Chosen Ones The Grass Was NOT Greener! Now They Can't Get You Back

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  • @carmenc777
    @carmenc777 Год назад +14

    Those shaming tactics they use on you after they do you dirty is despicable

    • @tibora13
      @tibora13 3 месяца назад

      🫵🏿

  • @koban4max
    @koban4max Год назад +38

    Had some potential lovers who could had something good with me but nah..I pass. I’m glad they pass me up because I saw the real version of them.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Год назад +2

      What did you see?

    • @mma4355
      @mma4355 Год назад +1

      @@dennisrobinson8008 listen here Dennis. You will see the fraud in people, the lack of effort/understanding. You need people to tell you about themselves in the right way, for you to trust them. If they don’t open up, you can’t trust them, cause every time we open up, we learn people for who they are. They fake

    • @koban4max
      @koban4max Год назад +8

      @@dennisrobinson8008 they play too much cat and mouse game. Too much selfish egotistic type. Not being honest and straightforward

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Год назад +4

      @@mma4355 i have a gf that went years with me. She communicated to me thru a shell or some rules. Then I learned she enjoys talking about all kinds of things. Shares her imagination all that. She never would open up to me. I guess my "job" was support and essentials. I was always asking why she can't open up... Behind my back she might have complained saying she can't talk to me or some bs. So your right it a red flag.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Год назад +2

      @@koban4max yes that crap sucks. Someone mentioned positioning you for "ego building". Makes sense.

  • @Zander-32
    @Zander-32 Год назад +10

    The whole idea is rooted in a lack of gratitude. 'They' have it better. 'She's' happier. 'He's' loaded. It's Narcs seeking ideas of grandeur

    • @Peacewalker1993
      @Peacewalker1993 Год назад +1

      If you not telling the truth💯 I don’t know what is💯

  • @BeautifulLife000H
    @BeautifulLife000H Год назад +30

    I have noticed a trend in my life. I come across to people as open, kind, harmless, without guile. People often think that I am going to be an easy target for their control games and ego building. What instead happens is that I respond with a vengeance when attacked. I am a 100% honest and ethical person, so they can't find anything to shame me with in a war. But I remember every unethical thing they have done and said. When they throw false mud on me I dump ten times more mud on them that is all true. I always win these battles and they suffer the consequences of their conniving actions. I win again.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Год назад +3

      Bible says "gnashing of the teeth". All that negative conniving chatter design to tear you up.

    • @OhIThinkNot777
      @OhIThinkNot777 Год назад +4

      Proverbs 18:17-19
      The first to state his case seems right, Until the other party comes and cross-examines him. 18 Casting lots puts an end to disputes And decides between strong opponents. 19 A brother offended is more unyielding than a fortified city, And there are disputes like the bars of a fortress.
      Still, Jesus commanded us to forgive.

    • @OhIThinkNot777
      @OhIThinkNot777 Год назад +5

      You sound like you've got everything under your control.
      Good for you .
      Stay strong.
      If you don't respect yourself and have pride...in yourself, no one else will.

    • @Peacewalker1993
      @Peacewalker1993 Год назад

      Yup gaslighting your reality, you take the abuse over a over, then you call out facts of there ugly actions character and behaviors… They make up false accusations on you accusing you against your character. But they can’t handle the truth of who they really are.. it’s insane

  • @nathanmay1070
    @nathanmay1070 Год назад +14

    The Grass wasn't Greener, They Can't get back to me, and not in a 100,000,000 years would I ever let them back!. They get out and stay out and stay away. 💯.

  • @juniordubbz394
    @juniordubbz394 Год назад +22

    YOU GOT THAT RIGHT BRO LIKE BB KING SAID THE THRILL IS GONE AWAY WHEN THEY HAVE RUINED IT AIN'T NO GOING BACKWARDS THEY KNOW THIS!

  • @FBRZ-qe3fs
    @FBRZ-qe3fs Год назад +9

    💯 bro that's how they are! 😂 picking on you till you react and then calling you crazy for that...

