Eva Mendes Reveals Her 3 Biggest Priorities: Ryan Gosling, Her Kids and Herself
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- "Easy, top three," the actress says.
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Eva Mendes On Her Three Biggest Priorities: Ryan Gosling, Her Kids and Herself
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I’m 42- pregnant with my first baby- due to arrive in two days and I was telling my partner my son will getting the best version of me.
Beautiful!
Oohh congrats! I’m 39 and scared I won’t be able to naturally have a child because of my age!
Congratulations!!!🎉
Absolutely! I hope all is well and congratulations!
Congratulations! ❤
This is amazing to hear. I’m 35 and depressed daily that I haven’t had a baby yet. Because at 35 it feels like I’m out of time. But seeing someone else say they did it at 40 and 42 gives me hope ❤
Same here♥️🙏🏾
Same here, 34 and feeling like the time is gone😢
Same
You shouldn't feel bad nobody should have kids for selfish reasons or before they're ready.
Just because someone is younger doesn't mean they're not going to have fertility issues. That seems to be pretty common nowadays.
Alison, you have plenty of time. Many women are having kids up to the early 50s. Plus, there's in-vitro and surrogacy. Adoption if nothing else. Lots of ways to have children. You can be a mother when YOU'RE ready.👍🏽🌻
I had my last three at 40, 50 and 51 !!! They are the wind beneath my wings !!!! 5 children in total and I wouldn’t do it any other way!!! Blessings to all .🥰🌸💙
WHAAT?? You’re a f!cking legend! Respect, sister.
50! 51! 🎉amazing 👏
Waooo 😮 that's amazing.
RESPECT!
Wowwww😮🎉🙌🫶💃🏻
My mum had me when she was 42. I'm a 23 yo successful female now. The reason why I am who I am it's because of the great and remarkable woman my mother is. It's ok to have children whenever you like, but I do believe her experience is what helped me becoming so successful in life. I owe everything to her. Thank you Mami❤
40 is probably better than 20,bcs a person is young as an 20 years old... JazzyT.
I looovveeeeeeeeee her
Had my 3rd child and only daughter at 41.. she's 15..
I love this ❤ God bless you and her ❤
Your energy is awesome...greetings to your mum 💌
Same . Had my 1st baby at 40. And 2nd baby at 42. So grateful I waited.
Amazing ❤
But my child saved my life . I got our addiction and now I’m a spiritual healer for others . Everyone has different paths. When I’m 40 my kids will be older and I’ll be chillin. Lol
I had my child at 26, but now at 43 I think if I had a child I would crush parenting in the best was possible because I'm over the angst of my 20s, over educating myself, over chasing material (home/money), way more mellow & patient with myself and others. I know there are risks, but if I could do it over I would wait.
Love that!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@Moneystayswithme
Spot on. In your 20s most people are still following society expectations and have no idea who they really and too immature to realise they don't know.
I had mine at 45. Perfectly healthy. I had preeclampsia but other than that I am totally fine. My daughter is the smartest funniest cookie and I'm so blessed to have her in my life.
My mom had me at 45. We were both fine❤ I loved her so much.❤ Lost her too soon😢
Yikes! I'm 45 now and no way would I want a newborn now. We have way more energy for all that in our twenties. I simply can not imagine doing that to myself or the baby.
@@sarahalderman3126no one asks you to do it😂nor to judge others who can and want. Besides if you feel already so weak in your 40s, get some help as cant imagine what you'll do in yr 50s or 60s..😅 t most important anyways is the head, to raise kids well...
I wonder if I could have one at 47
@@kalmia01 lol... just is not fair to deprive a child simply because your bad at planning.😉
My mom had me at 43. Im now 46 and she is 89. Nowadays I take care of her❤
🥰😍
💞💞💞
❤❤❤❤sending you and your Mom love❤❤❤
My mom was 35 when she adopted me. I was the youngest of 3. She was the best momma ever, she passed away Sept 2019, I looked after her. Then 6 months later my brother passed away during the pandemic he was the oldest. I helped cater to him as well, but he passed in a home, my momma was able to stay home with me until 8 hrs before she passed away. I had to call an ambulance because I was so scared. I miss her dearly, she was the best momma in the world.
