How To Make Sure Your Homeschooled Child Doesn't Become Weird
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Is that girl a idiot, she just seems like the person too think anything she sees
Why am I still getting your videos in my feed after blocking you numerous times?? Are you paying to disable that feature or what?? Stop spamming me with your hateful ideology disguised as intellectual discourse 🤬
It’s a major privilege to have both parents in the home, let alone one be able to stay home and teach the kids.
@@theboywhocriedwolfe2537 yeah exactly😞
You don't have to be a stay at home parent to home school your child. It's only like an hour/hour and a half to get through a days lesson. 30 minutes is the required minimum. You just arrange for your child to be at a daycare or something while both parents are at work
@@evanislost that daycare is called a school
Yeah, I'd start planning right now how you're going to mske this happen for your children.
There are homeschool groups now. Basically a parent of another kid who is being homeschooled takes in a whole group and makes sure they are learning what they need. You then do what you can for extra curriculars. probably coordinate with parents in the group to put your kid on the same teams as thier kids.
Basically build a new community of like minded people. You are not alone.
I remember going to public school and seeing weird kids in school and really those kids were the ones that went home at night and did nothing else. It's the parents, period. If you have parents that facilitate growth you'll do well if not you won't whether you're homeschooled or public schooled
but the home schooled kids are especially odd
Don’t see how that’s weird. In school, you shouldn’t be going out every night. I was one of the kids who went home and did nothing else - and now got into berkley. 🤷🏻♀️ I feel like to an extent people wanna normalize the shit they shouldn’t have been doing as a teen as ‘growth’
@@Averyr91 fr people like this, who you replied to are the people who make me feel shitty for not going out and partying and getting shitfaced as a 17 year old 🧍🏻♀️
@@Averyr91 you didn't read anything I wrote at all
@@thefaultinourpizza1513 nope not really
“If stupid is the norm, you want to be weird”
-Dave Ramsey
💯
Is he related to Gordon Ramsay by any chance?
@@fallenkingdom-zd8xhi don't think so
Ramsey is a religious fundamentalist, who gives a shit what he has to say outside of how to save you money on your taxes.
@@fallenkingdom-zd8xh- No.
My neighbors are homeschooled. They do yard work and say hi to neighbors, if they are outside and you just arrived they help. They are bubbly happy and when we run into them they hold better conversations than most teens. But again I think they spent half of their day in sports and all are musicians. It’s the extracurricular and their environment that makes a difference. My kids go to a magnet school and I feel that was a choice that works well for our family.
My son will be starting kindergarten in the fall and we got him into a charter school and we took a tour a few months ago and I’m truly amazing how much better it for him than a public school
What is a magnet school?
@@bettycooper369 Do you know what a charter school is? it is the same concept but they tend to be more specialized either in arts , technology or science.
@@Lifeafter40 I'm in Canada and haven't heard of either!
@@bettycooper369 got it so basically both are free public schools that also get additional funding from corporate or individual contributions to fill the gap that funding from federal or state may have. This schools also tend to have very involved parents with similar academic or artistic values who are more involved and closer to other parents to ensure their kids are having a good education. This involves money and time commitment but I think is worth it. Many charter and magnet school are the best in the nation and tend to have better graduation rates. Some unfortunately don’t succeed in their vision so people need to careful when researching their school of choice
Its entirely about the parents. You dont have to be homeschooled to turn out like this. My parents sheltered me from any sort of social interaction outside of school. Im like this. Its not about the social interaction at school, its about the social interaction outside of it.
Its also about you
You can have 2 amazing parents
Amazing school, family and friends
But become a r*pist, narcicist and vile
You can have 2 psychotic abusive parents
Fucked up school
And turn out moral and a good but traumatised person
Surroundings do affect you
But you can choose to become a degen and have no decency
Or eaven when everyone bullies you for not watching p, smoking, drinking
And fucking around including your parents
You can feel discusted and moraly better
(Im not a good person in any means
But my family and school i was an outsacst and bullied by people for not watching p since 10 and called a freak for not wanting to party drink smoke, i felt shit and im still insecure about myself, but god i felt dicusted
And still doo by those behaviours)
100%, trying to kickstart and navigate a social life outside of school feels like your out in the wild at times. Its even more overwhelming when you realize you have to go out and search for people if you wanna get somewhere.
Sheeesh i relate to this. Although i asked to be homeschooled for portions of my school years... My parents had not figured out the important lessons for me, looots of fun memories and independent thought but now i work in customer service for amazon of all places and when i say it broke me, completely ripped me apart, broke me in and is now anchoring me down while i still try swim against the current... Yeah its a job only trash work could top. But wow am i grateful for my unique sense of peace knowing exactly where i belong.
Yes and who is overprotective outside of school? The same parents who homeschool out of a fear of protection from big bad ideas, just the poor ones who both parents have to work.
@@Dogtrio that is very true. My parents probably would have homeschooled me if they had the time. But my mom works fulltime as an EDI manager for a health care company and my dad is a handyman who never puts in effort for anything responsibility wise other than something that can get him money.
Lots of parents do homeschool specifically to shield their kids from 'bad' social interaction. Basically anyone who isn't just like them. So it makes sense that they come come out of that being odd.
60% of Americans believe that the earth is flat. The rest 40% either believes it's 6000 years old or humans coexisted with dinosaurs, or both. Homeschooling is the best option to preserve American culture 😂
@@BlackSakura33 Considering the reason most parents homeschool is because they want their children to believe what they believe in, i doubt public school is the reason why people believe the earth is flat or think it’s 6k. If anything it’s homeschool parents that promote this stuff. I don’t know a public that teaches the earth is flat or it being 6k years old. Also i have idea where you got those stats from. Considering ai live in the U.S
@@BlackSakura33quit playing like you didn't just pull them numbers out your ass 😂😂😂
@@BlackSakura33American Culter like total stupidity through church?
Sounds like a solid plan.
@@BlackSakura33 And 99.746272% of statistics are made up on the spot.
My daughter is a level 9 competitive gymnast. She’s going into 11th grade. She’s been home schooled since 3rd grade because she trains 34 hours a week at the gym. My daughter is by no means “weird.” She is a straight A student who now knows 3 languages. She the most driven person whom I’ve ever known. I am extremely proud of her. Her goal is to be a collegiate gymnast and become an orthopedic surgeon.
