I feel for sorry for the hmong ladies of our grandmother's and your generation, forced to marry and spend your life with your rapist. 😡😠🤬 I am happy our parents are learning, and our younger generations of hmong girls won't be subjected to this treatment and torture. I see that there are still many things the hmong ppl need to change, so we need to do better. It starts with us as parents. We need to be the change we seek. We need to end that generational curse.
Cov niag txiv Neej kuag Kab kuag hlau ..tsab ntse ..ces yeej coj lus tsis tus li...cuab lub dag li dag ...lub neej thiaj puas tas....leej twg tau tus txiv siab phem li ntawd ces lub neej yeej kawg Tawg
Poj niam ua hluas ces txiv neej coj mus hais tom kwv tij coj mus hais tom neej tsa hos txiv neej ua hluas ces poj niam cover txhob hais no lod. Ua li tsis ncaj lawm. Tsis hais ces luag kwv luag tij yuav hais tias lawv tus neeg ua txhuam cas hos tsis hais lawv kho es hos mus tom hom tswv mekas. Kuv hais rau nej os thawm twg ib tug neeg tsis tsheej haj tsis xav ua neeg zoo lawm ces tag lawm...hais hais ntuj poob kiag los yeej hloov tsis tau lub siab ces yeej yuav ua kom lub neej tawg xwb thiaj tag. Mus counseling los pab tsis tau os yuav tsum yog tus neeg ntawm hloov siab xav ua neeg zoo thiaj li work. Nyias hais nyias xwb thiaj tau.
He learned a valuable lesson but a costly one. He didn't deserve his ex. She is better off w/o him. He had no ball, depending his life on what others decided. Txiv neej hmoob ces cia khuv xim li no thiaj paub. Cov neeg ruam, cas nej pheej xav tias kwvtij neej tsa yuav hais tau na?
Tus poj niam yeem mus ua ib tug txiv neej twg tus niam yau thiab ib nkawm niam txiv twg yeem rau kwv tij ntuas nyob tib qhov position. Ntawv twb vim yog txoj kev ua neej cia li tws kev hlo lawm. Tus poj niam cia li pos muag nti thiab ntsaws pob ntseg mus koom nrog lwm tus poj niam ua ib lub neej. Hos nkawm niam txiv lub neej yeej plws tsis tau qhov phem tawm mus li lawm ces nkawv thiaj cia rau kwv tij paub txog.
Kuv mas dhuav qhov uas pheej coj yus lub neej mus rau kwv tij hais. It not the kwv tij business to know your marriage issue. Make sure u find the truth before divorce. I hate gossip in hmong community.
Yes. Totally agree.
I agree 💯
Yog tshaj plaws li os
Cov txiv neej uas cuab cuab ntse ces thaum kawg xav txog lig
Great story and advice!!! My mom always told me this!
Counseling well done!
Yog kawg os tus vivncaus thiab Nancy, especially peb cov menyuam ntsuag
I feel for sorry for the hmong ladies of our grandmother's and your generation, forced to marry and spend your life with your rapist. 😡😠🤬 I am happy our parents are learning, and our younger generations of hmong girls won't be subjected to this treatment and torture. I see that there are still many things the hmong ppl need to change, so we need to do better. It starts with us as parents. We need to be the change we seek. We need to end that generational curse.
Things will change will our Hmong and us are all gone .
I agree! Only go to the family when you are ready to walk out of the marriage.
Yog kawg. Kuv pom lawm thiab. Thaum ub hnov cov laus hais, coj pojniam mus rau nom tswv hais, nom tswv nrauj yus ces nom tswv deev yus pojniam xwb.
Tau zoo poj tsis yuav tau zoo txiv tsis tuav thaum kawg thiaj tau kua muag es thov kom nej sib2 hlub os zaj nuav mas tim tus txiv xwb nawb
Nevvvvv, paub tsis paub os txiv neej hmoob na ! Lis kuv hais hais os, cias qrhov khuv xim xwb zoo dua qrhov nyob es koj tsis hlub no ne. Txiv neej lub hlwb hmoob ces tseem zoo lis thaum ub xwb os. Nyuam qrhuav txim xwb os. Hope tus neeg txiav plaub ntug ntawv npam nawb.
Cov niag txiv Neej kuag Kab kuag hlau ..tsab ntse ..ces yeej coj lus tsis tus li...cuab lub dag li dag ...lub neej thiaj puas tas....leej twg tau tus txiv siab phem li ntawd ces lub neej yeej kawg Tawg
Poj niam ua hluas ces txiv neej coj mus hais tom kwv tij coj mus hais tom neej tsa hos txiv neej ua hluas ces poj niam cover txhob hais no lod. Ua li tsis ncaj lawm. Tsis hais ces luag kwv luag tij yuav hais tias lawv tus neeg ua txhuam cas hos tsis hais lawv kho es hos mus tom hom tswv mekas. Kuv hais rau nej os thawm twg ib tug neeg tsis tsheej haj tsis xav ua neeg zoo lawm ces tag lawm...hais hais ntuj poob kiag los yeej hloov tsis tau lub siab ces yeej yuav ua kom lub neej tawg xwb thiaj tag. Mus counseling los pab tsis tau os yuav tsum yog tus neeg ntawm hloov siab xav ua neeg zoo thiaj li work. Nyias hais nyias xwb thiaj tau.
Coj lub neej rau kwv tij ntuas is ok. Qhov teeb meem ces yog koj tus txiv khib dhau lawm xwb
Yep, txheej tshiab no tsis work lawm os.
He learned a valuable lesson but a costly one. He didn't deserve his ex. She is better off w/o him. He had no ball, depending his life on what others decided. Txiv neej hmoob ces cia khuv xim li no thiaj paub. Cov neeg ruam, cas nej pheej xav tias kwvtij neej tsa yuav hais tau na?
Tus poj niam yeem mus ua ib tug txiv neej twg tus niam yau thiab ib nkawm niam txiv twg yeem rau kwv tij ntuas nyob tib qhov position. Ntawv twb vim yog txoj kev ua neej cia li tws kev hlo lawm. Tus poj niam cia li pos muag nti thiab ntsaws pob ntseg mus koom nrog lwm tus poj niam ua ib lub neej. Hos nkawm niam txiv lub neej yeej plws tsis tau qhov phem tawm mus li lawm ces nkawv thiaj cia rau kwv tij paub txog.
Damn your husband did his ex wife dirty. He did it to himself.
Tsis yog tim neej tsa na....tim koj niag txiv ruam taub hau loj hlwb rwj xwb txhob liam rau neej tsa....koj niag txiv muaj muaj plhu iab liam ntxo ntau ntau neej tsa mloog lawv niag ntxhais phem ces neej tsa nrauj xwb....tu phem tsis yog neej tsa nawb yog koj niag txiv ntag lau...tos nws tsis muaj plhu rov mus ntsib nws tu qub poj niam na....koj twb yog muaj hmoo zoo es nws ua yuav kev lawm nws thiaj li hlub koj nawb....koj yog nws thawj tug poj niam ces koj mag kiag li nws tu qub poj niam ntag hos
Ntuj teb awh
Hmoob thauv mas phem tiag tiag
Phim xab maim no cov poj niam ua hluas hla hlo xwb os
Kuv mas dhuav qhov uas pheej coj yus lub neej mus rau kwv tij hais. It not the kwv tij business to know your marriage issue. Make sure u find the truth before divorce. I hate gossip in hmong community.