[FULL VIDEO] My wife abandoned me for years to find herself

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

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  • @Trynottoblink
    @Trynottoblink 2 месяца назад +710

    I like how cold blooded, clear eyed, and practical this guy was. As soon as his wife got on her bullshit he was like “Well, I don’t love her anymore.” More men should be like this.
    I also like that, unlike other simp husbands, he didn’t assume his wife was too angelic to cheat on him. He just used common sense and went “She’s beautiful, she’s traveling, and has just demonstrated she doesn’t care about this family, so of course she’s cheating.”
    Again, all men should be like this guy.

    • @user-lk3pk3gc5f
      @user-lk3pk3gc5f 2 месяца назад +51

      Honestly

    • @Roshea
      @Roshea 2 месяца назад

      True, simpdom is a disease

    • @Views-rj3nw
      @Views-rj3nw Месяц назад +51

      completely agree. stoic practicality over emotionality, every time. boys and young men must learn to close close their heart when necessary.

    • @user-tx4wj7qk4t
      @user-tx4wj7qk4t Месяц назад +14

      Yes but the real issue is they can do this without repercussions. Society needs to shame this behavior. Nobody should associate with a wmn who divorces her husband for anything less than actual abuse

    • @ellugerdelacruz2555
      @ellugerdelacruz2555 29 дней назад +14

      Too bad when we are being like that we're labelled as "controlling, abusive, paranoid, and the ones who are unfaithful"....

  • @onewingedmoogle
    @onewingedmoogle Месяц назад +183

    She went to find herself and found a selfish, irresponsible and delusional person.

  • @scottvergin4732
    @scottvergin4732 Месяц назад +222

    She abandoned you, that’s already divorced.

    • @kaanozk
      @kaanozk Месяц назад +7

      Giving up responsibilities is to give up the relationship

    • @jamegumb7298
      @jamegumb7298 19 дней назад +2

      Not legally. But it is a lot easier if she refuses to be found.

    • @juangomez8716
      @juangomez8716 14 дней назад

      Not legally. So it doesn't matter. Unless they're legally split, they're split.

  • @RaizelSX
    @RaizelSX 3 месяца назад +240

    So basically she's afraid of dementia and chose to spend it messing around, and thinks when she returns she will give him the incomprehensible locked in version of herself

  • @josephhurst4902
    @josephhurst4902 3 месяца назад +343

    0:45, Something your lawyer didnt know that I learned from a REPO guy... If for some reason you DONT want to make the payments anymore on the Car, you can Call the Auto Dealer, and SURRENDER the car. if you dont have the car anymore the payments STOP, and this has very little impact on your credit if any.

    • @juanonmashin4293
      @juanonmashin4293 Месяц назад +11

      I tried to do this and they wouldn’t

    • @brandonosrsnerd7220
      @brandonosrsnerd7220 Месяц назад

      @@juanonmashin4293that’s wierd. I voluntarily gave up my car when I was getting deployed to Bahrain 🇧🇭 because I didn’t want a payment and the bank took it. It went to auction and even sold less than what I still owed and it got written off of my credit after a year. Score was back to normal

    • @Spokiez
      @Spokiez Месяц назад +4

      Nah Bro, you trippin’ lolz

    • @Jameshawk105
      @Jameshawk105 Месяц назад

      It’s literally exactly the same as a repo you’re delusional

    • @brendan4844
      @brendan4844 Месяц назад +4

      Yeah fing right 😂. That repo guy is dillusional as hell.

  • @TWhiteTiger
    @TWhiteTiger 2 месяца назад +102

    Don't hire a cheap lawyer, it isn't worth it. There is a reason the good sharks cost money is because they save you money in the long run. Any good lawyer would tell OP he should file for a missing person's to create a paper trail of his wife abandoning him. He should also file for the missing money. He should have also returned the car, not paid for it. As one of the owners he can give up his share at any time. He also should have defaulted all bills that weren't in his name. Once he has paper trail and testimonials that she left and abandoned her life he can stability abandonment with ease. Also the "no judge would sign on selling shared assets" is bad lawyer advice. People do this all the time, it's called "in absentia", and in family court is pretty easy to do.

    • @Loterrach
      @Loterrach 24 дня назад +1

      Never knew about that.

    • @MyCommentsGetGhosted
      @MyCommentsGetGhosted 17 дней назад +4

      He knows where she is through social media and text. How would he be able to honestly file a missing person's?

    • @Jean-vf3pi
      @Jean-vf3pi 12 дней назад +1

      ​@@MyCommentsGetGhostedhe would not.

    • @davidli7829
      @davidli7829 12 дней назад

      @@MyCommentsGetGhostedmore about asset and “legacy” protection than honesty ig. Personally I would much rather tell a small lie and save more money for my children even if it means selling out a woman that betrayed my trust, marriage, and stole the money I saved.