  • @truthisinfinite8
    @truthisinfinite8 Год назад +2

    We're not bitter. We're wiser. Once I detect that gaslighting, I shut that shit down real quick 😤 BAM! 💥

  • @MiamiVisor
    @MiamiVisor Год назад +14

    So relatable. I had an excellent relationship with a girlfriend, and she dumped me when a travel opportunity came her way. She went on a long multi-month trip with the hopes of meeting Mr. Wonderful I'm guessing. Well, guess who came back and started stalking me. LOL I've had so many blessings in disguise, you get rewarded if you don't act like a fool.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Год назад +1

      Such a selfish and greedy witch

    • @Peacewalker1993
      @Peacewalker1993 Год назад +1

      💯 you don’t have to move with the actions of a fool when your genuine

  • @nathanmay1070
    @nathanmay1070 Год назад +10

    Now She's Running away from life and being Ran Through. My so called 'Ex' is for the Streets. Forever digging for gold she will never find. 💯

    • @davidrogafeller7464
      @davidrogafeller7464 Год назад +3

      “She had to get a pimp, she couldn’t make it on her own” 🎧

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 Год назад

      ​@@davidrogafeller7464 facts

  • @Bxl19
    @Bxl19 Год назад +7

    Once you cross that line or walk out of that door don’t expect to come back stay where you are at the grass is not always greener on the other side

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +8

    Set strongest boundaries with lazy unmotivated people ! Move quicker and move professionally

  • @JEREMCEE
    @JEREMCEE Год назад +2

    Social media really does benefit women mostly… Never play the game…… 🍀

  • @nekaylasmith
    @nekaylasmith Год назад +4

    I’m glad to be single. Others tried to manipulate and gaslight me into thinking I wouldn’t be happy but no stress or drama, abuse.

  • @ronbarber197
    @ronbarber197 Год назад +6

    Only a boring person gets bored

  • @blackout8105
    @blackout8105 Год назад +4

    That’s right! Out of their f- in. Mind! Thank you Terry on point. Blessings to you.

  • @ronbarber197
    @ronbarber197 Год назад +4

    Almost every woman I've been with 25 years ago she's still looking for someone similar and cannot find it

  • @RayDalziel
    @RayDalziel Год назад +9

    This is EXACTLY what needed to be said. Best video ever.

  • @ShayCostello
    @ShayCostello Год назад

    “If you have some anger or bitterness towards someone it’s not going to work” seriously felt that.

  • @chriswalker5812
    @chriswalker5812 Год назад +5

    This reminds me of the story about the dog that was eating his bone in front of a river stream he looked out in the water saw a reflection of the bone he was eating and dove out in the water to get it because it looked bigger he dropped his bone and by the time he realized that what he saw was a mariage he went back to retrieve his bone he soon realized it was gone it floated down the stream and it's people that's just like that that's quick to jump leap and leave because it looks bigger and better but it's not

  • @matthawsey1726
    @matthawsey1726 Год назад +1

    Don't poke a bear you will get the paws

  • @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure
    @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure Год назад +9

    I'm just trying to be happy and live my life. I'm a gem- gems over rocks. That is why I view your channel and other channels as amazing, because they're an escape and I always learn something new.

  • @morningglory3681
    @morningglory3681 Год назад +4

    Smash to me means ask my LORD for his hammer and literally knock all the way into the ground. We have different dictionaries...

  • @Victory-mq7wz
    @Victory-mq7wz 2 месяца назад

    Their loss and I’m not going backwards 😂❤God bless you Terry

  • @candyosborne214
    @candyosborne214 Год назад +2

    I love this 💜such powerful truth that so many just don't get. Thank u!

  • @JEREMCEE
    @JEREMCEE Год назад +1

    Terry is the Top G 🥇

  • @godsnobody2915
    @godsnobody2915 Год назад +3

    Sometimes, it's like the doctor blaming the Frankenstein monster because Igor dropped the brain. That's how well people can justify themselves these days.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +3

    I respect respectful people , high upped people !

  • @VictoriaBiblicalHebrew
    @VictoriaBiblicalHebrew Год назад +6

    I hope one day you realize that both men and women go through things.

