I have friends who are nurses. Some of them are just starting out with their clinicals but others have been at if for years. They say arrogant doctors, like this, are a dime a dozen. Doctors may come and go, but nurses make a medical facility run. If you're a nurse and you're reading this, you may feel unappreciated and taken for granted, but know I appreciate you. ♥️🫂
Wish someone did that with my surgeon. Not just did they switch surgeons, post OP they couldn't even find anyone who attended it to brief me. They grabbed some young trainee kid, gave him a 3 sentence letter, basically saying "OP happened, patient is ok". And I was never told anything. Had to dig up the info myself, found out they found me to be 50% infertile and they couldn't even remove the growth the surergy was intended to remove. I refused to go to a hospital for years after that.
My mum’s doctor (GP) built up a specialist then at the last moment tried to send her to another who’d she’d never heard of before-she already had an appointment booked with the first doctor. My Mum called me sobbing in a panic, I got called a racist for insisting she go to the first doctor, but we kept the appointment with the first doctor. You don’t bait and switch an already ill, scared sh*tless 80 year old lady.
i actually cancelled an important surgery because i was told last minute that it would be with someone i didnt know, had never met, and would not have chosen to have it done with. it has been proven time and time again that patients get the best outcomes when they feel confident with their care team, regardless of if another surgeon could perform the same treatment.
Fully agree - when I had my hysterectomy for endometriosis I met my entire care team before my procedure and I felt even more safe or confident about going through with it because I was finally going to get relief. My surgeon was the exact surgeon that I'd initially spoken to and I'd even told her "If you all get in there and you find my ovaries are completely covered in the endo and can't be saved, just take 'em and I can deal afterward since everything else is going too." She even spent an extra 35 minutes in there cleaning out all the scar tissue on the left side of my abdomen that the endo had caused - which left me very sore but incredibly thankful because she knew how much pain I'd been in.
@@LeahNicoleMusicTodaythe anesthesiologist always comes in and introduces himself before I have a surgery. Then they ask questions, anything I think they should know, and it's a good policy.
When will these people realize that this isn't informed consent? You were told it would be this person performing these actions which you consented to. You switch the person without telling the patient consent is no longer informed therfore not implied or given.
I feel ol girl even tho its a show if a doctor tells me something about “his technique” and says hes going to do my surgery and walks me through what HES going to do then hell yea dont switch up and assign someone else thats bullshit
"Im going to do the surgery." "Wait, why are you upset that i'm not doing it?" Common sense always evades these types of doctors. Doesn’t it? Fictional or not.
Im about to turn as the paragraph girl... Its from Good Doctor and as they showed the nurse really tries convincing him to do the surgery himself...After a lot of thinking ,This doctor..Dr.Andrews performs it and there comes a situation where they would have to shave up a little bit of her front hair to make an incision..But Dr.Andrews remembers the girl insisting she doesnt want any big scars or any hair cut...So the doctor himself braids her hair in a very neat manner whilst making space for the incision without taking any of her hair...Then after the surgery,the girl thanks the nurse thinking she was the one who braided her hair...She tells him it was Dr.Andrews who did it.Its also really touching cuz Andrews always wished for a child but never got to have one since he and his wife had fertility issues...The doctor then understands that had there been any other surgeon in his place they would have definitely taken her hair off...making him realise how important its to have a personal connection and care with their patients.
nurse was right. if I the patient hear you say "my technique" and "I will keep..." and "my schedule" I expect you to be in the room when I'm under. I didn't come seek you out only for you to not be present. I'm all for new surgeons learning from you, but if I saw you and consulted you, I expect you in that room.
It's very important to have someone that you like and or can trust more especially when its a nurse doctor surgeon or caregiver's in general that make you feel safe or happy because it's all about trust and or a good connection ☯️
You tell him girl! Sometimes they forget the reason they became doctors. He developed a rapport with that patient. That is probably the first time she felt beautiful. If he wasn't going to do the surgery, he should have been honest with her.
