"I'm not ready to form any connection with my mom, I don't need it "- James Brown.
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There is a difference between Forgiveness & Reconciliation. You can forgive someone but you don't have to accommodate them in your life - especially if they are toxic! 😳
APOLOGY ACCEPTED. ACCESS DENIED!
You’re absolutely right
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Very true
Oil dey your head
I love that description of Apology Accepted Access Denied.
Oh dear! I’m almost in tears. Never judge a person until you actually know their story. I feel so sad knowing that this strong individual was traumatised like this as a child. How amazing how far God has taken this lovely young man. Really proud of him
Watch out for people like James brown who go through things like this from childhood, most people don’t come out of it , but those people who do, and I repeat again those who do! They come out stronger and tough… and one of those people is James.
You can see how growing up shaped him both negatively and positively....This guy wears his growing up experience like skin🥺...God bless ALL loving grandmother ❤️❤️🩹💔
Oh Lord, this man is still traumatized.
Please, meet him, Holy Spirit and draw Him to the Father. Help him live above His greatest temptations.
Amen!
Althrough the interview I was imagining how the people that abandoned him look at him now. Lastly, I have a strong conviction that those of us that believe in God, heaven, hell and the last day, will be shocked on the last day at what will become of those we thought were not good enough to go to heaven. Let us profess love for one another and be humane. That is all!!!
Exactly Hajia Zainab👌 Love is all we need💯💯
love this
Very well said....
Heaven and hell is in Nigeria...
Work your heaven or hell out, be wise.
If there was heaven the west won't allow any black African have an idea of it let alone let us into it.
Zee.
Love the pedophile , the criminals … you are speaking non sense and total anarchy
I pray for you James that the will of God is fulfilled in your life and that Christ becomes the Lord of your life. Through you millions will receive the beautiful gift of the gospel of Christ.
Amen
Nigerians do not like differences. This is why his story is so interesting to a lot of people. He seems expressive and Chude is a great conversationalist.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whatever you are keep it to yourself..Don't Force it on people to accept your differences and sexual preference
@@mrrocrocmoney3924 who is holding gun at head to accept it?
FACTS
@@mrrocrocmoney3924 LOL so many people are doing it but Nigeria like fake undercover LOL. WHAT IS MY OWN lol. YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURSELF NOT OTHER PEOPLE. I AM HETROSEXUAL BUT DO NOT WASTE MY TIME OR ENERGY ON OTHER PEOPLE'S BUSINESS.
There is power in telling your story unapologetically without regrets about your journey thus far. That’s strength right there!!! We have listened to his interview on @Tea With Tay Podcast channel in the past👏🏿. Kudos to James💐 for driving the narrative about his life✊🏽 & creating his own stardom 🌟
My Love for James just increased❤️ I’m proud of his journey👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
“I have forgiven you but I cannot vibe with you, don’t you get it?”……..so so true….forgiving ppl does not mean you have to let them back in.
That's why I don't judge people, you never know what they have been through. It seems like he was rejected, I can imagine how painful that was for him and still is. I pray God protect him.
Amen! I feel for him! It must have taken strength and a great deal of it to move on and not be a failure 😞😔🤗🤗🤗
Amen. It's hard building your esteem if you were hated by a lot of people growing up.
I love this guy for one thing, the truth and being blunt and real
He is actually a smart guy and he is so real. I wish him the very best. What an interesting conversation.
This is the first time am crying watching an interview, I know where he is coming from emotionally, may God bless you James
You mean she?
Stop calling God’s name this mess
@@RealityStandno I mean he
At the end of the day, everyone has a story. When you listen to it, you understand why folks are the way they are. He has gone through a lot of hardships and rejection from family. I pray he finds the peace that surpasses all understanding.
James is an impressive human. Once you're able to look past all the things on the surface, you find out how resilient he is. He is also a very good businessman. He saw an opportunity and seized it and is still using it to his advantage, not very many people can even recognize an opening not to talk of using them. I understand why people make fun of him, but I have a newfound respect and admiration for this young man. I hope you continue to soar James; all your prayers have been answered.
Am glad you are addressing him as young man thank you
James please leave literally alone😂😂😂
You don't have to vibe with who you have forgiven, family or not. I feel you.
To be honest I was surprised at this intelligence. You never know one until you hear their heart, where they have been and their dreams. Wow! Really impressive and motivating. I never took to all the bobisky and likes of him but I see James Brown has different and real. Impressive eye opener. Kudos to him.
Funny enough femme boys are so intelligent
@@mhiriaridy5816 that’s so true
It’s him walking James to the car at the end and giving him a hug before he boards for me - so adorable
Waoh! His English is so improved,princess of Africa and Duchess of London.
