After my very public divorce, I cried out to God desperately for a new wife for 12 years

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  • Segun Arinze never talks about his personal life and so I am grateful that he shared these truths with me.
    He talks about navigating the very public divorce with his fellow actor wife, how he handled the public attention and the years he spent in tearful prayer to God asking for a new partner.
    We talk about the depression that followed the massive success of the ‘Black Arrow’ character that made him a star - while the world celebrated him, the role caged him.
    We talk about his silence after his daughter called him out on social media, and why he will not join issues with his family on social media
    And we talk about those terrible years when he was blacklisted by Nollywood, and voice overs saved his life.
    It’s Segun Arinze, in full colour
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Комментарии • 164

  • @nanaaadjoa
    @nanaaadjoa Месяц назад +40

    He acts so well, viewers forget he's acting. Just excellent talent.

  • @peaceokwudei2405
    @peaceokwudei2405 Месяц назад +24

    Segun Arinze is like that big brother you'll love to gist with and learn from ❤❤ Thank you for doing this interview ❤

  • @nkemawogu3383
    @nkemawogu3383 Месяц назад +63

    The most effective tool in marriage is communication💯

  • @debede8296
    @debede8296 Месяц назад +27

    Wow. So glad for Segun getting it right in his second marriage. He seems happy and content.

  • @KT-ov4bz
    @KT-ov4bz Месяц назад +71

    Segun Arinze is sound damn brilliant

  • @uwakwegertrude3886
    @uwakwegertrude3886 Месяц назад +9

    Thank God for Segun Arinze, he is always judged by the roles he played. But he is such an intelligent man. Thank God he is happy now in his marriage with 3 kids. Love his value about prayer. God be with him.

  • @lizzybens
    @lizzybens Месяц назад +33

    "... Everyone has a closet, if you open it people will get to know what is in it but if you keep it close no one will see it and so they won't know anything". Nice one Chude

  • @odiadavid6957
    @odiadavid6957 Месяц назад +20

    I opened this video because I want to hear Segun Arinze speak with his Sweet voice. 😅

  • @DellyCobbah
    @DellyCobbah Месяц назад +15

    Segun is an Amazing actor

  • @tangangbecky3970
    @tangangbecky3970 Месяц назад +21

    Black Arrow with the voice. ❤

    • @getrudedanquah2750
      @getrudedanquah2750 Месяц назад +3

      That’s the only name I could recognize him with 😆😆😆

  • @adaobiobieje2879
    @adaobiobieje2879 Месяц назад +23

    What a brilliant conversation with Uncle Segun❤

  • @amaitemumoh1692
    @amaitemumoh1692 Месяц назад +19

    I actually enjoyed this conversation. Thank you Sir

  • @chimwemwezimba7649
    @chimwemwezimba7649 Месяц назад +16

    I always loved him as a bad boy!! Hes such a versatile actor. Love him❤

  • @pato9377
    @pato9377 Месяц назад +3

    Mr Arinze is among the original talented ones we have in Nigeria

  • @msdeeess7654
    @msdeeess7654 Месяц назад +9

    What a legend ! SILENT NIGHT was such a good movie. Watched it over and over again back in the day. And GOOD BYE tomorrow.... the restaurant part where Mr Arinze was singing. What a voice !
    Typecasting can be so annoying; glad to see him doing well in other areas, including marriage. Great interview.

  • @cynthiajoy7959
    @cynthiajoy7959 Месяц назад +5

    Congratulations Segun Arinze. I'm glad you are doing great bro.🎉

  • @julietaiwo394
    @julietaiwo394 Месяц назад +4

    I love him since I was young. I admire his voice and role. God bless you and continue to keep your marriage.

  • @movingear23
    @movingear23 Месяц назад +10

    This was very wholesome.

  • @joycemhango4353
    @joycemhango4353 Месяц назад +1

    My all time super star! Segun Arinze! Thanx for bringing him here!