People get to the top of their career and then they forget why they initially went into that line of work. I’m glad she was able to make him self reflect.
It's scary how often this happens, I had a surgeon who discussed with me my sterilisation options after my 3rd c section and we agreed to tie the tubes so it's possible to reverse if I change my mind as I was only 26 and he promised to do the incision in the same place as my previous scar, on the day of my planned c section I ended up with another surgeon who decided to tell me 20 minutes before surgery while i was in early laybor and a hormonal mess, that he wants to remove the tubes completely and make my scar higher up, I managed to argue the scar issue but he refused to tie my tubes so it was either no op or the one he was willing to do. My husband was adamant he didnt want any more children so i felt pressured, ended up regretting it and even my husband wants another now but I'm now left with no options. It's so pointless having a consultation to discuss options and make plans if another surgeon can just ignore it and change the plan right before.
@@ChristinaPhillips-kc5my yeah as long as the uterus and ovaries are still there ivf is still possible!! also unfortunately, tying the tubes isn't that much a reversible method.. many stories of people who had their tubes tied then tried to have them untied and then couldn't have children naturally again
My Doctor did this to me he did my first surgery which went well and he promised to 8 year old me and my family that he would see to my recovery he broke it and moved somewhere else didn't even tell my family i had a few more surgeries after that because they delayed my post op appointment 2 years ( probably due to the change of doctors i was supposed have reconstruction of my mastoid) the disease came back i needed more surgery the part that they were going to reconstruct was decayed and had to be removed. Every surgery after my 1st was more traumatising than the last left me with white coat syndrome and a phobia of needles. My parents tried to sue the hospital for neglect but they pulled out some letters that weren't seen by my parents and the case was thrown out.
The nurse IS correct. She gave him the proper response and he’s lucky she didn’t do it in public. I hope he changed his ways after that and ridicules no one again.
I have bone tumors(benign) on my forehead. Just 1 on each side, like devil horns, maybe 1½cm raised from my skin. It took me 12 years of them growing(mm per year atp) for me to accept them as they are, even if they are slowly growing. While yes, this is a tv show, Im glad people can get treatment they are comfortable with rather than losing their sense of self when they shouldn't have to❤❤
Drs have to remember that patients are human beings with feelings, anxieties and a host of other issues pre surgery. They put their life in your hands, not who you decide to reschedule their surgery to because you have a finance meeting, what a prick of an act. The scrub nurse was 100% correct, he needed to realign his priorities.
Happened to me. I had a high risk pregnancy and was guaranteed the head of the maternity doctors would be doing my C-section at 31 weeks. Day comes and another doctor does it that i never worked with before. He was flawless and all worked out well but there was a little freak out period in there.
i mean.... he could say "our hospital has our own technique, you can believe on us" instead of saying things like "MY technique", made the patient trusted him then ditched her to another surgeon. he's so full of shit
I need to find a clinic that understands passing an old disabled woman who is quite alone and scared is a very bad thing to do. I'm just so tired, depressed, in worsening health and haven't the energy nor abilities of even 10 years ago at age 60. I'm just venting some stress so please don't hate on me😢
Had a surgeon examine a cancerous growth on my lip, say it was going to be easy to remove, then promptly schedule me with his PA for the surgery. I refused to let the PA do it. Explained that by law I have the right to an actual doctor and having a PA operate on my face was going to be a no-go for me. He ended up doing the surgery and it came out beautifully. Why would I schedule an appointment with a surgeon, have the surgeon examine me, and then let someone else do the surgery? Ridiculous.
God saw fit for me to change doctors last minute for my hysterectomy. The best beside manner, he even prayed for me before taking me into surgery and did an amazing job. I felt safe with him. Sometimes, it works out❤❤❤
They often see you for follow up, especially for a major surgery. You are correct that they wouldn't typically sit at your bedside until you wake up. The recovery team would take care of that and if the surgeon needed to check in they would pop in for a bit after you are awake, the next day, or during a follow up visit depending on the surgery and how it went.