Awesome congrats!
Course she’s straight A’s cause ur the teach 😂😢
@@user-de9uc3py4d I’m sorry your kid has no goals. I don’t force her to go to gymnastics. She LOVES gymnastics. She would train 60 hours a week if no one stopped her.
If that’s true she’s in the minority then. A vast MAJORITY of homeschooled kids are social tards with a religious background
Ok but like the video says does she still have a social life? I know that there are a lot of weird kids but my public school still gives me great friends to talk to and I can’t imagine not going there.
I was homeschooled the whole way through. I graduate with my masters this Saturday. 4.00 GPA, but it’s because I work hard😅. I loved being homeschooled. We did a co-op thing at our church where we met every Friday and did a few classes with other homeschooled kids in our grade. This was nice for harder classes like chemistry where we may not have had all the equipment at home… we had 136 homeschool kids at the church every Friday split into grades. Also I did sports at the public school so it wasn’t like I was living in a cave somewhere with no friends. I loved being homeschooled. The relationships I have with my family are amazing. I view all my siblings (I have 3) as best friends. They were also homeschooled. I also am getting married in 15 days😃. My kiddos will be homeschooled 100%. I have no regrets.
My siblings are going through this and I’m the adult sibling who knows what they are going through. I had to do my own therapy and now as an adult force myself to build interactions I wasn’t use to and I think I’m doing well. But now I see sometimes introversion isn’t always a choice or character, sometimes it’s a lack of a normal social life. My siblings just sit at home at school or on games and tablets… I hate that for them that they don’t get any extracurricular activities. Lots of parents gripe on their kids about being on the game or phone all day, but that same parent doesn’t take the initiative to get their kids out of the house.
I was homeschooled, and moved 7 times in my first 12 years, and I agree it sucks I do better in school (3 years ahead in some classes) but I’m an extrovert with the social ability of an introvert. Sometimes I don’t even know what to respond to hi with. It is very hard to make up for that lack of 8 hours a day of socializing
*initiative
@@moonlordis_theantagonist That’s the thing, this is because of COVID, but she just continued to let them learn at home and take their test at schools. I love my mom, but I believe it’s for the convenience, not because she wants to actively teach and help them herself… my brother begged her to let him go back, because learning through a computer is hard for him, but she hasn’t let him and now he’s in summer school and she doesn’t want to take accountability that yeah, he could try a little harder, but so could she to tutor him and sit with him in the ways schools traditionally do (or use to anyway…). So, they’re “homeschooled” but it’s with computers from the public school they are enrolled in. I went to school, but after I would go home and be stuck at home. I compensated by becoming a really good artist, but I really wanted to do gymnastics. My sister is now drawing and it kinda makes me sad, because I wonder if she’s compensating like I did, since they don’t go outside much.
You sound like my older siblings. As the younger ones this is exactly what we do even right now. Its like i dont know how to live anymore. This makes me cry and hate myself even more. I dont even want to blame my parents but because of our situation, they dont let us go out to often, just once a week. They are more chill but they forbid us from some things. I dont know what else to feel
The homeschoolers I knew all dropped out except for 1. Me.
So when are you visiting the edge of the earth?
Yeah, the homeschooled kids in my hometown ended up on drugs for the most part, and were homeschooled because their parents were also drug users, dealing with truency violations, or not able to control their kids enough to keep them in school.
They found out that colleges are not concerned with academics but woke propaganda.
@@meagana8218 thats not homeschooling, thats neglect.
Same with my friend group. But those that did drop out were not really homeschooled, they were just neglected by their parents. There is a difference between parents that homeschool their kids to actually teach them, and parents that "homeschool" their kids because of drugs us, neglect, or truancy.
Educating at home is fine, but if you are doing it to shelter kids from negativity in the world, they will not be prepared socially or emotionally for the real world. Getting along with strangers, handling conflict, and being emotionally strong is very important. Don't need a generation of adults that overreact to everything.
So true
Bro why os this my life rn tho
My kids are homeschooled. Everyone comments on how much more mature and resilient they are than their peers. They play sports, sing in the choir, take music lessons, and are involved in our church.
@@forlife84 your children are the exception not the norm, and that's only cos you make them do so much outside of studying
@@Stinkmeaner420 I think that was true even 5-10+ years ago, but since Covid a ton of families have chosen homeschooling. I have quite a few friends who are just like me with homeschooling. They are involved in a lot of outside activities and their kids are socially well adjusted. There's been a big shift in the last 3+ years toward homeschooling. That said, I know there are some people who still fall into this category of self-isolation, so it's not all of us, but I think you'll see a change in the typical homeschooler over the next decade.
my sister homeschooled her ten kids. They are the coolest, most well-adjusted, most capable young people I've ever met.
Ten kids?
Didn't she know about overpopulation?
@@CordeliaWagnerWe have 13. Overpopulation is a myth.
@@AS-yz2iz 13?! thats so fucked up! I can't imagine how selfish you are. Maybe 10x more selfish than other parents.
@@CordeliaWagner Stop breeding then. More room for the rest of our kids.
@@CordeliaWagnerover population is a myth. The world can fit more than 10 billion. If you think otherwise you are actually not a real person 😂
My mother homeschooled my sister and I.
She kept us isolated in the house or yard. We went to “church activities “ occasionally but that was it.
She was abusive, the way she taught made me cry almost every day.
My older sister put her foot down in 4th grade. Said she wanted to go to public school. I decided I wanted the same and also chose public school. We had to escape that house. That situation.
I consume a lot of true crime content and in sooo many of the cases where children are terribly abused and/or murdered by their parents the common theme is they were homeschooled (often pulled out of school when teachers catch on and make a report to cps). That's how so many fall through the cracks bc there's no one on the outside who sees what's going on. I think homeschoolers should have to report to cps/be subject to random audits from social workers to minimize this risk bc even though that's invasive thats the only way to ensure children aren't be horrifically abused and neglected under the guise of "home-schooling"
@@maudernart5246 Social workers are a threat to society. They destroy cultures and traditions, and impose their own attitudes and preferences on their victims. You can be perfect, and if they don't like your lifestyle choices, even when you're completely within your rights, with the swipe of a pen, an a "We're here to help," they can, and will destroy your life. And they don't intend to hurt anyone. They really believe their sh*t.
