ANY SONG!!!
I remember this song from my childhood, playing Saints Row 2 in my room at night and this song sometimes comes on when I’m heading to a new mission, I miss those times so much
Same, loved this song.
This song came out in 2006 when I was 10 and here we are in 2022 and I still listen to it. Crazy enough, I ended up in an abusive relationship in my late teens and very early 20s. This song got me through it. I’ll always love it.
this song came out in 2006, i heard it in 2014. I understood i was the villain in 2020. Working on changing now. I'm still in my early 20's (turned 22 a few months ago). breaking addiction is hard, but im try and im sure after i can conquer alcohol, nothing can stop me and i can be a better person ^^
Wow, that was great! Most lyrics videos are a boring black background with the lyrics out-of-sync with the music, but this is really cool!
The moment you see the lyrics, the moment they make sense.
This is one of my favorites. although I may not have been in an abusive relationship with anyone, nor have I had anyone in my life that has had a situation such as this happen to him/her, but still, the topic of the song is very good. it sends a good message to women everywhere, that you need not put up with abuse.
This is hard to imagine. I can't imagine a life where I am not emotionally abused. My father did since he almost died and got on mind altering pain meds. Then my husband whomb I love and trust occationally found out that he is Bipolar and has been mistreating me on accident because he is mentally I'll and didnt know he was hurting me emotionally with his terrible abusive words.
He is a safe person but if he is mad at you he will make sure u feel like shit cuz he feels like shit often.
I did love this song even before I met my husband but my dad used to abuse by mom emotionally on acident because he was hurting inside. Thus i have never had a male relationship that didn't abuse me besides my sweet brother in laws. Those brother in laws will do everything within thier power to never make a woman sad.
This song, I love it. It summarizes my feelings about men abusing women in relationships, or even the same genders. Every single time I hear about a man abusing his wife/girlfriend, all I can ask is; "Do you feel like a man? Does making a woman feel powerless make you feel, strong?" It is such a great song. Can't get enough of this.
You know women can abuse people too, right?
I dont care what gender you are. If you abuse someone, I have no empathy for you when you finally get a taste of your own medicine.
@@minimalism7919 I know but it is more often men.
@@leafly7917 that's like assuming a girl is gonna cheat cause girls cheat more then guys. Of course theirs gonna be a gender that does something more then the other, its mathematically impossible for that not too.
The thing is, men who face Domestic Abuse are usually ignored and told to Man Up or Grow A Pair. Its fucking annoying.
@@minimalism7919 I never said it didn't happen or that they're wimps or anything, but you also need to realize I said what I originally said because the song is clearly aimed towards women being abused over men being abused.
@@leafly7917 Still shouldn’t be played off
To all of those that left these types of relationships you no longer have to refer to yourself as the victim you are now a strong survivor and I'm proud of u I was there myself
This video deserves more likes and views.
So many men should hear this song, not only the ones abusing women. My father once said that if the girl is staying, that means she loves the beating. I can't believe some people can think this way, so selfish, shallow-minded and ignorant.
I AM BOY AND I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT
+AmmoBurstGaming : And as if beating them up wasn't enough, the worst of them also victim shame.
Violette Satanister not only women get abused.
Alyssa 13
FINALLY
And MOST women should also watch this, and reverse the genders as more women domestically abuse men.
Was driving my friend’s mother’s car and just popped one of her random CDs in the player. This song came on and I was instantly hooked. I don’t relate to it remotely. Nobody in my family are abusers. The lyrics and overall beat are so good that I can’t stop listening though.
I just recently heard it too. I thought it was new. Good song but sad that people are like this.
This is still one of my favorite songs and also one of the very first I ever listened to when I discovered I liked this style of music. This song will forever hold a special place in my heart
Out of all their songs, this is my only favourite because it's what got me into their music. I've always heard of Redjumpsuit but never got the time to listen to any of their songs until the other day when I was playing Saints Row 2 but I already knew the band existed before the game came out and the game was old. But still, this track is amazing, the powerful sounds of the instruments, the fast beat of the chorus, it makes you addicted so I ended up replaying that song, over and over and dancing to it.