Depends on the surgeon, and the situation. My sister had to have major surgery on her spinal column with a high risk of paralysis, the surgeon who performed the operation stayed with her through her entire recovery process, was there when she woke up, was there with us at each milestone of her recovery, and cheered with us when she stood up again for the first time. We were incredibly lucky, and that man is still on the Christmas card list from our family.
Firstly, those growths are simple to remove without massive scarring or shaving the head; plastic surgeons are aces at hiding scars and minimising scars that can’t be hidden. Secondly, I’m a surgeon - I learnt many techniques from my mentors and senior surgeons, so the other surgeon scheduled to do the surgery would’ve likely known how to perform the surgery the same way he would’ve done it. Have faith in your surgical team.
I had the ol switcheroo with my son's delivery. Didn't find out til I was pushing that the Dr who talked me into the induction wasn't on rotation at the time I was delivering and I'd never met the woman who was. The Dr who talked me into it knew my vision for my labor,had assured me that they'd respect my wishes barring an emergency, etc., but my delivery ended up being traumatic mentally/emotionally and I felt violated by some of the tactics they used with me. Nobody talked to me about anything, I was ordered around and harassed into interventions I had been clear were meant to be only used in an emergency. I couldn't even talk by the time I met the Dr who was there to deliver my son. I didn't really trust American healthcare before, but I will never trust it again. I've made up my mind that next time, I won't be heading to the hospital until I'm in transition (from labor to actively pushing), unless something goes very, very wrong and I will have my birth plan printed very clearly and have my husband trained to speak for me and my wishes unless he wants to hire a doula.
Probably he could have said, they don't know 'our' technique and assured her they have great doctors like Dr.Annanya. that would have given her more confidence to go with any doctor in the hospital..
That's why I will not change my PCP and neurologist of 15 years. They were there when they diagnosed me with a seizure disorder and their bedside manner, knowledge and communication with each other are in my best interest and care
She respects his role. Especially when you're scared to death, that relationship is crucial. He owes her respect due to her as HIS patient. Typical surgeon attitude!!!
My children’s mother went for eye surgery. She needed a corneal transplant. For months she met with the surgeon who assured her that he was the best in the business. She was told the surgery would last two hours. The surgery lasted way longer than that. She woke up during the surgery to find a student doing her surgery while the surgeon “supervised.” The real surgeon took over after she woke up and finished the surgery. Smfh. I’ve been imploring her to sue but she refuses.
This happened to me a doctor who was very skilled and highly recommended was going to do a surgery for me and the day of the surgery a completely different surgeron showed up and I kept asking for the doctor who told me they would do it and he wasn't there I couldn't trust the other surgeon
Andrews pisses me off so much so often... (For those curious, this is from The Good Doctor. Not sure the season, but since the nurse, Villanueva, is talking about being in hospital, i believe its season 5)
If you don’t want to disappoint the client to their face then that makes you a client and you’re aware that the reason you pushed them off on someone else is utter bs. I’m glad she gave him a reality check.
The day of my surgery I found out that the surgeon that would be assisting my doctor would not be there. I didn't bat an eye. I had been waiting for a few years. Anywho, there ended up being an issue during my surgery and the general surgeon had to come in. I was on the table 2.5 hours longer than had been planned. I also ended up needing blood. I remember feeling so grateful. Every doctor and student that was present during my surgery came do see me every single day that I was in the hospital. Before that I didn't even like doctors
I had 6 surgies on my toes for ingrown toenail from a young age maybe 9 or 10 until 14 or 15 years old. We went to a new doctor to have her fix it and she said if ive has that many so far clearly the way they've been doing it is not working and she said that they would put me under and they would completely remove the nails which i was fine with. When my surgery happened, she did what all the other docters had done. She was my surgeon. My toes are now worse off even if they dont get infected they dont grow right. She wa suppose ld to remove them completely and when i woke uo it felt like me and my parents were lied to
That is unprofessional, and I could never understand that behaviour as a patient. Thank God when I had my c-section, the doctors who dealt with me for checkups did the surgery except the head doctor. It felt like I had my family with me.
