Hidden cameras capture 2 abuse victims confronting Catholic priest

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2018
  • A former Catholic priest pleaded guilty to sexual abuse charges involving two boys. David Poulson faces up to 14 years in prison for incidents that happened between 2002 and 2010. He's one of only two Pennsylvania priests to face charges since a grand jury report identified hundreds of abusive clergy. Nikki Battiste spoke with two victims who confronted another priest with hidden cameras.
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  • @marrisadominguez7122
    @marrisadominguez7122 5 лет назад +1514

    There should never be statue of limitations on rape! These victims struggle their whole life with trauma.

    • @coughpillbox748
      @coughpillbox748 5 лет назад +24

      We should just knock down this statue of limitation!

    • @1catmac
      @1catmac 5 лет назад +3

      Marrisa Dominguez Then they have had bad therapists

    • @mr.d.572
      @mr.d.572 5 лет назад +25

      Agree, there should not be a statute of limitations on rape.

    • @rebeccaoprea9917
      @rebeccaoprea9917 5 лет назад +2

      Marrisa Dominguez yeah but it costs everyone else money . I get it .

    • @maryallison0509
      @maryallison0509 5 лет назад +13

      Marrisa Dominguez I can’t agree more. Sexual abuse is something that takes years to face in some cases. And when it happens the victims go threw a guilt of looking at their actions. And questioning if they did something to cause it. And if the person is strong enough to report it immediately then they get questioned by the police in the same accusatory way. And rape and sexual assault seems to be the only crime that becomes a case of the accuser needs to defend their actions. It is horrible.

  • @shermanbogardiii884
    @shermanbogardiii884 5 лет назад +685

    I confronted my family sexual abuser at 17..I asked for an apology. I got one...for me not for the abuser...I am proud of these guys. Good for you both!

    • @Slowburn726
      @Slowburn726 5 лет назад +27

      Sorry you went through that.

    • @chelllockhart9404
      @chelllockhart9404 5 лет назад +7

      Keep praying

    • @Hinatachan360
      @Hinatachan360 5 лет назад +53

      I was molested by a family member. When I confronted him about it he claimed he didn't remember doing it but he apologized anyway. That made no sense to me. If I had no memory of abusing someone I wouldn't apologize for it. I think he was lying and just didn't want to admit in front of my mother that he molested me for 10 years.

    • @kathleendavenport4988
      @kathleendavenport4988 5 лет назад +18

      My sperm donor father apologized but then in my 30's he told me he cold do it again because he did it to me for so long. By the way he is a registered sex offender till he dies and I am the one who put him on that list. He was never sorry that he raped me from the age of 5-14

    • @Hinatachan360
      @Hinatachan360 5 лет назад +6

      @@kathleendavenport4988 Did you cut him out of your life? That's what I did. I didn't even introduce him to my boyfriend.

  • @ThePubbub
    @ThePubbub 5 лет назад +322

    Those two guys are insanely brave, going public like this. Pain turned into strength. Righteous.

    • @user-xu7mn5ks8s
      @user-xu7mn5ks8s 2 года назад +2

      This is a wound for the Catholic Church, they are not all like that, there are priests who give their lives for love of neighbor

  • @JasonFerguson1283
    @JasonFerguson1283 5 лет назад +313

    To see the pain of these men still suffering for so many years. Tragic and evil!

    • @lauramarie8485
      @lauramarie8485 5 лет назад +5

      To see him welling up hit hard

    • @RestWithin
      @RestWithin 4 года назад +1

      It’s interesting how one victim appeared much less emotionally traumatised than the other.

    • @patsyoconner9506
      @patsyoconner9506 3 года назад +4

      it happened when he was young it is buried deep in his being and does not want to resurrect it for fear of what it will do to him but none the less it is always there

    • @daniellephongsay8422
      @daniellephongsay8422 3 года назад +4

      It never goes away, no matter how hard your try to forget it, or stay busy. I’ve learned so much about dealing with my traumatic experience as a child, and it absolutely sucks because while your left to deal with anxiety, depression, sadness, your abuser is fine because they are sick in the head and enjoyed what they did and see no wrong. What I have learned is forgiving is the key. People say they will never forgive, but for me it’s truly helped me to let it go and not try to continue to hide it or cover it up. Again it doesn’t go away, but your not chained to the trauma anymore plus my faith in God and knowing one day we all are going to be held accountable for what we have done here on earth.

    • @user-xu7mn5ks8s
      @user-xu7mn5ks8s 2 года назад

      This is a wound for the Catholic Church, they are not all like that, there are priests who give their lives for love of neighbor

  • @lisamulieri4083
    @lisamulieri4083 5 лет назад +206

    Sooo messed up that they seemed more worried about losing their FAKE standing in their church, rather than being worried about their SOUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @BunnyBitch76
      @BunnyBitch76 3 года назад +9

      they have giving their souls to someone else than god. everyone in church who hide,support or protect pedos has worship Lucifer..not God.

    • @gieaudrey1611
      @gieaudrey1611 3 года назад

      They don't soul!! Remembetvthey are the ones who killed Christ 2000years ago. Now they are fox in sheeps skin.

    • @edub9930
      @edub9930 3 года назад +5

      Doing satan's work in the "house of god" smdh

    • @Spicynoodle2.0
      @Spicynoodle2.0 Год назад +1

      God is not in the books God is all around us. This man doesn’t believe in God at all and sees religion as a means to take advantage of good people. Be careful and do not ever depend your faith in on God another Human.

  • @elchamber
    @elchamber 2 года назад +53

    Victims blaming themselves is terrible. It’s heartbreaking. I wish the best for them.