Hulkerine100 SR2 that's where is first heard the song, awesome music for an awesome game
I like how you made the lyrics animated so that it kept my attention.
It's crazy how there's no comments about Saints Sow 2
I made one of our Saints row 2 4 years ago
I found some comments about it but if you want saint rows 2 videos check my channel
I love this song..every line. The voice with the music, it just works.
i think so too
Me too. It kind of reminds me of something...
wait, is this one of those times where im supposed to ask or not to/ Pencil Tip lol
You have the same last name as my best friend. 😊
Who still listening to this in 2024… ❤
Sorry I'm in 1779 still :\
@@legocontinentalsoldier5527😂❤
Sorry I'm in 2022
Had this stuck in my head as soon as I woke up this morning
The future is now, old man. -2025
Ok, so I just found this song and before I found this lyric video I heard it as “Emo lecture” 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂🖤🖤🖤
This song will always be important to me. It was played at someone i saw as a brother funeral. Rest easy Corey x its been almost 10yrs now but you are still so loved and missed everyday. Love ya bro
Listening to this song for the first time in years! Listening to the lyrics and knowing what this song is really about is crazy! But awesome.
Lol, insanely hard, but not insane in itself. I have been abused for all my life but I have hope and have also seen abusers I know change into kind gentle human beings. They abuse when they are in pain or on drugs. Thats why it is not 24/7 in most cases. But mine feels like all day because if I am around those who are not improved yet, I am reminded that they choose not to love me when they are abusing. And then I feel trapped and alone. I have tons of support family in reality but usually I feel alone. I am learing to lean on the presemce of God because he is the only one always there for me.
I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years he tried to kill me 3 times I finally got away I love this song so much 💕
It hits hard.. I was in an abusive relationship I literally just left 3 months ago and here I am thinking about it! Stay strong as it's not easy
I left a month ago. 5 years and he almost killed me a few times. We’re not victims anymore, we’re survivors. ❤️
omg im so sorry.... who asked tho??
@EXODST because this song is about abusive relationships and speaking about abuse you endured gives power to the people who survived it. Hope that cleared that up for you.
@EXODST wow lol I was just randomly checking my RUclips notifications and seen this I didn’t even know anybody had even liked this comment until now but no I posted the comment because this song makes me feel free like I’ve overcome the abuse which I have I’m still healing but that’s why I posted the comment to remind people you’re not alone not for likes and for you to come for me over this over a RUclips comment speaks volumes on your character smh.
Will never stop loving this song. :')
Let’s be honest, you searched for this
So who was lying about that exactly?
Tater Tot it probably one of the MX vs ATV games because that where I also found the song again. It should probably be Unleashed, supercross, or untamed.
No lol
this used to bump on saints row
Let’s be honest, this is a unoriginal comment used specifically for likes...
My emo stage is coming back hard core lmao. I cringe, but I still love this song
Update; I’m currently locked into a grunge/alternative lifestyle been that way for years now. I can’t escape it the oldies are definitely a time capsule. However I much more enjoy for example Slipknot, Fleetwood Mac and $uicideboy$ at this current time ✌🏼♥️
same
KookBlck never liked emo kids or being emo, never wanna go back to that, but the music is still good.
KookBlck I recommend "my chemical romance" if your looking for some emo music. They're still my favourite band.
KookBlck im still in my “emo phase” lmao im irrelevant
Sung this wiff my band before my buddy passed away
I've grown up in a home with an abusive father, I know what a lot of you are going through, now that I'm older and away from it, I told myself never will a man touch me in an abusive way, or abuse my mind ever again, if he does heaven help him I will put him through a wall. this song is inspiring, and so much truth comes from the words. For those of you who are still struggling today, in abusive situations, please I urge you, either message me here or talk with someone you trust about it. don't sit there in the abuse, you deserve better then that, and mental abuse is just as bad as taking a physical beating... its all abuse no matter how you look at it. don't think for a second that they love you if they are abusing you, that is not love and your not doing nothing wrong seeking help.
Used to listen to this song as a kid. Each time I hear this song I think of the Wisconsin Dells as that's where I heard it most. Was still in middle school. Now I'm in college. How times flies.
thank you brother for showing me this, even if you hate it.
