this is mad dumb. You guys only wonna see the negative stuff. Go on tiktok, and there's white people saying you're invited to the picnic and vise versa. When it comes to racial stuff I think a lot of black americans are just problematic for no reason
Kez “black americans are just problematic for no reason?” AA are literally murdered by white cops everyday for no reason (Ahmaud Arbery, Breanna Jones and multiple others) but they’re the problematic ones? Just because one white person on TIKTOK said you’re invited to the picnic doesn’t mean that racism isn’t still a huge deal.
and i don’t know why they keep doing that. this is the second time they moved the comments like this.... no ones likes this update man. they are about to be the downfall of their own app.
unpopular opinion : these tiktokers that say the n-word know exactly what they’re saying and apologize only because they get backlash not because they’re really sorry. if black kids are aware of what the word means at a young age why should white kids and teenagers be held at a different standard?
Vanessa cus if I was going around saying cracker or white trailer park trash every white person would be coming at my throat. The kkk might be knocking at my door the next minute.💀 Edit: before anyone tries to come at me no I don’t say either of those things. But that’s what I heard some people refer to.
i do agree colorism is worse than rascism because imagine you're supposed to feel safe within YOUR race then others in the race want to start discriminating against you. you can't end rascism if you don't end colorism.
nah people shouldn't be having kids while they're poor. i grew up with 4/5 other siblings and neither of my parents had the means to raise that many kids and i was deprived of many experiences due to our financial situations
Who from new york even thinks that(can someone explain). I feel like there is a difference from being proud of where you come from and think its a personality trait. The same thing can be said about people from like cali or something
Unpopular opinions: 1. We need to stop attacking people and listen to what they have to say even if they are wrong because the only way we and they learn is by looking at different perspectives. 2. people who mature faster shouldn't be praised because majority of the time they were forced to become mature. 3. potatoes is the best part of the seafood boil 4. not everything needs to be sugar coated and if you get straight to the point there is no room for assumptions. 5. kids are able to have their own opinions b/c its doesn't always come from someone else and in the end they are their own person. (sorry this is so much i'm very opinionated.)
rockelle browne i get what you’re saying with the it being a system but i don’t think that they’re one in the same. i think colorism has more to do with self hatred more than anything else because whether you have dark skin or lighter skin, you’re black🤷🏾♀️
Exactly!!! This dumb ass went after me on Instagram and that’s all he kept saying. “You females, you hoes, guys don’t want y’all” so I just told him to find him a guy who thinks just like him and stop coming after women if you don’t like us
Unpopular opinion: Just because you say "I'm sorry" that doesn't make it all better. Without proof of growth from a mistake, you should remain unforgiven(or forgiven but your mistake shouldn't be forgotten.)
@@cryptical1210 Looking at the Bl@ck space... This becomes UNPOPULAR. Most BP (with no sense...) will just forgive (non bl@ck) people from CRAZY situations that they put us through/do, it baffles me...never~
going off of someone’s comment in the video: doing the bare minimum and just acknowledge black peoples experiences doesn’t mean you are apart of the black community, or invited to the cookout. People shouldn’t be praised for that, it should be an expectation ?
Richkillz I’m not talking about people who were homophobic and realized it was wrong later on I’m talking about people who use their religion today as an excuse to hate gay people.
Richkillz that’s also what i was told but you chose to believe that... you can’t say that these people are wrong but at the same time all people are gods children and he loves them all.. so i chose to love everyone. you made that choice to be homophobic. idc
Not Janaiya AGREE I’m not Asian/Hispanics but my friends literally almost crying cause they have a B low key pisses me off. Cause their parent 99% of the time told them B= bad which is not the case.
I can’t say that black parents are toxic cause I’m hispanic but I feel like minority/immigrant parents are a lot stricter on their kids and expect a lot from them without realizing how their expectations can harm their children mentally which creates a toxic environment
To say a white person can't have a black babies or a black person can't have white babies is kinda ridiculous You can love yo child no matter what color
here's one, if you have to compare anti-hispanic, anti-asian, etc.. racism to black racism. (ex: "but if someone said the n-word you guys would be mad/if this was a black person it would get more attention"), youre anti-black.