  • @NasiruKosoko
    @NasiruKosoko Месяц назад +4

    Growing up I'm always happy to see him on TV📺

  • @IOSALive
    @IOSALive Месяц назад +9

    With Chude , This is fantastic! I subscribed because I love it!

  • @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK
    @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK Месяц назад

    This conversation blessed me. Thank you Chude for interviewing Segun.

  • @beautyisaiah6106
    @beautyisaiah6106 Месяц назад +1

    Thank God I watched this, your advice is golden, thank you Mr. Segun Arinze

  • @CHRISTOPHEROKEREAFOR
    @CHRISTOPHEROKEREAFOR Месяц назад +6

    Communication is every thing

  • @emmanueluwaifo3045
    @emmanueluwaifo3045 Месяц назад +3

    I knew him as black arrow for years before I waa told his name is Segun Arinse. You have a very fine voice.

  • @MaygirlA
    @MaygirlA Месяц назад +2

    Mahnnn I've been a Segun Arinze fan since forever. Such a brilliant actor. And he speaks really well!

  • @mojeehsola
    @mojeehsola Месяц назад

    Thank you Segun Arinze for sharing these nuggets.

  • @doyinhassan5250
    @doyinhassan5250 3 дня назад

    Inspiring I must say! Well done Chude!

  • @adaeze2411
    @adaeze2411 Месяц назад

    Wholesome interview.smiled all through

  • @pawuramakay7535
    @pawuramakay7535 Месяц назад +9

    How this interview unfolded was just beautiful. A master at work. Brilliant conversation wonderful guest.

  • @InstrumentpuG
    @InstrumentpuG Месяц назад +1

    Brilliant conversations.

  • @yemiolakiitan8568
    @yemiolakiitan8568 Месяц назад

    He speaks so well!

  • @Lady-moriire
    @Lady-moriire Месяц назад +3

    I’ve actually loved uncle segun arinze since childhood but he was always very scary in movies 🎥…I’m so glad to hear 👂 from you on this channel

  • @thomasassim-ita1787
    @thomasassim-ita1787 Месяц назад +1

    Very interesting interview from a very professional actor and humble individual. Segun Arinze has proven himself in this interview, I respect him a lot for being just simple and human ❤❤❤🎉🎉

  • @ucheuzuigwenwali1318
    @ucheuzuigwenwali1318 Месяц назад +12

    Respect to my own person Black arrow

  • @euniceannan63
    @euniceannan63 Месяц назад +2

    Communication 🎉🎉🎉🎉 absolutely be prayerful thank you sir ❤❤

  • @NMACEOTV
    @NMACEOTV Месяц назад

    Such a beautiful and amazing and educating interview

  • @kehindeabiodun-ajayi1074
    @kehindeabiodun-ajayi1074 Месяц назад +11

    God hears prayers

  • @Neenyee
    @Neenyee Месяц назад +2

    This was really nice to watch

  • @OmaG
    @OmaG 5 дней назад

    I love this interview

  • @Ladiestalkwithhope
    @Ladiestalkwithhope Месяц назад +1

    A man with a great level of intelligence

  • @elizabethharry4457
    @elizabethharry4457 Месяц назад

    I just love this man for his act ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lyciarobinson-qg3jh
    @lyciarobinson-qg3jh Месяц назад +1

    He was my favorite, We love him and we miss him too,😀😀😀

  • @fatimaahmed7249
    @fatimaahmed7249 Месяц назад

    Ever since it was revealed that "followers/Fans"CAN BE BOUGHT; and usually are, no need to fret..You are a BUNDLE of Talent Mr.Arinze. And that is what COUNTS....

  • @salakosolomon6487
    @salakosolomon6487 Месяц назад +1

    Be prayerful!

  • @comfortchinyereanene3689
    @comfortchinyereanene3689 29 дней назад

    Wow,this is so beautiful💕💕💕

  • @gistwithtoryteller59
    @gistwithtoryteller59 Месяц назад

    Wonderful conversation.
    Interesting and informative.

  • @rexididia6624
    @rexididia6624 Месяц назад +2

    Amazing...