Literally. As scared as I am of medical professionals due to all the bad things I’ve had happen when I find one I can trust I will NOT accept seeing anyone else sorry can’t do it I’d rather get no treatment bc getting treated by a medical professional you don’t trust that doesn’t hear you or see you is the worse
People are talking shit on the hospital president, but I know for a fact we’ve all been in his position, where we simply forget the little things that got us where we wanted to be, no one’s perfect and it’s people like the nurse that bring us back to earth when we have moments like that!
Before my thoracotomy I made the highly recommended thoracic surgeon look me in the eye and promise that it would be him personally performing the surgery. I know students have to learn on someone, but they weren't going to learn on me.
Idk what’s happened to doctors over the last decade, but the majority suddenly don’t care if you live or die. Promising someone that you’re the only person that can do a specific technique and that’s the only reason they agree to the surgery, and then you offload them onto someone else while refusing to tell them to their face all so they can go to a finance meeting is beyond unethical. I know it’s just a TV show, but it happens every single day.
I’m glad that nurse gave him a reality check. That looks he was one of stepping in sh!t.
Yh I love her character SM she was my favourite nurse
Not even a reality check. Just a reminder that there's more patients who deserve the attention he gave her when she was hospitalized.
I have friends who are nurses. Some of them are just starting out with their clinicals but others have been at if for years. They say arrogant doctors, like this, are a dime a dozen. Doctors may come and go, but nurses make a medical facility run. If you're a nurse and you're reading this, you may feel unappreciated and taken for granted, but know I appreciate you. ♥️🫂
And she did it in a way that still showed respect to his position by reminding him of how his personal attention had meant so much to her.
Wish someone did that with my surgeon.
Not just did they switch surgeons, post OP they couldn't even find anyone who attended it to brief me. They grabbed some young trainee kid, gave him a 3 sentence letter, basically saying "OP happened, patient is ok". And I was never told anything. Had to dig up the info myself, found out they found me to be 50% infertile and they couldn't even remove the growth the surergy was intended to remove.
I refused to go to a hospital for years after that.
Imagine getting someone's hopes up by saying, "MY technique is better" and then offloading them to a different surgeon. That's really messed up.
100%
Exactly it shows that you aren’t a man of your word
It probably wasn't
I think the other surgeon was supposed to preform the same technique, probably taught by the one guy.
My mum’s doctor (GP) built up a specialist then at the last moment tried to send her to another who’d she’d never heard of before-she already had an appointment booked with the first doctor. My Mum called me sobbing in a panic, I got called a racist for insisting she go to the first doctor, but we kept the appointment with the first doctor. You don’t bait and switch an already ill, scared sh*tless 80 year old lady.
i actually cancelled an important surgery because i was told last minute that it would be with someone i didnt know, had never met, and would not have chosen to have it done with. it has been proven time and time again that patients get the best outcomes when they feel confident with their care team, regardless of if another surgeon could perform the same treatment.
Did you manage to get it later with the original surgeon? Being told that last minute is ridiculous.
Yep
I think any and all anesthesiologist should also be met before the morning if surgeries. Your life IS in their hands.
Fully agree - when I had my hysterectomy for endometriosis I met my entire care team before my procedure and I felt even more safe or confident about going through with it because I was finally going to get relief.
My surgeon was the exact surgeon that I'd initially spoken to and I'd even told her "If you all get in there and you find my ovaries are completely covered in the endo and can't be saved, just take 'em and I can deal afterward since everything else is going too."
She even spent an extra 35 minutes in there cleaning out all the scar tissue on the left side of my abdomen that the endo had caused - which left me very sore but incredibly thankful because she knew how much pain I'd been in.
@@LeahNicoleMusicTodaythe anesthesiologist always comes in and introduces himself before I have a surgery. Then they ask questions, anything I think they should know, and it's a good policy.
When will these people realize that this isn't informed consent? You were told it would be this person performing these actions which you consented to. You switch the person without telling the patient consent is no longer informed therfore not implied or given.