I am an African American woman. And I had my first child at 43. He graduates from Pre-K tomorrow, and starts kindergarten in the Fall. I am 49, now. His father, my ex-husband, is 53. He is the pride and joy of our lives!💯 We are truly blessed and highly favored to have him.🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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I love to see and hear stories like this. Keep shining✨
Remain blessed.
Maybe why you are exes too 🤷🏾♀️🙏🏾
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I feel the same way. Some people are meant to have their kids young and they can do it, but some of us ladies having our children later on in life, fit us perfectly.
Amen!
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To each is own. Gods will
Amen
*They say Life begins at 40...40 is when you're now fully settled mentally!* ❤😊
That is very interesting to know. 😊
Very true, I’m 40 but glad my life is starting now when my son is graduating college and I can liveeee
This is true
Yep
I'm a 41 year old guy and I'm honestly only starting to understand life now and finally grow up...a little. As men, we are often afforded the luxury of acting like children far too late into life. I've realized it's not the same for (most) women, they have to grow up because of how predatory some men are.
I had a baby at 43. Thank you Eva 🥰
I am so glad she said this! I had my kids at 41 and 43, and it was much better for them to have me in my 40s and 50s while raising them.❤
I had my son at 42. I was so ready for him.
dod you have help or did it happen naturally? im 37 ive never had a child but I have pcos
@@jdashlovela I had ivf
Two rounds and I was pregnant.
There are some ways in Qur'an and Islami to cure that search it up and some Islamic practices and prayers too @@jdashlovela
@@jdashlovela keto diet is the key, try it
I've got pcos. And i dont even got the pain on peroid and it got regular now
People have kids later in life all the time. It's important to be loving and good parents. The fact that she did this her way, absolutely perfect
I honestly am so grateful I had my kids in my 20’s. Could not have done it in my 40’s. Traveling & enjoying my grand babies in my 50’s. It’s really up to what works for each individual.
I had my daughter at 23 she is grown, owns a home and planning a family. I am self employed, travel and living my best life at 55. ❤
Don’t believe you!!you are loving your life of course but once a mother forever one!
@@firestar7774 thanks to God there is a good kids also. I had mine first time at 22 and second in 27, I'm now 36 (they're 14 and 9) and you wouldn't believe how much time I have for me now because they are great kids, who study, have their hobbies, friends and very respectful kids. It's all about how you raise them.Btw at 21 I was married and independent and moved to another country and my mom could live her best life. We are not all selfish kids who aspect to be protected from their parents like our whole life, wtf!!??
@@ada6044 you got triggered! I am loving my best life but my children are always on my mind. Why take offence though? Are you ok! When I didn’t have kids I was here there and everywhere now that i do my life has changed and even though I still do more or less what I enjoy there are other people involved so I am more responsible and yes once a mother always a mother so yeah I said it please stop it!
I still don’t understand why u have just lost it. I don’t even think I said anything offensive but actually looking back if I did offend u I apologise. Sometimes we say things of the cuff and don’t think about the consequences so maybe I did that so sorry about that!
Same
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This is why I've always loved her she is so real she didn't even think she wanted kids till she fell in love with Ryan gosling
He is more successfully and the bread winner.
@@susannebogdanovic4806pretty sure she wasn’t hurting for money, and that has nothing to do with her wanting to have HIS babies.
Had a baby at 44. When I went back to work 2 years later (a new job where no one the knew me) I had a picture of my daughter on my desk, a few coworkers asked me if she was my granddaughter. I smiled and said she's my daughter.
People are so rude
Thanks, you’re giving me hope that it’s possible to have a baby after 40
Woww!!! Pray for us too😊❤
@@Angyyyyyhow is it rude for people to inquire about family pictures you have displayed on your desk!?