I think black americans need to stop being so bothered by everything or you'll never progress. Especially with the n word, it's really toxic and to expect every non black person in the world to not say it is crazy (especially when you popularize it even more on tiktok for ex). You guys are only asking for failure sometimes, and should not be worried about a word but more serious things like black american success, lower income areas, and education/highschool dropout rate)
Kez it’s not crazy at all or toxic to ask people to not use *racial slurs* (not just some simple word) with atrocious history behind them, what an idiotic statement. We are sick of having to “get over it” just so everyone else feels more comfortable in their own racist skin. We’ve been doing that for centuries. Us being tired of racism isn’t hindering progress, it’s the racism itself. And there’s been plenty of progress in spite of and in the midst of racist behaviors so that notion doesn’t even make sense.
Kez Kez it's crazy how people who are not black can't just respect other people and not say the word. Of course, you want black Americans to stop being ”bothered” so people like you can continue being Ignorant in this world
Forever Sisters they just said it’s prejudice 🤦🏾♀️ it’s like the same thing as racism but with being prejudice it’s a black person (minority) being discriminatory to a white person
Honestly I think the only requirement there should be is: don't abuse your child. I don't think the other things you listed really matter and I'm not sure how any of those things would be tested or what the standard would be. There are plenty of people out there who can't tell you what 12 x 12 is or who are living paycheck to paycheck, but are the most caring parents in the world. I would pick the environment I grew up in (poor immigrant parents that barely spoke english) rather than an environment w/ some rich, smart people because I learned a lot from the struggles and it shaped me to who I am today. Plus idk how the government would even regulate that. They can't even get CPS, public schools, or the foster care system down.
@Saish. because then the kids could be raised in a safe enviroment. If not, it could really mess with a child's head and turn them into somebody nobody wants and it would all be the parents' fault for that.
Kids just need love, many kids raised in poverty turned out alright as long as they have enough to live and have their parents guidlines, morals, and love.
I feel like people who are gonna be poor their whole life shouldn’t have kids because you should want your kids to grow up with the best life possible and the best opportunities/Experiences and just overall happiness. You can’t really make sure of that when you’re poor or struggling to make ends meet and also I almost ONLY see black people on my for you page so it really depends on the videos you like.
Best comment. That's why other races children are usually successful. I think the black american lifestyle really needs improvement/stronger values, and going to college and even getting higher education needs to be a dorm. Everyone is rooting for black americans, but they have to pave the way for themselves
Unpopular opinion: I actually agree with the last one because during the quarantine I really got to work on myself more and tbh life was getting stress as hell b4 we went on lockdown
I actually do happen to think that romantic relationships are overrated. While yes, humans need to form bonds with others in order to thrive (as we are social creatures), oftentimes being in a relationship or having a boo is glorified on social media and little light is shed on how actually challenging/frustrating/hurtful they can be. You are making yourself extremely vulnerable to someone, and many a time from this heartbreak ensues. It also seems that many people are in a constant state of waiting for a relationship. And in a sense basically waiting for their lives to start, for someone to come into their lives and bring them happiness instead of finding their own joy & coming to love and understand themselves. So in sum: being single is under appreciated
‘Colorist is worst than a racist’ well they both go hand and hand in this goes off ur personal life experience. I’m dark skinned so I AGREE! lol but maybe black ppl with different skin complexions and experiences don’t, and that’s whatever
Im a Christian and I was NEVER taught that gays were going to hell 🤦🏾♀️ ppl pick and choose how they’re religion goes as a Christian child I was taught that god loves everyone 🙄 RELIGION IS NO EXCUSE TO HOMOPHOBIA half y’all don’t even believe in god
“why r we glorifying communicating?” yessss! thank you! 👏🏽 couldn’t have said better. I’m so sick of the phrase “talking stage”. the only reason I’ve used it in the past is because if i tell someone I’m dating, they think I’m in a relationship or someone’s girlfriend 🤦🏽♀️
The colorist is worse than racism part is actually true. Because it's one thing when other races are being racist towards you, but it's ANOTHER thing when its YOUR OWN RACE.
I'm sorry but if you think white people should not be able to adopt black kids then you're being ridiculous. You might well just say "No one can adopt anyone from a race other than their own" Which is also ridiculous. The foster care system is so bad now a days, if someone is willing to adopt someone and give them a loving home, missing out on some of their original culture, is a sad thing, but it is a much better alternative. Also, there ways for black people who were adopted by white families to still be in black culture. There are also white families who try to show their adopted black children black culture also.
