Oh FFS you do realise producers organise ALL of this including winding up Yosef to milk the season. She didn't choose activities. It's so silly it is all orchestrated. How is this not clear by now?
Stop watching the show if this actually personally offends you lmao. You're watching reality TV. He was a complete scumbag and if he's something you're like, "yeah he sounds like a great person!" you need to reexamine yourself like now
He was right naked dodge ball was bad. It’s a huge double standard, if a bachelor did that he would be in huge trouble and because Clare is a girl she got a away with it and no major back lash came from it. That’s not fair at all.
@@trevormichaud8701 the show decided to do it not her. They spin it to where they make it look like it's her idea. OH! and on Juan Pablo's season (that claire was on) they had the girls strip 😁
No one is arguing that, yosef WASN’T even involved, so for him to get THAT upset was completely uncalled for. He had some nerve calling her classless for trying to get word in. She gave all the time he needed to get his point across and he couldn’t let her get a word in, then accosted her while she tried walking away. How is that class?
@@vodz-ws5yr exactly, women have to do degrading things all the time on tv, and when the roles were finally reversed, she’s labeled as classless and immature 🙄. That’s the real double standard.
The fact that a bunch of guys did strip for her like that, shows already how desperate they are with absolutely no worth for themselves... Yosef really did dodge a bullet there!
@@norastack6110 l don't think he cares about being a fan favorite lol. Also the only reason he started to roast her is because she tried to be sassy by saying that is why you were not on that date
Damn. Imagine not only simping this outrageously hard, but on national television, and for a *girl* that’s already picked a dude on Instagram before the show even began. Yosef was the only person in this show with a shred of dignity.
@nick m. Definitely distasteful, if he left it at the part where he ended with "if my family saw that..." , he'd be GOLDEN! The rest was unnecessary because in hindsight, she pretty much did all the damage herself by being two-faced, hypocrite & a waste of time.
The whole conversation clearly went sideways after she brought up her mom. Whenever someone is expressing how a situation is tough for them, never bring up how it's tougher for you. This expresses a clear lack of empathy. That's why it was no surprise that she left the way she did!
I’m not defending her in any way but perhaps it was less of her trying to one up him and more of her trying to show him that she can relate to his situation (but I agree, she shouldn’t have done that). I haven’t seen this season though so I can’t gauge her intentions
She’s a narcissist. The entire time she tried to make everything about her. She thinks she’s a princess to be rescued which is why she stated this challenge was all about Men who were there for her
"Bro I'm so heated" had me cackling! Heated over an argument you didn't hear, concerning a girl you didn't jump to get to know when you first met? Right!
He didn't roast her - roasting is when it's done jokingly - he was just being blunt and honest. He said lemme finish and she doesn't let him finish. He says I'm sacrificing because I'm not with my child. She has to one up him and say Oh I get it my mother is dying ?
@@dbiggie You might wanna also look up reproduction with men. The older they get the more likely to have kids with autism and other developmental disorders. Everyone shouldn’t wait and should have kids when younger.
He’s right in all accounts, no man should ever humiliate/ degrade himself for the appeasement of a woman, and it goes the same the other way around. What’s funny is that those “simps” defended her and continued to do so even after it was revealed that she had planed from the get go not to date any of them.
The oldest bachelorette is the most immature. And her sobbing had no tears. The major manipulator will be hell for whomever she ends up with. This guy's the winner, he didn't get her.
Imagine if she slept with a few guys on the show and then saying "Talking to a women like that". Doesn't matter what I done. She doesn't like accountability.
3:33 Pointing her finger to his face. Standing up and talking down on him. Trying to stop him from walking away by grabbing his arm. Now how would all of those people who said “she’s a strong women bullied by a man” feel if the role were reversed. - The Bachelor makes all the women play dodgeball naked. - Then he steals one girls pants..just for fun. - Then when one of the women expresses how she feels about it he gets angry. - He starts pointing his finger to her face and then stands up and talks down on her. - And when she wants to walk away he grabs her by the arm. Would you call him a strong man that’s being bullied by a women?
Well she was stating that both of them have other things going on outside of what's going on in their personal lives and wouldn't a mother like to see her daughter married before she dies? I mean her quest doesn't seem to be a bad one in nature.
@@mbloom2275 A dying mother wants to see her children (period) MARRIED or NOT. I would rather be with my mother in her last days. (then making-out with men). Your comment is ridiculous!
@@elainevankat5353 You're just trying to pick insults because you don't like Clare. You sound like a bully - like Yosef. Clare wants to have a family and she's reaching a point where she can't anymore, which is why she's out finding love, which I bet is what her mother wants for her. Now crawl back into your misogynistic hole.
@@sos7345 Clare is “out finding love” Well, what about the love for her mother (dying mother). Obviously that’s not important to Clare. You and Clare are ungrateful daughters! (completely shallow).
"talking to a woman like that!" like what? he was calm, and didn't say anything out of line. he was also right about everything he said. "i dont care what I've done" I do believe that. She seems entitled as hell. Delusional
That part I was like hmmm, he has concerns. Just because you are a woman doesn’t mean that people can’t be rude to you or point out things you have done lol 😂 She is not realistic lol A man that refuses to let me talk after I have listened to his concerns, that is a no go for me but of course he can say whatever he wants. She could have just listen and then apologize for making him uncomfortable just to acknowledge his concerns then ask him to leave because they are not compatible.
That's why She's single at 39! My guess is She will stay single Her whole life unless She buys a Dog or a Cat or just settle for some of those pathetic Simps
I mean, he wasn't wrong. If roles were reversed about the dodge ball date, it would have gotten way more backlash. Does anyone else feel like the seasons and castings have gotten so much worse?
If the roles were reversed, incels would be on here saying bUt dId tHe wOmEn rEfUse???? tHeY wAntEd it bEcAuSe tHeIr wHoReS!!! Lmao with their bad spelling and all
@@siiiiiuu7 typical shaming tactics from women. You’re shaming us for watching the bachelorette, then if we didn’t, you’d say we have “toxic masculinity.” You have zero respect or positivity toward men, and we’re OVER it. We’re standing up for ourselves.
@@thehabibipodcast9574 You want to whine and pout about your Bachelorette habits but have nothing to say about the extreme amount of misogyny in this thread, right? Lmao you are so lame bro
She was mad at the truth that he spoke and she couldn't handle it and is where she tried to dismiss him and gaslight her wrong doings by saying you are done he should have just dumped her right there and ended the conversation right there.😂
Sichael........if my mom were dying, I would be by her side every minute. No way I could be a bachelorette while my mom is on her death bead. Shows the kind of character she has. She has a beautiful exterior like sugar coated arsenic.
No, the title SHOULD be "Clare's outbursts" he was calm until she started to yell at him not even gonna understand the real point of his argument, what a snowflake.
I mean he did passively attacked her by calling her "old" and classless, humiliated to be associated with her etc etc. I know it's 2021 and you shouldn't associate old with a bad thing but some people still do
I dont think it was even meant as a burn just poor wording. He meant she by default of age should be a mature adult woman, something he is seeking, and she is acting like a 20-25 year old woo woo type of girl which he didn't sign up for.
If the roles were reversed and a bachelor started raising his voice yelling at the women during a group date and then made the women strip down naked to play dodgeball he’d be crucified lol!
@Stinkmeaner It depends on who you like more and how old you like. Not just anyone can have a hot 26 year old plus age doesn't determine attractiveness.
@@janelkaram She is not being crucified for this IMO. If a guy did this he would’ve been asked to leave the show without any woman. He would be cancelled and would have to close all his social media accounts and hide in obscurity. The man would be labeled abusive and objectifying to women.
honestly, I think he has a point with everything he’s saying... she couldn’t hear it anymore and got annoyed, put her finger in his face, and then had to insult his fatherhood ?? If she was truly mature, she would’ve stayed calm, faced her faults and stop playing victim all the time 🤷♀️
When a woman's back is to the wall, and she's confronted with reality, the last thing she'll do is accept it. They're too prideful. Don't bother trying to deny it, because we know better.
They are both the same really. He attacked her she wasn't ready for that. Ofc that made her react in a bad way. But then he reacted in a bad way too to her reaction. You have to understand that he had an advantage and she was caught off guard.
@@yoooyoyooo He had the advantage how? He just calmly told her how shallow and petty she was, and she got angry, pointed her finger in his face like she had power, and tried to tower over him until he stood up.
@@jayviktor6130 He knew what was comming and she got surprised. Suprise is an insane advantage in conflict. I took few parafs from Theory of suprise for you Surprise is extraordinarily attractive because it allows actors to achieve objectives that would normally be well beyond their reach if they faced an alert and determined opponent. Surprise allows one side to operate with virtually no opposition.
"Am the oldest bachelorette because I didn't settle for men like that" Point of correction, you're the oldest bachelorette because men didn't settle for women like you.
