That’s a really tough situation, and I can imagine how hurtful it must feel to be caught in the middle of such a conflict. It’s important to focus on open and honest communication with your girlfriend, while also setting boundaries to protect your own emotional well-being. People can make mistakes, especially in complicated family dynamics, so it’s worth considering how to move forward in a way that supports both of you. Wishing you clarity and strength as you work through this
I'm glad OP walked out from that Relationship. Sarah is a Coward who can't stand up for herself.. she was also Dragging OP down with her in that Toxic suffering.
Leaving her was the right decision. She wasn’t going to listen to reason no matter how much evidence you had against her dad. Now, OP is living his best life about to start a new relationship and move to the next level. Sometimes you have to cut off your arm to save the body.
I'm still surprised mutual friends are still on Sarah's side or trying to tell OP to "talk to her." As if he didn't try that already. This is a classic case of "I can't help them if they can't help themselves"
So, according to ops "friends" at around 8:20, she didn't have a father figure her whole life. He walked out when she was 20 and left her for 3 years. Some people dont have brains, i tell you.
Like... Your partner valuing bio-parents irrationally is a red flag 🚩 and a good enough reason to breakup. But OP's reasoning makes no sense. Obviously a relationship that is in the process of re-connecting will take more attention to rebuild than an already existing one. And it was completely plausible that her mom was controlling making bio dad's life miserable. And kept him out of her daughter's life out of spite. OP must be one of those people so stupid, you know their Unconscious is working overtime to keep them able to speak. He lacks an imagination. =========== Everyone infected world saves the day again, by making people aggressively proactive enough to not stagnate in loveless relationships forever.
I want to make my own business too! Basically its going to be a service where we'll show up and sing in various genres, uniforms included, such as old school barber quartets, broadway singers, Caribbean iron band, etc songs with lyrics like, "Congrats.. you fu€ked up", "You're a dumb@$$.. you know that?", or "I hope that's egg on your face and not €um.. ya @$$hat!" and other various vintage favorites! It'll be very professional and classy, we won't stop until the target is in a puddle of their own tears.
Soooo let me get this straight, your dad (who was there basically til you were an adult) left while you were in college, and you get abandonment issues... ok, I'm not saying it can't happen. Then he comes back out of nowhere, and you essentially abandon your fiance for him. Then you essentially tell your mom who stuck with you and kept you in college to f*** off. Dont believe and block everyone trying to warn you. You give him all your money and take out loans for him, then he dissappears. Soooo.... what sympathy is anyone supposed to give you? Oh, and for those so-called friends saying be more understanding.... i hope you have something similar happen to you so you can be told the same thing.
That’s a really tough situation, and I can imagine how hurtful it must feel to be caught in the middle of such a conflict. It’s important to focus on open and honest communication with your girlfriend, while also setting boundaries to protect your own emotional well-being. People can make mistakes, especially in complicated family dynamics, so it’s worth considering how to move forward in a way that supports both of you. Wishing you clarity and strength as you work through this
You can't save people who don't want to be saved
It’s not really a Reddit story unless at some point it makes a some bridges once burned analogy lol
Or the ol you made your bed now you must lay in it
The base of these stories are real, but a lot of details are exaggerated.
I'm glad OP walked out from that Relationship.
Sarah is a Coward who can't stand up for herself.. she was also Dragging OP down with her in that Toxic suffering.
Leaving her was the right decision. She wasn’t going to listen to reason no matter how much evidence you had against her dad. Now, OP is living his best life about to start a new relationship and move to the next level. Sometimes you have to cut off your arm to save the body.
You don't need someone who is that easily influenced to be your partner anyways, smh
He Left when she was 17-18 but she never had a father figure in her life?
He is a scam artist, I don't doubt he bamboozled her as a teen while mooching from her mother.
The story makes it seem like the pos dad was absent Sara’s entire life but it was only 2 years as said in the beginning
no he Said she has 20 when he left that means It was 6 years
Just let the girl fall you have heart and care about but cut the cord man it’s her fault not yours
I'm still surprised mutual friends are still on Sarah's side or trying to tell OP to "talk to her." As if he didn't try that already. This is a classic case of "I can't help them if they can't help themselves"
As soon as she turned against her own mom, I would have washed my hands of her right then. Some people just can't be reasoned with.
So, according to ops "friends" at around 8:20, she didn't have a father figure her whole life. He walked out when she was 20 and left her for 3 years. Some people dont have brains, i tell you.
Like...
Your partner valuing bio-parents irrationally is a red flag 🚩 and a good enough reason to breakup.
But OP's reasoning makes no sense. Obviously a relationship that is in the process of re-connecting will take more attention to rebuild than an already existing one.
And it was completely plausible that her mom was controlling making bio dad's life miserable. And kept him out of her daughter's life out of spite.
OP must be one of those people so stupid, you know their Unconscious is working overtime to keep them able to speak. He lacks an imagination.
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Everyone infected world saves the day again, by making people aggressively proactive enough to not stagnate in loveless relationships forever.
I want to make my own business too! Basically its going to be a service where we'll show up and sing in various genres, uniforms included, such as old school barber quartets, broadway singers, Caribbean iron band, etc songs with lyrics like, "Congrats.. you fu€ked up", "You're a dumb@$$.. you know that?", or "I hope that's egg on your face and not €um.. ya @$$hat!" and other various vintage favorites! It'll be very professional and classy, we won't stop until the target is in a puddle of their own tears.
Why didn’t you to go the police if the father was doing this for years
13:27: Because that.
there is no way this story is real nobody goes this stupid about so many things that fast.
Yes there are people who this stubborn and make stupid decisions
A veces, el diálogo abierto y la empatía pueden marcar la diferencia. Mucha fuerza.
Soooo let me get this straight, your dad (who was there basically til you were an adult) left while you were in college, and you get abandonment issues... ok, I'm not saying it can't happen. Then he comes back out of nowhere, and you essentially abandon your fiance for him. Then you essentially tell your mom who stuck with you and kept you in college to f*** off. Dont believe and block everyone trying to warn you. You give him all your money and take out loans for him, then he dissappears. Soooo.... what sympathy is anyone supposed to give you? Oh, and for those so-called friends saying be more understanding.... i hope you have something similar happen to you so you can be told the same thing.
He probably was much of a dad