True story, she's working for us now, , taking care of my parents though myy dad passed on on July, she's still at my place now with the that kid, , she rented a single room near home as she works
This lady is very hardworking but she is misusing herself with that good for nothing man😢she could left that home long time ago😢God will pay her dearly ❤
No no usi mrudie otherwise wa mucoka niguo uriaga mundu. As far as ako na huyo other woman usi rudi. Olewa na mtu mwingine otherwise maandiko ime ku ruhusu. You can still get a loving, caring and responsible husband. .
Mama move on kaa maisha yako naata ukitoka kwake usiwai jarimbu kukumbali akukalibie juu ako mupaka nawifu juu yako anawenza mupaka kukufanyia kitu mbaya
After listening to this story half-way, am actually very upset 😡 kwa nn huyu mama anakubali ku deal na shetani nkt,, mtu anakuletea wanawake life life, na unampea pesa , na kumbuyia simu, na kumtoa kwa jela, na still he doesn't respect you, huyu mama ni mjinga sana, si ajikalishe kama single mothers wengine, aende saudi alee watoto, that husband can never change, huyu mwanaume akikufa huyu mama hawezi survive??, jipende mama, na upende watoto wako, move on, single mothers wanaishi maisha poa bila stress .
This lady is too naive and her naivety has led her to all these problems. You have given her good advice. Ingekua mimi ningemwacha aozee jela. Mimi siwezi penda mtu kuliko vile najipenda.
It is unfortunate that victims ate victimized even more by outsiders.I believe nobody has ever visited her with a shoulder to lean on,a listening ear to know why she foes not run away without judging and be reafy to help her settle in the world you are telling her to go.Never ask a victim of DV why thry don't move away and yet you don't ask the perpetrators anything or even sue them?Ehy can't the perpretrators stop.Many hide character under narcissism but are different.An abuser is an abuser.
When u leave this man your star will shine but if you hold on to him you will forever know no peace...saa iingine mungu hufanya tuteseke tuweze kutoka aende atubarikie mbali,toka huko mungu akakubariki
@Rosemary sio samani ni Siku hizi . Ati msichana akitembea kwa boyfriend and she doesn’t go back home she’s now married. In our times it wasn’t like this. The mother to ur boyfriend would have told u to go home and bring ur parents so both parties could discuss what is happening. Even nowadays these girls have no self respect and don’t care at all.It’s a very disinfactional society such that the marriage bed has been taken for granted and defiled. God Pse have mercy….
But saa zingine ni vizuri kujipenda, mbona ukae place hauna amani ukifanyiwa izo vituko zote just ondokea na mungu akupe nguvu n akuponye ..hau hatire kihiko
This is a hard-to-listen-to story. Why would one chose to to live n slave for such a soulless beast? Mami jipende kwanza. Huyu mtu realised you have placed no value on yourself. That's why he treats you worse than trash.
The family of that so called husband knows what is eating the man this is not normal then someone tied the heart of a man never to see his first wife ushawi uko nawengi hawajui I know if this man get delivered from that spirit of killing stealing and destroying all could be well
Mimi nikama sijui kupenda juu aaaai kwani watu ufumilia Nini sasa😮 ningemwacha uko jela mimi ,, arape mtoto siwezi kwa na yy tena😮,, mimi sitaweza kukaa place natharauriwa
This man is a narcissist. I can't blame her, a narcissist can abuse you for years, that's why she keeps going and coming back, its not usually easy to get out. She is also not aware of the abuse. She needs counseling. May God fight for her.
Ambia huyu Mama ajipange hapo hakuna kihiko ata wale hawana mashaba wana ishi amepoteza pesa mingi sana but no charge in her life continues na maisha yako but pole sana
Ondokea huyo mwanaume,baada ya munda atakuua, heri kukaa peke yako kuliko kupotesa moyo wako, hiyo simo ni hatari sana.Ondoka mungu atakubariki maana ni mwaminivu wengi wametoka na wako mbele sana.
Am wondering the same, unakosa ku react aje bwanako akilala na rafiki yako kwa kitanda yenu?, ati alikua mdogo 17 ryrs unaelewa Kila kitu aii,, huyu mwanamke ako na kasoro😂
This is just so sad. Staying in a marriage for the sake of the children or the society is the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman. May God give you peace and open doors for you. This family hates you.