He created a bond of trust. You must never break it, especially when it involves medical care.
They do it every day. Seeing this freaked me out.i have had a that happen twice. Nitemares.
I feel ol girl even tho its a show if a doctor tells me something about “his technique” and says hes going to do my surgery and walks me through what HES going to do then hell yea dont switch up and assign someone else thats bullshit
"Im going to do the surgery." "Wait, why are you upset that i'm not doing it?" Common sense always evades these types of doctors. Doesn’t it? Fictional or not.
literally. not to mention hospitals are stressful, its easy to become attached to specific care providers from surgeons, nurses, doctors
Yeah like!! It’s a compliment, you’re the one they trust to do it! You put that emotional work in, now follow through lmao
Im about to turn as the paragraph girl...
Its from Good Doctor and as they showed the nurse really tries convincing him to do the surgery himself...After a lot of thinking ,This doctor..Dr.Andrews performs it and there comes a situation where they would have to shave up a little bit of her front hair to make an incision..But Dr.Andrews remembers the girl insisting she doesnt want any big scars or any hair cut...So the doctor himself braids her hair in a very neat manner whilst making space for the incision without taking any of her hair...Then after the surgery,the girl thanks the nurse thinking she was the one who braided her hair...She tells him it was Dr.Andrews who did it.Its also really touching cuz Andrews always wished for a child but never got to have one since he and his wife had fertility issues...The doctor then understands that had there been any other surgeon in his place they would have definitely taken her hair off...making him realise how important its to have a personal connection and care with their patients.
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nurse was right. if I the patient hear you say "my technique" and "I will keep..." and "my schedule" I expect you to be in the room when I'm under. I didn't come seek you out only for you to not be present. I'm all for new surgeons learning from you, but if I saw you and consulted you, I expect you in that room.
This.
This happens alot with child delivery.
It's very important to have someone that you like and or can trust more especially when its a nurse doctor surgeon or caregiver's in general that make you feel safe or happy because it's all about trust and or a good connection ☯️
That lady made him remember his integrity ❣️🥰💯
That's the EXACT scrub nurse he needs... Hats off to those that love us enough to not let stay as lesser versions of ourselves.
Even if he said Dr. other doctor knows my technique I’d trust him a little more
Nurses are the corner stone of hospitals
You tell him girl! Sometimes they forget the reason they became doctors. He developed a rapport with that patient. That is probably the first time she felt beautiful. If he wasn't going to do the surgery, he should have been honest with her.
He should know that lying to a patient is horrible.
People get to the top of their career and then they forget why they initially went into that line of work. I’m glad she was able to make him self reflect.
Exactly, Doctor's need to learn keep their word with their patients.
That's why we are nurses and you are doctors because every little detail matters
It's scary how often this happens, I had a surgeon who discussed with me my sterilisation options after my 3rd c section and we agreed to tie the tubes so it's possible to reverse if I change my mind as I was only 26 and he promised to do the incision in the same place as my previous scar, on the day of my planned c section I ended up with another surgeon who decided to tell me 20 minutes before surgery while i was in early laybor and a hormonal mess, that he wants to remove the tubes completely and make my scar higher up, I managed to argue the scar issue but he refused to tie my tubes so it was either no op or the one he was willing to do. My husband was adamant he didnt want any more children so i felt pressured, ended up regretting it and even my husband wants another now but I'm now left with no options. It's so pointless having a consultation to discuss options and make plans if another surgeon can just ignore it and change the plan right before.
You can still do ivf if you really want a kid and it's too late to adopt
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Maternal care in America is BS.
@@ChristinaPhillips-kc5my yeah as long as the uterus and ovaries are still there ivf is still possible!!
also unfortunately, tying the tubes isn't that much a reversible method.. many stories of people who had their tubes tied then tried to have them untied and then couldn't have children naturally again
Be happy you can have kids. You had 3. I can't have any. It doesn't help to be ungrateful..
@@lorabethluebchowwhy did you feel the need to blame her for something she can't control? She's not to blame for your infertility issues.
