What’s really scary in this dystopian world is that there are people who will prey on the fact you care about them. They will exhaust you, have no desire for betterment, appreciation or reciprocity.
Here are my main problems as a 38 year old adult man, Ive always been a loner so Ive never been able to make friends nor social connections ever in life. People just have never liked me and ive nit liked them either. My blood family is now largely deceased with my parents now near 80 years old as they had me late in their lives, my dad has heart failure. I never developed any work experience or skills due to not able to be hired much of anywhere and my writing against the US government caused me to be prosecuted and I became a felon and in the US, a felony means it is practically impossible to be hired anywhere. So i have not worked any job in over a decade. Also as I mentioned in another video on this channel, Im chronically ill dealing with symptoms each day since 2020. Ive never bothered to have a family due to my introverted personality and ive never felt any attraction to women, im gay and I was brought up in a religious anti gay family so i just stayed closeted for many years. It seems as i approach 40 as a man, i am facing the cliff of no family, no friends, no social support system, alone, no love life ever due to not being hetero, chronically ill with an undiagnosed disease, and unemployable for life. Yikes. As a child, we fear monsters under the bed, but as an adult the scarier true things to fear are ending up all alone, uncared for or unloved, and no means to support ourselves in a cruel cold world that does not give a you know what about us as individuals.
Thank you for the comment. I think you have to try and just find something that you enjoy doing. You could always work autonomously online teaching English or another skill that people need and seek. I personally enjoy doing things alone for the most part and I was never like this. I felt that in order to have fun and do things, there had to be someone with me which is not true. The world is cruel to all of us in many ways, some worse than others but we what can we do except search for the little pleasures and just go along for the ride. I hope what I said helps even a little but not sure because I am not in your position so I wouldn't really know how it feels to be you. Stay strong and good luck!
I think one of the most traumatizing things is the lack of collective interest in individual survival. No reciprocity. People say your survival & well being is a sole responsibility, that’s basically saying people don’t care if you suffer & die. It goes against our origins as a species caring about our tribe. Independence is good but abandonment is not. Not asking to be babied, just it would be nice if people cared about my life continuing instead of it all being on me.
My brother,my name is David I am a new sub of yours and I got your back in ways beyond both of us....your words resonate in my soul and my brother listen please to my honest words to you...the WAY OUT IS IN...your Soul is your "hidin manual"...the WAY OUT IS IN...
Proverbs, in the Bible is a good book to learn about wisdom, it was written by King Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived (besides Jesus). Fortunately, I was brought up in a strong God-fearing church & attended every Sunday & even during the week a lot of the time from age 8-12. I received a firm moral foundation that kept me from self-destructing, young children have brains of mush & can easily be molded, so it's a good idea for Parents to provide a moral foundation. Learning about the 10 Commandments, treating others as you would like to be treated, loving & being kind to everybody, forgiving others who take advantage of you & not holding grudges was vital principals for me to live by. I always knew in the back of my mind that one-day I would be Judged by my creator because he gave me conscience to know the difference between right & wrong. That's how you know there's a God, because we (humans) suffer guilt when we violate one of the 10 Commandments & are keenly aware of our mortality unlike animals who don't have self-awareness.
This life is demonic and forces people to obey or else, or else you starve, or else you’ll be broke, or else you won’t be able to drive a car.. it always dangles consequences over your head and I hate it
to me i kinda think Tupac Shakur pretty much got it right when he said it's just me against the world, most people sometimes even including your own folks will do so little for you even from day one (even when they could have done so much more but they intentionally chose not to) and then they'll just sit back watch you and say well I told you he won't amount to much, simply put you're on your own in this life and you got no one you can trust, thx.
Parents and society dont even really talk on the real issues such as sex education many such topics are considered taboo in the society 😢 Talk about teen pregnancy rate 😳
I have a question dont mind if I ask,.. Did you have savings before you moved to Brazil or did you just in the spur of the moment moved there. Im thinking of moving to a country but I need to know how much to save to move there, Thankyou.. BTW I love your videos
Thank you for the support. And yes, I had quite a bit of savings before I made the move. I would say minimum 10K depending on the country of course. It is very important to plan well before you make the move. Hope that helps.