I feel like Yosef was too honest for this type of a show cause usually nobody ever says anything against the Bachelor or the Bachelorette, even if they are really wrong. Yosef was brutally honest and it was the truth Clare needed to hear. It may be disrespectful I guess ? But he did talk in a very calm and collective tone as opposed to Clare. But man was he right , he was so right about Clare. She was very classless, stripping men like that on TV and then stealing pants from Dale, the only guy you give your attention to? Thats downright classless Edit - Heard that Dale and Clare broke up after just a few months of the show. How did they not see this coming!?
True but after a while since Clare was being silent he started trashing which was not nice. Until that point it was truth and then he found strength to start abusing
@@eceerdem317 When he said he’s ashamed to be associated with her and she doesn’t set a good example for his daughter - harsh! Doesn’t he realise she’s not a producer? And it was just a bit of fun? I don’t blame her for kicking off. Although I realise she has issues.
When she "cries" as soon as she gets over to the other guys, there's no tears or any mascara dripping. Total crocodile tears. These dudes are suckers for easily falling for it.
Facts : - Yosef stands up for himself and his values - Clare raises her voice at him while he is being calm about it - she antagonizes him by saying do not speak to me ever again Fiction: - Yosef has an outburst on Claire
When he said”I don’t see how that translates into finding a husband.” If I was Clare, I would’ve saved face by saying: “The naked dodgeball game was a test on who had the most integrity and self respect to say no, and you passed. Congratulations”!
@@bigjayabc nah he just laughed because she was using his powerargument that she wasn't a good fit for his daughter, he knew this was the way to hurt a narcissist
1. He probably just wanted to say what was on his mind without her intervention. 2. Clare's priorities are messed up. I would prefer spend time with my dying mother than being on a show.
Clare wasted all these guys time...she already choose Dale” before the show even started. Who is she trying to kid? However; I hope they live “happily ever after”
nah, he and the rest of the show created this bias about how she was the damsel and Yosef the villain. Just check the description box. but i get it's a part of his job to back the bachelor/bachelorette, but still...
Yeah he is totally in the right that date was so objectifying and if a guy did that it would not fly so easily... she objectified those men it was so cringe to watch
@@mackc2880 These shows have been all about double standards the last couple of years. It was the same with Hannah’s season where Luke was portrayed as a villain and downright bullied for having certain expectations on his would-be partner. All while Hannah herself called out men on the show who had contact with other girls while seeing her. “Funny” thing is that on the Swedish Bachelor, the women brag about having “plan Bs” on social media.
I mean when you think about it. The show pays her money so maybe that's why she joined the Bachelorette? To potentially help her mom? I mean that's a possibility
@@jesuschick7872 to me it felt like he mostly just wanted to be in the right and look good. It didn’t seem like he was very thoughtful towards her. Though I didn’t know that strip dodgeball involved people actually getting naked (thought it was just underwear or bathing suits or something) so I guess I can see his point. To me there is nothing wrong with taking physical attributes into account however. I know there’s a double standard though where guys get judged for doing that to women. Which I don’t think should be the case. But I think that was kind of unrelated here. Seemed like it was just in good fun, and good for her if she wanted and was able to do that. That’s a bigger issue beyond just her and the other people on the show. Hope things can change.
She’s completely over the top dramatic. Those poor boys defending her have no clue what took place during their private conversation. I wonder what they’re all thinking now that it has aired.
"a personal attack on our Bachelorette" she humiliated men by asking them to strip on National TV imagine a man doing that to a bunch of women. He called her out and you see that as a personal attack no wonder why media is called out for poisoning us
"Talking to a woman like that...I don't care what I have done." So in her feminist world, a woman can do whatever, but if a man disagrees and tells her, he's in the wrong?
She said something interesting. "Talking to a woman like that i don't care what was done." Some women really think that the rules are different for them when they do some bs. And Yosef was proven right at the end of it all. She wasn't serious. 😂😂
@@neshwhat702 but we men actually can speak truth while we deal with the current mating pool for straight men here in the West who are almost all nothing but emotion
These guys are simping so hard. She's 39 and single because nobody wants that insecure controlling attitude. I bet men talked over her and she lost it because he was trying to finish his point while she was talking
that is exactly what they're doing. they're all pressed over this girl. they're all like 30 or early 30's and they're all pressed over a 40 year old? c'mon. they should be smashing multiple twenty somethings.
I don't think you go onto the show knowing the bachelorette ahead of time. And a whole group simping over one person is the whole point of the show, lol. But agreed, Clare's a trainwreck. Good thing the bachelorette changes soon🙌🏻
@N W You > "That's a rather serious claim considering I never made any comment about him not ever leaving her side" Also you > "If he was "putting his child first" why come on a show and spend time away from her? " How do you forget what you just typed when it's literally right there for you to read again as many times as you have to? Like I said, absolute clown.
I almost pissed myself when she said you should never talk to a woman like that. Like come on🙄maybe you should act your age instead of using your gender to get out of things.
exactly! she is very manipulative and thinks just because shes a woman and theyre men they cant be offended when you hypersexualize them and objectify them when theyre trying to make real and adult love connections??? shes so immature
@@simpsbelongtothegulags3702 As a feminist, it makes me cringe when women act like we need special treatment. There's a way to talk to people in general, not just women. But yeah what you're saying is right.
This is so refreshing to see cause I feel like so many times the contestants change themselves to win over the bachelorette/bachelor so to see him still be true to himself is refreshing
Yosef is an actual man of value, one who respects himself and stands his ground. He was not rude, in fact he was restful but honest when he was addressing his concerns with that woman with a mindset of a 17 year old.
Clare: "I'm here for you." Moments later Yosef: "its so humiliating and degrading. I dont see how that translates to finding a husband." Clare: eyes glaze over and dismissing everything he said. "Mmhmm"
@Starchildfrom 90s that doesn't even make any sense and for the record I came here because a RUclips channel was talking about it and it was hilarious dumbass.
@@sally9001 She raised her voice, waggled her finger in his face, attempted to stand over him and then grabbed him. Are you seriously defending her doing all that childish entitled crap?
@QueOnda 123 And he wasn't done. Finally getting the chance to speak her and he can only get a few minutes in? How pathetic of you lot to defend this crap
She listened for so long , how is that interrupting .. once he said “I’m ashamed to be associated with u and “crazy” she reacted .. how would u react or feel if someone used those words to communicate . He wanted the last word so bad. How is he any better
The point he was making about his thoughts and feelings was fine, and then he totally went off the rails. It’s not just about what you say, it’s about HOW you say it too.
Whoo...'almost 40, that must have cut ✂️ through her heart like hot knife 🔪 on 🧈 I felt her heart drop when she get the reality checkup my him seems to have cause disbelief in her delusional mindset. She now wimping with pain in her mental space. Yep, she used to always see herself as the untouchable day dreaming spoilt prince! No,No..! NOT WITH AN ALPHA MANLY MAN. 👀🤝🏽👏🏾💪🏽
He was right for his concerns. The group date where the men strip down was immature of her and she was hostile towards the guys for not jumping up to talk to her. But he should have said his piece and left. Claire is the worst bachelorette!!! Dale is going to use her and once he knows the real Claire, he will dump the drama.
@@mikeandrews745 Claire has a big mouth and tells people what is not right. She went along with strip challenge date. She is much apart of it. She didn’t walk out or say this is not how to find love.
She was wrong to make the guys strip and he had a right to call her out on that, but he kept harping on the age thing which was out of line. Two things a man should never talk about is a woman's age and weight.
@@GeorgeOu He went on a bit too long about that, but she wasn't pulling punches either. "I wouldn't want you as the father of my child". If she's fine going there, she's more than capable of keeping up.
@Carter Atwell Two wrongs don't make a right. She was wrong to grab him and stick her finger in his face, and she was distasteful to make the guys play naked. That doesn't mean he should go low and attack her age.
Not surprised she is single at 40... Clearly he is right about red flags if that is the way she treats men as objects and can't find a stable partner by that age.
@@joedirte8355 A man settling for her is never top tier. These 4 tools protecting her without even knowing what happened are the bottom of the pie. A top tier guy doesn't settle with a 40 year old and this attitude. The guy that left ... that is a top tier guy.
@Xelbayria people need to stop talking about the wall and using other misogynistic terms like this. Stop shaming women for getting older. Getting older is not a crime, it's something that literally happens to everyone except for people who face untimely deaths.
@@Alexis_005 men who are single in their 40s are most likely just getting out of a miserable marriage and are the happiest they’ve been in decades or atleast thats what comes to my mind when I think of a single 40 year old
@@Alexis_005 single men in their 40's are a extremely happy demographic that didn't wife up young because if they're successful have the their pick of women now and more than enough resources while single women around 40 are the complete opposite 1 in 4 on depression or anxiety meds, overweight, and miserable because no one even men their own age don't find them attractive anymore while on the the opposite again younger women find older successful men very attractive.
