Asking my wife questions guys are too afraid to ask | Ep. 48
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- Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
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In this week's episode, Matt reads out questions submitted by you guys to our Instagram page - JUICY QUESTIONS!
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Chapters/Questions:
00:00 - Episode 48
00:54 - are boobs two different sizes?
01:45 - are Brazilian waxes awkward?
03:50 - are periods really that bad?
05:38 - how did you convince your entire family to move to Arizona?
08:48 - do you feel flattered when other men flirt with you?
11:30 - is it okay for people in relationships to dance with people of the opposite sex?
12:57 - how do you guys have sex with 2 kids and a family living with you?
13:47 - how does Abby nurse in public using a shield?
18:02 - what are your thoughts on toys specifically for couples?
21:28 - will marriage ever be the same after kids?
23:33 - do you think the kids will be your first priority always? and not the husband?
24:56 - weight loss tips / easy meals to cook in college
26:38 - what is your body count?
30:21 - does size matter?
31:13 - do girls still want more traditional chivalrous acts
32:06 - was the first time scary?
32:32 - how do you have mom friends as a mom?
34:05 - how do you deal with family members that you don't necessarily get along with?
35:42 - what's more of a turnoff? a guy's ego or their laziness?
38:09 - do you prefer dad bods or like full on jacked bods?
39:00 - how do you politely tell a guy that you're not interested?
41:12 - does a man's job/profession change how attractive you find them?
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It would be great to have a marriage counselor on the podcast, that can talk about pre-marriage counseling too.
Yesss
I totally agree! I'm going to be getting engaged this year and I can't get enough of pre-marriage counseling advice!
As someone about to celebrate my first year of marriage, YES!
Yesss
MENDED LIGHT CHANNEL PLEASE
Yess to Abby for saying you have to trust women when they tell you their experience! (with periods or anything else) I have endometriosis and so do millions of other people, and it really is "that bad." Honestly just love all of Abby's answers in this episode overall. She is so wise but also careful to be very inclusive of others who have different circumstances and perspectives.
I have endo, and I have a double uterus so my doctor said that’s why I feel cramping so intense, but honestly after having my son I don’t cramp anymore, I’m just in full blown unbearable pain like walking from point A to point B is almost impossible. Feels like my organs are falling out and like I’ve been beat up inside with a baseball bat. God forbid I need to go #2! I’ll literally scream and cry. It’s awful!!! Nobody understands how bad endo is unless they have it too!
I have really heavy periods and the first two days of my cycle are terrible!
by the way Abby, it’s been tested and proven that people simply don’t flirt with amazingly beautiful women because they either think she’s out of their league or they assume she’s already in a relationship.
Maybe that’s the reason nobody hits on me. I thought I was just ugly or look mean 😂
@@Girlmama1998 it definitely is the reason. a lot of girls don’t know this and just think they’re ugly too💀
This is some level 10 cope lmao
@@Girlmama1998Well, I can make your wish come true if u want😂
5:13 love this question about periods. As a guy who has sisters, and raised by strong men and women in the family, I definitely always thought that they were horrible. Definitely blessed to be a boy and not a girl. Girls, y'all deserve respect for enduring that much pain and discomfort 😢
< 3 I guess the least of women’s problems but thanks for the recognition
Awww this is so sweet! As a girl who has an older brother I appreciate hearing this! Not that my brother puts me down for being a "wimp", it's just something that's not talked about much by guys.
As the daughter of a police officer and the sister of a firefighter, I completely understand what Abby said about how it would be scary if your spouse was one of those jobs. I thank you for recognizing that.
Abby laughing about the “women’s physique” getting in “all sorts of trouble” 😂😂😂
I feel like Abby is so wise & talented in communicating her thoughts, and I so appreciate Matt’s curiosity & intelligence! I just love hearing your wisdom & combined respect for one another. You’re both incredible humans ✨🙏🏼✨
💯💯💯
My husband is a firefighter and I can confirm that it is scary sometimes hearing the sirens and knowing he’s there. But the long days off do makeup for the time away and also the time spent away is so nice when he finally comes home!
I don’t have tik tok and actually found you just through this podcast and your vlogs. I absolutely love you two! You both remind me of my fiancé and myself. Currently 10 weeks pregnant with our first baby and watching some of your baby vlogs and just listening to you all talk has been really helpful and comforting to me. Thank you! 💜😁
I always love hearing you guys compliment each other so much, and then the other says thank you, acknowledges the praise, and gives praise back. But it doesn't seem forced, it just feels so genuine. I wish more people could be like that, romantically or platonically.