If the Universe made an instruction manual,,, Would humanity really follow it? Does humanity really seek repose? Or does it what excites? Like; Violence War Sex Danger Luxury Riches Power Humans are easily bored,,, The Universe of course,,, Does not notice humanity,,,, And does not care,,,, Therefore; Everything is exactly as it WILLS
Definitely no instructional manual in my back pocket and you certainly don't get to pick your "born into" lifestyle such as silver spooned, middle class working stiff (the majority), or professional welfare sponging off the system. It's a cruel world pretty much from day one :/, just got to make the best of it and roll with the punches.
I try to detach myelf emotiannly from this hell realm, while being thankful for the things I have.
Most parents fail at being guides & guardians. They have children irresponsibly.
@ yes between them and the people who intentionally have children. 🧒
yes and they think after the kids are here that is so selfish now the kid is doomed to live a life of pain and suffering
@@20maxilo yeah, they have children to satisfy themselves. People think children will make their lives better.
They don't even teach sex
You can manifest anything you want, if your parents are loaded.
Life up until 15 years of age was beautiful, the 80's was the best time for me on this planet, after that a living nightmare I am now 46. UK
@@RICHY8791 Yeah I agree. Growing up as a child was good times but things have gotten harder and just plain worse.
Life has an instruction manual if your parents were rich.
@@recyclinggestapo6943 And are capable and not idiots.
What’s really scary in this dystopian world is that there are people who will prey on the fact you care about them. They will exhaust you, have no desire for betterment, appreciation or reciprocity.
YOU'RE JUST AMAZING-- A NATURAL PHILOSOPHER. SERIOUSLY. YOU'RE AMAZING!!
Thank you but I am just a guy that sees the world for what it really is.
Here are my main problems as a 38 year old adult man, Ive always been a loner so Ive never been able to make friends nor social connections ever in life. People just have never liked me and ive nit liked them either. My blood family is now largely deceased with my parents now near 80 years old as they had me late in their lives, my dad has heart failure. I never developed any work experience or skills due to not able to be hired much of anywhere and my writing against the US government caused me to be prosecuted and I became a felon and in the US, a felony means it is practically impossible to be hired anywhere. So i have not worked any job in over a decade. Also as I mentioned in another video on this channel, Im chronically ill dealing with symptoms each day since 2020. Ive never bothered to have a family due to my introverted personality and ive never felt any attraction to women, im gay and I was brought up in a religious anti gay family so i just stayed closeted for many years. It seems as i approach 40 as a man, i am facing the cliff of no family, no friends, no social support system, alone, no love life ever due to not being hetero, chronically ill with an undiagnosed disease, and unemployable for life. Yikes. As a child, we fear monsters under the bed, but as an adult the scarier true things to fear are ending up all alone, uncared for or unloved, and no means to support ourselves in a cruel cold world that does not give a you know what about us as individuals.
Thank you for the comment. I think you have to try and just find something that you enjoy doing. You could always work autonomously online teaching English or another skill that people need and seek. I personally enjoy doing things alone for the most part and I was never like this. I felt that in order to have fun and do things, there had to be someone with me which is not true. The world is cruel to all of us in many ways, some worse than others but we what can we do except search for the little pleasures and just go along for the ride. I hope what I said helps even a little but not sure because I am not in your position so I wouldn't really know how it feels to be you. Stay strong and good luck!
One thing I have learned is that there is very little help,and to plan accordingly 😔
People say your survival is on you but they are more than willing to expect & accept you caring about their survival & well being. Irony
I think one of the most traumatizing things is the lack of collective interest in individual survival. No reciprocity. People say your survival & well being is a sole responsibility, that’s basically saying people don’t care if you suffer & die.
It goes against our origins as a species caring about our tribe.
Independence is good but abandonment is not.
Not asking to be babied, just it would be nice if people cared about my life continuing instead of it all being on me.