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes 5 лет назад +611

    The catholic church should have reported those pedophiles to the authorities long ago

    • @georgediaz2529
      @georgediaz2529 5 лет назад +44

      Queen Cee absolutely!! I’m a Catholic and find this repulsive, they should have jailed all of them

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 5 лет назад +58

      The hide them, they just transfer them

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 5 лет назад +27

      The Catholic church is not truly in the business of spreading the gospel and God's love. They are secretively in the business of pedophilia, corruption, and money. That is why they transfer them over. They want to spread the pedophilia rather than stopping it at the roots. If you think this is about too much forgiveness, you are sorely mistaken. This is about allowing evil to spread in seemingly good places for the purpose of power and corruption. Haven't you heard Jesus say you are liars and deceivers and you are of your father, the devil. These are not godly people. They are evil and clearly doing the enemies work- their actions prove it. The leaders of the Catholic Church are not Christians but rather wolves in sheep's clothing. Haven't they proven that enough already? time and time again, priest after priest, victim after victim, the church sweeps the sin and evil under the rug so as to cover it up rather than you bring the darkness into light and take responsibility. This alone should prove to everyone that it's not a genuine christian church. The parishioners on the other hand are not a part of this evil because they are left mostly unaware but they are still being led astray by the many evils of the catholic church.

    • @dominicksebastien2254
      @dominicksebastien2254 5 лет назад +7

      It should've been reported but when you say Catholic Church, I am not sure you know what you mean. This were things done in the Church, by the Church, from the Church to the Church. The Church is not simply top down institution. There are so many people and so many things interconected here that it's impossible anomalies not to exist. And yet, in all this interconectedness, each and every single cell of this huge, enormous, community right down the family, has its autonomy.
      If you have 100000000 believers, 1000000 communities, it would be impossible not to excpect that there were hundreds of communities that have become disfunctional.
      You have cells in your body, all the time, there are abnormal cells whuch you are not even aware of. They got eliminated all the time, but if your immunity is compromised, you will get sick.

    • @MariaHernandez-bg2hf
      @MariaHernandez-bg2hf 5 лет назад +17

      It’s not only the Catholic Church it’s many churches and religions

  • @marianaaleman1814
    @marianaaleman1814 5 лет назад +102

    Their face express so much pain. It makes my heart break.

    • @Christandnature
      @Christandnature 4 года назад +3

      Thanks for being an understanding human being. I'm dancing with my demons and watching these videos to know I'm not alone.-holly a survivor

  • @robertinoyanzanny275
    @robertinoyanzanny275 Год назад +60

    I was abused by the same abuser when I was 5-7 , 55 years ago I still think about those dark moments, the disgusting view, the bad odor, the pain. No child should go through this.

    • @HawthorneHillNaturePreserve
      @HawthorneHillNaturePreserve Год назад +1

      ❤😢

    • @lauritagv
      @lauritagv Год назад +3

      I’m very sorry you went through this.

    • @videorocketzmillar007milla5
      @videorocketzmillar007milla5 11 месяцев назад +3

      Get an attorney today. You need closure and more. Many prayers for strength. Dont delay. We love u❤

    • @chocolatetownforever7537
      @chocolatetownforever7537 10 месяцев назад

      God, thats awful. I am so sorry Robert, and I want you to know what Im sure you already do.
      Youre a survivor, and are such a strong person. I dont know you, but I admire you for both.
      God bless you always.

    • @chelseajanae5497
      @chelseajanae5497 9 месяцев назад

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @diaryofanotdgirl89
    @diaryofanotdgirl89 Год назад +79

    So much respect to these survivors for what they did after being abused as kids…

  • @22B420
    @22B420 5 лет назад +113

    I worked with someone that went through and is still going through this... The pain has still not ended for him and I feel horrible for him, this is so vile especially because they're supposed to be trusted

    • @leosun3203
      @leosun3203 5 лет назад +1

      And still going on !!?? Why .

    • @user-xu7mn5ks8s
      @user-xu7mn5ks8s 2 года назад

      This is a wound for the Catholic Church, they are not all like that, there are priests who give their lives for love of neighbor

    • @lovepower4899
      @lovepower4899 6 месяцев назад

      Can they go to a police ?

  • @nostoppingit7827
    @nostoppingit7827 5 лет назад +108

    To confront your abuser takes such amazing courage. Hope this was able to bring you some sense of healing and peace.
    If only abusers had an ounce of your courage and would seek help rather than inflicting such pain on a child.

  • @rebeccaoprea9917
    @rebeccaoprea9917 5 лет назад +105

    I doubt it was only those two .

    • @Patchdee1
      @Patchdee1 2 года назад

      It is never just two!

  • @hamzasr6501
    @hamzasr6501 5 лет назад +33

    man in the glasses is amazing. his approach to forgiveness, phenomenal. i hope they all find peace. i hope this rampant cycle of sexual assault in our world ends, now.

    • @KJ-lb4tj
      @KJ-lb4tj 2 года назад

      Hope is a great thing. But reality is humanity will always do evil inside and outside of any and every institution.

  • @carlasullivan3637
    @carlasullivan3637 5 лет назад +76

    Brave men to confront him. I'm so glad they did.

  • @brandovegan609
    @brandovegan609 4 года назад +32

    He belongs in Prison.
    😔 Makes me sick.
    There shouldn't be a- statute of limitations.

    • @brandovegan609
      @brandovegan609 4 года назад +6

      Rhys Middleton. Absolutely... No exceptions...

  • @scottishroad_pinoy9084
    @scottishroad_pinoy9084 5 лет назад +98

    My heart is broken for these men. I’m sorry.

  • @mikeletterst9882
    @mikeletterst9882 3 года назад +72

    It takes a lot of strength and courage to do this. Thank you men. You have done nothing wrong and your story will inspire many victims to come out and receive the help they need.

