I love how she said he may not restore the marriage and may just restore you. Forgiving an unfaithful spouse is so hard in marriage and even after a divorce. I am still struggling because they are still with the person. I enjoyed hearing this message. ❤
I just clicked onto this video and I thank God for it. Thank you ladies for real life vulnerabilities and how you can include God for help. This was so good.
I am in the process of divorce and feeling the weight of the end of a 22 year marriage. I prayed and asked God for confirmation and consolation that I am in His will. This message was God's answer to my prayer. Thank you ladies for your transparency, may God bless you❤️
Thank you so much Sheila for your testimony.You always sound so sincere when you share what you have gone through. You are a blessing in the Body of Christ. God bless you and your family.
Life happens to the best of us. No one or nothing is perfect except for Christ. We tend to want God and everyone of else to forgive us quickly. But we tend to refuse to do the same for others. OUT OF THE MOUTH OF BABES.
This is so needed. Thank you Lord! My struggle with continuing to forgiving and lack of boundaries. I don’t have to hold on to them just because I forgive them.
I don’t know how to forgive myself. I pray to God over again saying that I forgive myself, but the same thing comes up and I feel guilty again. Please share with me how to forgive myself. Thank you for sharing this topic that is so important. Blessings🙏
I will forgive but its only gonna be a God thing. Im so angry. But those of you trying to convince me of being in a make believe marriage so that I will tolerate abuse....have to be let go. And i am so hurt by that. I hate it. I hate that parts of the Body are willing that one of Gods daughters would be abused and broken so that a thing could come to pass in their timing rather than Gods. I feel so betrayed by the Church that i cant continue on in community with those who choose to "future-fake" me. Im wrong for my anger. Im wrong for drinking a couple beers trying to cope. Im wrong for lashing out to express my anger. Im wrong for allowing so much influence on my mind from the enemy. Im wrong for believing a lie. Its my fault. But i have to forgive from a distance only if the Lord wills it and on His time. Ive gotta go separate ways. God bless you all!
I can feel you pain through your message. I’m in this kind of this type of desert now too. Do the church accept abusé I don’t think so. But as Jesus persevered we have to do so. God gave us spiritual weapon to pass over every difficulties even face to a narcissist or an abuser. Through pain, God reveals himself. Stay strong. God is able to deliver you and restore you even your marriage.
Heavenly Father I feel like you have abandoned me. Because I seem to bear the weight of the world on my shoulders as a single mom, I face challenges that can seem impossible especially with raising two children with special needs. Lord I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children and I feel so alone. I’m constantly in fear. At times I want to give up. Jesus give me strength and renew my faith.
My dear, just know that at times as believers we will get to that point we feel like God has forsaken us but know that he has not forsaken you. He sees you, he hears you and understands your situation. Be strong and hold on to his unchanging hands.
I'm laughing with you God! I just asked my husband for a separation. He's an alcoholic and cheater, insecure and jealous, disrespectful and embarrassing. I told him this and he was drunk by the evening. I know my blessings are blocked bcoz I'm with him. He's my Jonah, no inspiration or discipline and will to help himself. So I do forgive him but I'm not going back.
Hmmmmmmm. So you honestly only see his behavior as a problem? Not focus on whether you are going back to him or not. But choose to really read your comment and pay close attention to everything that you said/typed. Do you think you spoke blessings over and into him? Do you think you really spoke life over and into him? Even if you weren't his wife. You ate to still be his sister in Christ. I pray that you choose to grow in Christ love, wisdom, respect, discernment, patience, kindness, truth, and maturity in Jesus' name. The strong must bear the infirmities of the weak. Love covers a multitude of sins.
It wasn't by chance, random, coincidence, or mistake that you came across this message/video or saw this reply to my comment. I know if you have been hurt or disappointed before many times in various ways. You can end up losing a sense of your compassion. But we must choose to try to see things and people as Christ do and did and how HE commands us to do so in His word. ABSOLUTELY NO ONE IS PERFECT.
Thank you my sister for looking at both sides fairly. I have a son and I cannot stay in a situation that isn't conducive. I have prayed and prayed for him but he's not willing to even try or to dream big. He's reversing whilst I'm driving forward. We can't settle for just anything and expect God to see us through. I can't die to save him, he must take responsibility over himself as I have. To have a stunted life just for being married is toxic and promoting it@@ladennayoung2939
@@ladennayoung2939I thank you. I have forgiven him but my boundaries are that he's far from me. He's violent as well so compassion for that isn't good. I can't sacrifice my mental and emotions just to be married. It's clear he's not ready so I won't wait around. I don't even have my friends anymore, they all avoid him or him seeing them with me. I can't guys. Trust me
I am sure God setup me up. My fingers accidentally clicked this video and 😢😢..thank you ladies for being so vulnerable and authentic. I needed this.
There aren't any accidents, random, coincidences, mistakes, or by chance with God. God does everything very strategically.
Girl me too!!! I was like “ooooooo” then I clicked and saw the full title smh 😂😂😂 I see you Lord !!! 😅
Well I’m not married yet, but I’m sure there is something I can learn…🇨🇦
I feel the same way!!!!!
He be setting us up for sure! It’s so good!
I love how she said he may not restore the marriage and may just restore you. Forgiving an unfaithful spouse is so hard in marriage and even after a divorce. I am still struggling because they are still with the person. I enjoyed hearing this message. ❤
I really needed to hear this today because am struggling to forgive my partner
I just clicked onto this video and I thank God for it. Thank you ladies for real life vulnerabilities and how you can include God for help. This was so good.
