How to Not Get NERVOUS While Talking To Strangers

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  • Опубликовано: 13 июн 2024
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    If you are like me, whenever you have to talk to a stranger, these thoughts come to your mind also.
    What if they don’t like me? / Oh God but my English is so bad./ Do I look okay?/ What if they think I am stupid?
    I was shit scared of talking to new people too. But I still I went on to represent India at the World Championship of Public Speaking at Florida, USA after winning 4 rounds. And if I can stand on that stage, and talk to 100’s of strangers without peeing my pants, so can you. And today I am going to tell you exactly how.
    So it doesn’t matter if you want to want to go to a stranger and say Hi, give smashing presentations to 100’s of strangers or simply ask a guy or a girl out on a date…..today by the end of this video, you will learn how to be confident while talking to strangers.
    Today’s Agenda:
    So in today’s video we are going to learn:
    1) How to talk to one stranger.
    2) How to talk to 10-12 strangers in a Group Discussion, especially during interviews.
    3) And finally, we are going to see, how to master public speaking and give brilliant presentations, be it in your school or your office.
    4) But most importantly, in the end I’ll give you a Bonus Tip that will turn the tables and make you fall in love with talking to strangers.
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  • @navalkumarshukla9447
    @navalkumarshukla9447 4 года назад +501

    I smiled when she said, "how are you so smart, do you also watch urban fight videos?"

    • @jyotisan3974
      @jyotisan3974 4 года назад +6

      Same I also 😂😂😂

    • @hamzaalatta2603
      @hamzaalatta2603 4 года назад +8

      Because it is part of public speaking skills. Where you complement the audience to get their attention.

    • @santoshram8608
      @santoshram8608 3 года назад +3

      @@jyotisan3974 i88

    • @icloud6651
      @icloud6651 3 года назад +3

      Nice you and your English is so good

    • @azeemhussain1962
      @azeemhussain1962 3 года назад +2

      I also experienced same expression on my face as well. 👍 to The Urban fight.
      Best wishes for you brilliant work.

  • @shashankkumar1736
    @shashankkumar1736 5 лет назад +2388

    How many of you think she should give a TedX Talk

  • @susanentertainment9154
    @susanentertainment9154 4 года назад +274

    I'm in love with her way of speaking.

  • @surabhipandey5041
    @surabhipandey5041 3 года назад +101

    "Go back and do it again"....Yes that's how I learned dance when I also got rejected in my school days and after 7 years of this I was the one who teaches others and sometimes I was the one who selects or rejects.
    And after this I never reject someone who has passion for the thing.
    Thanks for your videos.

  • @nandanipatel370
    @nandanipatel370 5 лет назад +181

    That line, "being perfect would not liked by others " is lit 👍.....

  • @sureshkumar-ph6nc
    @sureshkumar-ph6nc 5 лет назад +298

    I've fallen in love with ur speech. Lots of love from Tamilnadu.

    • @richardphyz6696
      @richardphyz6696 5 лет назад +4

      Me too

    • @namastaeimgod7954
      @namastaeimgod7954 5 лет назад +5

      Me too🙋🏻. She's great ❤

    • @jerlinnadar6037
      @jerlinnadar6037 4 года назад +3

      Me toooo

    • @jayapriya8138
      @jayapriya8138 4 года назад +3

      Yaa.... From TAMIL NADU....💕 There r many addicted prsnz on ur speech... GREAT & AWESOME BUDDY.... 😎😎 KEEP GOING....

    • @Mr-hr7bx
      @Mr-hr7bx 4 года назад +1

      🙌

  • @himanshitrivedi1310
    @himanshitrivedi1310 4 года назад +17

    The last time I gave a great presentation was yesterday itself. I am currently pursuing PGDM & doing my internship online from a marketing agency. Yesterday I gave a presentation to the Co-founder and CTO of company through video conf on 'A demo about giving proposal to your client'. He ranked me first among all the interns and was kind of happy with my presentation skills after which my confidence is next level. I really am thankful for your constant help to freshers like me .

    • @divyam2450
      @divyam2450 3 года назад

      Congratulations 👏👏👏.... Keep it up🔥

  • @nimssinha5373
    @nimssinha5373 3 года назад +27

    Your motivating thoughts in the last make me feel confident that "I can fight to be fit"😄

  • @pranabkumarmandal3416
    @pranabkumarmandal3416 4 года назад +73

    I'm extremely influence by you.I want to speak in English like you.And I am hopeful that my regular practice,hardwork and also your videos helps me to speak in English with strangers.