  • @zachthamm9595
    @zachthamm9595 4 года назад +61

    Not mention the history of the church is so dark I can't understand why people remain members

    • @Maria-hc3qm
      @Maria-hc3qm 3 года назад +8

      Most times these ppl don’t know the history & tend to stay bc they want to get closer to God & have a relationship with him. What makes me sad, is that these sick ppl are the ones that mess it up for the ppl who are actually trying to get close with God. Remember y’all, don’t let religious ppl stray you from a relationship with God! Bc they aren’t representing God !🥺🙏

    • @zachthamm9595
      @zachthamm9595 3 года назад +5

      @@Maria-hc3qm True. Most logical people can have faith without being members of organizations

    • @zachthamm9595
      @zachthamm9595 2 года назад

      @@ChristIsLord7 Well I agree with you and Trumpism is proof that terrible people who are protestants. I have many catholic family members so I disagree on some other issues. I believe in God and spirituality not denominational churches and their politcal agendas. I have a better relationship with God now. So why judge me you uneducated foolish heathen.

    • @zachthamm9595
      @zachthamm9595 2 года назад

      @@ChristIsLord7 Easy there Jebidiah. Your probably a social media Christian trumper Ben Shapiro follower not a pure one with true faith or a family history of faith.

    • @kentstallard6512
      @kentstallard6512 2 года назад +1

      @@ChristIsLord7 No, it's not a few 'bad apples.' The RCC was born in corruption (in the 4th century, as a quid-pro-quo between corrupt bishops and the pagan Emperor Constantine). Many Popes were terrible. The institution has led bloody Crusades and supported ruthless dictators throughout its sordid history.
      The child abuse problem is just one of many examples.

  • @SJM6791
    @SJM6791 3 года назад +31

    I’m a Catholic and anger doesn’t adequately describe how I feel about what this Priest did to these young men. It’s absolutely disgusting!!! I’m even more embarrassed and ashamed at how my church has covered up so many crimes just like this one. NEVER AGAIN can crimes like this be allowed to happen in our church. We have to immediately confront and report any allegations like this to law enforcement regardless of how it effects our church. The truth is what will give us credibility going forward.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 2 года назад +3

      Just quit giving them $$ and make them accountable for taxes like the rest of us.
      That'll stop that sh*t. Lol

    • @marygreen2672
      @marygreen2672 Год назад +3

      God knows what these priests do. They can't escape his wrath. God have mercy on them. So sorry for what these men have been through.

    • @SJM6791
      @SJM6791 Год назад +2

      @@marygreen2672- Sorry, but I pray that God shows them no mercy. What they have done is unforgivable.

    • @marygreen2672
      @marygreen2672 Год назад +5

      @@SJM6791, it's a terrible tragedy. But your suppose to forgive, but it's hard to do. And can't forget. I pray the victims recover from this. And pray the abusers go to jail. The abusers need to repent and mean it. This needs to stop. It's disgusting.

    • @Dirlewanger.
      @Dirlewanger. 10 месяцев назад

      And yet you continue to go to a church that harbors pedophiles and attempts to cover up the widespread corruption of the church. Renounce your catholic faith, you don't need a church to believe.

  • @ricardorodriguez5549
    @ricardorodriguez5549 4 года назад +16

    Here’s the thing: by “forgiving” the abuser (and letting them continue to abuse other kids), I could never forgive myself for letting those future victims down. Forgiveness is only possible when the predators are behind bars or under the ground: the only places they can no longer harm kids.

  • @beard05
    @beard05 5 лет назад +24

    Molestation is a premeditated act , how can you

  • @Margarita1928forever
    @Margarita1928forever Год назад +12

    These men are so strong to speak about their experiences and confront the priest. You can see the pain in their eyes 💔

  • @HawthorneHillNaturePreserve
    @HawthorneHillNaturePreserve Год назад +11

    These are two very brave men! My heart goes out to all the young children that suffered in silence never to get justice or closure. ❤😢

  • @jakecorynthian3516
    @jakecorynthian3516 5 лет назад +25

    My respect to those 2 brave souls for confronting their traumatic past. I hope this move represents a small milestone towards liberation and moving on for them. All the best.

  • @cubanmissl3818
    @cubanmissl3818 4 года назад +14

    What’s sadder is that this happens more in Mexico and Spain but those countries is harder to come out like this.

  • @ateachingmoment5662
    @ateachingmoment5662 5 лет назад +177

    Who created the statue of limitations. I would like to know the names of these politicians and change the status of limitations to no stature of limitations.

    • @Rj-oz4uy
      @Rj-oz4uy 5 лет назад +5

      @Ardent Fan Yes because everyone know that English Common Law, the basis of our legal system was just overrun by Catholics. Oh wait I forgot, if you were Catholic in England, you were killed. What kind of idiot are you? The vast majority of our laws were written long before you or anyone in our country. Get your facts straight.

    • @tintinismybelgian
      @tintinismybelgian 5 лет назад +2

      @@Rj-oz4uy Catholics killed Protestants and vice-versa. The Reformation was a messy time.

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 5 лет назад +4

      Other perverts in suits

    • @advocacynaccountablity
      @advocacynaccountablity 5 лет назад +2

      States control state-specific statute of limitations. Look up rape and abuse statutes based on your state specifically, and reach out to your representatives (depends on where you live). Join the movement to push for much longer timeframes so that the law can catch up with what we understand about this kind of crime and its effect on Survivors.

    • @abcdefg54321x
      @abcdefg54321x 5 лет назад +3

      A Teaching Moment *STATUTE*

  • @RealWomenRealStories
    @RealWomenRealStories 5 лет назад +35

    The epitome of evil.