❤ I don’t pursue perfection, I pursue Christ who is perfect 🙏🏽 perfectly said 🥰
I am in the process of divorce and feeling the weight of the end of a 22 year marriage. I prayed and asked God for confirmation and consolation that I am in His will. This message was God's answer to my prayer. Thank you ladies for your transparency, may God bless you❤️
Jude 1:13 (KJV) Raging waves of the sea, foaming out their own shame; wandering stars, to whom is reserved the blackness of darkness for ever.
Oh wow Sheila! *”There is nothing on this earth that will help you become more like Jesus than being married!”* 😵 🇨🇦
Well I’m not married yet, but I’m sure there is something I can learn…🇨🇦
Thank you so much. This is so intense, I cannot keep my eyes and ears from Sheila. You are blessed to teach and you are good at it.
Thank you so much Sheila for your testimony.You always sound so sincere when you share what you have gone through. You are a blessing in the Body of Christ. God bless you and your family.
Yes THANKYOU. FORGIVE AND WE CAN SET BOUNDARIES IF NEEDED. AMEN.
Life happens to the best of us. No one or nothing is perfect except for Christ. We tend to want God and everyone of else to forgive us quickly. But we tend to refuse to do the same for others. OUT OF THE MOUTH OF BABES.
Exactly. The 70 times 7 is telling us to forgive an unlimited amount of times.
This is so needed. Thank you Lord! My struggle with continuing to forgiving and lack of boundaries. I don’t have to hold on to them just because I forgive them.
Forgiveness is for the other person as well if we choose to forgive as Christ instructs and commands us to do so.
thank you so much.i have been watching and praying with you women of GOD.i feel like i belong.❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this. please don't stop sharing such depth and truth, especially about forgiveness.
This was so good as always! But this convo was needed, it blessed me.❤
I don’t know how to forgive myself. I pray to God over again saying that I forgive myself, but the same thing comes up and I feel guilty again. Please share with me how to forgive myself. Thank you for sharing this topic that is so important. Blessings🙏
"I don't pursue perfection anymore, I pursue Christ who is perfect!" 🙂
God truly made you women help many like me also through this video.
This is exactly what I needed to see…thank you so much ladies…
I will forgive but its only gonna be a God thing. Im so angry. But those of you trying to convince me of being in a make believe marriage so that I will tolerate abuse....have to be let go. And i am so hurt by that. I hate it. I hate that parts of the Body are willing that one of Gods daughters would be abused and broken so that a thing could come to pass in their timing rather than Gods. I feel so betrayed by the Church that i cant continue on in community with those who choose to "future-fake" me. Im wrong for my anger. Im wrong for drinking a couple beers trying to cope. Im wrong for lashing out to express my anger. Im wrong for allowing so much influence on my mind from the enemy. Im wrong for believing a lie. Its my fault.
But i have to forgive from a distance only if the Lord wills it and on His time.
Ive gotta go separate ways. God bless you all!
I can feel you pain through your message. I’m in this kind of this type of desert now too. Do the church accept abusé I don’t think so. But as Jesus persevered we have to do so.
God gave us spiritual weapon to pass over every difficulties even face to a narcissist or an abuser. Through pain, God reveals himself. Stay strong. God is able to deliver you and restore you even your marriage.
Thank You
This is for me
At 9min, i start crying 😭😭
Pray for me i want go to prison
Heavenly Father I feel like you have abandoned me. Because I seem to bear the weight of the world on my shoulders as a single mom, I face challenges that can seem impossible especially with raising two children with special needs. Lord I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children and I feel so alone. I’m constantly in fear. At times I want to give up. Jesus give me strength and renew my faith.
My dear, just know that at times as believers we will get to that point we feel like God has forsaken us but know that he has not forsaken you. He sees you, he hears you and understands your situation. Be strong and hold on to his unchanging hands.
May God open the flood gates of heaven and provide for you my sister, just don't lose hope stay hopeful in the Lord he will hear you .Micah 7:7
I'm laughing with you God! I just asked my husband for a separation. He's an alcoholic and cheater, insecure and jealous, disrespectful and embarrassing. I told him this and he was drunk by the evening. I know my blessings are blocked bcoz I'm with him. He's my Jonah, no inspiration or discipline and will to help himself. So I do forgive him but I'm not going back.
Hmmmmmmm. So you honestly only see his behavior as a problem? Not focus on whether you are going back to him or not. But choose to really read your comment and pay close attention to everything that you said/typed. Do you think you spoke blessings over and into him? Do you think you really spoke life over and into him? Even if you weren't his wife. You ate to still be his sister in Christ. I pray that you choose to grow in Christ love, wisdom, respect, discernment, patience, kindness, truth, and maturity in Jesus' name. The strong must bear the infirmities of the weak. Love covers a multitude of sins.
It wasn't by chance, random, coincidence, or mistake that you came across this message/video or saw this reply to my comment. I know if you have been hurt or disappointed before many times in various ways. You can end up losing a sense of your compassion. But we must choose to try to see things and people as Christ do and did and how HE commands us to do so in His word. ABSOLUTELY NO ONE IS PERFECT.
Thank you my sister for looking at both sides fairly. I have a son and I cannot stay in a situation that isn't conducive. I have prayed and prayed for him but he's not willing to even try or to dream big. He's reversing whilst I'm driving forward. We can't settle for just anything and expect God to see us through. I can't die to save him, he must take responsibility over himself as I have. To have a stunted life just for being married is toxic and promoting it@@ladennayoung2939
@@ladennayoung2939I thank you. I have forgiven him but my boundaries are that he's far from me. He's violent as well so compassion for that isn't good. I can't sacrifice my mental and emotions just to be married. It's clear he's not ready so I won't wait around. I don't even have my friends anymore, they all avoid him or him seeing them with me. I can't guys. Trust me