A Woman’s Dark Agenda
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- Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024
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In this video, we explore the concept of the 'pussy trap,' where men are drawn to beautiful women without recognizing the potential problems and agendas that accompany them. Key points include the inherent problems and expectations women may bring, the hidden agendas tied to biological and lifestyle aspirations, and the importance of leadership in relationships.
00:42 Understanding Women's Agendas
01:26 The Work Involved in Relationships
01:54 Real-Life Example: The Mall Incident
02:56 Real-Life Example: The Movie Night
05:11 The Venus Fly Trap Analogy
05:39 The Hidden Danger of Female Psychopaths
06:17 Conclusion
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Apologies to those who've already seen this. This is a re-upload because RUclips struck down the original version of this video.
dont worry , second time studying video is more beneficial
Ok
Why did RUclips strike it down?
@@manikyum Probably the word that starts with a P.
Was it the thumb nail?
Beautiful sexy is temporary, toxic crazy is forever. Choose wisely brothers
Well said !
So we should look inner beauty when choosing a potential wife?
Wish I had heard that 40 years ago .
@@bekabeka71Yes, and hope that you both don’t change and become incompatible overtime. Lol
@@markjinks2598 You and me both!
I've been with a lot of women in my life. Peace feels waaaaay better than anything a woman can provide. Stay free, my brothers....
I hear you!
🤷 I'm free🤷
Warning: When you force a woman to act right after she did something that was unacceptable, and then she changes rather than lose you, she hasn't really changed, she is acting and the behavior may resurface when you are vulnerable. It's a mistake to take her back at this point IMO.
DANNNNNNG… if that ain’t TOTAL and COMPLETE, ABSOLUTE truth!!!
have observed this in real time, watching it happen, slowly unfold… knew all along what would eventually transpire… and gave her a hug & wished her well as she walked out the door.
She will always revert to factory settings.
when you loose the ability to say no, your screwed.
Soul of woman was created below.
So you trade her in on another unknown crazy and start all over???
6 of one half a dozen of another......😸 good freakin luck.......
Got involved with a girl with borderline personality disorder and it was a nightmare. I failed to see the red flags. So important to end it early. The longer you wait, it only gets worse, and harder to get out. Like Quicksand.
blinded by the kitty
Me too. The intense and almost constant sex was amazing, but in the end, I had to get away from her. She was dragging me under.
Absolutely! I've once been with a chick who I didn't even like that much. She coerced me into trying a relationship. I called it off after 3 days and she was throwing a fit like it has been 3 years. So many women are mentally unstable, especially on the Internet.
“ Got involved?” you choose to F a nut job, and it turned out badly? “ Get out early “?? Try not sticking your wicket into a honey badger hole.
No, no. You saw the red flags, you chose to ignore them. We ignore the red flags in order to score and that complicates our exit. Been there, done that. Be honest with yourself, it's important and worth it.
Just stay single.
totally
I told myself that since I was in elementary school.
Whether I felt awkward or was getting flattered by girls or helping one of my mom's friends move.
Fast fwd two decades to today, I'm glad to be single. Maybe there is a Divine plan that doesn't want this planet s population going past ten billion.
On reflection: YESSSS.
In todays world stay single and meditate.
Not if I can help it. There are good woman in the world.
I needed this message about 25 or 30 years ago! I guess it's never too late. 🇺🇲
LOL
I say its never to late.
Happy wife happy life?
😂😂
DON'T GO TO BED WITH A WOMAN UNTIL YOU KNOW HER AND WHAT SHE IS ABOUT. This may take about a year or more. But if you find that you don't really want to be with her it will be much easier to break away than if have a serious relationship. The right woman can be a gift from heaven but the wrong one will tear you down. A good woman will build you up and encourage you to build a good career and household, a bad one will drag you down into a pit of hell. I'm in my mid 60's I know this from own experience.
bro it doesnt take a year, also basically no woman will stay a year if there is no sex, even 100s of years ago that was very rare.