    • @LSMH528Hz
      @LSMH528Hz 5 лет назад +3

      catholics are the darkest of the evil dark churches, they make satanists look like boyscouts.

    • @nk11090
      @nk11090 5 лет назад +2

      LoneSentryMusicHall I’m a catholic and your an idiot

    • @Natalie-dj5bg
      @Natalie-dj5bg 4 года назад

      Mote24 you aren’t evil but a-lot of catholic churches are doing things like this every day. be careful because not every church is what it seems to be...

    • @bredbandtva7177
      @bredbandtva7177 3 года назад +1

      @@nk11090 They are definitely the worst church with the mass pedophile problem. Stop being apologetic, your church is evil, if you're not then you should get out of it.

  • @mooch6079
    @mooch6079 5 лет назад +251

    Most Catholics in the United States welcome these kinds of news reports. In fact, we are begging for them. Please know that we are fully aware at the corruption of our bishops, but we are powerless to rid our church of them. We need the help of journalists, news organizations and the US attorney's office. Please continue to run these stories, and please start to do in depth ones. Follow the money trail. Start with the archbishop Catholic appeal that goes on in every archdiocese. Show us where that money actually goes.

    • @jarjartimothyhughes1
      @jarjartimothyhughes1 5 лет назад +28

      The Catholic Church needs to allow priests to get married. Period.

    • @AmandaZooKeeper
      @AmandaZooKeeper 5 лет назад +41

      Why do you stay with this religion if you’re so opposed to the practices it engages in? This is the number one reason I left catholicism.

    • @maryhynes9061
      @maryhynes9061 5 лет назад +19

      Michelle Gersic Catholics are not powerless in the church! The people hold all the power if they would only use it. The money comes from the people. No money, no church. I know well that it is complicated because people send their kids to Catholic school. I not only went to Catholic grade and high school but went on to earn 3 university degrees in theology. I loved my schools. But the fact is that the schools may have to be sacrificed, for awhile, in order for the Catholic people to demand what is right. Stop giving money to the church in any capacity and the bishops will have no option but to listen and change. The only other option for them would be to see the church shrink and eventually disappear. Please don’t ever say the people are powerless. They are not. Who pays for the priest to live? Who pays religious orders to survive? Who pays to build the church buildings and schools? Who pays for retired priests to live and have medical care? Come on stop this victim crap. I mean those who think they have no power in this institution. Theologically you may not have power. That is most regrettable and can be changed. The Church is not God. It is only a church. One of thousands. Check your priorities and your loyalities Then get about the business of making hard decisions and clean up YOUR church!

    • @paraglokhande936
      @paraglokhande936 5 лет назад +1

      @@jarjartimothyhughes1 The Orthodox churches allows priest to marry except the monks, nuns and bishops

    • @ross-carlson
      @ross-carlson 5 лет назад +28

      "We are fully aware of the corruption.... ....we are powerless to rid out church of them" ARE YOU KIDDING ME? You CHOOSE to continue to attend a church you KNOW is corrupt? I know it's one thing to fool yourself into believe in these fairy tales but to then learn about them from and follow someone you KNOW to be corrupt - and say there's nothing you can do?!?! NOTHING YOU CAN DO??? YOU CAN NOT GO TO THAT CHURCH. YOU CAN NOT DONATE MONEY TO CHURCH. YOU CAN CALL FOR THE CORRUPT BISHOPS TO BE FIRED AND ARRESTED.
      I've now seen it all. "They are corrupt, but whaddya gonna do, oh well" - JUST WOW.

  • @ethanhartman7329
    @ethanhartman7329 4 года назад +136

    When I see a catholic priest I run🏃

    • @newmove4378
      @newmove4378 4 года назад +10

      Why should you run. I typically make them run, away from me and my family.

    • @JP2GiannaT
      @JP2GiannaT 4 года назад +23

      I was sexually abused by a priest (as a college student).
      I'm still Catholic. It's not all of the preists, just like not all high school athletic coaches are abusers. The bigger problem is the bishops who cover it up, just like a principal who covered for a sexually abusive coach would be a bigger problem than the coach.
      I'll never trust priests blindly again though, I'll tell you that. I don't run from them. But I keep strong boundaries, and I'll be teaching my children that if anything ever happens, I will believe and defend them, and fight to protect them (both with priests and with coaches).

    • @Perririri
      @Perririri 4 года назад +7

      When I see an Ayatollah, Iran !! :P

    • @wolfthequarrelsome504
      @wolfthequarrelsome504 4 года назад +1

      @@JP2GiannaT surely it's up to the offended party to report the matter to whom ever they wish. The bishop dealt with his side and the offender was removed.. like any bad employee.

    • @marinacitronova8604
      @marinacitronova8604 3 года назад +4

      I love Catholic Church, cause through Her God has given me, my family and the world itself a lot of blessings (sacraments, prayers, graces etc.). I am thankful and grateful, but still at the same time I am sorry for these poor guys and little children whose integrity was destroyed and I keep on praying for them ♥. God knows about you in every aspect of your lives.

  • @cbrock9219
    @cbrock9219 4 года назад +9

    This is painful to watch,not that I have experienced anything like this but that they were faced to face with the devil

  • @smoothfags20
    @smoothfags20 5 лет назад +13

    There should be no limit on time to convict these creatures. Here in Scotland, there`s an on-going inquiry into systematic abuse within the catholic church and the Government has told the commission there will be no time limit to bring all those involved to justice.

  • @foreverbullymom3034
    @foreverbullymom3034 5 лет назад +42

    This is so heartbreaking! It has to stop

  • @wendylynn7605
    @wendylynn7605 3 года назад +12

    It was very brave for those two men to come forward and talk with their former abuser. I hope it brings them peace. I'm glad the priest was defrocked but he should have been criminally prosecuted!