When I was 11, we were abducted, and mom was tried. Every knee bump and scratch we'd ever had was, "evidence of abuse." My word was gospel if it was against mom, but, "she was obviously told to say that," if I spoke in her defense. The teacher and doctor who said we were perfect were ignored. Experts spoke on my behalf, defying my will. When they found nothing, they falsified evidence, and ordered her to have her sanity assessed.
Our crime? Living in bush Alaska without a dad (he died of cancer years prior). The social worker who found us was some suburban idiot from Florida. "Well, I can't live here, so there's no way you can." This happened to a lot of people in the region.
We managed to stay together, but ended up homeless in the lower 48. Thrown from a pristine wilderness to a place where it's not recommended to drink the water. They've done this to so many, all over the country. We were the last frontier.
@@maudernart5246 In Australia each state functions differently, but they all have monitoring programs.
I've heard that there are similar programs in some U.S. states.
Thats not because of homeschooling, that's just CRUEL 😢 Im so sorry you had to go through that... praying for you 🙏 ❤
Spoken like a true communist.
Ben, stop it! Remove the wig.
😭
LMAO for real
I thought this was a deepfake of him 💀
😂
Trans ben? Oh the irony
Just remember there are plenty of weird kids in public schools too
Alot of homeschoolers aren't socialized properly though. Even a weird kid at school will know how to interact with people on a very basic level atleast. Some homeschooled kids have literally spoken to noone other than family.
@@thebenevolentsun6575right
Homeschoolers are also severley socially stunted
not really if you do other social activities your fine. i’m just glad i’m not in a public school surrounded by a bunch of drug addicts. and i’m top 25% in my state
I’ve found that it is a combination of the parents and the personality that kid was born with. I have 4 kids who I homeschooled and 3 are super outgoing while one was born very introverted. While extracurriculars are important they will never turn an introvert into an extrovert. When my oldest switched to the public high school from homeschooling she blended right in and no one could tell unless she told them. It’s all about the personality.
On that same note there are a lot of kids in the school system who are introverted, shy, and behave oddly. Likely they would have been like that if they’d been homeschooled too but they weren’t. It’s not the place of schooling that is causing that “weird” he’s talking about.
To her point though, it is healthy for everyone, including introverts, to get out there and be around others. There are lots of ways to do that outside of the school system, like extra curriculars, neighborhood friends, coops, field trips, city/neighborhood events, taking kids on your errands, etc.
being an innie or outie does not generally reflect their ability to socialize. Rather its a meter for the amount of energy and happyness these activities bring you
I feel like when people say that some homeschooled kids are “weird” what they really mean is “unsocialized”. Sometimes homeschooled kids have trouble reading social cues, finding and making appropriate friends, cooperating with their peers, etc. You can be the weird kid in school but still learn to get along with your peers well enough to do school projects, have a friend group you can count on, etc.
@paulb4334 introvert it literally defined as shyness. And being silent
Good luck to the Christian homeschooled kids who were taught that Jesus invented the dinosaurs and they was friends with Adam and Eve.
Mom?
Very true, my anxiety was so bad to the point I developed Anxiety induced Acid reflux, so I ended up changing to an online school, and while that was the best thing that could have happened to me bc I graduated a early, I was insanely anti social and anxious, but then I started working which forced me to talk to people and now I’m not that shy and never nervous, you need to do some sort of activity where you’re forced to be social
I was horribly shy and I went to public school for the entirety of my school years.
@@lindaoros694 Respect
@@AntagonistVR ? I said I had anxiety from public school... how is that disrespectful?
@@lindaoros694 what? I said respect, I never said you were being disrespectful…..
The important thing as a parent is you're teaching and raising children to become adults. Teach them to be problem solvers, risk takers and have empathy for themselves and others.
All I hear when she talks is
“Beep boop, boop beep, assimilate, assimilate”
I went to private school and it was whatever definitely not worth the money in hindsight but I only met maybe two people that were homeschooled and that was by sheer coincidence in my neighborhood at the time and they were very awkward. They couldn’t make eye contact and actively avoided it. If anything I’m thankful I was such an extroverted child because that’s what has benefited me in my adult years is being able to communicate with anyone without it being awkward.
This was my experience being homeschooled. Even today as a 35 year old woman with kids of her own, making eye contact is extremely difficult for me to do.
There are other challenges too but its very easy to spot a homeschooled person because you get an immediate sense somone is "off" and that they might have been homeschooled just by observing their behavior.
My kids are in public school and I wouldnt have it any other way.
Lucky
Finally! Another person who says private school is NOT worth the money!!!!!
@@nicholeweltanschauung8245 it’s entirely dependent on the parents that’s just my only reference to meeting someone who was homeschooled.
@@nicholeweltanschauung8245 it’s sad you had that experience… most homeschoolers are not like this and blend into the crowd so well no one knows they were homeschooled. I’m sure there are plenty of exceptions but these are likely the kids parents didn’t do social events and activities with, or who are neurodivergent and would struggle with these same social skills in a public school environment as well. I knew several kids in public school who were “awkward” socially. There are a lot of factors that go into whether a kid is socially adept and location of schooling is just not one of them.
As a homeschooler for most of my life i gotta agree, its so very important to implement some kind of extracurricular activity where they are interacting with other kids and people. My mom always made sure i was doing something i enjoyed outside of the house with other people. Its super important. Homeschoolers (at least the ones i met) have always been super chill, and its funny, we can always spot each other from a mile away haha! Homeschooling is the way to go
You don't need homeschooling to do all that. How many friends did you have entering university? You missed out, plain and simple. Good on you for trying to cope with it though
@@bigredracecar27 what are you talking about?
@@bigredracecar27 High school friends are barely permanent or staple markers for a good university experience. High school companions typically drift and form new connections in university and repeat this again after graduating, it’s common.