Good for her standing up to him!
My Doctor did this to me he did my first surgery which went well and he promised to 8 year old me and my family that he would see to my recovery he broke it and moved somewhere else didn't even tell my family i had a few more surgeries after that because they delayed my post op appointment 2 years ( probably due to the change of doctors i was supposed have reconstruction of my mastoid) the disease came back i needed more surgery the part that they were going to reconstruct was decayed and had to be removed. Every surgery after my 1st was more traumatising than the last left me with white coat syndrome and a phobia of needles. My parents tried to sue the hospital for neglect but they pulled out some letters that weren't seen by my parents and the case was thrown out.
Not gonna lie, he had me in the first half. For a while there I believed he cared.
The nurse IS correct. She gave him the proper response and he’s lucky she didn’t do it in public. I hope he changed his ways after that and ridicules no one again.
I love the fact that she reminded him that he made a promise❤
"Other doctors don't know my technique"
"She's in good hands with this other doctor"
Hmm I wonder why the patient wasn't comfortable with that.
Nurses are more than just medical workers, they are thankless angels of a profession shrouded in wisdom that is forged with both pain and love.
She respected his role, he was just, unprofessional.
For anyone wondering, the show is called "the good doctor"
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She IS BEAUTIFUL...My gosh❤❤❤❤❤
Don't use the staff to lie for you. Honor your word.
Woman stood on it. Respect.
I have bone tumors(benign) on my forehead. Just 1 on each side, like devil horns, maybe 1½cm raised from my skin. It took me 12 years of them growing(mm per year atp) for me to accept them as they are, even if they are slowly growing. While yes, this is a tv show, Im glad people can get treatment they are comfortable with rather than losing their sense of self when they shouldn't have to❤❤
That’s like saying “ you have to try my Burgers…best in town and better than McDonald’s. “And proceeds to give them McDonalds
so the last 21 years, he's a doctor playing an actor playing a doctor on tv, he's come a long way since CSI: NY.
btw for people that might not know it’s called the good doctor
Drs have to remember that patients are human beings with feelings, anxieties and a host of other issues pre surgery. They put their life in your hands, not who you decide to reschedule their surgery to because you have a finance meeting, what a prick of an act. The scrub nurse was 100% correct, he needed to realign his priorities.
Happened to me. I had a high risk pregnancy and was guaranteed the head of the maternity doctors would be doing my C-section at 31 weeks. Day comes and another doctor does it that i never worked with before. He was flawless and all worked out well but there was a little freak out period in there.
i mean.... he could say "our hospital has our own technique, you can believe on us" instead of saying things like "MY technique", made the patient trusted him then ditched her to another surgeon. he's so full of shit
Dr. Maxfield at Methodist orthopedic in Baytown, TX should watch this video. He needs to learn about bedside manners.
Call out the bad ones.
He's pulling a ghost doctor move.
Call it what it is, He just lied to her. (Ghost)
I need to find a clinic that understands passing an old disabled woman who is quite alone and scared is a very bad thing to do. I'm just so tired, depressed, in worsening health and haven't the energy nor abilities of even 10 years ago at age 60.
I'm just venting some stress so please don't hate on me😢
Passing anyone, but especially someone who's older, disabled and scared along to someone without a discussion, is awful. I'm so sorry.
Good nurses stand up to doctors
I so miss this show.
Gotta let people check you sometimes. Stay humble and remember your why ❤
for everyone who is wondering the show name is “the good doctor” and it’s on Disney +
It’s also on Netflix
The good doctor is an amazing show... I recommend watching it ❤️
Had a surgeon examine a cancerous growth on my lip, say it was going to be easy to remove, then promptly schedule me with his PA for the surgery. I refused to let the PA do it. Explained that by law I have the right to an actual doctor and having a PA operate on my face was going to be a no-go for me. He ended up doing the surgery and it came out beautifully. Why would I schedule an appointment with a surgeon, have the surgeon examine me, and then let someone else do the surgery? Ridiculous.