Totally agree they should also maybe have a friend who shares the same race as the child so the child has someone to talk about some of the experiences someone of their race might go through and also have a role that looks like them
I know right!!! A lot of my family is unable to have kids so I have an adopted aunt, 6 adopted cousins, and tons of adopted second cousins. My family has people of every race and even people from different countries. I think it's ignorant to say that people shouldn't be able to adopt outside of their race, bc a lot of people do a great job raising their adopted children with their birth culture. I know that my family keeps their native languages alive and makes sure that they feel completely normal and comfortable. Not only is this giving these children a loving home, but it's giving my family who can't have kids the opportunity to have the kids that they've always dreamed of. It's not that they're saying, "I want black children," in fact in many adoptions, the birth mother picks the family that she thinks is the best fit. Overall, I think that more people should look into adoption because it's a great option for so many people!
They can adopt a white baby. There are far too many obstacles that White people cannot understand in a Black person’s life, and there is no amount of research or good intent that will change that. The high percentage of White moms with mixed biological children that don’t even take the time to learn how to do their damn hair is proof of that disconnect.
tharealtrilla So you're saying that my aunt and uncle should wait years to adopt a white child while mixed race children are sitting in an orphanage? She has 2 adopted girls who are half black and she does an amazing job of taking care of their hair. My uncle is actually Filipino so amazingly enough they actually look like a biological family. But I guess they should still be in an orphanage because my aunt and uncle aren't black and white, they're Filipino and white and therefore are not fit to raise mixed race children in a loving home.
yes and I think that opinion also disrespects all of the amazing white moms who adopted black children and are trying their best to give them a great life, just like any other good parents. My neighbors have multiple black children and they are so loved from what I have seen!
Amina Lays. It’s a really good sandwich place. They have a lot of food options. Sandwiches, soups, salads, I believe pizza as well. If you have one in your area I would check it out. www.schlotzskys.com
unpopular opinion: everyone makes mistakes but that doesn't mean everyone has good intentions, and even if you regret doing something now doesn't mean you still shouldn't face the consequences
the only reason i think prostitution should be illegal is cause it makes sex trafficking easier. if someone gets arrested for prostitution they might get saved from that. idk talk to me in the comments
Unpopular Opinions: Just because you're not blunt doesn't mean you are 'scared' or 'sugar coat' things. Just because you grew up with a culture other than your own (like a black person growing up with Korean culture) doesn't mean you have self hate or you're trying to be a different race other than your own.
Unpopular opinion: people need to stop getting so pressed over an imaginary cookout. It's not happening so you shouldn't care who's invited. Even if it was real, you can't tell me who I can and can't invite to MY cookout.
I get the relationships are overrated they are unless it’s meant to be. Like earlier in it it said DONT chase love and when you don’t.. it’ll come to you, than it’ll be worth it
Unpopular opinions are like a bomb. Things just explode when you let them loose. Im not sure if its fear that makes people avoid them, probably moreso they dont want to waste all the time and energy it takes to defend them. So instead they surround themselves with like minded people in order to feel vindicated
unpopular opinion: Melanie is wasting her talent when she could've sang songs that actually make sense. I would totally listen to her if she didn't sing about dolls.
the sad thing about the gay history being taught in schools thing is that when it is to the slightest, or when they talk about pride month, then people wanna say how teachers / society is "forcing our kids to be gay" like what....
I saw someone say this and I totally agree. ‘Talking is for teens who aren’t able to go on dates”. Basically meaning talking to someone online and getting to know them. People who involve relationship things in it are dating not talking
I felt the comet that says toxic parents are worse than absent ones because I really was just thinking about that not too long ago. Because if they're absent the child is most likely with another guardian are adult that's not toxic. Still not good. Maybe they can also be toxic. But when you have toxic parents ur trapped with them for years
i was the one who said “greek life is shallow” and i totally agree! i meant the process to get in to greek life is shallow. but it can do good things. to each their own.
i liked as soon as she said “you don’t see white people inviting black people to the...golf course”
Same
Naomi Kristiona 😳i got invited to the country club once
this is mad dumb. You guys only wonna see the negative stuff. Go on tiktok, and there's white people saying you're invited to the picnic and vise versa. When it comes to racial stuff I think a lot of black americans are just problematic for no reason
Kez “black americans are just problematic for no reason?” AA are literally murdered by white cops everyday for no reason (Ahmaud Arbery, Breanna Jones and multiple others) but they’re the problematic ones? Just because one white person on TIKTOK said you’re invited to the picnic doesn’t mean that racism isn’t still a huge deal.
@@Usthereout who cares about a stupid picnic?!
Unpopular opinion: The fact that RUclips moved the comment section is absolutely low.