  • @eugenemcdonald7295
    @eugenemcdonald7295 5 лет назад +45

    They should burn the statute of limitations people don't get over abuse like that in two weeks it takes years to get over

    • @win4777
      @win4777 5 лет назад +4

      They are trying to do that now! You could have been molested as a child... And then 30 years later you're triggered by what have happened to you! When I was a child a boy had molested me and many others! One of my family members were molested by him for five years! I am 58 years old and my family member is 60 and when he and I spoke just recently he broke down and told me how this has affected his life! Throughout the years I have tried to find this person without any results! Until recently I found him! I went on the sexual offenders list... Without a doubt I knew I was going to see his face! I was shocked he wasn't on it! So what I did I called the police department in his state and spoke to the detective who is in charge of pedophiles! He was very sweet very understanding and got on the case! After a few conversations with the detective he called me back and told me he has never been charged with any misconduct of sexual abuse! Though in the same breath he stated many pedophiles never get caught! I was ready to throw up! In this whole process this man at sexually abused me and many others and has gotten away with it throughout all these years... Sickens me!!!

  • @riverdonoghue9992
    @riverdonoghue9992 Год назад +3

    I was abused as a child by a male relative in ireland in the 70s. It was widespread in catholic families. It ruined my life. My whole life ive struggled with addiction anxiety and depression and ptsd. I still have nightmares about it. Im fully in favour of the death penalty for rapists and child molesters. Even today 2023 more revelations and every time I hear it its like I'm being raped again. Thousands of young lives ruined by these perverts.

  • @peachesmcgee4795
    @peachesmcgee4795 3 года назад +7

    I've never seen an abuser admit he abused before.In other videos they're normally really defensive but i guess it's when they know they're on camera.I'm glad it helped the victims to have that conversation.

    • @teacup3133
      @teacup3133 Год назад +1

      I don’t think he knew he was on camera. But you’re right it’s very unusual to hear an abuser clearly admit the guilt.

  • @malikaa148
    @malikaa148 5 лет назад +22

    Take care Nikki - you are investigating things which they do not want to make public - May God Keep You Safe

  • @erinnicole477
    @erinnicole477 5 лет назад +10

    The movie "Sleepers" comes to mind when watching something like this.. so gross. And I can't imagine what these men must have gone through and continue to go through after all of these years..

    • @celticfire9881
      @celticfire9881 2 года назад

      The difference in that movie is that the Priest was not a pedophile. It was the correction officers.

  • @robertdemaio6483
    @robertdemaio6483 4 года назад +12

    When I was a child i learned to avoid those who where strange ...esp some coaches in school who touched kids .

  • @kalitheamare
    @kalitheamare 4 года назад +8

    Forgiveness is important, will help liberate one's soul, but that doesn't mean letting him get away and that he doesn't PAY for his CRIMES. The only reason he says "I'm sorry" is because he got caught.

  • @edgrabowski6797
    @edgrabowski6797 5 лет назад +13

    Send them all to jail for life.

  • @theriddlerUSA
    @theriddlerUSA Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your stories. It takes a great deal of courage to come forward. I hope y'all are happy and living well. ♥️

  • @fakiola9184
    @fakiola9184 5 лет назад +3

    Two very strong men who were visibly relieved following that courageous and calm sit down. I hope moving on with the rest of their lives they can do so with a much lighter being and peace in their hearts

  • @PollyBFly
    @PollyBFly 5 лет назад +8

    Unfortunately no statute of limitations on the emotional and mental trauma the victims experience for many years after the abuse.

  • @iainrae6159
    @iainrae6159 4 года назад +12

    Apart from wealth creation and access to children, what is the point of this institution?

  • @luisgalicia4661
    @luisgalicia4661 5 лет назад +48

    This reminds me of the movie “Sleepers”

    • @chipsthedog1
      @chipsthedog1 3 года назад +2

      Yeah shame they didn't give him the same treatment

    • @samanthaedwards1110
      @samanthaedwards1110 3 года назад

      Good movie still makes me cry so sad...

    • @celticfire9881
      @celticfire9881 2 года назад

      The difference is the Priest wasn’t a pedophile, the correction officers were.

  • @pattyblackstone3991
    @pattyblackstone3991 5 лет назад +6

    I pray for these men; that they find healing from the autrocity committed against them.

  • @Happy_HIbiscus
    @Happy_HIbiscus 5 лет назад +8

    dude, this is so sad

  • @yazmyn4561
    @yazmyn4561 3 года назад +6

    It's painful for the abused and for the family such as older siblings and parents. The hurtful part for family is reliving memories of trusting these persons with your beloved. The pain of the betrayal and to see how the abuse in alot of instances leads to substance abuse and mental illnesses ect, and many of the victims internalize the pain and never open up about it. Crushingly sad😔

  • @BreezybriefswithBrooke
    @BreezybriefswithBrooke 25 дней назад +1

    He took zero accountability!
    “ sorry you FEEL I hurt you “
    That’s what I heard his old perverted self say! 🤢

  • @Sgt_Bill_T_Co
    @Sgt_Bill_T_Co 2 года назад +1

    I confronted my 'father' and a few weeks later he died, I was happy that no other child would be abused by him but saddened he would not die in prison.

    • @s3v3n3
      @s3v3n3 Год назад

      I'm happy to hear that, hopefully he gets proper punishment on judgement day.

  • @avemaria2926
    @avemaria2926 5 лет назад +82

    I’m sorry this happened. My prayers are with you. God bless you!

    • @candyhatergrandmeme2199
      @candyhatergrandmeme2199 4 года назад +4

      MW3 KINGDOM here we go again. Ever heard of free will?