Are you suggesting it’s better to just ignore all human connection because we might get things wrong? 😂
@@Angyyyyy It did hurt my feelings a little bit. I kept it to myself. I didn't feel like I looked like a grandma. 😂
Eva is beautiful. It's not a new trend, but women were having babies over the age of 40 for a very long time. We live in an age-obsessed society, but if you conceive at 20, 40, over 45 and everyone is healthy, active and you follow up with a good physician, then you should never worry about what others think or say.
Love that she is being honest about being a mom in her 40's. All my wealthy clients had their children in their late 30's to mid 40's
Had my son at 46
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40’s to 50’s are still energetic.
Absolutely and especially now people are eating better people have more education people are exercising and taking care of themselves and breaking generational curses this is the best time
So are 60’s 😉😙❤️🔥
Nope, im 50 there's no way I could take care of a baby 24/7 no way!
@@eangie35that’s u though!
@@eangie35that’s sad for you
Exactly, in my 20s I needed nany myself. At 39 I finally feel I am a person to be wife and mom.
I’m 36, and would love to have a child. Some people have told me I’m already out of time or about to be, to be able to have a child so this makes me feel so much better!
You're not out of time...
Really? Stop listening to those that will bring you down, they are not God! Take care of yourself no matter what, children are just going to be a beautiful addition to a beautiful and healthy you!
I love being an older mom I’m way more relaxed and patient and not still trying to figure out who I am. I’m so settled into my life he is just the perfect addition.
This is everything 💛
You said this beautifully 😊
It doesn’t matter how old you are, as long as your heart is ready to love that child, that’s all that matters ❤
Aaah I Love this 😊❤
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This is beautiful ❤❤❤❤
Absolutely ❤
I hear you sister, i was 44 before i was finally ready to be a parent, and i had him naturally too, for all those ladies still trying, keep the faith. And now i can say i am a great Mother and my child is awesome. I had too much baggage in my 20's, too much i wanted to see and do. Being a mother was so far from my vision it didn't even come into the conversation.
Now i'm patient, relaxed, bring laughter and love and creativity into every day. Life is how i want it, abundant, drama free and beautiful and my child gets all that good stuff. Having a child was the cherry, on the icecream on the cake.
❤❤❤ love this!
Thank you all for the success stories! I am 39 and have never been married or got to have a baby yet. Gives me much needed hope. ❤
You're not alone. It's nice 2 know I'm not alone either ❤
My husband and I were unable to conceive children of our own. We adopted our two sons when they were newborns. Their birth mothers will always have a special place in our hearts.💕
I'm 56 and adopted I personally had a hard time for various reasons and ended up meeting bio people I really should of wrote a book I wrote the same bus & school my half-brother and didn't know it so many hard times HOWEVER my adopted Father is my life and my hero💯💄
You have no idea what is awaiting for you and these babies when they find out, no idea
@itzelmayoral729 Wow! What the hell you know!!!! Your comment was so out of touch and mean!!
I love this. Thankyou for bringing a touch of logic and love to this judgemental world.
Edit to add: my big brother was adopted by our parents. He is my real brother. The rest doesn't matter. Our folks were honest with him from day one. His bio family was very young and wanted someone that could give him more. I believe that's what mom and dad told him and that if he ever wanted to find his bios they would help. He grew up absolutely fine. Don't let others bring you down.
@@lisamichele4392, that is an interesting story! Yes, our older son, I think, has some issues with his adoption, but would never admit it. He has not called me for more than three years. Our younger son is the complete opposite. In the past, I would spend hours crying about our son not calling, but I am trying to “let that go”. Luckily, his wife is good about keeping in touch. It’s all so strange. Any way, we love both of our sons and always will!💕
One at 22 and other at 35. Made me appreciate how fast they grow. I think depends on your maturity in your 20’s. I lived it !
I don’t think it has anything to do with maturity cause young moms might be mature at home but at workplace, they are the late bloomers cause they start adapting in the real world later that we are the ones that have to adapt and treat them more like juniors with lower expectations compared to her peers that are no longer juniors. Their focus is also more on their baby at home than her responsibilities at work. So mature at home but less mature in the real world/workplaces. Workplace is part of the real world, home is your own world.
