You Are Not A Man If You're Concerned About What I Earn - Saidaboj | Pulse Hot Takes

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  • Опубликовано: 6 авг 2024
  • You Are Not A Man If You're Concerned About What I Earn - Saidaboj | Pulse Hot Takes
    Having financial conversations are typically sensitive, especially given the current state of the economy.
    On today's episode of Pulse Hot Takes, our host Elvis Christain, Chris and guests Saidaboj and Cherry Entafield discuss financial responsibilities between partners in relationships and marriage.
    Should partners declare how much they earn before and in marriage in the case of an increase?
    How does 50/50 affect the dynamics of a relationship and what financial responsibility will you not want your partner to split with you?
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  • @PulseNigeria247
    @PulseNigeria247  Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for watching! What topic would you like us to discuss next?

  • @matildaloveth3082
    @matildaloveth3082 4 месяца назад +220

    Next time balance out this podcast, we can’t have three dull people against one intelligent person.

  • @victoriaigbonoba9308
    @victoriaigbonoba9308 4 месяца назад +93

    Elvis was literally the only intelligent one in the room. His confidence is something.

  • @adeniyiomolara6074
    @adeniyiomolara6074 4 месяца назад +76

    Wow, he said and I quote:
    "I'm not responsible for the way you comprehend me, that's a you problem", that statement hits

  • @marioovunda2695
    @marioovunda2695 4 месяца назад +61

    Omo!!! This guy made the brotherhood proud... He literally schooled these ladies

    • @AsuaiJabaPrecious
      @AsuaiJabaPrecious 4 месяца назад +1

      He won bro ❤the brotherhood is proud

    • @GpRay-pj2mu
      @GpRay-pj2mu 3 месяца назад

      Brotherhood is proud of him ...let's make him an ambassador bro

  • @kenneth3223
    @kenneth3223 4 месяца назад +106

    Bro your calm and constructive criticism is top notch. They tried "Gaslighting" tactic, it didn't hit the target. You schooled their black asses all through the show.😂

  • @jimmygood6604
    @jimmygood6604 3 месяца назад +36

    Dude said
    "See what you people want to marry"
    Mehnnnnn, that hit!!! Who else noticed???

    • @Kay_blaq
      @Kay_blaq 2 месяца назад

      😂😂

  • @feliciakanu4202
    @feliciakanu4202 4 месяца назад +55

    I applaud that man’s parents for raising such a brilliant, calm gentleman man because he really control his temper

  • @richmanoti8439
    @richmanoti8439 2 месяца назад +14

    This guy is really strong. If it was me i would have stood up and walked out. I commend his tenacity.

    • @jaysen_o
      @jaysen_o 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @obere7999
      @obere7999 Месяц назад +1

      True talk l was boiling just watching

  • @sylvesteradeniyi3280
    @sylvesteradeniyi3280 4 месяца назад +118

    Even ladies know this man is the most intelligent in this podcast.

  • @anyanwuvalentine1631
    @anyanwuvalentine1631 4 месяца назад +163

    She said she's a voice for the women and yet the women are rejecting her voice 😂😂

  • @ebolejane700
    @ebolejane700 4 месяца назад +77

    This is what you get when you give children opportunity to talk when they haven't learnt anything in life. My heart felt sympathy to all ladies who reason the way these ladies have spoke. I pray God send help and wisdom to you soonest

  • @olaideakan-bassey6308
    @olaideakan-bassey6308 4 месяца назад +56

    For me it doesn't matter who's paying more as long as there's understanding, marriage is like an empty box in the beginning u both have to infuse the art of giving, loving, serving, n praising to keep the box full

    • @NELSONCHIMEZIECHIKERE
      @NELSONCHIMEZIECHIKERE 3 месяца назад

      No no. It the Soft Guy Era Drizzle Drizzle

    • @sylvesterabror2281
      @sylvesterabror2281 3 месяца назад +1

      The girl beside the host is unintelligent just a makeup ded

    • @Leonardernes
      @Leonardernes 3 месяца назад +1

      May the Almighty God continue to shower his blessings upon your marriage, Ma❤😊

    • @sampsonachonu5915
      @sampsonachonu5915 3 месяца назад +1

      Family finances are the business of both the man and the woman.

    • @sampsonachonu5915
      @sampsonachonu5915 3 месяца назад

      If daddy provides and mommy cares, then mommy should not work and should not have any sources of finance.

