My 20 Goals For 2020 ✨| Lucy Moon
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you should do an Instagram book club!! Like a low pressure book club. We all just read what we can and have a little discussion about how we feeling :) just an idea x
That's such a nice idea - if I get into the habit of reading, I'll 100% do it!
Yeah that’s a great idea!
Yesss please do this!
My brother never passed driving and he's quite a nervous soul. Me with anxiety was quite worried thinking "if my big brother couldn't do it I certainly can't" and consequently I cried religiously in my driving lessons and had countless panic attacks. BUT, after some serious chats about taking propanolol with my doctor I sailed through both the theory and practical last year. I got myself a car and gradually weaned myself off the beta-blockers for driving. I've now been driving fully licensed for 6 months. You really can do it, Lucy
Congratulations on your success with driving! This comment has really inspired me too, thank you for that! I’ve been avoiding learning due to anxiety as well, but it’s inevitable I need to learn. I guess it’s time. 💕
When learning to drive I was so terrified, but I live in a place where everything is very spaced out so learning to drive is pretty much necessary. I am completely fine with driving now, honestly I was really scared until about a month of having my license and then I suddenly realized the fear was just gone. My fear came from me inherently not trusting myself or believing myself capable of handling important tasks. Of course it’s good to have a healthy amount of fear for caution, but once you learn to trust yourself the fear will go away and driving will just be muscle memory. Good luck!
I always appreciate when people share about anxieties involving driving, for lots of different reasons, but I feel especially comforted because I'm moving to the UK this year, and am a bit nervous about getting used to driving there. I'm also planning to get a manual car because I'm so tired of feeling like I'll never be able to drive one comfortably, so hearing that someone else wants to learn to drive who's from the UK and is feeling anxious, makes me feel less alone and worried about it! So thank you!
I have huge travel anxiety with pretty much all methods of transport, to the point I just don’t go anywhere if it’s over an hour’s journey, but since learning to drive it’s lessened quite significantly. I’m a nervous driver (and was a super nervy learner, hello year+ of lessons and three tests) but knowing the I am in control of the vehicle, the speed, the route and can stop at any time is so much better for me than being a passenger. I managed some longer drives last year for the first time and I’m feeling positive about trying to go more places this year. You can do it, Lucy!
The way you said "I love him so much" was sooo pure ugh c'est magnifique 💗
I'd love a new season of sunday social, even if its a different format than the first season. I love hearing people talk about their lives and jobs. Such a great idea and series
Learning to drive definitely helped my anxiety. I hated the thought of being in a car, behind the wheel and in control of the situation. Passed first time with a really supportive instructor who pushed me to try after 20 lessons (2hrs each).
I learnt to drive in 2019 and it's the BEST most freeing thing I've ever done but I suppose when you're in London and you don't feel trapped it's very different. But I never thought I'd love driving and it's my favourite thing when I'm in the car on my own listening to podcasts and music 💕 it can be scary but 1) spend time finding the right instructor who makes you feel comfortable 2) take it at your own pace but try to keep it consistent and not take months off and 3) book your theory asap because it makes road driving much more rational
I learned to drive in 6th form , traumatically put myself through lessons & somehow passed my test even though it was awful & then didn’t drive for 3 years out of fear. Now I can do small messages around my home town & drive to the beach with my friends! Take it in baby steps it has really helped me get better at it without freaking myself out
I put off learning to drive for so long! But I passed in November after a year of lessons, and I actually really started to look forward to those lessons as 1/2 hours of nothing but concentration on a task and some idle gossip with my instructor.
My advice is to look for a female instructor, someone who gets your anxiety towards driving and someone who isn't going to rush you to pass. Then you'll actually enjoy rather than dread lessons!
I was so scared to start driving, but the sense of achievement I feel now a year or so after getting my licence was so worth it. Setting my mind to getting it done and having driving lessons quite close together ie once a fortnight or once a week was definitely worthwhile.
I like what other people have mentioned, book club. I really enjoyed the Bangin' Book Club when it was going on. Also, really appreciated watching your video today during my lunch break, as I just finished a few chores and I'm working on two uni papers that are due next week, lots of assignments and readings for the first week, but I feel accomplished and your video helped me feel more of that.
It took me over four years to learn to drive due to terrible driving anxiety but I’m so glad I did it now! Don’t give up! 💛🐰
omg please do another series of sunday social, I loved the first series!! (but absolutely no pressure, its your life and your career - just love your work!)
