Despite I already knew I hadn't chosen the brain nor the background I have, the context which you gave to these words and all your talk mean a milestone in my pursuit for self-compassion. THANK YOU!
I can not thank you Paul enough. Your books helped me to become interested in the third wave therapies and to self help myself as well. Paul your books will be my presents for a few persons this christmas:)
This was great! Thank you for sharing! I definitely can see the benefits in using this with my clients. Do you have a transcript of the mindfulness portion of this talk?
is he now telling that the mind is conditioned by the genes or by the social environment? cause in case you grow up somewhere else than at your parents, as he says being kidnapped as a baby, you will not evolve the same mind as your parents, or? but if he is pointing that the genes are the ones who determines our mind, then it wouldnt matter where we grow up? anyone understands my point?
I noticed the `Recency Effect' with the shopping example . Of course people will relate a bad experience to tenfold more people...at what point though do you say `No more being an apologist for others crap or shocking actions?' it seems we can as individuals and wider society, become `bulldozed' emotionally. I think most of our problems stem from economic models, Western culture and a corporate rejection of other philosophies of living within the world. How bad have things become when we require teaching in Compassionate...or Empathy. Hard and Easy compassion...Interesting..there maybe a space where religion used to go...where we now need to fill with some reasons to be!
I had a course of CFT around 8 years ago, and it was completed inappropriate. I do not beleive that shame or inner critic were my main issue. After two sessions the therapist started preaching about having compassion for paedophiles, and I would question if this is actually compassion? Compassion is not a virtue, the motivation for euthanasia in the 1930's Nazis Germany was compassion - look where that led. Compassion is very much subjective. I do not believe his book the compassionate is anything new, and appears to be 4 other peoples ideas in one. Paul Gilbert was head of the NHS reasearch unit in Derby, and I was told to buy his book. There is no hard independant evident that CFT works, and he used the NHS to roll out experimental ideas in order to promote his book recieving the royalties along the way. There is a concept of narcissistic compassion, and I feel that Paul Gilbert has seen many people coming and done very well for himself out of it. Beware of false prophets! The guys ego is off the scale - maybe he should have stuck with the rock guitar! Does this not tell you something?
Hi Paul, thank you for all the hard work you put in at The David Rice Hospital
Great! Learning to respect ourself... Most needed in our society.
Despite I already knew I hadn't chosen the brain nor the background I have, the context which you gave to these words and all your talk mean a milestone in my pursuit for self-compassion. THANK YOU!
Just found you August 18, 2017 😍 4 years, 6 days since you posted this incredibly profound information! Thank you 💜
Wonderful talk.. Thanks for sharing. I will buy Paul Gilbert last books immediately!
I can not thank you Paul enough. Your books helped me to become interested in the third wave therapies and to self help myself as well. Paul your books will be my presents for a few persons this christmas:)
Unfortuantely I could not book a place on your workshops because they were fully booked.
1/20/20 Heading into a Mindful Self Compassion retreat tomorrow. Thanks for supporting what I’ll be learning more of!
this was an amazing talk, thank you so much for sharing
Thank you! Clear, beautiful, powerful and very helpful.
Thank You Sir!! Amazing video with great information that my wife just might believe since someone else is saying it now!
fantastic stuff! thanks
Thank you, I found you easy to follow and understand. What a great talk now for the hard work 😓
This was great! Thank you for sharing! I definitely can see the benefits in using this with my clients. Do you have a transcript of the mindfulness portion of this talk?
We don't have a transcript, sorry.
so incredible!
trhank you so much Mister.
Paul Gilbert is a guitar god
Oh, yeah. I just got his joke about the guitar player version of himself. I forgot about that Paul Gilbert!
GREAT
25,000 days? Holy heck that's freakishly short.
Can you post a link to the babies helping people video please?
Baby Talk with Dr Howard Chilton
Here: ruclips.net/video/Z-eU5xZW7cU/видео.html
Audio acoustics are poor ....
is he now telling that the mind is conditioned by the genes or by the social environment? cause in case you grow up somewhere else than at your parents, as he says being kidnapped as a baby, you will not evolve the same mind as your parents, or? but if he is pointing that the genes are the ones who determines our mind, then it wouldnt matter where we grow up? anyone understands my point?
+kali wander Both genes and environment play a role in conditioning~ Look up Epigenetics
I noticed the `Recency Effect' with the shopping example . Of course people will relate a bad experience to tenfold more people...at what point though do you say `No more being an apologist for others crap or shocking actions?' it seems we can as individuals and wider society, become `bulldozed' emotionally. I think most of our problems stem from economic models, Western culture and a corporate rejection of other philosophies of living within the world. How bad have things become when we require teaching in Compassionate...or Empathy. Hard and Easy compassion...Interesting..there maybe a space where religion used to go...where we now need to fill with some reasons to be!
The longer version of the altruism studies with young children is here: ruclips.net/video/Z-eU5xZW7cU/видео.html
I had a course of CFT around 8 years ago, and it was completed inappropriate. I do not beleive that shame or inner critic were my main issue. After two sessions the therapist started preaching about having compassion for paedophiles, and I would question if this is actually compassion? Compassion is not a virtue, the motivation for euthanasia in the 1930's Nazis Germany was compassion - look where that led. Compassion is very much subjective. I do not believe his book the compassionate is anything new, and appears to be 4 other peoples ideas in one. Paul Gilbert was head of the NHS reasearch unit in Derby, and I was told to buy his book. There is no hard independant evident that CFT works, and he used the NHS to roll out experimental ideas in order to promote his book recieving the royalties along the way. There is a concept of narcissistic compassion, and I feel that Paul Gilbert has seen many people coming and done very well for himself out of it. Beware of false prophets! The guys ego is off the scale - maybe he should have stuck with the rock guitar! Does this not tell you something?
Is he the guitarist of Mr. Big? Wahaha...
8:28 this is now the 3rd video I've watched where this guy makes comments about sex where it's unnecessary to do so. 🤮
What have you got against sex?
He only has the one joke