What are you talking about! I was bullied through high school, horribly. I changed schools because I almost failed out because I was an emotional wreck at school. I knew every trip down the hallway meant some girl laughing at me or aggressively name calling and acting as if they were going to harm me. Had I been at home, I would have thrived. I could have had the ten kids on my block to socialize with. The church I attended, the AAU teams that I played on. All without making the petty relationships that come along with public school and all of the wasted time there.
@@bigredracecar27and you dont need public school to make meaningful social connections either 😂. What a bubble mentality to have! If anything, I think any public schooler can safely say that at least 90% of the people they met in highschool they either didnt like, were harrassed/bullied by, or they simply lost the connection after school anyway. You cant honestly tell me that you became friends with everyone you met in public school, or even liked them. Only about 10% of the people they meet they actually become real friends with. So why exactly should kids waste their time with that? Also you act like homeschooling is done in the basement. I know the media only likes to cover the weird stories, but most homeschoolers tend to go to more volunteer and extracurricular activities outside of school since they have the time for it. It really depends on the parents. But the same goes for public school. If you just go to public classes but still dont do anything with your time outside of school, youre still gonna end up a weirdo.
Its so ironic to see yet another form of brainwashing that public school kids have gone through on this forum. You all seem to think you are the best educated and well rounded individuals. All you need to do is hop on tiktok to see what public school has done to this generation, and google the trend in college graduation and stem major statistics for public vs. Homeschool to see the fallacy. I hope you enjoy continuing to live in your bubble
My biggest concerns with schooling in general is that they literally test the heck out of everyone when those tests aren’t warranted nor they need it. Because everyone does not learn the exact same way.
I bet a dollar most kids that get homeschooling and end up in ivy league colleges had rich parents.
Cope
No.. they just don’t have all the bs that comes along with public school. The meet the minimum requirements for state/federal testing and then they’re taught useful lessons about the world and how to exist in it. Rather than mathematics and science that they will never use in their life. School wastes so much time and teach almost nothing useful. For example, taxes and money management. Two guaranteed things that could change your life.. don’t even touch on it in public school.
No not even most.
It’s about the amount of calories you’re willing to put into your kids. My parents were not rich. They do understand the sacrifices needed to ensure we succeed.
I remember the fond days of having group studies with our parents and neighbors to solve problems. It’s all about putting in the work early so your offsprings can move up and prosper. Remember that when you have a family/kids, the priority is always going to be your kids, not you.
@exellion82 exactly not to mention every penny you get can go to your kids and not even be wasted. Kids are as expensive as you can make them.
I was home schooled for highschool and I had no problem socializing. Junior and senior year I was taking community college classes. I was in gymnastics, church youth group, I was in a community band with other people of the community. As long as you're making sure that your kids are socializing and doing other things outside of home you can turn out perfectly fine as a homeschooler. In my community there's a charter homeschool and they have all kinds of classes for the kids to go to multiple days during the week.
But you have that experience from a younger age to be socialized. Just homeschooling high school can be a good thing, but the whole child’s life?! They get crippled socially permanently.
@@thectrqueenmedina92 I know some kids that were homeschooled their whole life, up until college. I think the difference was that their mom was intentional about making sure they were in different community sports, they were part of orchestras, they did girl scouts. One is now a nurse and the other going to PT school. The ones that sequester their kids at home and give them nothing...that's where there is the problem.
@@thectrqueenmedina92 I have been homeschooled since kindergarten, and have no issues with my social skills. Most homeschoolers I know interact better socially than public schoolers.
@@thectrqueenmedina92No, they don't. 😂 Our kids have always been homeschooled. They are also among the most popular on their sports teams, 4h, music and dance classes.
Good for you then, not everybody has the same experiences
Agree, all about parenting. Even tho I go to a public school my parents are too strict they would never let me go anywhere before and after school alone or w friends. For them it's all about me being glued to them. By the end of high school I realized that I got no freedom and would never get to know how it feels to go out with friends that I eventually became socially awkward but also decently bad in academics
My parents weren't very strict about me going places with friends but I didn't really have any friends so I felt like there was no point in going out unless it was somewhere like the grocery store with my mom. I didn't feel like I didn't have the freedom to go anywhere but I didn't want to go alone so I would just stay at home doing whatever it was that kept me busy
You being socially awkward has nothing to do with how many times you went out with friends. This argument.ent is such bitch kind of argument which unfortunately is told by all these bafoons from Ben Shapiro to Dr JP who I respect very much and even Brett now. In a world so unsocial your primary concern should never be socialization. You being socially awkward is not due to you not going out with friends alone it's who you are and tbh there is no shame in that I too don't like going out and break my routine and schedule just to be with friends. It's alright don't think about these kinda bitch thoughts too much. Loneliness is a gift cherish it , it gives you an opportunity to learn yourself better which almost everyone lacks nowadays.
Bro at the back was just looking right into her eyes and just nodding. Don't blame him, she's amazing.
Not really
I'm glad my parents never home-schooled me because the amount of friends and beautiful memories I wont have if I'm studying at home. I still excel in college anyways.
Not homeschooled but I do online school and I actually put myself in that because school for me is just so toxic you have to come in with strong values in order to not turn out a mess
I am homeschooled and I am perfectly fine lol Actually being homeschooled gave me the time to also focus on the things that interested me. For example I started learning languages, something that I didn't want to do back when I was in school bc it ATE my time and energy lol It also made me alot more responsible and organized! But it is important to let your child socialise bc I started being homeschooled first year of highschool right when the pandemic started so I couldn't go anywhere(and I had no friends lol) and ended up feeling pretty depressed after 2 1/2 yrs, so right after covid, I signed up in social activities and now I'm doing really well!
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So have you visited the edge yet? Or the moon landing shooting sites? Ooh you must have visited the big rock trees??😂
You had NO FRIENDS???? That sounds fkn Miserable, no wonder since you make homeschooling your entire personality 😂😂😂😂 No thank You
@@BlackSakura33 As the president of Flat Earth Flatiety, I can confirm that I_Alie has been to each edge all around the globe! She is now currently vice-president!