  • @shaheensiddiqui9682
    @shaheensiddiqui9682 4 года назад +9

    I just want to tell you that I am so glad I got to know about you and the superb videos that you upload every Thursday... I honestly adore you and feel so great every time I watch your videos... I hope to become as fearless and confident as you are. Thank you for doing what you're doing for us❤

  • @bhanunani7926
    @bhanunani7926 4 года назад +32

    I Just fallen love with your magical voice 😍 You nailed it already 🙏

  • @swapnalishinde8991
    @swapnalishinde8991 2 года назад +1

    I love the way you explain the things so easily and in an interactive way.

  • @rajeshj.6919
    @rajeshj.6919 5 лет назад +88

    Dear sister,
    Your videos are great, never stop making these. I'll keep on hitting big fat like button. Thank you soo much.

  • @shalakachoughule3013
    @shalakachoughule3013 5 лет назад +6

    Hey fighter, you are amazing. Keep doing this immensely honest work.

  • @bhanunani7926
    @bhanunani7926 4 года назад +46

    Your activeness kills my patience 🤣👌

  • @sakshitomar6107
    @sakshitomar6107 3 года назад +2

    Now i'll definitely tell my friends and colleagues that u r an impeccable youtubers for all of us....really🥰. Your style to clear every topics is remarkable.

  • @sulabhaboharupi6529
    @sulabhaboharupi6529 4 года назад +10

    Hi... I regularly watch videos on you tube for different topics but this video is so true and practical... I m really impressed with your work and the way you structure this topic ... keep up the good work ....!

  • @SaurabhYadav-bh3xf
    @SaurabhYadav-bh3xf 4 года назад +18

    Your achievements and way of talking is adorable I also want to speak English like you only...love urban fight

  • @vishalverma1867
    @vishalverma1867 4 года назад +2

    Seriously
    I'm in love with way the you talk and express your ideas. I also want be confident like you and I also like your videos very much.
    Thank you so much

  • @Liaalan13
    @Liaalan13 3 года назад

    When I am getting nervous before attending any public speaking or group discussion I will watch motivational videos especially urban fight videos .I love the way she speaks and watching her videos make me not only motivated but also make me learn new words .

  • @kavithakavi6943
    @kavithakavi6943 4 года назад +18

    That was very awesome, it boosted my confidence level like anything...!

  • @priyafrancis8402
    @priyafrancis8402 5 лет назад +4

    Mam truly u changed my mind set.. n every confussion that i had.. loved the way u talk... n thanks for making me little more knowledgeable n confident.. thanku soomuch. I have been through all your vidios that really helped me..

  • @thaibaps6834
    @thaibaps6834 2 года назад

    This is what i was searching for.... And i just got you from my youtube nitifcation, trust me , from that moment onwards i couldn't stop myself from seeing your vedios again and again....

  • @nikitakulkarni901
    @nikitakulkarni901 4 года назад

    Thankyou for the video..I am so happy to hear on this topic from you. You are a source of inspiration for so many lives! Keep going!

  • @aapkachashma
    @aapkachashma 3 года назад +4

    I'm really thankful to you because you are motivating everything and even helping to us 😀

  • @zahwa1231
    @zahwa1231 5 лет назад +4

    Happy Ramadan Di!
    This was very much needed...Thank you! ☺😘

  • @asmitathakur3040
    @asmitathakur3040 3 года назад +2

    Thx for giving me that confidence..u have a lovely smile.. positive vibes..n extensive knowledge on everything under the sky....

  • @musicalabhi4866
    @musicalabhi4866 3 года назад

    how you make everything so organized and easy to understand is just unbelievable.

  • @Kavya1745
    @Kavya1745 4 года назад +5

    Ya.... Ur videos are really inspirational.Even I too got inspired by seeing Ur English.please keep making more videos on public speaking and how to face interviews,it helps a lot for youths..

  • @kritikathakur8266
    @kritikathakur8266 4 года назад +14

    Hatts off to u...u r great and u know the weaker part n u tell what people go through when they start for something new...and u encourage them to be confident ...thanku so much

  • @vijayasmiley8949
    @vijayasmiley8949 4 года назад +1

    Thank you urban fight.you gave me a good hope to start my English learning journey. Iam very afraid to speak English infront of people and scolded myself for many times.now I will follow your suggestions and can make myself better

  • @bala6856
    @bala6856 4 года назад +1

    2020 starts with your videos...thank you

  • @pradeeshs4330
    @pradeeshs4330 4 года назад +13

    Good feeling to seeing this video bcz I got nervous when I facing my clients , now I getting some ideas from here,, thanks for this video..