Did you find your woman from heaven❓🤔💭 💚💜 I think a lady has come into my life that is genuine Matchmaking from God Yahweh 🙏 Early days ☺️
@laurencebrill2020 ho yeah I did, but unfortunately I didn't know it at the time. I miss treated her and eventually divorced her. She kept trying to come back to me because she knew I was the guy for her. We are back together now and I learned to love her the way God has taught me to love her with unconditional love.
@@kevinattig6689
Ah… Happy Ending‼️ Good stuff. It was awesome you sucked it up and made the changes to get back together. What a lovely lady she must be 💜 This one I’m chatting to is remarkable in that she seems to be custom made in all the details 🛠 And what a woman for these End Times 💪🏼👩🏼🦳
The most difficult to deal with are the ones affected by BPD (borderline personality disorder) and NPD (narcissistic personality disorder)
Well thats me but im man and i have some sense of mindfulness by self therapy with psychadelics and im crazy as my parents but cant imagine BPD girl that dont go to therapy
You hit the nail on the head there.
It's outstanding to see you're still at it, you've always been the most down to earth and logical man in this niche.
Thanks for the kind words and support
@@DevelopAttractionI don't believe that you are totally correct here.
Cheaper to buy services than to buy the service provider.
Better for your emotional well-being too....
Hats Off to you sir!!
That statement is pure Gold!😊😊😊
at leasthookers don't pretend there's something they're not
Outsource that shit.
Similar to why buy the cow, if you can just buy the milk.
❤A friend told me that. It doesn't matter what woman it is Mother Sister Girlfriend coworker. They are going to make your life tough. That's reality 🤷
Not always a waltz. Not always a wrestling match either…
Most of americas problems would be solved if the government stayed out of marriages and family. No legal marriage, divorce, alimony, child support, etc. then women would consider money still, but they’d also consider how a man treats her and how likely he is to leave. But as it stands, we’re fucked!
I'd live with a decent woman but never get involved with government permission and marriage certificate etc. Marriage used to be a social contract between family and friends with a marriage feast and no government involvement.
@@markh4926 ....I have always said that if there were no marriage, and the ability to walk out the door, for both people, we would be constantly on our best behaviours!
You got that right. Everything the gov touches turns to💩
You are absolutely right !! If human beings went back to the tribal, primal, contribute or concede, behave or be banished, marriages would work and crimes would diminished. Why you may ask ? Answer : those with hidden agendas don't have a legal safety net to shield themselves from their misdeeds and reward them.
Yes. Because men collectively are forced at gunpoint to backstop women's lives (taxation, social programs, welfare, etc) women no longer need to be careful and vet men before saying "yes". Just one more way government/coercion warps society.
Here's a short cut guys! Do the cost to benefit ratio. It never fails. You'll lead a better life of you rent, never own
What about rent-to-own?
Relationships will never pass a pure cost/benefit analysis.
Narcissist is being described. Control. Chaos. Run !! She hates herself and also him !! Run !! Jailbait. borderline personality disorder. 😢
its hard to find one that isnt a narc.
TRUST me she does NOT hate herself = she is in love with herself and everyone else is a nuisance.
Get a borderline and act like one screw everyone but her but tell her you only love her when you see her tell her you have multiple object constancy with everyone of the women your seeing ,your have her begging
Good analysis.
" I was expecting a house"
First question I was asked by a very pretty but broke and poorly educated woman with 2 lousy jobs living in bad neighborhood.
I responded that I own a small apartment complex and live in one unit. Everybody pays me to rent there.
She had a little trouble comprehending this.
(She only recently learned to drive, and had to rely on the church to find a decent car cheap enough.)
Don't get caught like me; I am a sucker for a petite woman in yoga pants.
Pretty clear she is looking for a Retirement Plan
Had another date yesterday.