@@BlackSakura33 bro you sound incredibly uneducated with all these comments you're leaving
I was used to doing everything with my siblings, so going to college was hard for me, and I definitely ended up on my own at first. I learned to make friends with the other quiet people in the corners, the ones who didn’t clique up with their high school or major group, and ended up finding a lot of good friends. My experience as an outsider equipped me to help others, like the disabled and international students. But I know other kids who burned out, and even my own siblings have had different college experiences. Parents are important, environments are important, but personality is also super important. You gotta be willing to put yourself out there and take chances. A lot of former homeschoolers I know don’t bother trying.
Damn, imagine being in a situation where you had parents home to teach you who were not out working
I go to public school and unfortunately my social skills are still almost non existent.
My siblings and i were all homeschooled and my older brother just graduated College.
Strangers were always concerned about our social life. For some reason they thought we never left the house😂
But what made me laugh the most is that those same adults who were worried about our social lives didn't have a social life thenselves🤣
Also even though we had a social life people still saw us as weird. Because we were more frinedly and could also talk to adults and have an intelligent conversation.
Publicschoolers saw us as weird no matter what. Our way of thinking is so different to theirs.
But you know what? We thought publicschoolers were the weird ones😂
Black people
The things homeschooling is only good if you have educated parents of which one parent at least has to stay home for a full school day, which in this economy gets less and less possible. Also if american public school would be better homeschooling would be a lot less viable or useful, there is a lot more to consider when you talk about simple outcome.
I was raised by a single working mom, I finished my bachelor and I went to school in Germany where the schools score way higher then in the US, I would have never been able to go to college if not for the german school system.
I agree, but also.. *intelligent
I absolutely one hundred percent agree with you. Homeschool kids are usually homeschooled because their parents are usually Christian and don't want their kids to be influenced by the evil that the public schools offer.
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It's all about the curriculum that they teach, LGBT and pro trans agenda. Public schools are literally good for nothing other than teaching kids to stand or sit in one place for a long of time. They are literally creating factory workers and that is the whole purpose behind the way public schools are set up.
given how both kids turned out i hope no one gets home schooled
Great analysis by Graham, “they were always kind of weird” top tier analysis
I have three grown children, 28, 34 and 36, all were homeschooled and loved it. They weren’t socially awkward and are successful in their lives. I’d say that’s a success!
As a homeschooled kid, I can’t express how important it is to have friends. I and all of my siblings have been homeschooled our whole lives. My mom has ALWAYS made sure that we can get out of the house and have friends, be it through church, homeschool co-ops, neighborhood kids, and extracurriculars (my brother has been swimming since he was 5, my sister has done gymnastics since she was I think also 5, and I, swimmer brother, and my littlest sister recently picked up theater). She always encourages us to do SOMETHING and socialize and engage in society, to understand how people work, think, and think about the other ideas in life. That’s something I think you learn from being around people usually. If I didn’t know what I’ve learned from her socially and if she didn’t push me to get out of my comfort zone and actually talk to people, I would be REALLY weird. I’m not saying that I’m not a strange person already-I quite enjoy Minecraft youtubers and that’s generally a strange thing-but I’d be weirder than just that lol
Everyone is “weird” when it comes down to it. It sounds like your mom is balanced and you are a intelligent and outgoing person and a great example of healthy homeschooling
I went to traditional in person school up until like middle school when I started doing child acting stuff & I started an online homeschooling program honestly it was the best decision for me. I was struggling a lot in tradional school my grades were bad I didn’t understand anything I was always distracted by other kids in class. But when I did the online “homeschooling “ everything clicked for me when it came to my education my grades were good I was able to learn time management if I wanted to finish my whole week of school in a few days I could do that so the rest of the week I could do child acting or hangout w: friends or basically do whatever I wanted to. I still had a lot of outside activities did sports, spent time w/ friends etc.. for me personally I loved online “homeschooling “ plus my Guardian at the time was working full time as a single mom so “ traditional homeschooling “wasn’t an option but w: online homeschooling it was possible
What online homeschooling program did you do that you liked? I’m looking for one for my 11 year old who wants to do online school
When miss brett says extra curriculars there's a scene of her sword fencing.
I think homeschooling is good as long as the parents 1. Put in a lot of effort to make sure their child learns properly, 2. Don’t belittle or condemn their child for developing contrary values (like different political views not stuff like racism), and 3. Make sure their child has access to extracurricular activities that gives them time to socialize with other children outside of the house. If those three things are followed, I don’t really doubt that a homeschooled kid could exceed in college. And like Brett said, there’s a higher chance of them doing well academically AND choosing to not participate in unsafe habits
Thats not exactly the way it is tho.
The reason they do "better and dont party" is because they have no social skills. Then add the general education holes associated with homeschooling, and its basically obvious that its not a smart way. Although, to be fair, americas education system is such a joke, not surprised more and more opt for it.
"teachers push political agendas"... say more on that. It's not uncommon for schools to have adopted empathy training and teach children respect and tolerance over the years, but now this is being called "CRT". What do you want? Do you want children to learn to be kind, respectful adults? Or do you want them to just learn facts and figures and be assholes like we're seeing today as conservatives strip away the social skills and interpersonal skills building parts of education because they don't like that children are being taught tolerance for all people.
@@Cheffe919 why is someone who chooses to not party deemed to have no social skills? Are people who like to go to parties the only ones who have social skills? What if someone doesn’t like to party but they participate in school organizations at their college? Are they considered to not have social skills still because they don’t do parties? That’s the point I’m trying to get at. I apologize for not explaining properly
@@pennyroll teaching students that it’s ok for another student to have two moms, two dads, or living with another family member/foster family is fine. What’s NOT ok is teachers trying to teach complex information to children. And by complex information, I am specifically talking about sexuality. I don’t believe in the whole “there’s more than two genders” bullshit so the only real issue is sexuality. Sexuality is a complex issue that I believe shouldn’t be taught by teachers but rather the parents of a child. Counselors and health teachers at school can offer students information about the different sexualities in the case that the student is curious or is in a conflicting household situation, but that stuff should primarily be left to the parents. Let the parents teach their kids why they have two uncles instead of an uncle and aunt, let the parents teach their kids why they have two moms instead of a mom and dad, let them teach their kids why Uncle Tom was dating a woman last year but is now dating a man this year. This information is delicate to a child’s mind and I honestly don’t have a lot of trust in teachers nowadays to explain this kind of stuff without somehow having their own political opinion mixed in
American flat earthers homeschooling their kids 😂😂😂
I home schooled myself for several years when my parents took me to live in Western Samoa. When I returned to the Australian education system I skipped two grades and was like an adult compared to the other teenagers. I knew nothing about popular culture or celebrity culture and couldn’t relate to anything they were interested in. I didn’t mind. And neither my brother or I have ever assimilated properly back into main stream western culture. We were taken out of the “system” so we were/are able to see the system for what it really is.