Docs get to thinking they are too important just like cops think they should not be charged like the public
God saw fit for me to change doctors last minute for my hysterectomy. The best beside manner, he even prayed for me before taking me into surgery and did an amazing job. I felt safe with him. Sometimes, it works out❤❤❤
No surgeon would ever sit by your bedside while you recover. Once that surgery is done, you're never seeing that person again.
They often see you for follow up, especially for a major surgery. You are correct that they wouldn't typically sit at your bedside until you wake up. The recovery team would take care of that and if the surgeon needed to check in they would pop in for a bit after you are awake, the next day, or during a follow up visit depending on the surgery and how it went.
Depends on the surgeon, and the situation. My sister had to have major surgery on her spinal column with a high risk of paralysis, the surgeon who performed the operation stayed with her through her entire recovery process, was there when she woke up, was there with us at each milestone of her recovery, and cheered with us when she stood up again for the first time. We were incredibly lucky, and that man is still on the Christmas card list from our family.
I had my surgeon in my hospital room so idk what you're talking about
Seems like they knew each other personally. If she was already a nurse at the hospital they would be more “hands on”
Firstly, those growths are simple to remove without massive scarring or shaving the head; plastic surgeons are aces at hiding scars and minimising scars that can’t be hidden. Secondly, I’m a surgeon - I learnt many techniques from my mentors and senior surgeons, so the other surgeon scheduled to do the surgery would’ve likely known how to perform the surgery the same way he would’ve done it. Have faith in your surgical team.
I had the ol switcheroo with my son's delivery. Didn't find out til I was pushing that the Dr who talked me into the induction wasn't on rotation at the time I was delivering and I'd never met the woman who was. The Dr who talked me into it knew my vision for my labor,had assured me that they'd respect my wishes barring an emergency, etc., but my delivery ended up being traumatic mentally/emotionally and I felt violated by some of the tactics they used with me. Nobody talked to me about anything, I was ordered around and harassed into interventions I had been clear were meant to be only used in an emergency. I couldn't even talk by the time I met the Dr who was there to deliver my son.
I didn't really trust American healthcare before, but I will never trust it again. I've made up my mind that next time, I won't be heading to the hospital until I'm in transition (from labor to actively pushing), unless something goes very, very wrong and I will have my birth plan printed very clearly and have my husband trained to speak for me and my wishes unless he wants to hire a doula.
How could you do that ?? Give that sweet child hope, relief and happiness and then drop it like it's nothing ? Girl. Get your stuff together oml
Probably he could have said, they don't know 'our' technique and assured her they have great doctors like Dr.Annanya. that would have given her more confidence to go with any doctor in the hospital..
Bro was talking about his technique when he wasn’t planning on doing the surgery
I LOVE THE GOOD DOCTER it may seem like a show about docters but i cryed so many times watching it
That's why I will not change my PCP and neurologist of 15 years. They were there when they diagnosed me with a seizure disorder and their bedside manner, knowledge and communication with each other are in my best interest and care
She respects his role. Especially when you're scared to death, that relationship is crucial. He owes her respect due to her as HIS patient. Typical surgeon attitude!!!
Patient centered care
My children’s mother went for eye surgery. She needed a corneal transplant. For months she met with the surgeon who assured her that he was the best in the business. She was told the surgery would last two hours. The surgery lasted way longer than that. She woke up during the surgery to find a student doing her surgery while the surgeon “supervised.” The real surgeon took over after she woke up and finished the surgery. Smfh. I’ve been imploring her to sue but she refuses.
This happened to me a doctor who was very skilled and highly recommended was going to do a surgery for me and the day of the surgery a completely different surgeron showed up and I kept asking for the doctor who told me they would do it and he wasn't there I couldn't trust the other surgeon
Never back down on promises when you personally talk about "your technique"
It’s scary to think that famous doctors just do consultations and hand the patient to someone else to do the surgery
Andrews pisses me off so much so often...
