Your dad is a G for helping you improve your social skills, my dad didn’t really teach me much about being a man but thank god people like you exist, without you, hamza, and others I would have been a loser.
Best advice I was given as a shy person: 'Be interested to be interesting' We have 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason. Ask more questions, genuinely be interested in someone's job, hobbies, interests etc. Everyone's favourite subject is themselves
That's the main reason I usually don't speak a lot during conversations. I simply can't force my self in being interested in things I really don't care about
I think there’s a little difference. You can’t ask questions all the time, you have to be able to keep up a conversation without constant questions. It’s a conversation, not interrogation
@@shaunrevell5594 yeah man, already done an xray for braces. Might be looking a bit silly for the next year and a half but after that ill up myself. Shouldnt be a big problem for me though as I’m in a decent shape rn and keep improving
Speaking about books, I suggest (of course) Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends...". The second one Jordan Peterson's "12 rules...". The first one is about body posture. Greetings.
Science most humans are emotional beings, we can use our emotions to our advantage. I bet you've noticed how emotions control your body language and you mental state. If you are feeling a positive emotion. Try to fully embrace it and use it to your advantage. Let it take controll of your body language and express that emotion through it. People like positive energy and positive emotions. If you learn how to transfer positive emotions to others, you can make them like or even love you. Like the video said, smile more. Because smiling is a reflection of a positive emotion, And people like positivity
Good advice man.. is there a way you make your video bigger where you talk.. Easier to watch then and take in.. maybe iOS your thing, but do you need to do the gorilla noises etc.. detracts a bit if I'm honest from the gold nuggets you are giving us.. peace
@@JackhopkinsCEO no idea what you are on about tbh 😂.. it would just look better and easier to watch with your video bit bigger.. less like a boring power point thing.. best to see face etc
@@smartyoutube7223 bruh, I'm from Ukraine and I graduated there in July, BUT I need to go to German school before 2024 or even 2025, fucking sad. I want to be at Uni so bad
I think it’s important to note: don’t just ask questions. At a certain point it becomes an interview, there’s a balance involved with good conversation. If someone shares something personal, you’ve eventually gotta say something about yourself too. Or at least give an opinion or insight on what they said
honestly just go work as a waiter, the progression is incredibly fast and requires constantly making new interactions all day and being able to analyse each one, years of social progression will happen in just a few months
It is extremely important to be an active listener because you can actually benefit and learn from the person's life experiences due to multiple interactions, going to different places and have encountered different people. Then you can ask questions and genuinely be interested in their occupation, hobbies, interests etc.
Moral of the video, as long as you’re a man and you’re socially awkward, no one will ever give a fuck at all! People always expect men to bounce back and to get over their stresses and trails and tribulations. No one cares about mens issues and what he ever goes through in life
My quote is "the world is cruel but you have to fight anyways." Your pain and suffering doesn't matter to the public, you have to take action I'm awkward asf, but I just have to learn how to be social.
CEO you don't have to be social all you have to do is meet me in the back of a limousine and we can go from there your looks are good enough trust me yeah I've been without a man for a long time sure is obvious amen alpha male
I'm not socially awkward but I realised that I was mostly just talking with my friends. Recently I've started asking things to people that I find even slightly interesting, and it feels amazing. I went on a trip yesterday with a friend and his family, I was cool with his cousin but never talked at length to him. He was sitting besides me and I saw a RUclips notification on his phone which had the logo of React Js (it's used in making websites and web apps) so I asked him about it. And then we had like an hour long conversation about many things, websites, going for a job in a new city, having to make new friends there, losing connection with guys after they've married , many many things. Moral of the story? If you find something interesting about someone or something, just tell them and ask them about it. Most people will be happy to talk about it
The way to not be socially awkward is to focus on the person you are interacting with rather than what you imagine others perceive you as. Good for you for your newly learned lesson. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
@@karna5998 Feel free to use it to your benefit and never hesitate to ask for a second opinion if you ever get stuck on your challenges. All the best to you!