  • @ihuomaomele2652
    @ihuomaomele2652 Месяц назад

    Very educating and interesting piece!

  • @madujennifer6800
    @madujennifer6800 Месяц назад +7

    This was lovely to watch.

  • @wegood1678
    @wegood1678 День назад

    Love this guy

  • @agbakuchiamaka3546
    @agbakuchiamaka3546 Месяц назад +1

    I actually learnt something from this interview

  • @yemiimex800
    @yemiimex800 4 дня назад

    Beautiful

  • @bkgee007
    @bkgee007 Месяц назад

    Great session

  • @lomben9165
    @lomben9165 Месяц назад +4

    Sending love and light to this man 🙏🙏

  • @beonceeadababe1150
    @beonceeadababe1150 Месяц назад

    Segue we missed you, We love you.

  • @ofejiroakwenuke
    @ofejiroakwenuke Месяц назад +1

    Such a Prolific Interview. I call this Master Class. @With Chude you are doing such a great job. Definitely, I would love to see the whole interview. I pray the good God bring wonderful global opportunities to Segun Arinze. Certainly love the voice. Thank you being genuine

    • @WithChude
      @WithChude  Месяц назад

      Please visit watch.withchude.com for the full interview.

  • @odiadavid6957
    @odiadavid6957 Месяц назад

    Chude enjoyed himself. Just listening 👂 😊

  • @UK-sm4co
    @UK-sm4co Месяц назад

    I'm glad God heard his prayers and he got it right the 2nd time ❤❤❤. Thank you sir for your contribution to the arts industry 🙏

  • @emmanuelngwa462
    @emmanuelngwa462 Месяц назад

    Love you Segun God bless you

  • @user-fm2fe7pz4r
    @user-fm2fe7pz4r Месяц назад

    May God continue to keep this marriage.

  • @lalabonitaa
    @lalabonitaa Месяц назад

    Wow loved it

  • @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses
    @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses Месяц назад

    Amazing ❤️🎉

  • @aishasandi1
    @aishasandi1 Месяц назад +4

    Thank U Thank U Thank U Heavenly Father Most High ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ JEHOVAH LORD GOD Almighty ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @eghelewinifred9825
    @eghelewinifred9825 Месяц назад

    Interesting conversation ❤

  • @emekaraphael4292
    @emekaraphael4292 Месяц назад +13

    Please the full interview
    Waoh! Segun Arinze is a delight to listen to

    • @adaorahi
      @adaorahi Месяц назад

      You will have to subscribe to be able to watch any full interviews from Chude

    • @WithChude
      @WithChude  Месяц назад

      Please visit watch.withchude.com for the full interview.

  • @CalebBalogun
    @CalebBalogun Месяц назад

    Love this segun arinze brand

  • @ZoeyBe
    @ZoeyBe Месяц назад +1

    One of Nigeria's finest....😊😊

  • @godsonnnamdi6352
    @godsonnnamdi6352 Месяц назад

    Seeing this part of him makes me love him...i love this 'voice over' thing though...

  • @chinyereibeh-ebeh2499
    @chinyereibeh-ebeh2499 Месяц назад

    Great guy. .

  • @elizabethkuye9166
    @elizabethkuye9166 Месяц назад

    Very good 👍

  • @faithFedeke
    @faithFedeke Месяц назад

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, SEGUN ARINZE, WHEEEEERE HAVE YOU BEING....

  • @ebomoney1
    @ebomoney1 Месяц назад

    My role model 🎉🎉🎉

  • @twinkletee5182
    @twinkletee5182 Месяц назад

    This should be a big brother Voice

  • @bettyudokwe9041
    @bettyudokwe9041 Месяц назад

    Fantastic interview. He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.