    • @jayharrison9346
      @jayharrison9346 4 года назад +1

      MW3 KINGDOM god never wants this to happen

    • @beyonderssupreme
      @beyonderssupreme 2 года назад +1

      @@jayharrison9346 How you know god or jesus never want this to happen? Stop acting false prophets.

    • @beyonderssupreme
      @beyonderssupreme 2 года назад

      You see that, this boys did by themselves and god not help him, dont blame or accuse I lost beliefs, it because the realistic facts the boys desired by themselves personally they confront the pastor who rape them. Your christians people's stop to claim everything happen was god bless, you spamming the blessing sympathy scam everywhere.

    • @toob_noob4381
      @toob_noob4381 2 года назад +2

      God allowed this to happen right in what should've been his own "house".

  • @ItsMyWorld617
    @ItsMyWorld617 5 лет назад +26

    Perverts roam every inch of our planet....

    • @jamalanewpizza6334
      @jamalanewpizza6334 4 года назад

      Its all about consent. Sex isn't enjoyable if both parties aren't on the same page.

    • @jayou1987
      @jayou1987 4 года назад +4

      @@jamalanewpizza6334 a child cant consent bro

    • @Perririri
      @Perririri 4 года назад

      …yet are short in the "inch" department

    • @bredbandtva7177
      @bredbandtva7177 3 года назад +2

      Especially in the catholic church

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives 5 месяцев назад

    Bless them. Sigh. Thank you for sharing.

  • @deeliciousgrapes
    @deeliciousgrapes 4 года назад +18

    They're still hurting. This makes me so sad. I just wanna hug them. Lord please be with them.

  • @insidemydreams5531
    @insidemydreams5531 4 года назад +4

    This had to be hard. These 2 men are strong. I will pray for yall

  • @KidCity1985
    @KidCity1985 5 лет назад +6

    This was very brave, good for them!

  • @kewakl8891
    @kewakl8891 11 месяцев назад +1

    Anyone who claims "This does not happen in _my_ church" should pay attention!

  • @MrGertus12
    @MrGertus12 8 месяцев назад

    Just one single instance of child interference should equate to LIFE in prison. EVERY SINGLE TIME.

  • @dreamsofturtles1828
    @dreamsofturtles1828 5 лет назад +4

    I didnt see any tears or remorse from that priest. It was just sort of matter of fact for him, like " Yeah, it happened, too bad but life goes on. "

  • @christopherjones7565
    @christopherjones7565 5 лет назад +4

    I feel like this is all to common I feel like there should be a ban for any priest to be around anyone underage

  • @ratatoskr9366
    @ratatoskr9366 Год назад +1

    To forgive someone who has done something so harmful, something so grave, something that has taken innocence and something beautiful from you, is so admirable in the eyes of God.
    I pray they will forgive the terrible things this horrible man did to them.

  • @BiggestSniff
    @BiggestSniff 3 года назад +1

    this is incredible

  • @sawlovesyou52
    @sawlovesyou52 5 лет назад +4

    Most of these children buried it until they became adults.......when so many blame one ....it should be taken to prosecution.

  • @kjdnyhmghfvb
    @kjdnyhmghfvb Год назад +3

    Two things to note
    1. Not a Drag Queen
    2. The same politicians trying "stop grooming," and "what about the kids" always seem to not legally support anything to stop it, or protect them.

    • @Paul-ou1rx
      @Paul-ou1rx 5 месяцев назад

      We don't know what else this priest did in his free time, but dressing up as a woman in public would draw some unwanted attention. We have no evidence for or against him being a drag queen.

    • @carrotstick1970
      @carrotstick1970 5 месяцев назад

      Are you somehow using this particular situation to imply that drag queens performing in front of children is not grooming?

  • @kathyh4804
    @kathyh4804 Год назад +1

    Anyone who does this to children, especially in a position in a CHURCH needs higher accountability and harsher sentences!!!!! They know they have a sick problem, yet they CHOOSE to work with children! Talk about premeditated!!!! So many children’s lives have been almost destroyed, and many destroyed completely by these sick pervs! Protect the CHILDREN!!!!!

  • @mysweetchloe
    @mysweetchloe Месяц назад

    You can still see all the past trauma on their faces. Prayers for them!

  • @browniegreen1090
    @browniegreen1090 4 года назад +3

    It’s sad that it happened to them, sadder still that it continues. Not only in that organization, across the board, and covered up.

  • @tfh5575
    @tfh5575 Год назад +4

    is it weird that i don’t have any trauma related to my sexual abuse? like it just doesn’t bother me. i just see how hurt people are about it and i feel bad that i don’t understand

  • @acceptingWhatIS
    @acceptingWhatIS 3 года назад

    So brave guys - thank you!

  • @AlexanderNovak0
    @AlexanderNovak0 2 года назад

    Oh my what a gentle man....he is crying after so many years. Victimising himself.

  • @JohnJones-ct9pr
    @JohnJones-ct9pr 5 лет назад +5

    There really has to be some sort of lay oversight in the church. My son went to a fantastic school in his junior years. The teachers were fantastic , the principal was fantastic and most of all there was a dedicated band of parents who did a tremendous job of supporting the school through the PTA . We had fetes , quiz nights , pamper evenings , dog nights , etc etc etc . Always something on the go. Everyone at the school was focused on the job at hand . It was a great school and a happy little school. Even though it was a poor school. Anyway not long after my son left it turned out that the 'trusted' school book keeper who had been left alone to do her job had embezzled a fortune from the school. It was only then that I realized that in spite of all of our hard work and very successful events that the school was always short of money. And parents were always being asked to chip in for this and that. And I did not think about it . And neither did any of the other wonderful parents. The board of governors was a dormant rubber stamping body . If members of the PTA had been given just a little bit of oversight and the power to ask questions none of this would have happened. And so it is with the church. There are many many wonderful good decent honest members of the laity but they have no power to demand answers. The job of preaching and teaching must of course always stay with the priests and the bishops . But as far as the running of the church ordinary lay members must have the ability to demand answers to questions. my pennies worth.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 2 года назад

      This isn't one person. It's a good 7% and they COVERED for them!
      Let them pay up like the rest of us if they need money.

