At about the 50 minute mark it gets real. Yes, that’s why our borders remain basically open. We’ve found a lazy immoral way to maintain a cheap (and poorly treated) labor force. This way we maintain the illusion of a healthy and vibrant and growing economy.
Please help me understand your logic. Immigrants are trying desperately to cross the border and enter the US. They do this because they believe it is their best path to a better life. Far from being immoral, giving them a green card and a short path to citizenship would be the most moral thing we could do for them and for the long term interests of the US.
Somewhere around the 35-minute mark, Klein made the comment that he cannot imagine having 8 months off to care for a child. I have been home a lot with my kids, and if you are a nursing mother, those eight months will fly! In our family, we try to be as environmentally conscientious as we can be. That meant using cloth diapers that I washed and hung out to dry. At the moment, I have bread rising in the oven not only because it's less expensive than store-bought bread and healthier, but also because there is no plastic used in packaging it. The list goes on and on. When I was home with my young children, household tasks ate up hours of my time while the children played in their mini-kitchens, with crayons, outside, etc. They often sat on the kitchen floor while I cooked. Yes, it's dull, but the internet has made life for stay-at-home parents wonderful -- so much content and learning can be done by listening online as I am doing now with the podcast while I exercise, do laundry and bake.
My wife and I had twins in Berlin. I worked for a US university as a postdoc and she was working for a German company. I effectively took 8 months off because we just completed a giant project from the last 4 years and my supervisor let me work minimal hours and she had paid leave because she's in the German system. Even with this we were both barely surviving on 4hr-5hr sleep max for the entire time. Thank god we were able to take the time off because it's completely crazy for one parent to try to care for 2 babies. Parents also have twins in the US without these benefits.
@@ssun190 I often wonder how infants in day care are cared for. Everyone I've known who's had twins tells about how exhausting it is, yet ome states only require one caregiver for 5 (FIVE!) infants - that's like twins and triplets. Granted those people get to go home at night, nevertheless, it seems obvious that most infants must be neglected if they are put into daycare.
@@fromcolorado3367 So I think if they are > 1 year old and healthy the 1 to 5 ratio is fine. By then they crawl around and distract one another and can manage to get some food into their own mouth or hold a bottle. If they are only 3 months then absolutely no way.
Yes, the issue is definitely that we focus so much on the negatives of parenting and completely ignore yhe fun. And yes, Ezra! Tell us about the fun times you have with your son!
If my experience, being a parent is way better anything I could get from work or anywhere else in life. It's just the best thing ever, as difficult and exhausting as it is. I just find the obsession with work, career, and materialism to be toxic. It's really hard to live in a world and culture like this. Having children grounds me in the reality of what life and existence and reality are all about. There's no tension between work and life for me. I'm here to live. I'm not a slave.
European social democracy is still the best we got and I'm sure it'll continue to go strong. love and solidarity to our Swedish neighbours from Vienna ✊☺️
There need to be a third place. The first place is where you live. The second place is where you work and the third place is where you hang out with your friends if you have any. Besides restaurant and bars there arent that many.
Cars. We need more spaces in most areas without cars, especially those monster trucks that limit sight lines. They make playing in neighborhoods, in streets, deadly.
One of the women I worked with at the call center had to go on bedrest for her last 4 weeks of pregnancy. She had a baby with medical issues. She had 2 weeks of FMLA once the baby was born. She came back and they fired her 2 days later. I left that job, and now we live in a co-op with 6 people, and yep. That's the move. Go find other people and work together.
It’s not hard to imagine a better way to both work and parent. A work culture that does not think a successful employee is someone who works 40 plus hours a week and/or is on call. I think we kid ourselves when we think people are more productive this way. Kids thrive when they have a combination of security, routine and guidance from parents, some time alone to learn to entertain to themselves and time with other kids where they can be creative and learn social skills. The US needs to return to building communities where kids and parents feel safe to let kids have more autonomy - walkable neighborhoods with local amenities where you can get to know your neighbors and have a supportive network.
This is very interesting, but I find that the parenting methods and roles discussed here are applicable to Yuppies. Most people are not Yuppies and do not parent like Yuppies.
Throughout the entire interview, the interviewee does not answer the question why, despite these 'fantastic' child friendly policies, Sweden still has a birth rate almost similar to the United States, which does not have these policies. It missed the entire point and purpose of the interview to explain the current situation.
If women are not going to settle for a subservient role as unemployed mother, then the two person family as the norm has to be re-examined. It doesn’t work.
The elephant in the room: race They won’t talk about how Sweden is homogenous and white. It’s one of the reasons why people are very happy. When third world immigration increases significantly there their whole program will fall apart. I find this interview to be somewhat disingenuous.
At about the 50 minute mark it gets real. Yes, that’s why our borders remain basically open. We’ve found a lazy immoral way to maintain a cheap (and poorly treated) labor force. This way we maintain the illusion of a healthy and vibrant and growing economy.