I hate the update.
Does anyone actually like the new placement?
mine hasn’t updated yet
and i don’t know why they keep doing that. this is the second time they moved the comments like this.... no ones likes this update man. they are about to be the downfall of their own app.
SPILL tHE TeA SIS no..
unpopular opinion: we need to be more honest and say what we’re feeling and kai isn’t disrespectful and outta pocket
Unpopular opinion the office has a lot of problematic Shit in it
@@rebeccadueck9534 how does this have anything to do with the original comment
She in the pocket like a church drummer
Rebecca Dueck yeah that was the point of the show. A problematic office
unpopular opinion : these tiktokers that say the n-word know exactly what they’re saying and apologize only because they get backlash not because they’re really sorry. if black kids are aware of what the word means at a young age why should white kids and teenagers be held at a different standard?
Vanessa cus if I was going around saying cracker or white trailer park trash every white person would be coming at my throat. The kkk might be knocking at my door the next minute.💀
Edit: before anyone tries to come at me no I don’t say either of those things. But that’s what I heard some people refer to.
HHeyy I just met you and this is crrazy but here's my chaannel so sûbscribe maybe 🦒
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@@manicpixie6327 stfu this is not the time to be promoting your trash ass channel tf..
Not an opinion, a fact
i do agree colorism is worse than rascism because imagine you're supposed to feel safe within YOUR race then others in the race want to start discriminating against you. you can't end rascism if you don't end colorism.
Unpopular opinions: RUclips couple pranks are fake and unoriginal like how fake can you go just just to get a check
I thought this was pretty popular and well known 🤔
Nesa West exactly. If you do pranks everyday, what makes you think nobody will catch on?
Ive literally heard this everywhere hehocnejxjxkd
Yet 8yr olds still think it's real
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
nah people shouldn't be having kids while they're poor. i grew up with 4/5 other siblings and neither of my parents had the means to raise that many kids and i was deprived of many experiences due to our financial situations
@@Usthereout why black Americans? 🙄
Kez why do they have to be black? 🖕🏾 I see more white hobos on the street then us
maiya ' it can be any race, but I’m talking about from my experiences
So true!! People don’t need to be having kids if they don’t have the financial means.
That’s what happened to my grandma. She had 8 kids. This was back in the 70s. My mom didn’t know about college; her parents never told her about it.
Unpopular Opinion: Being from New York is not a personality trait.
Who from new york even thinks that(can someone explain). I feel like there is a difference from being proud of where you come from and think its a personality trait. The same thing can be said about people from like cali or something
No New Yorker ever thinks that 😭 you must of confused us with the Floridians or Californians
none of us think that 😭 we just proud
I completely agree
DontCallMe Rachel as a New Yorker.. we are just proud if anything. And don’t think that lmao .
Unpopular opinion: it shouldn’t matter what someone’s music taste is like. Not everyone likes indie music and background artists.
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That is so true
Unpopular opinions:
1. We need to stop attacking people and listen to what they have to say even if they are wrong because the only way we and they learn is by looking at different perspectives.
2. people who mature faster shouldn't be praised because majority of the time they were forced to become mature.
3. potatoes is the best part of the seafood boil
4. not everything needs to be sugar coated and if you get straight to the point there is no room for assumptions.
5. kids are able to have their own opinions b/c its doesn't always come from someone else and in the end they are their own person.
(sorry this is so much i'm very opinionated.)
Yooo potatoes in a seafood boil YES
yesss the potatoes NEVER disappoint
Yesss i stand with everything you just said ❤️!!
These opinions! Yess
It something bout that corn tho 😩🙌🏼
“you don’t see white people inviting black people to the.....golf course” lmaoooo 😭
Also I see more colorists now a days than I see racists 🤷🏽♀️
What I’m saying
colorism is a symptom of racism its really one in the same
They’re not afraid to show it
Aint that the truth...
rockelle browne i get what you’re saying with the it being a system but i don’t think that they’re one in the same. i think colorism has more to do with self hatred more than anything else because whether you have dark skin or lighter skin, you’re black🤷🏾♀️
sis is here to entertain us during times like this 🙏🏽
Fr ✊🏾
Pretty privilege is REALLLL
Not really, for like one thing, dating, but that's literally it
We already knew this since the beginning of time
Celmarble not true people are more open and give more sympathy towards you when you are pretty
@@myristicina. Again that's not a privilege...