Love this song, heard it from coming home from work one day while I was in an abusive relationship, this song makes me think of all I been through and how I got away
Reminds me of my ex boyfriend who abused me 8-9 years ago. He didn't care if he hurt me by every kick, slap, punch, everything. I kept telling myself "it'll be over soon... It doesn't hurt." I was weak back then afraid to hit him back and make it more physical. I kept praying for someone to save me. I pretty much got kidnapped because he wouldn't let me go home. I tried to go home but he blocked the door and I couldn't escape because he was always watching me. Every single move. He lived in an apartment that was two stories high so I couldn't jump. When he was away and I was in his apartment on my own, I had a chance to escape, but he always had someone in his apartment watch me and his friends too. I had my chance to escape many times I took but he'd find me.. Back to his apartment with more kicking and punching I had to deal with. He locked me in his bathroom which the lock was on the outside, four hours or for a few nights -- that was my punishment. I have finally been found and saved thanks to my family who worked together finding his apartment, his name, everything about him. Police showed up knocked the door down and grabbed me away from him. I don't remember the officer's name who quickly grabbed me away, he was really nice. He asked me nonstop questions. My mom and sister was there. He could of went to jail and I could of pressed a restraining order, but I let it go. I was just happy to be free and I had a weird feeling he'd change because he had a very close call and an encounter being arrested.
Now I'm with someone I've been with for 5 years. We had a child together. In just two more years, we'll be officially married (common law married right now). He doesn't abuse me. Took me a long time to trust him but I got though that. Anthony is the love of my life. He's my everything. I can't wait to be Mrs. Becerra and live the rest of my life with him. Looking back now I laugh at my ex boyfriend because he lost someone who treated him right and lost someone he could of been with for a long time. Goodbye asshole, hello to my future husband! I'm a lot happier now. I'm 27 years old now and I've grown up so much.
This all happened when my daughter was a year old.
My son I had with my now boyfriend would of been 4 months old. He passed away
shortly after he was born.
My boyfriend is 29 years old.
We met on Facebook. xD It all started by just a message I sent him. We met and I knew just then, I felt that spark, he is the one I'm going to marry.
I was 17-18 when I was abused.
He would of been 19 years old or 21 years old then.
Thank you for your kind words. You're really sweet. Unfortunately the recent boyfriend / now ex aren't together anymore. I'm hoping to someday help people who has been in a situation like I have, tell my story, and help the one's who has been in an abusive relationship.
Sugar he was an abusive fucking loser.
Sugar HOW in the world did you have time to write this lol, glad things are better for you.
I can kinda relate tbh ... not like as extreme as ur story but I was in a way kidnapped, I was abused though, cheated on or as my ex puts it "almost", & just treated badly ... it's actually pretty hard 2 explain but I was saved by my current bf & our friends / my now bodyguards actually & we have now been happily 2gether going on 11 months. Celebrating our 1st Christmas 2gether in a few days! 🙂
And thats why im never getting a boyfrind
Me:How can 30+ people dislike this?!
Friend:The guys who beat their wives.
Me:O.O Makes Perfect Sense!
Lmao
Maybe they abuse their BF/gf?
Sadly, it really does...
Katsume Saya .
Katsume Saya Look Hoe Many Dislikes There Are Now. That’s A lot of Wife Beaters
This song is something all men needs to hear before or when in a relationship. This is all fact
moral of the story, don't hit women... only the repeat button
Dustin Borough don’t hit men either!
Good one. That one made me laugh xD
True , violence never really solves anything
yee
...or that like button
ME: "Oh hey I think I've found a new band obsession!"
MY MIND: " DON'T DO IT, FUCKER!!!"
ME: " TOO LATE!!!"
Wow I forgot about this song. I forgot how much I love it.
so fun little story. Im closing in on 30, and i just heard this song today for the first time in what i think is over 10 years and this flood of nostalgia rolled over me. lyrics aside the drums to this song have always stood out to me to the point i really wanted to learn to play it, i still do to this day, maybe one day when i can get a drum set or something
Anyone listening to this 2020?