Some people would call that weird...i think its fricken awesome!
@@amomto4 thank you :-) Back in the 80’s and 90’s when my parents were taking my brother and I all around the world to live, many of our friends and family were critical of their decisions and warned my parents about the “dangers” of withdrawing us kids from school and our social circles. My parents were very brave to ignore the fear mongering! It changed my whole life and I will thank them for it til the day I die.
Ok but popular culture is just as important as anything else
@@nromk you think Cardi B is as important as Bach?
@911Kult yes, especially because Cardi B is what most people will talk about, I'm not about to compare her to Bach, but she and other pop singers are the Bachs of our generation for simply being famous. During his time people thought that Bach was trash. The only reason Bach is important is because he passed the test of time. And there are intersections for example Lizzio is constantly making call backs to all these classical musicians. Pop culture is what's going on now. It's a place where we discuss or hopes, fears, and assiperations and political climate.
During the Corona I wasn't allowed back to school by my parents for over 2 years, I was miserable as I was not even given work to do, or anything extra curricular. I developed extreme social anxiety, and depression. So I 100% agree with you.
I was homeschooled throughout high school and it was great in every way except for the social isolation. If you have a reliable way to hang out with friends its great but otherwise it can be lonely.
From experience of a homeschooler, it is more difficult to be around public school kids cause there all out going (or hooked to their vape and pot). I’m thankful that we weren’t public schooled. Now… on Wednesday and Thursday we would go to a “homeschool group Co-op” and they had the things that parents didn’t want to teach like Math, Science, English EXC. but they also had some other things, they had musical theater classes and choir, art classes. It was like a public school but cause we were all mostly homeschooled… we weren’t all “bad kids” (not the kids that people see when they see public school kids.) we were respectful and overall good kids
As a recently graduated homeschooler I can say from what I’ve seen over my 12 years of schooling is that we’re far more behaved in a group setting. If there was ever a situation where I was at church in a large group setting, the adults never had to worry about us. While they were yelling at the top of their lungs trying to get these kids to listen to them, we’d be sitting in a chair waiting for everyone to shut up and listen.
Also guys…. If you feel that my comment is attacking you, go somewhere else. I’m simply stating that I was much more behaved than all my public schooled friends. I’ve had multiple replies saying that “that’s no a brag” and the proceeding to say that “I was behaved and life kicked me in the balls” that doesn’t mean everyone will end up like that. So please, take upset comments somewhere else.
U were in church, that's the first mistake. Smart people don't go to church. You were indoctrinated by your parents, you weren't well behaved, you just lost your mind...
That isn't the flex you think it is. I was that kid. My mom had us trained like that and adulthood slapped us like a shit ton of bricks. There isn't anyone to tell you what to do when your 30. And not a single soul cares that you were the first one to stop talking in a room full of adults. I didn't stop getting taken advantage of for naivete until I was a little past 30. I realized nobody cared I was well behaved, and they used the fact that I would comply and do the right thing to make me come up last.
This isn’t a brag. That’s the problem with homeschooling. People think children being silent and chill is a sign of good behavior. Why do children need to be obedient to be deemed as respectful and good? Children should be treated as equals. Children should not be sitting still and in silence. Children being quiet and still is just as bad as children being loud and out of control.
To the comments under this post:
I don’t think it’s so much about being “well behaved” as it is about being respectful. If you are only ever quiet, or don’t know how to stand up for yourself, then that IS an issue. However, it is necessary to learn how to listen, be polite, have self-control, and to be a respectful to other individual. As a homeschooled student who was more on the quiet side, I was quiet because I wanted to learn, and I couldn’t do that while my peers were being distracting and downright rude. I also value other people’s opinions, thoughts, and emotions, but that requires me to be quiet and listen. Sometime input is better than output.
It’s ultimately about situational awareness though, which can come in many forms. Both sides of the coin have benefits, but I think it is also good to be able to use your voice and actions accordingly.
@@mandrake7971 they said a group setting. Not a classroom. I'm 35. Wait for the drop kick life has in store for this kid. I thought I was mature because I was quiet and well behaved. By the time 25 came around I was the least mature of my friends because I had to deal with growing pains when I was full grow (which takes way longer, is super frustrating, is embarrassing, and hurts way more). You're supposed to find your voice, and find out were boundaries are when you're a kid. And unfortunately for the public at large, that means kids have to cross them sometimes. But, you remember you were a kid once and let it go.
They’re weird sometimes, but usually in a „good“ way. ❤
This is exactly right. It's all about interactions outside of your home. I grew up homeschooled since I was six, and my parents put me in martial arts at ten, which made a dramatic difference on how my social skills were (for the better, of course.) So my advice to parents who are choosing to homeschool your kids: if you can afford it, put them in an activity where they'll make friends and interact with others. It makes a HUGE difference.
I would not call this generation of children in public school properly socialized at all. I started college in my mid-20s and the people just coming in from HS to a couple years out were extremely weird imo. They all wanted to tell you their life story and what trauma and mental problems they had, as if any of that was remotely appropriate converstaion with a stranger. No boundaries, no privacy, and no concept of appropriate conversation or how to speak to their peers or other adults. Also no work ethic, which gave me a tremendous advantage upon graduation.
It definitely comes down to the parents. My best friend is a homeschooled family and they are the weirdest kids I’ve ever seen. Their parents don’t let them do anything and they never leave their house. I went to the pool with them though, but they were still weird. My best friend is around her parents so much that she has morphed into them. She has lost all motivation for college at this point.
Parents give the grades😂😂
Graham said that like he aint a dork😂 love u tho
Homeschooled kids smell their own farts 9/10 times
Tf was this about😅
Well to be fair, our farts do smell much better than public school farts.