  • @director_balah
    @director_balah 4 месяца назад +289

    Please bring successful married woman on programs like this to share and encourage younger ones, not loosers who are not married

    • @carolc3725
      @carolc3725 4 месяца назад +3

      👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @peterjames9747
      @peterjames9747 4 месяца назад +10

      That saida isn't even interested in getting married why won't she be saying nonsense

    • @okenmuosomtochukwuemmanuel2163
      @okenmuosomtochukwuemmanuel2163 4 месяца назад

      ​@@peterjames9747she will definitely remain single with her empty brain

    • @successmine6051
      @successmine6051 4 месяца назад +16

      Exactly my thought. They’re too poor, unexposed and uneducated for this conversation.

    • @vincentzcrhodes4880
      @vincentzcrhodes4880 4 месяца назад +6

      God bless you for this comment bro

  • @duzzyspiritual1443
    @duzzyspiritual1443 4 месяца назад +207

    Kudos to this guy … facing three delusional entitled women

    • @hillzokpala
      @hillzokpala 4 месяца назад +3

      Less privileged women,they sound like one

    • @VictorUdeonu-du6db
      @VictorUdeonu-du6db 4 месяца назад +2

      Delusional women indeed

    • @Everythinghome247
      @Everythinghome247 4 месяца назад +2

      Delusional is an understatement, they sound so ooo, ifact I am short of words.

    • @ekechukwuedwin6848
      @ekechukwuedwin6848 4 месяца назад +2

      6mins in the video I'm already like, yakkkk!

    • @chimaokoro9708
      @chimaokoro9708 2 месяца назад

      😂😂

  • @user-lv7vh4ik4i
    @user-lv7vh4ik4i 2 месяца назад +8

    My wife literally brought up this idea of always expecting, i change am for am, now shes happy i made her realize she's supposed to be independent and assist as well. Nothing is perfect forever

  • @alberttumasang577
    @alberttumasang577 4 месяца назад +39

    Never seen 3 senseless people that agree so much

    • @Drealcole
      @Drealcole 4 месяца назад +3

      Ed Edd n Eddy. How can you bring three Dilulu on sensitive topic like this. Clearly non of these girls are married. What are you educating the younger women to do. They will call it woman empowerment 🤦🏾‍♂️. I pity the men in their lives.

    • @Kabiesitv1351
      @Kabiesitv1351 2 месяца назад +1

      I tell you! Very childish and senseless understanding about relationship and marriage

    • @designordu159
      @designordu159 2 месяца назад

      🤣🤣🤣...never

  • @enduranceosayanmo926
    @enduranceosayanmo926 4 месяца назад +108

    'I am not responsible for the way you comprehend me, that's a you problem.' A very polite insult. Weldone

  • @talktoada
    @talktoada 4 месяца назад +343

    Who is here because of Izzy😊

  • @aderayooladele1823
    @aderayooladele1823 4 месяца назад +64

    Elvis grew up in a real home which makes him a realist 👏👏

  • @vibeswithsegun
    @vibeswithsegun 4 месяца назад +16

    When Izzy said english and comprehension are two different things >> 😂 I felt that

  • @COJO.ORIGINALS
    @COJO.ORIGINALS 4 месяца назад +52

    He broke it down into lots of pieces, they still couldn’t fathom

    • @evansndamati7565
      @evansndamati7565 4 месяца назад +3

      Like their brains couldn’t accommodate it 😂😂😂

    • @chikeluchidinma3070
      @chikeluchidinma3070 3 месяца назад +2

      There brains are blocked 😂

    • @VictoriaMgbakogu
      @VictoriaMgbakogu 2 месяца назад +2

      I'm telling you common sense not common at all

    • @AkeJanie
      @AkeJanie 2 месяца назад

      I swear

    • @jaysen_o
      @jaysen_o 2 месяца назад +2

      Too much entitlement

  • @kelechiokochi412
    @kelechiokochi412 4 месяца назад +41

    Kudos to this guy, he has refused to be bullied. These ladies have literally bullied this guy because he has a different angle in the conversation. It's just all about the women, not even being sensible in the conversation.

    • @thesenseicraft9153
      @thesenseicraft9153 2 месяца назад +1

      He said the house will burn with Saida
      God damit

  • @gamersclub4188
    @gamersclub4188 2 месяца назад +5

    I love this guy's confidence and intelligence... The girls were trying to prove their pointless points😂

  • @rotimifrederick5479
    @rotimifrederick5479 3 месяца назад +7

    I am not responsible for the way u comprehend me, thats a 'you' problem.
    The most intelligent thing ive heard in a long time.

