For real dude! My in laws and same of my more distant family are constantly asking my common-law partner and I when we’re getting married and when we’re having kids and I just have to ask them with what money?
@@Devon7839honestly you should just skip the marriage, every time people get married that's when the problems start. Just stay together and keep the love alive because once you get married that's when problems you didn't even know could happen start to show up, keep it simple bro it'll save not only the relationship but also the love, respect, joy, and happiness trust me. The moment you get married that's the moment the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with becomes the enemy. It is horrible when you start to resent the woman you would die for, never get married bro it's inevitable that it's going to be the moment shit falls apart.
I'm off the hook for my parents wanting grandkids, because my brothers got enough children that my parents told me that Christmas is getting too expensive
My family thinks I'm single and that saves me the headache of explaining they ruined my past relationships so I simply stopped bringing any girls around.
Im so tired of family asking about my love life, if I asked about theirs it would be weird as hell but it's somehow normal for them to ask about mine!? Wtf is wrong them i don't go asking my aunts if they finally found a man who wants to put up with their ass, why should it be ok for them to ask if Im seeing anyone? Screw that I'll start dating seriously dating when I'm 35, when women can give me straight answers about what they want in a relationship. (This is an American thing btw in case you didn't know.)
I mean just go and say you don't want to have kids period, regardless of whether you want to or not. If you're stern enough they'll stop asking. Assert your dominance.
Or just be an adult and say I didn't want to or feel like going or you could be passive aggressive and say, that you had better things to do that didn't involve being judged. 🤷
Children?! IN THIS ECONOMY?!
For real dude! My in laws and same of my more distant family are constantly asking my common-law partner and I when we’re getting married and when we’re having kids and I just have to ask them with what money?
@@Devon7839honestly you should just skip the marriage, every time people get married that's when the problems start. Just stay together and keep the love alive because once you get married that's when problems you didn't even know could happen start to show up, keep it simple bro it'll save not only the relationship but also the love, respect, joy, and happiness trust me. The moment you get married that's the moment the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with becomes the enemy. It is horrible when you start to resent the woman you would die for, never get married bro it's inevitable that it's going to be the moment shit falls apart.
Our Genius teaching us how to avoid life’s problems dayo.
My family just gave up
I'm off the hook for my parents wanting grandkids, because my brothers got enough children that my parents told me that Christmas is getting too expensive
"Avoid your relatives like the plague..." says The cute kettle....
It's a little bit worse when they don't ask and have never asked. They know why.
My family thinks I'm single and that saves me the headache of explaining they ruined my past relationships so I simply stopped bringing any girls around.
Just say "Children? In *THIS* economy...?" You can even play it off as a joke.
Misery loves Company.
When you make a huge mistake, it is easier to pretend it was unavoidable if you don't know anyone who avoided it
As someone who has brothers and sisters I simply say when are they going to give you grandkids?
Im so tired of family asking about my love life, if I asked about theirs it would be weird as hell but it's somehow normal for them to ask about mine!? Wtf is wrong them i don't go asking my aunts if they finally found a man who wants to put up with their ass, why should it be ok for them to ask if Im seeing anyone? Screw that I'll start dating seriously dating when I'm 35, when women can give me straight answers about what they want in a relationship. (This is an American thing btw in case you didn't know.)
Henya looks like chibi version of Zen
Just tell them you're too ashamed of them to ever introduce your Wife/Husband and kids to.
Genius for a reason dayo. 😅
Family gathering cease to be fun the moment adults start dictating each other
This kettle is right, just gonna skip out and play my game
I'm with Henya. Don't go to the family gatherings.
Yep.
I mean just go and say you don't want to have kids period, regardless of whether you want to or not. If you're stern enough they'll stop asking. Assert your dominance.
Just tell them you chose happiness and that you are sorry they chose unhappiness for their lives.
It's quite sad you can't conceive of a happy family.
Chinese New Year is the worse
I volunteer
Or just be an adult and say I didn't want to or feel like going or you could be passive aggressive and say, that you had better things to do that didn't involve being judged. 🤷