  • @tonifelise6297
    @tonifelise6297 3 года назад +6

    I'm surprised to see how long its taken for people to open up their eyes to the Catholic Church ! It was always a religion with an agenda.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 2 года назад

      Like ALL the rest aren't??
      That's like saying Ford is bad for knowing the Pinto was going to cause horrific deaths, but choosing not to look and see that ALL other major carmakers have done the same?
      See, "Still Unsafe at Any Speed" by Brian Chase

  • @sneakerlove5313
    @sneakerlove5313 5 лет назад +1

    So sorry guys🥺

  • @april4848
    @april4848 Год назад

    These men are so strong, sending love!

  • @hectoribanez5954
    @hectoribanez5954 5 лет назад +57

    Im a Catholic...will always be. But this Priest needs to face consequence as any sick individual should be....but for everyone to understand...molestation is not a Catholic problem, its a world problem....sick individuals are in schools, streets, every other type of Church.....

    • @mikel7467
      @mikel7467 5 лет назад +8

      Hector Ybanes -Premier Nissan Fremont It's a Catholic problem because the Church protects them

    • @hectoribanez5954
      @hectoribanez5954 5 лет назад +3

      If someone gets caught protecting yes of course....the problem is we are facing hatred from every angle trying to destroy the church....so many of the accusations have been proved fake...just for money or damage image of church....every case should get investigated.......many more will be fake accusations....and clean house with the sickos.

    • @mikel7467
      @mikel7467 5 лет назад +3

      Hector Ybanes -Premier Nissan Fremont The Pope will destroy the Church of he doesn't defrock the bishops who protected rapists priest like this one.

    • @hectoribanez5954
      @hectoribanez5954 5 лет назад +1

      No-one can destroy the church. Word of God. But read the Parable of the Weed....Jesus warns us the evils ones will runs with us but will also help others sancrify themselves......this things strenghten the church to be strict on ordaining priests.

    • @mikel7467
      @mikel7467 5 лет назад +1

      Hector Ybanes -Premier Nissan Fremont Mark my words, the Pope isn't fixing these problems and there will be a large exodus. The pope won't enforce any tighter requirements for priests because he hasn't done it in 6 years

  • @air2091
    @air2091 3 года назад +4

    This is the one time I would say thank god im a jew

  • @gretabenoit2415
    @gretabenoit2415 Год назад +1

    Thank you for coming forward ❤ I myself struggle with so much with this constant question of forgiveness!! I can't forgive someone nor should I be told I can't heal without it. It doesn't mean I'm carrying anger or hate. The forever feeling of self guilt feelings of being unloved different something is wrong with me reliving it daily without trying judgment shame the pain list goes on and the short time they are charged with if charged is degrading.. I forgive myself for feeling all this pain I did not cause

  • @sally5190
    @sally5190 3 года назад

    Those kids struggled but they became amazing strong men

  • @albanianpotato8962
    @albanianpotato8962 4 года назад +13

    God in Bible: "Marriage is a gift from God and everyone should get married"
    - Priests don't get married.

    • @JP2GiannaT
      @JP2GiannaT 4 года назад +2

      I dunno, St. Paul seemed to think celebacy was the preferred state in life.

    • @JP2GiannaT
      @JP2GiannaT 4 года назад +4

      @Marcus Cato it is indeed a special calling. My husband was actually a seminarian for awhile, he discerned out because he figured out God was calling him to have a family instead.
      Plenty of married men are sexually abusive too. I don't think allowing married clergy would solve that problem...I don't think pedophilia or sexual abuse is an "I'm not getting any" problem so much as it is a "something about me is deeply, deeply disordered" problem. Plenty of married men have touched children.

    • @TriciaRP
      @TriciaRP 3 года назад

      @@JP2GiannaT that was mainly His calling....and he, Peter WAS NOT CATHOLIC....
      and most men were encourage during that time going off to war WAS Not to marry....you need to learn the history behind that time....but Sincerely God doesn't call MOST men to be celibate if He says It is NOT good for man to be alone.
      .the RCC is baloney.....satan pit stop for humanity... Deception.

    • @JP2GiannaT
      @JP2GiannaT 3 года назад +1

      @@TriciaRP I'm willing to talk about Catholism with you if you'd like to explore what we believe, but I'm a little puzzled as to what exactly your question/objection is here. I never said anything about Peter (we were discussing Paul where he writes in one of his letters that he's celibate and thinks it's the preferable state), and I agree that most men aren't called to celibacy. I'm not sure what going off to war had to do with it. I'd heard something like that before, but I was under the impression that was a rule of the Roman Empire a couple hundred years after Christ, not the time or region of Palestine/Israel where Christianity started.

    • @celticfire9881
      @celticfire9881 2 года назад +1

      @@JP2GiannaT Precisely, there have been married men who have been arrested for pedophillia. Some even for molesting their own children.

  • @kevinsuarez8667
    @kevinsuarez8667 5 лет назад +6

    God, god, god, if this doesn't prove there is no god, what will?

    • @lovingcareheatingandair6794
      @lovingcareheatingandair6794 5 лет назад +3

      There is a God, where ever there is good, there's evil. One day on your bed of affliction you will call on God.