  • @Imissyoutoo22
    @Imissyoutoo22 4 месяца назад +151

    Bro is educated and knows how to use his words 📌

    • @ogiemwonyiedoghogho328
      @ogiemwonyiedoghogho328 4 месяца назад

      Nothing serious na Izzy, guys like this will always eye their wive's money which will not pay the woman.

    • @moiraedwin-jones4655
      @moiraedwin-jones4655 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@ogiemwonyiedoghogho328what is your statistics to prove that? These mentality are very VERY dangerous

    • @okefelix5348
      @okefelix5348 4 месяца назад

      ​@@ogiemwonyiedoghogho328 you're not a realistic person

    • @viclovely7706
      @viclovely7706 4 месяца назад +4

      Your average Nigerian girl go into relationship just to change hair.
      Was expecting to hear things like doing my master, starting a business or buying of properties. But, no. All we hear is hear and hear and hear. Some of with these hair in the studio look messy and unkempt so why would a man toil and turn just to buy hair for an irrational woman who isn't thinking tomorrow

  • @adebolaveronica39
    @adebolaveronica39 4 месяца назад +68

    This guy was too patient 🤦🏽‍♀️. Very intelligent man. Ladies, how did we get here?

    • @anniebrown2732
      @anniebrown2732 4 месяца назад +6

      Emphasis on the PATIENT😭😭 I for don deck one person
      Cause what re these ladies spitting

    • @adeniyiomolara6074
      @adeniyiomolara6074 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@anniebrown2732😂😂😂 Leave them to being delusional

    • @mukorolauretta8473
      @mukorolauretta8473 4 месяца назад

      ​@@anniebrown2732hahaha, decker

    • @stodinks2304
      @stodinks2304 2 месяца назад

      😂😂 ​@@anniebrown2732

    • @EmperorSkysis
      @EmperorSkysis 12 дней назад

      @@anniebrown2732🤣🤣😂😂

  • @user-bv9gj2ph4o
    @user-bv9gj2ph4o 4 месяца назад +10

    Abeg, this guy deserves another cap. Kudos bro! Realism is what should be applied in any long term relationship.

  • @Asa_drumz
    @Asa_drumz 2 месяца назад +8

    How can one man be this intelligent 😢😢😢

  • @Omo_anna
    @Omo_anna 4 месяца назад +33

    You can’t trust your partner with your money but you can trust him with your life. I ask, which is more important???? I am ashamed tho

  • @GAMER_FF_SSA
    @GAMER_FF_SSA 4 месяца назад +41

    Pulse, I’ll tell you this for free, this man is one of the best decisions you ever made. He’s bold, confident and most importantly and individual that knows what he’s saying and understands that every individual is entitled to an opinion. Nothing personal, but your guests are so small minded and I believe that this young man tried to explain that the society is more realistic than have it in their minds although we’re not quite sure if it was comprehended. Who else noticed our saidaboj was quiet when speaking on other matters (no shade w it)😉

  • @emmysunday6007
    @emmysunday6007 2 месяца назад +5

    I saw a lady talking about Elvis intelligency on ticktock ...had to come down here to check it up...bro bro bro!!! Mehn!! You are intelligent the way you schooled this ladies should be a coure to study bro i can hear you talk all day 💯💯 brotherhood is proud 💯

    • @samuelighodaro2007
      @samuelighodaro2007 2 месяца назад

      Me too. The guy is too intelligent for these trio. They are a bunch of ignoramûs and I pray my sons don't meet these types.

  • @dk_davproduction3314
    @dk_davproduction3314 2 месяца назад +3

    We should literally respect this man !!! A lot !!! He was able to win an argument not only against one woman but with 3 women and still literally gave every viewers the simple catch to the argument

  • @fatobablessing7660
    @fatobablessing7660 4 месяца назад +41

    He said he’s not responsible for the way they comprehend 😂😂😂😂😂 no be me say make you mumu😂😂😂😂

  • @mitchellowoh906
    @mitchellowoh906 4 месяца назад +36

    I am more happy that these girls will see this comment section.

  • @ajayiayo1297
    @ajayiayo1297 3 месяца назад +5

    Bro just brought peace to thousands of home with his wisdom without even knowing, his IQ is top notch.🥶 smartest person in the room who is being realistic with life. ✊🏾

    • @EzekielIkezahu
      @EzekielIkezahu 2 месяца назад

      Those girls say things nor fit get bad financial,,,, they are too foolish to be realistic

  • @user-qi1vo5fu2q
    @user-qi1vo5fu2q 4 месяца назад +5

    The guy's calmness when responding to the ladies is something to study 🤝 He literally knows what he was doing through out the conversations, unlike the others.

