Magnetic Femininity, with Allie Duzett
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- Опубликовано: 6 май 2024
- Join Meghan and Allie Duzett as they discuss Allie's book, "Magnetic Femininity: Unlock Your Feminine Majesty and Heal Your Life." Topics include:
- Aligning our bodies and spirits
- Defining Masculine Energy and Feminine Energy
- The lies Satan tells us
- Exploring our behaviors as individuals
- Stepping in our eternal energy
Allie Duzett is a teacher, speaker, author, and practitioner in the fields of health and wellness, and the science of medical intuition. She has a passion for exploring the power of human consciousness and self-awareness, and offers a variety of programs and courses supporting personal development. She delights in helping others to massively expand their own intuition so they can heal themselves and their families on an emotional, physical, and spiritual level. Learn more at her website or on her RUclips channel.
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I’m a man and thought this was great thank you! On the topic of Allie writing the book for men IMO don’t sweat it ,there’s no need ,it’s already been written. It’s called the Holy bible & the BoM being a pretty good additional source. Men need to humbly study it, ask God to teach them thru the HG how to be a husband, father & real authentic biblical Christian man and that’s that. I believe the rest will fall into place quite naturally after that.
I think there were likely just as many excellent teachings and examples of authentic biblical Christian women in the Bible too but that was long ago gutted. So 3 cheers for Meghan and Allie and others like them for being brave enough to say these things!
Men could use help in not being dependent emotionally on their wives!
I believe that in order to be a healthy and whole human it requires a balance of masculine and feminine energy within oneself and no longer expect anyone else to complete us.
I have found more peace and contentment upon applying this concept in my life.
Now, instead of pointing fingers or looking for what or who’s wrong, I instead make an effort to recognize my own projection and work on accepting “what is”. This approach has deepened my own self love and greatly lessened the frustration and angst I’d lived with most of my life constantly trying to “fix” people/situations etc thinking I knew best.
Yes, this. 👆 Thank you for sharing. I am looking for connection to both Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother within myself and this has been a game changer.
Allie's book is so incredibly thourough. This conversation barely covered the breadth of the expanse of this book. For anyone struggling with the concepts and content in the video, I assure you much of it comes from the thoughts based on your conclusions from your own experiences you are tying to the points of conversation. Not clarity of logic. You really must read the book for greater relatability.
I promise, Allie's book is inspired, and very validating on all the points everyone is concerned with. She leaves nothing out. She validates many aspects of thought.
There is a real problem in the dynamic of masculine feminine energy that the adversary has used to push his agenda and turn the family unit inside or and upside down or eliminate it all together. Identity has been all but destroyed.
I think that our relationship has truly improved since we started this book together. We are coaching married couples dealing with porn addiction and betrayal. I can promise that there is truth here and so much wisdom! We intend to use her book as required reading!
Thank you, this was an excellent discussion. Even though I am a man, the idea of embracing the divine masculine and feminine roles has been on my mind a lot lately.
I think a lot of men tend to look negatively at feminine traits, and we try to make our spouses more masculine. But in the end, we don't want a masculine woman. I think we have to learn to see some things as a "package deal", such as the emotionality of women. The feminine has things that naturally we know are beautiful, and then some things that are slightly uncomfortable. But those uncomfortable things usually have a purpose and make us better. The sweet is there to help us take the medicine, you can't separate them.
I also think that in the modern culture we have a problem with people selectively choosing which expectations of the feminine and masculine roles they want. Men often will avoid their masculine roles by completely avoiding family responsibility. But many women will enjoy the benefits of a man who provides, while also enjoying the "benefits" of no kids or fewer kids, and expecting the "modern housewives" lavish lifestyle.
I knew a lot of women at BYU who got caught up in the modern materialism and expectations of an easy life. They had been spoiled by their fathers, and had the expectation of the big house and brunches with friends, instead of raising 12 kids and cooking food at home from scratch and from their garden.
It seems that for many working men, jobs have gotten more stressful and more is demanded from them. Women want fewer kids, bigger homes, and want to eat at restaurants or buy pre-made meals. Most of the work that used to be done in the home has been outsourced, or made significantly easier due to modern inventions (washing machines, anyone?). The men are often expected to work and provide all these things and bigger homes, while the women are (often) doing less, having fewer kids, and becoming more high-maintenance. Men used to choose women in large part based on their homemaking skills, but now for the majority of women, they hardly even know how to cook a meal unless it comes in a box. Obviously that's not true for all women, but it is a growing trend that I think has a large contribution to the reason that men avoid family responsibility, avoid marriage, and that women end up being the ones that initiate most divorces.
In the church, we've continued to teach the importance of the man getting an education and working hard in a career, that doesn't seem to have yet been seen as a negative thing. But I don't think we've been as consistent at resisting the pressure of the modern world to delay children, have fewer children, and see the home as a place of recreation rather than productivity (the homestead).
It's no wonder that more men don't see the family life as being in their interest. The modern culture has made it so that women are (according to popular expected lifestyle) a liability rather than an asset.
Woohoo!!! We love Allie! This interview is so good!! Love hearing her talk from this place of fully latter day saint point of view! Her books and classes are AMAZING!
Her Magnetic Femininity is the very best of all the books on femininity!!!♥️♥️♥️
Meghan, you are a great interviewer and I love Allie’s books and classes. So glad you two came together!
As expected, this interview was incredible. I have been drawn so much to this healing space and I love these continued confirmations I continue to receive.
