Coming Out at Work? // FTM Transgender
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
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Bro, you have such a bright personality. Your videos always make me smile.
Renee Fisher me too
"it's clear to me that you're a train!"
"What are your pronons?" "Choo-Choo...?"
Dude! I've missed you, glad to see a new video from you. I remember the beginning of my transition at work and being super jazzed whenever someone said sir or he.
Missed you too! I never would have done the name thing had it not been for talking about it with you first!
Glad to help man!
XD maybe I should start wearing Thomas the Tank Engine paraphernalia so people can see I'm an obvious train.
I think this person's on to something.
Grand idea!
Mackkkk 💙💙💙
It's so funny because if anyone calls me young man or sir I automatically lower my voice. Like I had to keep up this act of me being biologically male. Another thing is I love when people ask about my pronouns rather than assume. Someone once asked my pronouns because he got that I was trans. Everybody is so chill about it but it's still scary.
We missed you so much!!!🐶🐶🐶🎅💯
you're great!
Mack this is amazing. love this video!! Thanks for the confidence
I swear this video is made for me because I go by Mack too lol definitely gonna sub now
Aaaaa, I love your smile and confidence and the aura you irradiate when you get hyped by being called male :D
2nd thumbs up. love you mack!!!
man I hear you, I really prefer he/him pronouns too, but I have a reaaally feminine voice and "she" is automatically used. but everyone mostly calls me by my preferred name. except at one of my newer jobs they don't because it's owned by a family that's been friends with my family for 40 some years. so they've known me since I was little. now that I work for them it's just "birth name" left and right. but even the employees, who I've just met, have been calling me birth name and I hate it. one coworker has this odd habit of singing, literally, singing my name when we have the same shift.
life as a transie *sigh* the struggle is reaaal
Right there with ya at the moment.
oh my gosh this is amazing. (im genderfluid right and reside in a super curvy feminine body type thang, ergo zero medical transitioning, okay,cool) and my GOSH fucking I laughed so hard with all these kind of interactions you're talking about because it's similar to when I 'present as male'. But it's just like.....errrr... I loved the smile after the little girl called you site the entire thing was so adorable. mack you're hilarious and i love your videos keep doing what you're doing. good luck with however you decide to handle the situation.xxx
Thanks :)
HI MACK! LOVE YOUR CHANNEL! :)
I relate to you so hard
Well if it's a temporary job while you're looking for work, you might as well come out to them unless you're not ready to tell them.
im coming to your staples and throwing a mother fucking party even doh i dont know where it is
My collage was visited by the army on Friday and I met a guy who was like trans manager or something who helps a lot of FtM soldiers in the start of the transition and I want to go in the army so that was awesome and I knew I could be open about stuff.
Hahahah Mack you're the best! I could watch your videos all day (and sometimes I do...)
That's awesome man. I remember i also did something like this in the beginning of my coming out process. I changed my name legally (it's pretty easy to do that here in Sweden), and used it at work and with my family as a "nickname". I did that for almost a year before I came out. I think that for me it was good to take it step by step. You'll get there, don't worry! I wish you all the best.
Hello yes. I too, am a train. 😂😂😂
Strangers often read me as a young boy until I open my mouth and have a feminine voice
I work at Walmart and I'm not even out with my preferred name. My birth name is written on my name tag so I never wear it. Management doesn't ever notice or care, probably because I'm an unloader/stocker. It's great though, because the name tag isn't there to hinder me in passing. I'm pre-T, but when I'm actively trying I pass over 1/2 the time, get a lot of "man's", "sir's", and "dudes", from customers and coworkers. I think some of the people I work with suspect I'm transgender, but no one knows.
I love how happy you get when you get gendered correctly by accident, that's legit me 😂
firstly, love the uniform! Secondly, I am also currently halfway out to people; very few people call me by male pronouns because I'm not out publically yet. I know how you feel, man!
😎! Awesome!
Love this video so much! I'm currently in the process of coming out to my coworkers and then to HR so I can get a new name tag with my real name on it. I hope everything goes well for you!
Lol u are very quirky, my guy, and its hilarious. Ur cool. I'm givin this vid a Thumbs up
It sounds like an interesting situation but at the very least, being half-out you can get even more of a feel for it in public and the like, congrats man, you got this!
Hey man,
I can definitely relate to how things are going for you. I started my job in the fall of last year and originally started out as my birth name (not by choice) and changed to the name I like two weeks later. It's been about four months and nobody messes up the names, but the pronouns still haven't caught on yet, even with being out. Pretty sure in time they'll start to switch once they realize how using feminine pronouns sounds really awkward with the my name. Keep your head up, things will continue to come into alignment with time.