  • @nnasonntyze8939
    @nnasonntyze8939 4 месяца назад +29

    Elvis don finally give Saidaboj a seat...... Almighty voice of the women wey women don reject...😂😂😂😂😂

  • @abrahamisaac7127
    @abrahamisaac7127 4 месяца назад +75

    Please next time bring people that have sense.
    Not people that will be misleading our girls

    • @kilmson
      @kilmson 4 месяца назад

      All the Nigerias girls are misleaded already

    • @graceyatong2277
      @graceyatong2277 4 месяца назад

      Ateyu 🌚🌚🤦🏽‍♀️🤗

    • @graceyatong2277
      @graceyatong2277 4 месяца назад

      My gender just day mk like…..🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @adeniyiomolara6074
      @adeniyiomolara6074 4 месяца назад

      Exactly cos these ladies here are just so low at understanding simple points

    • @user-di8ek9ju3f
      @user-di8ek9ju3f 2 месяца назад

      Swrss

  • @AdewoleJoshua-td6yh
    @AdewoleJoshua-td6yh 4 месяца назад +5

    Saida is a sort of a person that speaks more than she listens. To every bit of what Elvis postulated, she attempted to intercept with wishy-washy points! On a live broadcasting show as such, I believe it is wise to listen more, and come in politely whenever a question is posed to you.

  • @christabeloliver2308
    @christabeloliver2308 4 месяца назад +6

    The guy did fantastically well!! He represented!!! Am super proud of you

  • @davidobasanmi7167
    @davidobasanmi7167 4 месяца назад +22

    This guy Try ooooo,intelligent,smart and refused to be silenced by the ladies

  • @gabrielleakerele7940
    @gabrielleakerele7940 4 месяца назад +211

    This guy is so enlightened, I agree with every word.

    • @mustaphasalihu9896
      @mustaphasalihu9896 4 месяца назад +1

      My guy weldone

    • @olaideasagade5848
      @olaideasagade5848 4 месяца назад +19

      To be honest, these women kept missing the point about providing, why will you have a family and feel the need for a man to carry the whole responsibility, then saying a man shouldn’t ask a woman to support is just cringe, she should do the support on her own will,but you can ask a man to get you wigs but a man can’t ask you to add 100k to complete your child’s fee. You claim to love a man, but you enjoy him toiling day and night just to put food in your mouth and you wouldn’t still see the need to use your own money to take him on a trip to bora bora, this love thing is one sided to be honest. I have a father and I enjoy the providing benefits of him being my father, but God knows the moment I make it big, I’m taking him on a vacation to enjoy for like one week. Men are doing their best tbh, if it’s not coz of the men who spoilt women to these point, where will all these entitlement come from. In 2024 you still want a man to be fully responsible for you and your children, then what’s your own purpose on earth, sit and enjoy!!!!

    • @anyanwuvalentine1631
      @anyanwuvalentine1631 4 месяца назад +3

      @@olaideasagade5848 God bless you my sister. While I do not support the bad men, I feel both the man and women should help each other. No load should be mounted on one partner. Its depressing.

    • @busaritomiwa2293
      @busaritomiwa2293 4 месяца назад

      Enlightened kwaaaa... He is a mumu man

    • @anyanwuvalentine1631
      @anyanwuvalentine1631 4 месяца назад

      @@busaritomiwa2293 give your reason.

  • @ObilorChigaemezu
    @ObilorChigaemezu 3 месяца назад +7

    This guy really humbled this girls 🙌🙌

  • @ogbeosabuohien980
    @ogbeosabuohien980 4 месяца назад +7

    This guy is too intelligent to be on this table he is way ahead of 3 of them combined 😢

  • @highest_wts
    @highest_wts 4 месяца назад +44

    On behalf of all the modern men in the world bro we love you and we couldn’t have asked for a better man to represent us ❤

    • @adeniyiomolara6074
      @adeniyiomolara6074 4 месяца назад

      He actually do represent well❤❤

    • @vibeswithsegun
      @vibeswithsegun 4 месяца назад

      Bruv 😂 I’m so proud he is part of our gender that schooled those ladies

    • @ajayiayo1297
      @ajayiayo1297 3 месяца назад

      Swears bro is a good representative, I’m pretty sure his words will change a lot of women mentality and he just settled a lot of families issue without even noticing 😅