The part about people rarely being listened to is very true. I work in retail rn and it’s fascinating watching people open up to you so easily if you’re a sincere person that’s genuinely willing to listen. It really helps lower someone’s defensive guard of the world if you’re someone that can genuinely listen before talking
It's not that you're born with it. It depends on your genes, your body's gut microbiome and all sorts. Science has proven that autistic men have a different microbiome in the gut, they did studies on fish. This actively impairs the social skills of the man from young. So it's not also... "a skill" to learn, which if you determine it by neuropsychology and it's all there is, it's not. It's also well... spiritually, that's a whole different ball game. There's a whole lot more.
all this advice will make you a boring nice guy if you want people to want be friends with you what you need to do is you need to make them have fun be energetic,make them laugh,make every moment they are with you exciting nowadays everybody is in their head and if you can make their life exciting and fun for the time they are with you then they will be easily attracted towards you nobody wants be bored people seek entertainment at every second like if a person is in a boring social situation he will instantly pull out his phone just to get out of that state of mind
Scowling and head down is obviously terrible body language but I think smiling too much is bad, people don't take you serious, it's better to look serious and purposeful then constantly grinning like a maniac
So as an lifelong extrovert I struggled with talking too much, i realized about 3 days ago that I don’t even have to speak my story’s but I can just ask them and let them kinda talk the conversation that’s so easy
im mastering the art of look everyone in the eyes but dont do the smile stuff to much. Definetly going to start doin it more often. Thanks for the tips. :)
I just want to give up on all this shit but not feel bad about it. I do not want to need women or friends or social life after they scorned me for years. So I'm trapped... I cannot really improve without sacrifice, but also I cannot give up for good. So this is like hell. Both exists are suffering.
You know I isolate and I stick to myself a lot but on the other hand I'm very social don't give up just be yourself you would be amazed on how well that works but only with another genuine person good luck
The best conversationalists are usually the ones who go through a lot of experiences in their life. Especially through multiple interactions and going to multiple places. It helps you big time
I must just give one point i think its a mistake here, beaing extroverted or introverted are decided when we were born, but being social is a skill indeed. General misconception is that people think that introverts are poeple who are shy, anxious etc and extrovertrerts are open, bla bla. Only diffeence between int and ext are in way of thinking and expressing emotions, it has nothing to do with being social or not. People just say they are introverted to cope with their innability to be social
@@JackhopkinsCEO ngl I thought it was gonna help that I did that and make me look more tough but I guess not💀 Also bro you should make a discord server
Video I needed. This is something I’m actively working on, and have been for months. Something I find rather hard if I’m honest, especially with girls…. Good looking ones 😂 The smile is one I need to start doing. It generally hasn’t crossed my mind before, until I thought abiut it. Everyone does it. To me, I say ‘morning’… but I need to smile before hand. Hasn’t crossed my mind before. Not because I’m annoyed or anything, just hasn’t crossed my mind.
Some of these flaws in conversation are what narcissists do. Never listen, show no interest in learning about and from the other person. Just there waiting the whole time like you said, to tell someone all about what they want. Not an open conversation what so ever. Sad that there are so many of these Toxic people out there. Just have to spot it and get them out of your life asap.
First suggestion is literal bullshit, high value books bring boredom to every normal conversation you may have with normal people. I believe they are the cause for me literally being silent most of the time because I genuinely don't care about what the other person is saying lol
@@JackhopkinsCEO thanks, I’ve already started college so my classmates have already seen my ugly side. Hopefully by the end of the year when I look different they’ll gravitate toward my pants
Use all the useful resources at your disposal to better yourself. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
1. Eye contact
2. Smile
3. Open body language
4. Listen attentively
5. Read books
Your dad is a G for helping you improve your social skills, my dad didn’t really teach me much about being a man but thank god people like you exist, without you, hamza, and others I would have been a loser.
Who are the other RUclipsrs you watch?
@@ivanovsamuraj3095 hamza + this guy are enough
@@ivanovsamuraj3095 Andrew Tate
You should listen to tom leykis
Hamza is a fraud talking about absolutely nothing
Best advice I was given as a shy person:
'Be interested to be interesting'
We have 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason. Ask more questions, genuinely be interested in someone's job, hobbies, interests etc. Everyone's favourite subject is themselves
That's the main reason I usually don't speak a lot during conversations. I simply can't force my self in being interested in things I really don't care about
I think there’s a little difference. You can’t ask questions all the time, you have to be able to keep up a conversation without constant questions. It’s a conversation, not interrogation
Dale Carnegie, right ?