Celmarble it’s definitely a privilege, idk how you couldn’t see that
Tbh every time a guy says “female” there’s always something derogatory to come after it 🙄
Exactly!!! This dumb ass went after me on Instagram and that’s all he kept saying. “You females, you hoes, guys don’t want y’all” so I just told him to find him a guy who thinks just like him and stop coming after women if you don’t like us
Shadi Exactly! And they’re insecure about it so they attack everyone .
in YOUR experiences lmao
10,000 subs with no content ? Ok pick me
some of the boys in your reply’s are pressed 😔
Unpopular opinion: Just because you say "I'm sorry" that doesn't make it all better. Without proof of growth from a mistake, you should remain unforgiven(or forgiven but your mistake shouldn't be forgotten.)
That’s actually a very popular opinion
@@cryptical1210 Looking at the Bl@ck space... This becomes UNPOPULAR. Most BP (with no sense...) will just forgive (non bl@ck) people from CRAZY situations that they put us through/do, it baffles me...never~
I think people dislike you because you are introspective. Often times having a strong sense of self is seen as being narcissistic.
I never looked at it like this :)
Yeah just the other day I was called a condescending prick for being "confident."
going off of someone’s comment in the video: doing the bare minimum and just acknowledge black peoples experiences doesn’t mean you are apart of the black community, or invited to the cookout. People shouldn’t be praised for that, it should be an expectation ?
I disagree. It's good to give it recognition because not a lot of other people of color know what black americans go through.
religion isn’t an excuse to be homophobic. period.
Richkillz no it’s not.
Richkillz I’m not talking about people who were homophobic and realized it was wrong later on I’m talking about people who use their religion today as an excuse to hate gay people.
@Richkillz yup same here...i was the same way in hs but not anymore now
Richkillz that’s also what i was told but you chose to believe that... you can’t say that these people are wrong but at the same time all people are gods children and he loves them all.. so i chose to love everyone. you made that choice to be homophobic. idc
Religion is the worst.
jail for the person who said rihanna isnt talented.
She isn't a good singer. Amazing person and performer. But if we are judging on vocals it's a no for me.
Danyelle Jones no.
electric chair
@@DANNYTHEFROG123 yeah....no
Danyelle Jones Powerhouse vocals doesn’t matter tho🤷🏿
I’ll invite everyone to the golf course
Lmaooooo let's go
Unpopular Opinion: Minority parents are some of the most toxic parents
minority parents period
Not Janaiya AGREE I’m not Asian/Hispanics but my friends literally almost crying cause they have a B low key pisses me off. Cause their parent 99% of the time told them B= bad which is not the case.
I can’t say that black parents are toxic cause I’m hispanic but I feel like minority/immigrant parents are a lot stricter on their kids and expect a lot from them without realizing how their expectations can harm their children mentally which creates a toxic environment
@@notjanaiya8617
Aight. I changed it to make it make more sense.
this was loudddddddd
Girl we would get arrested as soon as we step foot on the golf course😭
Fr, we be looking suspicious👀
@@astoldbyjada367 real sus 👀
Sheiit👀
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Unpopular opinion: Christians are not that judgmental, there is just a lot of us and the rude ones are the loudest
SAY 👏 IT 👏 LOUDER 👏 FOR 👏 THE 👏 PEOPLE 👏 IN👏 THE 👏 BACK
thank you
OMG TY
Thank you!!!
PERIODT
Unpopular opinion: couple channels generally can strain relationships but when you at pranks you’re just waiting for a huge fuck up🤷♀️
I wonder if hurting your partner emotionally for views is worth it
couples channels should generally just not exist
To say a white person can't have a black babies or a black person can't have white babies is kinda ridiculous
You can love yo child no matter what color
Exactly, just make sure you teach your child from a different culture their culture, or learn it with them, and show them your culture too of course.
That’s actually a racist statement
Unpopular opinion: Not all Christians are judgment there is 2 billion of us and the rudest are the loudest
Exactly. Say it louder pls!
Yes ma’am ‼️💜
here's one, if you have to compare anti-hispanic, anti-asian, etc.. racism to black racism. (ex: "but if someone said the n-word you guys would be mad/if this was a black person it would get more attention"), youre anti-black.