Huyu mama ni illiteracy na lack of exposure , she is very hardworking na hiyo pesa yote ametumia na huyo mzee ni enough kununua kashamba kake...inakaa she will still.go back
Mm nmewaì onja kutharauliwa na mother in law coz haya yoote huyu mama amepitia coz huyo mama hampendi so hua anapea support huyo mwingine may God fight for u 😢
Mama you are so hardworking and you have done everything for yourself and children ever since. Use this energy for the betterment of yourself and kids. Move out of that home like yesterday. By now hizo pesa umeharibu na huyo 'pastor' would have bought a place of your own and built. Move out and start small. God will be with you
True story she is my first auntie ❤❤ tata wairimu
Yap its true but Kaba kwiyenda niundu kimundu kiu gitimwendete ni kumtumia tu na mwishowe atatupwa kwa hiyo shimo na ifunikwe
Ngai nilikuwa karibu kusema nikipindi huyo uncle yenu nikiumbani
Advise your auntie ajipende kwanza..she will never be misused by anyone
Why you people didn't advise her mpaka afike hii level of sadness
@@annewenjiku-oc8bkyou can't advice a woman in love🚮
Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you and you meant nothing to him......May God open new doors for her🙏🤲
It's sad😢
Thank God u are alive! My aunt had such a husband eventually she died of stress.
True story, she's working for us now, , taking care of my parents though myy dad passed on on July, she's still at my place now with the that kid, , she rented a single room near home as she works
She's a very nice lady ,God bless her
She needs help. Psychological help. She is not listening to Symo. God have mercy on her and meet her at her point of need
Wewe ata ungekuwa mbali sana kama ungeondokea hiyo shenzi,jikalishe Indo nigwetho ciethagwo wamother
This lady is very hardworking but she is misusing herself with that good for nothing man😢she could left that home long time ago😢God will pay her dearly ❤
Symo, best host on RUclips 🎉🎉🎉🎉
a very strong mama and very hardworking jipende mom
Ashiria hiyo ndoa,, it's not working mommy,, naomba enda mbali Mungu atakubariki
No no usi mrudie otherwise wa mucoka niguo uriaga mundu. As far as ako na huyo other woman usi rudi. Olewa na mtu mwingine otherwise maandiko ime ku ruhusu. You can still get a loving, caring and responsible husband. .
You deserve better mum, it's never too late to start again. Ngai akurathime mami
The story is full of pain. Mummy move on ukae maisha yako na akikufuata akiomba msamaha anafaa achapwe na vijana wa kijiji
In today world nowhere you can find such woman kudos mama keep up fantastic narration
Symo hiyo miguu chini haraka sana have manners.....
😂😂😂😂😂
Ameweka Juu saa ngapi wajameni 😂
Waaa..!!this kind of patient siezi taka
She's a strong woman start all over again and trust in God
Mungu atakubariki mum, and may you heal your heart from today,, watu hupitia mengi, bt mungu yupo
Mama move on kaa maisha yako naata ukitoka kwake usiwai jarimbu kukumbali akukalibie juu ako mupaka nawifu juu yako anawenza mupaka kukufanyia kitu mbaya
Mama Ben God loves you so much,nimeishi kukupea moyo bt now you are free
After listening to this story half-way, am actually very upset 😡 kwa nn huyu mama anakubali ku deal na shetani nkt,, mtu anakuletea wanawake life life, na unampea pesa , na kumbuyia simu, na kumtoa kwa jela, na still he doesn't respect you, huyu mama ni mjinga sana, si ajikalishe kama single mothers wengine, aende saudi alee watoto, that husband can never change, huyu mwanaume akikufa huyu mama hawezi survive??, jipende mama, na upende watoto wako, move on, single mothers wanaishi maisha poa bila stress .
This lady is too naive and her naivety has led her to all these problems.
You have given her good advice.
Ingekua mimi ningemwacha aozee jela. Mimi siwezi penda mtu kuliko vile najipenda.
Mjinga sanaaa
It is unfortunate that victims ate victimized even more by outsiders.I believe nobody has ever visited her with a shoulder to lean on,a listening ear to know why she foes not run away without judging and be reafy to help her settle in the world you are telling her to go.Never ask a victim of DV why thry don't move away and yet you don't ask the perpetrators anything or even sue them?Ehy can't the perpretrators stop.Many hide character under narcissism but are different.An abuser is an abuser.
@@eunicenjeru215but what happened to loving yourself first..if she was my mum i would tell her straight to the face
I can feel your anger from miles away 😂😂😂pole Musso,it's annoying I agree 💯
NGAI ndariganiruo niwe mum. Utabarikiwa na MUNGU washangae.