Nah, he did too much. Just extra and went in for no reason. I think he had valid points but say it respectfully, keep it brief, and invite a true dialogue in a reasonable amount of time
I don't care that he was "rude". He was right. He got his point across and so what if he got rude. I'd be furious if I sacrificed my time for love for it to be a stripfest tunnel vision love experience that is only fun for clare and dale. Good for her. She blew up the bachelorette and the flames that proceeded that are her fault and her fault alone. Periodt.
Then the idiot men left over instead back Clare when not weeks ago they echoed practically the same message. A gross season of bachelorette and honestly Tayshia should of been the pick from the start. I have all the clareity I need. Goodbye.
Ok, she was classless, but he could have just stopped at 2:30. He got his point across and there was nothing more to say, I feel like he wanted to humiliate and embarrass Claire instead of getting his point across😒
@@wrestlingdragon9043 nah she took it as an insult, he was just adding more to him point and how insulted he felt. Anyways she already humililated herself
"I'm the oldest bachelorette that's 39 thats standing here thats single cause I didn't settle for MEN LIKE THAT" Lol! Men like what? Men that have self respect? Men that respect their daughters and families? Men that are honest as possible, which may point out mistakes you have made?
Men that have self respect? HE'S A MALE MODEL that is divorced with a child! Like you really think he hasn't had to make some "choice" decisions to get "jobs".
@@mbloom2275 We don't know for sure what decisions he made to get jobs. He seemed to be honest that he wouldn't have stripped down during that date and embarrass his family/daughter.
He was rude point blank period!!!calling her the oldest bachelorette was uncalled for,he could have stated how distasteful it was to him,without calling her names.he wanted a moment and he got it!acted a damn fool!
I liked most his points but his delivery got out of hand and turned out rude… He could have delivered his lines in a more classy way and left. But on the other hand it was pleasing cuz she looks insufferable😅
@Tai Y Do you want to be called out for what you are? Ok I'll decide that you are... an imbecilic hypocrite, a selfish child in a grown body and a misogynist. You're welcome.
“I’m the oldest bachelorette, that’s 39, that’s standing here, that’s single because I didn’t settle for men like that.” Nah Clare, you’re the oldest bachelorette that’s 39 and single because men like that don’t want to settle for you.
@@beidorion she can still have kids, and still be a wife BUT she was never looking for anything serious and for her age he expected better from her. Men go for older women cause they expect them to be more mature and more capable of being able to be fit for them to be a mother figure to their children. That’s what he meant by mentioning her age.
If I was a 39 year old woman and a guys comeback was "Alright Bet" I would look for someone 10 years older. Damn, didn't know the Bachelorette casts 18 year olds.
I agree with him here. Majority of the viewers did not like the dodge ball group date. I didnt like it. He was rude about it but he siad what majority of us were thinking. WHERE'S TAYSHIA!!! Clare , go get Dale and leave. We see that u already picked him
I agree. He went over the line in the last couple of scenes calling her old, but his initial concern was def valid. If I was a guy, there’s no way I would want a wife who did that, talk about inappropriate! Luckily Tayshia is classier than that!
I’m not the majority. Production decided to do that so it doesn’t fall solely on Claire. Yousef is an idiot and should have just left the show and simply state that he didn’t think they were a good match.
Okay . He was accurate. However, he kept repeating himself over and over to punish her ? Again, keep short sweet . But he said “ classless” more than once . He was pissed rightly so…
Yeah no, i dont feel bad at all for her. She triggered it by telling him thats why he wasnt on the date. Plus, the way she disrespects all the other guys by focusing on dale and not even hiding it, thats just messed upppp
This guy is not a wonderful, classy guy. I read reality steve and how he has gotten multiple emails with proof of how he treats women. He has proof of these women's stories for 6 months now. He talked for like 20 mins and wouldn't let her say one thing on her time to talk. He was in attack mode not questioning but attacking. He said this with no class, disrespecting claire like he did. Sure, you don't like what she did. Good thing you weren't on the date. The producers pick the dates anyways. Tomorrow I'm ready for all the tea I will find out from reality steve (spoilers) once it is out there on this guy. Reality steve wrote this... "It’s bad enough he’s getting bent out of shape over something he didn’t even participate in, but then to take it out on Clare and blame her shows his ignorance on the whole situation. He calls Clare “trashy,” the “oldest Bachelorette,” and “classless” all while repeating numerous times how he has a daughter, and setting an example for her, blah blah blah. The lack of self awareness by this guy is frightening. Considering how many people have emailed me STARTING BACK IN MARCH about this guy and how he treats and plays women, it’s hilarious how he thinks Clare is such a bad person and he wants to set an example for his daughter. Does he not realize that the numerous women who’ve contacted me with they Yosef stories in the last 6 months are all daughters too? What a complete buffoon.
CLARE IS A DISRESPECTFUL, DESPERATE WOMAN. AND CLARE DIDN'T SEND HIM HOME. HE MADE THE WISE DECISION TO LEAVE ON HIS ON ACCORD. HE CAN DO MUCH BETTER THAN CLARE. I RESPECT HIM FOR LEAVING ON HIS OWN. GOOD FOR HIM. HE KNOWS WHAT HE IS LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN. CLARE IS CLASSLESS & VERY TRASHY I DON'T THINK DALE GOT SUCH A PRIZE IN CLARE. HE GOT THE BOOBY PRIZE. UNFORTUNATELY, HE IS TOO YOUNG & INEXPERIENCED TO DISCERN HER. TO HUMILIATE MEN TO STRIPPED DOWN NAKED TO WIN A ROSE, IS CLASSLESS. I CAN DEFINITELY SEE WHY SHE IS NOT MARRIED.
Very disappointed in this season. I feel so bad for these guys. She didn't even give them a chance and flaunted her feelings for Dale in front of their faces and didn't give a crap how she made them feel. Will see if in the end her and Dale stand the test of time. After all, all they feel is a strong physical connection because clearly they don't even know each other. I think she would have been better off waiting until she truly resolved her "issues" before coming on this show because she still gets triggered and is not ready for a relationship long term. Will see.
AND HE WAS Right. She already chose a dude she met before the show so it was all just a game to her, she was playin the rest of the dorks that were simping for her the entire time. 3 yrs later and she not only divorce the dude she met before the show, she's already onto her next marriage. Yosef called it, she is classless.
To all those “he got out of hand” folks, I find it funny men have to be the gentle ones in disputes when a woman get out of hand. He tried to keep her calm multiple times but SHE wasn’t woman enough to sit, reserve herself, and listen. She interrupted him, stood over him, pointed in his face, and dismissed the conversation; yet still, it was he who should have handled it better in the end. He handled her carefully to start but when she couldn’t take the criticism he gave her his absolute truth. He did nothing wrong in my opinion, start to finish. Simply leaving would have made him look even better not because it’s gentlemanly but because he has lost interest in the conversation and that’s alpha af.
A conversation goes both ways. You must be crazy if you think someone is going to just listen without expressing their feelings as well. That conversation ended the moment he started insulting her. She did the right thing. You and all 80 of these people are crazy.
@@b9556 he didn't insult her. He gave his thoughts on her actions. Insulting her would have been like "you are classless"... he literally said that her ACTIONS were distasteful and he expected better from her.
I’m glad this comment is here, it needed to be said, even if people disagree with you at least you had the chance to openly say that along with the others that feel the same way.
"it's humiliating and degrading and I don't see how it translates into finding a husband". Sir, I applaud you for speaking the truth!!
Oh FFS you do realise producers organise ALL of this including winding up Yosef to milk the season. She didn't choose activities. It's so silly it is all orchestrated. How is this not clear by now?
More men need to do just that.
Stop watching the show if this actually personally offends you lmao. You're watching reality TV. He was a complete scumbag and if he's something you're like, "yeah he sounds like a great person!" you need to reexamine yourself like now
@@hanmarche I actually don't watch the show just watched this clip. I have an actual life you see. ;)
They always play games like this on this show and the men all CHOSE to take their underwear off, she didn't make anyone do anything.
He was right naked dodge ball was bad. It’s a huge double standard, if a bachelor did that he would be in huge trouble and because Clare is a girl she got a away with it and no major back lash came from it. That’s not fair at all.
she made the men play naked dodgeball? lol i wonder how ppl would feel if THE BACHELOR asked the girls to play naked dodgeball....
That's exactly what I was thinking!
@@trevormichaud8701 the show decided to do it not her. They spin it to where they make it look like it's her idea. OH! and on Juan Pablo's season (that claire was on) they had the girls strip 😁
No one is arguing that, yosef WASN’T even involved, so for him to get THAT upset was completely uncalled for. He had some nerve calling her classless for trying to get word in. She gave all the time he needed to get his point across and he couldn’t let her get a word in, then accosted her while she tried walking away. How is that class?
@@vodz-ws5yr exactly, women have to do degrading things all the time on tv, and when the roles were finally reversed, she’s labeled as classless and immature 🙄. That’s the real double standard.
