My girlfriend has been ghosted several times from dates and semi relationships off of POF. Her experiences we're similar as far as the guys appearing to be really interested in pursuing a deeper connection just to ghost her at the weirdest times. I think it's common. Some guys want to know that they can get a woman to agree to furthering a relationship to build their ego but in actuality they are afraid of commitment. They are on the sites to flirt, build a rapport and once they are assured you're into them, they ghost you. Don't take it personally. They are serial relationship cowards. You're so pretty and have such a lovely personality, the right one is bound to come your way. Remember, it's a gift that these losers move on instead of wasting your time.
Your comment just made my day, thank you! I'm just glad that I didn't invest anymore time into someone like that. Time is my most valued "thing". I can't tolerate people who waste it. Thank you so much for the kind compliments, you are too sweet!
Been ghosted at my age, 39. It is better to see their true colors before it is too late. I was in a toxic relationship for 12 years and didn’t see his true colors until a year in the relationship and I was in love and stupid. No I don’t think anyone should ghost anyone, it is very immature. Especially if you have invested time into this person they should at least officially dump you.
I been trying to get over getting ghosted by a guy who I thought was going to be my all and end all. He was so sweet and carrying in the beginning but he started acting really weird with me. We was talking about moving in together since I was spending all of my time over there (which he asked me too) cooking, cleaning and being there for him. I don't know what happened... he took me home and we never talked again. All those weeks and months ended and I still don't know why I just miss him so much.
I just got ghosted after the second date. The date went so well too, so he took me by surprise. 😭 idk why i feel so crappy. But i defintely feel your pain
Never chase a man (call him first) or offer to pay for dinner. In a man's mind, they will see you as a 'low value' woman. High value women know their worth and do not offer to pay. They also do not chase men by calling first because the men call them first. They know this. Great video, thumbs up. 👍
Girl this just happened to me and I remembered this video. Wtf is up with the games and not being direct? The worst part of it all is not the self doubt or blue to your self esteem but I think it's the fact that you never hear that answer as to why. It wasn't is is on them but still..
Some people are just filth. And why I hate dating. Like can I just not have a man catalog, browse my specs, and buy a babe? And if he starts to mouth off, or is defective I can just return him for a better model?
We all think that it would be ok to be told - I'm not into you but that's not the truth. Nobody wants to hear that. And that's why ghosting exists. People that ghost are not silent, they speak without saying a word.
True for some. I'm a no b.s., straight shooting person. If someone isn't into me, cool, but don't waste my time and tell lies to string me along only to ghost me.
@@CourtneyWithLove but he told you. You two haven't set the next date - he was clear about his intentions. It's not like you were together for months and he suddenly stopped calling you. You were on the couple of dates. And yes, he seam interested in you, from your perspective, but he was nice, and that's all.
As i was listening to your story I was laughing to myself , as it was as if you were telling my recent date a few days ago actually for me...the EXACT thing just happen to me, and I swear your story was the same as mine....even up to him staying friends with me on facebook....I even got a kiss at the end of our date and felt amazing chemistry so I obviously am really really confused, hurt a little, feeling rejected pretty much overall just dont get why men do this...I too am a plus size girl, and I feel as if maybe it has something to do with this ...God dating sucks.
Ugggh, I hate dating for this reason alone. I hate having my time wasted, and that's what a lot of people seem to do. So sorry you went thru this too! Screw em!
omg the tree wow! I'm so sorry this ghosting happened, I hope you don't take it personally, some guys are just jerks and god men are all so f-in stupid (except me lmao). I have had this happen in the past and it's like "oh well, moving on" but still you want to know why lol. keep putting yourself out there, and girl on a first date put them girls out there too lmao j/k.
Hahaha Jake you crack me up! I hate shady people, how hard is it to just be honest? Haha I'll keep that in mind the next date I go on! Lift those girls up with some duck tape and say hello to the world 😂
I got ghosted 3 times by the same guy 😂 don’t worry I learn my lesson on the third time
My girlfriend has been ghosted several times from dates and semi relationships off of POF. Her experiences we're similar as far as the guys appearing to be really interested in pursuing a deeper connection just to ghost her at the weirdest times. I think it's common. Some guys want to know that they can get a woman to agree to furthering a relationship to build their ego but in actuality they are afraid of commitment. They are on the sites to flirt, build a rapport and once they are assured you're into them, they ghost you. Don't take it personally. They are serial relationship cowards. You're so pretty and have such a lovely personality, the right one is bound to come your way. Remember, it's a gift that these losers move on instead of wasting your time.