  • @messiah3x211
    @messiah3x211 Год назад +3

    YESSIR DEMON SLAYER !!!

  • @OhIThinkNot777
    @OhIThinkNot777 Год назад +5

    Joel,
    King David crossed that line with Jehovah and Bathsheba, Jehovah forgave him and he eventually married Bathsheba.
    You can't give advise to people and say your respectable when your still using foul language.
    Don't blame or judge others for sinning differently.
    Several " trusted" people I considered as my family, actually schemed real evil against me !
    Be " Careful" bro !
    People living in GLASS HOUSES should never throw stones.
    #truth

    • @JesusChrist_IsTruth-LoveForALL
      @JesusChrist_IsTruth-LoveForALL Год назад

      Don't blame or judge others for sinning differently like you said. He speaks how he speaks, it may not be rated G or PG but it is what it is. This is RUclips, many different personalities on here doing it how they do. 🤷

  • @robiness5344
    @robiness5344 Год назад

    They’re blinded by the light of the diamond shine ✨ ….they’re intimidated 🤷‍♀️

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +2

    I feel so so good when I just go to ride bike horse and create

  • @R2-_-D2
    @R2-_-D2 Год назад +4

    Alot of times these ppl are Covert Narcs and they go for Good Trustworthy individuals to then show there true side and make a wreck of your life.. Cringe A.F. & yeah shop there danm heads off!!!

  • @blackout8105
    @blackout8105 Год назад +5

    Thank you for the message. God Blessings to you. Sometimes, it’s God’s Protection.
    I do not do any of those Apps. I do God’s Path.

    • @JesusChrist_IsTruth-LoveForALL
      @JesusChrist_IsTruth-LoveForALL Год назад

      Those APPS are FULL of fake and fraudulent people, not ALL are but so many, but so is real life. It's a tough jungle to weed through out here.

  • @sylviamjames
    @sylviamjames Год назад +2

    You do forgive and move on. Is what we all were suppose to do. Some people never got the closure they needed.yes, this younger generation these girls or boys that had issues with their families in their past growing up. But really if they, we’re rebelling with their parents. Some thought they were more intelligent than what was taught . Which made them become the joke.
    To many words here. Maybe I should have just kept it short like this. I admit my wrongs , and faults. I surely would not play the head games like cover or shift the blame on someone else. I own up to my dirt. Sorry, so long.

    • @JesusChrist_IsTruth-LoveForALL
      @JesusChrist_IsTruth-LoveForALL Год назад +1

      Facts! I've been on both sides of the coin, more than once unfortunately. But I'm self aware and can admit my wrongs and rights.

  • @matthawsey1726
    @matthawsey1726 Год назад

    When they say your bitter they are justifying for hurting you because they already know that their wrong but their false sense of self won't accept that their wrong because of a a false reality in their head so if their shoes fit they'll say they don't word up to the demon slayers out there

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    Use my anger to create my muscles and future meanwhile dismissed low classes

  • @DanBurky
    @DanBurky Год назад +1

    Lot of FACTS

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    I feel very good when new girls with clean but blue or green eyes I meet , that's the type bro

  • @trey369
    @trey369 Год назад +1

    Demon slayer 😎 my man Terry

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    And I set strongest boundaries with all drainers

  • @marieality1
    @marieality1 Год назад +5

    Hello

  • @TheGrzesiosio
    @TheGrzesiosio Год назад +1

    Until I wasn’t driven enough

  • @Splakyy
    @Splakyy Год назад +2

    talk about perfect timing

  • @Kveistine
    @Kveistine Год назад +1

    never block the sneeze m8. u got word much learned and got better from listenin. 95 born here too i connect.keep going no matter what you make the difference!

