I want to tell y'all how much of a blessing your content is for me. The whole idea that trusting in God is SO radically different from trusting in people (because we're inherently broken due to the fall) has been such a revelation to me. After I first got saved, the Holy Spirit started to convict me on the level of idolatry I had for my (abusive) husband. God showed me how I was wanting this very broken man to be my "everything" to me...when in reality...the only being that can be my end-all-be-all is the Alpha and Omega Himself. I'm so very grateful for you Lysa, Jim, and Joel. Thank you for what you do.
Listening to this has helped me hone a shame script I have endured. “You’re TOO sensitive”. From Family of Origin to other relationship conflict to Church intimidation it has been used. After seeing it today I choose to change it. “I am Sensitive” - to God, others and to the need for others to find Christ. I have realised people who want to stay complacent use this to disconnect from me and shame me. It will always bring a pause if someone speaks it, and I will have to check my narrative and their motive before proceeding. I am very grateful for your teaching in this area. ❤
I need to get this book, this is exactly what I'm experiencing. Betrayal in my marriage and with the divorce Trust have been broken and I'm struggling with trusting people I was too open to trust easily
I can’t thank you all enough for! This is what I have been 🙏 for what an incredible lesson and tools for me to learn us and pass on to others ! Life changing! Amen ! God is so good and faithful!
Everything you said makes sense. But what about when my husband continues to lie about something that has been an ongoing issue and something that we have discussed so many times. Or when I need to depend on him for some big things in our life and he continues to not be dependable for me.
Alright - be careful, Lisa. In my 60+ years of life experiences, I have not met a person who may be good in one area that isn't weak in another. As with many people, we all are aware of our strengths but give noticably less gravitas to our weaknesses. Your trust issues, which appear quite evident, and I'm sure are legitimate, maybe pull the reins in a bit on your self-absorbed righteousness. I would have little doubt that if able to pull back the curtain, there are personality traits of your own [resentfulness , jealousy, selfishness, lacking of compassion, slow towards forgiveness - as just some possible examples] that God's light would not shine from your reflection a Christ likeness. Having this video randomly paused at 29:57 - the expression on your face shows both the genuine sensitivity you've experienced concerning trust - yet, also along with the vitriol wrath of judgment you would hand out for those who have wrongly crossed your idea of trust. My real apologies for being harsh, even if truthful.
I want to tell y'all how much of a blessing your content is for me. The whole idea that trusting in God is SO radically different from trusting in people (because we're inherently broken due to the fall) has been such a revelation to me. After I first got saved, the Holy Spirit started to convict me on the level of idolatry I had for my (abusive) husband. God showed me how I was wanting this very broken man to be my "everything" to me...when in reality...the only being that can be my end-all-be-all is the Alpha and Omega Himself. I'm so very grateful for you Lysa, Jim, and Joel. Thank you for what you do.
Listening to this has helped me hone a shame script I have endured. “You’re TOO sensitive”.
From Family of Origin to other relationship conflict to Church intimidation it has been used. After seeing it today I choose to change it. “I am Sensitive” - to God, others and to the need for others to find Christ. I have realised people who want to stay complacent use this to disconnect from me and shame me. It will always bring a pause if someone speaks it, and I will have to check my narrative and their motive before proceeding. I am very grateful for your teaching in this area. ❤
Why does no one ever 'like' or 'thumb up' these videos?? Also, wow...excellent discussion, thank you.
They might have the feature off. People like it but we can’t see the like! ❤
I just tried it.
The feature is turned off so that the count doesn't show.
Most excellent and phenomenal conversation 🎉🎉🎉 very rich and meaningful and inspiring Perfect topic. Do more
This is the start of my new journey toward healing from trust issues.
Oh my gosh....that opening sounded like it just came out of my mouth, my heart, my head😢
I need to get this book, this is exactly what I'm experiencing. Betrayal in my marriage and with the divorce Trust have been broken and I'm struggling with trusting people I was too open to trust easily
I can’t thank you all enough for! This is what I have been 🙏 for what an incredible lesson and tools for me to learn us and pass on to others ! Life changing! Amen ! God is so good and faithful!
I receive emails on a daily basis but really never paid any attention below the topic for journey toward healing. Thank you!
Wow!!! I love the explanation of batah🙏
We’re so glad you enjoyed this!
Such a great conversation!
This is such a great episode thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Please do an episode on ADHD and how to have healthy boundaries and expectations with a spouse who has it.
I don't understand everything.
God gives me peace that surpasses all understanding.
My faith is in the Lord 🙏🤗
Great episode! Reminds me of the song by Cochren & Co. called Don’t Lose Hope.
Hope has a name
Needed discussion. Thank you.
Everything you said makes sense. But what about when my husband continues to lie about something that has been an ongoing issue and something that we have discussed so many times. Or when I need to depend on him for some big things in our life and he continues to not be dependable for me.
I understand your dilemma , sending hugs and prayers.
The word Batah has the line over the first a. Isn’t that pronounced with the long a sound?
I always feel I am my worst enemy.
This just about describes me to a T.
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Can u try discuss spiritual warfare issues
Alright - be careful, Lisa. In my 60+ years of life experiences, I have not met a person who may be good in one area that isn't weak in another. As with many people, we all are aware of our strengths but give noticably less gravitas to our weaknesses. Your trust issues, which appear quite evident, and I'm sure are legitimate, maybe pull the reins in a bit on your self-absorbed righteousness. I would have little doubt that if able to pull back the curtain, there are personality traits of your own [resentfulness , jealousy, selfishness, lacking of compassion, slow towards forgiveness - as just some possible examples] that God's light would not shine from your reflection a Christ likeness.
Having this video randomly paused at 29:57 - the expression on your face shows both the genuine sensitivity you've experienced concerning trust - yet, also along with the vitriol wrath of judgment you would hand out for those who have wrongly crossed your idea of trust. My real apologies for being harsh, even if truthful.
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