I agree
I think black americans need to stop being so bothered by everything or you'll never progress. Especially with the n word, it's really toxic and to expect every non black person in the world to not say it is crazy (especially when you popularize it even more on tiktok for ex). You guys are only asking for failure sometimes, and should not be worried about a word but more serious things like black american success, lower income areas, and education/highschool dropout rate)
Kez it’s not crazy at all or toxic to ask people to not use *racial slurs* (not just some simple word) with atrocious history behind them, what an idiotic statement. We are sick of having to “get over it” just so everyone else feels more comfortable in their own racist skin. We’ve been doing that for centuries. Us being tired of racism isn’t hindering progress, it’s the racism itself. And there’s been plenty of progress in spite of and in the midst of racist behaviors so that notion doesn’t even make sense.
Kez its really not your place to tell us how to feel. but thanks for the commentary. just stop saying it i didnt know it was difficult 😹
Kez Kez it's crazy how people who are not black can't just respect other people and not say the word. Of course, you want black Americans to stop being ”bothered” so people like you can continue being Ignorant in this world
unpopular opinion: being a racist person isn't determined by what race you are, it's determined by whether or not you are racist.
Very true. I don't agree with the terms, " if you're white you're racist" and " black people can't be racist."
@@ticheri16 black people can be racist, just not to white people. It's called prejudice
definitely agree, white people arent the only people who can be racist. poc are racist too, but not to the extent of white people
Forever Sisters they just said it’s prejudice 🤦🏾♀️ it’s like the same thing as racism but with being prejudice it’s a black person (minority) being discriminatory to a white person
@@ForeverSisters1234 like I said, it's prejudice. You can't oppress the oppressors
whoever said rihanna isn’t talented can catch these hands 🤷🏽♀️
facts I'd rather be crying my ass off in the Bahamas than stay home and be even closer to the ppl who hurting me
nawt the golf course- we wouldn't even come
bc colorism is more normalized then racism
w h a t
marray lewis yoo , I was supposed to be replying to a whole other comment 💀💀💀
lmao I'm white and i wouldn't go either
Common sense :
There should be requirements to have kids (financial, moral, intellectual, drug test, etc.)
I agree, but the question is what would the standard be? Like morality is messy and so is determining someone's intelligence.
Honestly I think the only requirement there should be is: don't abuse your child. I don't think the other things you listed really matter and I'm not sure how any of those things would be tested or what the standard would be. There are plenty of people out there who can't tell you what 12 x 12 is or who are living paycheck to paycheck, but are the most caring parents in the world. I would pick the environment I grew up in (poor immigrant parents that barely spoke english) rather than an environment w/ some rich, smart people because I learned a lot from the struggles and it shaped me to who I am today.
Plus idk how the government would even regulate that. They can't even get CPS, public schools, or the foster care system down.
@Saish. because then the kids could be raised in a safe enviroment. If not, it could really mess with a child's head and turn them into somebody nobody wants and it would all be the parents' fault for that.
That's a good idea that could be so POORLY executed.
Kids just need love, many kids raised in poverty turned out alright as long as they have enough to live and have their parents guidlines, morals, and love.
High school Musical lied to us,we had to take so many tests.
When she’s a whole vibe
I feel like people who are gonna be poor their whole life shouldn’t have kids because you should want your kids to grow up with the best life possible and the best opportunities/Experiences and just overall happiness. You can’t really make sure of that when you’re poor or struggling to make ends meet and also I almost ONLY see black people on my for you page so it really depends on the videos you like.
That’s classist and detrimental to the socio-economic systems where poverty cycles would continue. Socio-economic mobility is a thing.
Best comment. That's why other races children are usually successful. I think the black american lifestyle really needs improvement/stronger values, and going to college and even getting higher education needs to be a dorm. Everyone is rooting for black americans, but they have to pave the way for themselves
Unpopular opinion: (as a Latina) Latinos shouldn’t say the n-word. Period.
Damn Kai you look so good! What water you drinking!
it's that brita filter!
im living for you and aliyah
I’m also in the camp of not having kids if you’re not financially stable. What has poverty ever done for kids?
‘why are we the only species that pays to be here "
LOL
when she said "I have both" I lost breath for a minute
ikr, when she said that I was like what?? wait a minute..
both what?
@@_Ash0099 toxic and absent parents
Unpopular opinion: I actually agree with the last one because during the quarantine I really got to work on myself more and tbh life was getting stress as hell b4 we went on lockdown
I actually do happen to think that romantic relationships are overrated. While yes, humans need to form bonds with others in order to thrive (as we are social creatures), oftentimes being in a relationship or having a boo is glorified on social media and little light is shed on how actually challenging/frustrating/hurtful they can be. You are making yourself extremely vulnerable to someone, and many a time from this heartbreak ensues.