Omg,James im proud after all we went through, your still bold and trying to make things happen in your life. May my God bless you mercilessly
Forgiving people doesn't mean that you have to reconcile and I hate thus thing in families where they act like the injured party is causing division.
He is still hurt, but he is using the regular Nigerian strong eye to suppress it💔. I wish he could get therapy. Poor guy. I hope he finds peace and I wish him all the best.
So much complication, so much pain. I pray he finds healing
Omo! Everything he say tough me.
At the same time he made me smile 😊
I’m rooting for you James😘
E hugsss to james 🤗🤗,,this is so deep ,,tnxs chude 😘
You're enough, James. I'm glad that you didn't allow your past to destroy you. Keep being genuine, never stop learning. God bless you.
Sincerely hope parents out there would learn a thing or two from this video. Be present for your children. Whipping and traumatizing them will never bring out the best in them. Take a look at our country with it's religiosity and overly strict parenting, why aren't we doing great? Weren't our rotten politicians, lecturers, civil servants, MOG etc whipped as kids?
Honestly, we need to do better for our kids, we need to adopt a change of approach cos things are getting worse.
How else do you want him to be destroyed? He is already more than destroyed. Perhaps not by his past but the present is doing so. Sending love and prayers that God heals him and give him light
@@hopekarigirwa3806 My dear, did you take time to listen to the young man? Yes, I also understand that you feel that in being different, he is making mistakes but the truth is that you never give up on anyone as long as they have breathe in them. Another question I have for you is Do you sin? Have you ever had sinful thought that nobody knows? Are you aware that your action can also destroy you? Do not in any way feel that you are better than this young man cos if you think he is sinful, he is no better than all of us that committing sins in various ways.
So dear Hope, be kind. Learn to hate the sin but not the "sinner" because He is still well loved by his Creator.
Have a fulfilled day.
@@henriettaokpala9642 we all sin o but nobody goes around wearing a shirt with the logo "Sinful and proud" sinful and happy, created sinful will remain sinful and infact come and join me in my sinfulness. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.
@@carolokoli7874 That fear of God should propel you to avoid sin at all cost whether hidden or in the open. The fear of God is indeed the beginning of wisdom. And if truly you love God, you will love ALL creatures of God whether you think they are wrong or not. Who knows, by your unbiased and unjudgmental love, they would be attracted to your God.
For now, quit pointing accusing fingers at James, His Creator still loves him and isn't done with him yet. Rather, look inwards and think of ways to be like Jesus (I'm guessing you're a Christian).
@@hopekarigirwa3806 Assistant God! It’s actually the way a lot of people like you are so quick to judge others whereas you do unspeakable things behind closed doors.
It’s well with you soul.
Jamesbrown is down to earth 😂 he said let them be calling me that her first🤣
James has a very good heart 🥺🥰🥰💜💜💜💜
His family messed him up real bad. He needs therapy and I pray God heals everything that is broken in him.
Amennnn
Awwwwwwww that’s soooo deep,I didn’t care about what Nigerians will say because they saw him as trash . God is perfect & truly not man. May God lead you
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son,that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Repent dor the kingdom of God is at hand. Shalom
Chude is a great conversationalist
I hope he finds DELIVERANCE
Jesus love you James brown, we all have a story. People who really love you from their heart will tell you this lifestyle is not good. It might have a good beginning but the ending is very brutal.
Who are you to decide for him
I beg carry ur hypocritical talk go one side I beg😏😏😏, face ur religion I beg
I feel for this guy honestly but he was supposed to prove his parents wrong. With what he has become, they wouldn't be regretting throwing him away. Jesus is always there to help u James. U are loved🙏
Alabosi
@@evelynejeka7182I'm jesus's PA
I might not agree with who James is but, I like his personality.
This guy is funny😂😂🤣😂
You do not have the power to accept or tolerate anybody. It’s doesn’t matter if you agree or not. They will continue to live their life either way.
@@loubnaarianne2498yeah the same way it roesnt matter if they live their life , some people will never accept you .
Just be calling me "her" first. 😂😂😂😂. This got me laughing hard.
Such a beautiful soul. I love him I swear!
Literalllllyyyyy😂😂😂
Lool If I had a dollar every time he said this.
Literally, we’ve come to the end.
😂😅
Since I heard his story, I fell in love with him. James Brown is indeed a child of destiny. A true survivor 👏🏾 🤎
Thank you for your honesty 🥰. Toxic parents are real in Africa
I am so happy for him....God bless you James
He's been through a lot. It explains a lot of things. I pray God's healing upon him.
I CELEBRATE YOU JAMES AND THANK YOU CHUDE FOR AMPLIFYING HIS STORY
Hummm if only faces could tell what we’ve been through.. thank you for sharing your story with us
He prayed to God to make him a star and he got what he requested for. Many more blessings to come, the sky is the limit.
