How to Not be a Doormat

Once I learned about this one trait that all "doormat's" have and I finally let it go, I felt so free. I knew I needed to share it with the world, just as it was shared with me. Thank you for watching!

[@ChipoTheAlt]

Great topic thanks for posting. I find that I am very willing to help others but very rarely is it reciprocated. I recently have fallen into isolation as a way of stopping that but I don’t think it’s good long term

[@michaelslifecycle]

@@ChipoTheAlt You are welcome. I know what you mean, it’s not good long term. Especially since it doesn’t actually fix the habit of being nice to people that are trying to use you. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being nice, but if it means putting yourself down to do so, it’s just not worth it. The best part about it is, you don’t owe them anything at all, unless you are actually indebted to them. If they want to dislike you because of it, that’s their problem. I think you will come across genuine people that are similar to you eventually and then it will be reciprocated. Thank you sharing your experience my friend 🙏🏼