  • @annoor_moink4509
    @annoor_moink4509 5 лет назад +17

    I love your way of talking telling us the things about confidence,how talk with anyone... u r osmm ma'am luv ur way❤👍

  • @harshadabhand4727
    @harshadabhand4727 3 года назад

    You are really good at convincing people...and I like your attitude and the way you talk!

  • @rabiasaleem8019
    @rabiasaleem8019 4 года назад

    My last speech was on annual functionschool and later my school director appreciated me and I love it 🥰 you’re an amazing girl

  • @sinhaji6469
    @sinhaji6469 4 года назад +426

    I also want to speak English like you😭😭😭😭😭

    • @motupatlugamingpk
      @motupatlugamingpk 4 года назад +5

      I also want to speak english

    • @jayapriya8138
      @jayapriya8138 4 года назад +9

      Sure U all can...

    • @motupatlugamingpk
      @motupatlugamingpk 4 года назад +1

      @@jayapriya8138 we can practice

    • @tukeshsahu676
      @tukeshsahu676 4 года назад +6

      @@motupatlugamingpk mere sath practice krle bhai.... Engle priya me hi kya rkha h😂😂😂

    • @iamsakshidev5692
      @iamsakshidev5692 4 года назад +8

      if anyone would like to practice with me, reply must.

  • @getlucky5
    @getlucky5 5 лет назад +5

    I was just like every other person you mentioned in the video .After engineering i decided that i am not going to sit Idle at home and joined Wipro BPO and I am still glad that I made that decision.I used to talk to american's all the time and used to love it.My fear of public speaking is gone forever and it helps a lot in clearing interviews as well.

  • @poojapatil8595
    @poojapatil8595 4 года назад

    your smile only increases anyone's confident ty for this video

  • @hemant7464
    @hemant7464 4 года назад

    So confident and simple you are while speaking, I like it ,thankyou!

  • @hemanttribhuvan4418
    @hemanttribhuvan4418 4 года назад +5

    Dear ma'am,I appreciate your initiative against the beginners in english talking like us and plenty thankful for that..honestly it really helps and motivates us..it feels energetic while watching your videos everytime..keep doing 👍 nd lots of love from Maharashtra 💓

  • @deejay3818
    @deejay3818 4 года назад +6

    So last month I hosted the annual Process Party of my company. Though I have given speeches and presentations earlier but this was something big as compared to my previous events. Everything went very well and I received appreciations from my leadership but after watching your video I felt that if I would have seen this before it would have been an icing on the cake. Great video

  • @solomoninteriorsinteriorde7085
    @solomoninteriorsinteriorde7085 3 года назад +1

    You're a very good teacher.
    Thank you for this lesson.

  • @jyothilekshmi5860
    @jyothilekshmi5860 Год назад

    Oh my dear....you are INCREDIBLE!!!! What a perfection....thank you so much for your efforts 👍👍👍

  • @brownshortgirl
    @brownshortgirl 5 лет назад +4

    You are doing a great job... Thank you so much for sharing such valuable contents with us.....

  • @krishnanjalipattanayak4212
    @krishnanjalipattanayak4212 4 года назад +5

    That one point i liked the most in your video-
    "Being perfect doesn't make any sense that people will like you. They will just hate you"....
    Very true it is......i too believe that let people notice you with some imperfections so that they will find some simplicity in you and either of judging you in all angles they will try to get in touch with you. And that is the bonus for us to be a noticeable person.....
    Love your videos and always follow your level of confidence
    While you speak-👍👌

    • @papakipari3264
      @papakipari3264 3 года назад

      Sister would u english practice with me.im biggner

  • @chon94katie32
    @chon94katie32 4 года назад +1

    Than you so much!
    I love your smile and confident.
    God bless you and use you more and more in your life.
    I am blessed by you!

  • @firdos4857
    @firdos4857 3 года назад

    Thank you for this unconditional support...🤗

  • @akhilkurian9245
    @akhilkurian9245 5 лет назад +4

    Really amazing... Your words is such an inspiration for me

  • @m.karthik4126
    @m.karthik4126 5 лет назад +9

    nice video i think u uploaded this just for me b coz i am a shy person basically by this video my eyes are opened thanku very much

  • @prabhdeepsingh475
    @prabhdeepsingh475 3 года назад

    I like the way she speaks. She speaks so effectively

  • @le_509deepika8
    @le_509deepika8 3 года назад

    I never commented on your Videos. But I jus Wanna Say this to You Ma'am Thank you a lot. The way you Speak motivates us A lot...