“I knew me being in London will go viral, because Nigerians saw me as trash “
James just pointed why no matter what anyone, life throws at you. Defy that storm cus they’re 10 billion hoping, watching, betting and fight that you fail.
James is an ICON!!
Some of us are still struggling with what happened to us when we were younger in the hands of our own close family members
Literally he has improved
It is the literally for me 😅🤣. He has actually, and his story is touching.
James will kill me with literally 🤣🤣
James is just someone i would love to have as part of my family member coz with her i won't be scared of taking risks, her story is just similar to mine
I enjoy watching this interview
😃😃😃😃😃...see me laughing when he talked about Bobrisky
I love this interview
Never Judge people Until you know their story.
This was the interview we needed.
i'm Happy for James brown and his success..
Wow!
You've been through a lot.
God bless you James.
The ever funny James Brown 😂
Toxic family unit can run one mad. Everyone has a story which defines their entire existence.
We love James here❤️❤️
This guy passed through alot
Thank you James for telling your story
Literally love James😂
She’s so funny lol ”just call me her first “ 😂😂😂😂😂
HE. A REAL MAN 👨
If "Literally" was a person...lol The way he uses the word.
Bruh! James "Literally" Brown. Say wetin!?
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Jude knows how to handle a good conversation with anybody on earth. Nice one James Brown.
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Literally literally I love james
I love you too.
God bless and keep you James amen❤️💜
I so much like the love James is getting, it's so good
Oh I love this guy, James I am your fan . God bless you dear
Bob is really nice and always reach out to people
I really enjoyed this interview
I have learnt a lot from this video… look beyond what you see in people.
James is actually proper funny! Her transparency and sincerity is quite inspiring.
And she is her own biggest fan!
Which her? 😂.. hypocrites
I pray your son changes to a her in Jesus name Amen
@@mrrocrocmoney3924: Hahahaha OK we will use he-she.
I wish you well in all you do james
Justice for literally.....😂
Your sucess story is amazing
Literally!
So much wisdom...see beyond people!everyone is acting!
James is everything u need to stay happy...such a sweet soul
I love you James and I know they did not caught you🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just start with the her😂😂😂😂
Literally 😂😂😂😂😂
We go through what we go through in our past because of where we are going in the future.
Forgiveness is very important. Everything we went through prepared us for where we are today.
You're enough James, love you
The smartness.....👍👍👍👍
This interview is amazing just watched over and over and not bored
Thank you for sharing your story to the world I know it's so courage to open up and I think all of us should be the same
What doesn't kill u makes you stronger, experiences are a part our individuality.
Ah this guy pass through alot oo💔😭
JB, you have a wonderful voice. Please don't waste it. Use your wonderful voice to make some serious big money. Pepper Dem!
Story of my life🙆🙆i don't wish this even for my worst enemies.Young people are excited to have a baby.Not knowing the kids suffer for it.
Story of your life? You are like him or have a child like him?
My own mom left my brother and I when I was 2 years old and my brother was 4 till now she never looked back and this really affected me even my education and she’s still very much alive but we don’t know how she looks like nor who she is 💔💔💔
Oh sorry God is with you
Many of us have past sad stories. I didn't meet my parents until until I was like 8 years because they left Lagos by to go and school in Chicago USA In the 70s. I was left behind to my mother's brother that turned me to their House Girl living in a face me and face you with bud Bugs infested place. I suffered in their hands while my Bio parent came back from USA in 1977 and I still continued to be house help with my own real parent. They eventually brought us to USA 30 PLUS Years ago. My own mother use me as a pond to collect money from a rich Chief In lagos while the man sexually molested me. I am still struggling with alot of stuff that I went through in Nigeria. No connection with them even though I am married with my own child. My mother is so Arrogant
@@cocobutterchin6768 so sorry dear
@@cocobutterchin6768 so sorry 💕😘
Awww, so sorry 😔
Principarls teacherrrrs😅😅😅
Odogwu bold and smart😀
I would love to read James Brown's story...the struggles from the horses mouth💯
The vibe you give to this word "literally" always makes me want to use it😅
In all,thumbs up dear,your God did it for you.
Omg, i wept like a child. James Omo logo, great job Chude!
Pls don't compare jamesbrown with bobrisky, jamesbrown is doing well 👏👏
So fun to watch, so eloquent.
Just love him
I love the way he talk
All the best James, stay happy. I pray your dreams and aspirations comes to fulfilment.
Be who you are authentically, people always judge regardless
Laughed and learnt watching this. God be with you, James 👐🏿
The way chude waves his hand like boyora