On the contraceptive front, I was on the pill for 5 years but had to come off of it in November for medical reasons. I hadn’t been without it for so long that I was incredibly upset when I had to stop but my nurse was amazing in talking through my options. In the end I went with the implant, but I’d read so many horrible reviews I was convinced I’d have it out by Christmas. It’s honestly the best thing that’s ever happened to me! My skin stayed clear, I stopped having periods where I was depressed and it just made me feel so much better. I’m not saying it’s for you, but it‘s definitely for me and I’m glad I kept my options open. Find a nurse, have a chat, and I hope you find what you’re looking for ❤️
I don’t know why but i love how this video looks, i don’t know if it’s the black turtleneck but i love
I absolutely HATED driving lessons and I would cry after many of them as it would stress me out so much! I never thought I was going to be able to pass it. However I got it first time and now it's second nature to me, makes me wonder why I got so wound up. Totally get how anxious it can make you feel, but the feeling after passing it and getting it over with makes it worth it!
I get anxious driving as well, but I find practising being mindful as I drive really helpful and to not avoid it as when I do, getting back to it is a lot harder! Girl, you've got this! :)
i love Sunday Social! I hope you can do more in the future.
“Its got that fun straw” - Lucy Moon 2020
I also struggle with anxiety around travel and was super nervous when learning to drive and even for a while after I passed. But now it is so helpful for my travel anxiety because I am in control of my travel! I am the one driving, I'm not relying on someone else's schedule, which was where some of my anxiety came from in the first place. So while learning to drive can be scary, it might actually make travel less anxiety inducing in the future for you. You can do it!
a lil encouragement for driving - i started learning at 17, i passed last year at age 23 and i absolutely shouldn't have driven when i first learnt cos my anxiety was just WAY too much. I'm still learning to drive with my anxiety but im much better equip now then i was previously. Im actually starting to enjoy driving but be patience - you'll get there in time, people are way more aware then you think and if youre not up for driving in that particular moment it'll be okay. Also if you're north london based i have a great life drawing class to recommend - £6 a sesh and its bloody golden
Thought this was super sweet and helpful. A great range of career, personal and creative goals. Gonna steal some😊💖
Hey! Yes! I understand about being moved by the Spirit! I’m so excited for you!
I used to be completely terrified of driving, like every drive was the worst experience. But, with practice it gets much much easier
I’m looking forward to watching, I hope you’re having a great 2020 so far!! 💖
The Sunday social was sooo lush I loved it so much! 💗
You mentioned writing songs and I had a flashback to when you’d post singing videos and had really long hair (I think when u were doing your A levels??!) - how the time flies dude!!! 🥰
I completely understand the driving fear! Even the hereditary bit- one of my older family members drove, but was so anxious about it that she would actively avoid making left turns. I'm 20 now and have only had my license for just over two years (in the US, people can get their permits starting on their 16th birthday). I hated the idea of being in control of a moving vehicle, and I was terrified I would crash. Surprisingly, though, learning to drive actually made me feel more calm in cars, once I got over the initial *omg I'm driving* fear. Knowing that I'm in control of where I'm going gave me a really cool sense of independence, which I think you would like! Plus I took lessons with an instructor, rather than family or friends, so that made me feel safe. And even if it takes a while for you to take main roads or any highway-type things, at least you can do it! I didn't start highways until about six months ago. Anyway, all of this is to say that, from one driving-fearer to another, you got this!!
Everyone's different but CBT really helped me with my travel anxiety!
Happy new year lucy - I hope you're enjoy your month off :) maybe with the reading goal, you could combine it with your phone one and try to read for 20 minutes each morning before picking your phone up? Though I say that, I am so so addicted to my phone it scares me how completely dependent I am, and wouldn't be able to do that myself atm aha
i am currently still in the process of writing my goals for 2020, and this inspired me a lot!
You may have heard of these but you could try morning pages which would cross off some journaling and also be something to do instead of going on your phone first thing. I'm going to start doing it just as soon as I find a nice notebook to do it in...
can you do a video on what you learn about finances and pensions? i don't know much about them either and i think it would be a great video or even a small series on your journey to financial efficiency :)
pLeAse make more Sunday Socials
Totally get the anxiety thing! You are not alone girl!
hey I'm from a quaker family and I'm trying to go to meeting more often as well. It just makes me feel so much better for the rest of the week :)
Get the DVSA app! I passed my theory first time with it 🥰
Oooh I'll check it out, thanks!
Lucy Moon I just checked and it’s the one that’s “Theory 3 in 1” that helped me most 😊
I’d recommend calina coil, because it’s localised there’s less side effects, lasts 3 years and reduces period heaviness xx
Hey! What do you do outside of RUclips as a freelancer? I only follow you on here and wondered what you did with the rest of your work time?