Yes!
Always
oOf
More like singing it
Yesss
one of the best songs out there.
I'll be the first to admit that I was abusive to my ex girlfriend. It was never physically, but mentally I would say it definitely was. Both of us were like this to eachother. It wasn't terrible, but it was definitely draining to the both of us. I still feel terrible about it to this day, and I think that I will always carry with me an underlying sense of guilt for what I said to her. But the difference is that I've gone through the process of getting my life together and I can say with confidence that I will never act that way again. I've spoken to my ex since we split up and we have agreed that we both did some bad things and remain acquaintances to this day. Moral of the story? Don't try to be with someone if you're not mentally fit for a relationship. It's not worth the tears. I don't want anyone to make the mistakes that I did. Don't stay with someone if you're not ready to commit yourself to them. I'm in now in a happy relationship with my current boyfriend, and since then I have finally come up with the courage to come out as gay. I am not proud of what I did, but it did happen and I've grown from it. Don't make my mistake; Learn from it.
Im happy for you i hope you and your boyfriend have a happy life together
Your brave for coming out and saying all that ! Good for you for wanting to change your ways:) I wish you happiness with you and your bf.
Jackson Johnston im proud of you
@x. xxx that's really rude. It's not like he wanted to make that kind of mistake and have that kind of guilt.
My story is similar. No physical violence though.. I could never bring myself to lay hands on anyone I care about.. I'd hurt myself instead, and I have. Thats another story for a later time..
I abused someone mentally and emotionally.. I myself have been a victim of abuse. Physical I should add, and from my brother. He died a few years ago and even though he abused me he was still my brother and he changed near the end of his life. He didn't deserve to die the way he did. I hope it was painless. I dont know I'm not one to judge, maybe he needed help. He had a hard life so I forgave him. Lord you are my witness, bless his soul.
Met someone in high school one day, she was the most beautiful person I had ever known. I never truly felt nervous or self conscious and stuff till I met her. I was too proud to admit my faults as well as was very insecure. A natural hardhead I took care of all who defied me, earning the nickname "Robot" and was "Intimidating" yet standing at only 5ft 4in. "Fearless". I once took down a bully who was at least a head size taller one time and won, nearly got expelled. And another though it never got physical. In the end he apollogized and left me alone from then on. She and I bonded, got close. One day she was leaving and admitted to me that it was apperent that I'd never change. She never came back to class the next day. All I had left were memories. It hurt like a motherfucker for weeks. Still think about her from time to time, but reality is that shes now happy. At my expense. Sucks I couldnt be happy with her, but if shes happy now, who am I to argue? So I put my selfishness aside. Shes now married and has 3 kids. Her words stuck like a leach..
And I changed, a complete 360* turn. I have volunteered at my local church and have helped give clothes and food to the homeless. I am forgiving. I want to be the voice of the voiceless and oppressed. And if need be id give my life for someone in need. J if you read this, I'm sorry..
Holy shit! I love this song! brings back great fun memories. damn wish I could go back to those days. seem today's more hectic but I'm still here kicking and so are you best wishes!
“this doesn’t hurt”
i keep telling myself this
I feel you.
I feel you. 💔😕
I've said that exact line so many times.. I hope you're okay.
I tell myself the same thing . I hope we all heal from the things we don't discuss .
yeah ..😕
this song got me through my teen years being emotionally abused by my mother and step father, and to this day still means alot to me
Who’s here in 2020! 🤙
Yeah!
Heck yeah
Me
2021 now
Amazing work with the lyrics, I've never seen someone work so hard on words
Can't stop hitting repeat!
Same
And he can't stop hitting his girlfriend!
fookineow that was not okay 😬
fookineow Not. Cool.
Not even remotely funny
It's the fast beat in the chorus and the heavy, powerful instruments. It makes you addicted to the song and you get hooked on it. I am the same and this is the first time I've ever listened to these guys despite I knew they were around for a long time.
Comments
90%: “I’ve had an abusive relationship:( “
9%: “Hit the replay button!”
1%: Memes
It is unbalanced
@@VivaLaVal no? 90+9+1 = 100 ????