“I expected more from the OLDEST bachelorette”💀😂😂took me outt
Lol
You could see her do the crazy head twitch as soon as he said that 💀💀💀
🤣🤣🤣
“Remember you’re almost 40.” 🤣🤣
Clare is way too old for Dale. Dale is too good for her. Find someone your own age Dale.
The fact that a bunch of guys did strip for her like that, shows already how desperate they are with absolutely no worth for themselves...
Yosef really did dodge a bullet there!
He did💯
Why did he go on a shoe like that in the first place?
@@originalbabygal probably money and temporary fame
Most of the guys on here wouldn’t be any different, let’s be honest here. It’s easy to make statements online
@@natevic1867 You are probably right but I was basing this on my moral character and standards.
Clare's mom is dying?
YET!
She's on reality television.
Shows you where her priorities are in life.
It's just a tool for domination.
She wants to have control just like Jesse Lee Peterson always talk about in women.
She’s 39 years old, she ain’t getting any younger
@@joblessboy7030 Jesse be on point
Exactly
Lol “She’s all yours’ boys!”
Legend.
More like caping S.I.M.P suckers.
Pure trash
no. not a legend.
We're not worthy we're not worthy
Some simp: “Ight bet”
He went from making really good points to just straight up roasting her.
@@pseehra1 this what happens when entitled people becomes unhinged right
He wasn't wrong..😂
@@mrgrooveytwoshoes No he wasn’t but if he just addressed his points without getting angry he could’ve been a fan favorite
@@norastack6110 l don't think he cares about being a fan favorite lol. Also the only reason he started to roast her is because she tried to be sassy by saying that is why you were not on that date
@@lucdemanmukenge6562 I agree, I’m just saying had he not gotten rude
lmao as a woman and seeing those men blindly pick her side just cause she was crying is funny af. Some world we live in.
well theyre there to try to get with her and they already did the humiliating thing, of course they double and triple down on it
That’s called feminist propaganda that has shaped our world.
exactly, 99% of the men they choose for this show are just simps. like there are no men in today's society.
She's a blonde yt woman. Other women of colour tears mean nothing.
Bc they’re weak and think they have no other options
Damn. Imagine not only simping this outrageously hard, but on national television, and for a *girl* that’s already picked a dude on Instagram before the show even began. Yosef was the only person in this show with a shred of dignity.
4:48 - 4:59, these chumps bruhhh, i can't loooool 😂😂😂😂
Truth
@nick m. Definitely distasteful, if he left it at the part where he ended with "if my family saw that..." , he'd be GOLDEN! The rest was unnecessary because in hindsight, she pretty much did all the damage herself by being two-faced, hypocrite & a waste of time.
@nick m. it could be, but sometimes people are delusional and you have to point it out.
@Steven Campos ......
The whole conversation clearly went sideways after she brought up her mom. Whenever someone is expressing how a situation is tough for them, never bring up how it's tougher for you. This expresses a clear lack of empathy. That's why it was no surprise that she left the way she did!
Facts. This guy was expressing himself and she wanted to talk about herself rather than hear him out lol.
I’m not defending her in any way but perhaps it was less of her trying to one up him and more of her trying to show him that she can relate to his situation (but I agree, she shouldn’t have done that). I haven’t seen this season though so I can’t gauge her intentions
@@oof8421 shes a single 39 year old. Nobody wants that. She’s clearly an experience manipulator.
She’s a narcissist. The entire time she tried to make everything about her. She thinks she’s a princess to be rescued which is why she stated this challenge was all about Men who were there for her
It's about her and her only. She is selfish.
The other guys are making me laugh 😂😂😂😂 “bro I’m so heated” hilarious lmaooo
Lmao yeah 😆😆 so much cringe. They are totally clueless and unaware sheep
Simps in action
This was the best season yet. This is hilarious to watch. Gotta love a dumpster fire
"Bro I'm so heated" had me cackling! Heated over an argument you didn't hear, concerning a girl you didn't jump to get to know when you first met? Right!
Lol! "Bro, I'm so heated." Lol! I've never heard of that before!
Bro the simps coming to save her everyyy time kills me 🤣🤣
😂
The simp is Yosef and his mid looks, misogynistic behaviors and thoughts and his terrible personality. Bet you’re all about “no means yes” huh?
He didn't roast her - roasting is when it's done jokingly - he was just being blunt and honest. He said lemme finish and she doesn't let him finish. He says I'm sacrificing because I'm not with my child. She has to one up him and say Oh I get it my mother is dying ?
She didn't let him finish cause she HATED the truths he was spitting... either that or her hearing's fading, along with her chance to reproduce
She couldn't handle the truth anymore. Lol
@@dbiggie You might wanna also look up reproduction with men. The older they get the more likely to have kids with autism and other developmental disorders. Everyone shouldn’t wait and should have kids when younger.
@@ShanteRoxxane the chance is not that high bro women deadass have a 10% chance of being pregnant
He’s right in all accounts, no man should ever humiliate/ degrade himself for the appeasement of a woman, and it goes the same the other way around. What’s funny is that those “simps” defended her and continued to do so even after it was revealed that she had planed from the get go not to date any of them.
The oldest bachelorette is the most immature. And her sobbing had no tears. The major manipulator will be hell for whomever she ends up with.
This guy's the winner, he didn't get her.
Exactly she made the show all abt Dale I feel bad for the other men who r just getting their hearts played with
Good look to fooking Dale Moss, really hope they live and love happily ever after.
@@gavinschaber3578 Yousef for the bachelor.
@@HolyBeared120th 7 years ago on the Bachelor show she was on the bachelor Pablo told her I’m glad I didn’t pick you 😂
@@HolyBeared120th Is this Jorge from Paradise?
"she's all yours boys"
"Aight bet" 😂😂😂🤦
😩😩😭😭😂💀💀
she even broke up with her so called lover Dale moss 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
"because I didn't settle for a MAN LIKE THAT!"
She's never going to settle with anyone 🤣
Straight clown🤣🤣🤣
Letting all that sauce marinate.
Basically " you're 39 please act like it"
Her:" HOW DARE YOU!"
She said “Talking to a woman like that, I don’t care what was done” says a lot about her character
Well done Luke spotted this straight away, that whole sentence is wrong. You could clearly see him being careful with his words through out.
When women can’t argue with what you say they start arguing about how you said it.
Imagine if she slept with a few guys on the show and then saying "Talking to a women like that". Doesn't matter what I done. She doesn't like accountability.
@@sloebone7399 Thank you, point well said.
Modern woman have no accountability in society
3:33 Pointing her finger to his face. Standing up and talking down on him. Trying to stop him from walking away by grabbing his arm. Now how would all of those people who said “she’s a strong women bullied by a man” feel if the role were reversed.
- The Bachelor makes all the women play dodgeball naked.
- Then he steals one girls pants..just
for fun.
- Then when one of the women expresses how she feels about it he gets angry.
- He starts pointing his finger to her face and then stands up and talks down on her.
- And when she wants to walk away he grabs her by the arm.
Would you call him a strong man that’s being bullied by a women?
She was incredibly rude and disrespectful towards him
yup, the double standard is absolutely ridiculous. It's probably why she's still single at 39.
Those guys looked so pathetic running up to her to try save her... she dint even acknowledge any of them.
"bro, I'm so heated" 😅🤣 These guys are lame
I know right lmao
Desperate to look like the hero on camera. Who are they again?
Lmaooooo
So true. So true.
They were all so pathetic.
She is a big girl.
She just casually drops “yeah like my mums dying, I totally get you”
This is what happens when you waste a Real Man’s time.
There will be repercussions.
There
@@apiscold negative
@@KBonilla Positive my guy
@@Gobackto4chan you are right.
Not if big daddy welfare state has anything to say about it...
He didn`t just siad: "She is all yours" but "She is all yours...BOYS"
that was funny. BOYS 😂😂😂😂😂
🚂🚂🚂
They're immature boys for sure.
Those boys think they're men cuz they took steroids and took time to carefully groom their beards.
@@junphi😂
Clair said her mom is dying.... so why isn’t she with her mother! (finding a man is more important) obviously!
Well she was stating that both of them have other things going on outside of what's going on in their personal lives and wouldn't a mother like to see her daughter married before she dies? I mean her quest doesn't seem to be a bad one in nature.
@@mbloom2275 A dying mother wants to see her children (period) MARRIED or NOT. I would rather be with my mother in her last days. (then making-out with men). Your comment is ridiculous!
You gotta have that ring at the funeral!
@@elainevankat5353 You're just trying to pick insults because you don't like Clare. You sound like a bully - like Yosef. Clare wants to have a family and she's reaching a point where she can't anymore, which is why she's out finding love, which I bet is what her mother wants for her. Now crawl back into your misogynistic hole.
@@sos7345 Clare is “out finding love” Well, what about the love for her mother (dying mother). Obviously that’s not important to Clare. You and Clare are ungrateful daughters! (completely shallow).
“Talking to a women like that? I don’t care what was done!”