  • @benedictnwaneri6967
    @benedictnwaneri6967 4 месяца назад +22

    The comment says it all. Thank God a lot of people are still sane in this country

  • @UgoUgolaice
    @UgoUgolaice 4 месяца назад +4

    It's really difficult listening to dull people, worst being amongst them. Wellllll done papaaaa u try

  • @oseyifunmi
    @oseyifunmi 4 месяца назад +5

    Bro you went head to head with the wolves 😭😭😭😭 and survived. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @user-qm4qm4do3f
    @user-qm4qm4do3f 4 месяца назад +94

    Seriously as a woman am ashamed of this ladies, they’re not getting the guy’s point of view.

    • @eguono9057
      @eguono9057 4 месяца назад +4

      And that's the majority will have out there sis days thinking dey know it all wen dey know nothing

    • @ayoj399
      @ayoj399 4 месяца назад +7

      Very Ashamed of them. The parents did a very bad job. I can't stand that saida girl

    • @mmesomaezenweke8513
      @mmesomaezenweke8513 4 месяца назад +2

      Me too ..I'm so ashamed on their behalf cux what's all these act of stupidity and ignorance for,? Tho they tried to make some points but still spoiled it with their entitled mindset

    • @oluomachi31daniel80
      @oluomachi31daniel80 4 месяца назад +1

      No senses in dis my genders

    • @Aanitey
      @Aanitey 4 месяца назад

      Hmmm

  • @vincentejimadu5087
    @vincentejimadu5087 4 месяца назад +24

    Learn to invite people whoare emotionally mature . Lady sitting close to the guy is so daft that she ranted all through the discussion. Kudos to the guy, especially his ability to stay calm and not letting the meaningless jibes get to him.

    • @vibeswithsegun
      @vibeswithsegun 4 месяца назад +1

      Then she was now trying to use the context of lipgloss to trigger Izzy 🤦🏼 that was so dumb

    • @jaysen_o
      @jaysen_o 2 месяца назад

      Voice of the women was so dumb

  • @shedrackerhabor1417
    @shedrackerhabor1417 4 месяца назад +4

    This guy is so intelligent and logical big ups bro

  • @kellybojor9274
    @kellybojor9274 2 месяца назад +2

    One sensible man in an argument with three empty heads. I can't just imagine!

  • @brahamhenry7848
    @brahamhenry7848 4 месяца назад +67

    @Pulsetv whatever you do, THIS YOUNG MAN DESERVES A RAISE!!!!!…Good to know there are still Men (REAL MEN) like him. It’s so sad the generation of Ladies we have. And to the ladies on this podcast, please go home and replay this particular episode… and see if you are proud of urself and your mindset..God help us all.

  • @oginnioluwabunkunmi8845
    @oginnioluwabunkunmi8845 4 месяца назад +62

    Kudos to this guy for standing up for himself💯 And to y’all women, please you can learn to have a conversation without being rude, manipulative, and having to raise your voice. Y’all can do better honestly🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @syrup111
      @syrup111 4 месяца назад

      No, they can't do better; they are miscreants.

    • @emmywise1704
      @emmywise1704 2 месяца назад

      Thank you ❤

  • @JameChris-st4ex
    @JameChris-st4ex 2 месяца назад +3

    To be honest I blame people who gave her platform to come and say rubbish.
    My contribution to this is there shouldn't be a tag to responsibility in marriage. Both partners should be held for anything.

  • @samuelakowuah9580
    @samuelakowuah9580 3 месяца назад +1

    This guy needs to be awarded 🎉….come on!!! To handle these konko head girls is so fantastic. This is one of the most sensitive topics in our society currently. Kudos man you do alllllllll

  • @afolabioluwapelumi2786
    @afolabioluwapelumi2786 4 месяца назад +44

    This guy has a lot of patience sha😂

    • @OgeAnizorl
      @OgeAnizorl 4 месяца назад

      I swear that one wet carry hot yam for mouth for Don chop slap

    • @AsuaiJabaPrecious
      @AsuaiJabaPrecious 4 месяца назад

      If na me eh 😹😹

    • @EmperorSkysis
      @EmperorSkysis 12 дней назад

      @@AsuaiJabaPrecious🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Nita_Phill
    @Nita_Phill 4 месяца назад +103

    Damnnn.. this girls covered their brains with wigs…

    • @mmesomaezenweke8513
      @mmesomaezenweke8513 4 месяца назад +5

      That was harsh but yesss ..you are actually right!