(For those curious, this is from The Good Doctor. Not sure the season, but since the nurse, Villanueva, is talking about being in hospital, i believe its season 5)
Ilkk
her: yes! we’re scrubbing in! all done!
also her: *arm drops below waist*
In Boston, we're used to it. We know our hospitals are teaching hospitals. However, the lead in a team is always in attendance.
“It’s the jumping one!!”Hahahaha love you ladies! Will miss time to stray 😢❤
Girl, that hair will grow back
When life gets in the way, we forget. Friends remind us
This is spot on💯
How sweet is that Doctor
Amen. That is so important.
She's right. Even i will insist on a doctor i feel safe with
i hope she’s okay
Good doctor is the best show
If you don’t want to disappoint the client to their face then that makes you a client and you’re aware that the reason you pushed them off on someone else is utter bs. I’m glad she gave him a reality check.
Tell him...lots of them need to know that personal touch is important and a promise is a promise.
Checking ✔️ is a beautiful thing.
The day of my surgery I found out that the surgeon that would be assisting my doctor would not be there. I didn't bat an eye. I had been waiting for a few years. Anywho, there ended up being an issue during my surgery and the general surgeon had to come in. I was on the table 2.5 hours longer than had been planned. I also ended up needing blood. I remember feeling so grateful. Every doctor and student that was present during my surgery came do see me every single day that I was in the hospital. Before that I didn't even like doctors
May someone please post the name of the movie 🍿🎥? Thanks in advance ❤
The good doctor
Doctor's that forget to be humble costs everyday people so much and they don't care
I had 6 surgies on my toes for ingrown toenail from a young age maybe 9 or 10 until 14 or 15 years old. We went to a new doctor to have her fix it and she said if ive has that many so far clearly the way they've been doing it is not working and she said that they would put me under and they would completely remove the nails which i was fine with. When my surgery happened, she did what all the other docters had done. She was my surgeon. My toes are now worse off even if they dont get infected they dont grow right. She wa suppose ld to remove them completely and when i woke uo it felt like me and my parents were lied to
I'm in 💕 love with Hill Harper
I mean, when there's only one doctor who said they can operate with little too no further cosmic damage, I'd be pissed if they diched me
That is unprofessional, and I could never understand that behaviour as a patient. Thank God when I had my c-section, the doctors who dealt with me for checkups did the surgery except the head doctor. It felt like I had my family with me.
Idgaf what any1 says...the NURSE was RIGHT! 💯👏🏾🙌🏾
Stuff like this (even though it's a fictional medical tv show) demonstrates their importance. ✨️
Especially with youth. When they make an attachment and the one who made the promise isnt there, they freak big time!
Literally. As scared as I am of medical professionals due to all the bad things I’ve had happen when I find one I can trust I will NOT accept seeing anyone else sorry can’t do it I’d rather get no treatment bc getting treated by a medical professional you don’t trust that doesn’t hear you or see you is the worse
People are talking shit on the hospital president, but I know for a fact we’ve all been in his position, where we simply forget the little things that got us where we wanted to be, no one’s perfect and it’s people like the nurse that bring us back to earth when we have moments like that!
You told him just right❤
GOOD DOCTER!!
Before my thoracotomy I made the highly recommended thoracic surgeon look me in the eye and promise that it would be him personally performing the surgery. I know students have to learn on someone, but they weren't going to learn on me.
Omg its Sheldon Hawkes...
That's a true Richard
tell him nurse!!!! TELL HIM!
This is called 'The good doctor' on prime
Learning to heal without cutting is impressive. To heal the flesh you gotta study medicine doctor 😂😂😂😂😂
Doctors need keepers to make them act right
Idk what’s happened to doctors over the last decade, but the majority suddenly don’t care if you live or die. Promising someone that you’re the only person that can do a specific technique and that’s the only reason they agree to the surgery, and then you offload them onto someone else while refusing to tell them to their face all so they can go to a finance meeting is beyond unethical. I know it’s just a TV show, but it happens every single day.
As an European, watching doctor show from United States, I always felt that Americans might cried when they see the bills.
YESSSS THE GOOD DOCTOR SLAYY