D O U B L E
S T A N D A R D
By that statement shows what kind of character and woman she is such a total grandiose textbook narcissist.😂
he wasn’t even disrespectful either bro was talking calmly 😭
He was fine in his approach
"talking to a woman like that!" like what? he was calm, and didn't say anything out of line. he was also right about everything he said.
"i dont care what I've done" I do believe that. She seems entitled as hell. Delusional
That part I was like hmmm, he has concerns. Just because you are a woman doesn’t mean that people can’t be rude to you or point out things you have done lol 😂 She is not realistic lol A man that refuses to let me talk after I have listened to his concerns, that is a no go for me but of course he can say whatever he wants. She could have just listen and then apologize for making him uncomfortable just to acknowledge his concerns then ask him to leave because they are not compatible.
@@faxoxo2306 She couldn't let him finish what he had to say in the first place.
what she means there is "talking to his BETTER like that... how dare he, he has no right to do that since he's just a lowly male and I'm The Princess"
That's why She's single at 39!
My guess is She will stay single Her whole life unless She buys a Dog or a Cat or just settle for some of those pathetic Simps
@@knightheaven8992 I noticed
I mean, he wasn't wrong. If roles were reversed about the dodge ball date, it would have gotten way more backlash. Does anyone else feel like the seasons and castings have gotten so much worse?
If the roles were reversed, incels would be on here saying bUt dId tHe wOmEn rEfUse???? tHeY wAntEd it bEcAuSe tHeIr wHoReS!!! Lmao with their bad spelling and all
@Jack Bauer Btw way to be proud about being so caught up with The Bachelor. Real manly lmao
It actually has happened on the season of Juan Pablo. And it was the shows idea not hers.
@@siiiiiuu7 typical shaming tactics from women. You’re shaming us for watching the bachelorette, then if we didn’t, you’d say we have “toxic masculinity.” You have zero respect or positivity toward men, and we’re OVER it. We’re standing up for ourselves.
@@thehabibipodcast9574 You want to whine and pout about your Bachelorette habits but have nothing to say about the extreme amount of misogyny in this thread, right? Lmao you are so lame bro
“She’s all yours boys!”
“Arl bet!” Lmao
YESSSSS. BEST LINE EVER!!! Leave those SIMPS to find out for themselves.
Half-elves don't jive with human women like that.
Cringe fest
DUDE, I thought you were just saying that. I can’t believe they actually said it.
simps 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
that "Remember you're almost 40" really hit her different LOL
😂😂😂
She was mad at the truth that he spoke and she couldn't handle it and is where she tried to dismiss him and gaslight her wrong doings by saying you are done he should have just dumped her right there and ended the conversation right there.😂
😂😂😂
“My mom is dying”.....Claire just had to one up him
Exactly
@Green Machine Camping the only way
She really cared for her mom and if her mom is close to death why would you continue with the show vs being her side
@@estefanyvicente7695 Ha good point!
Sichael........if my mom were dying, I would be by her side every minute. No way I could be a bachelorette while my mom is on her death bead. Shows the kind of character she has. She has a beautiful exterior like sugar coated arsenic.
She could sense the rejection coming so her power play was to reject him to save her fragile and failing ego
So true!
Amen
and they wonder why they get ghosted....
100% instead of owing up her mistake and learning from it she gaslight, shamed and changed the subject like a lot of women/girls.
Met very few women in my life who didn't use that tactic when called out.
No, the title SHOULD be "Clare's outbursts" he was calm until she started to yell at him not even gonna understand the real point of his argument, what a snowflake.
She should apologize for yelling at him.
@@rum410 She said he was going on for like 30 minutes. They edit to make it seems short but we never know🤷🏽♂️
@@rum410 I’m 22 and I’d simp for 40 year old oh yea
I mean he did passively attacked her by calling her "old" and classless, humiliated to be associated with her etc etc. I know it's 2021 and you shouldn't associate old with a bad thing but some people still do
@@george_MF_washington good luck with our leftovers
How many times has Claire been on The Bachelor? She’s exactly as single as she deserves to be.
That Yosef guy is an Alpha man with real testicular heft.
That’s why she is still single at 40. Self entitled to the point of nausea.
@@andrewbirch6073 Well she's married now
@@j.i.r608 RIP to the simp that actually took the crazy in. Next thing you know, he will be paying alimony and child support for a kid that isn't his.
Right
He shot a slug at her with that “oldest bachelorette” comment 😂😂😂 that’s why she went off the rails 😂
Because she knows it's true. she knows if she doesn't land a rich hot guy very soon, she's going to be bottom barrel and her ego can't take it.
I dont think it was even meant as a burn just poor wording. He meant she by default of age should be a mature adult woman, something he is seeking, and she is acting like a 20-25 year old woo woo type of girl which he didn't sign up for.
No actually she started freaking out when he called her crazy. Crazy was the keyword. I wonder why.
@@Leaptab he was using it as a way to show how immature she is at that age....
@@vibez2806 Which is true.
If the roles were reversed and a bachelor started raising his voice yelling at the women during a group date and then made the women strip down naked to play dodgeball he’d be crucified lol!
The show is at this point just indulging single women's fantasies, none of those men would be interested in a 39-year-old woman if they weren't on TV.
@@contentwasteland9096 it depends on who the 39 year old woman is
So true
@Stinkmeaner It depends on who you like more and how old you like. Not just anyone can have a hot 26 year old plus age doesn't determine attractiveness.
@@janelkaram She is not being crucified for this IMO. If a guy did this he would’ve been asked to leave the show without any woman. He would be cancelled and would have to close all his social media accounts and hide in obscurity. The man would be labeled abusive and objectifying to women.
honestly, I think he has a point with everything he’s saying... she couldn’t hear it anymore and got annoyed, put her finger in his face, and then had to insult his fatherhood ?? If she was truly mature, she would’ve stayed calm, faced her faults and stop playing victim all the time 🤷♀️
When a woman's back is to the wall, and she's confronted with reality, the last thing she'll do is accept it. They're too prideful. Don't bother trying to deny it, because we know better.
They are both the same really. He attacked her she wasn't ready for that. Ofc that made her react in a bad way. But then he reacted in a bad way too to her reaction.
You have to understand that he had an advantage and she was caught off guard.
@@yoooyoyooo He had the advantage how? He just calmly told her how shallow and petty she was, and she got angry, pointed her finger in his face like she had power, and tried to tower over him until he stood up.
@@jayviktor6130 He knew what was comming and she got surprised. Suprise is an insane advantage in conflict. I took few parafs from Theory of suprise for you
Surprise is extraordinarily attractive because it allows actors to achieve objectives that would normally be well beyond their reach if they faced an alert and determined opponent. Surprise allows one side to operate with virtually no opposition.
@bikamek1 really because my husband loves me being both a combination of masculine energy and feminine. Sooo im guesing youre single. ;-)
Claire: 😭
Simps: “are you serious right now”🤡
Yosef: “she’s all your boys”🍺
Yosef’s daughter and family have every reason to be proud of him.
For harassing a women on television about her age? Lmao ok babe
@@CzrBklyn 💯💯
@@sierraalexander1830 he's the one that got harassed by multiple people (forcing him to apologize) and he was not swayed one bit isn't that cool?
@@deamorta6117 he's a chad
@@CzrBklyn I’m assuming you’re Hispanic. What if someone said to you “that’s why you’re single because you’re Hispanic” is that just facts then?
Lmao she's all pissy cause he called her out on her immaturity.
Since when is telling women the truth a good idea?
Wow i love how y'all defend him
Hes no better than her lol😂
He used the unforgivable "C" word...
"Crazy".
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM,
What do you expect from a hairdresser, they aren't generally know for their intelligence.
@@NinaDidnothingwrong why is he no better than her?
Clair is a perfect example of everything a guy doesn't want in a girl.
Here, here!
The other men rushing to defend her...yuck.
Yep. Imagine what she'd have been like without the cameras...
@@tadghsmith1457 ....or is they were an actual couple. Even worse.
She is a mega red flag waving cray-cray dramma momma
“I didn’t settle for men like that”
You mean you didn’t settle for honest, full of class, utterly respectful men…. Oh okay😭😭
"Am the oldest bachelorette because I didn't settle for men like that"
Point of correction, you're the oldest bachelorette because men didn't settle for women like you.
^This. Right here, this.
Women are never straight forward
Fax🤣🤣🤣
But they were lot of simps their for them
Just settled for a different dude that cheated on her
I feel like Yosef was too honest for this type of a show cause usually nobody ever says anything against the Bachelor or the Bachelorette, even if they are really wrong. Yosef was brutally honest and it was the truth Clare needed to hear. It may be disrespectful I guess ? But he did talk in a very calm and collective tone as opposed to Clare. But man was he right , he was so right about Clare. She was very classless, stripping men like that on TV and then stealing pants from Dale, the only guy you give your attention to? Thats downright classless
Edit - Heard that Dale and Clare broke up after just a few months of the show. How did they not see this coming!?