Pole sana sana Madam. Umejaribu sana sana
When u leave this man your star will shine but if you hold on to him you will forever know no peace...saa iingine mungu hufanya tuteseke tuweze kutoka aende atubarikie mbali,toka huko mungu akakubariki
This is it👌
Naweza wachapa wote wawili
This story it is so sad because of a woman who refused to focus and stand by her own jameni kama ndoa hazifanyi kazi siuende jameni onavile unalia aki
Hii dunia kweri iko na mambo aki . Waaah
Kuolewa ya kitambo ilikuwa funny...One night stand,ushaolewa...hahaha
@Rosemary sio samani ni Siku hizi . Ati msichana akitembea kwa boyfriend and she doesn’t go back home she’s now married. In our times it wasn’t like this. The mother to ur boyfriend would have told u to go home and bring ur parents so both parties could discuss what is happening. Even nowadays these girls have no self respect and don’t care at all.It’s a very disinfactional society such that the marriage bed has been taken for granted and defiled. God Pse have mercy….
Good job mamaa usitoke kwako kaa uko kabisaa 😂😂😂. Mwanaume wako ni mzuri sana amerogwa tu
For real? 😂
Ndugasoke kuu maito iyo ni ngoma usio no aguikie irima reu naingira njeraini oime oo ringi nathie na mbere na kupambana
Uyu pia ako na shida
Kubwa Sana mpaka nashindwa kumhurumia.na atamrudia tu
Run for your life mum,there is no marriage there,so unfortunate 😞😞😞,God will bless you,hugs💕
Mum, ondokea huyo mnyama. Go live in peace and blessings will come your way. Trust God. Such animals do not change.
It's so pain waaaaaaa 😳😳 pole sana dada GOD IS ALWAYS FAITHFUL 🙏🙏
But saa zingine ni vizuri kujipenda, mbona ukae place hauna amani ukifanyiwa izo vituko zote just ondokea na mungu akupe nguvu n akuponye ..hau hatire kihiko
This is a hard-to-listen-to story. Why would one chose to to live n slave for such a soulless beast? Mami jipende kwanza. Huyu mtu realised you have placed no value on yourself. That's why he treats you worse than trash.
The family of that so called husband knows what is eating the man this is not normal then someone tied the heart of a man never to see his first wife ushawi uko nawengi hawajui I know if this man get delivered from that spirit of killing stealing and destroying all could be well
Very sad story and painful .,ena roho muru muno wa umaraya🥹😭😭
Mimi nikama sijui kupenda juu aaaai kwani watu ufumilia Nini sasa😮 ningemwacha uko jela mimi ,, arape mtoto siwezi kwa na yy tena😮,, mimi sitaweza kukaa place natharauriwa
i will use swahili so that she will understand...jipende mama...hapo hakuna mapenzi..yani umenikasirisha mbaya sana..how now
Simo huyu hawezi badilika
Weeeeeh ..... ondokea huyo mnyama
Nigekuwa mimi sigemutoa
Huyu mama nasikia kumchapa walai...hio pesa yote kwa mjinga ya mwanaume
😂😂😂😂me too
the way am twisting and clicking..whats wrong with this woman now..wee vile najipenda it can never be me
Wewe unafaa kichapo mpaka hiyo ujinga huko nayo ikutoke
Her story is sad but atleast it's flowing unlike the previous lady...
Soo interesting 😅
Riu nihindi wambiriria gwiciria mundu wa muthemba ucio ndacenjagia onaoiga niacenjia no tuhu ino thi ndiigana ruhi bata no kwihoka Ngai
😊mmmh shida
Pls mama usirudi kwa huyo mwanaume atakumaliza, kumjengea, kumtafutia. Huyu mzee hana shukrani
When you will know husbands are not God will be so happy.
Just forget that narcissist yeye hautaki kabisaaa twangoja kifo hapo
This man is a narcissist. I can't blame her, a narcissist can abuse you for years, that's why she keeps going and coming back, its not usually easy to get out. She is also not aware of the abuse. She needs counseling. May God fight for her.
Huyu ni kama ako cemented huko ameshindwa kutoka hata saa hii atamrudia tu
You are a very hardworking woman, don’t allow satan pastor man destroy your live.
Hiyo shimo ndiyo imenipea goosebumps 😢😢😢
Huyo n kurogwa amerogwa
Amerogwa hadi kurape
Kai wohererwo kuu
Now what is this??? Navile your father in heaven loves you.. do know your worth... A very rich woman inside and outside.