She mis-represented her photo by 20 years
Said her ex-hubby did financial abuse (she was not working)
Talked about doing an activity, and she immediately challenged me
We talked about gym memberships, and she immediately challenged me on the good deal I had
When I asked her on the phone before meeting, if she did X or Y, she lied.
Despite her being pretty, slim, with nice butt and boobs
I think she is not worth the risk or threat to my peace
I once dated a women for a short period and treated her like a princess.
When my birthday came around she refuse to treat me and played dumb, major red flag.
Marriage now a days is overrated best to say single and no cohabitation.
How about an advanced realistic humanoid companion robot?
Get to know the mother of the woman you date. That is mostly what your date will become down the road, not always, but probably.
@@Charles-y4r Such solid advice!
In other words the mother is a narcissists too.
CORRECT.
"The ones that charge are the cheapest ones" I heard it from someone a long, long time ago.
I once heard why does Charlie Sheen pay for women ( as opposed to dating them)? ….Because he pays them to leave!! 😉
Get hookers they are cheaper , thats how i was told, didnt listen. Remembered it a few months under the bridge after divorce
Jack Reacher said something similar
She said “I’m not hooker”
Reacher “well in that case I definitely can’t afford you”
That has always been true.
Pay close attention to them when the cocktails start. I’ve come across some pretty scary personality changes when I was younger and dating.
That's the truth
Ooooh yes!
And spiking of drinks . Both sexes
If she says she doesn't have an agenda, I really don't trust her.
There is no FREE lunch in LIFE- always consider the COST of your CHOICES and DECISIONS. The wise choice/decision is to find a virtuous woman who has a virtuous character/personality who knows how to to love and nurture. A woman who ONLY has physical beauty with little to no inner beauty (heartless, selfish, self-centered, uncaring) will cost a man DEARLY......his peace of mind, wellbeing, wealth, time wasted, wasted energy and resources.........men- is it WORTH IT?...Always consider the cost....
Best leadership is to not bother with the crazy.
His words are true but the message is wrong. Nature made the sense equal in many respects, opposite in many more but complimentary most of the time. They employ beauty and manipulation, feigned weakness and helplessness and, of course, sex to attract men. But men use competence and strength to get women. It's a natural combat. For men to have good relationships, they must protect, provide and love. For women, they have to nourish, support and love 'em back. It's natural. But our society has created toxic men and women enough so that decent people are encountering too many toxic partners. Do not despair. There are great women out there but do not think that they somehow escaped societal programming. They are victims of that, too. The solution is simple (assuming you are a good guy). After you think the relationship is getting serious explain to her that you provide and protect, she supports and nourishes. Any power trips will be resisted and may eventually lead to separation. Keep to it. It's worked for me for 53 years.
It is often much more complicated than it ought to be. Nature can still the human race positive lessons on male/female relations.
When it comes to women testing you, it absolutely matters how beautiful they are. The more attractive they are, the more likely they'll test men (especially if it's with a guy they think is easily replaceable). Naturally the best looking ones have a ton more options, and they know it. So it's natural reaction to have stricter boundaries for what they deem "worthy" of them
Also, if you are the more attractive than her, it may feed her ego to the point that she does everything you have just described.
The best way to counter a beautiful womans options is let her know you were looking when you found her and you can start looking again at anytime.
What an interesting video, well presented. Thank you.
Now I can't go to sleep , my ears are up and I have one eye open all the time
call the police i think u might be in danger if so
😂😂
Hide the guns, knives and rat poison away. Also your cash.
its funny to think that just a few short years ago only men were considered to be narcissistic. Today in the West narcissism comes as standard with possibly every woman. It's quite amazing to me.
I bought book. It's a harder read, more technical than I thought it would be, but it's very insightful and very well written. Glad I bought it but these videos do help with the subject matter.
Strong advice 💪 Strong advice 💪
Great video, Chris. Regarding psychotic women, I'm becoming more and more convinced that one of the women I dealt with recently may indeed be a psychopath. I know it's really nuisanced, and it's not always easy to diagnose, and I try not to throw that term around without really good cause, but I've never seen behavior like this from a person, and some of the things she did including the utter lack of empathy make me think she MIGHT be a psychopath. Thanks for the good info.