Now days, there are many more resources for home schoolers not only for the parents to teach them, but for them to socialize, such as groups and outings. My daughter is homeshooled and she gets all of her work done very quickly so she and my wife can go to museums and groups. She's 6 and studying on a second grade level, I dont think she would have been able to do that if my wife and I weren't involved in her work and pushing her. I look at public schooling (which is what I went to unfortunately) as the bottom tier of learning compared to the resources that are available now.
For people who can afford to have 50% of the potential income taken away, sure. Very good for the kid.
But what about the 90-ish% of kids her age that don't have that luxury ? Is society going to keep relying on low budget academic means ? People who can afford to homeschool their kids have always done it, you guys reinvent the wheel like it's going to change anything.
Reform. Public. School. Stop. Avoiding. The. Issue. Please.
Just took my end of the year test and I'm in the 99th percentile in math and 88th percentil in English(but I've always struggled with that, so it's no shock i did poorly). I've been homeschooled all my life and I'm much different than most of my friends. I grew up only being around adults, so you can imagine that I developed better communication skills at a younger age and spoke more mature than most kids. I was primarily around my dad, and I've been told that I act exactly like him(very talkative, great sense of humor, total genius... you get the point), and I couldn't be happier with how I turned out because he taught me not to follow stupid trends and to stick with what works best and what I enjoy.
The Home schooled kids ive met are usually socially awkward lol
I homeschool my kids and they have a ton of friends even friends from public school but I make sure every week they are not overly sheltered. A lot of people are home schooling these days so it’s super easy to join groups etc. My kids love being homeschooled they get so much more freedom and they learn a lot as well. Wouldn’t have it any other way.
I was homeschooled, and while there were some big holes in my education and socialization, I learned how to think, be independent, and think for myself. I had a 3.95 gpa through my associates, and I'm preparing to start my bachelor's in computer science. I largely got past the social awkwardness eventually, but being able to reason will serve me for the rest of my life.
I intend to homeschool when I have kids, and just plug those holes that I had.
@Human1ty382 It could be my ignorance of the school system through high school, but my impression is that it tends to be a mill. And, that it doesn't really afford much in the way of making independent thinkers. You are correct in that my "street reason - perhaps "socialization" covers it - could have been better. I just think that I've been able to learn those things, whereas it might be harder to learn a way of thinking.
My nephew is 10 years old he went to pre-school for 1 day and never went back because a little girl didn't want to play with him -_- I have very strong opinions and judge my nephews parents heavily on this situation becuase he has verbalized that he has "social anxiety" during a family party and I just was speechless becuase this is an idea he gets from his mother who is behind all these decisions... he has no social skills becuase he has literally no actual friends and never goes out. He spends his time at home with his mom while Dad goes to work... at this family party he did make 1 friend and played with him with, it was great and he was happy about it too!to be clear yes I agree he may feel a bit nervous to socializd becuase he has no social skills and that's very different from having social anxiety.
The best insult is asking someone if they are homeschooled lol
Really. Around her it's a compliment.
She’s exactly right. We homeschool our kids and have worked really hard to make sure our kids get out of the house for activities, lessons, see friends regularly, work outside the home, etc. There is a stark difference with their peers that don’t do the same. The more sheltered kids are socially awkward.
It’s all about the parents period. Doesn’t matter if you homeschool or not. Parents need to be involved in and out of school. Has nothing to do with homeschooling vs public or private school. If the parents don’t give a crap, it won’t matter.
So glad I was homeschooled. 2023 graduate and can’t wait to see what life holds. And best of all, I don’t have any kids, not addicted to alcohol and drugs, and have plenty of money saved up.
Explains so much that she's homeschooled😂
Lots of homeschoolers never go to college, and homeschoolers lack socialization. I homeschooled, I know this for fact!
The plural of anecdote isn't data.
Don't make such trivial aspect of life like socialization such a big deal. It's the least important factor of anyone's life in today's unsocial cutthroat world.
I was a teacher and you could spot a homeschooled kid from a mile away because they were ten years more mature than their peers
You’ve never taught a day in your life then, I can spot a home schooled kid from a mile away because they have no idea how to interact with their peers and they’re 2-3 grade levels behind in math.
@@JohnSiebels as a online schooled kid i highly disagree. you have no idea what your talking about. your probably from california where everyone even the home schooled kids are idiots. i am a sophomore in high school and have a 4.0 gpa and i ranked top 25% in my state. i’m able to have intelligent conversations and not sound like a stoner.
@@JohnSiebels As a homeschooler who is two years ahead in math (and can name multiple other people who are even further ahead in math than myself), that is a massive generalization.
@@everyhandleiwantedwastaken first off I seriously doubt you’re two years ahead in math or know anyone who is further ahead than that. Secondly that’s not a flex. If your only education is one on one you should be doing well. The issue with home schooling is that the vast majority of home schooled students struggle to read at an elementary school level when they’re “in high school”.
@@everyhandleiwantedwastaken especially the home schoolers who are in it for religious reasons and are at a kindergarten level across the board when they “graduate from high school”.
Growing up in a small town many of us were homeschooled simply because it was easier. Tons of the homeschooled kids went on to be super successful
Plenty of weird kids in public school too
Bro I was homeschooled and I partied my ass off
No more parents breathing down my neck I could just be me without feeling like I was prison. But that's just my story
Because your relationship with your parents sucked. That’s why.
I also think people think homeschoolers are "weird" because they don't want to participate in childish things or partying and drugs and drinking. Their maturity is on different levels, so both sides think the other side is weird 🤷🏻♀️🤣
As she said, I think the key to homeschooling is you are also responsible for their social upbringing. You need to make sure they have ample opportunity to build those social skills and friendships.
As a homeschooler, this is spot on.
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@藍猫 thank you!!😍
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My wife has 4 nieces and nephews that are home schooled. The parents keep them active within the church and also with other regular kids. They play various sports, music, and even the 2 girls ride horses. They are way ahead of me when I was that age. They can have intelligent conversations. They know about what's going on in our culture and they even laugh at the idea of how many genders liberals think there are. Don't feel pressure from others. If you want home school do it. You need to take care of your kids because public schools will screw them up
i love the clip of brett fencing from that movie she did when she talks about extracurriculars 😂😂
I was never a homechooler and ive never drank, smoked, partied, used drugs, been promiscuous, etc. I had the best parents, dad was a pastor, and i went to public schools, have engineering degrees. It starts at the home❤
All the homeschooled kids I met were never ever weird. That’s an insult. They were always cultured, dynamic, and very good at their hobbies / talents.