Your comment just made my day, thank you! I'm just glad that I didn't invest anymore time into someone like that. Time is my most valued "thing". I can't tolerate people who waste it. Thank you so much for the kind compliments, you are too sweet!
@@CourtneyWithLove ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Been ghosted at my age, 39. It is better to see their true colors before it is too late. I was in a toxic relationship for 12 years and didn’t see his true colors until a year in the relationship and I was in love and stupid. No I don’t think anyone should ghost anyone, it is very immature. Especially if you have invested time into this person they should at least officially dump you.
girl this makes me feel bad. I've ghosted so many tinder dates
I have heard horror stories about Tinder, thats one place I have avoided lol!
good idea @@CourtneyWithLove
I been trying to get over getting ghosted by a guy who I thought was going to be my all and end all. He was so sweet and carrying in the beginning but he started acting really weird with me. We was talking about moving in together since I was spending all of my time over there (which he asked me too) cooking, cleaning and being there for him. I don't know what happened... he took me home and we never talked again. All those weeks and months ended and I still don't know why I just miss him so much.
I just got ghosted after the second date. The date went so well too, so he took me by surprise. 😭 idk why i feel so crappy. But i defintely feel your pain
It has to be one of the worst feelings ever. Is it really that hard to just be honest? Screw them though, we are better!
Never chase a man (call him first) or offer to pay for dinner. In a man's mind, they will see you as a 'low value' woman. High value women know their worth and do not offer to pay. They also do not chase men by calling first because the men call them first. They know this. Great video, thumbs up. 👍
Courtney you are a beautiful person inside and out. You only deserve the best so don't settle for less!😊
Thank you so much Susan! You are too kind!
Most of us have been ghosted .... Several times
I have been ghosted after a 2 year relationship with a older man. It's very hard to get over.
That is awful. That much time put into someone, and that's how they treat you? Sick!
Same.. Exact length of relationship.. Its the worst feeling..
I love your storytimes. My fave type of video of yours!
Sweetie for future reference, he wasnt leading u on if u were doing all the calling. I think u kno this in retrospect♥️♥️♥️
Ladies don't chase men♥️
You're the prize
Girl this just happened to me and I remembered this video. Wtf is up with the games and not being direct? The worst part of it all is not the self doubt or blue to your self esteem but I think it's the fact that you never hear that answer as to why. It wasn't is is on them but still..
Some people are just filth. And why I hate dating. Like can I just not have a man catalog, browse my specs, and buy a babe? And if he starts to mouth off, or is defective I can just return him for a better model?
Haha I like that idea.
We all think that it would be ok to be told - I'm not into you but that's not the truth. Nobody wants to hear that. And that's why ghosting exists. People that ghost are not silent, they speak without saying a word.
True for some. I'm a no b.s., straight shooting person. If someone isn't into me, cool, but don't waste my time and tell lies to string me along only to ghost me.
@@CourtneyWithLove but he told you. You two haven't set the next date - he was clear about his intentions. It's not like you were together for months and he suddenly stopped calling you. You were on the couple of dates. And yes, he seam interested in you, from your perspective, but he was nice, and that's all.
As i was listening to your story I was laughing to myself , as it was as if you were telling my recent date a few days ago actually for me...the EXACT thing just happen to me, and I swear your story was the same as mine....even up to him staying friends with me on facebook....I even got a kiss at the end of our date and felt amazing chemistry so I obviously am really really confused, hurt a little, feeling rejected pretty much overall just dont get why men do this...I too am a plus size girl, and I feel as if maybe it has something to do with this ...God dating sucks.
Ugggh, I hate dating for this reason alone. I hate having my time wasted, and that's what a lot of people seem to do. So sorry you went thru this too! Screw em!
It sounds like you’re about to cry
Nope! Just how I normally talk.
Omg i love your beauty spot
Thank you!
omg the tree wow! I'm so sorry this ghosting happened, I hope you don't take it personally, some guys are just jerks and god men are all so f-in stupid (except me lmao). I have had this happen in the past and it's like "oh well, moving on" but still you want to know why lol. keep putting yourself out there, and girl on a first date put them girls out there too lmao j/k.
Hahaha Jake you crack me up! I hate shady people, how hard is it to just be honest? Haha I'll keep that in mind the next date I go on! Lift those girls up with some duck tape and say hello to the world 😂
hahaha
**blow.. I'm dyslexic lmao and funny I typoed that word it's fitting bc he's not getting that anymore 🤣🤣🤣
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I'm dead!
He probably got with another girl lol I ghosted a few guys once I got into a relationship with my bf 😂
You are so cute
Maybe he died?