As a child, I have never heard anyone say the truth more clear and concise as you. Its was like my heart was speaking to me, thank you so much for this.
The parents blame everyone but themselves. It’s the teachers, the social media, their friends, but never ask what did I do or rather didn’t* do to have raise a child that can trust and acknowledge me as their parent and loved one.
I really want to share these to my parents but even if I do, I'm past caring there's nothing you can do when bond between parent-child relationship is broken... just like the video said it's all about THEM..
Yep .I know first hand unfortunately 😢 but thats exactly what they feel jus don't give up keep trying is all I can say u can't make up for it but u can start giving them time from here on out. They'll come around if u give enough effort. Mine did and now we talk almost everyday their adults now.
This is so lovely 🥺❤️ thank you for sharing this, I really hope it gives other parents hope not to give up. It’s worth it in the end, I’m so happy for you and your children!
@@ceethecounsellor thank u so much!! It is worth it! I regret being a young mother who was always chasing alcohol and men while I kept my kids aty mom's or their grandma's smh but I'm older now and realize it wasn't worth it. I've even left the guys alone now for 2 years and have been concentrating on my kids and myself
Excellent video! You hit the nail on the head! I'm so so glad that I did all of the things you said. I have a wonderful relationship with my daughters. I always made the time to sit down and just chat and hang out. I always ask them how their day went. As a result, they always come to me to talk about things. I get on great with all of their friends. I'm so blessed. I don't know, but it's like I always knew it was more important than anything else to care for them emotionally and psychologically. Maybe it's because I was raised by my grandparents and not my parents. Anyway thank God I did the right thing and was always there for my girls ❤
That is so amazing to hear. Your daughters are extremely blessed and lucky to have you as their mum! I wish everyone had a mum like you! ❤️🥹 everything about your relationship sounds so wholesome
I literally had to talk to my dad about this today because every time I talk to him he's talking about something that's going on with him, I'll say "okay well you didn't even ask me how I was doing" and he'll say how you doing. I'll tell him, then that'll be the end of asking me any questions about myself.
As a parent now and never having a break, umm I think I’m going to care less if my kids want to talk me in their adult years. I’m skipping town once I know they are straight, deuces half of y’all think y’all were angels when y’all ran y’all parents down to the ground✌️😮💨
It’s not to say children are easy and always well behaved, but just that parents have more control the relationship with their kids than they sometimes perceive
"It's cuz of how you act, act, act..."
Well said!
Thank you!
Yes. Narcissitic parents think they will always be needed regardless of their abuse.
It’s such a shame because narcissism is one of the hardest mental health issues to treat. And most people would never admit if they were a narcissist
As a child, I have never heard anyone say the truth more clear and concise as you. Its was like my heart was speaking to me, thank you so much for this.
❤️❤️ I’m sad that you’re even having to go through this
The parents blame everyone but themselves. It’s the teachers, the social media, their friends, but never ask what did I do or rather didn’t* do to have raise a child that can trust and acknowledge me as their parent and loved one.
That’s true and unfortunate in a lot of cases.
I really want to share these to my parents but even if I do, I'm past caring there's nothing you can do when bond between parent-child relationship is broken... just like the video said it's all about THEM..
I am so sorry that you’re going through this. I hope one day you get healing and peace ❤️ you deserve it
Yep .I know first hand unfortunately 😢 but thats exactly what they feel jus don't give up keep trying is all I can say u can't make up for it but u can start giving them time from here on out. They'll come around if u give enough effort. Mine did and now we talk almost everyday their adults now.
This is so lovely 🥺❤️ thank you for sharing this, I really hope it gives other parents hope not to give up. It’s worth it in the end, I’m so happy for you and your children!
@@ceethecounsellor thank u so much!! It is worth it! I regret being a young mother who was always chasing alcohol and men while I kept my kids aty mom's or their grandma's smh but I'm older now and realize it wasn't worth it. I've even left the guys alone now for 2 years and have been concentrating on my kids and myself
Excellent video! You hit the nail on the head! I'm so so glad that I did all of the things you said. I have a wonderful relationship with my daughters. I always made the time to sit down and just chat and hang out. I always ask them how their day went. As a result, they always come to me to talk about things. I get on great with all of their friends. I'm so blessed. I don't know, but it's like I always knew it was more important than anything else to care for them emotionally and psychologically. Maybe it's because I was raised by my grandparents and not my parents. Anyway thank God I did the right thing and was always there for my girls ❤
That is so amazing to hear. Your daughters are extremely blessed and lucky to have you as their mum! I wish everyone had a mum like you! ❤️🥹 everything about your relationship sounds so wholesome
Very very well said❤ sad thing is they think they’re never wrong and I don’t even bother to talk to them anymore about anything 😢
I’m so sorry 💔 I hope one day your relationship is repaired.
Why is this not viral?
We need to share this video so that it does go viral
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Appreciate you! 🙏🏾❤️
On point!
I literally had to talk to my dad about this today because every time I talk to him he's talking about something that's going on with him, I'll say "okay well you didn't even ask me how I was doing" and he'll say how you doing. I'll tell him, then that'll be the end of asking me any questions about myself.
That’s heartbreaking 💔 I’m so sorry and I hope one day he realises and puts you first
It’s been over a year since I stopped talking to her, and my spirits have never felt higher.
❤️ I’m happy for you! And I’m sorry that you didn’t get what you needed from her
As a parent now and never having a break, umm I think I’m going to care less if my kids want to talk me in their adult years. I’m
skipping town once I know they are straight, deuces half of y’all think y’all were angels when y’all ran y’all parents down to the ground✌️😮💨
It’s not to say children are easy and always well behaved, but just that parents have more control the relationship with their kids than they sometimes perceive