  • @aishaneh7880
    @aishaneh7880 Месяц назад +5

    Please Mr Chude when will you have an interview with yemi blaq

  • @360Parenting
    @360Parenting Месяц назад

    Great actor

  • @attahsuzanne5374
    @attahsuzanne5374 Месяц назад

    Nice one deep

  • @chioma.o.greatjoy
    @chioma.o.greatjoy Месяц назад +4

    I love stories of second chances. I am married and I completely agree with him when he mentions "communication". There is never time to keep resentments or anger in marriage, if you sweep issues under the rug, it just builds malice. And more issues will come up, you don't want to start making reference to past issues when dealing with a present issue.

  • @omowunmiikotun2227
    @omowunmiikotun2227 Месяц назад

    Wow!

  • @ArielDavid-ih9xy
    @ArielDavid-ih9xy Месяц назад +79

    I really grew up hating him not that he did anything to me but the roles he played in movies. I was a little boy but I remembered how I used to cry 😂 😂😂

  • @nnekaafulukwe3685
    @nnekaafulukwe3685 Месяц назад +2

    Haa!!! Segun you really described your wife properly. But u didn't include that she is a giver to a fault. She goes out of a way to help and please anyone around her. Just a lovely soul.....

  • @gladtreat9
    @gladtreat9 Месяц назад +1

    Never saw him this way... wonderful 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Ayimifaithful
    @Ayimifaithful Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for this interview
    I love the fact that he did not come online to talk dirty about his ex wife.
    Uncle segun you are mature sir
    God continue to keep your home.

  • @nourishbmercy2148
    @nourishbmercy2148 Месяц назад +1

    Wow
    Looks are so deceiving
    Very intelligent guy and God fearing. I’m glad he found a good wife.

  • @vivianchnonyeifeagwazi9934
    @vivianchnonyeifeagwazi9934 Месяц назад +1

    Segun Arize

  • @HONEYMEDIAEUROPE
    @HONEYMEDIAEUROPE Месяц назад +1

    SOCIAL MEDIA FOLLOWERS/FOLLOWS WERE NOT REAL DEAL!!! TALENT IS REAL!!! D.L.MOODY once said ‘’That advertisement maketh more people to Patronise You!!! That’s the importance of SOCIAL MEDIA!!!
    It’s 50+50=100!!!
    Greetings to All and Bro. Segun

  • @Dageminiparadox01
    @Dageminiparadox01 3 дня назад

    Black Arrow 😂. This man is still one of the greatest on screen

  • @okikifaith
    @okikifaith Месяц назад +1

    I remember I was trying to describe him in a movie I had watched, and I told my friend black arrow was among the cast,I remember she turned to me and ask who is black arrow that she doesn't know him I just looked at her and ask but you know segun Arinze she said yes😅😅.that was when I knew my friend was still a baby when he started acting

  • @nkilimmaanammah8556
    @nkilimmaanammah8556 Месяц назад

    This really educative and good advice. Close your mouth.everyone has a closet.

  • @FootballKontent-wq9ly
    @FootballKontent-wq9ly Месяц назад +8

    Could he be the big brother? I’m hearing the time of big brother from his voice

  • @TheTestifier
    @TheTestifier Месяц назад +1

    This Marriage has changed him. He looks stable now

  • @dadasowunmi-pearce1212
    @dadasowunmi-pearce1212 Месяц назад +1

    Segun Aina

  • @TheModernNigerianMum
    @TheModernNigerianMum Месяц назад +1

    lol!!! I remember that name ‘ojuyobo’😂😂

  • @walatabig
    @walatabig Месяц назад

    Many years ago, Segun Arinze sang a shockingly good song in duet, I couldn't believe it. Dont know where to get the song now. The name was "like a whirlwind..." or something like that

  • @abieyuwairabor1452
    @abieyuwairabor1452 Месяц назад

    Beautiful 😍

  • @obadaradammy9439
    @obadaradammy9439 Месяц назад +11

    My instinct told me now that he is d one doing big brother naija

  • @sazaberg
    @sazaberg Месяц назад

    Nice one ❤❤

  • @alerorichards7073
    @alerorichards7073 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @west0falia
    @west0falia Месяц назад +1

    ‘The shit will always happen’