  • @jeannettemiller9275
    @jeannettemiller9275 Год назад

    AWESOME AWESOME SUPERB ADVICE

  • @onixmolina6521
    @onixmolina6521 Год назад +2

    Been there before I ban her for life for trying to play me. You want to get back at them back no contact.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    I am not toxic alcoholic stupid man in the first place ! I am a clean business man

  • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
    @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 3 месяца назад +1

    Only beautiful women can get whoever? Lmfaoooo. As a beautiful woman, that's a no. Arrogant? No. But people assume I am and cut me down everywhere I go. Just to " bring me down a notch" preemptively.
    My life has been hard AF. They are bullying a survivor woman for the way she looks. Assuming way, way too much. And why would you want to be with someone who is all about looks anyway? Why'd you be better you can't get her when like ...why would you want someone egotistical in the first place? It makes no sense.
    But hey, they like it. They can get their little crackhit of validation by crapping on me. :/

  • @IluvJehovah
    @IluvJehovah Год назад +1

    Now see this is why I'm working and listening to you right now. Nowall I need to know is why the Gov.is stalking me

  • @djsmokestruth29
    @djsmokestruth29 Год назад +1

    Yo, Big T I still luv you Bro we going to keep up lifting our brother and sister oh and the hater's lol,, So God bless you bro 🙏👑💪🌊

  • @samanthasherwoods2272
    @samanthasherwoods2272 Год назад

    I feel like at times people control me so much when I actually try to have fun. I love being with people everyday

  • @surfin2ry435
    @surfin2ry435 Год назад

    Great video terry !!! 🦈

  • @robiness5344
    @robiness5344 Год назад

    I’m still trying to find something good….like looking for a needle in a haystack 😫

  • @goldmindmusic365
    @goldmindmusic365 Год назад

    I relate to alot of your videos women always downplay me tell me all these good qualities I have and then ghost me

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    My good is I am too much

  • @ΜαριαΤσακανικα-π3ω

    So true

  • @sarahbaker9120
    @sarahbaker9120 Год назад

    I didn't. Know I did anything wrong.

  • @sarahbaker9120
    @sarahbaker9120 Год назад

    I am sorry you feel that way about me
    I was out of medicine for. my Copd. I I CANOT BREATHE without it.. I thought if Go. To the pharmacy early I I could r.rush back.I. am. So sorry

  • @stephaniesallie8968
    @stephaniesallie8968 Год назад +3

    1:55pm great time to be alive!! 11 3 22
    Amen , TerryJoelJr. . 🍀🌹🎋⚓🚀
    9th 💘

  • @ΜαριαΤσακανικα-π3ω

    And man they doing it

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    Convince people what ! I cut them off like tumors

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    Where is my respectful Turkish girl , go for it

  • @anthonytorres4725
    @anthonytorres4725 5 месяцев назад

    What do you mean you are still not making excuses for this guy? You only heard her side of things. I only say that because I have been through it. My ex wife rewrote my history. Almost all of it. Some of the lies told on me are totally absurd. In fact, almost all of the lies she told me are absurd. Women abandon good men in a marriage to have an excuse to run the streets for a Chad or Tyrone.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    Not random run around like little chickens type of people in the dark night ! Disengage bro disengage bro ! Doesn't matter how pretty girls who with them are ! Just disengage

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    They are for streets some girls .....

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад +1

    Girls attracted to top man bro

  • @JEREMCEE
    @JEREMCEE Год назад +1

    🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀

  • @dustinkollara6215
    @dustinkollara6215 Год назад

    🍀

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад

    Keep my seeds for much much much better cleaner fresher and purer halal girls . I don't need unclean girls .

  • @VictoriaBiblicalHebrew
    @VictoriaBiblicalHebrew Год назад +5

    Your mysogny is still OC.

    • @amezah6
      @amezah6 Год назад +2

      He right

    • @VictoriaBiblicalHebrew
      @VictoriaBiblicalHebrew Год назад

      @@amezah6 no y'all are just butt hurt and still immature in all truth.

    • @Andrew-qo4cq
      @Andrew-qo4cq Год назад

      Reeeee. Not buying into BS feminist/Marxist nonsense doesn't make you a misogynist clown

    • @DeeJay003
      @DeeJay003 Год назад +3

      There are consequences to your actions.

  • @johnmoirano5221
    @johnmoirano5221 Год назад

    that live chat is crap isn't it 🦉 its a headache 🦉 stick to educating us 🦉 you have a gift 🦉