0.1 Saints row fans 😒
Brandon Moki
👉🏽😎👉🏽
When I was younger I didn't understand the lyrics to this song but as an adult I have suffered many situations similar it broke me I'm still trying to heal and struggling to live in normal life after it the song makes me feel feelings I haven't felt in a long time
I agree 100% ❤
I feel the same. Love and healing and hope to you and for you, my friend.
Found this while on Spotify and just remembered I’ve already heard it from those “bad boy” TikToks
I watched what my mother had Togo through at the hands of my dad…the lyrics speak for itself. Great song
That screamo part is on point ^_^
Carrie Vue scream0? Lol
Carrie Vue what screamo
at 2:00
Tell me about it
Eh. But the song is amazing
Never thought I’d relate to a song so much ✨
I used to listen to this after being abused by my aunt and uncle. This means so much to me. Thank you❤
This song will always hit the same no matter how old it gets.
Do you feel like a man?
Yup
When you push her around?
Nope
Do you feel better now?
I feel sad and depressed.
Like Me this made me feel better ❤
Like Me *coughs* hitman reborn..*coughs*
Idk why but I came across this comment a while ago and now every single time I listen to this song I think of it
Same
Well except the feeling like a man part. I feel like a woman though lol
2099 who still listen?
affirmitave. we have found this human artifact and enjoy this human "emo" music
🤣
The real tragedy is how well this lyric video is for being 10 years old. Beats every blue screen, white text info a pulp
2014, 2015,2016 .. will listen to this forever!
2022
i found this song on my dads phone and now i LOVE IT!! who knew my dad had good taste in music*shrugs*
Omg I love this song
Rose Ley IKR!
Rachel Frost My fav song from them
Rose Ley its a leotastic song(:
Rachel Frost Omg the pun
i found this song on atv vs mx untamed, i was OBSESSED with this song when i was little and i been looking for it since then and i finally found it
👆🏼yep this is the comment I was looking for. My brother and I played this game all growing up.
I heard this in Saints Row 2 and looked for it because I found it enjoyable. Now I'm crying.
Awesome song by this band. I literally play this at least once a day.
Transitions be smooth as h e c c bro
33 people feel like a man as she falls to the ground
Now over 1k smh
1.7k now...
This post had me legit laughing
But now over 2.1k
i just got out from a 1 year and 8 months verbally abusive relationship (a year ago).. he would say hurtful words at me when i didn't listen what he wants or everytime i mess up in our gaming time. today i'm in a healthy one now 👏
The fact that my abusive ex liked this song lmfao
Mine too. It’s pretty ironic 🤦♀️
best track in the Saints Row 2 line up.
love it
This song will always be one of my favorites 🙂
2 songs that I remember from bmx vs atv is this and 12:34 both nostalgic and I love these songs
but at least shes escaped him, "as ur lies crumble down, a new life she has found"
I was playing saints row 2 and this came on the radio so... here I am.
my ex abused me... I dealed with this for 5 months than I finally had enough... like if you're against an abusive relationship
Kayle Rayne Much respect, you did the right thing!
I’m so proud of you! Cheers to your road to recovery
My ex beat me physically and mentally now I’m the road to recovery
I'm in one right now
You lowkey just used your abusive relationship for likes.... I'm happy you got out of a bad situation but....
I woke up to "do you feel better now, as she falls to the ground" and didn't know the song's name. Note I had heard this in YEARS... coincidentally it was playing on the radio
This song makes my skin crawl, someday we will get these awful people out of the way and let light shine upon the ones that need it 🙌😔
Amen to that 🙏🥺
this always makes me tear up
it reminds me of how many family members and friends have been abused by their loved ones, both females and males
It's 2023 and I'm still here listening to this amazing song. ❤
Agreed. I have a 6 disk cd changer in my car and the album this song is on is in one of the 6 slots lol I listen to it almost every time I get in the car anymore
I was at an old friend house last night and he had this cd and I was amazing because I haven’t heard this song in years and we played it in the car and flash backs of high school hit me and this was my favorite song I played it at least 7-8 times a day and everybody in my house hated when I played it because it was always on repeat 😂 I miss the old days