  • @thanujapadmanabhan2975
    @thanujapadmanabhan2975 5 лет назад +3

    Last good speech I heard was from you only.
    I am so inspired by the way you talk

  • @rakshitbhatt4168
    @rakshitbhatt4168 5 лет назад +15

    Ma'am you are a life saver for me in each and every field of life....love your videos ma'am....keep it up...always in your support😊😊👍👍

  • @pachuruaakash4666
    @pachuruaakash4666 4 года назад

    I like your bonus tip and also this Slogan Keep fighting The Urban Fight to be fit!

  • @sourabhsinghrajput6674
    @sourabhsinghrajput6674 3 года назад +1

    Ur presentation and content in every video is top class

  • @rayonnhealthhomeopathy2536
    @rayonnhealthhomeopathy2536 5 лет назад +4

    Such a talented human you are , you always make sure to motivate people ,keep it up !!
    Also by my personal experience I would like to share that I did Art of living organisation's various courses and these programs have helped me alot to enhance my performance and personality (socially)as well.

  • @thedityavlogs878
    @thedityavlogs878 5 лет назад +13

    Hlo... Thanku Di. Seriously first tym I watch your vedio and u know I was like... Wow... Awwasome... Seriously I love ur vedio.... This is very helpful as well as very motivational vedio......... ,

  • @karamjotkaur5181
    @karamjotkaur5181 3 года назад +2

    I really love the way you speak , it's amazing . I also wanna speak like you confidentially and clearly.I trying my best .May I achieve my goals soon by watching your videos and by practicing 😊😊

  • @khailalsangkhaute4803
    @khailalsangkhaute4803 3 года назад +1

    May be the best youtuber i came across, you are making vlog on the three topics that i really need

  • @jenithrajlawat
    @jenithrajlawat 3 года назад +4

    Believing in yourself is the primary requirement to excude confidence in any scenario may it be GD,One to One conversation or Public speaking. So believe in yourself, for that process to happen be competent and work your way through it and you will be more confident than ever before.

  • @Art_heal_
    @Art_heal_ 5 лет назад +3

    Hey! I just found your channel in my suggestion nd just saw some few of your earlier videos about career nd jobs to get some idea.... Nd knw what it makes me feel so happy nd motivated while watching your videos ! Thank you for all the information which you are providing about career, jobs ,finance nd many more ☺

  • @DisciplineTraderMindset
    @DisciplineTraderMindset 4 года назад +1

    Am watching your all videos.. Your each and every videos tell me that i am the only fighter of my problems... your videos really help me to find out the actual way of my problems and how to slove it....

  • @karthikkumarnarayanasamy409
    @karthikkumarnarayanasamy409 3 года назад

    Wonderful explanation. Thanks. Keep going!!!!

  • @MWKHAN-jj5lr
    @MWKHAN-jj5lr 4 года назад +3

    omg concluding lines are the best i have ever heard on RUclips 😊

  • @riktanath1171
    @riktanath1171 4 года назад +3

    I like your way of talking it makes me so confident in few minutes . Thank you very much. You can also start dis kind of app. I m sure it will help us more in speaking and help us to be confident as well.

  • @padma22sriram93
    @padma22sriram93 Год назад +1

    Love your career videos !! Thank you for providing such good content 👍

  • @pranay9669
    @pranay9669 3 года назад

    I love the way how u explain so informally 😄👏🏽❤️

  • @rijaysarkar3941
    @rijaysarkar3941 5 лет назад +20

    Thank you mam I got my first job. I followed your gd videos and interview tips 😊.

  • @poojalondhe4193
    @poojalondhe4193 5 лет назад +3

    Hey you are doing great job👍 your videos are very helpful😊

  • @gkaur663
    @gkaur663 4 года назад

    Dear, you are so energetic and positive. Thanks to be on RUclips for us. You really inspires me everytime. Love you dear, I'm waiting for your next video on English speaking.

  • @arjunkumarpandey4680
    @arjunkumarpandey4680 3 года назад

    I have started watching your video from Today morning, and till now I have finished around 12 videos of yours.
    More power to you Girls. Thanks 🙏

  • @gunjan_
    @gunjan_ 5 лет назад +16

    How many of you think, she should appear in MAN KI BAAT

  • @alekh_
    @alekh_ 5 лет назад +7

    You are awesome. I watched all of your videos and learned very much. I think you are doing a great job , keep going on...