    • @yeetmeister3055
      @yeetmeister3055 11 дней назад +1

      @@MyCommentsGetGhosted Ironically it was the lawyer who advised him to keep the social media lines active so this comment actually supports OP's original comment more.

  • @blatherskitenoir
    @blatherskitenoir 24 дня назад +29

    We dont "find" ourselves. We make ourselves. And she made herself into a sad, selfish, lonely thief by doing this.

  • @whitwins3740
    @whitwins3740 3 месяца назад +172

    Effectively she came back but the kids went no to minimal contact after discovering She left for a selfish reason. She is piecing together u can't decide a new lifestyle without your marriage partner. It did not state how the divorce is going or if it actually occured around Christmas.

  • @Yazevski
    @Yazevski 3 месяца назад +146

    I remember this story, it's not full though, it skips the entire beginning of her disappearing to begin with, and taking a lot of money with her.

    • @DankTrinketz
      @DankTrinketz Месяц назад +20

      Where is the full version

    • @misuterinaso
      @misuterinaso 29 дней назад

      @@DankTrinketz checked the post, no more updates

    • @DankTrinketz
      @DankTrinketz 29 дней назад

      @@misuterinaso oh

  • @JohnSmith-bs9ym
    @JohnSmith-bs9ym Месяц назад +136

    "You have to do what's best for you" -- The modern women's code for just doing whatever the heck you want.

  • @brianbarber5401
    @brianbarber5401 3 месяца назад +82

    Inside of two years, max, she’ll be trying to get OP and/or the kids to reconcile and take care of her.

    • @kabirsardana1282
      @kabirsardana1282 2 месяца назад +32

      I give it 6 months. women usually lack the brains to make sensible decisions and most o their decision making is based off emotions. this one is a prime example. she basically tricked herself into thinking that she'll end up getting dementia because her mother had it, so whatever she was doing was okay in her book. she had tunnel vision and completely overlooked the fact that she had built a life she essentially left behind.
      then when people started moving on from her and no one cared where she was and how she was doing, she came back thinking that everything will go back to normal. shes never been alone. I give it max 6 months before she tries to slither back into OPs or the daughters life or ends up with her extended family begging them to give her space to live.

    • @user-tx4wj7qk4t
      @user-tx4wj7qk4t Месяц назад +7

      ​@@kabirsardana1282I think it's simpler than that. She didn't find op attractive anymore, could be justified or she could just be branch swinging, and she made up a nonsense reason to cheat. No different than chicks that want "breaks". The real issue is society tolerating this. You know what they used to do to adulterers right

  • @gene8172
    @gene8172 Месяц назад +36

    Would’ve cancelled all joint credit cards and closed all joint accounts. Would’ve surrendered the extra car. Also would’ve cancelled the cellphone if in your name.

  • @Papabear4564
    @Papabear4564 2 месяца назад +37

    You can divorce someone without them being around, you just have to take a ad out in the paper letting them know its coming, then start proceedings in absentia

    • @jamegumb7298
      @jamegumb7298 19 дней назад +1

      Does not work everywhere and in every case but yes, you can serve by public address.

  • @Kyleplaysgames567
    @Kyleplaysgames567 14 дней назад +5

    If you want to find yourself, just look in the mirror. Oh there I am.

  • @individualstalksaboutsosia420
    @individualstalksaboutsosia420 21 день назад +9

    Oh so when man abondon they relationship they deadbeat but when woman do it's to "find herself" what?? Lol double standart in its finest

  • @tapejara1507
    @tapejara1507 22 дня назад +11

    "to find herself"
    aka
    Riding the cook caroussel for years thinking her provider will just suck it up and take her back.

  • @vlugovsky
    @vlugovsky 3 месяца назад +43

    Too bad that there was no discussion about the WW (yeah, I'm sure she cheated) about how surprised she was when she realized her husband no longer wanted her.

  • @red-k3305
    @red-k3305 3 месяца назад +42

    2:54 bro was absolutely going insane here on the ice

  • @BRONWENYOUNG-WHITFORDE-cb8jc
    @BRONWENYOUNG-WHITFORDE-cb8jc 3 месяца назад +36

    I hope it all works out for you all..
    I hope your futures are filled with hope, laughter and love.

    • @eleethtahgra7182
      @eleethtahgra7182 2 месяца назад +2

      No. This style of story is probably fiction.