I love having conversations with strangers. One time I was in the shampoo aisle and had a conversation with a woman. She told me how her and her husband travel around to play Santa and Mrs. Clause. I thought that was the coolest and so sweet! What a fun life. It’s also easy to bring up conversations with people if you are both buying travel size stuff. Where are you both going? It’s so fun to talk about. I wish more people would be willing to do that.
I wish I could be friends with Abby, she really does seem so genuine and kind and I wanna be friends with people like that! I look up to her for many reasons!
Can I just say the way you two communicate together makes this grandmothers heart happy!!!! ❤❤❤❤ I wish more people communicated and were as kind to one another as you two
I recently got hooked on your podcast after following your tiktok for a while but I hadn’t known you had this podcast. It’s been a marathon ever since, it is the best past time. You guys are so genuine and it feels like you’re in the room with me. I love listening and gaining advice from you botj
This is one of my favorite podcasts. I love to listen to it while I run or clean. I might be a little young for this podcast but I still like it. It’s very entertaining and I feel like I love to just listen. Keep it up guys!!!❤❤❤🥰 Also praying for you guys to have a wonderful 2024 and to have an easy going 2 under 2 experience🙏
I love how family orientation you guys are, hearing you guys speak about how your home is a gathering place for friends and family make me look forward to settling down and hopefully having a family of my own one day.
My favorite couple! ❤
Its always a good night when a new podcast drops
Thanks for helping me get thru my night shift😅
Pleaseeeeee don't ever stop having podcasts!!!!!!!!! LOVE you guys
So glad I found you guys, very fun to listen to/watch. Honest and very articulate. Nice to hear conversation that is intellegent and genuine. ❤
How Matt talks to/about Abby and compliments her is SO SWEET !! He is truly her #1 fan . Love you guys!!
The phone scrolling is the realest micro problem that avalanches quickly, thank you guys for mentioning this!!
I love listening to you guys when I do my chores. You guys have good conversations.
You guys should do a “Answering questions other RUclipsrs/content creators are too afraid to answer”
this would be goooddd!
Agreed!!!!
Love the content you produce and your faith! Keep it up y’all!🫶🏼
Matt throwing in those questions because he wants to use toys and role play
Totally
I love this podcast! I really like listening to this while I get ready in the morning or do chores.
I'm Australian, and I used to be a Laser and Dermal Therapist. I can confirm I have so many horror stories 😂 I can also confirm we get paid peanuts for seeing and smelling someone's lower region everyday 😂 can also confirm, I no longer work in the industry 😂 and we definitely do not earn six figures. The people conducting these treatments are Beauty Therapists and are unfortunately on a very low income. Not a good industry.
I work in this industry in the US, but I’m a medical provider too so I get paid well. Performing laser here is a small portion of what I do, we charge a lot for this area since it’s not the best area to be close to for the provider. I don’t find it super awkward though I’ve done this for years and I make almost 100,000 a year but only work 3 days a week. Again a small part of my day job. Most days I’m not lasering private parts.
@amberj3941 I find this really interesting. In Australia, laser hair removal is considered a beauty treatment, so medical providers do not perform it. Beauty therapists do. Glad you are getting paid well!
There are some salons in aus where the beauty treatments are performed by trained medical professionals but ofc it costs a higher price
Love all of your guys podcasts, I so wish that they were longer!!
I love these episodes of just the two of you!
You all have the best podcast by FAR! No one else compares to this podcast I get the biggest smile on my face when I see a new video is out!
You should check out Ghostrunners podcast!
It’s amazing too! Not about ghosts or running!
I love listening to your podcast!! Please share the recipes bc I would love it!! Matt's parents advice was so good. Thank you for sharing.
My favorite podcasts are the ones with just Matt and Abby! ❤️😊
As someone who lived in Phoenix for a dozen years it’s wild to me to hear people talking about how they love the weather lol. I don’t miss the long summers where it’s 120 outside and the heat doesn’t break till the end of October. The Winters are nice in Phoenix but the entire sun belt also has nice Winters.
The Matt and Abby episodes are my favorite!