  • @soniaghulamnabi8081
    @soniaghulamnabi8081 4 года назад

    You speaks very smoothly

  • @baheejsajad7138
    @baheejsajad7138 3 года назад

    Your type of speaking...is so clear...😊....

  • @sportscars-bikes
    @sportscars-bikes 5 лет назад +5

    Thanks for this video...
    This was so amazing i got some more confidence to speak English....
    When you are doing Q N A video...

  • @jyotiagrawal8449
    @jyotiagrawal8449 5 лет назад +7

    I had never commented on your video but this time i had to, this video really motivated me, so that i can believe in my self again, thankyou so much 😊

  • @nareshsharma2962
    @nareshsharma2962 Год назад

    you are the great ma'am, you are the inspiration ............... thank you so much !!

  • @vigneshr3892
    @vigneshr3892 4 года назад

    Ur speech is awesome....I m addicted to your voice.....

  • @priyam6812
    @priyam6812 5 лет назад +132

    I think U hv the ability to reduce anyone's nervousness just by smiling at him/her😊😊😊 what great influencer u r❤❤❤

  • @zahidrabbani63
    @zahidrabbani63 4 года назад +60

    Fallen in love with u after listening u.😂...such a gr8t speaker u r keep it up👍
    .

  • @premavathyganesh2609
    @premavathyganesh2609 2 года назад +1

    Every Time when you fails, "Go back do it again". This sentence motivate me a lot.. Thank you mam.

  • @OfficiallyHari
    @OfficiallyHari 2 года назад

    I always love it whenever the girls in my class speak with such confidence in front of the whole class without breaking a sweat. i had always wanted to speak like them. thank you ma'am😊

  • @arromalbr8410
    @arromalbr8410 5 лет назад +3

    Nice your vedios seems more effective to me. Thanks

  • @heckerstricker11
    @heckerstricker11 4 года назад +4

    Thanks ma'am for your brilliant words and knowledge...it really help me alot
    And your way of speaking is tooooo much calm n brilliant...😘

  • @rosandias1853
    @rosandias1853 Год назад

    My first web search how to give interview urban fight video popped up and I’m so grateful that all my nervousness is gone

  • @SalmaBegum-jy8qd
    @SalmaBegum-jy8qd 4 года назад

    All ur videos are superb sister
    And specially ur confidence of speaking Soo well in a simple way

  • @shreya3770
    @shreya3770 3 года назад +6

    Thank you so much didi ...for giving beautiful advice that how can I learn spoken English in easily step ....I know it's not an easy but your advice, your personality, motivation makes me a great person 😌 you build my back bone that's why I 1st time comment on your video in English. ...OH MY GOD 😱😱😱 😅 ..... thank you didi ....I'm from kolkata. ....
    I sent you lots of love from kolkata❤❤❤❤

  • @Ayanokouji94
    @Ayanokouji94 5 лет назад +7

    Thankyou! I will try Cambly.

  • @lokeshb3209
    @lokeshb3209 3 года назад

    Superb. I love your tips and your style of speech

  • @pehanihansika5007
    @pehanihansika5007 4 года назад

    These videos are very valuable. Thanks a lot

  • @nagaratnapriyankamaddu2639
    @nagaratnapriyankamaddu2639 5 лет назад +3

    Thanks for this video .
    It is veryful to us.make ore video to encourage us mam.these videos are very helpful at the time of our interviw.once again thanku mam for uploading such a nice videos

  • @sandeepkasi5947
    @sandeepkasi5947 3 года назад +3

    This was really helped me , when I'm having my public speaking session in my school
    Thank you mam😚

  • @naturalbeautyclips8998
    @naturalbeautyclips8998 4 года назад

    Absolutely right what you are talking about... I'm not adopt in English but i have the capability to understand.. If I want to talk with someone in English then heart breath... I'm following your video for few days and im getting encourage..... I never studied out books accept academic books... now I'm decided for buy books which you are mentioned in the last video

  • @mulusew3613
    @mulusew3613 3 года назад +1

    really I appreciate your dynamic nature and expert of delivering or providing the course

  • @aartigoswami781
    @aartigoswami781 5 лет назад +27

    I like ur videos.. All are very informative.. Specially interview related 😊

  • @societymentor9527
    @societymentor9527 5 лет назад +23

    Really very useful videos you make you deserve 100million+ views 🤩😍

  • @rajilakshmi9323
    @rajilakshmi9323 4 года назад

    Thank you for giving such confidence to everyone😊

  • @sindhubhuvi2361
    @sindhubhuvi2361 4 года назад +1

    Nervousness is not a stop sign,it's a growth sign.... I like this lines...👌