    • @carolc3725
      @carolc3725 4 месяца назад +5

      There is nothing in there head

    • @Aanitey
      @Aanitey 4 месяца назад +2

      Exactly

    • @kingcharmin1791
      @kingcharmin1791 4 месяца назад +4

      Like bro empty heads with expensive wigs chai 🤦‍♂️

    • @AlexendraAwana-fc3mc
      @AlexendraAwana-fc3mc 4 месяца назад +2

      Like for real😂they can’t comprehend I swear..

  • @amehpatrickdavid7239
    @amehpatrickdavid7239 2 месяца назад +1

    Girls, please listen to understand this gentle man..he's on point

  • @tinuolaprecious
    @tinuolaprecious 4 месяца назад +1

    This Guy is a real man, God bless and keep him, not many men reason like this. For the ladies, I have no words fr.

  • @onyedikauzodufa2409
    @onyedikauzodufa2409 4 месяца назад +24

    I love that analogy that when a man is carrying his baby his not doing the woman a favor

  • @xxsog
    @xxsog 4 месяца назад +30

    I like the way this guy use each words

  • @pc7111
    @pc7111 2 месяца назад +1

    As an Igbo lady, this young man is making sense. Yes, his love language is providing - that does not mean that the woman wont cover the gap. Most men with provider mindset would gladly provide financially when they can. But life happens, any good woman would be happy to support her man including financially. I don't know where the entitled mindset is coming from, its not becoming at all. I hide my face in shame for entitled people.

  • @Aster349
    @Aster349 4 месяца назад +5

    This guy dey gimme joy abegggg 😂😂😭...

  • @dadaolagoke8796
    @dadaolagoke8796 4 месяца назад +22

    As a man aside that i bring money..i bring mentorship. Spiritual BACKING ...A WHOLE LOT

  • @sabiupdatestv
    @sabiupdatestv 4 месяца назад +29

    These Girls are Myopic. One Direction. Their Life is So Perfect 🤭 I Love the Fact that They're Optimistic let them keep on being Optimistic Life is so Perfect and life's Ups and Downs won't come to them 💯 Until Life Teach You Lesson , U no go Learn Lesson 💔💔😂😂

    • @alfredosuya9620
      @alfredosuya9620 4 месяца назад +3

      Not myopic. They are loose canons!

    • @davidojeikere7350
      @davidojeikere7350 4 месяца назад +2

      I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have TROUBLE. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
      It seems Jesus is sadistic and pessimistic to these ladies dwelling in lala land

    • @brightinyang5290
      @brightinyang5290 4 месяца назад +2

      Dyg !!! Nobody is praying for “downs” but it’s inevitable cuz it’s life , you’d face one or two lapses regardless.
      They didn’t understand 😂😂🤡🤡 that one was busy saying “I reject it” 😂😂 even pastor Adeboye no fit beat him chest talk say life smooth , you Dey whine ?

  • @chineduokoye2521
    @chineduokoye2521 4 месяца назад +1

    Listening to this, I am so gobsmacked

  • @PreshyJane-xn3zm
    @PreshyJane-xn3zm 4 месяца назад +3

    God bless this guy ❤❤❤These ladies misrepresented women💯
    Why should a man be All in all
    You wan kill am??

  • @VictorUdeonu-du6db
    @VictorUdeonu-du6db 4 месяца назад +8

    Seeing this now i lost hope in getting married but coming to the comment section my hope got revived knowing well not all our women has gone this astray

  • @abuwinner-vw8dr
    @abuwinner-vw8dr 4 месяца назад +88

    Haven't seen a lot of senseless people in a room at once in a long time ☹️

  • @rumbi28
    @rumbi28 4 месяца назад +2

    Just out of curiosity, how old are these ladies?
    A LOT of learning to do on their part. Almost feels like they’re have a fantasy planned out for their lives. But the question I posed above, will answer every single one of the questions I have

  • @_youreverydaygirl
    @_youreverydaygirl 3 месяца назад +2

    I'm here because of Elvis 🥰

  • @randomvideostv9021
    @randomvideostv9021 4 месяца назад +68

    This guy is too smart for these little things honestly

    • @adeyeyeolumidepeters354
      @adeyeyeolumidepeters354 4 месяца назад

      Yes he is.....I worked with him on a television channel

    • @eguono9057
      @eguono9057 4 месяца назад +1

      This ladies think is all about running mouth up and down

    • @omobolamariam-rb2xm
      @omobolamariam-rb2xm 4 месяца назад

      Exactly
      I can’t cope talking with people that has no comprehension. I will be very drained

  • @promisenkwam4913
    @promisenkwam4913 4 месяца назад +25

    If SAIDABOJ really practice what she preaches, I will like to see what becomes of her 10 years from now

    • @emekanwachie5720
      @emekanwachie5720 4 месяца назад +1

      Honestly she doesn’t even know what life is all about. She Has a lot of growing up to do

    • @bonkiepearl9700
      @bonkiepearl9700 4 месяца назад

      What does she preach pls?