It also seems that many people are in a constant state of waiting for a relationship. And in a sense basically waiting for their lives to start, for someone to come into their lives and bring them happiness instead of finding their own joy & coming to love and understand themselves.
So in sum: being single is under appreciated
toxic vs absent. when you said you have both whew chile my traumatized ass felt that 🥴
‘Colorist is worst than a racist’ well they both go hand and hand in this goes off ur personal life experience. I’m dark skinned so I AGREE! lol but maybe black ppl with different skin complexions and experiences don’t, and that’s whatever
I agree being hurt by your own race be a different type of hurt
“the golf course” lmaooo
Last time I was this early, corona was just a beer.
I'm stealing this comment
Lmaoo 😂
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😂😂😂😂
“I have both.” I felt that, no clue what’s worse.
Im a Christian and I was NEVER taught that gays were going to hell 🤦🏾♀️ ppl pick and choose how they’re religion goes as a Christian child I was taught that god loves everyone 🙄 RELIGION IS NO EXCUSE TO HOMOPHOBIA half y’all don’t even believe in god
She said "why are we the only species that pays to live here" 😂
are we gonna ignore our good sis' hair, love the hair kai
At this point who wasn't on wattpad or wrote wattapad.
“why r we glorifying communicating?” yessss! thank you! 👏🏽 couldn’t have said better. I’m so sick of the phrase “talking stage”. the only reason I’ve used it in the past is because if i tell someone I’m dating, they think I’m in a relationship or someone’s girlfriend 🤦🏽♀️
The colorist is worse than racism part is actually true. Because it's one thing when other races are being racist towards you, but it's ANOTHER thing when its YOUR OWN RACE.
Right !
I'm sorry but if you think white people should not be able to adopt black kids then you're being ridiculous. You might well just say "No one can adopt anyone from a race other than their own" Which is also ridiculous. The foster care system is so bad now a days, if someone is willing to adopt someone and give them a loving home, missing out on some of their original culture, is a sad thing, but it is a much better alternative. Also, there ways for black people who were adopted by white families to still be in black culture. There are also white families who try to show their adopted black children black culture also.
Totally agree they should also maybe have a friend who shares the same race as the child so the child has someone to talk about some of the experiences someone of their race might go through and also have a role that looks like them
I know right!!! A lot of my family is unable to have kids so I have an adopted aunt, 6 adopted cousins, and tons of adopted second cousins. My family has people of every race and even people from different countries. I think it's ignorant to say that people shouldn't be able to adopt outside of their race, bc a lot of people do a great job raising their adopted children with their birth culture. I know that my family keeps their native languages alive and makes sure that they feel completely normal and comfortable. Not only is this giving these children a loving home, but it's giving my family who can't have kids the opportunity to have the kids that they've always dreamed of. It's not that they're saying, "I want black children," in fact in many adoptions, the birth mother picks the family that she thinks is the best fit. Overall, I think that more people should look into adoption because it's a great option for so many people!
They can adopt a white baby. There are far too many obstacles that White people cannot understand in a Black person’s life, and there is no amount of research or good intent that will change that. The high percentage of White moms with mixed biological children that don’t even take the time to learn how to do their damn hair is proof of that disconnect.
tharealtrilla So you're saying that my aunt and uncle should wait years to adopt a white child while mixed race children are sitting in an orphanage? She has 2 adopted girls who are half black and she does an amazing job of taking care of their hair. My uncle is actually Filipino so amazingly enough they actually look like a biological family. But I guess they should still be in an orphanage because my aunt and uncle aren't black and white, they're Filipino and white and therefore are not fit to raise mixed race children in a loving home.
yes and I think that opinion also disrespects all of the amazing white moms who adopted black children and are trying their best to give them a great life, just like any other good parents. My neighbors have multiple black children and they are so loved from what I have seen!
“the golf course” LMAO i let out my ugly laugh 😭.
I wonder how the normalization of open relationships would affect this generation since everyone so afraid to “catch feelings”
"sweet tea is a sin" took me out
Unpopular opinion: panera bread has the BEST chocolate chip cookies.🍪
Yess they doo
YESSSSS
You haven’t been to Schlotzkys 😂 😂
shamonica stanfield what’s that?