Totally agree with you!
“Real world” doesn’t necessarily mean the work place, it could also be your home.
It’s just that you don’t get everything in life all at once, there are compromises on every stages of life, you get one thing, so the other part might have to suffer a bit. You chose your priorities
Had my last child at 33. Wow. I was so much smarter.
I agree with everything she said. I was 40yrs with my 1st & only son. I'm 61yrs now & life is just amazing. My son is 21yrs & my precious grandSON is 10mos old. No regrets 😊
And you MUST take care of yourself to take care of other's just as you gotta love yourself in order to love other's 😉
It's becoming rare to see natural faces
Girlfriend can't move her face
Why does almost every woman in the media looks like they have a swollen face?
I thought she was stunning years past. Such a unique beauty. Now she looks frozen and masculine. No thanks to what she's doing. I'll take my aging face any over this weird, plastic alien look they're all going for.
She looks creepy pasta
What happened to her!!!! She used to be so beautiful
Good to see she’s got her priorities straight… God bless her! And her beautiful family. That’s a beautiful testimony given her milieu…
This is spot on …. I’m a woman in my 40’s trying to conceive and I can totally relate ❤🥀🥀thanks for speaking on this
It will happen!
I had all 4 of my children in my 20s. They made me want to be a better person. I am thankful for them everyday. I'll be 40 this year. I have 3 teenagers and a 10 yo. I love and have loved every stage of their growth. Im so proud of them
Don’t you love it when people tell you how you should be? I tell them, “you do you Boo!” 😊
Love her! No idea she was 50 either
I wouldn't have known who that was without the caption underneath. Plastic surgery did her dirty.
💯% Agree I was 37 & 39 Mom of 2! Enjoyed my 20’s & I’ve been waiting for my 40’s since I was 12 years old. My Mother was So incredibly Beautiful in her 40’s 🥰
She's fabulous! You don't need to be perfect,just be you.
So true , the older and wiser you are, the better parent you’ll be
I had my only at 42! Tired yes, super happy Mommy yes!
Love every single thing she said. Just a true mom, wife, and woman!!
I needed this! I’m 36 and I feel healthier than ever now and society pressures us to think we’re old for waiting! Thank you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Had all 3 of mine before 25. Best thing for me and my husband of 28 years.
No time to learn who YOU are
@@missbrowniejaySo then, you personally know her?🤔
It’s better to have children when u mature. I had my last one at 43. I was much more patient. This is just from my experience and opinion. Love her thoughts on this.😀
I had my last at 43 & I enjoy my babies so much. Everyone from my high school class are already grandparents and tried to make me seem crazy for starting a family so late but I wouldn’t change my journey for anything in the world. Everything has happened exactly as it was supposed to.
I waited till my 30s because I wanted to be able to afford kids and get to enjoy them fully. So glad I waited and also glad I was focused on myself in my 20s
Facts!!
Smart women. I am 37, first child at 17. Now a single mom of 5 boys with zero help financially or even physically& mentally, o had to cut off my family to keep my boys safe, I am divorced 11 years now the dad is no longer around. I am so blessed to be their mother but if I could I would have waited to only let them see the best version of me that I am embodying now.❤
Took me trying one week at 39 years old to get pregnant.
Eva chose wisely in that handsome Canadian Boy.
She knew what she was doing!!!
I wonder if they both decided to remain unmarried or one of them is not into it. Either way happy for her she seems to love being a momma
😂😅
She’s retired and he’s bringing in all the money while she concentrates on being a mum well done Eva
I'm 43 with a 20 yr old son and I would love to have one more child. I love children so much. ❤
Omg I'm the same. Praying we both get our hearts desire 🙏❤️
Awesome! Different strokes for different folks… I had my son’s younger & now I’m chillin in my fifties & have raised 3 amazing young men❤❤❤. 😊
She was so beautiful
Was?