  • @Seifer8
    @Seifer8 Месяц назад +5

    These are always horrible to listen to because people include so much unnecessary info in their stories

  • @nope-dp1pe
    @nope-dp1pe 3 месяца назад +31

    I didn’t listened to all of it but basically OP goes to the lawyer and the lawyer give some advice. OP and their kids were mad at her for quitting them like this and OP is seeing some post of her saying that he is a great guy to let her do this.Lawyer says to OP that when she is gonna come back she will have to repay the money that OP spent maintaining the house.. part 2 at 10 likes cause I’m lazy

  • @gaurav_senpai6955
    @gaurav_senpai6955 Месяц назад +5

    Le people: why have you stoped takling and trusting others?
    Me:

  • @KKOPPONG
    @KKOPPONG 25 дней назад +7

    The best case scenario is that she won’t even remember being married or divorced🤷🏿‍♂️…😂😂😂…good luck to her for the rest of her memories.

  • @ChiquitaBanana-si5qq
    @ChiquitaBanana-si5qq Месяц назад +9

    Sometimes, people cut their own throats. This lady is an example

  • @OnlyDegenerateWorkAtYouTube
    @OnlyDegenerateWorkAtYouTube 24 дня назад +5

    A.I. Story!

  • @jackw3302
    @jackw3302 2 месяца назад +3

    Is the wife the only one on the title? If not, if the title says "or" instead of "and" (Person A and/or Person B), you can absolutely get rid of the car. No one should ever have 2 names on a title and put "and" because you both need to be there to sign off on the sale. If you put "or", only one of you has to.

  • @dr4c0r3x5
    @dr4c0r3x5 3 месяца назад +15

    So who's here for the food clips

  • @Qdool
    @Qdool 3 месяца назад +17

    What was that noise at 5:50

  • @EeEeEeeEeUuUuUuGGggGhHhH_CAT
    @EeEeEeeEeUuUuUuGGggGhHhH_CAT 3 месяца назад +186

    My little pony

  • @GardeDuCoeur
    @GardeDuCoeur 25 дней назад +2

    Absolutely fake, if you create 'real' fiction at least have some psychology and law knowledge 🙄🤷‍♂️

  • @rons3634
    @rons3634 3 месяца назад +9

    Who the heck is this narrator. Heard him on many other videos like this and it's always well done.

    • @red-k3305
      @red-k3305 3 месяца назад +32

      ? It’s AI welcome to the future

    • @scaredpaul540
      @scaredpaul540 2 месяца назад +9

      AI

    • @eleethtahgra7182
      @eleethtahgra7182 2 месяца назад +5

      AI

    • @zephyrosuav9760
      @zephyrosuav9760 Месяц назад +5

      His name is AL he's pretty cool. A bit racist tho

    • @dom9407
      @dom9407 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@zephyrosuav9760 good one 😂

  • @eleethtahgra7182
    @eleethtahgra7182 2 месяца назад +3

    Cant he file for Abandonment?

  • @Sauceboss1992
    @Sauceboss1992 23 дня назад +1

    After this is done he needs a vacation. A long. Fucking. Vacation.

  • @mmedu4975
    @mmedu4975 Месяц назад +4

    No credit given to the original post, random videos and AI reading the text. Why are people even watching that?

    • @nashooo5903
      @nashooo5903 Месяц назад

      Welp this particular AI reads better than your average youtuber, and nobody cares about giving some filthy redditor some clout, so win-win for everyone.

  • @ronhall5395
    @ronhall5395 Месяц назад +4

    If she couldnt find herself in a week, she would be history. Your married and that is a partnership. You cant just walk off with the savings and be single and free until the money runs out. Nah, the marriage was over when she didnt come home after a week.
    I may have challenged her when ahe came back. Take a lie detector test and if the result come back that she was celebate the entire 2 plus years then i would not divorce her. I honestly think she panicked. Would she end up like her Mom, never getting a chance to live out her fantasies. A very selfish woman indeed. I think she hooked up inside the first two weeks gone.

    • @user-tx4wj7qk4t
      @user-tx4wj7qk4t Месяц назад +1

      The fact that you'd let your wife basically cheat for a week is exactly the problem

    • @humansvd3269
      @humansvd3269 21 день назад

      What do you mean, let? Society won't let you do anything. Thanks to the modern society and government. ​@user-tx4wj7qk4t

  • @kaanozk
    @kaanozk Месяц назад +3

    Never ever deal with people who dont bother even remotely consider your thoughts a md feelings, let alone marry them. And dont tell me you didnt know it before, you fuccking did and ignored the red flags.

  • @Roshea
    @Roshea 2 месяца назад +2

    This is the best AI voice tbh

  • @unsungzero6122
    @unsungzero6122 26 дней назад +2

    9:50 She's lying

  • @Ivellios23
    @Ivellios23 18 дней назад

    Seriously?
    I would have opened another account and never put money into the joint account again.

  • @skola3911
    @skola3911 Месяц назад +2

    I went through the exact same thing.