We also have 2 eyes😂
this intro is legendary
the audio distortion got me 💀 in this one, especially at the start lmao
the gollum part was golden
How do i smile if my teeth are fucked😂 doesnt matter i’ll still destroy those social interactions in a good way ofc
Fix your teeth
Make it a priority to fix them bro. Will help your confidence hugely, as well as people's perception of you.
@@shaunrevell5594 yeah man, already done an xray for braces. Might be looking a bit silly for the next year and a half but after that ill up myself. Shouldnt be a big problem for me though as I’m in a decent shape rn and keep improving
@@mark2918 Top man. 🤝🏼
Still smile with fucked teeth and just make it a priority to have them sorted 🙏🦍
Thx for adjusting the thumbnail
Speaking about books, I suggest (of course) Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends...". The second one Jordan Peterson's "12 rules...". The first one is about body posture. Greetings.
Aaron Rams-dale Carnegie
Science most humans are emotional beings, we can use our emotions to our advantage. I bet you've noticed how emotions control your body language and you mental state. If you are feeling a positive emotion. Try to fully embrace it and use it to your advantage. Let it take controll of your body language and express that emotion through it. People like positive energy and positive emotions. If you learn how to transfer positive emotions to others, you can make them like or even love you.
Like the video said, smile more. Because smiling is a reflection of a positive emotion, And people like positivity
This is 100x difficult when you have a stutter.
Good advice man.. is there a way you make your video bigger where you talk.. Easier to watch then and take in.. maybe iOS your thing, but do you need to do the gorilla noises etc.. detracts a bit if I'm honest from the gold nuggets you are giving us.. peace
Brother are you seriously asking a gorilla to stop being a gorilla 😂🦍
@@JackhopkinsCEO no idea what you are on about tbh 😂.. it would just look better and easier to watch with your video bit bigger.. less like a boring power point thing.. best to see face etc
THAT GOLIM IMPRESSION WAS INSANE
Spot on ahahahahah
Uni starts in 2 weeks, this vid is just what i needed
Watch hamzas video kn dominating uni
Wo gehst du studieren ?
@@smartyoutube7223 in der Schweiz, du?
@@lelele1408 Deutschland
Hätte ein lustiger Zufall werden könne 😂
@@smartyoutube7223 bruh, I'm from Ukraine and I graduated there in July, BUT I need to go to German school before 2024 or even 2025, fucking sad. I want to be at Uni so bad
I think it’s important to note: don’t just ask questions. At a certain point it becomes an interview, there’s a balance involved with good conversation. If someone shares something personal, you’ve eventually gotta say something about yourself too. Or at least give an opinion or insight on what they said
Replayed that Gollum impression multiple times it was incredible😂🦍
Bro’s Gollum impression was on point 😂😂
1:27 Plot twist: Actually your dad was the one too shy to approach them, so he told you to talk to them 😂
😂😂
Ayo u can kill me with ur joke 🤣🤣🤣
My man is the only person who can go from a golem impression to speaking facts within 5sec, and I love it
Pretty cool is it I agree with you sir
THAT INTRO JUMPSCARED THE SHI' OUT OF ME OH MY GOD JACK
honestly just go work as a waiter, the progression is incredibly fast and requires constantly making new interactions all day and being able to analyse each one, years of social progression will happen in just a few months
It is extremely important to be an active listener because you can actually benefit and learn from the person's life experiences due to multiple interactions, going to different places and have encountered different people. Then you can ask questions and genuinely be interested in their occupation, hobbies, interests etc.
I love how you truly listen to your community Jack. Thank you.
Not to be a dumbass, but watch the intro at 2x speed i promise it's hilarious.