    • @olaoluwakitan_a
      @olaoluwakitan_a 4 месяца назад

      Exactly people will just avoiding her ,there is a girl I know any and every conversation leads to money.

    • @mfonobongunanaowo1322
      @mfonobongunanaowo1322 2 месяца назад

      The most toxic and mentally slow set of women I've seen on live TV.

  • @osifesoolanrewaju3010
    @osifesoolanrewaju3010 Месяц назад

    That explains alot about your Dad,
    Elvis response as such is no other but best interpreted highest level of maturity.

  • @EngagewithAnne
    @EngagewithAnne 3 месяца назад +2

    The lady in black is deflecting…why are you talking about lip gloss now,stick to the conversation.
    Then why roll eyes,raise your voice.
    But generally I think so many people are wounded and hurting…
    The guy is so patient and this is work ethics 🎉Kudos

  • @sammygeeentertainment8918
    @sammygeeentertainment8918 4 месяца назад +20

    Elvis Christian i love you bro 😂😂😂
    You actually have a way of placing them so imbalanced and leaving them on the hook 😂😂

  • @sindelherself
    @sindelherself 4 месяца назад +33

    You thinking stepping up to pay your child’s school fees when your husband is financially down (for a period) is helping him instead of a partnership that MARRIAGE IN ITSELF IS is wild!!

    • @gloryoluwadamilola8474
      @gloryoluwadamilola8474 4 месяца назад

      That is if the man also sees domestic activities and taking care of the children as helping me.

    • @adewaleibraheem3974
      @adewaleibraheem3974 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@gloryoluwadamilola8474 If you can do good by yourself, then don't date or get married.
      If you're expecting someone to cover you, you're a liability.

    • @user-ni8xt1zp9y
      @user-ni8xt1zp9y 4 месяца назад

      If the husband is the type that fulfils his responsibility without having to be forced and begged, then the wife should definitely come in when he is down, after all they are her kids too and she is responsible for them. Most times, men knows that a woman would always love her kids more than the anger or hatred she has for him, so he is sure that she would definitely look for means to do that. How should such men be treated.

    • @funnypeterr
      @funnypeterr 4 месяца назад

      @@user-ni8xt1zp9y “if” taking care of to child is under condition… dull people are in the comment section too, you don’t know there are single mothers doing everything make God help your reasoning

  • @confidencechilderainnocent4959
    @confidencechilderainnocent4959 2 месяца назад +1

    This guy is a real man,just patient and intelligent

  • @samsongift8934
    @samsongift8934 Месяц назад +1

    I am proud of this man. Men watch what you want to marry.

  • @oreoluwaadeyeye3294
    @oreoluwaadeyeye3294 4 месяца назад +20

    Well done to the guy! A true professional. I could only watch the first 3 minutes.

    • @adaezenancyuche
      @adaezenancyuche 4 месяца назад

      Sameeeee
      Like how did people get to the end???

  • @BIackman77
    @BIackman77 4 месяца назад +11

    Omor this guy is very intelligent and real 💯. This girls don’t understand life at all. Life’s have ups and down l.
    Will come back to this video later

  • @sparklejulia1749
    @sparklejulia1749 4 месяца назад +2

    The guy is making sense 💯
    Regardless am a female

  • @RowlandEbube
    @RowlandEbube 4 месяца назад +1

    We are keeping notes about this two ladies after all internet doesn’t forget

  • @kelvin_buduzhi5797
    @kelvin_buduzhi5797 4 месяца назад +7

    Elvis your parents God in heaven will bless them for raising you up properly with a mind set that is making sense.

  • @peterotian5161
    @peterotian5161 4 месяца назад +18

    Who said it's only money father provide? What about protection? What about mentorship? What about leadership?

  • @olalekanibuowo2822
    @olalekanibuowo2822 2 месяца назад +1

    I love this guy emotional control. Very intelligent guy.