    • @waifu_png_pl6854
      @waifu_png_pl6854 5 лет назад +1

      @@lovingcareheatingandair6794 how do you know? and while people are their lowest its easy to manipulate them

    • @Catholic1391
      @Catholic1391 3 года назад

      There is a God.
      All the scientist in the world can't explain this image.
      ruclips.net/video/i4MaPKvn_qQ/видео.html

    • @anniethechosen7779
      @anniethechosen7779 3 года назад +1

      Why couldn't you say... The devil, devil ,devil... This proves there is a Devil???

    • @TriciaRP
      @TriciaRP 3 года назад

      @@anniethechosen7779 because Satan have them blind..
      Fools

  • @mabshussain3492
    @mabshussain3492 2 года назад

    Absolutely terrible

  • @LanaKennedy121
    @LanaKennedy121 4 месяца назад +1

    My dad was victim when he was an alter boy in 1979 😢
    In 2015 the priests name was listed in Saint Paul MN as an abuser.
    Karl Wittman, enjoy hell.
    Another victim was abused in the 60s and he wrote a book called Unholy Communion about it and it’s being adapted into a film. And they are filming at the house across the street from my dads house. Crazy…

  • @aimmortalslegacy2189
    @aimmortalslegacy2189 5 лет назад +5

    What happened to the civil suit? BILL COSBY THOSE PRIESTS!

  • @chelllockhart9404
    @chelllockhart9404 5 лет назад +11

    Pope Francis is weighing in on allowing priest to be married

    • @rebeccaoprea9917
      @rebeccaoprea9917 5 лет назад +1

      chell Lockhart it’s not his calling to make ! He’s not God , know the God of the Bible .

    • @rebeccaoprea9917
      @rebeccaoprea9917 5 лет назад +3

      Pope Francis is more concerned about global warming than the sexual abuse . He cares more about saving the planet than saving souls .

    • @jtorn66
      @jtorn66 5 лет назад +4

      May not be a bad idea. We after all are sexual beings (told to be fruitful and multiply). And the reason they direct thier urges usually toward young boys it seems is to only avoid getting anyone (girls) pregnant or tsking thier viginity. I did not state this as a fact. Just as a possibility on why they may be doing what they do.
      The urge to procreate may be strong. Even though they can not with boys or men. But maybe just the act of some sort of sex (intimacy with someone) is strong.
      Also take note of the word maybe. Because I actually can't claim to know what goes on in thier heads.

    • @chelllockhart9404
      @chelllockhart9404 5 лет назад

      @@jtorn66 it's sad whatever it is

    • @chelllockhart9404
      @chelllockhart9404 5 лет назад

      @@rebeccaoprea9917 he is not but he's the head of the Catholic church GOD ALLOWSand WANTS US TO KNOW THAT TYPE OF HUMAN CONTACT

  • @bumblebee7982
    @bumblebee7982 3 года назад

    BRAVO! 💜

  • @desireejohnson716
    @desireejohnson716 3 года назад

    Very mature about the situation

  • @anniethechosen7779
    @anniethechosen7779 3 года назад +4

    It is still happening in the Catholic churches as we speak... remove your innocent children at once and place them elsewhere... please safe them the hurt and the risk of losing them to that sinful nature forever... The Lord sees all things and will avenge the innocent, but for now parents, do your parts and make the Catholic churches empty!

  • @johnnyblade1293
    @johnnyblade1293 2 года назад +4

    Close the vatican! We're tired of this!!!!!

    • @luismanuelpotenciano1300
      @luismanuelpotenciano1300 Год назад

      Es un país independiente y soberano.

    • @s3v3n3
      @s3v3n3 Год назад

      I don't think we can blame the Vatican. The vatican doesn't ordane priests in the U.S. They do make people bishops, which then the bishops are then able to make people priests.

  • @AJ_Jingco
    @AJ_Jingco 3 года назад +1

    As a cradle Catholic from the Philippines, I am DISGUSTED by this.

  • @eoinbrennan3949
    @eoinbrennan3949 3 года назад +2

    These guys are brave. Fair play to the guy who forgave, that's the key. It sets you free

  • @abdullahalmarzooqi3814
    @abdullahalmarzooqi3814 4 года назад +6

    I am muslim and I am proud

  • @THT01
    @THT01 5 лет назад +3

    Toldja. Catholics should leave the house.

  • @linleysmith4528
    @linleysmith4528 2 года назад

    This is so confronting for these men how they didn't hold back from harming him physically is beyond me

  • @CallawayVanZeeberg
    @CallawayVanZeeberg 3 года назад

    Scars like those are very difficult to heal. To this day those men still seem to grapple with the pain...

  • @jpre3228
    @jpre3228 5 лет назад +8

    The devil is to be blamed not Christianity.

    • @eveharris30
      @eveharris30 5 лет назад +1

      Your religion created the devil.

    • @aimmortalslegacy2189
      @aimmortalslegacy2189 5 лет назад

      No.. that priest is to blame for succumbing to his lower desires. The devil only made a suggestion.. that priest accepted the invite. Tbe devil must still have the priest because he cant openly repent

  • @jimsmith3971
    @jimsmith3971 2 месяца назад

    These two guys are real men! Strong, brave and courageous.

  • @yeahright8372
    @yeahright8372 2 года назад

    You're true man, thank you

  • @mikehillman8115
    @mikehillman8115 Год назад

    This is a tradgety beyond belief and needed to be dealt with in the most lawful way. As a alterboy in my youth for many years I can say working with many priests I was never dealt with in an inappropriote way. I do believe that those that became priest that had feelings wont go away just because you became a leader in the Catholic Church. GOD BLESS those that were abused. Im SO SORRY