My work story is I was in an elf suit at this coffee shop I work at and I found out the next day that a little girl said to my boss the elf is a boy. I'm out there so that's cool and the rare occasions when i'm taking food out and a woman tells their kid let the boy past. Also the only time I ever really corrected someone on my pronouns a boy in a high chair called me a boy and their mom immediately said that's not a boy it's a girl to her son. I was just like actually miss your sons right I'm a boy and she apologised so that's cool. I'm out to a couple of my colleges and a couple customers I've known since I was about nine.
you are so sweet and nice and friendly and helpful
"It's clear to me that you're a train."
Hi, I'm a train too xd
Here's my process for meeting new people. As we get introduced or greet each other, I start and populate a profile for you. Name, rank, serial number, gender, preferences, contact info., in regards to:, interests, concerns, whatever. I autofill this in. I make mistakes and edit to make accurate as I get to know you better. Gender is getting tough! In your case you'd be listed as a girl. Not a woman or male. If I over heard you correct somebody, I'd change it.
Hey Mack! :D So glad you got to use your name at work and are pretty frequently getting read as male. That's great :)
Same situation, buddy. I've been out at all of my jobs except for one and all of the others were exactly like you described. They know the name, it's plain as day on the name tag, but my voice and in some cases like my current job, not being able to bind due to work load, it's she/her/hers all day long. I used to correct them, but no one cares or tries so its just become an irritating itch at this point. Maybe your coworkers will be different? We've got your back, dude.
This is great man i can hella relate when people call me dude or use the right pronouns! love your vids dude keep bein u
I️ had one guy ask me where the name ‘Grey’ came from as if I️ was supposed to have some long family history with the name. His son had the name gray so he was expecting something more interesting than an awkward pause and “...it’s a nickname”
I love your videos so much is it possible u can maybe upload more? Lysm ❤️
when i had longer bushier hair the guys would call me bro but after the heatwave and i got a haircut they keep calling me she now and its sad lol (too scared to come out at work)
Your such a great guy. You have so much courage. I hope I can meet you someday. :)
Good: Just got my first part time
Bad: They have gendered polo shirts that accentuate hips and have weird ass collars
ahhh. is asking for the 'other gendered' (-_-)ones difficult ?
I was laughing at the pronouns thing it kind of reminds me of when I met one of my friends because we were near my parents and they asked my pronouns xD Another amazing video dude!!!!
(minus the 'it's just like err' i was constructing something and posted by accident)*nervous laugh*
Clearly a train. Clearly. Lol
I'm really worried about work. i work with kids and they address us as Mrs(mr). Name
I'm not out to my parents but i really don't want to be called mrs.(birthname). I feel like coming out to them wouldn't be the smartest idea because my parents could find out
"It's clear to me that you're a train" lmfao
Glad to see another video from you! So when someone comes up to you and another guy and says "could one of you gentlemen help me?" and you say you will, does that co-worker ever say anything about it?
I went back to school to finish my degree this fall and I decided, basically on the spot, I would go by Ricky instead of my birth name. (I considered going as Bear, too b/c that is a genuine nickname but I figured I'd get more questions about that than Ricky, which technically is an ambiguous name) So everyone at school calls me Ricky. At work, I still go by my birth name but I told a few co-workers that I go by Ricky at school and I actually came out totally as trans to one the other night!! I knew he'd be 100% cool and he was like, "I kind of figured but didn't want to assume" So whenever we're not around other co-workers he calls me Ricky. :D
Unfortunately though I am a very curvy person (even with a binder) of average height with long hair and have a high pitched voice so I would never be read as male by customers. :(
I'm thinking of asking my boss if I can change my name on my name tag and the daily break schedule to Ricky...
Oh one more question, how come you haven't told your therapist?
hey! kind of got rid of social media, wanted to let you know I am still alive! post a new video already 😂
i was lucky and legaly changed my name long bwfore i started my job and was already on hormones about 5 months. so i totally passed. the guys all call me buddy and everyone says he.
I'm so jealous lol
What degree did you graduate with bro?
Media studies haha. It's been rough trying to find a job in my field.
MackMan I bet! Do you have an aa, ba?
BS Bachelors of Science
I woudl really feel bad if i didnt say the right pronouns bc im an idiot and i aleays something get the ftm or mtg right so idk im ughdkansjdj
Mackenzie is kinda gender neutral. I feel for you that u get misgendered so much but its good everyone calls u mack at least. You should legally change it to mack to avoid awkwardness
Im confused, have you got manly parts yet?
I think you should just come out as male since it's a new job the sooner then better honestly. You start having people call you she and they will do the whole she I mean he stumble. It won't be as scary once you do.
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