37, and the world of the devouring mother has finally caught up to me. 12 year relationship where the other half was initially happy to 'mother' me, and I was obviously comfortable with allowing it. Well, it finally caught up to me, after 10 years we had a child, and the time has come 2 years later where we're splitting up because I'm a man-child. She's absolutely right, and I'm only just realising that it was wrong of me to be comfortable of that. Thanks for this video, the words resonate a lot.
Hey Matt, thanks for the comment ! I feel you ! It can be a painful bite to face. But that’s not to count out the very real change you can go through ! Awareness is the first step ! Start making those changes now otherwise it’ll always be ‘one day’ make it ‘day one’ right now ! For yourself, but also your little one and potentially the turn around of a unpolarised relationship ! Step into it brother 👊🏻 I wish you luck !
@@TheJack.Farrell I feel like I have all the other parts down except for the mother issue. I read a ton, workout, do hard shit - not sure how to work past that.
@@azhaz578exactly the same for me! My mum always wants to jump in and help me out and i find it personally very hard to cut the cord because i have no idea what that would look like. You are the first one who talks about it like that and now that you are talking about it in a video it makes sense and i can clearly see it
@@azhaz578hey bro ! Thanks for the comment ! I think it’s something you have to just choose to not rely on anymore ! I think ultimately it just doesn’t serve you in anyway and it’s too easy to become dependant on and remain comfy. That’s not to say you can’t receive your mother’s love ! Just be careful of you looking or expecting her to help or ‘save the day’. The longer you keep this in your life the more it will burn. Before you know it you’ll be a 30 year old mummy’s boy still dependant on his mother. That’s not a good look. It’s a hard one though brother ! Just receive her love in the ways that won’t damage you long term or threaten your frame as man.
@@Thenaturefairy7just have to create the distance if needed ! If you find yourself relying on mummy to save the day or save you just cut that cord completely ! It’ll only make you suffer in the long run !
37, and the world of the devouring mother has finally caught up to me.
12 year relationship where the other half was initially happy to 'mother' me, and I was obviously comfortable with allowing it.
Well, it finally caught up to me, after 10 years we had a child, and the time has come 2 years later where we're splitting up because I'm a man-child.
She's absolutely right, and I'm only just realising that it was wrong of me to be comfortable of that.
Thanks for this video, the words resonate a lot.
Hey Matt, thanks for the comment !
I feel you ! It can be a painful bite to face. But that’s not to count out the very real change you can go through ! Awareness is the first step ! Start making those changes now otherwise it’ll always be ‘one day’ make it ‘day one’ right now !
For yourself, but also your little one and potentially the turn around of a unpolarised relationship !
Step into it brother 👊🏻
I wish you luck !
You are definitely eloquent in how you express yourself coack JK! Taking notes as im watching your video. Thanks mate!
@@Thenaturefairy7 thanks bro glad it helps !
Thank you for this.
@@azhaz578 no worries ! I’m glad you found it helpful !
@@TheJack.Farrell I feel like I have all the other parts down except for the mother issue. I read a ton, workout, do hard shit - not sure how to work past that.
@@azhaz578exactly the same for me! My mum always wants to jump in and help me out and i find it personally very hard to cut the cord because i have no idea what that would look like. You are the first one who talks about it like that and now that you are talking about it in a video it makes sense and i can clearly see it
@@azhaz578hey bro ! Thanks for the comment ! I think it’s something you have to just choose to not rely on anymore ! I think ultimately it just doesn’t serve you in anyway and it’s too easy to become dependant on and remain comfy.
That’s not to say you can’t receive your mother’s love ! Just be careful of you looking or expecting her to help or ‘save the day’.
The longer you keep this in your life the more it will burn. Before you know it you’ll be a 30 year old mummy’s boy still dependant on his mother. That’s not a good look.
It’s a hard one though brother ! Just receive her love in the ways that won’t damage you long term or threaten your frame as man.
@@Thenaturefairy7just have to create the distance if needed !
If you find yourself relying on mummy to save the day or save you just cut that cord completely ! It’ll only make you suffer in the long run !