I was 24 when I had my baby. Loved being a young mom.
Me either Eva!! I had my first at 33 and I’m turning 40 this year and I’d love one more but ppl say the same thing to me about my age but I really want one more so my son has a sibling!!❤❤
You do you and satisfy your dream. Don’t worry about what people say. They’re not going to be the ones raising your child. Good luck! 💟☮️🕉️
We’re trying for Baby #3 at 45:)) Never tell God what He can’t do!
Go for it! Had mine at 39 and 44. The second was crazy healthy. NO problems despite all the geriatric pregnancy labels.
Go for it!!Doesn’t matter what others say!People will have an opinion no matter what. Who cares? It’s your life and you are an awesome mom i bet!
It's ure life y don't you just live it for you.
I had kids from my early 20’s to mid 40’s. As a stay home mom, I’ve loved every minute. My youngest is about to graduate high school! ❤🎉
Twins at 39 - I’m now 66. Life is wonderful still with my husband married almost 30-years our boys are 27. ❤ … My grandmother had my mother at 42-years of age way back then - Mum is 89 now and still thriving! Great that my boys still have their grandmother!
I always adored this lovely lady, as an actress. Now, I love her even more...as an actress and as a woman. How cool and down-to-earth she is. 💜💜💜
THANK YOU for keeping it real for those of us that wanted to wait till we got ourselves more together! If thats later than some others, or what society thinks, so be it!
Yup
I had my two girls at 38 and 40. I just became a Grandma at 68 and 70. I couldn’t be happier with my life❤
I needed to hear this. I’m in my 40s and still hoping, praying to be blessed with a child someday.
What has she done to her face dude 😩🤦♀️
All the injections are not helping her age well☹️
I feel sorry for u! U Look at something that is None of Ur Business. IT IS about what she IS saying. U are a poor unfortunate soul. U Care too much about the Outside!
I had my first son at nineteen. Yes, very young and naïve, but I had so much energy, it didn’t even phase me. In my forties, I started getting hot- flashes, yes menopause. And, it lasted almost 15 yrs. It was horrible, i thought I was going crazy. It was very emotional and draining, I thought it would never end. Now, I’m 60, with my 1st granddaughter, and I think back, on what a blessing it was to have had my 3 children early. God bless all.🙏🏼
I had my daughter at 17 my son at 25. It was a struggle but I'm glad I did it earlier. My daughter and I travel and makes so many wonderful memories. My son and I mainly go out to dinner and the book store. I'm 54 and I love that we hopefully have many more years of this. But good for them to be so happy. Hopefully, they all stay healthy as they age.
These interviews bring me so much happiness. I completely agree with her. I’ll be 40 May 15❣️ No kids yet
Her face. It dont move.
And so what. Still beautiful
What a Dynamic and Expressive Personality, with Smarts!
Had my first at 37, pregnant with my second now at 39. It's best when you do things in your own tine. I definitely wasn't ready in my 20's either. Every woman in unique. Be you! ❤
So glad I had my son at 42. I was more mature and tons of energy ❤❤❤❤. So blessed 😇
Me too had my third baby at 43
I so appreciate Eva sharing her perspective on having her bbs later in life!!!! It seriously brings me so much assurance and excitement to have mine!!!!! Thank you Eva!!!
A very smart old soul who has obviously learned her lessons in a prior life.
Idk if she got surgery or gained weight but her face looks different. ..she doesn't look the same...
This happened to my face after 40 too. It's often due to hormonal changes.
She’s 50…she looks unbelievable
She’s 50. This is normal.
I looked at old pics of her... the nose is more open..and pointed up now I can see the holes on the nostrils more.. her nose is different and the eyebrows, .. I guess it's the older age and hormones, it looks very different, like not her....
Maybe she had a nose job?!!!!
Exactly 💯 some animals take care of their kids better than most 20yr old parents I know ! For real tho
I really respect her honesty.
I had my son at 40. It kept me ‘young’ cause I had to be at my best. It kept me active and focused on eating better, being healthy to be around in the long run. Raising a child may be tiring at times but that is at any age. But I loved it.