All the ones I knew were weird 😂
It's not an insult. Can we please stop stoking outrage?
So your anecdotal experience was different to someone else's anecdotal experience and you're upset by that 😐
Then you didnt meet homeschooled kids. Its literally proven that homeschooling is not good for a childs social development.
I wouldn’t say homeschooled kids I knew were weird, but most I knew were not super well socialized. That has more to do with the parents though. There are a lot of parents who home school their kids for the wrong reasons, and want to control their life.
She was homeschooled....it all makes sense now
Have you not seen the goblins coming out of public school? Lol.
So far homeschooling is going great. Both of my kids in home schooling have skipped grades and are advancing really well. We go to museums, include sports and other social events. Really fun taking your kids somewhere and there is no one else. You get a full museum to yourself on a Wednesday morning. The kids go crazy!
Amen...
Hi I'm luci and I'm here to take your soul ❤
This is why public school pump out quality student
I don't think I've ever encountered a homegrown human before.
this lady is proof that homeschooled kids are weird
What did she do that’s weird
You’re proof public schooled kids lack real logic.
@@aleenakhan6230I guess Jake thinks it’s weird to be a well-balanced high achiever.
She's kit weird! 😂
Weird compared to all the woman these days selling naked pics online 😂
The problem is that not all parents are equipped to homeschool.
Even if they are, most parents just don’t have time or don’t care. My mother is a home school teacher and an overwhelming amount of her students’ parents don’t help their kids or make sure they finish their assignments, even if it’s just five minutes to do so.
I went to public school and was still weird. That’s just inevitable sometimes 😂
I was homeschooled through third grade and went to public school for three years. Im now at a collage model school which is half in a class room and half at home. I think its the best thing that could have ever been done for me. Im in a sport, worship group, and a few other extra-curriculars. And i can honestly say that doing what im doing now is perfect becasue i still get lots of social interaction and have lots of friends but also have days where i can come home and relax.(mostly because i have a habbit of doing all of my school in an hour or two). When i transfered over in 7th grade i legit didnt know how to write a decent paragraph. Thanks public school. definitely thank my parents for making such a big sacrfice to give me and my siblings the best education possible.
I’ve never seen someone who hasn’t had children yet push the homeschool agenda so hard
That's why church and youth groups are great. Tons of good social interaction.
Right, because getting a diffrent point of view is always bad, lmao. No wondsr americans are living in a echo chamber.
@@Cheffe919Did you reply to the wrong comment? How is enjoying church and youth groups being in an echo chamber?
@@weaponx623 you'll understand once you're older, used to think the same way
@@Cheffe919 You have no idea what my comprehension level is. Explain what you mean and maybe just maybe I'll understand. Age is not a sign of intelligence and understanding ability.
That’s why my mom wants me to do in person school before I choose online
Deployed with a hoke schooled kid, dudes soul was just A++++
I’m homeschooled but I also go to a co-op, so I have friends there, and I do ballet too. But I also get to spend time with my family, and I love that.
Thank you for advocating for home school. It's the ONLY safe option these days.
Certainly not the only safe option. I don’t have kids yet, but when I do they are definitely not going to a state funded public school. Hopefully I will be in a position to send them to a private school, where I can be slightly more involved and have an easier time vetting. I went to a private school that was great, and it wasn’t one of the pretentious ones either.
@@simba4845 remember the transgender person who shot up the Christian private school recently? Private school is a much better option, but still isn't the same as having your kids in an environment you manage. I have 3 kids. 1 on the way. My eldest is school age. I home school all of them. 😉
@@Ms.Calculation actually I never heard that story, what should I search on Google to find it? I feel that homeschooling is perfectly fine and good for children when it’s done correctly. But a lot of parents I’ve met that homeschool their kids don’t do a great job socializing them, and often want to indoctrinate them with their own ideas. Many public schools do the same thing, but I hope to raise children that can think for themselves and make their own wise decisions. I hope yours are doing great though!
Lol what shes saying the opposite though. Kid needs to be around other kids
@@yoleeisbored in your opinion, what is more important? Socializing them in a school environment or keeping them away from all of the dangers that go along with public school? Socialization can be done anywhere at any time at all. School yards aren't the only option.
Post COVID, homeschoolers and public schoolers are now at the same social development level😅
Even in public school i dont drink or do drugs just depends on your parents/ who you hangout with
Brett Cooper might be the worst ad for homeschooling
....successful, articulate, self possessed...how is this a bad thing...?
@@cristiewentz8586 Boring, Unelequent, borderline hateful, WAY to sensitive, Brags about not partying, an overall nerd
@@cristiewentz8586 considering how bigoted and small minding, it’s almost like they haven’t experienced life and that is what you are stripping of your children when you homeschool them.
@@ryle2814 Successful, maybe
Why? She's well spoken, outgoing, knowledgeable, brave, etc Some students at Ivy League schools can barely connect two sentences.
This explains so much why she acts like my old ass dad lol
I dont know. This one kid who got transferred to public was caught clapping his home schooled teachers cheeks. 😂😂😂😂 thats very social to me.
I had two situations growing up where I was around a lot of home school kids. The first was at my church. The kids were "home schooled" however they did all their education at the church. The parents wanted to keep them from public school influence but couldn't afford either of the catholic private schools in my area. Though these kids interacted with other children, they had such strict rules and were so uptight that me, a public school kid, had a hard time interacting with them. I didn't fall into the drugs, alcohol, or party group in high school and I was a relatively good kid, but because of how their schooling was structured and how they were to spend their days, it became very hostile for any of the public school kids at my church to be friends with them.
On the other hand, I was in ballet for a few years and everyone but me and one other girl was home schooled. These girls were amazing. The kindest, smartest, most social and well manored kids I've ever met. They didn't push me aside because we weren't educated the same and they treated me like a genuine friend. Those girls were the best and I still keep in contact with some.