My first priority will always be my marriage. I love my children and I will never stop being there for them, but they will grow up and start their own families, and it just going to me me and my husband forever
I just subscribed to your channel. I’ve been watching for a good while now, and both of you are so genuine. I enjoy listing to your channel.
Ive noticed that some women who have attended college they tend to look down at women who are traditional ladies who are stay at home mamas. Idk ive gotten that jab a few times from the other ladies but hey, God bless them is all I can say.
I like listening to you guys. You guys make uncomfortable questions just seem so normal to ask. Seriously like a big brother/sister.
Her outfit is adorb anyone know where it’s from!! Also these people talk such facts and I look forward to them posting all the time. They seriously warm my heart🩷
You're 100% correct about dating culture.
These two are so wholesome💜
i love the cozy vibes of their videos. (minus the white lights😂)
Just started following and enjoyed this. I loved what Abby said about looking down on others. I’m a mother to both a firefighter and a sheriff deputy. One thing I taught both of them when young was that we are ALWAYS in the MIDDLE. There will ALWAYS be someone that is richer, poorer, smarter, not as smart, better looking not as attractive, more opportunities or not as many. Yes u can be proud of what u have or achieved but don’t look down on others. Always be grateful.
I enjoy all your pods most this one was great, really enjoyed the scrolling talk. Also Abby I would totally support a cookbook!! ❤
The two of you interact so well.
It's easy for me to relate to Matt because I always feel nervous asking a woman about the same issue that Abby does
Very enjoyable podcast to listen and stay engaged with your conversation. Thank you for being creators and willing to open up to share. ❤❤❤
abby looks GORGEOUS i love her hair up like this
DUDE these vids are how I started watching your old channel, throwback!!
Guys we love your podcast 😍keep going on what you're doing!
I have been listening to the podcast form the start. Love it all! So much fun! Love you guys!
Actually to respond to your ending conversation, i have had chronic low self esteem all my life ( im older) and that makes me feel attracted to someone with an inflated ego. I feel empowered by their confidence, if friendliness and supportiveness is also part of their personality. But if someone has a big ego and acts exclusive and is overly impressed with themselves then thats a total turn off.♥️
You two have a really fun podcast! My husband and i had three children about two years between each. I was a stay at home mom and took care of them mostly by myself because husband had long hours ( hospital administrator) and grandparents not close by. We lived in and loved SanDiego. I was an RN before that, and we had a great life, but i can relate and laugh with both of you and looking back, i guess i can feel a sense of pride that i did it with THREE! 💪Lookin forward to more fun videos! Thanks a lot for all the great convos!
I'm an old lady, in a very happy marriage with grandkids, etc. RULE NUMBER ONE: Always Prioritize Your Marriage! I was raised with my parents making sure we knew THEIR marriage came first, and I raised our kids that way. In the end, the children learn SO much about how to behave as an adult, how treat your spouse with respect, and how NOT to let your children 'play' you. Children need parents, not friends, as you know.
She literally has my makeup look from yesterday ❤️🔥🤭
This is such a good podcast ❤❤❤❤
Matt’s just the best 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
Love the podcasts.
Thank you for the timestamps!
Appreciate it that you didnt try to act like everyone's period is the same and supported the sisters ❤
i love how every question one of them throws in a compliment.
You guys need to have Alyssa and Dallin on the podcast! It would be so much fun!!
I miss Abby’s dinner and grocery run vlogs, those recipes always were so yummy. Still make those Greek bowls👌
I love you guys. This podcast is great just wanted to say there is a study comparing period pain to heart attack pain, and the pain is pretty comparable. My periods are pretty terrible without a IUD. ❤
I know that Abby doesn’t look at her DMs, but I wanted you guys to see this because it’s so cool: but my son was born the same day as Auggie. 8.10.23 and that was after watching along with your journey. It was so amazing being pregnant at the same time as you and a young mother along with your family. Abby helped me when things were hard (or are now) see that w can get through it and be a strong, confident mother. You guys helped make being young and married and young parents less scary. Thank you
Awe. First, I agree as a young married mother, but second, we got married on August 10th, 2023! I keep hearing about babies born on that day, and I just love that it's such a happy day for so many ❤ Congrats!
So sweet. Anna. Your a good mom
I couldn't agree more with yall on the dating and ghosting culture topic. I was talking to this guy and we went on a date together a few weeks back. After the date, I realized I didn't see a future with him and i just didnt feel a connection with him. I was honest and upfront with him afterwards. It was hard because I'm such a people pleaser and he was very sweet so I didnt want to hurt him, but I knew it was the right thing to do. Theres a polite way of doing it (like Abby & Matt mentioned where you can throw in a compliment) instead of ghosting them which is more disrespectful in my opinion.