  • @PTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
    @PTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT 4 месяца назад +2

    I really hate the fact that the ladies tried to gaslight the guy and attack his male ego just became he had a different opinion. I really hate it when people do that. State your opinion, you don’t need to be rude. I really hate when people can't be diplomatic when speaking or stating their points, it only says a lot about their thought process. So because he wants his wife to contribute financially (and he even said not 50/50), he is a woman. Nawa! Kudos to the guy abeg. He is sound, confident and very secure about his masculinity. I obviously won't support a man not working at all and depending fully on his wife even though the society accepts it for women but this male host sabi abeg. He has common sense and very intelligent and self aware

  • @geraldnweke5592
    @geraldnweke5592 4 месяца назад +55

    These ladies just keep talking without making a single, solid point!

    • @osakachike15
      @osakachike15 4 месяца назад +5

      Exactly no single point made just argument and noise 😂😂. The guy is so smart and realistic because in life bad things happens so stay humble and prepared this ladies are still leaving in fantasy world . No man will marry a lazy and jobless woman with no income to support herself or family . Marriage is a partnership equal rights

    • @graceaigbogun7489
      @graceaigbogun7489 4 месяца назад +3

      You are so right. So uncultured, unrefined in speech and in metality.

    • @user-lf3pv2zo9d
      @user-lf3pv2zo9d 4 месяца назад +1

      Honestly …3 fools na dem Dey spend for man pass 😢…if right hand do for u the left hand should also do back …once woman is married is for better for worse …na this kind ladies no Dey stay one man house if not all what the ladies are saying are pointless 😏and am sorry for them 😏😏

    • @henrychibuzor2380
      @henrychibuzor2380 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@osakachike15 imagine wearing a 800 to 1.2m Worth of wig in an empty brain 😂😂😂😂and

    • @christianaezeobi3677
      @christianaezeobi3677 2 месяца назад

      ​@@user-lf3pv2zo9dso you are an agreement with feminist idea?

  • @catchabbie
    @catchabbie 4 месяца назад +23

    There are men and women who have the same mindset with these ladies here...and there are women and also men who have the same mindset with this guy. . FIND YOUR SPEC AND BE WITH THEM..leave others alone to avoid conflict.

    • @ahmedakande6283
      @ahmedakande6283 4 месяца назад +4

      Simple… but mine can never be with these ladies…

    • @sabiupdatestv
      @sabiupdatestv 4 месяца назад +1

      Na.... 😒 I Totally Disagree with that you know why? Cuz it doesn't always end well. So you can do your findings.

    • @theplugsdigitalmedia
      @theplugsdigitalmedia 4 месяца назад +1

      Truthfully

    • @Sammirdiary
      @Sammirdiary 4 месяца назад

      Lol okay na

    • @vibeswithsegun
      @vibeswithsegun 4 месяца назад +1

      Word 💯

  • @oluwaseun3771
    @oluwaseun3771 4 месяца назад +5

    😢😢Fathers should work more on raising their daughters well

    • @forahia
      @forahia 2 месяца назад

      Aswear! I'm so disappointed with the girls. Like all of them 😞😔

  • @user-sx6yd3uc1e
    @user-sx6yd3uc1e 4 месяца назад

    What i really love about the guy is the calm demeanor he uses to decimate all their arguments.

  • @millionairemob733
    @millionairemob733 4 месяца назад +11

    This guy is SMART AND WISE

  • @ijeomanicholas5449
    @ijeomanicholas5449 4 месяца назад +38

    Izzy brought me here to learn from elvis

    • @alliebeading
      @alliebeading 4 месяца назад

      Who is izzy please

    • @kevincurry5569
      @kevincurry5569 4 месяца назад

      And me too😂😂lzzy

    • @borisniba7989
      @borisniba7989 4 месяца назад

      U guy really have delusional role models very dull😂😂😂😂

  • @CharizMoore
    @CharizMoore 2 месяца назад +1

    God bless this man 🙏🙏🙏

  • @thesenseicraft9153
    @thesenseicraft9153 2 месяца назад +2

    I really reapect the guy here not just because he is a guy but he speaks intelligently

  • @tafatriumph4762
    @tafatriumph4762 4 месяца назад +12

    This guy deserves a raise.

  • @user-cc2nr4wy8s
    @user-cc2nr4wy8s 4 месяца назад +11

    This guy is very smart and raw at the same time 😂😂

  • @agnesanyele1768
    @agnesanyele1768 4 месяца назад +28

    Who is here because of Rita on TikTok 😂