Moral of the video, as long as you’re a man and you’re socially awkward, no one will ever give a fuck at all! People always expect men to bounce back and to get over their stresses and trails and tribulations. No one cares about mens issues and what he ever goes through in life
Exactly and the quicker you accept that and start changing your own situation the quicker you will be a happier man
My quote is "the world is cruel but you have to fight anyways." Your pain and suffering doesn't matter to the public, you have to take action
I'm awkward asf, but I just have to learn how to be social.
NEW ELITE - Gentleman's Club 🎩
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What app do you use to for the writing background of your videos?
Still the best group of guys that I’ve been apart of
CEO you don't have to be social all you have to do is meet me in the back of a limousine and we can go from there your looks are good enough trust me yeah I've been without a man for a long time sure is obvious amen alpha male
I accidently lost focus in listening to this guy talking 3 times. Im doomed.
I'm not socially awkward but I realised that I was mostly just talking with my friends.
Recently I've started asking things to people that I find even slightly interesting, and it feels amazing. I went on a trip yesterday with a friend and his family, I was cool with his cousin but never talked at length to him. He was sitting besides me and I saw a RUclips notification on his phone which had the logo of React Js (it's used in making websites and web apps) so I asked him about it. And then we had like an hour long conversation about many things, websites, going for a job in a new city, having to make new friends there, losing connection with guys after they've married , many many things.
Moral of the story? If you find something interesting about someone or something, just tell them and ask them about it. Most people will be happy to talk about it
The way to not be socially awkward is to focus on the person you are interacting with rather than what you imagine others perceive you as. Good for you for your newly learned lesson.
If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrder sure thing brother, you have a great channel .
@@karna5998 Feel free to use it to your benefit and never hesitate to ask for a second opinion if you ever get stuck on your challenges.
All the best to you!
The key is to listen to people
I'll do this today!!!!!
The part about people rarely being listened to is very true. I work in retail rn and it’s fascinating watching people open up to you so easily if you’re a sincere person that’s genuinely willing to listen. It really helps lower someone’s defensive guard of the world if you’re someone that can genuinely listen before talking
0:08 threw out my chair, aint sleepy anymore thx
It's not that you're born with it. It depends on your genes, your body's gut microbiome and all sorts. Science has proven that autistic men have a different microbiome in the gut, they did studies on fish. This actively impairs the social skills of the man from young. So it's not also... "a skill" to learn, which if you determine it by neuropsychology and it's all there is, it's not. It's also well... spiritually, that's a whole different ball game. There's a whole lot more.
all this advice will make you a boring nice guy
if you want people to want be friends with you what you need to do is you need to make them have fun be energetic,make them laugh,make every moment they are with you exciting
nowadays everybody is in their head and if you can make their life exciting and fun for the time they are with you then they will be easily attracted towards you
nobody wants be bored people seek entertainment at every second like if a person is in a boring social situation he will instantly pull out his phone just to get out of that state of mind
You can do both
But I do agree you should have charisma and be energetic
Can’t tell you how quickly someone with no character disinterests me
Scowling and head down is obviously terrible body language but I think smiling too much is bad, people don't take you serious, it's better to look serious and purposeful then constantly grinning like a maniac
A book list that you recommend coule be nice !
i just don’t talk to a lot of people from my school because all they do is talk abt people
So as an lifelong extrovert I struggled with talking too much,
i realized about 3 days ago that I don’t even have to speak my story’s but I can just ask
them and let them kinda talk the conversation that’s so easy
Lol, this Smeagol impression is priceless
what are some books you recommend reading
Show everyone how to apply Thai citizenship in your next video project!!!!!
my thai neighbours gonna kill me 0:08
Could you give a list of books you would recommend to read
Wish my dad had been like that.
"Smile, but smile selectively." ~ Top G.
0:09 the best gorilla start 🦍
I'm going to do this !!!❤❤❤
Keep that intro💯🦍
This is pure gold 🥇
Your father is a great man
Lets do this now !
Let's gooo
Last tip is martial arts
bro the intro scared the piss outta me
Kets do it
noone is gonna talk to you when youre being like Gollum lmao
And as and old men
im mastering the art of look everyone in the eyes but dont do the smile stuff to much. Definetly going to start doin it more often. Thanks for the tips. :)
Thanks
W dad 💪🏽
I just want to give up on all this shit but not feel bad about it. I do not want to need women or friends or social life after they scorned me for years. So I'm trapped... I cannot really improve without sacrifice, but also I cannot give up for good. So this is like hell. Both exists are suffering.