Great conversation between two of my favorite women to listen to
Beautifully presented, hugely important concepts that we need desperately now! Than you, sisters. 💕
My daughter in law has been reading and implementing Allie's book. It has been a challenge but it is helping their marriage.
So much wisdom and very thought provoking. These are the conversations that can begin to heal a broken society. It’s not easy, there are some painful truths both men and women need to grasp if we’re to come together like God has planned for us to. Incredible healing is the reward, though.
❤🙏🙏🙏
Feminine energy is not the following energy. You as an energy healer should know that. Our energy or our unseen part of us leads in what happens to us, the the physical (masculine) follows that pattern.
It’s also the pattern of the feminine leading when you look at the story of the garden of Eden. Eve led Adam out of the garden of Eden because she could see the big picture. She was the leader.
That has been the pattern of my life as well. I will feel led to do something and then my husband makes it happen and that’s when I feel most feminine when I’m following my intuition.
Women are literal portals between heaven and earth, not JUST for birthing new spirits into the world, but also revelation. Men always talk about how close women are to God or the Spirit, and that’s because we were designed to lead spiritually.
Yeah, It's not a fun life but many of us, by no fault of our own, are living it. So what about us? What are we supposed to do?
So if Allie says “if the feminine fixes herself and everything else will sort itself out”… 🧐🤨 then she admits that the feminine is the leader.
Sorry, I absolutely adore Allie! But that felt really prickly to me. Something that really rubs me wrong is how those who are married make judgements about those who are not. I don't feel it is right to put people in boxes like that. Frankly, I don't feel it's right to make assumptions about people who are in situations you yourself have never experienced.
I am divorced twice. 😞 (Not by choice!) I am extremely conservative and, frankly, very feminine. I very strongly believe in the divine rolls of men and women so have a great deal of resentment and even some anger at being forced into this position, because of the choices of others, of having to assume both rolls. The majority of the single women I know are the same.
I'm sorry that was your experience. I don't know what part felt prickly. Have you read her book? Perhaps you are reading into something that wasn't intended to come across that way. We love her book! It's helped us so much! I think that if more people in the world read it and lived by it, there wouldn't be as much conflict.
I do not, and have not, ever believed the constant identity narrative that men demonstrate the stable & logical tendencies, while women demonstrate the emotional, broader nurturing yet erratic tendencies. I don't buy it. I think we're all uniquely individual. I guess you're suggesting "inviting" women to play act to build or encourage the desire in men to be men... the provider & protector. It sounds like an approach the "could" work but too often the family or support of the children can't wait. I appreciate & applaud your efforts & experiment but I think it's simplistic. IF a woman, mother, wife is so in-love with her husband, maybe she could ride-out the time it could take to experiment, but it's risky & dangerous to gamble when children grow up so fast and are needing to be raised by responsible adults. Too often couples go into marriage assuming they're going to be on the same page as equal partners in raising a family, only to find a spouse needs to be raised too. I don't think we as women should check-out our brains, or cry easier to facilitate a mans growth. I think some men simply "get it" (responsibility) and some men don't. Just as some women "get it" (responsibility) and some don't. We need to raise our children to understand, embrace & excel in their roles as men & women.
Word of Caution: Allie's anecdotal conclusions re:dynamics within an abusive relationship are dangerously off the mark. An abusive personality and their co-morbid traits and predictable behavior patterns are a well-documented psychological phenomenon. The abuser is often driven by a sadistic compulsion to coerce and control their victim. There is a type of gratification in seeing others suffer and is key in forging the Trauma Bond that makes the relationship so difficult to escape. The guest's counsel in this post is grossly uninformed and ill-advised specifically with regards to domestic violence. When a risk to safety presents in an intimate relationship our Divine responsibility is SAFETY FIRST: Get yourself and your defenseless children to higher ground. Attempting to negotiate with an abusive personality perpetuates the cycle of continued victimhood. Cherished principles of faith, hope, charity, forgiveness, repentance, long-suffering and Christ-like unconditional love (while true and eternal principles) profoundly act as an effective ball and chain to continued victimhood when a perpetrator-victim relationship is evidenced. The research on this topic is so abundant and easily accessible such to render the guest's conclusions nothing less than derelict.
Actually she's incredibly informed. It wasn't brought up much in this discussion. She's worked with thousands now and more abuse cases than most therapists. She's even guided therapists on how to reintegrate DID.
The narcissistic dynamic is truly unbalanced. But it is not the healthy masculine. She does cover it in the book, but not extensively. The thing to remember, an abusive person is coming from their own program created from trauma and masculine/feminine imbalance in their history. Restoration of healthy response/reactions takes awareness, desire, and reconditioning. A healthy feminine state would acknowledge that they are being dominated against their will and have the courage to step out and seek out healthy masculine energy to escape to safety. Not remain in abuse and mistreatment.
This is where revelation and God come in, if you are in a situation that will not change, you will be guided what to do about it by the spirit.
You just lost me on your social programs theory. By leaving every nuclear family to fend for itself with the man being the warrior to fend off all those competitors encroaching on his turf, we perpetuate the model of constant warfare. Isn’t Christ the Prince of Peace? Isn’t love the fulfillment of the law? Choose a strong man who is a confident creator and trust him to devise ways to take care of the poor and needy wherever they’re found. Not just in his own household. Joining together with others to promote the general welfare is the highest usage of his wisdom strength and creative ability.
Jfyi, she's totally not liberal! She's totally conservative. But the majority has shown that more single women tend to vote for government funded social programs than unmarried.