  • @jamestaylorjr2521
    @jamestaylorjr2521 21 день назад +2

    This AI guy

  • @-coffee349-
    @-coffee349- 3 месяца назад +23

    tf happened at 5:50

    • @Lady.x0
      @Lady.x0 3 месяца назад +6

      "Hmm-MeH" xD

    • @GreengamerGMD
      @GreengamerGMD 3 месяца назад

      Phone notification?

    • @Ahmad_1799
      @Ahmad_1799 3 месяца назад +1

      I thought only I noticed

    • @sergeant_cheese
      @sergeant_cheese 3 месяца назад +2

      probley used eleven labs for the voice and the meh is from a glitch in the text to speech

    • @DuskShadow235
      @DuskShadow235 3 месяца назад +1

      @@sergeant_cheeseeither that or the video had a voice over and they removed the sound wrong

  • @ogunderdawg3724
    @ogunderdawg3724 Месяц назад +1

    My goodness wtf happened in the aftermath 🤷‍♂️

  • @gabbahitta903
    @gabbahitta903 25 дней назад +1

    Is there an actual event here or ia this just an AI generated fiction?

  • @TheLilRoland
    @TheLilRoland Месяц назад +2

    these baaackground videos are garbage, chose 1 video ffs

  • @thegreenglobs3719
    @thegreenglobs3719 3 месяца назад +8

    5:47 NYEM

  • @saltukbugrahancokuk
    @saltukbugrahancokuk 2 месяца назад +4

    5:50 mehm ??

  • @sergeant_cheese
    @sergeant_cheese 3 месяца назад +6

    cool video

  • @livanbard
    @livanbard 13 дней назад

    Thats obviously a copy pasta like post. Im not saying the story itself is false. Problaby just copied from somewhere and exaggerated.

  • @goosebuffz
    @goosebuffz Месяц назад +2

    5:50

  • @funfungerman8401
    @funfungerman8401 28 дней назад +1

    5:50 wtf :DDDDDDDDDDDDDD

  • @VR00100
    @VR00100 Месяц назад +1

    5:50 🦟

  • @stevendouglas3781
    @stevendouglas3781 25 дней назад

    My wife looks good and is probably cheating on me but she’s 5 years away from dementia.

  • @bigal1863
    @bigal1863 3 месяца назад +11

    My wife put me through hell with her mental health episodes. I never gave up on her and fought to get her into mental healthcare against her will. She was involuntarily committed for 4.5 months and I visited her every day, even when she would not acknowledge my presence when I was there. But they found a combination of meds that worked well for her and she was eventually released. She has very little memory of that time, but she does often thank me for never giving up on her and has become the model wife I always wanted. Why did I stick with her? Because I promised God and her family that I would always take care of her in sickness or in health. I have a low opinion of people who call themselves "men" who abandon a spouse in their illness. You either deal with it like a man or you deal with it like a boy. Nothing, not money, not jealousy, not anger or anything said while in the throes of mental illness will stop a man from being a man. Weakness stops men from behaving like men.

    • @vaxel0068
      @vaxel0068 2 месяца назад +36

      Not everyone is a masochist.

    • @bigal1863
      @bigal1863 2 месяца назад +1

      @@vaxel0068 or intelligent, or faithful, or of good morals

    • @vaxel0068
      @vaxel0068 2 месяца назад

      @@bigal1863 putting yourself through pain for no reason doesn't strike me as being intelligent.

    • @sanicinapanic4264
      @sanicinapanic4264 2 месяца назад +13

      @@bigal1863 I don't get your point since you could very well say the opposite version of everything you listed nor do I get how this relates to the video since your situation relied on very different factors since well not everything is treatable and sometimes it is healthier to move on by all means "In sickness or in health" only goes so far

    • @bigal1863
      @bigal1863 2 месяца назад

      @@sanicinapanic4264 it goes for life when a strong, decent, christian person says it. Stop kidding yourself. You are either a man or a boy when it comes to commitment.

  • @theneonlights1788
    @theneonlights1788 Месяц назад

    70

  • @aaronyeager6778
    @aaronyeager6778 24 дня назад

    It only took one minute of me listening to this video & I do not feel sorry for this man 😭🤡

    • @humansvd3269
      @humansvd3269 21 день назад

      How so? There's literally nothing he could legally do.

  • @ProdAWHIT
    @ProdAWHIT 28 дней назад +1

    Id rather have no women. They seem like the trophy you got in an mmo that doesnt do shit but give you +5 in all stats. The rest of my equipment does that x10. And id rather have another trophy that gives me +20% money.
    The girl is fun for show but she is incapable of supporting me.

    • @dontkickmychick6076
      @dontkickmychick6076 18 дней назад

      If you find the right one it should do both, the issue is with how it is these days doing that is borderline impossible

  • @user-vp2yr2lv9m
    @user-vp2yr2lv9m 27 дней назад

    The images distracts me from the audio