Saying Abby has no balls dude she’s literally grown two pairs she’s got some balls!!
I thought and wrote the same thing 😂😂😂😂
We tried the “have kids and the family will move to you” thing, it didn’t work 😂 now we (my sister and I and our little families) live in Australia and mum lives in New Zealand.
I love you guys! I was going to ask how Abbie does her messy bun & then you mentioned it looks good on her! Can she do a video tutorial?! ❤
Usually a silent follower, but had to say I love Abbie’s new smile and hope she knows her old one was also beautiful! ❤️
Love your channel ❤ my favorite couple
Not giving a compliment and brings up his parents in the same sentence 😂
Come to New Jersey!! Wait till spring/summer and come for a visit!
Have fun in Vegas and be safe Abby!❤
Hahahaha “they could get into all sorts of trouble” haha as a breastfeeding mom (almost 14 months) I laughed so hard
I think period vary; for instance I don’t experience any physical discomfort like cramping before or in my period, the thing that I usually get is emotional and mental distress
Matt is in his teenage sexual experience years.
If you consider that he's only been sexually active for a few years that honestly adds up 😅
I stop being on my phone a lot also. It's so much better and you start seeing more things around you.
Yes to the meal idea!!!
Abby would love to see recipes and/or a cookbook from you!!!!
Great episode. Hope you had fun in Vegas Abby!!!!
I love your podcast. ❤
Me laughing as you say a firefighter is home for longer… 😂 overtime is REAL! It’s a completely different life than you’d think it would be, especially with kids 🙂
32:48 abby you are so smart for your age. you are such a great example for girls. my teenager, she’s 17, i have her listen to your podcasts lol. love yall
"I'm just so excited about this offer" 😂😂😂😂😂
Oh my golly, please make a cookbook!! ❤
I don’t usually comment but I just have to say I love this podcast so much!! Btw I hope you and Bella had fun in Vegas Abby
love this
Hahahah the manscaped add 😭 “don’t even say that I have more balls than you”
Hey Matt and Abby I Love the podcast and I loved your videos. I loved how Brooklyn Bailey were on the podcast. I couldn’t stop laughing. I would love Matt and Rebecca and Zadie to come on the podcast
“Actually I don’t know why I’m wearing a shirt more than ever” 😂😂😂😂
Have fun in Vegas!!! Do not pick up the cards on the ground if u go on the strip! Love you both! Can’t wait until the next podcast!!! U both are so funny.
Thank you
If Abby is comfortable, can you guys please talk about her experience with getting her teeth done? I work in dental and noticed on your last short. They are beautiful!
you guys should have sam and jess on the podcast!
please come with a youtube playlist for all that you cook 😃
Abby: “I have more balls than you” 😂😂😂😂 true! She grew 2 baby boys inside her 😂😂😂😂 kidding!!! Hope you didn’t get to burnt with the Latte.
I just love you guys and I’m so much older than you guys are 😬
Have you ever thought about doing polls on this podcast for some of these questions? Like the chivalry question!
It’s crazy to know you guys are the same age as my husband and I, we were also high school sweethearts this will be our 11th year together! We have 3 little boys 💙💙💙
I feel like because my hubby and I have been together for so long we also don’t understand ghosting or some of the trends happening now in days! We have taught our boys to open doors for girls and it’s seriously the sweetest/cutest thing ever 🥰
My husband is apart of the army national guard we’ve experienced a deployment which was hard parenting alone for those 10 months, now he’s starting the police academy and I’m terrified all over again 😩
The picture behind Matt kills me :D Can't figure out if it's crooked or if it's the angle. Ahhhhh
Shout out NJ, you guys have to come visit! It's a beautiful state with so many things to do. Mountains, rivers, lakes, beaches, ocean, parks, museums, endless fun! :)
I recently went to a restaurant with my husband for a date, and we were looking around having the same issue. We were trying to enjoy our time but everyone around us had a device. One little baby was watching a tablet with the adults not paying attention, another family had their kids watching a show on a phone. I get adults want to talk and keep their kids occupied, but that's where I learned how to sit still, how to have conversations over food, how to take in my surroundings. Times are just so different. :(