Roho ya ubwa kabisa
Unatoa wapi Hawa watu wako na mastoey mbaya mbaya
Mau mathina nimaingíha muno
Just move out. Your name mama! You are being wasted. Hau nduri na muthuri ni mnyama. Pole my sister.
I know this woman,she used to work for my neighbor
Mungu usiwahi ruhusu nipende mtu namna hii
Symo ikara wega tafadhali
Woiye ma, Ngai ririkana mutumia uyu. mathina mamwe ni marîtu muno ku handle
Ambia huyu Mama ajipange hapo hakuna kihiko ata wale hawana mashaba wana ishi amepoteza pesa mingi sana but no charge in her life continues na maisha yako but pole sana
angekuwa hata amenunua ploti na anajenga
Run run run mama huyo kaa hatakuua atakuletea ugonjwa ukufe uache your special kid bila mtu wa kumwangalia 😢😢😢😢he is a narcist a sycopath
Toka mama that's narcissist atakuua ruuuun
Ahiki very easy paid with mutu . 😂😂
Īyo nī ndaimono ya biū
Alikua wamepewa ka miti na huyooo mwanamke aki it's very sad aki
Ondokea huyo mwanaume,baada ya munda atakuua, heri kukaa peke yako kuliko kupotesa moyo wako, hiyo simo ni hatari sana.Ondoka mungu atakubariki maana ni mwaminivu wengi wametoka na wako mbele sana.
Haiya maya maundu ni maritu! Mummy thara muoyo waku ucio ti mundu ni nyamu
Wamucoka mom jipende mama
Huyu mama ata wewe ulikua na ujinga sana kwani huyu mzee alikua mzuri sana kuliko maisha yako
Am wondering why waste your life kz of such marriage aii
Am wondering the same, unakosa ku react aje bwanako akilala na rafiki yako kwa kitanda yenu?, ati alikua mdogo 17 ryrs unaelewa Kila kitu aii,, huyu mwanamke ako na kasoro😂
This is just so sad. Staying in a marriage for the sake of the children or the society is the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman. May God give you peace and open doors for you. This family hates you.
Khai mbn wanaume mutufanyie ivi aki😢
Wanaume gani?
Verypainful😢😢stroy Mum tokah huko ataikiwah n upendo let be liwe liwalo kwni iko nini
Many wives are suffering silently.
Pole sana mama maisha ni mwalimu
If the husband loves the maid let the maid b a second wife
Atumia a murang’a mwi kanyama
Ni kweli assume huyu mtu amekufa na uishi peke yako. Usijali . Wanawake wanapenda kujiassociate na mwanaume. Sometimes sio lazima kuwa na mwanaume.
How do joint accounts work??
Focus with your life and move on
Huyu mama ni illiteracy na lack of exposure , she is very hardworking na hiyo pesa yote ametumia na huyo mzee ni enough kununua kashamba kake...inakaa she will still.go back
Narcissists huwa hawa change. 😢😢
A very sad story mum you are capable wachana na yeye kabisa
Ngai akurathime nadugatikire mundu uyu akuhuthire uguo akuhuthirite
Mm nmewaì onja kutharauliwa na mother in law coz haya yoote huyu mama amepitia coz huyo mama hampendi so hua anapea support huyo mwingine may God fight for u 😢
Mimi önce niliona red flag nilitokana watoto wawili 4yrs na 9 months xaa hii ni 19 and 16 l dont regret anything
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Mami..ndugakuire hau ta kirimu..umagara ugethe miaramano ...nogukorwo itua riaku riakuuma...nikio kuambiriria kia uhotani
Mutumia uyuu niwe kiriimu, arenda irui atia nigetha aumagarii. Umagara uhiigi
This is so heartbreaking,
Riu uyuuri arenda iruo atia ati ndarendekana aumagarii athii, uyuu ana ushamba, onaharia ndimutumia ndiramuigwira thaa, mayaa nimakwireherera
Thirty years of abuse? What a marriage? But why can't she move out?
All these red flags n ur still in that marriage...?run for your life n God will see u thru...
Maitu wa gwitu mukurweini ehutira dimono iyo
wamama tujipende!! hii ni uguruki...
nimesikiza hii story halfway...my ears are hurting..
watu wajipende
Mama you are so hardworking and you have done everything for yourself and children ever since. Use this energy for the betterment of yourself and kids. Move out of that home like yesterday. By now hizo pesa umeharibu na huyo 'pastor' would have bought a place of your own and built. Move out and start small. God will be with you
Ati tondu ni ithe wa ciana ciakwa rii 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