Totally agree 😊
My brother,my name is David I am a new sub of yours and I got your back in ways beyond both of us....your words resonate in my soul and my brother listen please to my honest words to you...the WAY OUT IS IN...your Soul is your "hidin manual"...the WAY OUT IS IN...
I'm just basically living only to see if something good happens.
Me too! Let's hang in there.
life is a tragedy like shakespeare said it... No way out of this .. But the good news is that it will end
It's harder to find a job and you always need family
The only thing one can do is just do the best you can. Whatever happens just happens sooner or later one will be out of here for good.
Life is pick a skill, become a master of it and then monetize it 😂
Life is the ultimate hunger game & clown show 🤡🤡🤣
Life is death and death is life 💔 😪
Proverbs, in the Bible is a good book to learn about wisdom, it was written by King Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived (besides Jesus). Fortunately, I was brought up in a strong God-fearing church & attended every Sunday & even during the week a lot of the time from age 8-12.
I received a firm moral foundation that kept me from self-destructing, young children have brains of mush & can easily be molded, so it's a good idea for Parents to provide a moral foundation.
Learning about the 10 Commandments, treating others as you would like to be treated, loving & being kind to everybody, forgiving others who take advantage of you & not holding grudges was vital principals for me to live by. I always knew in the back of my mind that one-day I would be Judged by my creator because he gave me conscience to know the difference between right & wrong. That's how you know there's a God, because we (humans) suffer guilt when we violate one of the 10 Commandments & are keenly aware of our mortality unlike animals who don't have self-awareness.
Sure the bible teaches loads of truths bombs but God on many occasions is very ruthless & egotistical. Ps I’m a Christian too.
As long as you are a good person and this makes you happy, then that is all that matters.
@@Francis_UD This is why I cannot subscribe to the bible 100%
Getting older sucks society sucks family sucks friendship sucks no real deep connection life is so superficial 😢
This life is demonic and forces people to obey or else, or else you starve, or else you’ll be broke, or else you won’t be able to drive a car.. it always dangles consequences over your head and I hate it
Big time! I think I'll talk about this in a future video.
to me i kinda think Tupac Shakur pretty much got it right when he said it's just me against the world, most people sometimes even including your own folks will do so little for you even from day one (even when they could have done so much more but they intentionally chose not to) and then they'll just sit back watch you and say well I told you he won't amount to much, simply put you're on your own in this life and you got no one you can trust, thx.
Tupac was an intelligent man and got rubbed out because he did not go along with the "club".
Facts fam
there is a guide book but a lot of people ignore it
The bible
@@patrickbooten9149 The Bible is flawed as it was written by man.
@@RedPillOption nah not the bible
Child trauma is a real thing no one talks about mental health
It's very real
Parents and society dont even really talk on the real issues such as sex education many such topics are considered taboo in the society 😢
Talk about teen pregnancy rate 😳
I have a question dont mind if I ask,.. Did you have savings before you moved to Brazil or did you just in the spur of the moment moved there. Im thinking of moving to a country but I need to know how much to save to move there, Thankyou.. BTW I love your videos
Thank you for the support. And yes, I had quite a bit of savings before I made the move. I would say minimum 10K depending on the country of course. It is very important to plan well before you make the move. Hope that helps.
@@RedPillOption Thankyou :)
Many women still think kissing makes them pregnant 😂 a guy killed her own lil sister while first period 😢
That is mental.
If the Universe made an instruction manual,,,
Would humanity really follow it?
Does humanity really seek repose?
Or does it what excites?
Like;
Violence
War
Sex
Danger
Luxury
Riches
Power
Humans are easily bored,,,
The Universe of course,,,
Does not notice humanity,,,,
And does not care,,,,
Therefore;
Everything is exactly as it WILLS
Definitely no instructional manual in my back pocket and you certainly don't get to pick your "born into" lifestyle such as silver spooned, middle class working stiff (the majority), or professional welfare sponging off the system. It's a cruel world pretty much from day one :/, just got to make the best of it and roll with the punches.
That is all we can really do is roll with the punches.
There are no guarantees, yet people still talk in a way they know the things that you have to do.
Absolutely no guarantees in this life.