Yup. It is a classless and I’m a woman and I’m saying it’s classless.
True but after a while since Clare was being silent he started trashing which was not nice. Until that point it was truth and then he found strength to start abusing
@@eceerdem317 absolutely! And why is he looking for a mother for his daughter? What happened to her mom?
@@eceerdem317 They both werre abusing, thou the gal was in the wrong, could not stand to hear some critisism
@@eceerdem317 When he said he’s ashamed to be associated with her and she doesn’t set a good example for his daughter - harsh! Doesn’t he realise she’s not a producer? And it was just a bit of fun? I don’t blame her for kicking off. Although I realise she has issues.
When she "cries" as soon as she gets over to the other guys, there's no tears or any mascara dripping. Total crocodile tears. These dudes are suckers for easily falling for it.
dude, women do this all the time, it nothing new
I’m surprised they found so many betas to simp over an empty egg carton
Angry crying doesn’t have tears
@@nathanielringdahl tears are needed to be considered crying though? 😆
yes it does@@nathanielringdahl
Facts :
- Yosef stands up for himself and his values
- Clare raises her voice at him while he is being calm about it
- she antagonizes him by saying do not speak to me ever again
Fiction:
- Yosef has an outburst on Claire
When he said”I don’t see how that translates into finding a husband.”
If I was Clare, I would’ve saved face by saying: “The naked dodgeball game was a test on who had the most integrity and self respect to say no, and you passed. Congratulations”!
Damn, how can u receive no like? This is clearly the best comment
You're a fox 😅
Literally what I was expecting I swear
See, I'd go in on him. "You're picking your child's stepmother off a TV show bro. How is that a good idea?"
@@ahoneyman she picked a tv show over her dying mother how is that a good idea?
“I totally understand, my mom is dying.”
“Ok .. let me continue”
💀💀💀💀💀
😭😭😭😭😭
I saw the anger in dudes eyes when she said that. He had one of those I'm not gonna scream at you like you want smiles.
@@bigjayabc nah he just laughed because she was using his powerargument that she wasn't a good fit for his daughter, he knew this was the way to hurt a narcissist
1. He probably just wanted to say what was on his mind without her intervention.
2. Clare's priorities are messed up. I would prefer spend time with my dying mother than being on a show.
Nah lil narcissist just saw an opportunity to turn the discussion toward herself. If she was that worried about her mom she wouldnt be doing the show.
"I'm ashamed of being associated with you". Savage.
The truth always is.
Once on a family vacation me and my cousin found a severed thumb near the creek!
@Cookie Food ok. That is relevant how?
@@MrMickeycorrea omg!!!! What did you guys do?
@Cookie Food but HE has his daughter though! How often is that even POSSIBLE?! How effed up must his x be!
"You're completely classless Clare." 😂🤣
Yosef is an absolute Chad while the rest of the guys are simping. He went a bit over the top but it was hilarious. Absolute savage display.
Clare wasted all these guys time...she already choose Dale” before the show even started. Who is she trying to kid? However; I hope they live “happily ever after”
Hottest MAN on the show
@@noellarash367 nope he dumped her right away
@@nataliewilkerson8739 Yosef is the ONLY man on the show
@@gammaraider word
She's definitely the worst Bachelorette in the shows history. Poor Chris H.
nah, he and the rest of the show created this bias about how she was the damsel and Yosef the villain. Just check the description box. but i get it's a part of his job to back the bachelor/bachelorette, but still...
Yeah he is totally in the right that date was so objectifying and if a guy did that it would not fly so easily... she objectified those men it was so cringe to watch
@@mackc2880 These shows have been all about double standards the last couple of years. It was the same with Hannah’s season where Luke was portrayed as a villain and downright bullied for having certain expectations on his would-be partner. All while Hannah herself called out men on the show who had contact with other girls while seeing her.
“Funny” thing is that on the Swedish Bachelor, the women brag about having “plan Bs” on social media.
yes! I stopped watching after like 3 episodes because I hated her so much
Nah I'll say Hannah B was the worst bachelorette
"im the oldest bachelorette, standing here 39 and single because I didn't settle for men like that!" Good job, that's really something to be proud of
She is single because every man walked away after a few days with her.
@@JamieTransNyche's not the first to walk away from her and simply won't be the last she's all yours Boys.😂
"Talking to a woman like that. I don't care what was done."
So, you *are* the problem....
lol at females
@Walter Usher And the biggest simp award goes too...
This is an awesome comment
@Walter Usher
Simpatry is a Sin
Hahaha 🤙
Her moms dying and she went on the bachelorette? I have no interest in even watching this clip anymore
😭😭😭😭she is all kinds of messed up
You should watch this clip. Yosef is the only real man who showed up.
I mean when you think about it.
The show pays her money so maybe that's why she joined the Bachelorette? To potentially help her mom?
I mean that's a possibility
@@halcyonramirez6469 yes, good point
@@jesuschick7872 to me it felt like he mostly just wanted to be in the right and look good. It didn’t seem like he was very thoughtful towards her. Though I didn’t know that strip dodgeball involved people actually getting naked (thought it was just underwear or bathing suits or something) so I guess I can see his point. To me there is nothing wrong with taking physical attributes into account however. I know there’s a double standard though where guys get judged for doing that to women. Which I don’t think should be the case. But I think that was kind of unrelated here. Seemed like it was just in good fun, and good for her if she wanted and was able to do that. That’s a bigger issue beyond just her and the other people on the show. Hope things can change.
She’s completely over the top dramatic. Those poor boys defending her have no clue what took place during their private conversation. I wonder what they’re all thinking now that it has aired.
They are just simps
Exactly they defended her not knowing she could careless about all of them except dale and they would just be thrown to the waist side
I'm more surprised why a bunch of young dudes want to marry a 39 year old... Like, she is pretty and all, but so are those dudes. Like why?
@@xiRePeNTx they the definition of simps
@@Fankas2000 What's with the ageism bro?
"a personal attack on our Bachelorette" she humiliated men by asking them to strip on National TV imagine a man doing that to a bunch of women. He called her out and you see that as a personal attack no wonder why media is called out for poisoning us
"Talking to a woman like that...I don't care what I have done." So in her feminist world, a woman can do whatever, but if a man disagrees and tells her, he's in the wrong?
She’s not a true feminist that’s what
She’s manipulative and turning it on him, she’s awful
@@sarahmendez2046 *3rd generation feminism
@@mamenesini i agree it's the 2020 game. Treat us equal, but put us on a pedestal, but dont do that, but please do that.
Exactly. Delusional.
She said something interesting. "Talking to a woman like that i don't care what was done." Some women really think that the rules are different for them when they do some bs. And Yosef was proven right at the end of it all. She wasn't serious. 😂😂
3:34 she got VIOLENT and started grabbing his arm
The entitlement is unreal lmaoo
He was telling her the truth but I didn’t like the way he rub it in her face about being the oldest. You don’t like her leave...He was mean.
@@Ooguuay ditto
@@neshwhat702 but we men actually can speak truth while we deal with the current mating pool for straight men here in the West who are almost all nothing but emotion
This man just dodged a bullet... wow. Yosef is right on point with this one. Shame on her!
Are you kidding me?
Simps dodge a bullet.
This man stopped a bullet like Neo.
The thing is... I bet she was thinking about him after the show.
@@Jedi_Black word is as long as she draws breathe from this earth she is still going to think about him.
- I am sacrificing time with my daughter
- I get it, my mother is dying lol
I was laughing when this scene happened. I'm laughing even harder now that Dale broke up with her. Yosef is a legend.
These guys are simping so hard. She's 39 and single because nobody wants that insecure controlling attitude. I bet men talked over her and she lost it because he was trying to finish his point while she was talking
that is exactly what they're doing. they're all pressed over this girl. they're all like 30 or early 30's and they're all pressed over a 40 year old? c'mon. they should be smashing multiple twenty somethings.
I don't think you go onto the show knowing the bachelorette ahead of time. And a whole group simping over one person is the whole point of the show, lol. But agreed, Clare's a trainwreck. Good thing the bachelorette changes soon🙌🏻
“She’s all yours boys!!”
~AntiSimp Gawd
This should be the anti simp anthem
He letting the streets eat
Hits as hard as "she belongs to the street"
Remember you almost 40 hahahahahah She had the audacity to put her hands on him
This guy is a man!!! As he should be! Putting his children first. Yes...he wasted his time on this show....the girl was not worthy.
@N W thank you dude this is like the first comment I have seen that I agree with. These comments are blowing my mind.
That's the truth
@N W So how does he ever work or ever meet someone if he can't leave his daughter's side?
You're a clown lmao
@@carver877 That statement was so illogical. How could you agree with that? 🤣
@N W You > "That's a rather serious claim considering I never made any comment about him not ever leaving her side"
Also you > "If he was "putting his child first" why come on a show and spend time away from her? "
How do you forget what you just typed when it's literally right there for you to read again as many times as you have to? Like I said, absolute clown.