I'm a full time content creator! So I am primarily a RUclipsr/influencer, but I also do talks and panels about social media and sometimes do a bit of consulting! I start worrying if I don't have multiple revenue streams lol
I wouldn't recommend going to Japan in summer, it's ridiculously hot 😬 Spring is good but is often very busy during cherry blossom season and Golden Week. The best time I would recommend going is autumn because it's cooler, the trees look beautiful and it's less busy than spring :) It depends how much you hate crowds and intense heat 😅
be careful with bulk buying & gluten!! I have celiac and don’t shop bulk bins because they’re often cross contaminated, either by the bin itself not being cleaned or by the contents being processed on shared equipment. I feel bad buying things in plastic but I have to put my health first
The source in Battersea is really good for reducing plastic packaging!
I loved this vid! Starting off 2020 with some banging content :)
ahaha the RUclips bottle, that was hilarious & wow that Quaker group sounds really cool, I’ve never heard of that!!!
lucy, your skin looks beautiful!!!
I was terrified to learn how to drive! It wasn't until I drove regular and was in a car I was comfortable in that I got over my fear. It takes some time but you can do it!!
I'm looking forward to your visit to Japan someday and hope I could running into you somewhere in Tokyo! Sending love from a huge fan of yours in Japan❤
What about a podcast! You could talk about everything you would like , and with a bunch of people. Interviews getting to know other influencers better and you decide how substantial or superficial!
I will definitely be reading 15 or 20 books this year, I havnt read properly for so long beside Harry Potter Ebooks during breakfast and my work break- I really miss holding a book and I have so many in my home from my parents and siblings - I want to read!!!
I was terrified of doing my drivers license, mainly because I was scared that I would fuck up and make mistakes and ppl would think I'm an idiot. Normally ppl in Austria start with 17/18, but I just couldn't do it. I was kinda forced talked into doing it by my family (because even though I was terrified of driving, I also can't stand to disappoint ppl) and now I'm so fucking happy I have it. I've moved to China 3 years ago and I actually miss driving so much.
What typeface did you use on the thumbnail? It's gorgeous.
Oh wow it would be great for you to come to Seoul! Sending you lots of love from South Korea here 🌹
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Thank fucking fuck I'm not the only person in this game without a pension...I know I'm like WAY older than you but this is still comforting haha! I did set up health insurance last year but I KEEP FORGETTING ABOUT THE PENSION! xxx
Let’s make this the year to get our pensions sorted!! We’ve got this xxx
ahh lucy, please come to seoul and do a meet & greet! i'd love to show you around
For savings you could have a l at the lifetime ISA. You get a 25% government bonus on top of your savings and you can use it for a house and for retirement
I’m getting one! So buzzed for a LISA
I'd really like to do a short course too! Any recommendations? How do you search for the right short course?
Hello🇧🇷. I would very much appreciate if you launched a podcast on Spotify, because I'm madly fond of British accent and yours is one of my favourites when it comes to the British youtubers that I follow.
build a podcast around one of your goals such as the activism one? Rebels with to many causes?
Really appreciate you talking about birth control - so important to normalise talking about it 🥰 have you considered non hormonal birth control? I have the copper coil, but have considered Natural Cycles for the future :)
Loved the vid! ❤️
A tip about a Tokyo it’s weirdly cheap! We thought it was going to be expensive but it’s really not!
That’s so good to know! Thank you x
No worries! 😊x
Not telling you what to do and of course the experience Hannah had with her coil and her colitis might have frightened you. But if you’re really not looking to have babies within the next 5 years I would suggest having a IUD/S because all other pills for me, personally, have the worst side effects with coming off of it, specifically on my mood, and these have been linked to more oestrogen in the body. And it takes the pressure off of you to remember to take a pill every day, you can get pregnant as soon as you have it removed and it’s the method that just gets along best with me personally. This is completely your choice but I think it might be something to consider. Lots of love xxx
PensionBee is a great pension app you should look into, super easy to use and simple to understand plans.
I’d love to know how you came across Quaker meetings. It’s none of our business, of course. But.... best wishes
This has nothing to do with the video, but what font did you use for the numbers? lol
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Oh god, I also haven't set up a pension yet :( I just don't know where to start, how do you find a trustworthy pension company?
Highly recommend Sustainably Vegan's channel to help with your zero waste research. A lot of her info is London-based as well!
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hold on. major plot twist. i didn’t know you went to Church?! 💙
I don’t go often! Quakerism in the UK is very chilled, I go for peace of mind more than anything else x
Lucy Moon i was going to ask why you went, just out of curiosity. i still find it nice for you to go! such a nice video btw - some of these goals really resonated with me (phone addiction...) as well.
Sort out my pension....only have the one my parents set up for me.
Not doing to bad in fairness if your in a position that parents sst you up a pension
Yeah they put a little bit of money in one when I was born - it's still not much in the grand scheme of things so I need to start contributing!
Its difficult to save now for 30 years time.
first lol