Two things that may help here: First, psychopaths are born; sociopaths are made. Psychopaths literally have diminished or non-existent brain activity tied to empathy. It would be like your hand being numb due to irreparable nerve damage, and people faulting your for not being able to feel heat, cold, etc., in your hand. Sociopaths do have empathy but due to trauma, it gets rewired. A psychopath can't love anyone or anything, but a sociopath can, for example, love a pet while disregarding people -- not all people, but selectively. Psychopaths also don't tend to have emotional outbursts, whereas sociopaths can be triggered to outburst. These are just a couple of things that can help to distinguish between them. Other terms that can overlap are borderline personality disorder (BPD) and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
It's refreshing to see someone write in a comment that they don't easily resort to labels. So many people name anyone they don't like, or who did them wrong, as narcissists, psychopaths, etc., without really trying to understand what those terms mean, and how the resemble others disorders, how to tell them apart, etc. Thank you for this refreshing dose of honest.
Wow man you've almost revived all of my toxic past experiences with my ex like how things started and how much we both suffered and in the end it was not a happy ending at all!
It’s usually tied to ..’what do I want next!?’
...my mantra is, "oh shit, what have I done"? then "what do I do next"....
This is good bro . Preciate it
Amazing information!
Excellent video brother 👊
What was the issue with the first one ?
Ask RUclips 🤷♂️
Maybe it got targeted and serially reported
@ Most likely! It didn’t break any “official rules” either
Feminist could have done something. @@DevelopAttraction
@@DevelopAttraction Politically incorrect maybe ?
Totally relatable,1 of the things that could ruin a man is his behavior towards a beautiful woman,and I learned it too late,I learned it the hard way😢
Yeah but it's worse if you get tied to a crazy toxic woman who's also ugly. Watch out for the ugly ones who seem to have a nice personality
For me I look at it as an adoption. Am I willing to adopt her in my life?
Either way the question is. Do you want to adopt problems into your life? They will bring them and make them your problems to contend with along with her hypergamous nature. Adopt wisely.
I appreciate your analysis Chris, and I subscribed
As sang by George Michael and Wham: Wise guys realise there's danger in emotional ties.
THANK YOU SO MUCH. I AM STILL LEARNING ALOT FROM MY FIRST MARRIAGE. PLEASE CONTINUE TO SHARE YOUR TRUTH.
Glad I can help
Tests are a deal breaker. You can spot them a mile away.
The only purpose they serve it to flag which women are cynical and suspicious in character
God bless you for this video bro
Thumbs up 👍👍👍for this video, it is entirely truthfully explained ⛵
Tests, expectations, I don't ever go through with it.
The sculpture in the thumbnail...what is it called?
Please look into the truth about the "SCULPTURE "...It is human.
Excellent, presentation
Damn this is the most truthful facts I have heard in a long time. ❤
I didn't have any agenda, but my husband had. I trusted him, but he ruined my life. No one else get another change.
Most men find a woman they like and don't want or expect her to change. They accept her as is. Whereas many women claim they're attracted to a guy but then proceed to treat him as a "project" and attempt to fundaMENTALLY change everything about him.
Mind opening information.
Thank you 👍
This is Gold 👍
That's is so true a woman did that exactly to me 3 months later she texted me saying she wanted me back and I never even replied back because she was so bad towards me all of the sudden
Great video. All facts.😊
Thank you for sharing.
I Love the video 😊
I just stumbled on your channel Chris.
Thank you it was really insightful and enjoyable.I subscribed to see more if that's ok?
I have stayed single now for more than 12 years and am finished with dating,besides I am not so young anymore.
I had one crazy ex slap me on the back of the head,just for looking at another woman,that was just one of many incidents.
I ended the relationship with her and she pleaded with me to take her back,no way.