I almost pissed myself when she said you should never talk to a woman like that. Like come on🙄maybe you should act your age instead of using your gender to get out of things.
Agreed, she's making us women look bad😭
exactly! she is very manipulative and thinks just because shes a woman and theyre men they cant be offended when you hypersexualize them and objectify them when theyre trying to make real and adult love connections??? shes so immature
@@randohuman5084 Not really
A person's action never represents their gender
@@simpsbelongtothegulags3702 As a feminist, it makes me cringe when women act like we need special treatment. There's a way to talk to people in general, not just women. But yeah what you're saying is right.
Or say people instead of a woman, because no one should ever talk to anyone like that. I think the point is being missed here.
Absolute CHAD hitting her with truth bombs
*Screams in Joe Rogan* : It is aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall oveeeeeeeeer!
She can’t handle the truth!
@@earthysophie you're funny.
@@earthysophie The oldest, no child, no self control bachelorette.
What you call a chad, I call a man who found he has half a ball. Still better than nothing, i.e. the rest
This is so refreshing to see cause I feel like so many times the contestants change themselves to win over the bachelorette/bachelor so to see him still be true to himself is refreshing
"Never in a million years"
Me: bro, she really is the oldest bachelorette
🤣🤣🤣
😂
Yosef is an actual man of value, one who respects himself and stands his ground. He was not rude, in fact he was restful but honest when he was addressing his concerns with that woman with a mindset of a 17 year old.
Yes True he seems to be that
But he was a" little bit "to rude to her
Not even 17 more like 12
he's a deadbeat babydaddy, why is that so attractive to you?
@@sweetiepieplaylist How is he deadbeat?
@@sweetiepieplaylist how is he a deadbeat dad if he's so concerned about missing and being with his daughter for this pathetic excuse of a woman?
Clare: "I'm here for you."
Moments later
Yosef: "its so humiliating and degrading. I dont see how that translates to finding a husband."
Clare: eyes glaze over and dismissing everything he said. "Mmhmm"
Told her like a Boss & Told Those Boys to keep playing.
That’s what a Real Man is. Not too many left.
"I'm so heated right now." Dude is simping so hard he's a reverting back to his high school maturity. You want to take your shirt off and fight? Lol
Lol ikr smh...they are wimps
@Starchildfrom 90s that doesn't even make any sense and for the record I came here because a RUclips channel was talking about it and it was hilarious dumbass.
@Starchildfrom 90s says the one who came here to watch lmao, you forgot your brain at work!
@@toprap88, simp alert. You’re one of those “where’s my hug” guys, aren’t you?
@@yourevilhalf1413 aba and preach
Lol she completely interrupts him, blows the conversation up because she didn't want to listen anymore. She's a tantrum thrower
What you mean to say is she's a modern woman! :)
@@sally9001 She raised her voice, waggled her finger in his face, attempted to stand over him and then grabbed him. Are you seriously defending her doing all that childish entitled crap?
@QueOnda 123 And he wasn't done. Finally getting the chance to speak her and he can only get a few minutes in? How pathetic of you lot to defend this crap
She listened for so long , how is that interrupting .. once he said “I’m ashamed to be associated with u and “crazy” she reacted .. how would u react or feel if someone used those words to communicate . He wanted the last word so bad. How is he any better
@@sally9001 no he really wasn’t rude at all, not even by a millimetre.
no instead you settled for someone 8 years younger before you got to know him who also dumped you as soon as the show was over...
The point he was making about his thoughts and feelings was fine, and then he totally went off the rails. It’s not just about what you say, it’s about HOW you say it too.
“You’re almost 40, Clare.” 😂☠️
Good for her😂😂😂
Whoo...'almost 40, that must have cut ✂️ through her heart like hot knife 🔪 on 🧈 I felt her heart drop when she get the reality checkup my him seems to have cause disbelief in her delusional mindset.
She now wimping with pain in her mental space. Yep, she used to always see herself as the untouchable day dreaming spoilt prince! No,No..! NOT WITH AN ALPHA MANLY MAN. 👀🤝🏽👏🏾💪🏽
Took me out
@@michaelkoroma4066 are you ok mentally? Your post is literally scary lol
@@gigischorr2367 think he’s getting his period hahaha 🤣
He was right for his concerns. The group date where the men strip down was immature of her and she was hostile towards the guys for not jumping up to talk to her. But he should have said his piece and left. Claire is the worst bachelorette!!! Dale is going to use her and once he knows the real Claire, he will dump the drama.
3:45 he tried to leave and she grabbed him.
@@mikeandrews745 Claire has a big mouth and tells people what is not right. She went along with strip challenge date. She is much apart of it. She didn’t walk out or say this is not how to find love.
She was wrong to make the guys strip and he had a right to call her out on that, but he kept harping on the age thing which was out of line. Two things a man should never talk about is a woman's age and weight.
@@GeorgeOu He went on a bit too long about that, but she wasn't pulling punches either. "I wouldn't want you as the father of my child". If she's fine going there, she's more than capable of keeping up.
@Carter Atwell Two wrongs don't make a right. She was wrong to grab him and stick her finger in his face, and she was distasteful to make the guys play naked. That doesn't mean he should go low and attack her age.
Not surprised she is single at 40... Clearly he is right about red flags if that is the way she treats men as objects and can't find a stable partner by that age.
You can imagine her ego is huge after having those guys on the show chase her. She feels entitled to a top tier man now.
@@joedirte8355 A man settling for her is never top tier. These 4 tools protecting her without even knowing what happened are the bottom of the pie. A top tier guy doesn't settle with a 40 year old and this attitude. The guy that left ... that is a top tier guy.
@Xelbayria people need to stop talking about the wall and using other misogynistic terms like this. Stop shaming women for getting older. Getting older is not a crime, it's something that literally happens to everyone except for people who face untimely deaths.
@@justmerosie It's about getting older AND failing to conform to what reality demands.
"Nature, to be commanded, must be obeyed."
Yosef walking up to the driver with full poise, assurance and composure moving into the car like 007 on his next mission
Never date a person who can't handle criticism. It won't end well. This guy is the real winner.
This guy is dreadful
@@Jane-vw5om cope
@@Jane-vw5om agreed he’s awful
@@Nadine9534
Awful how?
@@khanhhuynh5434 get a life I’m not your mom
Came here for the red pill comment section, was not disappointed.
Yeah I noticed a weird amount on this video.
Didnt know it existed like this bro.
I saw this on another channel and came to see what people say and was pleasantly surprised.
@@Ralleighiv aba and preach?
@@leonidas0242 I saw it on abba and preach those guys are hilarious hahaha
@@curlyfro97 *"HAAAAAG!"* lol
I think we are starting to understand why she is single at 39 years old
I think the same when men are over 40 and single
@@Alexis_005 men who are single in their 40s are most likely just getting out of a miserable marriage and are the happiest they’ve been in decades or atleast thats what comes to my mind when I think of a single 40 year old
@@Alexis_005 single men in their 40's are a extremely happy demographic that didn't wife up young because if they're successful have the their pick of women now and more than enough resources while single women around 40 are the complete opposite 1 in 4 on depression or anxiety meds, overweight, and miserable because no one even men their own age don't find them attractive anymore while on the the opposite again younger women find older successful men very attractive.
@@Alexis_005 men dont have a ticking clock if u know what I mean ;)
@@Alexis_005 It would probably work if the man doesn't have money and resources.
Nah, he did too much. Just extra and went in for no reason. I think he had valid points but say it respectfully, keep it brief, and invite a true dialogue in a reasonable amount of time
I don't care that he was "rude". He was right. He got his point across and so what if he got rude. I'd be furious if I sacrificed my time for love for it to be a stripfest tunnel vision love experience that is only fun for clare and dale. Good for her. She blew up the bachelorette and the flames that proceeded that are her fault and her fault alone. Periodt.
Then the idiot men left over instead back Clare when not weeks ago they echoed practically the same message. A gross season of bachelorette and honestly Tayshia should of been the pick from the start. I have all the clareity I need. Goodbye.
Totally agree with you.
The truth doesn't care if it's rude or not
@@XaiExtra Because Yosef is the only man there with a backbone.
He wasn't rude. He was just being honest and speaking the truth.
She is so classless.... he was legit spitting straight facts. This is a grown a** man. Thank GOD tayshias the new bachelorette
And yet she does the same thing 🤦🏾♂️. Lol.
@@mrnoobie2541 when?
Ok, she was classless, but he could have just stopped at 2:30. He got his point across and there was nothing more to say, I feel like he wanted to humiliate and embarrass Claire instead of getting his point across😒
@@wrestlingdragon9043 nah she took it as an insult, he was just adding more to him point and how insulted he felt.
Anyways she already humililated herself
"I'm the oldest bachelorette that's 39 thats standing here thats single cause I didn't settle for MEN LIKE THAT" Lol! Men like what? Men that have self respect? Men that respect their daughters and families? Men that are honest as possible, which may point out mistakes you have made?