Thank you on behalf of an older mom ❤
My god she looks terrible 😞 … what has she done to her face 😮….
Like different woman, younger skin, but swollen, and old eyes... Scary
I met Eva more than a decade ago, she is gorgeous! More beautiful in person than on TV
Was she nice ?
Having babies that late just carries higher risks. My only hope is that all babies are born healthy and loved.
Not true
@Abmafatima That's not an opinion, that's a fact.
@@blondiewolf6822 Children of older mothers are as healthy as those of younger mothers. Don't repeat the nonsense you write about!!!
@Abmafatima I never said they aren't. I said the pregnancy is at higher risk. You should conduct yourself in a more mature manner if you want to debate with someone. You're arguing a point I never made.
@@blondiewolf6822 Read your comment. You haven't specified what you mean and you are attacking me. You write that you hope for healthy children with older mothers and then you write to me that pregnancy is risky!!! You contradict yourself. You wrote about healthy children, not about risky pregnancies! Hypocrite
Good answer. I have way, way more patience now than when I was in my 20's. No way could I have a kid then
She’s awesome.
Had my first at 44 and seriously I couldn’t have been a mother earlier cos my 20s and 30s were full of mistakes, experiments and madness. I only settled in my 40s and became a mother to my utter delight and I still struggle but I’m grateful for everyday.
Beautiful truth about maturity. You can have kids whenever you want early and late. But don’t say anything to those who want it late, many factors, financially secure, patience, wise, experienced..
Yes!! Motherhood is love and love is a decision. There is something very liberatong to have your children when feel emotionally ready...whatever age that may be. Def not your 20s era.
"Whenever you are ready" "def not your 20s era"
What a weird contradiction. I had all 3 of my children in my from 20-26. I was definitely ready. And their more balanced and well adjusted than majority of their peers who have older parents. I have been married for almost 10 years and own my own home.
So yeah for sure totally "definitely not your 20s era" 🙄🙄 so pretentious
Love her miss her. I am so inspired. I am 34 and still not ready to have a child but I definitely want to eventually. I know it’s risky but I want to be optimistic
I was 40 when I had my son and I am so glad because I was ready to be a mom❤
You cannot have chosen a much better Title for this video. So perfect.
I'm so glad she is super aware that she has grown as a person 💜 So proud of her!
prettier than Rachel!!! I don't think so!!!
Beautiful answer!! ❤️❤️ 👏👏 You're still strong at 40s. 💪 And you bring a baby with the perfect mind set and experience in life. Beautiful!!
EVA YESSS...STAY PROUD GIRL.
I'M HERE NEW MOM @ 40
THE UNIVERSE SAW WHEN I WAS READY.
PEACE & ♡ TO ALL 🌬
I totally agree ❤
So glad for u❤I’m pregnant now being 34, can’t wait🥰😘😍
She’s absolutely beautiful
I appreciate that she emphasized the importance of patience and readiness.
I admire people who think for themselves and don't blindly follow outdated societal norms.
I believe sometimes young parents try to rationalise their choices and say this quote. I agree with Eva on that, you are so mature and have lived your life so you feel ok with yourself and know what you want.
She said being a mom was not sexy years ago. And what happened to her eyes?
She's in her 50s, it's just ageing
Cmon now lol - her entire face is frozen and she looks completely different. Not different from aging … different from surgery. Pillow face and all.
U can have kids at any age and raise them well. The reason why ppl tell u to have kids in 20s is because u have alot more physical energy plus by the time ur kids do college and decide to get married and have their own kids u r at an age to enjoy all those things, help them out and not be riddled with old age related issues like illness and bad knees.
love this - so true and powerful and encouraging! I have always loved her!
I'm 51, and enjoying my grandbabies. My oldest is 13 and youngest is 7.
The more I see this lady and hear her speak makes ke love her as a human being even more. She just seems so down to earth, honest, friendly with great family roots. Shes very compatible with Ryan Gosling.