Please help me understand your logic. Immigrants are trying desperately to cross the border and enter the US. They do this because they believe it is their best path to a better life. Far from being immoral, giving them a green card and a short path to citizenship would be the most moral thing we could do for them and for the long term interests of the US.
Somewhere around the 35-minute mark, Klein made the comment that he cannot imagine having 8 months off to care for a child. I have been home a lot with my kids, and if you are a nursing mother, those eight months will fly! In our family, we try to be as environmentally conscientious as we can be. That meant using cloth diapers that I washed and hung out to dry. At the moment, I have bread rising in the oven not only because it's less expensive than store-bought bread and healthier, but also because there is no plastic used in packaging it. The list goes on and on. When I was home with my young children, household tasks ate up hours of my time while the children played in their mini-kitchens, with crayons, outside, etc. They often sat on the kitchen floor while I cooked. Yes, it's dull, but the internet has made life for stay-at-home parents wonderful -- so much content and learning can be done by listening online as I am doing now with the podcast while I exercise, do laundry and bake.
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My wife and I had twins in Berlin. I worked for a US university as a postdoc and she was working for a German company. I effectively took 8 months off because we just completed a giant project from the last 4 years and my supervisor let me work minimal hours and she had paid leave because she's in the German system. Even with this we were both barely surviving on 4hr-5hr sleep max for the entire time. Thank god we were able to take the time off because it's completely crazy for one parent to try to care for 2 babies. Parents also have twins in the US without these benefits.
@@ssun190 I often wonder how infants in day care are cared for. Everyone I've known who's had twins tells about how exhausting it is, yet ome states only require one caregiver for 5 (FIVE!) infants - that's like twins and triplets. Granted those people get to go home at night, nevertheless, it seems obvious that most infants must be neglected if they are put into daycare.
@@fromcolorado3367 So I think if they are > 1 year old and healthy the 1 to 5 ratio is fine. By then they crawl around and distract one another and can manage to get some food into their own mouth or hold a bottle. If they are only 3 months then absolutely no way.
This is a great conversation. Thanks!
Yes, the issue is definitely that we focus so much on the negatives of parenting and completely ignore yhe fun. And yes, Ezra! Tell us about the fun times you have with your son!
If my experience, being a parent is way better anything I could get from work or anywhere else in life. It's just the best thing ever, as difficult and exhausting as it is. I just find the obsession with work, career, and materialism to be toxic. It's really hard to live in a world and culture like this. Having children grounds me in the reality of what life and existence and reality are all about. There's no tension between work and life for me. I'm here to live. I'm not a slave.
Never had kids and have no regrets. 😊
European social democracy is still the best we got and I'm sure it'll continue to go strong.
love and solidarity to our Swedish neighbours from Vienna ✊☺️
There need to be a third place. The first place is where you live. The second place is where you work and the third place is where you hang out with your friends if you have any. Besides restaurant and bars there arent that many.
What does the data say about whether it has in fact become more unsafe for children to entertain themselves outside? What about policies in this area?
Cars. We need more spaces in most areas without cars, especially those monster trucks that limit sight lines. They make playing in neighborhoods, in streets, deadly.
@@oforde5072 Yes, exactly
One of the women I worked with at the call center had to go on bedrest for her last 4 weeks of pregnancy. She had a baby with medical issues. She had 2 weeks of FMLA once the baby was born. She came back and they fired her 2 days later.
I left that job, and now we live in a co-op with 6 people, and yep. That's the move. Go find other people and work together.
It’s not hard to imagine a better way to both work and parent. A work culture that does not think a successful employee is someone who works 40 plus hours a week and/or is on call. I think we kid ourselves when we think people are more productive this way. Kids thrive when they have a combination of security, routine and guidance from parents, some time alone to learn to entertain to themselves and time with other kids where they can be creative and learn social skills. The US needs to return to building communities where kids and parents feel safe to let kids have more autonomy - walkable neighborhoods with local amenities where you can get to know your neighbors and have a supportive network.
56:36 wow. Open up our borders and let immigrants solve our fertility issues.
This is very interesting, but I find that the parenting methods and roles discussed here are applicable to Yuppies. Most people are not Yuppies and do not parent like Yuppies.
Well, it is the NYT.
Throughout the entire interview, the interviewee does not answer the question why, despite these 'fantastic' child friendly policies, Sweden still has a birth rate almost similar to the United States, which does not have these policies. It missed the entire point and purpose of the interview to explain the current situation.
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If women are not going to settle for a subservient role as unemployed mother, then the two person family as the norm has to be re-examined. It doesn’t work.
The elephant in the room: race
They won’t talk about how Sweden is homogenous and white. It’s one of the reasons why people are very happy. When third world immigration increases significantly there their whole program will fall apart. I find this interview to be somewhat disingenuous.