Amina Lays. It’s a really good sandwich place. They have a lot of food options. Sandwiches, soups, salads, I believe pizza as well. If you have one in your area I would check it out.
www.schlotzskys.com
3:00 *IGNORANCE ISN'T AN EXCUSE FOR RACISM*
kai not the gulf course 😂😭😭 nah but fr i agree they not even gon know the two step why they comin to the cookout ??🤣😭
you’re so genuine i really fwy the long way!!
the whole gay history might be taught in american schools, but that ain't touching the Caribbean, ppl down here homophobic and bold with it.
Barely. American history doesn’t even touch the surface of gay history.
unpopular opinion: everyone makes mistakes but that doesn't mean everyone has good intentions, and even if you regret doing something now doesn't mean you still shouldn't face the consequences
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE, TURN IT UPPPP🥳🥳
the only reason i think prostitution should be illegal is cause it makes sex trafficking easier. if someone gets arrested for prostitution they might get saved from that. idk talk to me in the comments
The golf course, I screamed
I would enjoy a video of you talking about the relationship you have with your family, that is of course if you're comfortable with that
popular opinion: Kai you look GORGEOUS 🥺 & i love the hair 😍
Unpopular Opinions:
Just because you're not blunt doesn't mean you are 'scared' or 'sugar coat' things.
Just because you grew up with a culture other than your own (like a black person growing up with Korean culture) doesn't mean you have self hate or you're trying to be a different race other than your own.
And btw them respecting our culture should be our expectations, it should be normal behavior. You don't need a cookie for normal behavior.
"why are we the only species that pays to be here?"
i am questioning my entire existence girl we need to talk about this
Unpopular opinion: people need to stop getting so pressed over an imaginary cookout. It's not happening so you shouldn't care who's invited. Even if it was real, you can't tell me who I can and can't invite to MY cookout.
Ik I’m late, but the main problem lies with the fact that nb people are getting praised for the bare minimum. It’s the gesture
i don’t know what it is but her voice and her calm attitude..it’s just soothing.
No exaggerating, no being extra. She’s just chill...
kai: hulu is better than netflix
me: NEXT CALLER NEXT CALLER cause girl no
I get the relationships are overrated they are unless it’s meant to be. Like earlier in it it said DONT chase love and when you don’t.. it’ll come to you, than it’ll be worth it
Your voice is so soothing and ur videos keep me educated hahaha
I've never watched The Office eitherrrrrrr
Chocolate (the candy, the flavor, but not the men) is TRASH.
Unpopular opinions are like a bomb. Things just explode when you let them loose. Im not sure if its fear that makes people avoid them, probably moreso they dont want to waste all the time and energy it takes to defend them. So instead they surround themselves with like minded people in order to feel vindicated
unpopular opinion: Melanie is wasting her talent when she could've sang songs that actually make sense. I would totally listen to her if she didn't sing about dolls.
the sad thing about the gay history being taught in schools thing is that when it is to the slightest, or when they talk about pride month, then people wanna say how teachers / society is "forcing our kids to be gay" like what....
SOOOOO HAPPY YOURE BACK KAI!!
Thank you for being concise. It’s so annoying to have to listen to an opinion for 5 minutes
Unpopular opinion: New Jersey is the most underrated state
New Jersey is the worst state
I saw someone say this and I totally agree. ‘Talking is for teens who aren’t able to go on dates”. Basically meaning talking to someone online and getting to know them. People who involve relationship things in it are dating not talking
**sees aliyah simone**
*OOOO I KNOWW HERRRR !!*
Sis said the golf course 🤣🤣🤣 I cannot 😭 I love you Kai 💖
the realest youtuber out there ♡
I felt the comet that says toxic parents are worse than absent ones because I really was just thinking about that not too long ago. Because if they're absent the child is most likely with another guardian are adult that's not toxic. Still not good. Maybe they can also be toxic. But when you have toxic parents ur trapped with them for years
"i have both" lmfao 😭😭
Please do a video talking about toxic parents,I really need it
Lol that person said I don't need syrup. JAIL!
i was the one who said “greek life is shallow” and i totally agree! i meant the process to get in to greek life is shallow. but it can do good things. to each their own.
“Rihanna is not talented”
Uhm sweetie you spelled Cardi B wrong 😂🤔
I really like how your unapologetically yourself. Something I wish I had.
Okay people should NEVER be racist but if someone is they should stay quiet and keep their opinions to themselves
My unpopular opinion is why celebrities men ... some celebrity men hit and disrespect women and still get praised
2020 is a new age though... Amber Heard is leading the charge
this is so off topic but you look so pretty❤️! && i love ur hair🥺🥰