You know I isolate and I stick to myself a lot but on the other hand I'm very social don't give up just be yourself you would be amazed on how well that works but only with another genuine person good luck
The best conversationalists are usually the ones who go through a lot of experiences in their life. Especially through multiple interactions and going to multiple places. It helps you big time
I must just give one point i think its a mistake here, beaing extroverted or introverted are decided when we were born, but being social is a skill indeed. General misconception is that people think that introverts are poeple who are shy, anxious etc and extrovertrerts are open, bla bla. Only diffeence between int and ext are in way of thinking and expressing emotions, it has nothing to do with being social or not. People just say they are introverted to cope with their innability to be social
I got the body language just not the smile
Which make me think I probably look like a pretentious prick which probably is not wrong
Love your energy bro
This is gold
Love the energy that you've created in these videos. You're indeed the CEO of testosterone
I think one of my biggest issues is I make eye contact with everyone but don't smile
Literally had a girl come up to me and ask why I hate her lmao
😂😂🙏
@@JackhopkinsCEO ngl I thought it was gonna help that I did that and make me look more tough but I guess not💀
Also bro you should make a discord server
I heard something Andrew Tate said he said people love talking about themselves
jesus christ ur becoming king kong while u scream
Video I needed. This is something I’m actively working on, and have been for months. Something I find rather hard if I’m honest, especially with girls…. Good looking ones 😂
The smile is one I need to start doing. It generally hasn’t crossed my mind before, until I thought abiut it. Everyone does it. To me, I say ‘morning’… but I need to smile before hand. Hasn’t crossed my mind before. Not because I’m annoyed or anything, just hasn’t crossed my mind.
a useful joe weller
😂😂
I don't have a problem with that, my only problem is stuttering, can you make a video on it ?
Top summary of "how to win friends and influence people"
The endings are always the best XD
you are a god thankyou for improving my live
Some of these flaws in conversation are what narcissists do. Never listen, show no interest in learning about and from the other person. Just there waiting the whole time like you said, to tell someone all about what they want. Not an open conversation what so ever. Sad that there are so many of these Toxic people out there. Just have to spot it and get them out of your life asap.
I genuinely thought that you should pound your chest and roar if someone thinks your boring but then I realized it was edited lmao
😂😂😂
First suggestion is literal bullshit, high value books bring boredom to every normal conversation you may have with normal people. I believe they are the cause for me literally being silent most of the time because I genuinely don't care about what the other person is saying lol
You need to watch this video again mate 🙏
So there you go about sales he already got it set up
You have really lot of energy 🤣🤣
First.Bitches
Legend
Your channel looks alot like a replication of the orginal Top G Andrew Tate..he has charisma
Thankyou high value men tend to be similar 😉🦍
new suscriber✨
thanks big boy for all the videos, you are a top 1% man, but... You can stop doing the cringy intro's
Never 🦍
@@JackhopkinsCEO okay clear 🤣
W CEO father
good shit bro! Keep it up!!
Book advice ?
yee
Fire video 🔥🦍
UH UH UH!!!🦍🦍🦍
Should I fix my hygiene and body before trying these things
Probably a good place to start 🙏🦍
@@JackhopkinsCEO thanks, I’ve already started college so my classmates have already seen my ugly side. Hopefully by the end of the year when I look different they’ll gravitate toward my pants
that channel is pure game
Use all the useful resources at your disposal to better yourself. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
Can you make a video about flirting?
Yes sir I can I’ll give you the gorilla guide to flirting
@@JackhopkinsCEO fuckin love this guy.
Watching this for the second time, 1st was while working out, now at home, having the gorilla in gym gives you a boost 🦍💪
This video is exactly the Gorilla version of How to make friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie 🔥
Yeaaaaaah boooyyyyy 🦍🦍🦍🦍🦍🦍🦍 🦍
what books do you suggest gorrila man
Awaken the giant within
Rich dad poor dad
4 hour work week