That’s why she’s 39 and still single
Men that have self respect? HE'S A MALE MODEL that is divorced with a child! Like you really think he hasn't had to make some "choice" decisions to get "jobs".
THANK YOU
@@mbloom2275 We don't know for sure what decisions he made to get jobs. He seemed to be honest that he wouldn't have stripped down during that date and embarrass his family/daughter.
@@ctmyers896 because she has her choice of men. Why should she settle for an idiot?! Rather be single than be with a jack a$$ like him.
He was rude point blank period!!!calling her the oldest bachelorette was uncalled for,he could have stated how distasteful it was to him,without calling her names.he wanted a moment and he got it!acted a damn fool!
Yosef told her the truth she just didn’t want to hear it this is why she still single to this day.
I liked most his points but his delivery got out of hand and turned out rude… He could have delivered his lines in a more classy way and left. But on the other hand it was pleasing cuz she looks insufferable😅
Didn't Claire after rejection go around sour grape Juan Pablo every opportunity she got on TV.
Karma.
Fuk your feelings.
"Talking to a woman like that, I don't care what was done"...
Your honor, I rest my case.
The entitlement
lmao!! bruh i was thinking the same thing.
He said the "C" word that made her change. That little click of a head tilt when she heard "Crazy" was her sleeper cell trigger word.
Her sleeper cell trigger word lol that's surprisingly accurate.
@Tai Y no she doesn't have to sit there and continue hearing such disrespect.
@Tai Y Do you want to be called out for what you are?
Ok I'll decide that you are... an imbecilic hypocrite, a selfish child in a grown body and a misogynist. You're welcome.
@@roxvid2 what disrespect? She's a piece of trash and she needed to hear what was wrong about her actions.
@@MoonwalkerWorshiper it doesn't mean anything when it isn't true and comes from someone as worthless as yourself.
“I’m the oldest bachelorette, that’s 39, that’s standing here, that’s single because I didn’t settle for men like that.”
Nah Clare, you’re the oldest bachelorette that’s 39 and single because men like that don’t want to settle for you.
AMEN!!!!!!!!
That's a bingo
Wooooooo!!!
and yet she thinks she will have children... at 40+ shows like this are just abusive she is 10 years past a mother and wife material.
@@beidorion she can still have kids, and still be a wife BUT she was never looking for anything serious and for her age he expected better from her. Men go for older women cause they expect them to be more mature and more capable of being able to be fit for them to be a mother figure to their children. That’s what he meant by mentioning her age.
4:14 I love his walkout he walks so confident like "im too much for this" lmao
“She’s all yours boys!”
“Alright BET!” 😂😂😂
Righttt
If I was a 39 year old woman and a guys comeback was "Alright Bet" I would look for someone 10 years older. Damn, didn't know the Bachelorette casts 18 year olds.
@Lodestars Inc 5 guys every year since 18. 22 x 5 = 110.
@@TheMackjohnson That’s why he said “ she’s all yours BOYS.” He knew he was the only adult in the competition.
In a few months she will still be single and on OnlyFans.
I agree with him here. Majority of the viewers did not like the dodge ball group date. I didnt like it. He was rude about it but he siad what majority of us were thinking.
WHERE'S TAYSHIA!!!
Clare , go get Dale and leave. We see that u already picked him
I agree. He went over the line in the last couple of scenes calling her old, but his initial concern was def valid. If I was a guy, there’s no way I would want a wife who did that, talk about inappropriate! Luckily Tayshia is classier than that!
@Hector Rodriguez those were the rumors
I’m not the majority. Production decided to do that so it doesn’t fall solely on Claire. Yousef is an idiot and should have just left the show and simply state that he didn’t think they were a good match.
@@tonibrooks9719 somewhere it says that she was saying that it was producers but it was actually her decision
@@gdesiree29 and even if it was the producers idea, she could have told them that it made her uncomfortable. I would have.
Damn as soon as he said "overreacted" and "crazy" the fuse was LIT
💀💀💀💀🤣😂
He was doing that on purpose.
Okay . He was accurate. However, he kept repeating himself over and over to punish her ? Again, keep short sweet . But he said “ classless” more than once . He was pissed rightly so…
Yeah no, i dont feel bad at all for her. She triggered it by telling him thats why he wasnt on the date. Plus, the way she disrespects all the other guys by focusing on dale and not even hiding it, thats just messed upppp
This guy is not a wonderful, classy guy. I read reality steve and how he has gotten multiple emails with proof of how he treats women. He has proof of these women's stories for 6 months now. He talked for like 20 mins and wouldn't let her say one thing on her time to talk. He was in attack mode not questioning but attacking. He said this with no class, disrespecting claire like he did. Sure, you don't like what she did. Good thing you weren't on the date. The producers pick the dates anyways. Tomorrow I'm ready for all the tea I will find out from reality steve (spoilers) once it is out there on this guy.
Reality steve wrote this...
"It’s bad enough he’s getting bent out of shape over something he didn’t even participate in, but then to take it out on Clare and blame her shows his ignorance on the whole situation. He calls Clare “trashy,” the “oldest Bachelorette,” and “classless” all while repeating numerous times how he has a daughter, and setting an example for her, blah blah blah. The lack of self awareness by this guy is frightening. Considering how many people have emailed me STARTING BACK IN MARCH about this guy and how he treats and plays women, it’s hilarious how he thinks Clare is such a bad person and he wants to set an example for his daughter. Does he not realize that the numerous women who’ve contacted me with they Yosef stories in the last 6 months are all daughters too? What a complete buffoon.
CLARE IS A DISRESPECTFUL, DESPERATE WOMAN. AND CLARE DIDN'T SEND HIM HOME. HE MADE THE WISE DECISION TO LEAVE ON HIS ON ACCORD. HE CAN DO MUCH BETTER THAN CLARE. I RESPECT HIM FOR LEAVING ON HIS OWN. GOOD FOR HIM. HE KNOWS WHAT HE IS LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN. CLARE IS CLASSLESS & VERY TRASHY I DON'T THINK DALE GOT SUCH A PRIZE IN CLARE. HE GOT THE BOOBY PRIZE. UNFORTUNATELY, HE IS TOO YOUNG & INEXPERIENCED TO DISCERN HER. TO HUMILIATE MEN TO STRIPPED DOWN NAKED TO WIN A ROSE, IS CLASSLESS. I CAN DEFINITELY SEE WHY SHE IS NOT MARRIED.
@@elizabethhuertas614 I totally agree with you. There is something about her that doesn't ring right.
3:45 she also put her hands on him.
Very disappointed in this season. I feel so bad for these guys. She didn't even give them a chance and flaunted her feelings for Dale in front of their faces and didn't give a crap how she made them feel. Will see if in the end her and Dale stand the test of time. After all, all they feel is a strong physical connection because clearly they don't even know each other. I think she would have been better off waiting until she truly resolved her "issues" before coming on this show because she still gets triggered and is not ready for a relationship long term. Will see.
AND HE WAS Right. She already chose a dude she met before the show so it was all just a game to her, she was playin the rest of the dorks that were simping for her the entire time. 3 yrs later and she not only divorce the dude she met before the show, she's already onto her next marriage. Yosef called it, she is classless.
39, attractive and single. She’s lackin somewhere else, and we just saw it
@@sally9001 But she does want to get married obviously, that's why she is on the show. What's your point?
Jen aniston is single. Men are not perfect either
@@mabelw7 lmao. thats a pretty bad example jus tbh
@@sally9001 Except he wasn't talking about every woman, he was talking about THAT woman. Seems like you and her have at least one thing in common.
@@sally9001 Na thats just an excuse lmao... women at that age hit the wall and have no sexual market value anymore
To all those “he got out of hand” folks, I find it funny men have to be the gentle ones in disputes when a woman get out of hand. He tried to keep her calm multiple times but SHE wasn’t woman enough to sit, reserve herself, and listen. She interrupted him, stood over him, pointed in his face, and dismissed the conversation; yet still, it was he who should have handled it better in the end. He handled her carefully to start but when she couldn’t take the criticism he gave her his absolute truth. He did nothing wrong in my opinion, start to finish. Simply leaving would have made him look even better not because it’s gentlemanly but because he has lost interest in the conversation and that’s alpha af.
Nailed it. Phenomenal diagnosis
A conversation goes both ways. You must be crazy if you think someone is going to just listen without expressing their feelings as well. That conversation ended the moment he started insulting her. She did the right thing. You and all 80 of these people are crazy.
@@b9556 he didn't insult her. He gave his thoughts on her actions. Insulting her would have been like "you are classless"... he literally said that her ACTIONS were distasteful and he expected better from her.
@@b9556 simp
I’m glad this comment is here, it needed to be said, even if people disagree with you at least you had the chance to openly say that along with the others that feel the same way.
I got mad respect for Yosef.