Later on I caught her parked outside my house spying at me,what a nutter. Cheers mate.
I'm happy alone,rather just look after myself and my 🏡 house,a house will be there for life,a person won't.a life of peace,quiet and freedom.both houses and girls have problems and maintence,some just are higher maintence then others.
You must vet character and vet who these chicks are on the inside… they could be a completely different person
Women are chameleons. They will change in time as well. Usually you don't end up with what you signed up for
Yep, that goes both ways of course.
He still needs to get rid of her. Those two incidents were like a horror movie.
Thank you very much. Now i understand a little bit more about women.
You say some truth about beautifull ladys.
I will contemplate about your book (intereseting)!
This shows exactly why men are happy to look for a woman overseas, where they are appreciated and not just looked at for what they have and what they got and give.
Are you taking the piss??
Deserve my like 👏
Book covers come to mind, & our eyes lead the hunt, to discover, yet again, pretty is truly truly ugly! I have no "sure fire" recipes, I have chosen with my ears and I discovered her beauty, her honesty and integrity & a beautiful partner for years.
I’ve heard this story before by another blogger like you! 😮
It’s tied to her Daddy & Mommy & Friends. Pressure
Been there done that second one was good for 30 years then she’s going thru heart failure…very sad
No problem Chris. Your videos are the best! I've learned more from you than any other RUclipsr. The problem is that the only way to have children is through women.
Please keep doing your videos. I always look forward to them. On behalf of us men, thank you.
Not a problem if you never want kids..!
Well whaddya know, this is pretty much my relationship in a nutshell!
😂😂😂
youre exactly right it happened to me
Damm these words are so true mate...take heed guys
That was outstandig. 😱 The person you desribed is my wife!!!!
I have been through many tests, I failed them all 😂
your examples made me feel a certain way, a certain pressure that i don't miss
Some are controlling not all.
Only 99.9% are controlling 👍🏻
T & A is nice guys.
But, it isn't everything.
I prefer peace of mind
It's not all its cracked up to be.
I could've used wise messages like this about 40 years ago.
Money rats the lot of then ... stay well clear ... order in if you have to to get ride of the urges .... your life will be better for it .....
I did finish my life with woman like that. Those examples mentioned here are minor compared to everyday problems I am going through... Help!
Beauty is a disguise
I'm 58 now, and naturally loosing interest in women, yes they are Nice scenery, but I just let the train pass thru the station , with out buying a ticket......k
Omg....this sent chills down my spine from my own experiences.... trouble is, these were women I MARRIED !
To be fair this is true of everything, jobs, career, children, second hand car and running your own business etc.
Damm that red flag story was bang on...did he get rid of her?
here we go
My 3rd wife was very beautiful and the marriage was the hardest 9yrs of my life!! my last wife is wonderful!!
Beware - even though the guy in the story prevailed by being willing to walk away, he should still go through with that and walk away.
Reason - a woman with tendencies to push things in this way early on, or with other issues, will not stop, and she will turn on you the moment she feels you are committed and are no longer willing to walk away, such as when there are kids, a house etc at stake. Do not take chances. If something feels off early on, when you can walk away, it will be 100x worse when you can't.
Nothing is free. You get what you pay for.
Once you realize that you (the guy) are the prize, the trophy, your relationship with women will improve 1000%.
I have had the phone argument
Tried leading. Was met with “I ain’t effin doing that!” at every turn.
What a lot if negativity. I have been happily married for many years and still love my wife's company and companionship more than anything else. There's thousands of good women out there but they need a good respectful, honest loving man to make a relationship work for the long term.
I could have used your advice 50 years ago.
So sorry for you Mate, that you could of used that information 50 years ago. Sadly we didn't have u-tube back then to educate us. Good luck in the future and Merry Christmas.
Its like
All glitters are not gold...
Yes sir 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I wish someone told me this ish when I was a teenager
dont let it hypnotize you. lol
Scary lol!
So thrue🎉